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[@FuzzyStripetail]

The salmon that Kelly used to make her world-famous salmon had a life worth dying for because it knew that Kelly would ultimately eat it while wearing her $85 lip gloss.

[@KellyStamps]

long live Mr. Salmon 🐟

[@2.06am]

Oh my god yesssssss.

[@staceywood7800]

Kelly love the dress!! 🌟 Where is it from??

[@mesCheerios]

:( i genuinely have compassion for the salmon

[@kathm8999]

As a 40 year old woman, I can tell you now, being unbothered will save you on wrinkles and shingles.

[@myrtila]

I absolutely LOVE the fact that you’re not like “fix your diet”, “get up early” in order to be happy and unbothered. What you share with us is the mindset, the philosophy, not a strict list of what we ought to do. At the end of the day, everyone has different life goals, different needs etc. I’m totally aiming at being more unbothered, because people’s opinions is what keeps me behind. I absolutely could not care less about being productive and get up early every day. I absolutely could not care less about being at the top of my class. I have my own aspirations, my own way of living and expressing myself. Thank you Kelly!

[@KellyStamps]

Thank you for your comment!! Yeah I’m not here to tell people how to be productive. I want people to be productive with their thinking! Do whatever YOU need to succeed. Maybe that is eating your favorite foods so you feel happy and inspired lol

[@shesataurus]

This is the goal!

[@LuisDMartinez]

I truly appreciate your simple yet sophisticated lifestyle. What I learned: 1. Live below your means because you already have more than enough and no point to prove to ANYBODY. 2. Have fun and celebrate YOU, and your small wins. 3. Your happiness matters, but so does being at peace with YOU FIRST.

[@KellyStamps]

A+ student right here. Prioritize your own journey first and don’t compare yourself to anyone! Be grateful for what you have

[@LuisDMartinez]

​You're magical President @@KellyStamps !! Thank you!

[@PLuna-gf6sh]

@@KellyStamps only compre myself to the person I was yesterday and that’s it 💅

[@NicoleAllwood]

@@PLuna-gf6sh right! Even then I’m learning to appreciate what was and not look back with regret because I don’t want to miss the blessings God has waiting in front of my.

[@mindbent7556]

"Why wait until vacation to have a good time, and a good experience." - Kelly Stamps . . . I shall take this to my grave sister 🙏

[@tatlivinlavida]

I’ve realized that when I’m feeling my best is when I’m single & I have money and then a guy comes to my life and for some strange reason everything goes downhill

[@tmcbgrrl0074]

I live in a very expensive city. I now choose to live alone!! No more lame-o roommates. Yes, I spend half my income on rent, but my sanity is worth it. Thanks Kelly. I will now have an unbothered life 😘

[@itspreethikaaa]

Kelly you’re 100 hundred percent right about how some people feel the need to present their unsolicited advice and opinions. And sometimes they do it just to get a reaction from me. I’m learning a lot from you and I’m not going to let their insecure words get to me. To being strong women 🥂

[@KellyStamps]

CHEERS🍺 (my Sapporo beer of choice)

[@barrytelesford5265]

Strong man here: do you want some advice to deal with that?

[@datboiwheezing4491]

@@KellyStamps hi kelly u pretty

[@itspreethikaaa]

@J Ds yeah true

[@itspreethikaaa]

@@barrytelesford5265 sure why not

[@agapeglenda]

✨🕉✨Hey Kelly. I have perfected the “look” of being unbothered & now I’m working on the inner matching the outer. I will be 60 this year. It has been a worthwhile pursuit & process. Meditation 🧘🏾‍♀️ is essential in mastering this as a reality. Hugs & much love.✨🕉✨

[@peachesandpoets]

I'm doing it backwards, working on the insides then seeing what it brings out of me on the outside! Filling my feed with insight like this... And appreciating comments like yours that keep me hopeful that I can change. :) Hugs

[@connie2285]

I wish you an amazing journey

[@nizvkfb7vsbvrsct723]

queen! I wish you the best

[@thechrisverhoeven]

Great job, Glenda. You're never too old to take back your life.

[@stillhealing8811]

Hey Glenda I'll be 58 this year look at us seasoned dolls out here not allowing our age to stand in the way of growth. 🥰

[@sojuprincess]

I’m 48 no kids . I need all my money to travel, salsa class , Korean and Spanish lessons.

[@starlight1818]

You are living my dream life!! 💕

[@Locdluuv]

This is delightful lol

[@apieceofcoffee]

Me watching the first 6 minutes as a married gworl ._. My life definitely started improving after embracing the Unbothered mentality in regards to my cultural society. I hope everyone gets to break out of their circumstances and live their lives to the fullest.

[@KellyStamps]

THANK YOU for always being one of the first to comment!! 🥺

[@apieceofcoffee]

@@KellyStamps Thank YOU for your entertainment and making me remember to put myself first (within reason). You're very wise beyond your years. I was diving into an incredible not-good-place when I first found your videos. Sometimes you need someone else to snap you back to your senses. I hope to manage my chaotic life to post myself soon. Keep up the great work!

[@carterchronicles3752]

1:28 Kelly Stamps: “I’m not going to tell you to wake up earlier…” Me: “Thank God!” 😅😅😅

[@akinakudachi]

I recently broke up with my bf and it’s been 3 weeks so far. I honestly felt that I’m behind because everyone around me is getting married and having kids. (I’m 26) I have to remind myself that everyone moves on a different timeline, I’ll get everything I deserve in due time. Practicing the art of being unbothered and loving myself will bring me to my fullest potential. For now I’ll just focus on myself until I’m ready to date again.

[@potatopotatoeOG]

you got this!

[@KellyStamps]

I almost filmed the meltdown in the middle of the night about this. We all feel this way at some point. But my older friends remind me that we have so much time. It feels like the world is ending in our 20s but it’s not!

[@eval3509]

Literally 1 second in: "Why are u so focused on men?" I FEEL ATTACKED LMAOO but thank you for this girl talk i need this mentality esp when I am trying to grind i love ur talking videos so much kelly

[@KellyStamps]

It’s not easy. I desperately want something as simple as a hug but I refuse to let anyone near me lol. I’m someone who can’t even be in some sort of talking stage. I’m like love me or leave me!!! I can’t afford a distraction!

This summer is about self-growth no bs people in my circle

[@grayscha]

I better be cocky as cockatiel by the end of this video. Because that’s the results I hope for myself after watching Kelly’s videos.

[@stumadeit]

Or Proud as a……. Flounder….. delete this comment plis, am embarrassed

[@grayscha]

@@stumadeit I’m totally digging our silliness

[@JinxyXO]

Getting called out in the first .05 seconds has me SCREAMING xD This is the energy we needed today and I’m here for it

[@ambreka]

Sounds like you’re a master at creating your own reality, you have such an unbothered / detached style of manifesting and I’m here for it.

[@thechrisverhoeven]

I had this exact situation when I met my wife from Thailand. Everyone was telling me to walk away because all those women care about was my money and a better life in the west. Thank god for not listening to them. We're together since the end of 2010, got married in 2013, and are still going strong. So you're totally right about that. YOU decide what your life will look like, and nobody else.

[@um_from_umbridge7285]

Sheesh talk about jealousy.. thanks god for a strong mind! Bless u sir!

[@thechrisverhoeven]

@@NWRJ yes I'm very happy with my wife as well

[@bougiepeaches5497]

The same people that love to call women gold diggers are the same people that can't even afford half of the stuff.🙃

[@lousdinovembre]

You listened to your intuition, the only thing we can truly trust. We deserve to be happy and I wish you a happy and long life 😊

[@thechrisverhoeven]

@@lousdinovembre thank you Alma, that is so sweet of you to say that. And yes, at the end of the day, we are responsible for our own happiness. So If I'm in love, I am going to pursue it.

[@sheridan7475]

I really cried last night for the first time in awhile and it was about the fact that I don’t have a boyfriend lol, it’s been 4 years, I took a break on purpose but I really felt like I needed to have one. I really need an unbothered girl summer

[@eval3509]

about to be 3 years for me :') i totally feel you tho, i'm happy to be single but sometimes it just gets lonely. i believe that there is someone out there for us and all these time of us being single was worth it

[@thechrisverhoeven]

You don't want a boyfriend to feel good about yourself, right? That should come from you first. The boyfriend will follow from there.

[@studeehoe7481]

Its about to be 21 years for me :)

[@thechrisverhoeven]

@@studeehoe7481 wow that's a long time

[@AdventureTimeLoui]

I learn so much from you Kelly! 🥰 I’m not really into super fancy stuff. I live and travel in a Jeep. But being unbothered and “delusional” has boosted my confidence SO much and makes me feel like the strong adventurous woman that I’ve been this whole time. I think your perspective is GOLD ✨✨✨✨💕💕💕

[@KellyStamps]

Simple living is always the best way. I’m probably going to throw in the towel and go off to Idaho once I get my city itch out. I would love to travel around in a jeep and have a home out in the country but the material gworlness always brings me back

[@tarotwithKia]

Being unbothered has been accomplished but I can't seem to escape living with toxic people or those who don't have the same dream as I. It's hard to focus on myself with all the noise. I know how to keep going, but today I needed your inspiration today, because I don't know how I'm going to get out.

[@mindbent7556]

I hope you're doing okay! How ever stressful your living situation is, I promise it'll get better as soon as you get them out of your life. Anything is possible!

[@mynameisliana]

Recently realized how much I was prioritizing dating and honestly to a fault. It IS emotionally exhausting. Kinda needed this. 🙋🏻‍♀️

[@trinitypaton]

YES GIRL!! I think I speak for all of us when I say WE NEEDED THIS!!❤️

[@mllwstrm]

I know I did she is inspirational

[@madeinstylex]

starting my vlog channel to kick of unbothered anxiety-free girl summer. holding back feels way worse than the initial fear of following my dreams!! thank you for your videos 🧡

[@MadelineClaire]

Yesss congratulations! I love being a vlogger too!

[@jamesangel7771]

Ms. Envelope, would you Consider making a video on living alone + grief, I recently lost my estranged father and know you have mentioned your own personal struggles with grief and I always appreciate your advice and anecdote’s, peace and love Always! 🌸💘

[@aplduerme]

“Do you see these nails? I don’t do the fighting, my lawyers so.” SIIIIS???? 😮‍💨💥

[@vicktory214]

The way Kelly called us out for slouching 😳 Great video!

[@ashley_brown6106]

I broke up with a man that TRULY loved me because (for reasons I'm not gonna get into) our relationship didn't make me happy AT ALL. Even though he's maybe the only man that truly, really loved me, our particular circumstances made me MISERABLE beyomd belief. I chose happiness over love... Because I love MYSELF enough to allow me to be happy!

[@alwaysk4354]

Best decision. You can't sacrifice your happiness. It would not work in the long run.

[@lisajoybrown]

Miss Kelly Stamps💖 Iam a single mother of 5, and I DO deserve luxury, you're right 😁😁🥰 I get paid Wednesday and I'm going to buy myself those pillowcases! And possibly a queen duvet. You're awesome 💖💐

[@AlyssaVanilla]

Girl how do you have like 10 different houses lmao 😭 I know you mentioned making a video over it one day and please do!!! No one our age is talking about big money moves like that. Getting in a Kelly-Stamp’s-Retirement-at-30 mindset is what will help me have a hot girl summer! Thx in advance professor!

[@KellyStamps]

I swapped apartment leases with back when I was in Boston and went to Florida at no charge because it was with the same company. I rode out that lease then I signed a short one in Texas and finally broke that lease. I paid $7000 and instead I put money towards buying a place in San Diego and now I have a tenant there. And now I’m in this semi-vacant home in Texas which I am furnishing to use as a rental property.

[@KellyStamps]

I wrote out an entire video explaining this but honestly I’m not comfortable recording it. I would love to share my knowledge but a lot of it just comes down to having lots of money to invest with. People are just going to complain again about me not being relatable as if I’m concerned about that lol. I still consistently make about 20,000 to 48,000 a month (now mostly with sponsors) and adsense combined since Jan 2020. i’m simply watching what my friends are doing to get rich and the easiest way is with property in a rising city. I just did a big sponsorship deal and my next goal is to buy a place in Hoboken in the next few years. I’m also hoping that my next podcast covers money so I can go back to school and just keep going to school never actually work again lol.

[@exclusivekat]

@@KellyStamps That's amazing Kelly!! I'm trying to work on investing more and generating passive income too....on a smaller scale obvi but manifesting that it will continue to grow ✨✨ Screw the haters & keep being an unbothered inspiration 💖

[@PurpleEyes77]

@@exclusivekat I believe in you

[@exclusivekat]

@@PurpleEyes77 😊 thanks!

[@blackalchemy222]

Bag the camera tilt took me out every time 😭💀😂”ouuu what you doing?” Nah but i immediately pictured myself picking up roses when you said that and here you w/ roses😍🌹

[@jasminesakura]

"my lawyers do the fighting" - professor stamp, colourised, 2022. Manifesting this

[@TASconfidential]

“They use 3 n 1 body wash….” Honey…. That’s a step up for many of them… Let’s not get into the ones who barely shower… Stay unaffected, self-focused & unbothered!!!

[@sashaesperance]

GIRL, I'M PROUD OF YOU. It makes me smile watching your videos. and those videos help me a lot in my life.

[@KellyStamps]

YOU SHOULD SMILE BC UR PRETTY

[@sashaesperance]

Noted.😊😘🥰

[@Lynneemilieperez]

First!!! We are loving these Uploads👏👏 Loving how you just called out those 3 in 1 users LMFAOO living for it

[@SM-xr3kk]

Oh my God, Kelly, I really loved what you said about living your reality and the life you dream of in your imagination, obviously not forgetting the difference between delusion and actuality. I’ve had so many people fuss about me being confident and working towards my goal, just to turn my lucid dreams into physical existence. But as a part of Stampede University, the lesson is to not give a damn about their draining and meaningless judgements! Thank you so much, queen, for making me believe in the notion ❤️👸

[@KellyStamps]

Yay!! And that is true. Don’t give a damn about any meaningless judgments!

[@law11school11girly]

" I do not fight insecure people" love that

[@aceelijah2886]

Omgggg a longer video!! I love it!! I live for it!! I’m here for it!! I live your videos so much! 💗

[@georgianavlad3616]

I lived for 28 years not knowing what i want and only focusing on the things i should want. I had so many voices all these years telling me that i should not want to be more than i am but none of them knew who i really was. I only found the guts to be myself in the last two years an I have never been happier. I do what i think is right, i say exactly what is on my mind, i lost 90% of my friends and it has been great!

[@tiffanyt1680]

10:35 - I have the same area rug as you! And, thank you for the reminder about finding peace and happiness in my own reality, and not feeling as though I need to escape or go on vacation to find it. Also big fan of buying myself flowers, and dining solo. And 100% working on not reacting, but by responding with my own success in silence. Another professor Stamps mantra, keeping things private! On dating… I go celibate for months and then go back out in the playing field. The past two years have been hard on me (grief + life hiccups), and honestly, no partner can jeopardize my happiness. Life truly is too short for that!! Unbothered Summer 22!

[@maddisonzetterberg5548]

Kelly this was EXACTLY what I needed to hear. Thank you for your dedication and hard work on these vids and for letting us in on you being you!

[@CherylAwh]

It makes me so happy to see you doing so well. Love you Kelly!

[@vt-yp7yq]

I'm so proud of you. You've got it figured out and I applaud you.

[@raquelt5342]

Congrats on your new place girl you deserve it! 🥳💞

[@ib4658]

Loving the way you have made your channel.. you don't let anyone put you in a box! And please keep sharing lessons with us students 😍

[@leyhaw6762]

doing things alone is literally so niceeeeeeeeeeee

[@jm2307]

Your cooking measurements are not rudimentary, it is the Ancestors telling you “enough, my child”

[@yasminoench5412]

Your videos radiate positivity and make me feel happy, and I have no idea why

[@chideraangelina_]

Preach girl! I’ve been thinking this for so long now, just couldn’t put it into words. ❤️

[@circletimeforthesoul]

OMG. Kelly girl, I needed this TO👏🏽DAY👏🏽. How did you have me laughing in the first 15 seconds?! Thank you. Thank you.

[@TheJamafricanQueen]

I love it here y’all 🥺🙌🏾 I’m definitely working on the acting like I own every place I walk into. Good advice.

[@donyawilliams9504]

I’m here for this Kelly! This is what I needed to hear!!!! ✨💗

[@Starseedangel]

Kelly can I just say how much I absolutely love your energy and I am adoring your house!! Little by little it’s going to come together and those are the simple things life that make me feel happy 💫 you are such an inspiration:) thank you for sharing! 🫶

[@jaymeandcapri]

Found you through your video with Sundai, and let me just tell you. You are the bonus alternative that I needed in my life for the times when she has yet to upload. ❤I’m about to binge everything you have out there.

[@trishatheunicorn9702]

You're a gift to us Kelly. Thank you for being you. you inspire me to be 100% myself.

[@TranquilWanderer]

The answer to my current thoughts and confusions! Thank you for the insights 🫠❤️I come from a culture where it is not “normalized” to be independent, I want to take my own route like you ✨

[@kennethguevara8308]

I don't really have a community to help me be UNBOTHERED, but your videos are a nice reminder!

[@kkelliejjayne]

Every time I’m in a weird sad doubtful funk I come to your channel 💕 and I leave feeling so worthy and optimistic and relaxed!! Thank u Professor Stamps. About to go clean and beautify my apartment now!

[@user-iu7ms4nb6p]

i love ur brain kelly. i’m 20 entering my last yr of college & ur vids always remind me to slow down. also that multicolor dress on u was stunning!! u rock it 🫶🏽💫

[@LauraTryUK]

You. Are. GREAT! You won't realise how much I needed to watch this today 💖

[@katottley279]

Love watching you and your channel grow 😍

[@astoldbycurlyd]

Finally ! Your videos are like sarcasm crack to me , BLESS YOU ✨😂🤍

[@uchejane_e]

love 😍the graphite sheet, the rug and definitely the rami brooke dress on you. You go girl you deserve every luxury you get☺

[@lolabunny1157]

I love the vibe of your house!!! It gives beach house sandbridge 🌊🏖

[@boojeecloset]

Having a candle lit and a glass of water : top tier!!

[@maxerinjames]

That outfit in the second half! 😮 Gotta keep living that life that you want. We are all victims of social pressures, but we have to be aware and choose how we want to live. Having a king does change your view on it for sure lol Anyway, great video. Always looking amazing

[@storiesofblue]

reminds me of Emma Watson saying she is self-partnered. Not single. Self-partnered. What a beautiful word.

[@divinelytia]

Yeah, this video came at exactly the right time 🙌 I don’t necessarily want to reinvent myself, but rather be myself as authentically as possible. I find it a little scary because it may not match up to how others in my life expect me to be but that is 100% on them and not on me.

[@mirandatyner]

This video helps me so much! Thank you Kelly! ❤️

[@gretchfinds]

I just want to say that I love your style Kelly! Your house is an inspiration. Of course, I'll take note of your advice of just being an unbothered girl summer. Thanks!

[@Lovejoi222]

❤️❤️❤️ loved this message! I’m doing the same Kelly! Just gave my living room a little makeover! So good to be good to yourself!

[@brianalowe]

Literally JUST bought some CozyEarth sheets along with PJ sets i showed no mercy 😈🥰 Sleeping well is the ultimate luxury

[@yasminm2103]

This 👏 has 👏 arrived 👏 at 👏 exactly 👏 the 👏 right 👏 time 👏 ty professor stamps

[@caterine4604]

Kelly your videos help me so much. I love you and I love your content. Thank you so much for being such a great inspiration.

[@RaelynnOnToast]

You are one of my all time favorite bloggers🎉, thank you for sharing your knowledge and stupendous energy with us.

[@marie.1111]

Such a lovely home! My aunt lives in the Hamptons, it's absolutely beautiful there. I miss the East Coast terribly. Congratulations on your new home & continued success Kelly!

[@KellyStamps]

I just saw her at the market!! I love living here in the Hamptons

[@mychannelismines]

You made me not wanna give af about things that are not worth giving af about. Thank you.

[@callmej1251]

I'm happy for you kelly keep going!

[@lexladiva4533]

I love this so much. Kelly, my fellow Gemini sis ✨♊️ you are amazing! Keep being YOU because you are inspiring so many people. ❤️ - you spoke to me LOUDLY when you said that you don’t take anything seriously!!!!!!!!!! 👏🏽😭

[@aarchi89]

Thank you kelly - i didn't realize i needed this video until I just saw it 😘😘😘

[@ZoeZulu]

yoooo! the video game analogy is exactly what I needed to hear. damn. Thank you, Kelly

[@goddessloretta776]

This is exactly the video I needed. Thank you. I'm crying.

[@kristinkeeler7980]

all of your videos are the best but this is truly one of the best videos on the internet ever

[@nikki6599]

Girl, you are so correct. Never change (I mean, unless you want too).

[@DFaith]

I love the dress you are wearing when you were getting ready. You looked stunning✨

[@lolabunny1157]

I agree! People try to put our dreams down no dream is too big!!!!❤️❤️❤️

[@breezyrenee3299]

immediately subscribed. the realest advise I have ever seen on this site.

[@SynsBookNook]

Thank you for the inspiration you bring and being a bad ass woman. I love that you always keep it real. I bought a black and white striped dress the other day - my brain goes - “that’s a Kelly stamps dress.” Working on that unbothered life!

[@KellyStamps]

YESS WEAR THAT DRESS

[@UniqueHollins]

Definitely one of my favorite videos from you ❤️❤️❤️

[@MichelleViews1294]

I'm definitely applying these tips towards my unbotherd summer as well. Thanks 🤓

[@AP-zo1ww]

I immediately stopped slouching, thank u queen

[@KellyStamps]

Now pick up those bottles behind you!

[@Winis_World]

I appreciated this lesson! Thank you ❤️

[@maddiemelchiori5604]

manifesting this summer for us because we NEED it

[@brownsuga929]

I have these sheets and duvet cover in multiple colors. My favorite sheets by far! Cool and soft! Best in Florida weather year round 👌

[@crazysavvyloverlee]

Going to be carrying this mindset to family gatherings too. No point getting upset or stressed about little politics and drama.

[@Cecilia_Njoroge]

Kelly you are such a vibe☺️🔥

[@raypatton4670]

Unbothered girl summer!! Here for it Kelly!

[@shantoyesherman9637]

Ugh, I just love watching you glow

[@NashvilleTravelConcierge]

I'm THE Concierge at one of the most popular hotels in Nashville where guests (many probably live in the Hamptons) expect me to do the near impossible. Most of them are very nice and tip ungodly nice (just got $300 for finding a bowling alley for one). Reality: I'm an hourly worker at a hotel. My Reality: I can walk into any upper-class restaurant in Nashville (yes they exist) and be served. I do the same for hotel guests (whether they tip or not). Great video, Kelly.