Army Girl Wants a Man with Money!!! Tired of Men not being to keep up with her!

32 Years Old Army Girl She wants a guy with money! He doesn’t have to be rich however and she willing to contribute financially to the relationship! But she wants to move around the way she wants to move so the guy gotta be able to keep up!

[@reggiesaidit513]

Dear young men , allow women to be themselves. If they say that they want a man that has money. And you feel like they are putting money over values . Just don’t date them . There is no reason to put her down or talk about her . She is entitled to her preference, even if you don’t agree with it

[@ej1767]

Big facts

[@lauryjerry1566]

You are so right

[@Vanessa-qo9oj]

U mean like men put looks over value, when it comes to a women. Smh If u broke, just say u broke. Men look for a =Beautiful woman (& it sucks for the ugly women) Women look for = man with money (& it sucks for the broke men)🤷🏾‍♀️ it’s life , it’s not fair. Just get ur $ up!

[@craigsims1189]

Yes but brothers on average make more money... So it's curious why they don't find them

[@ItzTjones7334]

faX

[@burgernfries9720]

I’m ex military. I ain’t mad at her, but I am sneaking candy and sodas from the dollar store into the movies

[@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302]

Lol rite

[@HumptyMcFly]

Heck yeah. Who enjoys buying a $2 bag of popcorn for $25. I look favorably on the woman who would put snacks in her purse to bring into the theater. That shhh is sexy af.

[@deejai1173]

😂😂😂 I hear you… it’s not about not being able to afford it all the time. It’s whether or not you WANT to spend the money.

[@deejai1173]

@@HumptyMcFly lol f😂😂l

[@angelc5435]

@@HumptyMcFly hahaha ..my husband loves to stuff my purse with snacks… too funny

[@lat7324]

she’s not asking for a person in the entertainment industry. A nurse, plumber, electrician, truck driver can make 120,000 +

[@Jijuane]

even though those are POTENTIALLY high earning salaries they demand a lot of time and attention to the craft.

[@CrossfireGamingNetwork]

They don't have the kind of free time she wants

[@himmie1]

A nurse or a plumber making that moneybis working a lot of hours

[@HighMaintenanceMinimalist]

@@himmie1 I don't know about plumbers, but nurses typically work a standard 40 hour work week or 3 days/week (without overtime).

[@dellchapo17]

You’ll most definitely have to put in a lot of ot to make over 120 thousand or more bcuz the stated average for 40 hrs a week makes about 60-80 thousand and that’s majority of states, prbl all but Cali & that goes for a Rn with a BSN, plumber and electrician

[@sakbar958]

I see her requests as very reasonable. She is 32, childless, smart, beautiful, with a pleasant personality.

[@kemetazubuike8958]

She’s dated dusties and looks out of shape. Plus she’s in her 30s. We see different things.

[@Unborn-Stillborn]

She's old ... used .... and delusional ... I have money but wouldn't touch a digger like this ...

[@gailainsley6939]

@@kemetazubuike8958 Who cares about her age lol. She still looks good

[@kemetazubuike8958]

@@gailainsley6939 Ya'll really dont/care know what men like. And yall will pay the price with unfulfilled lives

[@mdotbeedot]

@Gail Ainsley Those of us in the market of dating women care about her age lol. Also, those that can meet her financial requirements can get the younger version of her.

[@ladylucia85]

She was awesome. I love that she stated her mortgage is paid, no car note or major debt. That contributes greatly to her level of disposable income. Most Americans, in general, don't manage their money well. Sometimes it's not necessarily the man's income level, but debt: income ratio.

[@3089280288]

She's her own man then. The military also helped

[@myownboss1]

Very well said! The title was kinda click bait-ish…. As an older brotha making about 150 a year who has paid off his house and has no debt, I total understand her. She is successful and just don’t want ‘broke ass ni&&@$’…. Nothing wrong with her at all. If you can’t keep up, don’t trash her, try to be like her or move on!

[@sebastianandrew9077]

How can you criticize a woman who doesn’t want to deal with a broke dude? But she is wrong? I don’t think so….

[@TheWholeWorld1]

..but she “needs help” with her (maybe) $200k tuition.. 😂. The Army has numerous programs (especially for officers) that would pay a significant chunk of her tuition, but she wants a man to do it for her. 🤣 a whole clown!

[@craxyman9025]

I don't get being angry bu it's not attractive for her to lead with that, especiallywith so much emphasis. Its like a man bringing up sex when asked what he wants in a woman.

[@digigum5996]

Same way women criticize men for having standards at all

[@GoddessBlueYozakura7]

The ones attacking her are losers hoping to find a woman that they can lay upon and use her house, her car and her resources as they feel like they're a catch for being black, having a peen and breathing. One minute they tell women to 'choose better" and then try to shame her for trying to do exactly that. One minute it's 'build with a brotha" but when she ends up hitching her carriage to a con artist that INTENTIONALLY knocks her up with a bastard or two and that preaches "building" but wants her to do all of the work, then she " SHOULD HAVE CHOSEN BETTER". It's the weird circular gas lighting for me that's irritating.

[@sidneywilder2731]

@@GoddessBlueYozakura7 that's the type of guys you like

[@darkseidofapokolips9796]

I feel her actually… she’s working hard af, she deserves a good dude that works just as hard

[@3089280288]

She's 32

[@blackslav1497]

simpopolos

[@SFP0181]

"It will be nice to get married but not a requirement " that one line is the reason our community is still at the bottom

[@belizesuperstar]

In other words, she's saying that she's just looking to kick it until she reaches "her" goals. She has blinders on for the benefit of herself and not for the benefit of a unit/family. Unfortunately, She doesn't have true family values.

[@pwrhitterp]

😂😂 you still think there’s a blk community smh

[@eugenecaldwell9619]

You don't have to get married to be successful in life. It's not that serious.

[@noahknight4039]

@@eugenecaldwell9619 You don’t but a lack of marriage and insane rate of single mothers in our community has lead to nothing good. And I get it, like the business said the majority of people act like their millionaires who haven’t made their millions yet but in reality as men and women get older the job and career become less fulfilling and ultimately feels like a pointless existence without family.

[@denfolo5224]

I currently live in a European country with one of the lowest marriage rates in the entire world. This = tons of single mothers everywhere. The country is fine, exceptional childcare and maternal support. Safe as a country can be. The problem with your community is not the lack of marriages; it is really elsewhere. I'm from an African country. Generally speaking, we marry. But we still have galaxies of community issues.

[@pjgreene4118]

I understand exactly where she is coming from I have dated women that are financial burdens and yes it is stressful.

[@coffeeloverbabe2603]

You’re a woman too ?

[@selfmaderish4690]

It can happen to anyone who dates someone who is struggling

[@pjgreene4118]

@@coffeeloverbabe2603 no I'm a man but I don't want to date anymore women that are struggling

[@xo_dre0728]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@SweetUareDesi]

@@pjgreene4118 but you took her paradise, did she ask for it back. TF. Stfu

[@theoriginalkilox7592]

You don't need someone to complete you. You only need someone to accept you completely

[@DrMathOfficial]

Sound poetic...but it's just poetic false bullshit. Males and females are LITERALLY incomplete beings, literally puzzle pieces, literally are an exact match of 2 puzzle pieces, where the females lacks in areas, the male is capable, and where the male lacks the female is capable. Alone, a male and female is LITERALLY incomplete. It's no coincidence that it takes 1 incomplete male and 1 incomplete female to create another human being/ baby. People need to wake up and accept reality.

[@joeroot9142]

@@DrMathOfficial if that’s how you speak you will always be empty and lonely in your head smh.

[@DrMathOfficial]

@@joeroot9142 You're free to remain in your delusional thinking, just don't expect me and others to join you in them, or you guarantee yourself sadness. Good luck and God bless.

[@karimbennett5651]

@@DrMathOfficial , I wouldn’t say wanting to be “accepted completely” is delusional, it just lacks nuance.

[@DrMathOfficial]

@@karimbennett5651 That wasn't the delusional part. The delusional part is thinking that finding and having a mate of the opposite sex doesn't complete you, and thinking you don't need someone else to complete you. With that said, the "accepted completely" part isn't delusional, but it's close. It's illogical. Because no one will nor CAN accept someone else completely. That's akin to the myth of "unconditional love". Even God doesn't have unconditional love, if you choose to reject him, he turns you over to what you do choose, and allows you to send yourself to hell. Our parents, don't and can't fully accept us, there is something we all can do that will result in our parents never speaking to us again. Both things mentioned, not needing someone to complete you, and wanting to find someone that fully accepts you, are the wrong things to be thinking about and seeking. There's other things that you SHOULD be seeking and developing regarding relationships. Things that actually matter, things that are relevant, things that actually contribute to having and maintaining a real, healthy, life-long relationship.

[@emrosreviews]

Man, I ain't struggling by far, but I'm GONNA sneak my own snacks in the movie theater, damnit..🤣😂

[@scroogemcduckrich9705]

no class

[@daphuckuwant]

I take whole meals!🤣🤣

[@lisac12]

Charlotte in the house🎉 She seems like a real sweetheart. She has great energy. Wishing her luck🤞🏾

[@southerngent2011]

To a woman she seems like a "sweetheart", to a man with or without resources her ego and attitude is toxic. Point blank there are better looking women that are less "established" that don't have all of the "requirements" just to bust a nut.

[@shakal92ice]

Lol

[@fangiscool1]

Definitely not sweet, but tries to come off that way. She accidentally exposed herself when she was talking about height and said you can't distinguish a man under 5'10" from a woman next to her

[@neworleansindianwells1821]

Right!!! She seems sooo cool!! I love her personality!!!!!

[@liljerry496]

I can see differently 🧐….

[@kasunapunk4632]

Her wants and needs are her own and ain’t gonna judge that but she seemed real and sweet so I hope she finds what she wants!!

[@Gree1060]

She seemed obnoxious and condescending.

[@videoconcierge]

@@Gree1060 Agreed.

[@nylotus]

@@Gree1060 which is the response from most broke men who can't level up.

[@Gree1060]

@@nylotus You and her sound like people that sleep with broke men then complain about it.

[@DrMathOfficial]

If that's your assessment, then you are a TERRIBLE judge of character.

[@NurseMomHopelessromantic]

She was accepted to PA school, she states she is going to be a Physician Associate…I am a Registered Nurse and I HOPE she meant Physician Assistant…😩♥️

[@justcallmebon2684]

I think nowadays they’re trying to change what they are called because they feel “assistant “ is demeaning and doesn’t encompass all they do. I’m an anesthesiologist and our CRNAs now want to be called nurse anesthesiologist instead of anesthetist 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@destro73]

It's Physician Assistant (PA)

[@ageofaquarius8309]

😂😂

[@princessg4100]

OMG I was thinking that too lol

[@NurseMomHopelessromantic]

@@princessg4100 🤔😂😂

[@dollhouseq1530]

I've always been told that you are who you hang around. This is VERY much true! Compatibility doesn't just depend on chemistry and love. It also includes similarities in drive. She seems very ambituous and pushes herself to achieve financial stability for herself. I don't blame her for wanting a man with the same. She tried dating men with less drive and stability and said the insecurities he had caused issues later on. This is very true as well. If a man feels unaccomplished compared to his woman he can become demeaning based on his own insecurities.

[@Precious.Marketing]

She talkin' about "just $120K would be enough" like the majority of men make that kinda money.

[@zacharyrogerssr9331]

It's probably 1k people in the military that make that and they are in the Pentagon

[@idontplaygames3k296]

She has an higher chance of finding a man with equal pay (im guessing 80,000) and just combining money and then flipping a portion of that through an investment or possible business in a few years and be chilling with the profit. The man honestly should just need to be financially secure.

[@willsky2605]

@@TheWeeklyWithKiki doesn't matter about DMV! 10% of men in America makes 100k

[@willsky2605]

@@TheWeeklyWithKiki??

[@dailymadness9129]

Alot of white men do...

[@rani.andretti]

Nothing she said was even unrealistic, the standards are really THAT low. It's almost like you need more qualifications to get a job at McDonalds than you need to be someone's life partner. Really, the only people mad at her are the ones who don't fit the bill, and that bill is pretty darn reasonable mind you.

[@truckinron1929]

But she's still single for a reason, no man wants to be or marry a woman who only cares about trips in her 30s

[@Wesphoenix0]

So you say that a 120k is reasonable expectation ?

[@sharonhicks-jones5471]

Amen & if that's not you.....Don't be angry & bitter just move on......the negativity is unreal.

[@tiptoe7317]

@@sharonhicks-jones5471 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤐🤐🤐

[@willsky2605]

I make great money being a journeymen sheet metal worker and worker overtime (double pay) and I swing trade in the stock market. I still sneak shit into the movies, why pay 5$ for shit you can get for 1$? Theses women are just delusional. All they know is how to spend money! That's why black people can't build generational wealth because all black women know how to do is spend!

[@headphonesrock6]

I like her she keeps it G, she hates poverty.

[@alexanderdean1313]

Ma’am, the men you want have OPTIONS! - Kevin Samuels

[@johnhenry5071]

The fact that she is in the army and has it found a good man yet with Access to thousands of men is a huge red flag

[@eduzulu494]

People want what they want and sometimes it's not what you need. Seened it all my 13 Yrs in the Army as an Officer (Ret.). I am noticing that most women now a days refuse to team up with you to create the lifestyle that they say they want. Women and People are savage when it comes to your life experiences. Fellas get on your square and focus on producing. Men's value increase over time as long as you are on your square. Fellas be about your business and focus on your purpose and business; You can get a 25-30 Yrs old into your 40s, 50s, 60s and whatnot if you put in the work to handle your business!!!

[@TheJosiahrosette]

Officers are not allowed to date enlisted. There are not that many eligible officers for her date within the army

[@Chill_Son]

Dating in the military is a cesspool within itself lmao

[@Floridabred]

@@Chill_Son lol exactly

[@goodseed1024]

@@TheJosiahrosette true. Approximately 11% of the Army are Black officers. Then, you’d have to subtract the married ones, the divorced ones with alimony/child support issues, the white ones, the gay ones and the women. Now, we’re down to probably less than one percent. Good luck to her.

[@patriciamartin5865]

I love my Virgo sister ~ her personality is 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@cassondrad2280]

Loving this young lady. Best of Luck! You will do well...

[@SomechicknameAshley]

I like her, hell, she's the type of girl I'd want as a good friend because she seems like we'd have some good modern convos while neither of us are worried about affording our drinks lol

[@plantbasedunicorn7995]

That’s what I’m sitting here thinking lol we share some similar stories too 😩🤣😭🥴🤸🏾‍♀️🙃

[@craxyman9025]

Maybe she needs a woman.

[@MADAMB100]

@@craxyman9025 No, she just needs to expand her dating pool to men outside of the black community.

[@craxyman9025]

@@MADAMB100 Your silly comment made me rewatch this video and literally no where did she ever say she only dates BM or that she never dated outside her race smh. You divestors are like a disease with intentions of ruining BM and blck relationships in general and are no different from any non blk racial supremacist.

[@kayeb5953]

Plpp

[@db7234]

These blk men are HOT in these comments. Y’all triggered, lol. This woman lowered her standards, competed & still ended up with drama. She loves to travel & that cost money. Only broke & intimidated men in the comments have a problem with her.

[@arighteousname5882]

Well to be fair she didnt seem to be able to keep a stable relationship with dudes that were above her financially as well as professionally either so what's your excuse for that then? It's not that men have a problem with her but their seems to be some red flags and concerns regarding her and it doesnt necessarily mean the are "broke or intimidated ". It just might be her and her lifestyle being an officer in the Army.🤷🏾‍♂️ Just saying.

[@Black_Samurai-fish]

Nah. They’re just being real. She’s not going to find a husband. She’s too old and doesn’t look good enough. There’s no reason for a wealthy man to pick her.

[@wardiya3arbiya]

They are called Kevin's kittens and they are mad hot! 🤣😂

[@arighteousname5882]

@@wardiya3arbiya who's kevin?

[@db7234]

@A Righteous Name PLEASE time stamp the red flags. Let me guess, when she mentioned she has a passport? Jet skiing? Having her own home, has a career & loved to travel. Are those the red flags you speak of??? 🤣🤣🤣

[@Miss-Ann-Thrope]

I like her. She knows what she wants and is to the point.

[@lordofafrica]

An officer with no discipline

[@dr.ottooctavius1810]

You peep game too

[@ChristopherInTexas]

The sad thing is putting money above integrity. Sharing a wealthy man but a "broke" man has to be a saint. Smh

[@juniorleslie4804]

Women hypocrisy is going to be their downfall.

[@MrsNicolas]

Because that would be a double negative. Not only is the man broke, but he isn't loyal either. At least if you going to be a broke bum, then be loyal to the woman who is possibly keeping him from freezing to death in the winter. 🙄 If that's to much to ask for, then broke dudes can stay with their family members if they haven't already burn bridges with them.

[@nylotus]

And why can't you have both Integrity and financial successes. Are you saying black men can only achieve one of those? I own two businesses and take 6 months off at a time. I'm tired of black men who can't keep up. We don't need to travel constantly but if you can't afford to do much your priority shouldn't be a relationship. There's nothing wrong with a successful, independent woman wanting someone to match what she brings to the table. She's not asking for a sugar daddy. She's asking for her equal. Funny how people see that as a negative.

[@lovinmycurvescurls3842]

@@nylotus It is funny isn't it???

[@dantan1249]

She already has her own money so why not just look for the perfect guy otherwise? Within reason of course. A 50k dude would love to have her. She need a P.E. Teacher or something. Stop going for struggling finance gurus

[@coolieward3255]

this is the 1st caller that I actually like

[@cassondrad2280]

Girl, I hear ya. Date an older guy whose children are grown and out of the house and he's retired and loves to travel....That's an ideal man for you...

[@kamariasia]

That's a good point but she sounds like she wasn't kids so that'll only work if he's willing to have more.

[@fantasyvsreality1013]

@cassondrad2280 No older men. She will get stuck as a hospice wife 🤦🤬

[@karlbennett1886]

She will do well, just keep your Jody count down young lady and you will definitely get the man of your dreams!

[@bertinag]

Some of y'all coming at her for wanting to match energy??? She said multiple times that she can pay for herself and has no problem with that, but she wants a man who can pay for himself and keep up. You date on your level, or should. I get what's she's saying. It's not about being rich, but about being in a position where everything isn't a struggle. There's nothing wrong with a woman or man wanting to date someone who isn't in a lot of debt, who needs to borrow money, who can't afford occasional luxuries, who has children, etc. My husband and I match energy and it really makes life a little easier concerning bills, traveling, savings, etc. I even helped him with obtaining an even better income. We aren't wealthy, but we travel, go out every weekend, save fir certain things, and aren't in debt. People always tell women to be realistic, well for her lifestyle, she is. Also, let me say this: just because you might not travel in a circle or be around men or women who make over a certain amount, doesn't mean they don't exist. And just because a woman wants a man who can pay his own way, doesn't make her a goldigger.

[@willsky2605]

Then why ain't she taken?

[@bertinag]

@@willsky2605 probably because she's waiting for the right package. You can either settle or not. If you choose not to, it might take longer to find the person. I'll never deny that. However, there are men that will meet, come close to, or exceed your expectations and/or standards. Most men who have a problem are those who don't. And that goes for women too. Sometimes waiting is the best option. I can speak for myself. I waited to get married and I feel honored and blessed that he matches my energy across the board.

[@karimbennett5651]

Kenyatta Washington, Everything you say is reasonable, except it’s missing the part where she is about to incur a $200K debt that she is expecting a future man to help pay for. People need to be ready to pay their own debts.

[@bertinag]

@@karimbennett5651 I can agree with that.

[@joejones6867]

10% of men make 120 or more

[@opharahanglin9624]

She need a white, Indian or Chinese man. Not black.

[@zziz6137]

Why you say that

[@cewilliamsable]

Guys who make $200k can get a less damaged, more fit, less confrontational, much younger version with less expectations. Any man with any business sense won't make this deal.

[@blackgirlblue1795]

Do you make 200k? 150k? 100k? STOP SPEAKING FOR SUCCESSFUL MEN. You dont know how they think, bc if you did you'd be successful too.

[@joeblow6384]

@@blackgirlblue1795 ......she's on a youtube dating show for a reason lol. I don't ever see any white versions of these youtube dating shows.

[@cewilliamsable]

@@blackgirlblue1795 😂🤣😂🤣 Yes.

[@SugedaBoss1]

@@blackgirlblue1795 Im part of the successful men that make that typa money… And I think I speak collectively for most if not all of us, we dont want her…

[@Sunshine44488]

@@SugedaBoss1 You only speak for yourself. Shut up with that. The men with your logic are annoying and that’s why you get used for money. Young women tolerate old(er) men for money rather than love. What a waste.

[@Shadow-nz1dm]

This lady started with "i want a dude with money" then a few minutes later she just wants a loyal dude..we all want love baby..

[@luckylu9780]

She very level headed she did everything in the right order and keep your standards you are rare that age no kidds great credit grate job feminine ....YOU GO GIRL!!

[@ammabthedigitallynomadic3385]

Virgos are usually people pleasing sweethearts…. Too sweet for their own good.

[@JWC24.7]

FINALLY, someone of quality! 😁

[@juniorleslie4804]

She is honest, she will choose money over loyalty. They do have their priorities straight. That is why I want a virtuous woman, they are clearly worth more than rubies.

[@blahblahblah3722]

But that doesn't mean you can be broke.

[@SuperTruthful]

what's a virtuous woman to you?

[@nwatson2773]

@@SuperTruthful Love doesn't pay bills. My father had a house/land and a car when he married my mother. Those are the basics. If you want 50/50, just say that!

[@SuperTruthful]

@@nwatson2773 Point out to me where i wrote that love pays the bills. Good for your day and your mom. That's them. As a woman i have my own money, i own my own place and i have money in the bank and i'm making money. So i'm not looking for a man to take care of me. I learned long ago having your own money is power. If your dad kicked your mom to the curb what was she going to do? And as i see it. I live in NYC working to upper middle class families, Asians, blacks and whites the woman and the man are working cuz it's expensive to live here and if you want a decent life you need 2 paychecks. so, 50/50 doesn't bother me. And yes, i believe that woman she get off her ass and work.

[@SuperTruthful]

@@nwatson2773 I'll be waiting for you to point out where i wrote love pays the bills.

[@deepsista36]

She’s definitely a favorite! Her energy, personality, heart! Hella dope. Good luck to her!

[@MediumValueMan]

I bet HVM are just dying to get on her program and meet her expectations /s

[@FlowerGrl20]

I couldn’t afford to go on jet skis until I got married. My husband and I paid for each other together!

[@pamzjamz1]

I love her. Ambitious, beautiful, smart, real, funny as hell. I’ll wait for the comments dogging her out.

[@internationalmedia3070]

Ladies, you dont have the same options at 32 as you had at 22. Yall get with these time wasters and they hang you out to dry. And with a military career, its going to be even harder. Young women must develop the intuitiveness to recognize time wasters dudes, and have the confidence to abort the mission b4 its too late.

[@mickeyhenderson1720]

I so agree

[@ourtruth216]

I will admit I waisted my time with men I didn’t like at 22 even now 29 I’m still not that interested. She doesn’t have children and neither do I. The options are still out there, but she has to date outside of her community, to find someone on her level.

[@willsky2605]

@@ourtruth216 buy a dog

[@greatness2work818]

@@ourtruth216 many men feel the same way about women. What makes women think someone actually wants them outside of one thing ?

[@greatness2work818]

@@ourtruth216 when you speak “someone on her level”. There are many well qualified men inside her community, maybe she hasn’t humble herself enough to look in the mirror. Her materialstic nature was an instant turnoff, and as I said before many men have those same options as women, she just meeting guys who thinks she is good to sleep with but not be with. Footnote: she is military as a career which is a whole different ballgame in itself. I have a lot of family in military , it ain’t what you think as for dating and relationships are concerned

[@kennettabradford6566]

She's very pretty. And has good energy. She will find her soul mate

[@gilbertnicholas1582]

I think her money requirement and spending habits are holding her back She's not bad looking and should've gotten scooped up already

[@dantan1249]

I hate to say it but I agree. Like, a man needs to make 50k but women like her could kinda get a pretty good guy if she just didn’t have too high of money requirements, also, get out of those middle states and go to the coast. Lol.

[@Fabrizio7171]

Lmao thats the ironic part.talking about not wanting struggle love but is struggling to maintain that lifestyle herself.

[@PriviaJones]

@@dantan1249 North Carolina is NOT a middle state NC is on the east coast. Charlotte is only a couple of hours from the beach🙄

[@madisonoasley7603]

Women can easily just say that many men are single because of their beauty and body shape requirement. Women want what they want, men want what they want.

[@powerbad696]

That is very unusual in the military,female,been in 10 yrs never married.And a major. But,it's better for her tho,no kids or husband to log around from base-to base.

[@spb8039]

She makes sense. If she's cleared out her debt, has seen the world, is financially independent and has no children, why should she settle for less?

[@Joey42383]

And you’ll also have to be okay with her being deployed wherever the military tells her to go. Also, she’s in NC making money as a Major in the Army and she is single. She better have money.

[@Akachi-sb8dp]

As an Army veteran, and having most of the men in my family being ex military, i would not recommend dating her unless you are Ex-military and understand the culture. Her being a major, she is used to leading. So her best match is a lt colonel on up who is retired. Because he out ranks her.

[@brittneysperspective8433]

@14:20 she is articulating this sooooo well and i agree with everything she is saying! I hope men are listening to her, and not just turned off, because she’s saying how important money is. IT IS IMPORTANT. And like she said, she HAS tried to date broke men that needed her help. She did it, and realized it isnt worth it. It’s waaayyyyy too much trouble. Far more than it’s worth. If the choice is that, or be alone, many of us are choosing to be alone. Because dating a broke man is THAT BAD. Most average black women have had this experience, and men telling us were delusional for not accepting it over loneliness is still crazy to us. 😂 I totally understand when a man says he does NOT want to deal with a woman who has three baby daddies. I will never argue that. It’s far more trouble than it’s probably worth. You have my support. But the emotional, financial and physical labor a woman endures dating a broke man is the equivalent. Believe me. It’s unbearable. A man needs to be able to take care of himself, and his responsibilities with ease. He needs to be prepared and in full adult mode, Without my help. THEN we can talk. If you are dating me with the expectation of me helping you in any kind of way. You’re the wrong guy for me. It’s not that i can’t help you. I’m like her, my shit is all the way together. I can help you. I don’t want to deal with the fall out of having to help a man. There is a lot that comes with that. And heaven forbid you have a kid by an unstable man who needs your help. Then it gets 10xs worse. Lord have mercy

[@MediumValueMan]

Only broke men expect you to date broke men. Good luck!

[@DaddyFatSzack]

Love what you said. Any guy who disagrees is probably over-emotional or broke (or both).

[@olafriday]

I want to like your comment a million times. So true.

[@millyonair9225]

Cool. You should only date the guys you like.

[@percyastronautstatus.8780]

My only question is ...WHAT WILL SHE DO if I get sick and can't provide for a few ......months ???.Will she LEAVE ME

[@nlm3223]

This woman is being unrealistic. She’s asking for a lot of things most men can’t provide and the ones that can, probably wouldn’t want someone that puts their career first.

[@cherylvaughn2215]

Woman comes on show. Woman begs for a man. Woman insults over 90% of all men. Woman wonders why she's sharing the other 10% of men. Lmao!! You broads are hilarious.

[@justcallmebon2684]

I can guarantee that she’s rather be alone than be with those 90%. Literally solitude and dying with cats who eat your face after you’ve passed is better than dealing with a dusty.

[@emrosreviews]

I swear, Cheryl!!💯😂🤣

[@markesblack]

Yeahs it it is crazy.

[@Fabrizio7171]

@@justcallmebon2684 thats the thing . Imagine if all men would stop dealing with women cause we realize we all cant have that centerfold who fucks like a porn star and cleans the house like a mexican with no papers. Sounds ridiculous right?

[@DrMathOfficial]

@@justcallmebon2684 From your comment, you think that the other 90+% of males are Dusty(s). That adds to the illogical, irrational and delusional thinking of females like you and the female in the video.

[@HighMaintenanceMinimalist]

This woman really is not asking for much. People are so used to bars being on the ground that they act like a woman like this is asking for the sun, moon and stars. I guess being financially secure and drama free is too much to ask for these days.

[@blackiam6527]

The problem is not the men it’s her choice of men and apparently the men with money don’t seem to want her .

[@jayschipp7529]

They see the train wreck from a mile away.

[@BlackThoughtsTV]

No one wants a career military woman. They are excellent at being masculine. I have one in my family they have great lives but non existent relationships

[@blahblahblah3722]

I have plenty in my family, officers, too and they are all married and been married for years...

[@lonestar199]

@@blahblahblah3722 but do they move around all the time. After awhile it's gonna get annoying.

[@Nic-zs9yf]

I have 2 in my family as well, also married. You bm have a problem with generalizing what other men want based off your own preferences. Every man aint you love.

[@Ria.x8889]

Well it’s true for me… I’m in the military for 14 years and single AF🤦🏾‍♀️🥴😂

[@Jason-nb7tr]

She is very down to earth and established, definitely deserve a good man..

[@LAQuin2288]

No she doesn’t. She Army. Meaning she is surrounded by men. If she can’t find one in that environment then there is a reason for that.

[@MrBrannew20]

@@LAQuin2288 facts

[@michaelwillis2394]

She worships at the foot of the altar of the bag 💰

[@moehammondmedia]

She’s pretty , intelligent and seems very nice. In my opinion she is a catch. 👍🏾👍🏾

[@beautiful_wonderfullymade]

Whew the ghetto I sure looked up her ex who stole that money 🍵 on another note she’s super cute and has a great personality!

[@BlaqB0mbshell]

Me too! Davon Bailey. We too damn nosy. Saw he changed his business name and started selling $20 face masks in 2020 chile…😂😂

[@rqtek4god]

She said u gotta be happy and bald, can’t wear hats everyday. And then said she loves lace fronts and wears them everyday 🤔🤔😤😤

[@felixortiz1386]

Ain't no man waiting around for her to become a doctor and to be a 1star general. When is he supposed going to have time with her.

[@MSMISSY-ov6mc]

Who doesn't like sneaking snacks into the movies.

[@laj4186]

Does she want a travel companion or a husband? Sounds fun!

[@lesdawn7314]

Both

[@kelliejones752]

@Jay Strauss You must have missed the part where she said she can pay her own way, she wants the man to be able to pay his, to be able to go when it's time to go.

[@julliettebarton7370]

You cannot afford her, so don't.🤭🤬

[@deloresbutler4352]

Yessss , "Black girls rock." Keep us posted.

[@maloishwilson]

She is a very nice lady, but a guy with money will not date her.

[@yoanneM]

or Smash and pass like the guy on the news

[@zziz6137]

That's not true, she got over 200 dm's after being on this show and I am pretty sure some of those guys have money and want to date her

[@M.ShahPeace]

If no one has been married in anyone's family, I'm Running 🏃🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤣

[@nwatson2773]

She will find a well-paid man if she dates interracially! One thing is certain: Based on these comments; most BM will always find a way to blame, shame, and degrade a BW, no matter what!

[@sarrsarr5541]

The man should be careful with the woman who focus on money or material this relationship will never last long

[@TruthbTold777]

Providing is a man's job and women are attracted to stability, safety and comfort that money can provide

[@eduzulu494]

@@TruthbTold777What's a woman's job?

[@johnbrowntheprophet]

Kendra, we all saw you posting pics on IG of your last boyfriend, Jasen. Don’t front like you don’t do that mess when you have already done it before.

[@williamjohns8624]

It blows my mind how some women would allow a pair of heels keep them from getting a possible good man.

[@nunyabusiness1317]

So glad I got out the army. Got officers like this in leadership positions

[@GAPOWERade]

The scenarios that she provided as an example for a man with money speaks more to her choices then the men. Bringing pop corn to a movie, a ticket to Puerto Rico, child support due… What type of guys are you selecting sis?

[@reggiefurnace4819]

Someone get that dog ready!! 😆

[@rvandoom]

This girl is not unreasonable! She is awesome!!! Why can’t I meet a woman like this!????? I make over 100k no little kids , I go on vacation to the Caribbean 2 times a year but all the women I meet always want help!!!! Sorry tho you have to share me! Lol

[@abdulabdul-qg3mc]

Any guy bashing is only intimidated. She’s relatively young (Black American dating standard), no kids, settled financially. She’s a great catch. I’d definitely go for her, if I was single

[@joec3703]

That's because you never served in the military. Every man who served in the military knows she's not a wife type.

[@joec3703]

@NK215 Got nothing to do with her being black, it has to do with her being in the military. Since you've never served and you're a woman you don't have a clue what I'm talking about. But the men who served/serve they know. Stop crying.

[@arighteousname5882]

@@joec3703 Exactly bro. She a Major with 10 years in and still single never married? Huge red flags. Civilian dudes not really checking for military women like that any ways.

[@arighteousname5882]

@NK215 you've obviously never been in the military to know what men think about women in the military like this women. Women in her position in the military tend to come with alot of baggage and attitude problems. It's not like she not an attractive women because she is cute and that's what is concerning to alot of dudes especially if the served in the military as well. No body is bashing anyone. You wouldnt get it unless you've served yourself. If you know you know.

[@Willy_Jean]

I think she is awesome for being 32, beautiful with no kids. But its a red flag anytime a woman says "men are intimidated" "can't handle a read woman" or "men can't keep up". Why would a man making the money she requires deal with that if he don't have to lol. Secondly, everything she's is describing is about her and what she wants to do, which makes sense because woman are the majority consumers. Men who build themselves to financial stability is so they can protect and provide. But it seems at 32 family is not a priority. She said she want 2 kids, but the clock is ticking

[@dustymcdust825]

I don't think that she's asking for a lot to ask that you be able to take trips and don't need to sneak snacks into the theater. That is absolutely pathetic. And you don't need to make $200k to do that.

[@manb4war]

Funny thing, there are actually a lot of red flags here if you know how to recognize them. This woman is very difficult to get along with even though she seems very pleasant. First, she kept saying, "When I was young...I been through that" those are the words of someone who's seen her share of men and relationships. Another thing she said was, "If you don't have it...I'm going, etc;" Those are the words of a very selfish person. There aren't very many men out here who aren't supporting other people, family members, adult children,etc;. There may be times when yes, you don't have the money to go to Puerto Rico for a luxury vacation because your grandmother needs a new air conditioner, your daughter needs new tires while she's attending college. A 32 year old with no children can go when she wants because she hasn't taken on any adult responsibilities. She's living her life, serving herself only. This would be a bad choice for a wife or even girlfriend.

[@veepveep]

You sound crazy as hell 😂

[@manb4war]

@@veepveep And you sound like that hurt your feelings 🤣

[@marcyscloset6835]

HAHAHAH just say you broke ...

[@myvalentine9590]

Don’t understand why women want to be posted…. Why you want public counting your moves.. move in silence ladies

[@cochice1977]

Women want that high earner but none of them can seem to find it 🤔

[@473sgpm2]

I’m glad that she’s doing Kendra Cam’s now. Good job Kendra👌🏾

[@dowardwashington9958]

As a Veteran I've met alot of women like this who join the military and 1 day wake up ⏰ tired of standing duty and being in the military as a whole and decides they want to be someone else's dependent.

[@powerbad696]

Doward,I'm a vet too,male tho,got tired of taking/giving orders,going to the field,sleeping on cots or sleeping bags.

[@lillies2011]

Except that’s the complete opposite of what she said. Don’t make 2 plus 2 5 smh

[@BillionaireMusk]

She seems like she is going to find herself a good wife one day. Can somebody remind me what the man she traps is going to get bc I missed that part. She did not speak about men in any positive way, we are just a tool to get her what she wants. She’s everything to herself and of no value to anyone else.

[@darnelljefferson8617]

She may be pleasant but feel like she has to be a man in the relationship. She had some dating disasters but isn’t she also held accountable for her choices? Remember as pleasant as she is, the first thing she said she want a RICH MAN not a GOOD MAN.

[@SweetUareDesi]

She means generous

[@mda0214]

Lol you must be broke

[@kennettabradford6566]

You're not listening. She said that you don't have to be rich and she doesn't want to be the man. You must be broke 🙄🙄🙄🙄

[@sashabrooks3855]

i love her and her energy :) hope she found someone by now !!!

[@jameshunt1461]

She tripping.. I make good money and I’m still not buying snacks at the theater lol

[@3089280288]

Kevin would have roasted her. The military gave her lots of benefits. She's 32, in the danger zone, wants to jet anytime with the 5% of men making the 6 figures. If she wants children, she had better rush because she won't have the time to jet off.

[@thankthelord4536]

I see desperation in this woman. It's no way I'm paying for baby mamas in gifts and money just to keep peace. 🙄

[@lexxwheel]

She lit!!! I like her! I hope she gets what she wants!

[@blahblahblah3722]

There's a missing asterisk in this conversation. *Black men. This conversation is about black men only. Ladies, date out. Japanese men are different than black men, as well as Chinese, White, Cuban men, etc. All rich men aren't the same...and stop believing the lie that black women have to settle for struggle love. This woman said nothing wrong

[@lovinmycurvescurls3842]

Yeah cuz its the BLK men that got an issue.....🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

[@cherylvaughn2215]

If none black rich men were so available, then why are there soo many UNMARRIED none black women? Shouldn't all the rich none black men be snatched up already? I dunno...just a thought.

[@RobB678-x7k]

Yea get your swirl on girls 👍🏾

[@ExtinctionAgenda-bv7sd]

Once again, if you WORK for someone else you REALLY do NOT have ANY money.

[@Pragmatist1st]

As long as casual sex is the rule, monogamy is gonna be hard to come by for men of a certain age. As well, you can have your preferences but don’t be mad if you don’t find it. Don’t lambaste men because you can’t find this person.

[@shayj5124]

Girl do you actually think he will admit that he has baby mama drama? Good luck.

[@princexavier6925]

So she chose a crook and cheat and didn't vet them better and now it's all men's fault 🤔

[@Alexandria.Washington]

She should stop telling that story because it exposes her bad character judgment.

[@AgainstTheGrain1991]

Kendra is dope! Need more happy easy going ppl like her. However, I was surprised by the amount of makeup she uses to brighten her face. This is the first time I seen her true brown color. Embrace your natural beauty ladies 🙌🏾

[@nylotus]

I own two businesses and take 6 months off at a time. I'm tired of black men who can't keep up. We don't need to travel constantly but if you can't afford to do much your priority shouldn't be a relationship. There's nothing wrong with a successful, independent woman wanting someone to match what she brings to the table. She's not asking for a sugar daddy. She's asking for her equal. Funny how people see that as a negative.

[@Alpha_apex]

Your full of it. Stop lying for the net. Coming from a actual business owner, if your taking 6 months off at a time. Your business isnt making much money.

[@SuperTruthful]

That's the truth. I am retired and i spend 3 months traveling a year. One of my passions. I can afford to do what i want when i want and i need that matched cuz i will never ever take care of a able bodied man.

[@tyroniussupapookiemcleroy1403]

Maybe you're not worth it. Who wanna waste money on a mediocre woman?

[@SuperTruthful]

@@tyroniussupapookiemcleroy1403 She has her own money. who says she mediocre? You? What do you have to offer a woman some money and a penis? That's worthless.

[@tyroniussupapookiemcleroy1403]

@@SuperTruthful mediocre people get mediocre results. All the baddies get scooped up as soon as possible because the men they want see them as valuable. Baddies ain't 32 asking single women for dating advice

[@Onlycanbeme1]

If a woman feels as though because she is taller confused as to who the man is, that's her priority and her priority only. Move past her because she's confused about how others may perceive the relationship.

[@laj4186]

She is funny. Marriage not necessary but wants children......Need an update 6 months.....

[@JDMHaze]

Here's the update she has dogs now

[@DrMathOfficial]

No need for an update. With that information alone, we ALREADY KNOW the future! She will just continue to being used for sex, and will become another toxic "baby momma". From the info you just listed alone, we know this is what will happen. Unless or until this woman magically wakes up from her delusion and insanity and that is extremely unlikely.

[@davidjemison9480]

These women are kidding themselves on getting the top 10% of men because they have options.

[@southerngent2011]

Why is Kendra ALWAYS SINGLE giving advice?

[@KB3.0]

Same reason why Kevin is single giving advice. Y’all eating this stuff up. This just entertainment to me.

[@dantan1249]

@@KB3.0 exactly. They got people believing they are miserable. 😂

[@kellykell8439]

There's nothing wrong with women (especially black women) wanting a man with money. The issue that some men see is that women will look for men with money while totally ignoring other important things that a good man should have such as integrity.