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[@buttertoes6304]

“there’s this girl, she goes by they/them” LMFAO

[@buttertoes6304]

Evelyn. L girl what?? i’m not laughing at that u goofy, i’m laughing that the person called them a girl then “she” then “they”.. i support everybody

[@TheVivaciousNerd]

@@buttertoes6304 She corrected herself though and immediately pointed out the mistake and the irony... She's just a kid and she's still learning.

[@sex_in_the_s0viet_union_]

Butter Toes O H O K SORRY!! I thought you mean’t something else.😢😅😅😂

[@blossom5201]

They can be a girl. That’s just pronouns, but yeah...

[@ianw1976]

That’s hilarious.

[@MothLand]

"What makes a boy?" "An X and Y chromosome" SMART KID!!! 😂

[@BanksGirl]

Bugged_Out_Frankie 😂😂📍

[@hopesesay9598]

RIGHT THOOOO THAT'S EXACTLY WHAT I SAID

[@imsomeonelse8490]

Bugged_Out_Frankie why are there no replies

[@RedNiel100]

"Genetically, men prefer things that move around" XD

[@Kevin-qn2kw]

He would be called transphobic by LGBTQ activists.

[@port5vods501]

“She goes by They/Them” 💀😭😭

[@iamindeedweird5298]

It’s okay! She’s trying her best. She might not be educated on the topic

[@Im_alivexx]

She’s trying my friend 😂😂

[@grote__julia]

Everyone makes mistakes. Even transpeople make pronoun mistakes. We are all learning and growing.

[@dewniper]

Did that too before I got used to it when my best friend came out ;-; now I never say wrong though!

[@jinssugaglider8319]

Umm everyone makes mistakes so it’s not really funny-

[@jetbirks]

“Mom you said ask questions and be prepared! I’m prepared ;-;” LOL THATS HOW MY MOM WOULD ACT TO 😂😂😂😂

[@sleepless-cc4mo]

"What if i told you sometimes i feel like a boy" *thats okay* 😭😭😭😭

[@mich5124]

FierceONeill Maybe you’re not aware of the feeling because you’ve never had to question your gender. Those feelings you listed are for all genders. Yes, being masculine or dressing like the stereotypical male doesn’t necessary make you a boy, but trans people just know that they are that gender and if you’re cisgender, then you wouldn’t know how that feels and it’s not right to invalidate someone just because you haven’t experienced what they have.

[@S0N1A_42]

Sometimes I feel like a boy. Sometimes I am attracted to girls. It is fine, there is nothing wrong with it.

[@didi-ud2tg]

@Vipxr "Congratulations, your baby has born! May I know what gender you'd like your baby to have and identify with?"

[@czowiek9625]

How does one simply feel being the opposite gender if that's not what they are physically? Allow me to use a quite basic example. Imagine yourself as a young boy. You have at least this much indentity. You know that's what you are. A boy. So you go in your life, carelessly, eating paste, playing with your friends, and doing whatever it is little kids do. But one day your parents make you wear a dress. Now it's a pretty one. Soft-colored, delicate as a petal, with pretty little patterns all over it. But it's a girls dress. Your problem isn't with the dress itself, it's what it represents. You protest, you get angry, maybe even cry, but still you have to wear the dress. After all you shouldn't really argue with your parents at that age. You go out and you're afraid that people will laugh. Or point fingers. But suprisingly nobody does. And somehow that's the worst thing. Nobody laughs, points fingers nobody thinks it's strange. What they do is they expect you to want this. To associate with this. They get mad or give you a weird look if you don't. They nicely say "Aww, you're growing into a little lady!" and it's somehow even more insulting than mockery. A boy would get laughed at if he wore this. And you know you're a boy. So why do they treat you like a girl? Things don't stop there. Soon more and more people follow the pattern. They force "girl appropriate" things and behaviors upon you, they refer to you as "she", try to make you believe that's what you are. Your parents sign you up for your schools girls volleyball team. You get comments that you shouldn't even be getting, considering who you believe you are. It feels like someones playing a really mean prank on you, but if you call it out nobody will laugh. They'll just look weirdly and take you for a freak. You slowly stop trusting yourself to be a boy.. but at the same time the feeling that you are one grows stronger and stronger. You get so anxious and uneasy with how your body looks, with how your close ones treat you with how you seem to be the only one with that problem. But you were always a boy, right? Or so you were sure of until you started maturing. The body that you always trusted, or rather hoped to be male starts developping feminine parts. Your menstrual cycle starts. Your hips get wider, your chest gets bigger. No. No, no, no, how can this be? This is all wrong! Your own body is betraying you! How can you be a boy if that's not who you were born as? But for Gods sake you can swear that you feel like one. That's how you've always felt. It's all wrong. It's terrifying. It's depressing. And that's what it's like

[@idkimjusttired3296]

@Vipxr biology and science back up transsexuality, women and male brains do not look the same, and when doctors and scientist have taken a look at for example trans womens brain they see that her brain is a womans brain and not a male brain.

[@stefepedia]

What makes a boy a boy ? " and X or Y chromosome " HAHA BOY GONNA GET AN A FOR SCIENCE CLASS

[@ginoperez4483]

And im just over here with questions like that playing Tic Tac Toe "connects X wait I thought it was an O instead of a Y" well gonna have to roll with it "connects the Y"

[@xjuyl470]

I'm younger than him and I think that's common knowledge.

[@RedNiel100]

Until he said "Genetically, men prefer things that move around" XD

[@Ansatsusha]

He wouldn't in a college course since birth defects like Klinefelter's and De la Chapelle syndrome exist.

[@theyearthreethousand911]

Girl XX Boy XY

[@asymmetrie9520]

These kids are so respectful

[@otheraccount3424]

Way more than rigyr winners

[@fuckglobalism]

@@otheraccount3424 lmaooo the left are the most intolerant scum in the country

[@ObjectShowFan128]

Yea somehow more respectful then a 50 year old I have met

[@bradleysmith9431]

"why does gender have to be a problem" amen!

[@Embrace_Pain]

Because in California you can go to prison for misgendering someone…. Kind of a big deal

[@Embrace_Pain]

@Dylan Johnson look it up genius

[@buildersoflegends7106]

@@Embrace_Pain OOF.

[@noorrougelewis6704]

Because letting people be them isn't enough... and nothing will ever be enough for the left. There are leftists who's only literal goals in life are to indoctrinate other people's kids.

[@aynashadab2931]

You shoulnt use an word Like "Amen" to settel Something thats todally against the Word of god. Christians use it after they Talk to Jesus, wich is Something very Personal and a holy Thing to do. Using the Word Amen for those words is on the Same disrespect Level for Christians as for you to misgendering someone on purpose!!

[@MsMeep74]

The boy with the dark shirt with the blue design is very intelligent and supports his opinions well.

[@Harry-ro7hq]

MsMeep74 you don’t. p r o n o w n s

[@notfogzz9293]

What is his name?

[@kaylalipii]

I think he's the smartest one in this interview

[@vee19_95]

Hes articulate but has a lot to learn

[@kimorigecko2253]

@@vee19_95 so like everyone in the video?

[@begoodvgoode]

the boy (fletcher) with long hair saying that he likes his hair despite being called a girl lots is so sweet ♡ edit; thanks to the kind souls who told me his name!!

[@baphomet6x168]

My Grandparents sometimes eat. I didn't know what was going on to be completely honest. He picked up sisscor and cut the string the held up the thing and it like kinda fell to the table with the side of the milk.

[@baphomet6x168]

@Saint Ferraro I agree with you completely, you forgot the sleep and the chicken got in.

[@user-jw5xu5rq5d]

@@baphomet6x168 I'm sorry but were u drunk when u wrote these

[@seepz0925]

I have his situation.

[@sex_in_the_s0viet_union_]

vie It’s good that he’s like that, because it’s not gendered

[@nogardhd7700]

my parents: here is a ball and a doll, what do you choose? me: turns around and look at the nintendo 64

[@bee475]

Depends on where you are too. Outside? Ball. Inside your room where you're expected to be quiet? Doll - Ken, Barbie, G.I. Joe, or Dracula's Offspring, you can make it into an imaginary friend or pop it's arms off LOL

[@namelesscreature8843]

😂😂😂

[@Personthatisweird]

Me: I’m playing, with a ✨headphone wire✨

[@bocajoanne]

I'm disappointed that this video is part of the default library in the KZbin Kids app. I think parents should be able to specifically choose to include this one if they want their child to view it, but I don't think KZbin should have snuck it in among the other basic KZbin Kids videos covering things like math, science, drawing, etc..

[@notactiveaccount5142]

No ones talking about how clever the black girl is like...

[@Red-cb2wl]

Lol

[@icouldntthinkofanything1785]

She has defining characteristics other than race.

[@cheese1792]

@@andrewLopez-fz1ip you rude

[@Moazy.x]

@@andrewLopez-fz1ip oh my stfu

[@WORLD-STAR670]

@@andrewLopez-fz1ip What's wrong with you?

[@adxcool]

I like those two kids the Black T-shirt boy and dress girl, they seemed like highly educated

[@bulmnstr3116]

They are not highly educated they are just normal thinking people...

[@Jake-tc3zl]

More like highly coached 😂

[@harikiran4339]

Definitely looks like it!

[@jasehonfroy5343]

Hm same

[@velvetvelvet]

why, because you agree?

[@omgmoeee]

"That's confusing". Indeed it is. Indeed it is.

[@noraisacoff6649]

I wish they had addressed the question about males generally having more muscle mass. It was a good question, and there are good answers to it, but he was just brushed off.

[@gojira05]

Because they have no answer to it, she got super offended when he said a basic fact: Men are biologically stronger than women 😂

[@ChristineCho91]

The whole men as hunters and women as gatherers. Yes women can be strong, but if you had a man and a woman with similar built / stature most likely the man will be stronger. This is just genetics, it doesn't mean women are incapable of doing things just as well, it's just a strength difference due to muscle. I get frustrated when it becomes this competitive, one-upper thing.

[@gardensnailll]

It’s still stupid when men say their stronger then girls. Edit: I mean, not that they say it often. It’s just that sometimes they do.

[@elliott5526]

Thank you

[@ianmartinello7173]

Facts

[@victoriaweldon3213]

Thank you for clearing that up for people

[@rosariopadilla8719]

PREACH😂😂

[@MaygracetheMagicalMess]

They made the boy at the start look really disrespectful, but he actually had a really non-judgemental discussion. He was just using the prior knowledge he had to talk about it, and seemed open to learning something new :)

[@ashleyhermawan75]

dang theory of knowledge

[@notfogzz9293]

=Maygrace= The kid is smarter than this “Non-Conforming” person

[@harleyquinn8225]

Yeah i wish they would've found a better nonbinary person, i don't think they answered the boy very good, i wish i was the one who's talking to that smart boy and explaining him these things

[@aya123444]

The kid is right. The male is a provider and a protective force while women nurture and create.

[@Anonymously179]

I don't think it was disrespectful...he was just stating facts...Men are and will always be stronger than women..but both genders should still treat each other with the same respect

[@gloriajblanco775]

3:07 It has been discovered women hunted too, like, not just a few, but half of the prehistoric remains that have been found buried with hunting tools they used un life have turned out to be female

[@user-dg8hh2qo8h]

Glad someone pointed this out, although what the kid pointed out about how men had bigger muscle mass doesn’t mean that you can rule out that women didn’t hunt for their own food when they didnt have males around.

[@sarahk651]

I study prehistoric archaeology, and that's actually not true. Yes, there were female hunters, that's true, but they were not the majority. The consensus is still that mainly men do the hunting, not 50-50.

[@CertifiedGhxsty]

@@user-dg8hh2qo8h yes but when they WERE around, the men hunted, which was most of the time.

[@user-dg8hh2qo8h]

@@CertifiedGhxsty bro u act like u was a caveman living in that century, they yo homies brah lmao imagine tryna gatekeep hunting

[@ray25lee]

Millions of female warriors as well, it's common, it's just not commonly talked about in Western schools.

[@LifeOfCandice]

Wish we could have seen more of Willows interview! As a preschool teacher, most of the time my boys love dress up and my girls love trucks/blocks. Never bat an eye at the situation. Kids are kids. Most of the time the parents were ones who had a hard time with it. They may get older and realize "hey I identify as this" but at a preschool age it is unfair to automatically assume they pick one thing over another because of gender.

[@alyssam1394]

Right, younger kids especially you know are new here, they don’t know anything until they see/hear/experience it, so when they play with “boy” or “girl” toys they’re just exploring and experimenting with things. Learning, because they come here knowing basically nothing. Doesn’t necessarily mean they wanna change their gender…. They’re not even thinking about that!

[@gofost5256]

You shouldn't be allowed near children

[@ninalovesyouso]

“How blue is a boy color..” Girl: **looks down at blue shirt**

[@almiraarts4443]

Ahahahahhaha

[@jinssugaglider8319]

You mean crystal?

[@collusionjazz5520]

@@jinssugaglider8319 do you have her social security number too

[@godrhmf307]

@@collusionjazz5520 LMFAOO

[@pinkiepieok9095]

@@collusionjazz5520 PFFFT

[@Givulinovich]

The new young woman, with the bun & white sneaks is older than the average Hiho kid, but she’s really articulate & intelligent. More of her please!

[@AgelyssStrang3rYAY]

Crystal's been in a lot of HiHo videos. Maybe even since the beginning.

[@CiciMijares]

Givulinovich she actually is one of the original. Her name is Crystal.

[@samanthapratt4611]

I think they mean the African American in the dress

[@Ty-gc6tk]

She means rhianna

[@lapa533]

I think they were talking about the one with dress and glasses. At least she is the one who is older than most of the hiho kids, not Crystal :D

[@tenshimoon]

Fun fact: the colours were actually reversed at one time - pink used to be the colour used for boys and blue used to be the colour used for girls

[@Down_bad_cockroach]

Should have stayed that way, there would be one less "weird" thing about me

[@tenshimoon]

@@Down_bad_cockroach maybe one day it'll change back, I do think that's a possibility. But yeah I get not fitting societal conventions :/

[@jeannettediaz1318]

I thought the idea was that the kids were supposed to ask the questions, not the adult.

[@axzerra_9872]

I really thought that boy with long hair is a girl. Omg hahahhaha

[@lillianahmad5550]

Doc. Cute Panda omg me toooo

[@theyearthreethousand911]

I did too until the video Fletcher tries his dad's dorm room food

[@zahoralfardan4224]

Saaaaaaaaame

[@mmmrice2184]

Samee 😂

[@cloeybelisle9344]

Me too

[@Leablefebvre]

Man the boy with short black hair is more mature than most people I know 🧐

[@arsm6296]

More mature than me at times

[@cyt0skeleton934]

lmao but he was wrong!!

[@merwinaamir5960]

Bria Hogan about??

[@kairo-o]

Bria Hogan no he’s not

[@mylesisatree4612]

@@merwinaamir5960 an x and y chromosome doesn't make you a girl it makes you a biological female

[@sharkw7587]

Gender Non-Conforming is funniest looking creature LOL

[@Jcon4002]

They all look the same hey always have ugly hairstyles and they to be quirky for attention.

[@Jcon4002]

@King Alex you aren't showing your face either 😂😂😂,atleast I don't have a ridiculous hairstyle with 33 different hair dye colors.

[@Jcon4002]

@King Alex Ok white knight in case you did not know the internet is a place where we can say anything we want . So you could just ignore me or just keep replying it's up to you.

[@georgesanderson918]

@King Alex oh boy this guy, you still haven't provided me the papers from last video, cause we all know you go video-hopping to share your brainwashed ideologies

[@catsandcoolclips3374]

The boy in the black shirt trying to back up when he said that guys are stronger literally had me dying

[@jakakraigher4389]

I mean they are?? men have much more muscle mass than women. Are you denying basic biology or...?

[@FenriZz]

Its true tho

[@shmeepness1700]

They are..? Why do you think sports is segregated between gender? Why do you think the strongest woman doesnt fight the strongest man? Like use common sense, men are naturally strong not just in humans but other animals as well

[@shmeepness1700]

There are literally millions of scientific evidence backing this up, so what you on about?

[@aj01-14]

Because they in general are

[@jonathanrio6587]

Willow came PREPARED!!!! She had her questions and wanted no small talk!!!! She was READY FOR THE GIG!!!!

[@DenaInWyo]

Future Barbara Walters right there, right?

[@dang5874]

Oh yeah, that's a mood

[@i_ate_the_context]

Did you mean Brianna?

[@jonathanrio6587]

@@i_ate_the_context Actually, all of them. these kids are "old souls". So intelligent and mature! This video is old. I'd love to see them today! I'm sure they're all doing GREAT things!

[@naysayer1343]

Dude in the black shirt knows whats up

[@AndresLopez-ts4sh]

He lowkey a young Shapiro

[@SeekTheLordJesusChrist7]

He knows the difference between boy and girl? It’s crazy how that’s considered smart these days, lol

[@peregqwe18878]

Based

[@cyt0skeleton934]

but he's wrong!

[@austiniscoolduh]

Ritch Caraway bruh I bet he has better grammar skills than you, you know it. He’s smart for his age

[@naaz7208]

One thing I like about this channel is the positivity of guest and children. All of them are so full of positive energy. Whenever I see them it feels like I am watching something good.

[@shmeepness1700]

They have to be lol

[@ommeloise6309]

Somebody play Mr. Rogers singing how only girls grow up to be the mommies and only boys grow up to be the daddies STAT.

[@jonathanleblanc2140]

Kid goes out on a limb: “Probably because they were stronger.”

[@Stronhue]

limb?

[@lilliesupreme9767]

@@Stronhue I think they mean limp

[@feraflauna3238]

+Jonathan LeBlanc-Technically, yes. And. . .no. Men do develop more muscle mass than women do, so they are superficially more stronger as a result. Immediate physical strength was probably more important with our early ancestors, who assigned roles for the here and now. They weren't necessarily thinking long term, every role that was assigned was meant to ensure immediate survival. So they missed out that strength can't quite be measured that way just on raw physical dominance. Some people may be fast/more agile than others, and agility allows you to wear out your enemy a lot faster and you can avoid being attacked. Some people are better at defensive, where you keep to defending until your enemy tires out. People still divide boys and girls into separate groups in sports because they believe pitting girls against boys physically is an unfair advantage for the boys. In sports like football and wrestling, I can see why. In certain ways. However, in sports like basketball or baseball, you need just as much agility, endurance, and defensive as you do with being able to take the shot. Baseball is not a competition of physical strength necessarily, it's about being able to swing the bat and run as fast you can to the finish line. So it's just not really that modern to keep certain sports and physical gender attributes in tact like that. It would be way more interesting to see sports be more co-ed and see it as a true competition. Basketball certainly. To see it as a true test of different skills and who is able to use their skills the best.

[@cgirl294]

@@feraflauna3238 actually though there is a theory that it was because if something was to happen while hunting, men were more disposable. Let's face it: when you consider if someone was pregnant or nursing, it would make more sense for her husband to go out and perform the riskier behavior than for her to do it. It's just a theory but it could be that during those times, people valued mothers over fathers in terms of what is acceptable risk. (Cause let's be honest hunting back then was dangerous.)

[@dr.noname1234]

@@feraflauna3238 ok

[@abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz3010]

"Genitalia?" "WHAT?" Ahahahaha I died so funny

[@mytiamos]

5:32 *she* goes by they/them _visible confusion_

[@bomrade]

Alternate title: Kids meet a Twitter User"

[@plamtie]

you dont have to use twitter to be nb.

[@juanmeza958]

@@plamtie yeah but you have to be a total loser to actually care about Twitter

[@suckatoe8526]

Crystal is so mature and kind. When i have children i hope they're like her

[@alisamartinez8359]

well you can hope but when you do have on, you gotta teach them

[@jwhsjsjyshsnnk5428]

u don't hope, u mold them to be the person u want them to be. ur child isnt born as they are, and i hope i dont sound patronizing or whatnot lmao

[@1neAdam12]

Just set them down in front of a TV

[@1neAdam12]

---all kinds of rubbish

[@1neAdam12]

will become like

[@abbym07]

I really like the way that kid with the black shirt and blue design thinks and his sister. They’re smart👏

[@JuanLopez-wd5sc]

abby m he’s like 13 he’s not smart he just fools you because he looks smart than an average 13 year old

[@merwinaamir5960]

JayFromTheBay why are you upset?

[@JuanLopez-wd5sc]

merwin aamir because she is (Abby m) is dumb

[@merwinaamir5960]

JayFromTheBay jealousy isn’t a good thing. Try to stay positive

[@cosmedcarton]

@@JuanLopez-wd5sc admit it, this 13 years old boy is smarter than you.

[@tinahochstetler2189]

HiHo Kids. Bringing gender confusion to a child near you.

[@benisjamin6583]

3:28 Think about the evolutionary landscape for humans. Obviously men are larger and stronger, but modern science also tells us men, ON AVERAGE, have more fast twitch muscle fibers and have higher levels of hemoglobin in their blood. Men can run faster, jump farther, carry more, shoot and throw farther, etcetera. Average differences have large effects at the extremes-- this means all the best hunters would be effectively guaranteed to be men, because of their physical advantages; women could theoretically hunt for certain periods in their lives, but due to their physical disadvantages in relation to the tasks necessary for hunting, it would be a suboptimal situation. Women, before the birth control pill, menstruated and had unavoidable periods until old age; combine that with the fact of a lack of sanitary bathrooms, no plumbing, no tampons or sanitary napkins, and that makes women's lives much more difficult before modern times. They also had to care for infants, giving them sustenance, which was not optional. At the time, the infant death rate was absurdly high, and that made women's lives much more difficult. A vast amount of time was required staying healthy during pregnancy and giving birth and sustaining the children's lives during early childhood. Hunting was a grueling, arduous, cold, unrelenting, and often necessary task, which involved killing other animals. In fact, I think it's absurd to assume women of the time should have done effectively everything for everyone.

[@enbykenz]

this is so heartwarming. kids are not born with closed minds!!!

[@BryGuy0117]

Weell... raised* you mean... im simply suggesting that this is a controlled environment. Kids are easily manipulated. Kids are innocent treasures in all honesty though...

[@ciggybreath314]

They don't know any better

[@leem.5917]

Its brainwash

[@LoG-22]

@@leem.5917 I feel bad for our kids.

[@kellymichal1595]

ManiArc Arcson I think you might have been brainwashed

[@bea-pl3et]

How many times have u been called a girl? Kid: uh hmmm like uh 309 times

[@RobynFrost]

The thing is, that people shouldn't bother the kid because if he likes it, then it's none of their concern

[@ebolian.8147]

Fletcher Is his name

[@camillebonto-ferrer2309]

wow.... i always thought he was a girl... sorry.

[@thishandleisiunavailable]

The guest they had on did a double take and it took the girl clarifying that Fletcher was a boy for them to take him seriously, which tbh with his body language when he said he was a boy it wouldn't be hard to take as a joke

[@captainnuggetsofficial5331]

I thought he was a girl...

[@bell-7467]

Not to be bias, but Indigenous Australian Tasmanian women were way stronger tthen the men who just kept the fire going. They couold hold their breathe for 2 hours whilst diving. Sorry about the spelling mistakes!

[@phoenixkotsapa2099]

@phocalty yeah thats what i was thinking

[@CC-ed9lf]

They literally told the kids you can be a boy or a girl or anything in between.

[@jul1av1]

"What if I told you sometimes I feel like a boy?" Crystal: that's okay. MY HEARTTT

[@laobok]

How the hell do you feel like a boy? What is this nonsense?

[@fruckie6290]

@@laobok Gender dysphoria is what makes people transgender. It's not something they can control. They're born with it and it's not something they're able to change. They can transition into the correct gender since they do not identify with the gender they were assigned with at birth. It's also not nonsense. It's a real thing people struggle with. I hope this helps clear things up, I'm always willing to do my best to inform someone that wants to learn.

[@why8441]

劉木 In other words tomboy (most badass thing ever!!)

[@fruckie6290]

@@laobok Gender dysphoria is diagnosed through therapy. That's how people know they're transgender. Don't tell me what to do about my situation when you have no clue what I've done to solve it.

[@ZozoLadybug16]

Crystal is THE BEST

[@betsyrich]

If given the option of a ball or a doll, my toddler would ignore them and eat rocks. Not 100% sure how kiddo will identify based on that :\ Nanta was great, loved this Kids Meet!

[@melekpond1213]

SHSHSHSHS this comment is hilarious

[@mayaconnor4206]

Finally some positivity in the youtube comments !!

[@poptartpoptart5658]

make sure your kid doesn't eat rocks

[@flowerpxtals]

He will identify as the rock.

[@secretninja247]

😂😂😂

[@ajaxfernsby4078]

The boy said the men hunted probably because they were stronger. Then Nanta said “I can be strong.” But she didn’t give the intelligent boy the respect of acknowledging his correct statement. He said strongER. She can hunt for sure. But if we were talking about early mankind, and he was, the men had greater speed and strength, on average, and would have had a better chance of living had he not killed his prey. The children were smarter than the adult.

[@cp-m9178]

I don't get the whole "if you give a child the choice between a ball and a doll, it's a girl if it chooses the doll and a boy if it chooses the ball" bc i remember very well that during my childhood, most children around me didn't exclusively play with dolls or balls?? I know there's been studies but if a girl for example, is given only dolls during her upbringing, then obviously, she's going to choose a doll during an experiment, because it's something familiar. Most of my friends had brothers or sisters so they got to play with both. My bsf's brother loved playing with barbies, another boy friend loved playing with Sylvanian's, and both girls and boys loved playing with legos... when i was a child, everyone played with everything and toys weren't gendered

[@dwikapurba3818]

xandor and his sister are so smart. I am impressed!

[@theyearthreethousand911]

His name is Xandor?

[@proteasfire7572]

Nola Gamer2008 his?

[@theyearthreethousand911]

@@proteasfire7572 Xandor is not a girl he is a boy

[@proteasfire7572]

Nola Gamer2008 oh i thought it was the kid with long hair

[@hannahameed]

In my language , Bahasa Melayu , we use the pronoun 'Dia' ,we use it for both of the gender . We don't have specific pronoun for male or female.

[@user-pp1ff3kt5g]

Yes us too. In the Philippines we use "sya". And it can be used for any gender.

[@sherrybipper191]

Same here in Indonesia

[@bluechipmunk1225]

Nobody asked you to flaunt your languages superior pronouns

[@BrokenGlassIDEK]

@@bluechipmunk1225 okay boomer

[@BrokenGlassIDEK]

@Wayne Splatlink okay boomer

[@avocadoolive1484]

“She goes by they/them” I DEADDD 😂😂😂💀

[@An0nym0u3]

Time?

[@fotyglockyt7262]

The very last 10 seconds of the video 😳😳

[@1outofone632]

"Why is gender such a big deal?" "You know, sometimes I wish it really wasn't" - I feel the same way

[@euphoriarose201]

It was never a big deal until they made it to be.

[@heidia1804]

1OutofOne Wouldn’t be such a big deal if there weren’t thousands of different ones imo. Seems like a new one comes out every week and obviously people are gonna question it. I think that’s why it’s become a bigger deal

[@lotsofteabutnonetodrink5843]

she said that yet she enforces it on herself xD

[@hollywilson5439]

Haha, gender shouldn't be a big deal, really it shouldn't. But, there will still be people that argue with the biological aspect, that yes, even if you feel that you are astrogender, you are a biological male. Sorry dude, it is what it is

[@Densoro]

Actually the people who made gender a big deal are the ones who built their governments and their households on mistreating certain genders, who sailed around the world and used violence to stop indigenous societies from believing in third genders in a sociological/spiritual sense.

[@theeasyma]

I'm sorry, but at 3:28 I think the boy (don't know his name) is right. Men are generally stronger and have more muscle mass, that's not something you can talk away... even though of course there are women who are really strong and stronger than men

[@gardensnailll]

Juliana Silva it’s not something that’s good to talk about in public, you will get judged. That’s what they stated, so go away.

[@fMONA94]

@Juliana Silva probably because common sense like men are physically stronger than women isn't common anymore

[@parkermcdowell2996]

You don’t have to say “I’m sorry” when starting that sentence lol. It’s common knowledge that males have always been stronger than females in general.

[@Kevin-qn2kw]

It's considered a bold statement today because it's often disputed by the left. If you hold such an opinion you're likely to be labeled as sexist. I don't know many people who follow this opinion with the belief that women and men should be relegated to different roles in society. They just want women to be held to the same physical standards as men for the same jobs.

[@rachmaninovwasemo2313]

I also think it's a point that what toy kids choose is more based on what they are told is okay to play with. I'm a female and played with "boy toys." Not because I'm trans or anything. Even if men are stronger I dont think that has ANY connection to what toys you play with or how you want to dress.

[@danishbiochem]

An abridged version of grooming sessions. Be aware.

[@rengoku9866]

How old is the boy in the dark blue? He’s smart as f*ck

[@brenmoyer4896]

These kids get it.

[@swazilandandbotswana8856]

Brenna Moyer I don’t think you or these kids get it

[@iamnikhiyaa1]

Brenna Moyer we don’t 🤣

[@mdrahman7464]

PERIOOOOD PERIODD

[@staceylikesthelogicalthing8042]

Get what?

[@MB-xh4gf]

That kid was literally understood more about biology than an adult.

[@heidia1804]

M B Hope he doesn’t let these special snowflakes sway him

[@akashveersingh528]

@Scott Lawson I felt so proud for his parents

[@Densoro]

Maybe a B+, since he hasn’t covered the range of chromosome arrangements yet. He’ll get to sociology when he’s older, and doesn’t have adults who can’t tell the difference shoving their opinions down his throat.

[@thisworldiswonka]

@@heidia1804 it's like you didn't watch the video.

[@thisworldiswonka]

Being trans also has science to back it up You know

[@oofmaker3117]

“Leave the babies out of it” - Diesel Patches

[@mllnclle]

is this person not embarrassed at the fact that these kids are smarter and can reason better despite being like, 10?

[@cai3]

I'm watching this and thinking the same thing lmao.

[@connermason7874]

The boy with the long hair is sassier than Gerard Way himself xD

[@jewelsb26]

Hahahahaha

[@emilka2651]

Killjoy_Kerplunk shhshdhhs

[@domxlovejoy8953]

*Has flashback to when YUNGBLUD called Gerard Way daddy*

[@junhansguitar1036]

This was so unexpected but also so necessary

[@runningwiththewolves8284]

Omg I didn’t expect to see any Killjoys in the comments And that reference is just * chef’s kiss *

[@Annakist76]

Kids meet a NUN (in habit!) , pleeeeeeaase, pretty please!

[@alenajaweed]

"do i look like a girl to you?" "yes" "but...what if i told you i feel more like being a boy sometimes?" *shrugs cutely* "thats okay!!" yall thats wholesome~

[@Abowlofnotsquashsoup]

I hate the comments why are people like “iTs BoY oR gRiL NOthIng iN betWeEn” dude who cares if someone says their enby just accept that there’s no point screaming BOY OR GIRL in the comments

[@rivroyerr]

This.

[@MsAnni97]

Okay so I don't care what anyone identifies as. that's totally their choice and I resepct that. But I don't like the fact that simple biological facts are being ignored. Men gernerally are stronger and more muscular because they produce more testosterone than women. So saying that men are stronger than women isn't sexist or discriminating, but actually a fact. That's also why men were hunters back then instead of women. That's why I think the boy at 3:07 is on the right path and has a very intelligent way of thinking about this. Props to him.

[@qp1377]

I think the key is not to exclude women who are also strong. I can agree with the biological factors that make men generally stronger than women, but i think part of why the whole gender thing is an issue is because we are *restricted* to certain roles just because we're a male or a female if that makes sense??

[@reemnn7042]

I agree with you

[@MsAnni97]

I agree. Women can be strong as well and obviously shouldn't be excluded. I wasn't trying to say otherwise and I'm sorry if that came across like that. I just didn't like the fact that Nanta made it seem as if it was worng for the boy to say that men are biologically stronger than women. I really don't have a problem with people choosing their own gender and identifying differently. I just think that it becomes a problem when they start denying science...

[@aixad8046]

Women also generally have stronger immune systems as well :)

[@fMONA94]

And the X and Y chromosome.

[@taniav.5635]

I'm Filipino and I was just gonna mention the concept of "siya"! We don't have gender-specific pronouns here. Basically "siya" is our equivalent of "they/them", and so we're all called by they/them pronouns in our native tongue. 😊

[@elimeow]

that’s actually so cool :0 wish america had that lol

[@abbie645]

That’s why my dad gets he/she mixed up all the time lmao

[@DarkAngelEU]

But do Filipino have gender roles?

[@kevinadams1835]

megara V. That’s amazing!

[@tapomitaghosh]

Well so I'm an Indian, and in Bengali also we address everybody with something similar to Siya, it is pronounced like "se".

[@jeremytucker3106]

"Kids meet a gender confused person"

[@daredoggo]

Oh gee, some kids being more mature than most adults.

[@alexlikesgoats]

I'm disappointed in a lot of these comments. People act like the kids were forced to be here when they're clearly curious and asking questions. Not like anyone said "you have to be nonbinary". In fact it's the opposite with the comments saying "you have to be binary".

[@antonbln1567]

@@Pinkteddie that`s a late reply if you ask me

[@_prince_idris_7614]

@@Pinkteddie they do especially in replies and stuff .-.

[@chandude3]

More like their parents pumped their head full of their own bs

[@khushijoshi1809]

Crystal is perfect for these videos

[@matejkufa8652]

Them (or however you say it) has a voice that confooozes me cuz it sounds like a mashup of both biological genders

[@zerothepanda02]

You used their pronouns correctly and some non binary people train their voice to sound more in the middle

[@matejkufa8652]

@@zerothepanda02 Thanks. That was very useful to me.

[@tokke2089]

The girl with the whole blue outfit is so sweet my heart just exploded 🥺💖

[@Kokorisu]

This was a very good video. I find myself still struggling with understanding the non-binary side of gender, so this is actually very nice to hear for me too. These kids are so attentive! They beat me by several miles.

[@organicmamajones2743]

They've been brainwashed!!!

[@addsonco]

@@organicmamajones2743 What??

[@missnaomi613]

Some of us grew up without gender non-conformity on our radar. My firstborn and I share tomboy tendencies, but I always felt Right as a female. When they came out as non-binary as a young adult, I figured my job was to be supportive, wether I "got it" or not. Incidentally, the Talmud even acknowledges 6 genders (including"both" and"neither.")

[@laobok]

​@@missnaomi613 Those aren't genders, those are gender expressions. Don't confuse yourself.

[@fruckie6290]

@@laobok Being nonbinary is a real gender.

[@aishabluem]

#letcrystalchooseherownclothes2018

[@billiehunter1017]

Yes

[@hessabd.7284]

I hope this doesn’t reach my kids. STOP THIS!!!! Crazy people and crazy world we live in

[@taj9511]

I found this on kids KZbin while setting it up for my son. I can’t even explain how messed up it is. People in the comments calling it teaching but it’s grooming. There’s no need for the conversation to even be had, presenting such an unnecessary idea to impressionable minds is evil

[@michelebella677]

The only thing I was shocked about was when Nanta said they were an adult! I could've sworn they were definitely under 16.

[@AnaGomes-ng3do]

- How did you know you were a girl? Kristel: I feel it in my body I just love this girl, her parents are doing such a great job

[@Old-bald-lazy]

Krystal sounds more correct.

[@zabooka]

Roma Hobo or Crystal

[@farafaramissfara]

Ana Gomes The right spelling is CRYSTAL*

[@kimdrqula]

does the name spelling trigger people this much

[@aurelian771]

too bad facts don't care about your feelings

[@heatherblaire3269]

That boy in the blue is smart

[@quewntenerif616]

I wouldn't call someone who says males like to play with a ball because they were the ones hunting because they are stronger "smart", but that's just me.

[@Edward-bm7vw]

+quewn tenerif He's not entirely wrong. He's on the right track.

[@vegandemon3259]

quewn tenerif agreed

[@vanessaphanouvong5870]

quewn tenerif He couldn't articulate his words very well but he is smart because he is opinionated and thought about this critically.

[@jayjays1119]

quewn tenerif hes like 8 chill

[@platapusduckr7857]

Lol the kid lowkey roasted her/him by explaining that genius kid 😂

[@Sebastian-gk6bl]

Them**

[@air-fan5714]

@@Sebastian-gk6bl she**

[@uhronnie]

@@air-fan5714 **them

[@air-fan5714]

@@uhronnie she**

[@uhronnie]

@@air-fan5714 *they

[@oranrambo7049]

Why are they teaching the kids this stuff it’s getting out of hand

[@raghallach3763]

I love how mature these kids were. Especially Brianna. She handled things like an adult.

[@madisonstarr9615]

When Nanta (I hope I spelled that right) was doing the handshake with the little girl at the end!! So cute!! 🥺

[@fruckie6290]

*Performs the macarena*

[@frankabjh674]

lol was it i feel little just acted nice didn't really want to do that

[@FullRedditStories7]

@@frankabjh674 fr it was so weird

[@_prince_idris_7614]

@@frankabjh674 thats so random it was just a handshake lol

[@purplecatloverrandompizza]

omg I love you pfp!

[@joocaarjucfe5675]

My little brother was watching this and i disabled his KZbin app.

[@Nooby_m]

I like how even though they say it's confusing, they get the idea.

[@dusktheowlgryphon]

Me when I clicked on this video: oh no the comments are gonna be a warzone of hate. Me when I read the comments: oh there's not that much.

[@charliegottschalk5124]

•Dusk the Owl Gryphon• there is a couple

[@Stronhue]

@@charliegottschalk5124 but those are only in the replies

[@charliegottschalk5124]

No Sha true

[@RobynFrost]

I always hate when that happens. I love going through comments but when I see the hate, I wanna scream

[@ILoveMagic15]

Because all critical comments get deleted.

[@zulfahudatulhaq8504]

How old is Sandor??? He's so smart and mature. Is that his sibling? She's also smart wow!!!

[@Nicetofi]

This things not for kids for sure.

[@ashlynporter7155]

The little girl how she said thats ok was so sweet

[@xxnekkochanxx9687]

Xander is Literally one smart kid like.. Lol He knows more now than when I was his age!!

[@whitneyhouston187]

i respect this completely, but i don’t get it at all and i don’t understand why gender is such a big deal.

[@colombala]

Gender is something that has been extremized for years by our society, barrers have been put up for people just because of their gender, and so people want to destroy the barrers and they become innovative with new, alternitive "forms of identity", which are actually just ways of challenging the unpermissive ways of the past, and creative ways to feel comfortable in daily life. People are naturally creative and since one can build identity in certain ways, one can decide to simply 'be of no gender' and be called "them"...maybe one can find It unnecessary, but those people probably struggled in their family/school and came up with an idea to feel more relieved with themselves in order to rise to their rivals. So just respecting is the easiest and kindest thing to do, though it's normal to be curious, and it's also normal to find It strange and exagerated at the beggining. And that...came out longer then i expected XD

[@moondash2560]

It shouldn’t be a big deal, but it is because people are so closed minded and are so against it, that it has to be made a big deal.

[@liam.s789]

Whitney Houston it’s not

[@velvetvelvet]

its mostly because some stubborn *boomers* want to live like its the 1960s

[@velvetvelvet]

its mostly because of cancel culture

[@juliamay2156]

She feels more like a boy? How does she know what being a boy feels like?

[@blackmetalgroot9233]

Wow, these kids are smarter then a lot of adults in this topic.

[@TheKadabra3]

These kids are so mature respectful and smart it’s incredible

[@taekirk344]

It's because there kids

[@TodorokiShoto-yf5iy]

@@taekirk344 yeah, kids are so understanding

[@gofost5256]

​@@TodorokiShoto-yf5iy more like kids don't understand so they just sit there confused as you talk about your personal life and your identity crisis to them. This video is pointless, these kids should be in school learning something useful

[@brie3679]

When I hit puberty, I started growing thick body hair, started having physically male characteristics, and genuinely wanted to be a boy. I felt like a boy. I did “boy” things. I hated dresses. I hated (and still do) hate make up. But I did want to be a mother one day. I’ve always been very “maternal”. It was genuinely like I was both male and female. Turns out I have PCOS and the male characteristics both physical and mental were explained by me having an extremely high level of testosterone. I have a theory that many people who feel like the opposite gender or both genders may have a hormonal imbalance.

[@markduchaney2453]

"hormonal imbalance" be careful what you say or they'll be knocking down this wall lmao

[@MasterHackerChannel]

I agree, it usually goes away as they age

[@MasterHackerChannel]

@@markduchaney2453 lol what do you mean?

[@jadekombe5227]

I honestly don't know that much about hormones. But some kids can already feel like they're not their assigned gender years before they hit puberty. I'm talking about 5 year olds. Isn't puberty when testosterone first appears on someone's body?

[@maybe.yellow]

@@MasterHackerChannel If you're talking about the kids feeling like they're a different gender, then no, it typically doesn't go away. If the feelings (gender dysphoria) continue into puberty, then it's most likely permanent and the only "solution" to put them in a better mental and physical state is transitioning.

[@gregordavis]

The ending is awkward, much like the whole video.

[@CrazyForCountryMusic]

This should not be for kids.

[@AlyciaSong]

What makes a boy a boy? Xander: "An X and a Y chromosome." OMG YASSSS BOY I LOVE YOU!

[@justirenada327]

Well that makes him a male but good try

[@cyt0skeleton934]

but he's not correct lmaoooooooooooo

[@akashveersingh528]

@@justirenada327 he is correct .. this is just what you snowflakes created

[@holdingyourheart5927]

It’s sad how kids are more accepting than adults

[@procrastinartist2825]

being an adult isn't easy, that's why when we have enough we all wish to go back to being kids

[@justsomeguy1014]

Well kids are growing up seeing these kinds of people being accepted in society so they learn to accept them adults are going to be less accepting as it’s something they didn’t grow up learning about as well and were probably taught to ridicule or make fun of people like this

[@psychadellicsweater8311]

@@justsomeguy1014 ...It still isn't ok, but I get your point.

[@justsomeguy1014]

ツ꧁TheBlackScrunchie꧂ im not saying it’s ok I’m saying that society is going to become more accepting thanks to the new generations

[@cyrusg8402]

That’s because they don’t know any better

[@riverdcg1129]

I wish I was this educated this young. I’m still finding things out about myself and I just wish something like this could’ve happened to me younger

[@reneethomas8539]

The best question asked: Why is gender such a big deal?