Valerie Bertinelli Got Goosebumps Feeling Eddie Van Halen's Presence In A Flock Of Birds

Valerie Bertinelli reflects on the special relationship she had with her late ex-husband Eddie Van Halen, and how she got goosebumps feeling his presence one morning in a flock of birds outside her home. Valerie also dishes on her new book "Enough Already: Learning to Love the Way I Am Today." She opens up about feeling unlovable during her struggles with body image in the past, and how she is ready to change the narrative.
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[@caroldedeurwaerder2660]

I don't know if this will give anyone goose bumps. My late husband after he passed there was this one morning I was sleeping & heard "I Love You" whispered in my ear. I woke up & looked at the time it was 7:09am. 7:09am was his time of death. No one else was in the room with me.

[@kristykaisersmith1825]

I can relate to your story So Much❤I heard my mothers voice say my name twice(she didn't live with me & my brother)before I drifted off to sleep. The next morning I found out she'd died at the Exact time I heard her say my name twice the night before.❤💜

[@caroldedeurwaerder2660]

@@kristykaisersmith1825 Good to know I'm not alone. Thank you for sharing your story with me. My story above happened months after my husband passed. The day that he passed I was with him holding his hand. He & I always made sure to say I Love You 3 times to each other every day since we got married. That was his last words (I Love You) to me & his hand went limp in my hand at 7:09am. We were married 25 yrs. Sending positive vibes your way.

[@L.M.O.]

@@caroldedeurwaerder2660 & Kristy Kaiser Smith, THANK YOU both for sharing your inspirational true stories. They are both 'goose bump' worthy!!! I have lost both my parents, I can' t say I have heard either of them speak to me. But I have a real "peace" with their passing, and just know they are at peace and very happy. So with that being said I don' t feel sad. I will cry occasionally,---but it is with fond memories that will bring joyful tears to me about my mom. When I do hear a voice, it' s from the Spirit of the Lord through him or his Guardian Angel w/me. Once was in the midst of a car accident. I was told 3 seperate times, "easy on the BRAKES", with that being said, I let up on them. Days later speaking to the Insurance Adjuster I learned something interesting. He said your very fortunate you didn' t roll your vehicle many times. Most times when motorist go into the spins after hitting a gravel shoulder like I did,--- they roll their vehicles because they lock their BRAKES,--- just saying I know what I heard. I believe the Spirit will find a way to get our attention. 💓💕💓

[@kristykaisersmith1825]

@@caroldedeurwaerder2660 Awww what a Beautiful and Powerful addition to your description of you and your husbands story- (it gave me goose bumps!) and I could visualize everything...I'm sure he's close to you and keeping your heart safe from too much pain-do you see him in your dreams? I've had a few dreams of my mother near me but she's always looking down and sad- I try to talk to her but something is wrong, her death was a suicide- so that may have something to do with the sadness. I was 12 when she died and she was a very sick alcoholic ( only 32yrs of age) I asked God to help her get out of her pain! Gods answer was to bring her home to heaven or maybe not? Unknown.😔❤I have prayed for her to be "released" if guilt is holding her in some painful "limbo". The Bible doesn't say theres a limbo though, I dont think. Sorry! I didnt mean to tell my lifes story but I guess I did!😇❤

[@kristykaisersmith1825]

@@L.M.O. Wow! Was the voice you heard "Easy on the brakes" in your spirit? Or was it audible outside your head in the car? Life saving angel! Wonderful ending &thank God you were safe!❤

[@brandylower1414]

Valerie and Eddie are kindred spirits and no matter what happens,kindred spirits are LOVE.

[@swvastories3498]

I always thought it was crazy how much Eddie and Valerie looked like each other. I really think they were soulmates. Just had some things get in the way of that from time to time but at the end I think they both knew they were meant for each other.

[@marierainey8458]

I always thought they looked alike too! Totally agree!

[@PFCD]

Addiction got in the way. You can love someone but not want to lift at topsy-turvy lifestyle.

[@nursemommy0728]

I, too, always thought it was totally insane how much those 2 looked alike!!!!

[@cherylthompson2731]

They were twin flames 🔥

[@reneeg4817]

True love never dies.. ❤ they always loved each other just couldn't make it past the addiction.

[@stevebrazius1630]

I was a production assistant at Embassy Television (One Day at a Time, The Jeffersons, Facts of Life, Diff'rent Strokes, Silver Spoons). Valerie was always my favorite of all the actors/actresses. She was kind to everyone always. Eddie would warm up the audience jamming on his guitar occasionally on taping night. Seeing them together was wonderful. Great memories!

[@golfcoursemanager33]

if EVH was there, it wasn't "taping night." It was TAPPING night! cool story!

[@staycool163]

Cool memory you have there 😊 She was always my favorite on One Day At A Time

[@ridingtheroad185]

When my sister in law who was my closest friend passed, I came home from the Hospital that morning crying my eyes out. I got my coffee and went outside to the patio. It was a morning we would have normally been at one or the others house for our morning coffee and chat while watching our Hummingbirds feed at our feeders. I had a hummingbird come up to my face and fly around me for well over 10 minutes. I knew it was her letting me know she was with me and okay. When I bought an arrangement for her funeral I asked the florist for something with hummingbirds she said she wasn't sure she had anything, I looked down and there was an iron globe structure with a Hummingbird finial on top and a beautiful dried arrangement inside. I said this is the one.....she was shocked and said she had no idea where it came from. These are only 2 of the many times things have happened.

[@DonnaPiaVocci]

when our hearts are broken open after the loss of a dear loved one, we seem more receptive to signs whether we ask for them or not. to maintain that state of awareness we simply need to quiet our minds, focus on our breath for a few minutes, and slow things down a bit to be able to see and feel their presence. as a Reiki practitioner I can see beyond the veil and am able to see several beings, ie. the client's angels, guides, and their ancestors. when I describe family members to them, they often know who it is. and if it's a relative from a generation they didn't meet they will contact a family member and pass on the description whereupon the identity was revealed - usually a great grandparent and great great grandparent. my prayer for you is that when you need to feel her presence you can simply ask her to come to your side and know she's there.

[@peggygibbons479]

I absolutely love this and God rest your beloved sister in law's soul. I've heard so many stories like this! I feel like, it's just like God, if you say Show me you're here in a way that only I will understand. He WILL!! And our loved ones will too. There's so much we don't know about the other side. We're only allowed glimpses.

[@crazybutcool5150]

Same happened to me. My mother inlaw passed. I was cleaning out the garage and a hummingbird flew in right up to my face. Seemed a long time. I held my finger up and it landed on it for just a second. Then it flew around my head a few times and took off. What an experience. God rest her soul she was a magnificent human being.

[@wendyladybug355laurie4]

Many PRAYER'SNLUV 👼👼✝️✝️

[@TheUnderCoverMother2020]

I get butterflies and beautiful moths with colored wings.. two have been in my bedroom. Then flew away and I never saw again. Got pics of both. The first moth I thought was my Uncle who was my "dad figure" and best friend. I didn't grow up with my dad. He stood in his place. He was my universe. My daughter was in my room with me and I said outlook. "If this is you Uncle Steve.. land on my hand". Within seconds it landed on my finger. My daughter was amazed and excited. She was 11 yrs old at the time. My Gpa passed a year ago next month and again there was a moth with Beautiful colors on its wings.. on my bedspread. I sent the pic to my daughter.. now 16 and immediately she responded "Its Gpa". Ugg I'm in tears. I have many more encountets.. so emotional.. reading all these stories has me in tears and chills. Just know you all are loved very much and very blessed to see these experiences for what they are... just beautiful. Wish more people were open to them because the universe is pretty incredible. Much love ladies. Thank you for sharing your stories. I so enjoyed reading them and needed a good cry with smile on my face... the best kind... cleansing to the soul... God bless! ❤❤❤❤

[@mrguitar5051]

As a guitar player, I miss Eddie 😢 too! We lost him way to early! ROCK ON EDDIE 🎸

[@jessicahubbard7218]

We will miss you my prayers are with her and her family amen 🙏

[@tracieleeburnett3395]

Waaaaay tooooo soooon! ❤Betty&Eddie. RIP

[@sunflower7045]

When writers have to invent a new form of music in print, because Eddie’s music was so new and spectacular.✨🎶✨

[@robinhart1390]

Awesome interview❣️❣️❣️

[@bobravenscraft5376]

Feels weird as fuck!!!

[@fourthturning]

Back in the late '70's, I went to a VanHalen party (before Valerie). A roadie was really mean to me, saying inappropriate things. I was young and naive, got upset and started to cry. Eddie pulled me aside, sat on the floor in the hallway with me and talked to me until I stopped crying. He was so sweet and kind to even care. Never forgot it. I used to joke that he married Valerie because we look alike! 😀

[@trianafoxwood7525]

What a nice story. Thanks for sharing.

[@ruthiecastro9519]

Yes I knew him too back in the earliest days he was very kind ... the Dutch raise their kids right!

[@moseymay1772]

Awe, ty for sharing. That's awesome. Love Eddie. I too have had many people tell me I look like Valarie.

[@leeglee111]

I use to go to the back yard parties too. Before he became famous! Always loved him and his guitar!

[@kathyr.8135]

I hope the roadie got fired

[@NicoleAZ145]

I wish these two ladies were my neighbors and we could have weekly chats over coffee and pastries. They’re both so interesting and fun and real.

[@donnaronio3553]

I know right!

[@b.1959]

Get obese together!! 😆🍕🍰🍔🍟🍦

[@mplight2941]

Me too!

[@Pennyk900]

Valerie is the real deal. So sweet. God sends comfort to those in mourning.

[@rattlesnake3113]

I love Valerie so much. I feel for her and all the hateful negative comments towards her body image and relationship she had with her late x husband. People can love somebody but know that they can't be together. Especially having a child together. Bless Valerie.

[@bettybryant7509]

She had a husband! A man she obviously should not have married.

[@Dina-nm1nx]

@@bettybryant7509 That is not for YOU to say....you are a jerk...a judgy nosy busybody...mind your OWN life...it's OBVIOUSLY NOT very fun....and quite unpleasant

[@kristykaisersmith1825]

It makes us women sad to see eachother so burdened over body image, weight issues etc. It's really heartbreaking because we are SO Hard on ourselves!!- I saw a video of Valerie crying the other day on YT over the pressure due to body image struggles- gosh it never ends- Valerie is a Beautiful woman who does cooking/baking shows for heavens sake & she's a masterful chef!!! I wish I could hug her and tell her how she's "perfect just as she is". I released myself from obsessively watching my weight- I had to it was making me crazy!! I'm 57 5ft 6in and weight about 148lbs and I've learned that it's OK not to look like a stick in size 5 pants! 😆😂❤😇🙏

[@chadfortman8098]

She dosent have go talk shows to talk about it. It like child looking for attention

[@dmm6341]

The only negative remarks that I've ever heard about Valerie's weight ....was from Valerie herself

[@riversmcmullan5282]

I was extremely close to my grandfather who died u expectedly. His favorite glower was the carnation. After his funeral, we drove to his house which had been locked up for weeks before he got sick.No flowers were in his house. When we unlocked the door and went inside, there was a overwhelming smell of carnation flowers all throughout the house. I believe he was trying to tell us that he is still with us and he is okay!

[@donnataylor980]

I just love Valerie Bertinelli! And you best believe Eddie's still around her and Wolfie. True love lasts forever!

[@nitamarie5926]

Oh my gosh, i don’t think you or Valerie Bertinelli could be any more down to earth, sweet, and genuine…love you both..great interview Kelly

[@mariemartin9762]

Valerie is such a beautiful soul, with All her fame a fortune, she's still down to earth and very humble! Congrats to Wolfie on his awesome accomplishments!!

[@shanecardot9920]

1984 tour stop in Shreveport Louisiana , Valerie walked past me to meet Eddie . My crush ended up marrying the biggest influence that got me started in music, you could see and almost feel the chemistry of those two . The world will always love you three . 🇨🇵🇺🇸

[@valerieking5265]

Even after all this time, now in 2024, when Val talks about Eddie, it makes me tear up. I grew up with her; she's only 2 years older than me. I've loved her since One Day at a Time & was so thrilled when she married Eddie, then gave birth to Wolfie. I'm so happy for her; it's so great seeing her happy again.

[@cathyjay2569]

Those two women are a couple of the nicest, most down-to-earth women in the entire entertainment industry! I love them both.

[@randinatkowitz2487]

I agree… they are both so down to earth and real!!

[@jdrosy4414]

Agree 👍

[@lisahertel2415]

Not even close

[@tammykosiancic]

Really? I see total phonies.

[@heinousanus9352]

Couple of the fattest.

[@frankie1012]

I love Kelly. She’s such a bright light. Her voice is one of a kind, but her kindness and humbleness make her even more special. ❤️

[@dianne.simms28]

Aww Kelly, you don't need that lip liner

[@truthseeker243]

@@dianne.simms28Great Job! People like you work hard to mold the world to fit the ugliness within yourselves. And then you project on to others, because you want everyone around you to feel as ugly as you do inside.

[@alfredbenedek3398]

Dear Lalerie. + I've seen you since One day @ a Time and on. I always liked your style, as you are your family oriented, oh, as you absolutely /routinelly are cooking! Once I asked fro my brother, Da 0a - rn? I aske you ma, what does Wonder Women can do,what Valerie can??! Keep up your faith, as I'm weel aware of it! Amazing indeed you are. Since I was born in Europa/Europe, we hav an old saying; the person got the kind of friends, the kind of a person she / he is! Indeed, it is very true!

[@humanactivated1017]

Yep she has a huge heart .

[@dianne.simms28]

@@truthseeker243 EXCUSE ME?? Clearly you misunderstood my point when I said that. I don't believe she needs. She doesn't usually do that. I absolutely don't feel ugly inside.

[@lolaislost]

She and Eddie Van Halen never stopped loving each other. There souls will be entwined throughout eternity.

[@debbaile5583]

I absolutely love Valerie Bertinelli, she is such an inspiration.

[@Godwinpounds4333]

Hello 👋dear, how are you doing?

[@kristinalowe9819]

I adore Valerie Bertinelli. Such a kind soul, beautiful and fun. I wish her all the best , she deserves it.

[@robinsiciliano8923]

As a bereaved mother with a beautiful son across the veil, I wholeheartedly believe our loved ones are close by our sides. This was heartwarming. Thank you for being such lovely souls. ❤️🌺❤️

[@wendyladybug355laurie4]

Many PRAYER'SNLUV 👼👼✝️✝️💝💝

[@marlanaferro1558]

🕊💕🕊

[@stacyfabiszewski4633]

Loved the whole interview, at the end, about the birds , Valarie saw, yes I believe that Eddie is watching over Valarie. As well as Kelly said about her little girl, River was definitely talking and having fun with someone. I totally believe that things happen like this. My son was 2and a half, trying to tie his shoes and I looked down at what he was doing and he was mumbling something I said who are you talking too, he said grandma ( his great grandma). My son said that grandma was teaching him to tie his shoes. Great grandma passed away when he was a year old and got to see him twice before she passed. We lived in another state. So I thought that was pretty cool. When my son was 5 years old, he looked up at the sky when we were outside and he said to me that he saw me from heaven and he picked me to be his mommy. He saw me and was watching me. I got goosebumps. I said thank you so much for picking me to be your mommy.

[@xxxvcvv]

🥲👶🥲❤️🙏

[@patriciaobrien6600]

I agree with you and I love your story/experience 🥰

[@stacyfabiszewski4633]

@@patriciaobrien6600 thank you so much

[@fishercourt]

💜

[@donnad8886]

I loved Valerie and Eddie together!! True love. ❤ Even though they were married to other people they're still a family. And Wolfie made the family complete. 😍

[@jowjow8173]

I love the discussion between Valerie and Kelly, it's so inspiring and gives a deeper meaning of loving oneself... Bless you both girls💕💕💕

[@susanfernberg8844]

I feel like Kelly talks to much and cuts Valorie off a lot. Maybe let your guests talk a bit more.

[@tammykosiancic]

Deep? LOL!

[@gordonb7386]

Kelly ALWAYS cuts people off,and the subject ALWAYS comes back to her...very selfish.

[@MsMadmax1]

I think when you've had a critical parent, you just naturally grow up being critical of yourself. I was never thin enough, never pretty enough, my grades were never good enough. And you grow up being a people pleaser and feeling like nothing you say, do or think will ever be enough. I know what that feels like. I also get Valerie's moment when she felt Ed's presence. Right before my mom passed away, I asked for a sign. I asked to hear the song "Somewhere out there" from an American Tail. That animated film is a million years old, and the song NEVER gets airplay anymore. But it summarizes how I envision my mom, still being out there somewhere watching over me and still loving me. The day after she passed away, I had to go and pay for her cremation. On the way home in my car, I happened to turn on the radio to an easy listening station. After the commercial that was playing "Somewhere Out There" was the song they played. I felt and knew in that moment, my mom was still right there with me. I pulled over into the parking lot of a fast-food restaurant and sobbed for about 20 minutes. Don't know if it was her doing or God telling me that the memory of her, her spirit, will always be with me and she's still somewhere out there waiting for me when my time comes to leave this world, waiting right by heaven's gate.

[@fishercourt]

Thanks for sharing this moment. I used to cry so much as a lil girl when hearing that song from the American Tail movie that I would rewatch a lot. I do not know what caused me to bawl my eyes out every single time that song would play, however, it just always gave me some feelings that I felt j in n such a big way that I would just react by crying. It’s amazing how that song from that movie moved you emotionally as well! Sending good vibes to you.

[@L.M.O.]

@ Ravin Moonsinger, Thank You for your post. You are right on!! If a person has a critical parent, yes,---a person feels like no matter what they do, say or think it' s never enough. It' s like virtually almost impossible to get that compliment. Then becoming a "people pleaser" to get that approval, compliment, or that "Thank You" to validate yourself. That all makes sense now. When I read your post, I also thought of Andy Gibb. In interviews he touched on the feeling he could of never had the success w/out the help & influence of his brothers. He couldn' t of ever done that on his own, he needed them. It sounded like he lacked the self-confidence/self esteem. The interviewers seem so shocked, because he never came across that way to any of his fans. Well, that' s probably where the Cocaine played a role. None of us could see it, but that' s where people use chemical substances to lean on, to give themselves the extra boost of self esteem. He too, had a parent who was hard to please. In interviews of Barry's (his brother), Barry mentioned how hard driving their dad was on them. No matter what they accomplished, he would keep pushing for more. It does throw people into wanting to be people pleasers, just to hear positive feedback. My other parent would say in their spouses defense, they didn' t want us kids getting to puffed up in pride. I had a counselor tell me that wasn' t good parenting to bring your child down with being so critical, they need a certain amount of praise. Otherwise it robs the child of their self confidence. All things in moderation. Always critizising, never giving validation or praise isn' t healthy. But neither is, no discipline nor boundaries. Everything needs to be in moderation.

[@lnl3237]

Lovely post, Raven. Linda Ronstadt oftentimes said if a song makes you cry, it's done its job. "Somewhere Out There" is such a comforting song to help one process loss. Thought you might enjoy this live performance of the song that's meant so much to you. kzbin.info/www/bejne/g3uThHaVpL2ljtk

[@L.M.O.]

@ Raven Moonsinger, I just wanted to thank you again for your enlightening post. And add one more point. Life teaches us to forgive. After I grew into an adult, somewhere along my journey I did realize I also made mistakes, not with just my parent, but in my own role as a parent. I learned many years ago, there are times this parenting thing is certainly not always easy. And I accepted that it' s quite unrealistic to think my parents should both just be perfect, and never allowed to make a mistake , they were learning too. Just like myself as a parent. Expecting them to not make mistakes was pretty unrealistic on my part. I know I' ve made my share in the role as parent. I am human, not perfect. So I learned to forgive. They did well for what they knew at the time. And so did I. I also did the best I could, with what I knew at the time. I hope I got a little smarter, with each one. I listened to another interview with Valerie Bertinelli and even she admitted, she too was not a perfect parent. Hopefully I am still learning from my mistakes to be better person every day. I need to remind myself, don' t be so hard on yourself, and others. We are all trying to learn life' s lessons. After all,--- life is a classroom, and classrooms are for learning.

[@margietucker1719]

Heck, Raven....you made ME cry, hearing your story. I'm going to listen to that song again too....

[@edith5599]

I love Valerie bertanelli, she is so down to earth. Eddie is watching, over his son in heaven.

[@asthecrowflies737]

Valerie and Kelly - two of the most down-to-Earth people you'll ever meet. What a trip! 😄

[@joes7930]

And they most corpulent celebrities who used to be thin.

[@marileejones2908]

Two of my faves.

[@joes7930]

@@marileejones2908 pork pies all around! Extra lard!

[@L.M.O.]

@@joes7930 Perhaps, you meant this to be funny? Two things you never joke around with women, Weight & Age!!

[@joes7930]

@@L.M.O. who said I was joking. Just the facts.

[@keekee6316]

Valerie you are a great person. Don't let the negativity from others bring you down! I strongly believe Ed is watching over you and Wolfie! Like millions of his fans, I miss him too! 🥰

[@austinhowland300gmail.]

Hello Kee Kee how are you doing?

[@stoplookingformyname3721]

Why so much hatred towards trolls? We should be accepting of all people and that includes trolls. Tell a troll today that you love them and maybe give them some money and encourage them in their trolling activities. Trolls have feelings too. Make 2022 the year of the troll!

[@marinagarcia4262]

Do you think Ed would care to watch over his widowed wife?

[@kimsullivan5576]

@@marinagarcia4262 Absolutely.

[@heidiwalker7123]

I never got a sign from my husband after he passed .But when my dad passed away we came home from the funeral and a bird flew in my car as we we're getting out of the car .It was something I'll never forget !

[@teresafraser3049]

I've always loved Valerie 😍 It's also nice to hear she talked about getting a sign from Eddie in spirit! We never die......we go on existing in another realm ❤

[@dsshowerpan]

I accidentally went to the wrong house for work one day, and she answered the door. She was very nice and explained where the house was a couple doors down. Nice lady

[@pawsoffriendship525]

Love Valarie !! Such a kind soul. Her and Eddie always loved each other, his passing is sad.

[@belindaremus9976]

Eddie and Valerie loved each other up to the day he passed away❤❤

[@darlene2861]

This was a lovely interview. Kelly and Valerie are so real.

[@reneeg4817]

I love the honesty of Kelly Clarkson ❤. They have great chemistry. Also Sandra Bullock one. Oh my gosh so funny. Take off the view and just have Kelly. She talks to them like they are best friends

[@marb1072]

OMG, this was enlightening. This is exactly how I feel about my ex husband. I don’t see him often but when I do we pick up where we left off. When my mom passed he came to the service, when I saw him I melted in his arms. Everyone noticed, no doubt there is a connection that can never be broken.

[@paulrolland2072]

I read this posted on a counselors desk and it changed my life." If I change the way I think, I will change the way I feel. If I change the way I feel, I will change the way I act. If I change the way I act, I will change my behaviour. If I change my behaviour, I will change my world! It took some dislipine, a lot of practice. But, my world did change. I'm very grateful and serene.

[@pattiwolfe2737]

I have always loved Valerie from way back when she was on One Day at a Time. I think she's very genuine and would love to meet her. Also loved Van Halen, but never got to see them in concert. Our last name is Wolfe and my husband, like her son's, nickname is Wolfie. Just downloaded her book to read!

[@shannonpoulin4483]

In such a short time we are seeing this clip of Valerie and Kelly, it was so relatable and resonating for me. I can’t wait to read her book, I think she seems like the most down to earth, genuine person and I’m so happy she wrote a book that shares her perspectives, life experiences, and wisdom with all of us. And there is something about Valerie’s voice that I find very calming to listen to. Great interview!

[@questioneverything7582]

Most of the more severe illnesses happen to people by an upsetting event happening in their lives that takes them by surprise, unexpectedly, impacting first in the brain, then in the corresponding organ which that part of the brain controls. The end of WWI had absolutely everything to do with the Flu and lung TB outbreak that occurred killing millions. In nature, the biological conflict linked with a territorial fear (just what it means-a fear in your territory, your home, your community, etc.) is a widening of the bronchia (tissue loss). Your body attempts to widen your bronchia in order to allow more air into your lungs to give you more strength and energy to fight to keep your territory safe. Stay with me.......The biological conflict linked with a death fright impacts the lungs. The lungs attempt to grow larger in order to allow more air in because breath equals life, as we all know. No breath equals death. Why are so many people across the world suddenly having their appendix removed? The appendix is associated with “being in fear for one’s life”. The HEALING phase is the rupture/inflammation. While you are in the fear or death fright conflict, you notice no symptoms of “disease”, except you have cold hands, cold feet, you can’t sleep, you awaken at 3 AM every night, you have little appetite. During the war, millions of people were in fear of the bombing of their homes and cities where the war was most active. Fearing for their lives, their loved ones in the war, their ability to survive. The food in the stores was sparse due to shortages. This lasted for 4 long years! The longer the conflict, the worse the healing phase. Within 2 weeks of the German Chancellor announcing the end of WWI, these millions of people ALL went into the healing phase all at the same time. It is during the healing phase that you experience symptoms of illness! What is the healing phase of the bronchia widening? Severe bronchitis, pneumonia. The body attempts to refill this lost tissue and you experience inflammation, fever, coughing, body aches, fatigue, etc. What is the healing phase of the extra lung tissue that grew? Decomposing of the tissue by TB bacteria and fungi. The symptoms of this healing phase are: severe coughing up of blood and tissue, fever, inflammation, severe mucous, body aches, fatigue. During this decomposing of the extra tissue (tumor), the body expels a lot of protein, and without replenishment, severe protein loss can result in death. Antibiotics did not exist yet. If TB bacteria does not exist in a person or they have been vaccinated against TB (big mistake), then the tumor will simply encapsulate and become dormant and not harm you. Who died during the Spanish Flu? Mainly the poor who could not afford to buy meat and proper nourishment, and the people who were directly impacted by the bombings and destruction of their homes. Millions of people suffered fear and death frights during the fighting of WWI, and millions of people all went into healing at the end of it. Not everyone was affected because not everyone suffered the same way. It’s not a “flu”, it’s not something you “catch”. It’s biological, meaningful, and unavoidable. One hundred years later, a Fear Campaign begins, using the media to spread it......

[@josephbutler5230]

I can remember when I was in high school that I had a huge crush on Valerie Bertinelli and have always liked her. Then she married my guitar hero, but I was extremely happy for the both of them! I hope she has happiness the rest of her life as well as with their son Wolfie!

[@angelabest4468]

Aww I wish this was a full hour interview. Love this. And shout out to the one or two people clapping and keeping up the energy without a live audience.

[@marcietownsend3635]

Wonderful interview with two lovely ladies. I remember an interview with Eddie in which he said he felt his son was the reincarnation of his father since Wolfie just picked up a guitar and played like his dad. Love never dies.

[@edithcarter3554]

I love Valerie Bertinelli. She’s beautiful at any weight.

[@austinhowland300gmail.]

Hello Edith how are you doing?

[@Sealust50]

If you are a cow, it will be a consensus!

[@candicegerman9793]

@@Sealust50 , one day you’ll realize the small issues in life mean nothing….

[@Sealust50]

@@candicegerman9793 NOT a "small" issue - obesity is unhealthy, and has the potential to be actually dangerous, to begin with. Hope you don't "realize" that fact too late, as I likewise hope she doesn't.

[@jennysu9978]

@@Sealust50 as well as that.. they don't allow smoking but people over eat.. like ok . Instead of being killed by cigarettes we getting killed by diabetes, heart problem, and no energy, hard time moving around.. they are so twisted.. they think they are loving them self by giving up on being at a healthy weight.. and don't tell me they are pleased with that weight. I understand a 150 pounder.. but 250..300.. IS NOT OK.. UNDER WEIGHT IS 115...125.. AT 135.. BETTER START WORRYING.. BEFORE YOU GET LOST FOREVER 150 YOU BETTER BE KEEPING IT FROM GROWING LIKE 1950s THE BLOB MOVIE

[@texangrammy]

When Eddie died the world lost a legend! I’m so happy his son is following in his footsteps. I’ve always loved Valerie. Use to watch her in her sitcom all the time.

[@Godwinpounds4333]

Hi 👋 dear, how are you doing?

[@Ladythyme]

I’ve enjoyed Valerie Bertinelli since she and I were in our teens… she’s always brought a bit of light to the world. Wishing her all the happiness life has to offer.

[@molengat1]

I love Valerie. How she stays so positive after all she's been through is beyond me. But what an inspiration.

[@hollydespain2593]

What all has she been through?

[@JIMJAMSC]

@@hollydespain2593 BINGO.. Born beautiful, got super rich/famous. Married a incredibly talented/desirable/hot/rich rockstar. Lived the "life" until it ran its course. Cancer got him like most of us yet lived into his 60s. Son is cursed with her fat genes but they will never go hungry or have to balance a checkbook.

[@jgator6694]

@@JIMJAMSCson is cursed with her fat genes? What an insensitive comment.

[@teebee8867]

I totally get what Valerie was talking about when she said about still loving Eddie even though they were married to other people. My ex husband and I have the same thing. We divorced because of issues that could not be reconciled and then both married other people, but we stayed friends and never stopped loving and caring about each other. And we were blessed with new spouses who understand and respect our relationship.

[@michellequick5607]

I love her and I still love EVH! I hate we all lost such a talented and wonderful person. Never saw him not smiling. ❤

[@cassieboydtarot5085]

Thank you guy's. Wow. Two very beautiful selfless women. Hallelujah!! Congratulations on your book and journey Valerie, and Congratulations Wolfie! God bless you guy's with Love and Peace.

[@rivkahmiri513]

I feel same way... Enough already.... That's incredible.

[@bobmartino8073]

The one person in the history of this planet that I wish I had an opportunity to meet and that is Eddie Van Halen. I love Valerie and I truly hope Ed is watching over her and visiting her now and then. God bless this family.

[@debramercer1138]

Okay... The bird story really freaked me out!!! My beloved brother passed October 2020 and I'm still grieving hard. So, the other day I was sobbing hard because I miss him so much and I said out loud "Fern! If you are still with me and watching over me, I want to see two birds. I don't care what kind of birds. Please do this now, so I can heal a bit more and know you are here with me". Less than 5 minutes later, two odd-looking birds flew by my window that I was staring out of, trying to get myself together. I have never seen those type of birds and never have seen them since. They were flying by so close and as if they were having fun just like me and my brother did when we were kids! What a beautiful, heartwarming feeling of pure Love I felt. I stopped crying and thanked him and Jesus for doing that for me. EVH is his favorite musician of all time and my brother is a guitar player himself. I just know they've jammed... I just know it! So cool that Valerie had that experience! My mouth was wide open as I listened! Just amazing! ❤️🦋😁✌️

[@TamaraShawnH]

I just love Valerie❤ what a beautiful lady in every way. And when she talks about Eddie, it makes me believe in true love. Even though they separated, it was real.

[@bellagrace9812]

Both are so untouched by celebrity, just two normal girls chatting about life and love. This is why they are so loved.💕

[@debbieholzherr2990]

I love Valerie. Any role she's in she just shines. I just watched on KZbin the mini series "I'll Take Manhattan". She is so great in that.

[@giselle2222]

I've had "visits" from a friend and also a few fur babies after they passed. They were awesome experiences and I hope I'll have many more til the time comes when we'll be reunited.

[@mikelovuolo6875]

This was a great interview. I like them both and could see them both becoming good friends. Two kind and honest people.

[@alfredbenedek3398]

Now why couldn't come up earlier, wiht this?! Yes indeed, Well put!!

[@MelissaThompson432]

I actually never heard that song before. I went and listened to it. He deserves the award.

[@ace-du3fe]

Ed had that "intangible something" that very few people have, it was in his eyes . Regardless of what happened to their relationship, Ed will always be her guy.

[@markfrost2707]

she hates him and is being nice. I know or KNEW both of them. I was a close friend to Eddie back before he became a complete monster to everyone--even sweet Valerie--and he was HORRIBLEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE to valerie. Her being the person she is wont speak bad of the dead and the father to her son. Do some reading about Eddie--COMPLETE DICK

[@LauraRyan2007]

He had the best smile. He had that same smile every time I saw him on TV. I think of it as he was a little boy just always happy.

[@wsd3864]

Thank you for having Valerie Bertinelli on your show, I just love her. Enjoyed the rapport you two have with each other being able to related with your problems. When babies smile and giggling they are enjoying the presence of their angles.

[@sharonforbes162]

Loved this interview, I've loved Valerie for a long time, look up to her, and really enjoyed Kelly bantering with her! I love how Valerie is so candid about her love with Eddie, so sad he's gone, he'd be over the moon about Wolfie for sure. 🙂💖

[@bonitawilcox2909]

Great interview, love Valerie, she and Eddie will forever be attached.....it's beautiful ❤️....she should never be ashamed to feel that way🙏❤️

[@treblenote2]

I love Valerie AND Kelly --- you both are grounded and AWESOME human beings!!!

[@sbayles5593]

Reading her book right now and it's lovely. She and I are basically the same age and dieting is something I just can’t do one more time. At some point you have to accept yourself, love yourself, and be thankful for the life you have. It’s not easy. It never will be. Bless her heart, and mine.

[@lowerearthorbitz3693]

I love Valerie and am reading her new book - saw Mammoth 2 times and can relate to her so much, although Im a very depressed, anxious person. What a great life shes lived and she is amazing!!

[@LifeChanges41595]

That was a wonderful interview, and having Ed's spirit come and see Val, that's love. I'm so proud of Wolfie and being nominated in music. ❤

[@MythicStealth]

I love these two ladies! When I was a kid watching Valerie on TV, I used to wish I could have a sister like her...I still do wish that! What a gem she is.

[@jdrosy4414]

Even death cannot break a strong bond between souls. Luv the genuity of these 2 ladies.

[@clearfield2009]

"I love you in a place where there's no space or time, I love you for my life, you are a friend of mine and when my life is over remember when we were together - we were alone an I was singing this song to you." Those lines are how I imagine the love of my life - who died early on - would say to me. And surely what Eddie is singing to Val. xo

[@lifeofamomadventures771]

Hi Kelly. This was such a great talk. I lost my Mom to ovarian cancer 4-1/2 years ago. It's been such a tough thing to go through, as most people know, from losing a loved one. Sometimes I still feel her presence when I'm having a grieving moment or day. 1 afternoon last year, I was lounging on my bed, and suddenly I smelled her goop, which is ground beef, pork & beans, catchup, brown sugar, & mustard. It was so delicious & had a unique smell. I'd swear she was standing on my husband's side of the bed. The smell was so strong & came out of the blue. I could actually feel her. I started to feel better after a few minutes, thanks to that smell.

[@donnajohnson3792]

Valerie keep believing Ed was showing you he was okay. I remember when I was in my very early 20's , I was raised with my grandmother, and on this particular day I decided to visit her. We got to talking about what happens after you die and where do you go. So, my grandmother brings out this little piano and told me that when she dies she'll let me know by ringing that little piano that there is life after death. On June 22, 1998, that little piano started playing and my grandmother had passed away. I at that time lived in CA, she in CO, so I know distance didn't mean a thing. Believe it, he was there and he heard you. Thank you for all the years you (personally) and Eddie Van Halen gave to me and my family and you were my favorite on "One Day at a Time." Now I'm going to buy your book lol.

[@shelriegel]

I feel other people's energy too that have passed on, it's an incredible feeling. Angelic love!

[@alfredbenedek3398]

Hmm? Now let me exceed that one?! Valerie is a Down to ear, multy talented, angelic private yet celebrity! There, and I mean that from the bottom of my heart! - Ta - ta - ta!! ( Like the ending of . . . I just called . . . . )

[@ruthdreher3438]

What a lovely story Valerie shared about the birds.. I believe things like that❤.. That someone is there watching over you

[@kimbok5971]

Two of my favorite people. Valerie and Kelly, you ladies are the bomb. So real, so caring, great moms and great entertainers. Hugs to you both.

[@mvc1006]

I totally agree.

[@kellieckert6285]

I so enjoy Wolf's songs❤️. He has a wonderful voice, demeanor and talent! Can't wait to see him again soon in concert 🎊

[@whitebirchtarot]

This just popped up while I was watching something else on KZbin and yesterday was my husband‘s birthday. He passed away at the end of September, so it’s been a little under four months. Anyway, I was crying while I was walking because I was thinking of him and off in the distance all day there had been flocks of geese flying north and I had been watching them. So I’m walking and all of a sudden I see six geese break off from the rest of the group and head towards my direction and I think to myself, oh my gosh they’re going to go right over me. I was walking in the street because it’s easier on my feet, but a car came and I had to go around a pole and a fire hydrant etc. and so I had to get off the street and get back up to the sidewalk and I thought to myself that the birds were not gonna go over my head because I had to move from the direction they were flying toward. Well, when I got up to the sidewalk, the six geese suddenly just veered toward my direction and flew directly over my head and they were so low that I could see their feathers. One of the birds was off away from the others just a bit and I know that it was my husband saying hi to me. Then the next day this pops up on KZbin. Wow.

[@wilshade]

Love it when you two are hanging out together. There is such a positive light from both of you that is impossible to ignore.

[@luisvillarreal5262]

It was such a wonderful tribute Wolfie did for his dad, Eddie, on his Distance video. It let us see their personal life of the love between he and his parents. Eddie and Valerie did a great job raising such a special and wonderful child. And for Wolfie to be nominated for a grammy must be incredibly exciting for his Mom and I know Eddie is cheering for him in Heaven. R.I.P. EVH. Congrats to Wolf and of course for Valerie for being so supportive and loving with Wolfie.

[@dawncharlonne1961]

When I lost my life partner Gilson I was crying and all alone in our bedroom and I felt him stroke my hair..I knew that he was going to be with me for always 💙 and recently I was taking a nap on my couch and I felt someone kiss my cheek and I opened my eyes and he was standing there smiling at me.. Love never dies I know that I will be with him again someday

[@Godwinpounds4333]

Hello👋dear, how are you doing?

[@dawncharlonne1961]

@@Godwinpounds4333 I am doing quite well thank you..I have found love again with a wonderful man who is my best friend and now my lover.. My mom always says that when God closes a door he opens a window.. And to experience love again is a gift!

[@salesadmieze9049]

Will love Valerie Bertinelli forever. Besides being a great actress, she's a great person.

[@michelleallred8521]

I absolutely love Valerie!! Been a fan since One Day at a Time. Just ordered my signed copy of her book. Its so touching to hear her talk about Ed w so much love. Im saying Betty Whie is now w Allen, you can bet Ed is waiting for Valerie bc they are definitely soul mates. Im so sorry for your loss Valerie. Ed is the best guitar player ever! And yoyr bird story gave me chills & warmed my heart. Bless you Valerie & good luck to Wolfie!! Ed is definitely one proud angel w Wolfie's success❤❤❤

[@Godwinpounds4333]

Hi 👋 dear, how are you doing?

[@humanactivated1017]

Having Valerie and Wolfe on the show is BIG ..like HUGE , and really enjoyed WEIGHInG in on this conversation .

[@kathleentyson6727]

Awwwww,I’m so happy for Wolfgang and Eddie would be too,he’s looking down right now from musician heaven with the myriad of all of our great musicians .

[@Purplenpinkk]

I've never watched this show, but I really like Kelly Clarkson - she is such a great interviewer! So down-to-earth and natural.

[@chefdave1157]

Sounds like an interesting book might have to read that one. I miss Valerie's cooking show like to watch her create dishes

[@lisaterry2387]

I love Valerie!! So beautiful, kind, sweet, genuine. You go girl!!

[@TheUnderCoverMother2020]

I was lucky enough to see Van Halen when Wolfie was on Bass.. how cool is that to grow up and be I your Dad's famous Rock band! It's was incredible and the energy in the place was on fire! I will never forget it.

[@julieowens3761]

I, too, attended a Van Halen concert 8 years ago. Had the pleasure of seeing Eddie play finally, and see him play with his son onstage. I missed Michael Anthony, but Wolfie definitely had the talent to hold his own up there.

[@Upallnite12]

I absolutely love Valerie. I normally don’t watch talk shows because I’ve always felt they were pre planned questions and answers but to Kelly’s credit I didn’t feel this way. It was, in my opinion, an honest and sincere interview that I could not stop watching. Much respect to Kelly who is also beautiful and talented. Valerie I absolutely adore. She’s so beautiful, inside and out, and so talented. Her cooking show I watch with my daughter faithfully (while eating a boring sandwich😀)) but she just shines a beautiful light it seems on everything she touches. 💗 10:38

[@rubykennedy3236]

Love you both Kelly and Valerie ❤️ I see Yellow butterflies when my friend is around. When he passed away I wanted to know he was here, I started seeing butterflies. When I would walk my puppy the butterfly would fly by us the whole way. Unexplainable. Even they don’t last long I always see a yellow butterfly.

[@pattyfazzini]

I grew up watching Valerie Bertinelli on One Day at a Time. She was a sweet person then, and even sweeter person now. I am so happy she is finally seeing herself as most of us do...a very beautiful, lovable, kind, down-to-earth woman, who seems to have such a BIG heart. Here's to you, Valerie. Keep accepting yourself for who you are and to disregard any negativity!❤

[@mvc1006]

Kelly and Valerie are two of my favorite people in the industry love, love, love this video.

[@debigates2363]

Two beautiful women having an amazing conversation, love it!! You can still have love for an ex. I still love my ex-husband, even after he passed away.

[@alfredbenedek3398]

I totally agree, every way my friend Debi Gates! In adition, Valerie is so, so, Like as Neil sang it; I AM I SAY!! Valeri doesn't pretends to be somone else, not copying / imitating, not the kind hey hels but me; all the way, natural, meaningful! Her cooking? Valerie's cooking came to my mother's attention! Not - a too - ah spi - see/ just right. Cooked routinelly! Keep your faith Valerie, and your faith will keep you?!!

[@deltawhiskey1398]

They couldn't be married to each other....but they never stopped loving each other. Val was with Eddie right up til the end.

[@tiredofit4761]

Eddie was a rocker and I’m sure she loved him and his rocker ways. As she matured I’m thinking she grew out of that but still loved him. I’m a HUGE fan of both! Best wishes to her and Wolfie

[@tiredofit4761]

@The mysterious Miss X lol sure why not? I’m just saying he’s famous, long hair, plays guitar, bad boy vibes.

[@bluntnfrank5753]

@@tiredofit4761 bad boy vibes ? 🤦

[@kathywilliams5995]

My husband has been gone now for 7 years and I get signs from him all the time. Yes I do believe his sprit is here with me. He had always told me he would take care and look out for me after he is gone and he kept his promise.

[@iwillnotbesilent]

Valerie, Thank you for this interview and writing that book! I don't fat shame myself, but I shame myself for being an introvert who's on the autism spectrum. My mom made me feel like there was something wrong with me because I didn't have oodles of friends, only one or two close ones. I hope to learn from you how to stop rejecting myself because of that.

[@alfredbenedek3398]

I Never called any one fat. Maybe when i was 8?! I call certain people, A BIT MORE WELL BUILT/ A LITTLE BIT OVERLY DONE . . . . But both man / women, we all pick up weight, now & than. I call that reasonably proportional / goog lookin for His / Her age! But mostl our/ your souls! Tha - at's what counts! Keep your faiths!!

[@geraldedwards5762]

There are angels all about... I cannot actually see them, but I definitely sense their presence and I see the way they affect the world... so mysterious, so beautiful, so beyond understanding.

[@karstensbran1751]

Hooray for the Prodigy of Eddie Van Halen, May his talent live long into future generations!!!!

[@amaurer65]

I love this! I felt my mom's presence as well once. It was a feeling I had never had before and have not had since. But I felt like her soul walked through me. It was in the middle of the night. These things are real and take a lot of energy for your loved one to make happen. It means they loved you so much. So, Valerie, Ed still cared enough about you to make his presence known to you.

[@lesliehunt3841]

Kelly, she was talking to somebody for sure! Valerie you are enough and you are beautiful and congratulations to Wolfie!!!