Khiav Raw Txoj Kev Hlub. 5/6/24

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[@nengthao8318]

Qhov zoo ces peb cov ua niam ua txiv yuav tau yoog tej me nyuam thiab lees txais tus neeg lawv xaiv rau lawv lub neej. Vim peb nyob luag ntuj lawm yuav tau yoog luag txuj. Txawm tej tub tej ntxhais nyiam yuav haiv neeg twg los tsuav yog yuav tus tsim txiaj tus coj zoo ces peb yuav tau lees txais hlub kom sib npaug. Tsuas xyeej tsam tau tus phem xwb tsis nyeej tus zoo li nawb.

[@nyc594]

Very sad but also beautiful. Sad for the loss of time. Beautiful for fighting for wanting a life with someone you love and finishing your education.

[@amyyang9118]

I can so relate to your story, but i didn't ever get the chance to see my father again. He past while i was away and i blame myself for his death. He didn't get sick until i left. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@alexisandfriends9537]

Don’t fault your parents for their valid concerns. By running away, you proved that you weren’t mature enough to make the right decision. You graduated from high school, signed up for college and got kicked out. Why didn’t you attend class, graduate, get a job, move out with your boyfriend the right way? I’m sure your parents would’ve accepted your boyfriend if you were making good life decisions. Your end message shows that being a doctor does not make you a well rounded person. Don’t encourage parents to let their kids date whomever. You should’ve encouraged parents to have healthy discussions with their kids and set boundaries. Life does stop because you can’t have a boyfriend in high school 😂.

[@chiayang1329]

Hmong parents are different from other parents but they do raised some great kids

[@kong7535]

Your father became sick because he loved you so much. At least you know that he loved you with all his heart. It’s very normal for parents to be concerned about who their children chooses to love but I would be heartbroken if my child ran away and never wrote me a letter or phoned me. You can’t live with regrets though. You can only learn from your doings and move forward. Rip to your dad. Now you can focus on your mom and the relationship you have with your siblings.

[@beevang8107]

I am sure ur parents meant everything for good. The chance of a black partner will love u for a long time is slim thats why they want to stop u. Ur partner is the most loving but ur parents didnt know that so they r taking by chance. Now u have children u surely will understand.

[@Jinjinjin88]

Not being a racist but yes statistically they r worry she going to be a baby mama

[@zoolikuv]

Another DR. story lol... Keep them coming

[@Neegsiabzoo2024]

😂

[@waatchdogs6184]

😂😂😂 seriously

[@meeyang8411]

Lady, the route you took is unacceptable to any loving parents. Your degrees cannot erase your wrongs. It’s easy to say this and that when you were the one who pulled the trigger. You will understand better when one day you wear your parents’ shoes.

[@paolee2730]

Is there ever a time, we as the children, ever have a choice, but living out our parents selfish desires?

[@tongher8912]

Koj mas tsim nyog kawg. Tsim nyog yug tshaj plaws li.

[@ljvue]

Everybody is a supervisor. Everybody is a doctor. Everybody is a monster. Everybody is beautiful.

[@chiayang1329]

I’m not talking another person

[@ashton8878]

FR

[@missysmart8620]

I guess in this generation, you married who you love and happy you didn’t waste your life away. Only thing you did wrong was you did not let your parents know where you are and that you are doing ok.

[@tengher6111]

It's good to see she man up to her decision but it's too late for all the time lost. It's sad but at the same time, she did it to herself regardless of how her life turned out. She'll never be able to tell her dad she loves him. That's on her. It's her life and she has to deal with it. She just happened to be one of the fortunate ones. Many hmong children in the last 30 years caused their parents to die due to stress and depression. Disobedient children never see their parents suffer. Don't ever go back to your family when you leave and F up. Deal with your own F up and don't become a burden to your family. If your were able to leave, stay gone. Many go back home with their children or divorced and expect the parents or family to just forgive and forget. Get real!!

[@menavue9633]

Thank you for sharing. ❤ Sorry u and ur family suffered a lot.

[@colleenchan9872]

I’m sorry you loss your beloved father but at least you done something good to your father on the end of his life!

[@nouxiong3620]

Tsis hais TUB lo NTXHIAS kev hlub peb yeej muaj cai xaiv BUT running away is wrong from all directions. Kuv ma yog ib tug ntxhais tawv tshajli hais txog ntawm kuv txoj kev hlub but leaving my parents and siblings never crossed mind. You are a very siab ntawv2 individual. May your father rest in peace.

[@lovinguniversity216]

You could always ask your RELATIVES just saying.

[@gehthao8554]

Cov tsis mloog niam mloog txiv lus es tsuas niam tau Doctor ciaj nom ciaj tswv xwb os lub caij no na . Cas kuv laug niam laug txiv li no tsis pom ib tug li es yos leeg twg na

[@Shoua608]

What you did to your parents is sad. Your parents loved you with their lives, especially your father. He was heartbroken. Glad you’re happy.

[@Lisa_X5]

You got lucky, you got the good kind of khej.

[@Love98fire]

This story is sad i cried on your parents behalf. All your parents only want the best for you. What’s said is you ran away instead of trying to fix the problem or make them understand.

[@dohcvtecboy]

My only sister did the same thing, but didn't turn out good for her. Didn't get to spend time with my dad as much b4 my dad passed.

[@chiayang1329]

Noo most people w think too highly of themselves they at ly think about their parents and the parents feelings about the child’s love interest

[@user-ek2oy3mj2t]

Npam kj vim Kuv I’m kj txiv hlub kj heev

[@BANNA_007-r6q]

Girl your mom n dad just want you to have a good life and take care of them when they older thats it LOVE your MOM N DAD

[@Saema-pt3rv]

I would like to know more on social media about companies recruiting elderly care workers.

[@baovang9629]

Me ntxhais kj lub neej ces yg Tim Tim neej nrub nrab xwb tiag.

[@chiayang1329]

This story mako me a better person i know I’m not smart or a doctor but at least I didn’t gave my phone the bad news I am a proud dumb Hmong daughter

[@suabyitsab-dm4rw]

Mi tais aw kv yuav ua li cas es kv thiaj li tiv tauj tau kj ho kv lub neej nyuaj ua luaj li ho ntshe kv yuav tuag li ho

[@baocha2824]

I'm glad you made a good future with your family, but my heart breaks for your parents because you never called or visited during all those years. You will forever live with that regret.

[@poggersrus1802]

Sister, thank you for sharing your story. My story is similar to yours except I kept going back to visit my mom eventually she accepted my husband before she passed away many years later. Rip mom. As for you please continue to cherish and love your mom.

[@flryprn745]

That’s bad!

[@vuevang5634]

Yog any one meet k dub lawm ces yeej tsis rob los rau ghov hi dhaus lawm

[@Money-q9n]

I hoped you're happy that you did that to your own father who loved you so much. Is it worth it? What a waste of his love for you. I feel bad for him.

[@ntxawmxyooj6595]

Niag maum dev cas koj tseem muaj ntsej muag tuaj tham rua ntiaj teb mloog thiab.koj ua ua koj txiv tuag kiag lawm ntshai zoo koj siab kawg pob . Qho koj hluas hluas los koj muaj muaj mob ko na twb yog koj txiv tseg ib sab khau rau koj rau lawm ntag ma

[@myjob25]

Tshaj qhov xav heev dhau

[@chouyang2955]

Koj mus yuav hom neeg ntawv lawm ces koj tus mus yuav hom neeg ntawv los koj yeej txaus siab

[@miabhlub63]

I don't understand Hmong people when you're broke as hell and still want a 50k-100k funeral.

[@hmoobliscalifornia714]

The BBC is a powerful thing. 😅😅😅😅

[@Happy-Camper05]

This so called doctor went to the hospital asking for her dad’s info. You are a doctor. You should know about HIPAA. Smdh. This is why I can’t be a story teller. I have questions lol.

[@kouavang5928]

Tsis yog kev hlub, yog loj Lee's xwb. Txhob muab kev hlub los dag rau yus tus kheej.

[@Hosugar]

Story has been told b 4

[@user-yc9cn1vz2d]

Don't preach what you did not learn..take accountability for ur actions.

[@solomoua5520]

Easy to say than done lady

[@kvang1045]

I get it sometime you have to follow your heart but to stay away from your parents for 10+ years? Bc they disapprove your love? And to disappear from the face of the earth from the ones that gave life to you shows how ungrateful you were. Esp when u know how much they loved you. Smh Parents will sometime disapprove of a choice you make, whether its a career, a relationship etc, but u keep in touch and fight it out. Not run off for 10+ yrs and act as if they dont exist. You worry them to death. Never make your parents drop a tear. Im glad things worked out for u at the end with your love life but now i suppose you'll just have to live with the sorrows that you caused for ur dad. Spent time wisely with ur mom as she is the only parent you have left.

[@mabsuakhab9577]

Thaum piav lawm thov tsis txhob tso suab nkauj lawm puas tau vim noog tau meem txom heev

[@ibobpebplaub9354]

90% is a doctor story. Wonder if these people are just saying that to justify themselves to make them better.

[@lubsiabzooyang2806]

I believe this is a Dog-ter not a Doctor

[@baovang9629]

Ua li CAs kj g tis kj tus ntxhais lub npe Hu li DUB YAV THIAJ HAIB. Lub npe no hush li haib hos

[@MCL99]

I believe the reason both your kidney shut down is because you married someone out of your size...Dr. or not you will live a short live since you only share one of your husband kidney. Enjoy your life as much as you can. My auntie only live up to 15yr after she got kidney surgery!

[@HER5585]

Our parents raised by old traditions....Thats why our generation is so fucked...up. I get it......Pressure is something we all need to understand and work with. I have 4 boys....I brought my kids up with their happiness...NoT MINES....They all graduated college with Master.....I get it but this generation is changing

[@pajzoo2254]

You say your parent love you the most until they became sick but my question is why you never contact them???

[@BANNA_007-r6q]

The music at the beginning TOO SAD 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

[@chiayang1329]

No matter how many time I’ve listened to this story I feel like this person cannot coconut me to s think of her as a lady I could admire her because how she was only think of herself I feel like her father gave up on her when she left her parents suffered behind no wonder her dad suffered many health isst I don’t want to say anything bad about her but the way I see this is that it is her life and I’m in no position to within to judge her but she want to let others hear about her personal life but this is open n opportunities for me to Ss something I don’t think her parents deserve this I feel bad for them but shy make it sounds like it’s a like lesson for others to learn I mean I didn’t lay down with her and her boyfriendhmmm nah

[@chiayang1329]

This lady sounds like everyone should praised her cause she followed her heart and we all should take her and her boyfriend out to celebrate I do have black friends but that doesn’t mean I’m gonna lay down with one I know the pain will cause my parents and how this gonna make they feel around their friends and at the end her dad went to the grave without h alploized or hearin her apology her mother might’ve forgiven her but the father probably went to the gav feeling the same as the day she told tho nice story but I have to say something I will say thumbs down

[@Neegsiabzoo2024]

Ua cas cov neeg nyob hauj cov stories no ma yog DOCTORS xwb!! Unbelievable 😂😁

[@Tay3257]

Ib co yog " Dov Taw " xwb os.

[@hlubforlife]

I think they're just Dr. TOM😂

[@drive8892]

Zaj no ces tus pog no yog dr nqus xas xwb.

[@Lisa_X5]

@@Tay3257😂😅

[@Lisa_X5]

@@hlubforlife😂😂😂😂😂

[@walee8530]

vim koj mus yuav hom neeg nqaij tawv dub uas tsis muaj neeg nyiam koj niam koj txiv thiaj tsis nyiam xwb os.

[@luvinniceboxers]

Fake story! Lady, if you were a real MD doc, you'd know that you can't demand the hospital to give out personal information because of HIPPA. LOL!!! 😂

[@kaliaxiong9962]

Koj niag txiv koj niam nkawv yeej tua tsis tau ib zaug li os es khiav ua dab tsi na! Yuav kiag ces lawv ua tsis tau li cas lawm xwb mos!! Tsam no ces txhob nug nug tias vim li cas yus yeej ev rawv ntawm yus nraub qaum lawm os txawm nug los yeej tim yus tsis nug los yeej tim yus xwb hos.

[@user-ck2vk9sf1s]

Puas muaj tseeb os ? Los yog dag kom neeg zoo tau tswv yim khiav ua laib xwb , tsi yog zoo tswv yim nawb

[@MissPeachie]

Why didn’t you at least contact your parents to let them know that you were alive? They were worried sick that something bad happened to you. I have a daughter too so I know how they felt but luckily my daughter isn’t bad. I’m sure if you hung in there, your parents would’ve eventually accepted your husband. Well, you have kids too so be prepared to go through what your parents went through.

[@kaciewanh1986]

Sister, txawm yog lwm haiv neeg los tsuav yog sib hlub xwb. Peb cov Hmoob coob tus twb tsis kav laus thiab.

[@maiaflatebo]

Your message to everyone is right! Thanks for sharing your story.

[@hmonglis4051]

BBC

[@chouathao2122]

she wants some chocolate, let her have it. why stress over it? but why this woman disappeared for many years, the family didn't know whether she's dead or alive?

[@kiab7557]

Don’t be too hard on yourself sister. You were young and in love while your parents were quite racist. Racism is an unfair, unreasonable, selfish, and irrational request of someone who doesn’t have the same biases as you. Your parents chose their racist bias against someone you’re in love with, also means they chose being racist over you. Everybody deals with ultimatum differently. Even as an adult, if someone gives me an ultimatum, I would have not chosen them too.

[@paolee2730]

Parents cannot tell your kids, who they can and cannot date or marry. That's wrong! We don't know if marrying a Hmong or not will work either. Stop being ignorant!

[@2009SUJU]

Lady, you were wrong in so many ways. Yes, I know what love and acceptance are. But you didn't have to run away and disappear for the sake of it. You had siblings you could've told and kept in touch with. But you chose to completely disappear from their world. You should've just disappear and never come back if you hated your parents that much.

[@bliathao5878]

Ntuj koj tsi yog ib tug ntxhais dog dig yog ib tug tawv tshaj plawg txhua txhua tug uas tawv thiab laiv yog ua txiv tuag kiag lawm mas haib tiag tiag li os yom

[@chuvang5487]

Cov ntxhais uas khiav caum hluas nraug mus lawm ces 5% thiaj tau lub neej zoo xwb dua li 95% ces ua pog nplas nkaus xwb. Tseem yuav nug tias yog tim zaj twg? Yog tim koj daim nqaij plees nkaus xwb, vim koj saj tau nyhuv ntxwm dub mas qab heev koj thiaj ua ib siab tso koj tsev neeg tseg.

[@ntxhaishmoobyoutube]

Wow, yog li ces cov khiav caum hluas nraug kuj coob heev yog li na vim cov neej tsis zoo muaj cooj heev ne

[@niamjamie1568]

What a tough story all around for everyone........ parents today are built differently from parents back then....

[@sueher4563]

Don't how hmong people get that Idea from

[@ylauj3523]

Dr. BS you broke your dad heart what a waste of life of your parents had you an raise you what you did to your parents your kids will do to you karma is a MF

[@mobilemobile684]

Yog muaj hnub ntawv kuv mam muaj kuv lub rau koj

[@chiayang1329]

I bet you’re thinking some people willing for my loans myself it is about losing face and no Hmong parents like that you don’t really look at it the way your parents look at it I my you think that he is probably the only guy nah plenty out there but hey what do I know you’re a doctor I mean you’re smart but you couldn’t make you father proud of yoy instead you took all of your problems gave you and gave to others I bet your father ther went to his grave with a shame and hurt

[@johnbarron4843]

You killed your daddy. :/ bad daughter.

[@yerxiong7661]

Koj tsis txawj hlub koj niam koj txiv li txawm lawv txwv los neb sib yuav tiag2 lawm nkawv yeej ua tsis tau li cas lawm es ua cas neb ho khiav tau 10 xyoo hlub koj niam koj txiv heev li os

[@beelor6422]

Hmong funeral is ridiculous!!!

[@faithf1689]

You are so heartless to leave your parents like that and not have any contact for 10 years. Wow... hope your children don't treat you the same one day.

[@bchang227]

Naaahhh. I did the same to my parents. Lol. Only that I didn't cut contact for 10 years though. Maybe 1 year? My mom used to say, of day your kids will treat you the same but naaahh. My kids all love me.

[@Heartsdouna]

Nrog koj zoo siab os sister.

[@chiayang1329]

You know you story sounds nice but I think deep down you know the real reason. Why youo parents are super against your relationship I know many Hmong parents they’re worried about losing face I mean you did said that your parents loved you especially your father now when it comes to to the father he at have a special place in his heart for a daughter I’m sure he loved all his kids lo now a daughter she carrier a resemblance of his loving wife she is his little princess and he will protect her from anyone he wants the very best for her especially when it comes to the men that is coming into her life he has to make sure that he is the right guy for her I think you said after you left his health took went badil you I’m sure you had your reason with you new love but have you ever put yourself in their shoes the sleep less nights when they were watching for you wonder if you’re okay or where you’re sleeping at night or have you eaten I don’t think you thought about them throughly you are just thinking about your boyfriend as long as you’re together don’t care about those who you left Behind what did you lost at the end the only man who believes in you and the only man who truly loves you you father I hope it worth losing your father for than your parents trying to save Thor face from but you’re a doctor yeah hmmmm I’m not smart like you but I would not try to disappoint my parents like that

[@sueher4563]

There's no such thing about recarnation

[@dinayoung4797]

Ntuj aw ua CAs es Zaj neej neeg twg es ib niag poj laib khiav khiav lawm es nim tau doctor tag mas neej neeg dag xwb os niag poj laib no nws yog tus doctor nyob qhov twg ne xav mus saib nws kawg li tiag. Ntuj aw ib niag ntxhais poj laib es ua nws txiv mob stroke kiag es nim khav theeb kawg. Ib niag pój laib liam xwb ces laj laj mloog tag li os

[@lubsiabzooyang2806]

She is Dog-ter not a Doctor

[@baoyang6565]

That's the Hmong ppl problem here...very judgemental. Can you honestly say all Hmong are perfect?

[@baoyang6565]

​@@lubsiabzooyang2806stop being so judgements..no wonder og ppl don't changed

[@kuvxwb11]

Koj yog ib tug ntxhais tawv ncauj tshaj koj tsis hlub koj niam thiab koj txiv. Lwm hnub koj cov yuav tawv tsis mloog koj hais tsis hlub koj ib yam li koj tsis hlub koj niam koj txiv. Koj yog ib niag ntxhais siab phem ntxhais lwj ntxhais liam.

[@drive8892]

Ceev faj nawb yob dub tshum raum poj hmoob tuag tus yees nawb.

[@elisely5353]

Ua cas koj yuav hais lus phem ua luaj ? Nws nyiam yam neeg dab tsi los tsuav yog kev hlub xwb los pob ! Ua cas koj yuav mus xav ntsoov txog 2 ceg xwb na ? Koj mas ruam kawg nkaus li os…

[@ThePrincessWorrior]

@@elisely5353es dub hom tsis muaj tus ntsia nws laub😂. Khib nws siab nev

[@kuatxobvh4481]

es yog koj ua li koj txiv nkawv xav es koj yuav hmoob no koj puas xav tias koj tus txiv hmoob puas yuav muab nws lub raum rau koj maj thiab koj puas yuav kawm ntawv tag ???

[@ThePrincessWorrior]

Txhob vam. Yuav hmoob ces tsam no pog twb muaj 8 tus kas, nyhav 200+ pounds thiab ua poj nrauj rov los nrog pog txiv nyob lawm mas

[@xionglee8192]

Cas koj tseem muaj plus coj tuaj tham poob plu ua luaj nas niag poj dab?

[@ThePrincessWorrior]

Es nws txawm siv los hem los looj koov koj lawm ntag?

[@mayalee2400]

Sister, I'm in the same situation just like yours..my parents disapprove of my husband too because, he's not our kind,his from laos, I decided to ran off with him, till now I am still with my husband, he's just an amazing man, it's one of the best decisions I've made,when I decided to ran off with him..I don't regret what I do,and the decisions that I made...you're absolutely right, when we become parents, we treat our children's differently, because we dont want to lose them,like our parents lose us for so many yrs..

[@user-io5zw5bw3c]

I hope you connect with your parents. Imagine your kids do it to you. That’s freakin hurtful

[@yilengyang3325]

When you go black you never go back niag ntxhais tsi txim txiaj niag maum dev you txhiaj

[@paxiong3960]

Sister, the main issue here is the fact that you departed from your parents intentionally and left them hanging without closure. I could understand why your brothers put your dad in the nursing home, they didn’t trigger his stroke and I am sure they have tried to take his mind off of you, but because you left him hanging he couldn’t stop thinking of you everyday- that is his unconditional love. It’s unfortunate things went the way it did for you and your family, but let it be a lesson learned.

[@cua1879]

Her father's unconditional love should include accepting who she loves. When her father refused to accept who she loves, it's no longer unconditional love. It's under the condition that she loves a Hmong guy in order for her father to accept the both of them.

[@MissPeachie]

She should have at least contacted her parents to let them know that she is alive and ok. Her dad was worried sick because he didn’t know what happened to her. It was very wrong of her to leave her parents worried. Maybe someday she will understand her parents’ pain.

[@user-gb2nw6mw4s]

Niag ntxhais hmoob dag cas yuav txawj dag tas npaum na ntshe tau daim Dr nram qhov quav xwb os

[@mxx3]

I'm happy you found love! Life don't always go the way we want, but you make a good choice that benefits you in the long run. Love can always turn us blind. All parents would want their kids to have a good life. Your dad saw that at the end, which makes him happy to leave.

[@chiayang1329]

What is love when it isn’t an approval by your parents I guess the parents has high hope for th wrong child I guess washing their time thinking their sweet child is gonna take care of them when they’ve old they shod’ve loved the kid rh listens and love this man the waited so many years later to he married and all that doctor degree couldn’t keep her father alive I guess it is true when they said once you go black you won’t go back you sit in the wheelchair losing parents for that?? What a shame so glad her father passed he probably don’t like to think t

[@shonglo3117]

Koj yog ib tug pojniam siab phem heev

[@caaspasvang7427]

Sister koj twb txawj qhuab neeg kawg cas thaum koj mus koj ho tsi qhia ib los rau koj niam koj txiv paub li mas ho mus yam ploj qab ntais ua rau tej Laus txhawj koj heev ma shame on you😂

[@calvinvang2189]

I have something to say to the lady the daughter. I know you loved your dad but you choose your husband because of loved. That’s why your dad passed away of worries and sadness a d depression. For my opinion to you lady even though your parent didn’t except him it’s okay but running away is the wrong choice because it will hunt you for the rest of your life.

[@pangdaoxiong9459]

Because the disappointment and disapproval made it feel like she had to run away in order to be with her love. It’s more likely the parents fault.

[@MloveL559]

I agree you could leave but always keep in touch one day they will eventually accept you. Your dad probably though he is the reason why you left . He loves his life in guilt.

[@Mudddd]

She would not have been successful at life if she stayed. As soon as she graduated her mom wanted her to work. Didnt even encourage her to continue schooling. Look at her other siblings who stayed with the parents and ended up putting them in a old folks home and abandoning them. Imagine what her life would have been like if she stayed. She made the right choice by choosing her future.

[@wachongyang3336]

Peb yuav tsis mloog tej zaj qias neeg li no

[@lemlem6608]

I’m so proud of us hmong because majority of stories in here are doctors.

[@Ncohnubno]

Hate stories like this. BORING

[@GoldenDragon1990]

I guess when you go black you can’t go back. 😁😁😁😁😁

[@nkaujntsaubvaj]

Tos peb niam peb txiv pheej hais peb los lawv xav kom peb tau lub neej zoo xwb. Yog tos txog thaum tsis zoo es nws rov los ces twb lig lawm mas. 1 in a 100 thiaj li tau lub neej zoo li koj lub xwb os. Kuv pom coob leej ntau tus mus yuav lwm haiv neeg twb rov los tas lawm os

[@user-yc9cn1vz2d]

Lady ur selfish..a boyfriend can be replaced but not ur parents..karma will catch up to you..