Divorced African woman. Mom of two kids. Wants a man who is a provider. He must make $100K or more.

[@MalevolentElephant]

Kendra when the women say they are an entrepreneur, can you ask them to elaborate? You usually ask the men to do that lol 😂

[@BlackJezuzBaby]

Yeah. 😂

[@azoladder]

Word I was waiting 🤷🏿‍♂️🤣specify

[@Donbarbz]

When I hear a divorced single mother say “I’m an entrepreneur”. I hear I receive alimony & child support with government assistance. Their “entrepreneur” part at that point is a weak inconsistent part time side hustle😂

[@Yobachi2007]

Exactly. Entrepreneur usually means I'm broke selling weave bundles, or I'm in an MLM pyramid scheme averaging about $5 dollars per hour of effort I put in. I wanted to know off top what she was renewing her license in. That would have told us something. As a professional interviewer, that was the obvious follow up question to be asked.

[@ChanChan-ux8nn]

Usually because when women are entrepreneurs especially black women - they usually are established & legit. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@CJ-rf8om]

Much respect to you Kendra. As a man that has been married for 15 years, you explained marriage perfectly. 80/20, COMPROMISE, etc. MARRIAGE is not a fairytale and it’s not for the weak of heart. With that being said, I wouldn’t trade my life with my wife for anything. Keep telling the truth. Your work is appreciated.

[@JoyT01]

Very well said & agreed check coming from someone who’s happily married for 20 years. It’s definitely a blessing in this cold world.

[@wshelby83]

Wish the both many more wonderful years with our spouses! Amazing!

[@Mrs.Terry17]

Kendra is spot on. People will look at my marriage and see all my husband does for me and say I want that. We had to go thru some ishh and grow together. No I'm not talking about cheating for the ones in the back🥴 I'm just saying you can't use the microwave everytime. Let things sit in the oven and wait. Stop jumping from relationship to relationship trying to find something better.

[@jermaineburgess3767]

It's a process and some women think it's easy I tried to tell my child's mother this don't look at the outside of someone's relationship because you don't know what goes on in their home women think they can find a fairytale guy that dosen't exist🤦🏾‍♂️

[@stackzdollaz9508]

Facts. Same with me n my wife. It was a process. It’s not gonna be perfect. But where we at now. Shittt is good amazing

[@Babugee9]

Dunno why I liked this microwave analogy so much

[@TheCodifiedNetwork]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@juniorleslie4804]

You are a rare woman. That may be why you are married.

[@arkitekbeatzify]

He texted her for valentines day. She was a side piece lol

[@jermaineburgess3767]

She a jump off you can tell by the way she speaks you don't buy jump offs gifts you fuck them and feed them she's not even a side piece

[@brandonmoss7976]

Y E S

[@bomzylondon4966]

Good insight

[@jossangeles4011]

I suspect that she may have been in a rotation. I had a friend who dated a guy for a year. She thought she was in a relationship. When I asked her if she ever met his friends or his family or his children in person and she said no, I told her he is not into you like that. She had a Come to Jesus conversation with him and he told her he had no emotional attachment to her. She was upset that he was not honest with her but his actions for the entire year told the story. She just had to observe more.

[@jaelee6390]

On church lol 😆💯🚩

[@jblackmel]

So she wants: 1. A "provider," which means, according to her, he pays all the bills and pays for two children that are not his. 2. She wants that man to pay for her kids and guide them, but you can't "discipline" them. According to her her boys are "well behaved." 3. She has expensive taste. Which, in a man's mind, means she will want to spend money on unnecessary BS. (I would love to know how much consumer debt she's responsible for repaying). 4. She wants no other children. So she basically wants a man to just subsidize the lifestyle of "her" and "her children." 5. She wants someone "real" and "genuine And in return for all this, you'll get a "strong" woman who, according to her, still has a nice body. And why would a successful, "intelligent," competitive man want this as a trade off?

[@jonathanjacobs5783]

None do.. but everyone can dream cant they

[@karimbennett5651]

Everything you said was correct, except for point #2. She didn’t say a new husband could not “discipline” her boys. She simply stated there are boundaries that he may not cross. That implies she would not tolerate abusive behavior towards her sons.

[@jblackmel]

@@karimbennett5651 How do you know that "abusive behavior" is what she meant? What is her definition of "abusive" behavior? You're speculating, in order to give her the benefit of the doubt. But as a man, we know what this means. The point is, you ladies are not in our shoes. So you don't know what it's like to have the burden to parent or take care of a bastard child, just to have a mom "step in" and disrupt our authority. It's just not worth it. I'm a step parent myself. And it is, indeed a thankless job. "My" son is 11 and from the time he's 13, I'm going to DRILL into him to NEVER, EVER, EVER, deal with woman who has a child from another man. It's all liability and NO BENEFIT to the man.

[@bblwarrantydepartment981]

Playing another man’s saved game smh

[@Lola-hd7ht]

Soooooo well said! Kendra needs to start being honest with the women that come on her show. Like, lady really 🤔

[@Donbarbz]

The statement “I have expensive taste” is a huge 🚩 We tell men in our mentorship program to walk away when they hear this. It says, “I like expensive things, even tho I’m broke and manage my finances poorly”.

[@Highflyerone]

They have "expensive taste" when it comes to spending YOUR money. When it comes to spending THEIR money they have dollar menu taste. I've seen this 100 times.

[@jay-t1030]

What is the mentorship program?

[@Donbarbz]

@@jay-t1030 7 of my friends and I mentor young men in our tri city area. Young men who don't have fathers in their lives and need direction, advice and experienced men to Converse and communicate with. Building leaders out of young men raised by single mothers. Its a good cause.

[@plot229]

@@Donbarbz that’s what’s up bro

[@phenomenaleverywhere4919]

So should women not have expensive taste? Should they have cheap taste?

[@fayefaye9464]

I’m Dating a man who makes OVER 100k. I have NO KIDS. Ladies, they DO NOT WANT WOMEN WITH KIDS. They will sleep with you, couple little dinner dates, but it ain’t going nowhere. Kids in a mans eyes that’s not his is considered ANOTHER BILL. Ladies, stop talking to your girlfriends and start listening to the men TALK.

[@AB-vb4sv]

Finally!!!!! A woman who can confirm. I’ve known two doctors who tell me no way in hell they dating a single mom and they only date younger. I’ve seen their dm and it’s littered with eager women.

[@fayefaye9464]

@@AB-vb4sv His mentor is a older successful dentist. He divorced his first wife and when he remarried the woman he choose the second time around NO KIDS and she was younger. Loving the life. Definitely taking notes from her.Hard reality but it what it is.

[@AB-vb4sv]

@@fayefaye9464 but you understand the job requirements and you nabbed a high earning man. It’s simple, most people will not want to buy a run-down home with horrible foundation when you can afford better. Good luck.

[@stevenharris1460]

Can't get through to most women that their kids are just another drain on our resources. They serve absolutely no benefit to us.

[@fayefaye9464]

@@AB-vb4sv Appreciate it 🙏

[@Veganphobic]

Summary: *”I want free stuff”* She wants 6 foot, 100k black man who will take HER 2 kids, Provide all expenses. But she left an “Entrepreneur” Over Valentine’s Day LOL And claims to be CHOOSING to be single yet she’s on dating show.

[@Ldgarl1]

Make it make sense.

[@kaleenajean]

What’s funny, if she goes to the other side she could find that EASY. Because they don’t down women for wanting to be taken care of. Usually men with nothing who complain. It says a lot about the men in the black community.

[@jermaineburgess3767]

@@kaleenajean the other side don't want average looking women or obese women with kids

[@MENTALHEALTHBOXING]

@@kaleenajean your right. But I promise you there will be a lot of compromises that she wouldn’t make for her own men.

[@aguy9071]

@@kaleenajean she couldn’t. If she could, she’d have a man already. Men of all races want the same thing. No man of any race is dying to provide for a woman with 2 young children, and track record of a super short marriage. Worthwhile Men of every race who see that as a bad investment. Think about it. What is he getting in exchange for his provision?

[@eon001]

7:29 Caution to ladies that want a man with "ambition". These men are forever GRINDING. Being successful comes with sacrifices. And that means he'll have less time for you, and more time on his purpose. Be carful for what you wish for.

[@kanamekiyru]

Im going through that right now. Work 10 hours a day in my career, 6 more hours of school after that, and a side job on the weekends to make cash. I have goals im trying to reach and i just dont have the time for a girlfriend

[@jossangeles4011]

THAT PART. It is the only part of her interview that I side-eyed. I have only been with high achieving men and one of the drawbacks is they work A LOT of hours. Their career or business comes first. Having said this, I think he could have done better for Valentine's. Possibly, as others have stated here, he may have been backing out of the driveway of that relationship.

[@getoffmygrass4857]

@@kanamekiyru of you find the right woman she can assist you in your ambitions. It's rare to find because a lot of women are selfish but there are women still out there.

[@jossangeles4011]

@Miss Amirah The saying "Be careful what you wish for" applies here. There is a consequence to every decision and people need to be aware and will have to live with said consequences. There is always a tradeoff.

[@BlaydeAlabama]

Facts

[@prettyperfectpagne6226]

It’s really delusional to think someone wants to take care of your kids but don’t want them to discipline them not bad to want someone who is secure but let’s be real it’s rare

[@4656superman]

#Facts...She also just wants a paycheck, he takes care of her bills and kids and she buys what she wants...Delusional

[@jermaineburgess3767]

See we need more women like yourself just to be honest about some of this bs it's a bad deal for a man I just went through this with my son's mother and I tell my son who is 9 to never date a woman with kids

[@kaleenajean]

@@jermaineburgess3767 and we need less men like you.. he’ll probably go for just that. 😂 you wanna know why because maybe the woman that will turn him on will actually have that.. that’s just life.. people aren’t perfect.

[@kaleenajean]

@@4656superman lol if youre broke just say that…what she means is stable. She shouldn’t of put a number on it.

[@quelquun2018]

Biologically, most men would not take care of another woman’s children. Unless it’s blended relationship, where they both have kids and they come together.

[@squeaky822]

You can’t want a 6 figure man and feel a way when he doesn’t have 24/7 time for you. Dating someone of that status is not for the weak.

[@kenallen8213]

He didn't have time because he didn't want to make time. He didn't take her seriously. At the end of the day, no matter how many times he sleeps with her, most men don't want to commit themselves in a serious relationship with a single mother.

[@jaelee6390]

@@kenallen8213 on church lol 😆⛪💯

[@yahronisreal770]

FACTS!

[@ulquiorra3104]

@@kenallen8213 sad but true. 😔😔. And that's regardless of how pretty she is.

[@squeaky822]

@@kenallen8213 I’m saying a woman shouldn’t expect a 6 figure guy to text/call her every 2 seconds. That’s what I meant because that’s usually how it goes with women.

[@ChieftessAZakai]

Marriage is a constant work in progress. it took my husband and I time learning to co-habitat together, parent together and establish a healthy balance between work and home/family time. I am fortunate to have a husband that expects and is able to provide and allow me to focus on our home and growing babies. As we continue to grow our family and house hunting, there will continue to be adjustments and communication about our needs and our children’s needs. The idea that there is a destination in a relationship or marriage is ill-conceived. Life, love and commitment is a journey that keeps moving and growing and we should too.

[@tamunosakiwestscott-bloack2229]

Scream this out to your black sisters at the back. They needed to hear this which is why most are single and unmarried and baby mamas.

[@eq2092]

Preach. Being married is work and there will be times it's unpleasant that you will, disagree and have to compromise. It takes effort to get on the same page as your spouse. It's not about feelings but duty, sacrifice, and commitment.

[@ChieftessAZakai]

@@eq2092 it’s a duty for sure family. Perfect word. And it’s to both your union and family. For me, our prospering families are the revolution.

[@ChieftessAZakai]

@Mimi supreme gratitude 🙏🏾 much peace and bliss to you and yours.

[@eq2092]

@@ChieftessAZakai They switched tactics on us and have put policies in place that have destroyed the black family. Without families you don't have communities. The black family survived the diaspora, hundreds years of slavery plus Jim Crow.

[@arkitekbeatzify]

Kendra's honesty is what makes this worth watching

[@lewis20002000]

FACTS.

[@roseflowers6425]

Kendra has good eye contact & is a great listener which let’s people open up more she is lovely ☺️

[@lewis20002000]

@@roseflowers6425 hhhhmmm, It depends, sometimes Kendra repeats her questions/script after the person had already told her and the host better have good eye contact. I would say Kendra asks "real relationship" things that will come up, not just the fun stuff like who is the best dancer in the relationship. She asks about how many baby daddies/mamas, why didn't it work out, are you still sexually active with your ex(not directly). This one is important, bc it's an easy fallback without giving ur all if or when things are rough in the new relationship.

[@TradingOptionswMndr]

It's the reject ahh guest that makes the show

[@JoyT01]

Agreed.. She’s a gem…

[@m.roberts1120]

Why do people dummy down names (especially African names) that can easily be pronounced? Kendra almost went off on a guy a few weeks ago for calling her Kenya.

[@thelovelykimmi7920]

Those are still easy names to pronounce versus others. Nicknames are still names

[@blacopsassassin2771]

Come on this is Kendra now you know she can barely remember the questions she asked🤣

[@SemajRaff]

“Relationships aren’t Disney World. They are work. You gotta be willing to work.”

[@stinkreezy2791]

Exactly

[@carlosverde-datingtips7001]

I hear ya - JF3! No man that’s got his life together, and is living his Purpose - should give a woman the time of day, if she’s not adding anything of value to his life. To me just being a woman, and looking good is not enough, she has to bring something to the table - and it has to be something meaningful! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips

[@_thebreesknees]

@LT missing Valentine’s Day? 🙁 not even a call ?

[@SemajRaff]

@@_thebreesknees I thought he coulda called but now I’m thinking if I show you daily I love you, don’t force me to be extra on a bs holiday. I’ve had so many gfs make a big deal about Feb 14 and I treat them like that each weekend

[@_thebreesknees]

@@SemajRaff hmm alright :(

[@keybored1650]

Kendra, this was your best video yet, so insightful and fair, pointing out what are reasonable dealbreakers, but also relationships aren’t Disneyland. Thank you Kendra.

[@id.icebergslim]

facts

[@thebxsavage]

Single mother with 2 children wants tall, dark, and handsome making over 100K to take care of her and her children. Tune in next episode for a single mother with 2 children that wants tall, dark, and handsome making over 100K to take care of her and her children.

[@jermaineburgess3767]

It's like a script was passed out to all women in America 🤦🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️

[@bomzylondon4966]

Rinse and repeat

[@kaleenajean]

Eh, it happens all the time.. a lot of single men having issues too. It’s both ways and it irrational to think not.

[@rahjaejohnson]

@@kaleenajean not u tryna make this about men 😹 come on now do better

[@chaike9001]

She’s willing to “compromise” yet left her guy over not texting her Valentine’s Day and couldn’t understand his schedule. MAKE IT MAKE SENSE 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@Charlie_Alpha_Lima]

Real question to the women: Who would a man work his way to 100 band a year to pay for another man's kids? Do y'all not think a man who turns himself into that has deal breakers as wel?

[@kimberlyjackson6498]

These women are delusional and really think they are a prize with another man’s kids. Not realizing that a man of that income can choose a woman without kids and who’s more attractive. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@FightsRightsAlways]

Lol there are men who do, do that. Stop acting like it doesn't happen.

[@otismichael2583]

@@FightsRightsAlways very few men

[@FightsRightsAlways]

@@otismichael2583 lol still doesn't take away from my point

[@jonathanjacobs5783]

These women basically describe me every call.. and imma let you know... I'm not looking for any of these scallywags

[@cass1092]

She seems really sweet and she has gorgeous skin 💁🏽‍♀️ I wish her the best in finding someone

[@chaike9001]

How’s having unrealistic standards “sweet” you’re an enabler and your friends should be weary of people like you

[@luckyskivvy6077]

Her juice isn't worth the squeeze. She's mentioned at least 2 relationships that didn't pan out. Obviously she thinks she's an A student but she's fallen to a C

[@reggiemillz7533]

@@luckyskivvy6077 more like a “F”

[@cass1092]

@@luckyskivvy6077 but not every relationship you’re in works out. You date different people to find one that will. Isn’t that what we all do?

[@luckyskivvy6077]

@Jay Strauss 🤣🤣🤣

[@MichaelWick01]

Whenever a woman says "my father took care of us" my next question is always "did your mother have kids there by another man that your father also took care of". The answer is most likely no

[@Steph-lc7hy]

Say it again

[@opeyemiadegoke361]

What you are saying is the mantra of broke men my father was the sole provider in my family that's what African men does my mum works but she necessarily doesn't have to spend her earned money if she didn't want to ...yes my mum had my elder brother before she met my dad ,yes my dad provided for my brother and the rest of the children because he is our father ....hell I even had a child at 17 by dad and mum adopted her so I can go back to school which I did and I work in healthcare today ...so if you are selfish,broke or lack love just say so

[@MichaelWick01]

@@opeyemiadegoke361 you sound crazy. You're in Africa. Many people in Africa walk without shoes and live in shacks. That doesn't apply to the US. Then you said that you had a baby by your day? Please go somewhere and rub on your daddy. People over here don't care about your ignorance

[@MichaelWick01]

@@opeyemiadegoke361 I meant baby by your dad. So disgusting...

[@ggpierson5527]

I've never in my life seen a step-father not take care of the minor step-children in his home just because they're not his. Y'all must live sad lives or live around sad people.

[@TAHJ1987]

Honestly. She wasn't a bad guest...although she isn't my type physically...she takes care of herself, keeps herself up..well spoken...I think she can find something...now I will say...I doubt she is completely honest.. her husband who put 2 babies inside her...it just didn't work out..and then her boyfriend just sent a text on valentines day and nothing else....I don't buy all that entirely...but dating is tough. Especially when you bring kids into the situation...

[@freudianslip2192]

Just because she's well-spoken doesn't mean she's not spewing the same rhetoric. She still expects a man to come in and pay for her and her progeny. It's a joke.

[@fronttowardenemy7972]

Yeah fam I can't take any woman seriously if they don't admit to at least one negative factor they are responsible for in their previous failed relationships.

[@aubriellelucille1762]

not to mention… valentine’s day is not just to celebrate women…it’s both couples coming together to make one another feel appreciated, with gifts, cards or whatever. Given her mentality with wanting a man to provide and knowing she was with him for almost a year or two assuming he was living up to her requirements, he probably felt a way too if she didn’t take the time out to reach out n call him or have something set up for them that day. I’m sure he was on his own thing too, trying to be a successful entrepreneur and still be a “provider” in a relationship with a women and her two kids. All i’m saying is, he probably wanted to feel special and appreciated that day too n come to find out, she expects everything to only be about her, so i think he might’ve just have up on the relationship too because of that

[@aponteaida913]

@@fronttowardenemy7972 right on the spot. She doesn't hold herself accountable, not realizing there is a pattern of wrongdoing. My sisters are "Oblivious "

[@marcyscloset6835]

@@aubriellelucille1762 🤣🤣🤣🤣 you must be kidding…. Are you married ????

[@4jainaba]

I hope she finds wat she’s looking for she seems so positive n beautiful 💚💚

[@vagrantkill]

yeah she can still hope, but in reality it won't happen. Just ask yourself if you d like your son to marry that woman

[@id.icebergslim]

same here -- but shes looking for perfection, good luck

[@Grizzle-Grizzle]

37....2 kids....100k requirements 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️ Good luck ✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾

[@jermaineburgess3767]

@@vagrantkill you damn well these women wouldn't want that 🤣

[@MarvAuthor]

Horrible deal for most successful men

[@MENTALHEALTHBOXING]

She could have the man she wanted if she had this mindset in her early 20’s without the kids.

[@jermaineburgess3767]

She had the man she wanted she divorced him and been sleeping around since

[@Only1Dizzle]

Say it again for the people in the back.

[@chronometa]

2 kids with expensive tastes. Doesn't want to take care of anyone, but wants a provider for her expensive taste.

[@joeroot9142]

She did they got divorced. Nothing is forever people change.

[@Yobachi2007]

​@@jermaineburgess3767 Yep, sleeping around with Chads and Tyrones, now she wants some other sucka, as she's barrelling towards middle age with another mans children, to come scoop up the leftovers for the privilege of paying for it, not getting any kids, yet getting a strong independent woman.

[@SPARKWISDOM]

There are so many phenomenal men waiting for fit, beautiful, inspiring, feminine phenomenal women. Most women just aren't listening to what men sat they want and they're not willing to conform to what they say they want. It's not hard and there are plenty of men out here!

[@TheCodifiedNetwork]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@Mr_Woodsmoke]

There are tons of men that can't wait to raise another man's kids.

[@beebro338]

​@@Mr_Woodsmoke I know you lieing... 😂

[@Christopher0632]

@@Mr_Woodsmoke No it's not. Shut Up with that Beta Male Simp talk, smh. The only men that woud take that deal is a 55-65 year old Sugar daddy, but she doesn't want that man. She wants a top tier 10% black man- her issue is that man has plenty of options from women who are younger than her, more attractive than her, have NO kids, and will get on his program. She's invisible to that man.

[@gp9677]

@@Mr_Woodsmoke 😂😂😂

[@kane99560]

Expensive tastes, 2 kids, wants a "provider male" to come take care of her and her kids, but he can't discipline the kids and she won't have any more for him. Everyday these women prove KS was right..these women are delusional 🙄

[@southerngirl-florida]

She didn’t say “he couldn’t discipline her kids.” She stated she does NOT hit her children but she scolds/talk to them when they are wrong. She was in agreement to her mate disciplinary actions AS LONG AS THEY FOLLOW THE SAME DISCIPLINARY ACTIONS she displays. But she is absolutely RIGHT …. No man, whether KS or you should HIT ANOTHER MANS CHILD. This is why all single mother’s no matter what race - should remain SINGLE. Because of men that think like you are VERY SCARY 👌 look how you misinterpreted what she said … smh 🤦‍♀️ yours listening skills are coherently off which speaks volumes to your thought/behavior overall.

[@muchaluchagigante6318]

@@southerngirl-florida I don't see him saying he had to hit the kids..projecting much? Maybe YOU should stay single..you're jumping/attacking someone only shows your entitlement

[@southerngirl-florida]

@@muchaluchagigante6318 dust bucket 🪣 I am MARRIED ... try that way-ward thinking with another woman. I said what I felt and if you have a problem because you're probably the type to hit a womans child too...kiss my a^^ and all that encompasses the surface 😩🤣

[@muchaluchagigante6318]

@@southerngirl-florida if it was your probably bad ass musty kids I fo sho would've hit em..

[@msshieka943]

She say he couldn’t spank the children.

[@baloossthoughts1024]

It's interesting how shaming the language evolves? Now a REAL GROWN MAN means : someone who's willing to come in and provide for you 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣

[@antoniotula262]

Lol, u got the right translator app!!!

[@tootrue7599]

Haha…a real sister means all kinda crap that doesn’t directly benefit her 🤣🤣.

[@baloossthoughts1024]

@@tootrue7599 I honestly don't get your comment. Maybe you typed it wrong

[@arkitekbeatzify]

When the question "why would a man be lucky to be with you?" comes about, the response is always word salad. Nothing tangible

[@bruceleeroy8302]

I’m strong, I’m ambitious and fun to be around. 😂

[@user-gt1kd9rv1w]

@@bruceleeroy8302 I hear this answer ALL the time annnnd I have a hunch that that’s not what men are looking for 😂😂😂😂

[@Christopher0632]

There's over 4 BILLION women on this earth. None of them are as "special" as they believe. It always shows when they're asked that basic question and they all give the most generic response which essentially amounts to nothing, LOL.

[@arkitekbeatzify]

@@user-gt1kd9rv1w definitely not 🤣🤣🤣

[@iriemo721]

What’s a good “tangible” answer to that question in your opinion?

[@ES92-]

Can you imagine, requiring a man to provide for a whole family and he cant even discipline the kids at all. How Sway ?

[@HumptyMcFly]

I could hear Kevin Samuels digging into her the whole time she was talking about that. Kendra cool but Kevin wouldn’t let that 💩 fly.

[@real_abiola]

@@HumptyMcFly KS 🐱 👠 also said not to believe the child of the child says that he touched them inappropriately. So 🤷🏿‍♀️

[@alaroche]

she gonna die alone

[@HumptyMcFly]

@@real_abiola No he didn’t. I was listening to that program and that’s not what he said but, to y’all black men misandrist, y’all will make up any ol lie to justify y’all misery.

[@JDMHaze]

@@real_abiola That's not what he said, he said that every man faces the risk that a woman will believe her child which means this is the burden and liability a man has to deal with dating women with kids...Because women make it seem like being a stepdad is simple so he elaborates why it's a bigger deal

[@JohnDoe19xx]

Rest in Power Mr.Samuels. You cant make this shit up ! 😂😂😂

[@chaike9001]

Man I’m baffled, I didn’t know how bad it was he truly did a service night in and night out. Regardless if his delivery was “harsh”, people are really delusional

[@FaithandNova]

Can y'all please stop we didn't come to Kevin platform calling out Kendra's name.

[@stinkreezy2791]

@@FaithandNova they did she used majority of his talking point in a softer way

[@fivestar3452]

Kevin’s talking point weren’t original.

[@passerau]

You read my mind brother, Amen!!! To that. He will be truly missed🥺🥺🥺

[@paulrevere1479]

So they all want tall, dark and handsome and women never call them out for colorism. Now let a man say he wants a lightskinned woman and watch the anger and fury come out. I bet not one woman can explain why that is.

[@wj1915]

Bc men are known to love more Anglo looking appearing women and We women accept and love our black men. Self hate vs self love. Gottit???

[@ms.a806]

She loves the image she sees in the mirror and that is reflected in her choice of men, which is a great thing.

[@paulrevere1479]

@@wj1915 Don’t got it. You made zero sense.

[@paulrevere1479]

@@ms.a806 All black women are dark? I didn’t know that

[@phenomenaleverywhere4919]

she's dark ... she wants her reflection.... men who say they want light -skinned are responding to white or light being more beautiful/better. that is colorism. wanting an image that looks like you is not.

[@fireindahole857]

You better try to make it work with those kids father

[@JDMHaze]

She's too good for that comment that's why she's upping the price she made the requirementshere that she clearly admits she didn't make for those guys

[@jaeshasway]

Kendra can you do an episode where you explain the logistics of your show? I don’t understand why so many people complain about people who are simply explaining their likes and desires so people watching (who may be interested) will know. I’m not quite sure why that’s so hard for people to understand. Especially when they likely have long dating laundry lists of their own. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@droosyg252]

You are right. I just started watching Kendra a few days ago. It is baffling to me why the KS worshipping, bitter types spend so much time on this platform, in the comments. They constantly complain, yet they remain on here, on every single video I’ve viewed and their constant mantra is holding women accountable. Absolutely mind boggling!

[@marcusgurley9495]

Something went down for her ex-husband to just leave his kids for 5 damn years and 2 other relationships die as well. She’s hiding something…

[@kkv6124]

I was thinking the same thing 🤔.

[@jones2277]

men leave all the time. it could be as simple as he found a younger woman.

[@jennevamadison3803]

She said she reached out to him after 5 years. I wonder if she withheld her children from their father until she got tired of doing it alone. A deadbeat is a deadbeat and if he didn't want anything to do with his kids her reaching out to co-parent would have returned void. Oh she never said she was married to their father. I think Kendra should consider going deeper. Just because she said she was married doesn't mean she was married to her children's father.

[@pmb7927]

Kendra ask her: what type of man are you looking for? She said somebody that's a provider, secure, knows what he wants. Kendra asked her what's a provider to you. She said some thank can take care of home. than Kendra asked her have you ever had that? She said no 2:38 than later on in the interview Kendra ask her: they man do you want to date do you attract and she says ," I do." 10:04 which version is the truth? Pay attention to Kendra facial expressions after she says I do. Kendra recognized that she was lying and you could see how irritated Kendra was after she said I do..

[@zerandrianmorris]

It was sad when she said her name and Kendra said “Girl do you have a nickname”. As someone with a big name, it feels really dehumanizing for people to not even try to learn our NAME. And immediately want something easier for you. Our name. Not something arbitrary. But ones name. A core identity. 💔💔

[@thelovelykimmi7920]

Nicknames are still names and part of your identity. It’s a short show and to have many guests waiting, it’s sometimes nice to get the introduction and on to the important questions

[@NoFaceINoCase]

My guy…as someone with a long name as well..you’re way too emotional.

[@SoFLaZ06]

Blame your parents

[@sodvine3486]

@@SoFLaZ06 😂😂😂😂😂😂....spot on

[@naysaynetwork5271]

Go cry somewhere else

[@MalevolentElephant]

One of your best interviews

[@tmcurly]

No one is calling out the elephant in the room? First, Kendra should stop throwing around the word 'beautiful' to everyone. Second she said she is looking for a 'PROVIDER MALE' high enough earner who is a 10 (tall, dark and handsome) yet she is about average and does not want anymore kids?? This is delusion at best. I HAVE EXPENSIVE TASTE and I am African? Well so am I . African men who are 10's don't want women with kids and they usually like to have their own kinds hahaha!!

[@colbalt95]

@@tmcurly ax

[@cjdiva6440]

These men are weird... too many are commenting “what does it benefit them to be with a woman these days...” they need to be asking themselves if they really want a woman or they should just be with another man 🤷🏾‍♀️honestly...

[@og_mante5138]

S.I.G.N. Language lol

[@gregoryhyman4621]

Interesting thought: can you answer the question? It would be insightful to those with the question.

[@salutemimi81]

I was thinking the same thing But in the way that they act as if they are the man she's looking for They are just as miserable as they claim women are And I'm pretty sure majority are single and don't have the answers either but won't admit it

[@cjdiva6440]

@@salutemimi81 exactly... or if they aren’t saying this then they’re being sassy and extra trying to argue with and compete with women it’s very weird and cringy lol

[@user-gt1kd9rv1w]

That’s literally not what they said. This woman has 2 children, wants what every woman wants that have a competitive advantage over her, she doesn’t want anymore kids (she’s nuts) her child’s father is JUST now stepping up (I hope she put him on child support) so whomever she’s with might be picking up the slack of those children. And she talking bout “I have expensive taste” sis do you have expensive value? She sounds spoiled but didn’t say anything of value she would offer a man. All she said was she’s “strong, work hard” she sound like the man! Lmao men don’t want that! Only thing she said that’s sellable is “she keeps her body tight & no drama”. No drama but your baby daddy just started doing his fatherly duties?? Girl you need to re-evaluate what men want and what more you can offer reasonably!

[@leramfreeman2950]

Notice every time a female says they own their own business, or they're an entrepreneur, the host doesn't make them elaborate. When a man says the same thing, they have to write a book on what they do. SMH

[@Only1Dizzle]

FACTS.

[@IAMGROOT4EVA]

I think it's because men are so adamant that, "Men don't care about your career or how much money you make". Seems like a time waster to ask that question if it's not going to be recognized

[@FaithandNova]

I notice that also, if Kendra asks the men to clarify she has to asks the women also

[@hotboiii_ced215]

She’s biased towards women in that regard. The men damn near have to post his resume smh

[@aponteaida913]

At least we know she doesn't have anything solid as KS would say and she wants a man to provide. Let's pray for her.

[@eon001]

I aint mad at this one. Solid discussion. I would advise Kendra to give ladies the stats on men that that earn 6 figures. Kendra did a great job in this though, but it drives the point home when you actually see the data.

[@Epsilon514]

Can't that would destroy their Disney fantasy / Santa Claus wish list in what they want in a man with THEIR value significantly diminished because of their kids and extra weight

[@arkitekbeatzify]

If dust can settle, so can you 🤣🤣🤣

[@brandonmoss7976]

I think you should copyright that 👍🤠

[@antoniotula262]

Oh damm!!!🚫🐼🐼

[@jonathanjacobs5783]

Hahahahahahahahahahaha.. fire!!! Im hurt!! Hahahahahahahah

[@jessicamartin2242]

🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂

[@LadyK007]

😂😂😂

[@nialove8222]

Good luck finding what you "Want" it's a needle in a haystack here in Rva 😳😶😂 Fyi people make time for what they want no excuses..

[@jermaineburgess3767]

Good point that guy wasn't into her

[@nialove8222]

@@jermaineburgess3767 🎯💯

[@sakpase88]

True

[@vernonu7314]

Clients and customers dictate your schedule.

[@nialove8222]

@@vernonu7314 People still make time if that person mean something to them.

[@whatyousaywhatihear9858]

She is tired of paying all these bills. He must pay these bills for this household. Why does a man have to share his 100K to be in your life? She has to come before your money no matter what.

[@hollywoodcutz9713]

That's that Africa shit...I cant imagine how much her family cries for her help

[@PrimetimeMusiq]

So she wants a tall dark and handsome 6 figure guy to marry her and raise her two kids but he cant get a kid out of her or even discipline her own kids???? WTF The delusion is real with this one. She also expects a person who works alot to find time for her and also be monogamous??? No logic

[@BigBrotherGnE]

She is so cute! I do wish her the utmost happiness and hope she finds someone who complements her.

[@mobetta6408]

A baby pit bull is cute too. Until he grows up and turns on you.

[@marcyscloset6835]

@@mobetta6408 Betta male, weak AF

[@officialbrothernu]

Why would any man sign up for this ? They are no incentives. She actually raised her price higher after age and kids❌❌❌❌

[@NextCelebrity]

You are correct brotha! She has absolute delusions! She isn’t an asset to a High Value Man! There is no incentives here, sounds like debt on top of building on another man’s legacy! The proof isn’t in this pudding, she needs to come back down to earth.

[@officialbrothernu]

@@NextCelebrity 🤘🏾

[@C_CZ2]

Black high value - lets not pretend that BM have the same high value status and beliefs as white and asian men.

[@officialbrothernu]

@@C_CZ2 I’m a millionaire 😎 I earn more annually than most white and most Asian men . I’m 35 and I haven’t hit my peak 🤘🏾. Another thing, white not Asian men are willing to take care of a single black mom.

[@C_CZ2]

@@officialbrothernu Do you honestly think being a millionaire makes you a high value man?. Let me tell you White and Asian men who are wealthy do not have this mentality.

[@JDMHaze]

once she said "entrepreneur" I knew where this was going, everyone who says that starts talking about 100K man And starts going down their Santa list

[@kayee7679]

😎

[@jonathanjacobs5783]

Hahahahah.. we can all have dreams..

[@missjoy6685]

You ain’t neva lied!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@JDMHaze]

@@jonathanjacobs5783 correct, and disney shall fulfill them

[@JDMHaze]

@@missjoy6685 never fails

[@kiesha2k11]

She talk about “real” to much. Yet she deprived her children of THEIR father for 5 years. And you know it was her because she said SHE called him. Something about a woman who puts her feelings before her childrens feelings, just don’t sit right.

[@jaelee6390]

That's why we smash and dash on god lol 😆💯

[@marcyscloset6835]

Do you know her ? Lol how can you assume that. Are you jealous cause she was married and you have multiple baby daddy

[@kiesha2k11]

@@marcyscloset6835 I don’t even have kids 😂😂 goofy🤡 You ever heard of ACTIVE LISTENING? You should try it. You see how fine I am bitch of course I have a man 😭

[@lilsnoopp6268]

37 yrs Old, 2 kids and wants 100k, these woman are beyond crazy. they need therapy

[@belizegal29]

She’s crazy, the only “relationship” she was in was the one she created in her own mind. The man was long gone before Valentines and kept up less than minimal contact. Good on Kendra for asking her to further explain her bullshit. She projects her insecurities by proclaiming “there are no good men.” whilst acknowledging the hand in which she plays in dating. Within the first few minutes of listening to her, I see why her marriage didn’t work. She is seriously annoying.

[@otrebla8944]

Most men are not going to plan a Valentine's Day event for a single mom. Also, Valentine's Day is a couple's holiday; she could have set a Valentine's event for the man she was talking to. Valentine's Day is not just for the woman.

[@JDMHaze]

THANKKK YOUUUUU... Women tend to have a very liberal interpretation of what a relationship is these prolonged booty calls are not relationships

[@solodolo304]

Yeah...She is delusional af and blaming the fellas for living in LaLa Land.

[@indigoGoddess7]

I'm glad someone said it. If she wants effective communication then she needed to effectively communicate with him about what she likes, desires and what her values are. She loves VDay, but expected him to do all of the work?

[@Yobachi2007]

Wow, you came for her neck, lol. I agree that there was no relationship, she and the dude were just screwing and going out from time to time over an ongoing basis. But I wasn't coming in today to go as hard on a sista as you, you saw more issue then I did. 😄

[@AB-vb4sv]

Essentially she wants men to pay more for her and the kids she didn’t require the actual father to do. Ok, got it. I wonder if a man can have excuses…” I was young, I needed to grow” to explain their choices. No, we cant😂. Coming in with two liabilities . I can respect women who say “I want 250k plus”, and position themselves to get it without having baggage.

[@tiffanyrena]

👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@Missmewbs]

Children are not liabilities, nor are they baggage. And she said she can provide for her children herself. So would the new man really be providing?

[@Jame6999]

@@Missmewbsthey are liabilities to the man.

[@Missmewbs]

@@Jame6999 So your children who you created are or will be liabilities and burdens to you? Children carry our legacies. When you have a responsible woman, they raise children the way they are suppose to be raised whether the children are yours or not. Further, career women are contributing financially just as much as men. So the burden is just not on the man. The same children you view as liabilities often become responsible, productive and successful adults, who want to take care of their parents. I have seen children financially support their parents even when their parents are not old enough to retire. These same children care for their parents when they age and can no longer care for themselves. Many children are assessts to their parents. So no they are not baggage, liabilities, or burdens.

[@Jame6999]

@@Missmewbs to non biological father it is a liability. A man should NEVER raise children that are not his. Unless under certain conditions. I will agree he should

[@MsPrice-pn2py]

*Whew child🤦‍♀️ ladies if you make 60k and the guy makes 60k **-that equals 120k-** TOTAL As a couple. Women are killing themselves with these unrealistic financial expectations. For example. I'm a Teacher who makes a measily 55k married to the Fed Ex man @65k. Our home was 320k. Never would of qualified without him, y'all gotta learn basic math and taxes*

[@jermaineburgess3767]

👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾🤗 these people live of the real housewives and love and hip hop shit

[@GLDub]

Y’all making too much sense today

[@gregeisley88]

Facts!!

[@mrod87]

If a woman makes $200k is it suitable for her to look for a man who makes around the same?

[@KhariConception]

They not going to listen. People are out here thinking that half the population is making 100k and are actual business owners. We have too many car washes and sellers of beauty products in our community.

[@kondrasellers2740]

If he didn’t make time for her on Valentine’s Day he is not that in to her! Guys will go all out for women they really like! Women have to stop thinking just because they like someone that person likes them. Feelings and attractions have to be mutual in order for the relationship to work.

[@tashahall1855]

Exactly a man that doesn't even want to do something as simple as flowers n candy on valentines day can get tf on .

[@alaroche]

I don't go all out for my wife on valentines day because valentines day is a madeup stupid "holiday" and she's fine with that. Any woman who puts this much stock in a madeup fake holiday is for the streets.

[@kondrasellers2740]

@@alaroche I’m not saying that a man has go all out for Valentine’s Day you missed the whole point OMG the point I was making was that if he didn’t acknowledge her for Valentine’s Day but sent a text was because he wasn’t that into her most men know that Valentine’s Day means something to most women and for him not to even call her means he didn’t want her to see them as a real couple

[@tamunosakiwestscott-bloack2229]

Notice how she didn’t go Al ont for him either. Valentine is for the man and woman. It is a day for each other and not for her alone.

[@mahleta.kassie8193]

She looks 25 😍😍😍 nice bone structure

[@RockyMaiviaMiami]

Kendra is spot on. Real problem is women not knowing how rare these guys are or what they want & also not knowing the work it takes to keep one. U dont get many

[@thankthelord4536]

From what I understand there's only 10% of those men against 2 million women.

[@hollywoodcutz9713]

I'm still tryna figure out where this tall dark and handsome factory is.

[@RockyMaiviaMiami]

@@hollywoodcutz9713 it’s not a factory. It’s a fair grounds of carousels. 🎠 🎠🎠🎠.

[@stevenharris1460]

37 with 2 kids. You've got to provide for yourself at that stage.

[@Grizzle-Grizzle]

"You can't make this shyt up" K.S. (Rip)

[@Showbo252]

ANOTHER BASIC ASKING FOR A 100K LOL TOO FUNNY

[@pwrhitterp]

It’s crazy hearing these women talk on what they expect / demand from a man and what he can expect in return is extremely sad smh … they know damn well they wouldn’t want their sons accepting such a bad exchange

[@independ4416]

Lol, and she said it with a straight face! 🤣

[@noirefit5954]

She wasn’t bad. There’s men out here wanting women to accept the role of the man while he has 5 kids by 3 different women. She’s been married and lived life. Now if she were younger perhaps that would be a problem. But she’s a typical woman who’s been through life. That’s typical at her age

[@gravesg]

@@noirefit5954 yup, but if the man makes 100k a year, surely he can purchase something with lower miles and a few years newer, his money gotta get him something.

[@yahronisreal770]

THANK YOU!! THATS REAL TALK

[@noirefit5954]

@@gravesg let’s just hope it’s worth it. Not everything that glitters is gold. I don’t understand men that don’t like strippers/prostitutes, but on the same hand you think your money should buy you someone’s love. Leading with your money seems backwards to me

[@chaike9001]

Holy crap watching Kevin Samuels I over estimated the existence of these type of women and this show shines a light to this. This is ridiculous

[@IHB344]

That man was NOT her boyfriend.

[@crow2swann5]

Women really think that their situation is a good deal for men. You want a man to come in, pay %80 of your household bills, pay for your kids with another man, and he won't get any kids for himself. But she's the prize and not the man who will do all of these things.

[@09kenedy]

If you can’t afford it just hush 🤫

[@bomzylondon4966]

They don't think of the deal for the men. They lack empathy

[@ashleygordon4905]

And a lot of these beta men believe that a woman should be paying 50/50, be submissive to them, take care of most of the caregiving, and have a home cooked meal on the table for them when they come home from work which is laughable when they are not even in their masculine energy the men today are pieces of work too. But in regards to this lady she's just traditional and what she wants is actually obtainable if she is in fact possessing more feminine energy.

[@09kenedy]

@@bomzylondon4966 men actually take care of things instead of whining like a child about what they get for actually being a leader 🙄. Embarrassing

[@jermaineburgess3767]

Women are selfish and only do what's best for themselves

[@addiebrook2517]

Straight nose and full lips, looks young for her age. A mid incomed divorced man would be ideal for her.

[@bomzylondon4966]

Try telling her that

[@jermaineburgess3767]

She looking for the upper room 🤣

[@elijahleys2734]

Precisely, but her hypergamy won't allow her to see this. She is pretty and does seem cooperative and feminine. Nevertheless, why would a man making $100,000 a year or more marry her when he can have someone younger, fertile, childless, and without the baggage and drama.

[@Christopher0632]

Why would a middle income, divorced man be ideal? Most of them are paying some form of child support for their own kids. What makes you think he's willing (or even in the financial position) to take on 3 more additional people and cover the majority of expenses? Then he has to deal with the blatant disrespect we all know is going to happen because he doesn't make enough and she'll feel like she "settled' with an inferior man. This is a horrible deal for any man. Her best option is working it out with the man she laid down and had 2 kids with instead of leaving at the first sign of having to actually do some work on the relationship.

[@ItsmeCR-g8j]

Straight nose and full lips… 😒🤔😂

[@eon001]

If you trust me to be your husband, you have to trust me to be a father. I'm getting sick of this step daddy rules.

[@MalevolentElephant]

You can be a father without beating the shit out the kids. Negros gotta stop that foolishness it does more harm than good. Discipline isn’t just beating kids

[@user-gt1kd9rv1w]

Okayyy! Kendra turning into “Kevin Samuels lite” lmaooooo and I love it!! She gave extremely valuable advice!!

[@FaithandNova]

Kendra always gave some advice with certain ppl. Btw she's Kendra and Kevin was Kevin.

[@user-gt1kd9rv1w]

@@FaithandNova Please make sure your sentence is grammatically correct before you reply to me. You didn't even understand what I said, go on somewhere.

[@iriemo721]

She’s not Kevin lite. She’s 100 % Kendra. She gave the same degree of advice that she always gives when she deems appropriate. You Kevin Samuels kittens keep coming over here typing his name. This is not his platform. If you want to laud him go to his channel or go by his grave site and wait will he comes out and says something.

[@squeaky822]

@@iriemo721 Kevin Samuel’s kittens 😂😂😂😂😂

[@user-gt1kd9rv1w]

@@iriemo721 If you didn't have a stick up your butt you would realize its s joke. They have similar talking points which is fine b/c. they're both correct. I know that stick is pretty far but I promise its not that serious.

[@soulsupreme]

She’s always breaking up with men. She wants a top income earner to financially support her and those two kids. WTF?

[@AnnnnnaQ]

African daddies spoil their daughters. They make us believe that we should just sit back and look pretty while the man pays for everything....oh and we should pump out any baby he wants on demand. I know this first-hand...

[@BonchegoBonchego]

Go ahead Kendra. She speaking facts. A balanced opinion and a good one.

[@zukoher]

You're not together if you only get a text on Valentine's Day.

[@LadyK007]

🎯💯

[@arkitekbeatzify]

They really think someone wants to take care of their children. No ma'am. 💯

[@wizardofahhhhhhz]

Right. There is absolutely 0% benefit in taking care of someone else’s kids.

[@kaleenajean]

Lol Many who would my dear. Alottttt lol Because they usually have them as well. Grow up. Men like you usually don’t have a pot to piss in to even make the statement. There’s men with no kids who would. I see it all the time.

[@kaleenajean]

@@wizardofahhhhhhz the benefit would be those kids growing up and loving you and admiring you for stepping up like a man for them as a role model on the house. Which means they’ll always respect you for it. Believe me, I know.

[@aguy9071]

@@kaleenajean what you’re saying is true. But you can get all that stuff from your own children. So again, there’s not really a benefit compared to having your own

[@roneshajoy]

Men who make they type of money have standards more than likely they do not date single mothers

[@brandonbarnes8066]

It’s a no for meeeeee 🎉 😩😂 Gm Kendra G

[@milktart4591]

The lady is well spoken.

[@HautePinQ]

Kendra has repackaged a lot of Kevin Samuels’ messages in a way that is digestible to women, but the question is, will they be able to hold it down…

[@sagewilliams2449]

Because long distance doesn't work for you does not make it not a relationship

[@stackzdollaz9508]

Kendra gave amazing advice. I’m a perfect example. I wasn’t the man I am when me n my wife got together. We went through some things but were in a good place now.

[@ItsmeCR-g8j]

Awesome!! Wishing y’all many more years together

[@stackzdollaz9508]

@@ItsmeCR-g8j thank u.

[@coldheartedtruth1374]

Rofl, women really have to stop saying & thinking men are intimidated by women in ANY way lol. That just isn't true...

[@candycrusher2024]

You guys say ur not intimidated by anyone, but that's a lie.

[@stinkreezy2791]

@@candycrusher2024 what can make a man be intimidated by a women ?

[@coldheartedtruth1374]

@@candycrusher2024 ...Tell me then what it is that you seem to think intimidates men I'll wait. Men are not intimidated by anything a woman does. We are not the same & you are not a threat in any way. Men not liking something is not the same as being intimidated either.

[@phenomenaleverywhere4919]

same are.... a lot are...

[@stinkreezy2791]

@@phenomenaleverywhere4919 negative

[@R.Yvette.X.]

Adorable!! I wish you the best, Be Be!!

[@simonbell8957]

When you have divorce people on you should ask who filed for divorce. If I hit someone up, I would like to know if they are a fighter or a quitter. I'm sure I'm not the only one who thinks like that

[@FaithandNova]

Personally they already tell enough when the person hits them up they can ask than.

[@cemeciam.4019]

A lot times it’s not even about “quitting” it’s about self preservation especially if the relationship no longer serves you for the better good. Why would I hang on and my partner is not understanding? Let go, sometimes we hang on longer than need be. And that only breaks you down more. Fighting by yourself and you’ve explored every resource, therapy, family help… The only thing left is to give it to God and let go; rest assured He will take care of it.

[@christinesimpson304]

Umm.. you can't judge someone from that, you never know why divorce was filed, there can be very legitimate reasons

[@cemeciam.4019]

@@christinesimpson304 Exactly, to me that’s some reverse psychology BS. “Let me see how long I can drag an individual through hell… And if they don’t fight and lose their mind then they’re a quitter!” 🙄It’s silly, ladies and gents don’t allow a person to test you in that way. It’s manipulative and evil. Move on.

[@simonbell8957]

@@christinesimpson304 I agree. There can be valid reasons for a divorce. But in opinion overall that's not the case

[@lolabennett6587]

At 39 she needs to be flexible with her many, perfect requests!

[@MIA25NYC14]

Long distance relationships can work if two people are willing to commit with one another. In my current relationship, we were long distance for 4 years in the relationship, moved in together in year 5, also proposed 5 months later and have been married for almost 8 years. Relationship take commitment no matter where you live. My relationship is obviously better than women from my past that were in the same city.

[@amags4972]

2 beautiful women having a real conversation

[@4656superman]

Not real delusional BS

[@bomzylondon4966]

2 delusional woman having an unrealistic conversation. There, I fixed it for you. You're welcome.

[@amags4972]

@@4656superman 👍🏾

[@coolasice5622]

Both are average.

[@amags4972]

@@coolasice5622 good for you sir 👏🏾

[@barnyard4068]

Great Interview Kendra G!!¡

[@arshiealjohns931]

I like her she seems genuine in every way. I fit her entire criteria… Oh well I gave up on dating and all that comes with it 7 years ago. 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@franklinbrandon5283]

Agreed!!! Plus like myself you're probably way to busy to entertain a woman full-time.. I tell sistaz I only have 4 weekends a year to give any woman... Career demands all my time..

[@theobserver5600]

Please reach out to her🥺🥺🥺

[@evangeline1983]

I also live in Richmond, VA. Her issue will be finding the type of provider man and father figure she wants. Two kids under 13, and she doesn’t want more? That’s a hell of a commitment for a man.

[@jossangeles4011]

Maybe not for a man over 45 who may have already had his kids. Or have kids around the same age as hers (which is prevalent in high earning men who tend to have children later). Most of the high-earning men I know don't have kids until they are in their 30's.

[@squeaky822]

I’ve lived in Richmond for 12 years before I moved. Most men who make those types of figures are from out of town and most likely moved to Richmond for work. A lot of men I seen who were from Richmond were baby daddies with low ambition 😭

[@jmar385]

@@jossangeles4011 a man that’s older. Will want something younger 😂😂 than her age

[@teychancellor8756]

"I don't need you to take care of me and my children, just take care of the HOME." It continues, "I have an expensive taste. I don't expect you take pay for everything but the MAJORITY." Great deal guys. Hit her up! LOL

[@theyremovedmyaccount9158]

I moved to the next video as soon as she said that buffoonery...

[@LadyK007]

😂

[@meloran2571]

She wants a man who can provide for her and her kids. Dated a man who can provide for her and her kids but claim he works too hard and didn't have time for her lol. You can't win. But this shows that women really don't understand men. Dude more than likely had options and knew he didn't want anything serious with her but just kept her around for as long as he could. This is what you have to deal with when you want to go for a specific kind of man that every woman wants. To make things worse, she didn't want to compete. If he's that desirable, he probably had women asking him about hanging out on vday, while she's sitting there thinking she's special lol.

[@jaelee6390]

Smash and dash material fam on church lol ⛪😆💯

[@meloran2571]

@@jaelee6390 but she's so lost she thinks the guy was too busy with work lol

[@lisac12]

She seems like a nice lady but if I was a man that's not a good deal. He has to take care of your two kids and he can't get one from you if he doesn't have any yet. The handsome 100k man not dealing with that foolishness.

[@stinkreezy2791]

Exactly

[@jaelee6390]

It's a horrible deal on Allah 😆💯

[@royaltylordprinceshamiyah1704]

WOMEN WITH THIS SO CALLED LOOKS PREFERENCE IS A JOKE, YOU GET THE MAN YOU WANTED SO BAD THEN WITH A FEW YEARS TO A YEAR THE RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE IS DONE. LOOKS ARE VAIN, ITS THE SPIRIT & MENTAL OF THE THAT PERSON THATS IMPORTANT.

[@kalimt56]

So she wants a high value man that makes 100k with two kids so she can maintain her lifestyle. And she’s been in 2 back to back relationships after her divorce it seems like she needs therapy. She also lacks in self awareness and isn’t attracting the type of men she wants because she doesn’t know how to choose a man.

[@hotboiii_ced215]

Everything is right except she wasn’t in that Valentine’s Day relationship, guarantee she was a side chick

[@IronBronx]

So she wants a dude who makes exceptional money and still has all this free time for her? Unrealistic expectations 101

[@antoniotula262]

Probably not a good idea to date a woman named Misandry...or anything sounding like it!

[@JustBeYouTy]

You maybe on to something. Lol…most money making men work 🥴

[@IronBronx]

@@JustBeYouTy Right. And I don't to come off too harsh because she seems to have a nice personality, but you can't have it both ways with certain situations.

[@Dee--Jay]

I don't know. I believe the man she is asking for isn't going to really talk to her long term. Again, she wants a man who has a lot of options and a man with a lot of options isn't going to choose to be with her... It would only be a fling until something better comes around. Even though she is nice looking and have a very pleasant spirit, that guy is going to get a better bang for his buck by dating a different type of. A lot of these women are better off staying married but they think the grass is greener on the other side when it's not

[@Zest4God]

Kendra does an excellent job with this format, all the imitators of her style are average at best!!

[@Darksecret_23]

Nice try, not funny at all.

[@Nallisn]

@@Darksecret_23 but it’s true, doesn’t need to be funny.

[@Zest4God]

@@Darksecret_23 I wasn’t trying to be funny but thank you for your comment. You are a superhero!

[@zimzimma1901]

Facts! Kendra is the originator. Imitation is the highest form of flattery!

[@Zest4God]

@@zimzimma1901 absolutely! I respect the way she has built her platform brick by brick! she is herself and not on KZbin shopping for a personality to assume. Plus, there is good faith to her tone when she speaks to men. Unlike her imitators you do not get the impression she is trying to guzump the female viewers (who are genuinely looking for a match) and low key scam/lie to the male viewers by flirting with them and presenting herself as the best woman on Earth. The imitators create an aura where the hunt seems like the “privilege” to speak and be flirted with by them is the ultimate accomplishment. I am sure many of the men leave feeling dissatisfied with anyone they may meet as a consequence of the exposure. Kendra is feminine yet knows how and where to draw the line and roots for connections to actually take place! Kendra is a true professional and she is for the people !!

[@toonreaction]

Valentine's Day isn't just for women

[@LadyK007]

Kendra’s advice here🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@KezzyBoo]

She seems nice with a nice head on her shoulders. Definitely needs to change her approach when lookin for suitors, which she recognizes. Best wishes to her on her journey to finding love.

[@aguy9071]

Maybe she should get back with her husband. Seems simpler

[@coolasice5622]

She’s definitely not looking for love.

[@vernonu7314]

Virgins get suitors (or at least childless women).

[@vernonu7314]

@@aguy9071 Of course she should. And be a better wife.

[@jaelee6390]

She better be happy with a smash and dash lol on church ⛪😆🤙

[@djTorchLive]

She's Pretty and I like her energy. She seems intelligent but is easily fooled. Kendra, amazing interview, you're blowing away the competition. As long as people continue to get together because of superficial reasons and lust, bad matches will continue to happen. I would suggest anyone reading this is to bring a notebook to your first date and make sure you're making a clear decision. It sounds stupid and will mess up the vibe up at least you won't waste time and/or make kids with people you don't even like. Yes, you can "lust" for someone but not like them at all and for long lasting relationships that "like" factor is "kinda" important.

[@kmonger]

She look like 2pac with wig on to me.

[@shortandcute6113]

Kendra can you please ask all entrepreneurs what their business is specifically. Inquiring minds want to know!

[@ItsmeCR-g8j]

Yes!!! Too many are entrepreneurs and multiple successful business owners.

[@yesterdayseyes]

they are usually bring scammed in an MLM

[@dialac1]

I’d like to meet the men who take these women seriously. No disrespect

[@fitzgeraldsemelfort3938]

A quality man!

[@abdoulkonate1704]

Africa is continent if I'm not mistaking. Why not just say the country you come from which is Ghana or Nigeria

[@brandonmoss7976]

I'm glad you said something because I was thinking the same thing! I'm not from Africa but if I was from say Ghana or Senegal I would make it known and not just generalized the entire continent 😳

[@tamunosakiwestscott-bloack2229]

She seems Sierra Leonian to me.

[@HighMaintenanceMinimalist]

@@tamunosakiwestscott-bloack2229 She's Ivorian.

[@johnnze2550]

She does not want anymore children, but he needs to make $100k or more and provide the majority of the expenses for her and her 2 children from another man. That man gets most of the bills but won't get a child from her, won't be able to whupp her kids cos she is co-parenting with their father. He gets a woman with several ex's who requires him to provide the majority of his resources for her and her children. What a deal? No, thanks.

[@thekaerichtexas]

As a person who grew up with a step dad and a real dad....I can tell u my step dad went way too far with discipline into abuse and my dad was so gentle and I never needed him to discipline me bc I wasn't a bad kid. I wish my mom would have protected me more and set boundaries with the discipline from my step dad. I absolutely agree with her about protecting her kids. Some men don't know how to discipline kids, I believe that should be the moms job or the parent who is more gentle. I've been on that receiving end as a kid who suffered abuse bc mom mom was too scared and submissive and didn't stand up for me. My kids aren't ur punching bag just bc u pay some bills and get the big piece of chicken. Naw we ain't doing that

[@newbeginnings3603]

Thank you for explaining that. Everybody on complaining that they can't deal with woman who won't let you discipline the children. She said she doesn't mind scolding. What she means by that is correcting or reprimanding. I am married to my sons father and he doesn't like to do the whipping. I never told him he can't. He just prefers not to, so I handle the whipping, but it's not the first result of punishment.

[@champagneprincess4]

i’m sorry about that, i hope you have healed or will heal in the future

[@nadob2d481]

Same thing with me. Exactly same story down to the big piece of chicken. I still have resentment myself.

[@Telady]

What you said is so important and thank you. Where I work many mom's are not being cared for because of them not protecting their kids.

[@slinkiegirl2001]

i read this step daddy abuse all the time at the end of the day you are not his seed he is with the mum first and you are just her kid he does not feel any kind of way for you your mom should have stamped her authority when it came to the discipline of you

[@Only1Dizzle]

"I have expensive taste." Translation: I'm materialistic and superficial. Also, broke up with a man because he didn't celebrate Valentine's Day. She's 37. If she doesn't change her ways FAST she's going to be single for a long time and possibly forever. The door closes more and more as you get older. Then, you are either forced to change or you die alone as they say.

[@FaithandNova]

Not necessarily, she's African. If you've been around Africans you'd understand.