This is beautiful. So happy for Sibusiso. You have found your family now, they were all there to welcome you njengonyana wabo.
@millicentnaledi70455 жыл бұрын
Zanele my sister your voice was heard. Thank yourself for pouring your heart out. it was necessary since it seems like parents have to be taught how to be parents.
@mamapholanga46745 жыл бұрын
gosh I just love the way ubaba kaZanele aphendula ngakhona 💪
@aghmatadams33682 жыл бұрын
Sibusiso is a real gentleman. I admire him . Stay Happy Family.
@portiasithole48455 жыл бұрын
I wish parents should be the ones searching for their children not the other way around.
@djvaughn23675 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏
@tshivhalavhalakhangwelo37315 жыл бұрын
Is not that easy because most of them are married so if they start to look for their kids it can destroy their married
@ramoshabaramoshaba95615 жыл бұрын
@@tshivhalavhalakhangwelo3731 your children should come before your spouse and what kind of partner would not understand that you had other kids before them unless you lied about the situation.
@kelstro13 жыл бұрын
💯
@RandomPerson-cl4fr3 жыл бұрын
@@ramoshabaramoshaba9561 the kind that will leave you for it!...e.g Zanele's mother
@portiahlela82855 жыл бұрын
I feel I have to speak for Zanele , she is not rude as most of you proclaim her to be .The poor girl is pouring her heart out and she will be able to forgive the father in the end cause she spoke her heart out
@phumzamasohloko56325 жыл бұрын
Exactly, abantu bafuna abe lovey dovey akhohlwe kalula kanjalo, she won't heal that way, she has to voice her anger and pain
@thabomafokoane19055 жыл бұрын
Portia Hlela and all I can see from the father is that he is arrogant and he didn’t even offer her to come in, how do you greet your child at the gate and start talking everything, yeyeeni phela
@response72965 жыл бұрын
But it's not her father's fault, her mother is the one who chose to raise her alone as she explained
@kabelo_m4 жыл бұрын
exactly. zanele is holding this man accountable ✔️
@mukhubukhangwelo715 жыл бұрын
this man is really humble. and I like the fact that she forgave him. well done and I love the ending
@joyfulmusicreloaded62045 жыл бұрын
I can see how Zanele's dad was able to have 8 kids. He was so calm during Zanele's tantrums, natural charmer.
@portiamabena89683 жыл бұрын
11
@portiamabena89683 жыл бұрын
1111
@charleyshaaz3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣smooth operator
@NoluJezile10 ай бұрын
Uthi unina wamthatha umntwana wayòzokhulisela
@masimbonemtshotshisa28015 жыл бұрын
Thembeka hug and Sibusiso hayi khona hle....
@permduma97185 жыл бұрын
Masimbone Mtshotshisa that was not a hug, I don’t know what to call that
@rhdfigo855 жыл бұрын
So cold
@zotholanimdluli71415 жыл бұрын
Mama kaZanele uzala kanjan ingane ungenakhaya ayi Zanele respect utatakho uMamakho ubazi kin so wayengabuyisi ngan
@trusttrust97405 жыл бұрын
Khululekhaya ngyamthanda. Nibe nosuku oluhle. Syababongela nabathole izihlobo zabo. I love y'all
@mnyakotolie82265 жыл бұрын
Zanele sis thank you for being real,,, you are angry and that is allowed,, but dont let your anger destroy you. Honestly i dont see any disrepect here.
@lettiemayisela63035 жыл бұрын
weekly dose yesssss...thanx admin watching from Botswana. .😚
@lowkeyfreaky79525 жыл бұрын
Zanele uyambona mos tatakho Zange akushiye qha use uzixelele uba uzozihlanyisa.... hyi wethu I drama inabantu bayou.
@anniendhluli27905 жыл бұрын
Zanele uluhlaza hlaza mayeeh😢😢the way she talks to her dad amboni bezoba lobudlelwan obuhle..she must be happy she found her dad bakhohlwe ngento zakudala angazazi.Ngoba kuyacaca unina wamtshela amanga ngebirth langezinye into ezinengi azitshela uZanele Sibusiso if you happen to read this comment...mina ngithi khohlwa ngomamakho akakunikezanga uthando impilo yakho yonke lamanje uqala kukubona ngemva kweminyaka uyehluleka kukupha ihug elothando. Ayikho nje indaba kamamakho.....
@lorainesibanda50165 жыл бұрын
Zanele akana respect at all. Ngeke ahlale ne step dad.
@motsemos74615 жыл бұрын
It's good to see Sbu's mother not trying to blame anybody but herself. She owned up. We need that in order to heal
@zingimazongs2745 жыл бұрын
Yhooohhh waze wamthethisa no ubaba wakhe lo sisi. Ukhuluma nobabalhe engathi ukuluma nendoda yakhe ayibambe i cheater Mncihh. Ungenza ngingamzweli
@hlengiwemabele70435 жыл бұрын
Kuyinkinga ukufuna umzali umthole maqede umthethise umhlaba ubuka kanti ubumfunelani???
@hazelmkhwanazi42426 ай бұрын
In thant way sisi ebengeke akwazi ukuthi ekgcineni amxolele bekakhuluma okusenhlizweni futhi osekuhlale isikhathi eside she had rights ukuthi akukhiphe noma ikanjani ukuze Axole naye ngaphakathi
@sandilehlophe45354 жыл бұрын
Zanele is rude. Her mother knew where her father lived but never took her there. She is not all innocent. Her attitude is what makes the step father to resent her
@tendayimuserere82238 ай бұрын
😂😂😅
@quindhie15433 ай бұрын
She is very rude and so entitled . Doesn’t even want to listen to the father just a small angry girl . Life won’t be nice she is bloody rude 😳🙄😬
@agnessibanyoni40382 ай бұрын
Kodwa akakwazi ukukhuluma losisi no baba wakhe
@nombinintlahla83253 жыл бұрын
Sibusiso my boy, oouhh💔... mamakhona ngathi ngunontyintyi owaziwayo... I hope she really tried to be a better mom
@massmidia8935 жыл бұрын
Thic is the humble man
@graciousmpofu40775 жыл бұрын
Angimsoli u step father wakho cc Zanele awunayo inhlonipho cc umzali ngumzali noma angakuphoxa kanjani uzohlala engumzali akekho u step father ongamela ukudelelwa yingane angayizali💔💔💔
@shirleymlombo29134 жыл бұрын
Yi Charmer ubaba. Wakhuluma no Zanele ngathi uyashela lol. No wonder he has 8 children from outside😂
@zikhonazungu1940Ай бұрын
Eyi ungadideka ngampela le😂😂eyi indoda le😅😅😅
@regainamakola53565 жыл бұрын
Zanele hlonipha abantu abadala, yebo ukushiyile but respect him cc
@goodnessncama85775 жыл бұрын
Yooo amacici Ku mama ka sbusiso Jesu umazala ashiye .
@mavundlabhekivincent21115 жыл бұрын
Sisi Zanele uvisana buhlungu hlonipha cc uwufundziswanga uyohamba ucede umhlaba because of respect
@jerminahsewelamalatji72683 жыл бұрын
Well done
@theodorangorima8534 жыл бұрын
Zanele is not rude, disrespectful nor acting like a bully, she is displaying behaviours which are shows abandonment issues which are anger, aggression, hurt, lack of trust to name a few. In our African Culture we are expected to respect our elders irregardless hurt and despair. When one ☝️ has been abandoned they are hurt hence display anger issues and behaviours and will act like wounded animal. These kids needs to do some therapy work with therapist or psychologist in order to address these abandonment issues just to make sense why they were left and not being loved or cared for . I hope Zanele will heal and they will work with dad to better their relationship. When a child is left in vulnerable positions they will build up ways to protect and defend themselves that’s they came across rude and having an attitude.
@Nathi_nks5 жыл бұрын
Zanele your dad loves you and u are so blessed to find your dad. Please forgive him🙏♥️ Nkosi Ngwane wena wokunene
@siya20165 жыл бұрын
Thank you Admin for the good job.
@babylove16095 жыл бұрын
Yooh lentombazane Zanele hlonipha cc. Zifundise noma ungakwata kanjani, he is still your father boo.
@zanelentuli94435 жыл бұрын
Abo mama ba hug kanjn hhayi duduza umtwana wakho uthi ukumhlikihla emhlane show some love
@nontandobhengu48795 жыл бұрын
Uyadakwa wena Zanele unyoko wayekwazi lakuhlala khona ubaba wakho
on the second part, I understand that they are not used to each other but they could have hugged a long loving hug but anyway,it was great episode
@samkelosibiya27005 жыл бұрын
Your stepfather doesn't want you maZet ngoba ugreeen cc,hlisa mntasee
@talalhassan56783 жыл бұрын
Zanele respect cc iyafuneka
@manqobadlamini53975 жыл бұрын
Ijongo lase mnambithi leli liyachatha ei strong le mbiza ka nyanga yezizwe
@phumzamasohloko56325 жыл бұрын
😅😅😅😅😅
@lillyxanga73955 жыл бұрын
Lalelani!! UZanele was rude because ukhule engamazi babakhe efuna ukuba seduze nobabakhe eyngane, but found herself next her stepfather who doesnt like her because akamzali, FACT!!! Zanele's mother chose to put her marriage before her child because she knew where Zanele's father was and still is but chose to look after his man, not her child's needs first!! Ubethule ethini yena lomama yonke leminyaka? bengahambi ngani to Ladysmith ngoba kuthiwa wayefike ahlale laphaya wazi kahle! By the time she saw her man that he hates her child why at least she didnt try to take a child to her father? Why? Bethuleleni for 27 years? Second family yakaSbusiso, mama Thembeka is not well psychologically, uhambe ezala ashiye and she is laying ngapha! However, still today sisenabo abantu abanjalo in our Black society, akuqali ngaye futhi akugcinanga ngaye!! I have sister onjalo, she has 4 children bonke ufike ashiye ekhaya bengathi ukhona nimbone senyamalele Then after 2 years njalo ubuya nenye to dump abaleke! My mother and my other siblings we raising these children! She is 26 years, iskole akasfuni sonke ekhaya we have qualifications because our parents made sure all of us siyaphumelela, but yena uyabaleka akfuni nix emhlanganisa neskole nokuhlala ekhaya! Naye uzobuya one day sezohlala ekhaya like Thembeka! So please let us stop judging! Lento lena its not about a certain tribe, I am Zulu but buka, my sisters wenzani! Buka baba ka Zanele wenzani!
@ayeshagrace1375 жыл бұрын
Zanele uluhlaza, akaphekiwe 😁
@amydikeledidube96285 жыл бұрын
Ubezophekwa ubani uyise engekho
@mmabathomary99845 жыл бұрын
I met my dad 2years ago I didn't give him any attitude I didn't want to know the fight between him and my mom it doesn't help to bring the past in the future 😀she should be happy she found him alive some people never had this conversation with their dad nor see them, she is 27 she should learn to address matters in a polite way and she is questioning her father like he is her bf, the stepfather didn't want her because of her attitude
@MegaClemie4 жыл бұрын
I am 28 and I do not wish to meet my father. My father is my grandmother who took over whilst my dad enjoyed his life. Kids do not ask to be in this world as adults we make decisions and thus I must respect my dad's decision to abandon me. I am at peace and I thank God for my grandmother.
@gugunxumalo5725 жыл бұрын
Ngubani umuntu ongangichumanisa no Zanele.... ngyamudinga shem
@memorymoyo24275 жыл бұрын
Sis Zanele with this attitude you wont go far Sis. Uzehlise he is still your father regardless of what happened..
@letschatwithkeam38205 жыл бұрын
true. I can't deal at the moment. Her attitude is too nasty
@priscadube42275 жыл бұрын
Blame the father, he was supposed to be the one teaching her all the manners. Right now she can't respect any man because the father failed her. In psychology we blame the parent not the child. In most cases our children are what they are or what they become because of us parents. Children who grow up in a disfunctional home tend to be like that
@jabulilekumalo51495 жыл бұрын
You are not God
@letschatwithkeam38205 жыл бұрын
@@jabulilekumalo5149 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😜😜😜😜
@memorymoyo24275 жыл бұрын
@@jabulilekumalo5149 Meaning .. I have a right to share my view. Hence its shared public for us to have opinion and learn
@makhumochakela63583 жыл бұрын
Supa strikas
@evodiamafisa67965 жыл бұрын
i understand Zanele's anger, however, when a person acknowledges their mistakes it's something else
@permduma97185 жыл бұрын
Bayangidina abantu abafana noThembeka abalahla abantwana and complaining about not having money while she is busy slaying
@anniendhluli27905 жыл бұрын
Yaziii laba yibo abafazii abayenza singathathwa serious
@patiencechivunge85155 жыл бұрын
Uthi amaxeba ngutata akhe maka fela, look her lips she drinks too much but sibusiso is a good boy and respect
@nonhlanhladlamini93255 жыл бұрын
Yuh ayi lomama Thembeka mjongile yambona kanakwathando lengane Sbusiso nenhlonipho shame kodwa mama wakhe yuh kanathando tuh well ke ngcon ngoba mfumane saphila
@nothanimtshali2395 жыл бұрын
We understand that Zanele is upset but she still needs to be respectful. This guy is older than her,there's no need to be rude.
@CarterSeapiII5 жыл бұрын
I feel you..But Zanele has every right to be upset.She needs to let it all out.The guy failed her...Seriously, some people don't deserve to have kids..Why have kids if you can't take care of them?.You're ruining their lives...
@nothanimtshali2395 жыл бұрын
@@CarterSeapiII I didn't say she can't be upset,but at the end of the day she wanted to find the guy and she found him,she can express herself but still be respectful because all that had happened cannot be taken back. Nobody said she can't be upset.
@perfectlyimperfect10955 жыл бұрын
Zanele has abandonment issues. She is carrying a lot of pain and it's coming out as anger. She has every right to be angry but allowing that anger to make her disrespectful is unnecessary. The next thing when she visits her father's family and she acts like this they are going to say that she is disrespectful like her mother. They will also say that her mother didn't raise her right.
@nothanimtshali2395 жыл бұрын
@@perfectlyimperfect1095 thank you for understanding what I'm trying to say. She had a very hard life,no doubt about that but she must be respectful because her father is not denying anything and he is remorseful you can tell. Unlike other parents who show no remorse whatsoever.
@nokubongwaduma66625 жыл бұрын
Maybe the tone is not right but she is asking all the right questions
This anger should be between the mom and dad.This child is angry because of the way she was raised.
@nompumelolo3 жыл бұрын
I'm sure he had MANY children after zanele. He's probably pushing 30 kids. NO WAY six baby mamas when zanele's mom was pregnant. Batho ba busy
@ramoshabaramoshaba95615 жыл бұрын
Men like Ntokozo who have 10000 kids lack self-respect. How do you do this to your children. It's very selfish 😒😣😔
@bonzateebonzatee8555 жыл бұрын
Lol bengithi ngidli khekhe nje heheheeee lyf neh
@y2k3395 жыл бұрын
Those days there was no protection we all know.
@ramoshabaramoshaba95615 жыл бұрын
@@y2k339 that father doesn't look old and there was protection back then! This man is selfish and he was a hoe!!
@sandilehlophe45354 жыл бұрын
27 years ago there were no condoms and Zanele is number 6 and this is a black man around that time a man could have multiple partners and it was nothing
@kabelo_m4 жыл бұрын
they're a hot mess!
@thusilengala5 жыл бұрын
#Thembeka.!! Thembeka.!! Lonto umoya wakho cc uphantsi, and kuyacaca ba uSbu wawumlahla but umlahlela kowabo.. Indenza Dom ke xa inje...
@nomvulairene41775 жыл бұрын
Mam Thembeka zanele is coming for u 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@faithmpofu57715 жыл бұрын
Respect pliz Cc ufundisani ezinye ingane nxaaa mani
@pinkybhengu17715 жыл бұрын
kunabantu abakwaziyi ukwenza yaz mina eyam ingane ihlala ekhaya nomama kudwa aypheli inyanga singabonananga nayo,umzala udla kanjan ingane yakho ungaz noma idli ay ngiyanisaba bantu besfazana.
Ukukhuluma manje noyihlo,uyasho nje ukuthi 1 wrongs never make 1 right ntombi
@nompumelolo3 жыл бұрын
Zanele's father can calm a woman down! Slick tongue that one yerr
@charleyshaaz3 жыл бұрын
If mbhede uyajika was a person 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@smaskitchen21345 жыл бұрын
Omg i haven’t finished watching this episode and yet uZanele irritates the heck out of me. Mina nje my dad was a moron and even after my mother passed away he didn’t even bother to ask my sibling and I how we were coping. I’m grateful for my Queen/mom for never bad mouthing my dad ngoba ngabe ngiyawuzonda manje. It wasn’t until my mom was gone to find out ukuthi how he treated her . I am independent and fortunately I found someone who’s totally opposite to my dad. Whatever misfortune I have encountered through this life I will never blame my dad for that .
@adelaidesagwati65645 жыл бұрын
jooo Zanele
@rutruth81635 жыл бұрын
Zanele hlonipha cc ngeke uganwe le attidute yakho leyo
@keshneemaharaj517 Жыл бұрын
But bafethu sometime nomama bethu basitshela okungeyikho
@rebeccaselomo96105 жыл бұрын
Zanele ga o tsebe go bolela sesi
@hazeltinemoyo55525 жыл бұрын
Where was the father to teach her respect? Look she's still angry pouring out her heart.... its easy to judge people if you haven't lived their lives. Some people get raped by stepfathers because their fathers do such nonsense
@zibuyilehlongwane33662 жыл бұрын
losisi inyoka uzala ashiye
@nonsindisozuma57665 жыл бұрын
I for one can say kumnandi kuba nomzali okuthandayo kodwa kube ubaba wam waye dukile or wangilahla ai soze ngsngingeke nje ngizixake ngimfune yey lomuntu unghlukumezile bandla ngaze ngaba na30 ya ai
@thabsilechamane37745 жыл бұрын
How can you name your Hluphekile? Ayi mani
@gaopalelwemabolawa60285 жыл бұрын
Don't be surprised people ,Zanele mybe don't have Matric
@alutas935 жыл бұрын
How does that have to do with the issue at hand?
@lindoe5084 жыл бұрын
Aluta sambo 😂😂😂
@vanessamaluleke30505 жыл бұрын
Gal yes u kwatile kambe e tatana wa wena.Ngu hloniphi kaa.Mita va na vu xaka bya njani loko u ngu khoma ku fana na xihlangi..
@clarityncube27612 жыл бұрын
Wee Sbusiso sudabula isofa
@bongi-beegumbi54745 жыл бұрын
what an attitude 😥😥😥
@makhumochakela63583 жыл бұрын
Hello dear
@gaonesebogodi20685 жыл бұрын
Zanele ga o na maitseo sisi.Your father is tyring to explain to you but wena you are disrepecting him no no no ga e bereke jalo mme.
@kediboneanna43875 жыл бұрын
Zanele s mother was supposed to go with zanele haaai maan
If Ever There's No Sickness That Needs A Ritual From Your Fathers Side Theres Totally No Need To Look For Your Father Who Doesn't Care And If It Took Almost 20 Something Years Without Him In Your Life I See No Reason To Look For Such An Ignorant Parent As Long Your Mother Told You Who Your Father Is That's Enough . I Don't Know My Dad And I Don't Even Wanna Know Him I'm Good , My Mom Raised Me Well Without Him So Looking For Him At The Age Of 25 Is Totally Rubbish
@annachristelis49775 жыл бұрын
Yo wawuqeda usofa uSbusiso nkosi yami ,ubuhlungu ubukhiphela osofeni😓
@judithndlovu92915 жыл бұрын
Hayi no waze wadelela lo sisi
@nonhlanhlamkhwanazi90905 жыл бұрын
Cha ngeke lo Zanele akanayo inhlonipho ,indelelo le . Naye lobaba uneskhathi mina bengingavele ngimshiye kanjalo
@thabomorudu53185 жыл бұрын
The stepfather didn't want u bcos u dont hv respect. Ur attitude says it all🤣🤣
@lillyxanga73955 жыл бұрын
Thabo Morudu Uxolo bhuti. Uyanya!!!
@thabomorudu53185 жыл бұрын
@@lillyxanga7395 vele uyantuka for ntoni? Nxa uya boreka neh
@lillyxanga73955 жыл бұрын
Thabo Morudu uyacasula.ngoba uhluleka ukubona kuthi lengane ikhule ihlukmezeka, "so called babawayo" akayfunanga zisuka isencane cos akayzali anyway i dnt blame him! mama wayo decided to put her man's wants 1st before her child's needs akazihluphi ekhombise ngane kubo coz okuxakayo yonke lemnyaka uyazi kubo kwalengane wayefika ahlale !! but ufuye ingane nendoda engayifuni for 27 years abe ebona iyahluknezeka! Secondly: ingane zonke zikhule zithi baba kobaba bazo that alone create a great void in a child's upbringinging!! Manje wena awuboni ke lengane she is been suffering from emotional abuse? uqhamuka usuthi fanele ingafunwa iyadelela! really?
@thabomorudu53185 жыл бұрын
@@lillyxanga7395 do u see how she Question her father without respect
@lillyxanga73955 жыл бұрын
Thabo Morudu of course not! the anger of 27 years is boiling her brains, mind you! dhe had so many questions nobody answered! Lets allow her to pour out! sekocaca after uyinfane enjani ngempela! okwamanje ubaba wakhe zange ambona! behlukunyezwa munyu baba maar ekhona ubio.baba obehlezi naye engafu i ngane ome ngokuthi mama wayo was changing places! Khumbulekhaya is been around more that 7 yrs if am right!
@rachiehopeheartsentwined2105 жыл бұрын
Khumbul'ekhaya resources were wasted with this Zanele ,what kind of attitude is that? Forget the step father,after watching this no man will bring you home as umakoti🙅♀️ never.Your mom told you lies wathi your birth certificate was used ukungcwaba eyinye ingane !
@sebatentlatleng51555 жыл бұрын
Zanele was badly brought up and she has exposed her bad attitude to the nation. No family would ever like to have her as umakoti.
@jabulilekumalo51495 жыл бұрын
You're not God
@rachiehopeheartsentwined2105 жыл бұрын
@@jabulilekumalo5149 i don't need to be God to smell a stinking attitude!!!!
@bornwisemabunda7bornwisenh9505 жыл бұрын
Sibusiso ungakwati Man
@smisohsmile94405 жыл бұрын
Cha uyeyisa Zanele hawuu🙄wazisiza nobaba wakho wahamba vele uyasangana cc