KIM SEON HO wins over Korea again / Korean Men Boycott Marriage [DK NEWS]

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[@benedictamensah9510]

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[@DKDKTV]

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[@soubhagyapadmakumar821]

Love you David for ur layered misogyny comment........

[@benedictamensah9510]

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[@ludoludo80]

If David is so cute and solid if he is looking for a long distance relationship to start I’m the candidate!!! Italy 🇮🇹 is calling you lol 😂

[@grace.aquino]

Kim Seon Ho's fans really pulled through on this issue! I'm sure this happens a lot but this is my first time seeing this much support unfold on the daily.

[@deborahsmith828]

Kim WooJin's Cubs did the same. False statements were said about him and his fans looked for the truth and reported on it. Check the video Finger Killer to see the situation.

[@Mai-on6dc]

It’s because if you’ve watched him in this reality show called 2 Days 1 Night (English title), you’ll definitely doubt the woman’s statements, plus everyone he’s ever worked with had nothing but nice things to say about him even when he was still a nobody. Then people started to doxx the woman and found out about her past and her issues. She was drinking while pregnant and posted a live about it as well. And her friends, according to Dispatch, voluntarily went to them to expose the woman and chose to defend Kim Seon Ho instead, that’s why a lot of people really support him. He seems like a really good guy who made such a bad decision of falling in love with a toxic person. 😢

[@Jokesonyou-j2o]

Both agreed to the abortion of an innocent baby.. i will never be his fan again.

[@anjalikumari-mh8kx]

@@Jokesonyou-j2o for God sake, grow the fuck up, it was their choice.

[@tianalawrence1686]

@@Jokesonyou-j2o 🤣🤣🤣🤣 what they did is legal!!!! Get over it!

[@zoesucre6311]

Concerning the whole marriage situation: from the sound of it, these men enter into relationships with certain types of women for shallow reasons and are all surprised Pikachu face when they get a shallow relationship? It's almost as if women are people too with their own thoughts, opinions goals and feelings, and that making sure you find someone compatible with you is an important part of a relationship!

[@Lady-yg4sr]

I totally agree with you. But I won't judge, because I haven't been there so I can't really say

[@zoesucre6311]

@@Lady-yg4sr fair

[@ashleighh2417]

Totally agree with you....its like guys in the west sing about what they can have you wearing and driving...what they can buy you but when they date said materialistic girls, they all upset about how women only want them for their money

[@peanutbuttersquid6124]

And judging from the lookism in the Korean society... This is something...

[@lchen2522]

Sounds like these people are getting into marriages with different expectations and they don't really know their partners. I don't believe there's like only one soul mate for everyone, but you should marry someone you actually like and respect at the very least. And you shouldn't be marrying someone you can't communicate openly with, and goes for both partners.

[@TrixTasha]

More than anything I feel bad for Seonho’s mental health throughout this week. I’m sure it was traumatizing and embarrassing to have their personal life put into the public like that. At the end of the day, the woman was someone he loved and even though his name is “cleared”, it can’t feel good to see all these personal things come into the public (which is probs why he gave a vague statement, to avoid all this attention). I hope he takes as much time as he needs, if/when he decides to come back I hope he knows he’s supported

[@jennifernyamekye5791]

I agree so much with your comment. His ex really went overboard with the TMI and like one of the guys said...I literally cannot wrap my head around someone with such a questionable background trying to get other people to judge a person they KNOW for a fact is a good person and will not retaliate. It boggles my mind till date. I know Seon Ho is embarrassed because this business is just really dirty laundry. I have moments where flashes of her ridiculous first expose just flash through my brain and I get really annoyed that she was immature enough to post all that stuff that are now so embarrassing to know she was lying about. I feel like it was all so tragic and unnecessary and I only found out about Seon Ho through his recent drama Homcha so I was so pressed imagining how his genuine stans must've been feeling. This lady tried to ruin his rapport with his colleagues, co-stars, directors, industry people, his fans.... I mean everyone. And she almost succeeded because all Kim Seon Ho would do is apologise. All this OVERKILL just for one apology and then she thought everything would just go away. So immature.

[@soul_asmr]

Yes exactly. I’ve been in a manipulative toxic relationship before and he’s probably mostly just fucking mortified all these details came out. Like I’m sure he’s beyond relieved to have his name exonerated and his career soon to be back on track but like - if the entire world had to see me get mortified in a relationship with a jackass who took advantage of me???? Fuck me it was hard enough to do on my own - AND he’s only been recovering from the breakup for a few months. From 2d1n we already know he suffers from so much stress & pain from his childhood and I just SINCERELY hope he can take a break and enjoy his checks from his work and take a vacation and rest and come back when he feels safe and ready to.

[@TrixTasha]

@@soul_asmr yes to all of this!! Also so sorry you had to go through a toxic relationship. You deserve better 💚

[@Mag118]

No winners here, just survivors hopefully

[@youarealimitededition1224]

I agree

[@drottnari]

So, marrying a woman based on her looks is okay, but marrying a man for his money isn't? This is a trade where both parties get what they thought they wanted (or felt pressured by society to do so), but suddenly one party gets salty because they can't have it all. From a western point of view and sexless relationships, what I see happening to the married couples around me is, once there is a child/are children, the whole dynamic in the relationship changes. Women still do most of the care work, women still do most in the household, if women work, it is them the kindergarten or school calls when the child is sick. And let's not forget that women are hugely disadvantaged in the labour market, firstly because they have to halt their career and/or are a potential drop-out due to pregnancy, also women are more in danger of poverty when they get older because of their lower salary/having worked less and having paid less into the pension fund. So, with all those disadvantages and after a a long day with children, cooking and cleaning (all of which is not recognised as "proper work") you would be exhausted. Most women I know are tired and really frustrated but men don't see it. They just see that the woman doesn't dress up anymore and doesn't want sex anymore.

[@cyiomiantes8451]

Well said 👏

[@jossilenylopes4519]

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@TheFullmetalAlchemist.]

Lol those men should get a sugar baby or something.

[@shhd2105]

@@TheFullmetalAlchemist. that wouldn't work then they'd start complaining about gold diggers and not having a real connection 🙄

[@maanobitaam5648]

In my my country men love to marry a young fair and a hot girl but when a girl's family choose a govt employee for their daughter some people troll them on internet😂😂

[@tastyratatouille142]

The matter should have stayed between the couple. We fans dont need to know anything about celebs personal life we are only concerned with their skills on screen. I just hope he comes back soon hes indeed a good actor

[@kinny4035]

Exactly 💯

[@longkumer96]

Agreed 💯❤️🙏

[@tear_tea]

Yeah but people like the girl do these things to ruin people like kim seonho... all fans can do is watch

[@Armtiny]

Yea exactly. Besides, about his mood when his acting doesn't work out, it's completely normal and human in my opinion. He might not have the best and angelic interaction with the staff but doesn't seem the worst either. In the end they do benefit from having him act, it's work. Nobody has perfect work life, it sucks

[@tastyratatouille142]

@@Armtiny yes like whatever i dont wanna know how is he like to his gf and other ppl as long as its not something illegal. I just wanna see him on screen bcs this man is legit a good actor

[@QudsiaKhanamOfficial]

The fact that these men don't even see housework as actual work tells me everything I need to know.

[@aspannas]

"fun fact", women's competence and work have always been undermined and seen as something "natural" or a trait that all women have, like caregiving or housework, and it has been taken for granted for hundreds of years. And the fact that the majority of women work at a job AND work at home, unlike many men, but only one is being compensated for. I've read about this in my class for uni.

[@QudsiaKhanamOfficial]

@@aspannas yeah these men acting like "oh what I am getting from this marriage" when they can't even feed themselves smh

[@sameekshamahajan6257]

literal grown babies w temper tantrums. at least babies are cute and shit

[@sumayyahadetunmbi4347]

Fr

[@goddog74]

A traditional women's role has always been seen as inferior and less important, hence justifying these males doing whatever they want outside and inside of their marriage, treating their wives like maids. Unfortunately, women have also been influenced to see it as such, that's why so many mother-in-laws belittle their son's wives, ordering her around like a slave and treating her like a child incubator.

[@ric1666]

Agree with David, women are human not a trophies. Why are going only for pretty girls how about seeing all women as human and going for other factors not just how pretty they are. This is misogyny.

[@yyxwai]

It goes both ways. You can say the men only want looks but then you’ll have to also say those women only want money. Both are shallow reasons but keep in mind one is something that’s earned and the other isn’t. Those type of men go for the “pretty” girls because they are lustful and they think with the head between their legs.

[@user-wt5if6rx8m]

@@yyxwai Oh so women are machiavellic while men are just following their natural instincts? lol You’re trying to act reasonable while not being reasonable. You skip the part where marriage benefits men the most. They get more time to concentrate on their careers and personal life, women do most of the house chores that include cooking, cleaning, laundry. When there’s a child in the equation, put that on the wife’s tab. If that’s how it ends up being for most women, why the hell would they not want a husband that could at least provide things like house cleaning services, babysitters? If you’re offering daily home cooking, why would you not prefer to be with someone who takes you out on dinners often? Things that balance the responsibilities in the relationship but yeah, they cost money. It’s different types of effort, depending on the deals involved in the relationship. The daily, physical, domestic effort vs the money making effort at a formal job. The problem is you guys think so low of women, you don’t recognize their part as effort enough. You expect women to do both? And still have time or energy to be hot and sexy? Especially if she also works in a formal setup, ironically making less money, why would anybody choose to put up with the worse they could get out of a relationship?

[@yyxwai]

@@user-wt5if6rx8m You're just putting words into my mouth. Let me put it into simpler terms so you can understand: rich men who only chase pretty women will get pretty women who only chase rich men. Marriage isn't something that benefits one party more than the other. Advice: if you see marriage like that then don’t get married; you’ll ruin yourself. Also, everyone gets the same amount of time; men do not have more time than women. What you do with time is dependent on you. If we’re adding children into the equation (again, rich man pretty women scenario) of course women will be expected to pick up household chores. If it were rich women and pretty man the same rules apply: pretty man will be expected to provide household chores. In a scenario with a child in a two parent household where one partner garners a salary (x) of x>$100000 (aka rich parent), the other partner is best to stay home to take care of the child. Having a two parent household where a parent is given the opportunity to stay home to raise a child when the significant other is working is a privilege and possibly one of the best scenarios for a child to grow up successfully. Last point to address. You ended up generalizing me and all men thinking “[we] think so low of women” and “don’t recognize their part as effort.” I don’t think lowly of women and I recognize individual effort. What makes you think I don’t? My reply isn’t talking down on women at all. If you read it you can see I’m crapping on the rich men who chase pretty women by inadvertently calling those men dumb because they “think with the head between their legs.”

[@shreythakur9079]

How is it misogyny lol .. women are also getting married for money only

[@xshantop1verse407]

Stfu go Google misogyny

[@MissTam2000]

How can you comlpaint about a loveless marriage when you married for sex and not love. You get what you pay for. If you want better, work for it. That is the same for relationships too. Don't be lazy and then shocked when the relationships isn't much. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes! Simple.

[@gustlightfall]

This is the reason why I remain neutral till proven beyond reasonable doubt otherwise.

[@musaviki783]

Exactly. Having watched the Korean entertainment industry for a very long time, I learned very quick that things aren't always as they seem. It's sad that the "victim" is not greeted with immediate support but truth is we don't know who the real victim actually may be. It's awful to think about but logically it's the best option imo

[@itochris3506]

Ikr?! It was like kim woojin's situation before. People should really learn.

[@Kjspots]

It was same with singer Roy Kim (with different story of course)

[@FlowerFriend02]

@@itochris3506 people still believe that he is guilty. They don’t wanna believe he’s innocent cuz they don’t care or don’t like him.

[@SangSang-qm9xv]

Fact the she posted at THE HIGHT OF HIS CAREER, I was like hell nahhhh, let me wait and see🙄

[@madhurisrao897]

Its unfortunate KSH had to go through so much because of one bad relationship. I agree with what Danny said. The girl caused a lot of problems even before the pregnancy issue, how can she put false allegations on KSH and ruin his career. God knows what was the intention maybe to get him back/malign his public image. People are crazy to bring another person down KSH I hope u take a good break and come back with good projects.

[@SangSang-qm9xv]

Basically, Jealousy at its best

[@rey114_]

Indeed, those woman absolutely delulu and crazy, big probs she even preggo with other man, not KSH...she need to be exposed so other man didn't get caught on her trap

[@elviedelarosa5028]

She portrayed the "victim " role but unfortunately got the wrong script. Or should I say " wrong director " - whoever is backing her up.

[@harurenford2296]

I read somewhere on twitter that it's not uncommon for newscasters in SK climb their careers through sexual relationships. So, the moment her identity is blown, it is expected she has her own scandal. Hence, she backed down immediately saying it's a misunderstanding.

[@dprimes9923]

Exactly! I’m so tired of this Korean girls coming out accusing this actors every time smh! Ik not all this actors are saints, but this girls are so bent on ruining other’s careers so bad!!

[@rdragonchansaurus]

Kim Seonho chose to be silent and apologized but his friends, co-workers, and fans chose to not be.. obviously, it's showing what kind of person is he.

[@eddiy335]

People who are so quick to cancel people and rant on social media when they don't even have the whole story are not wise at all. Anything involving a past relationship is always going to be extremely nuanced so people rushing to pick sides is extremely foolish.

[@sandakubisa3492]

Yesss. In cases where things blow up its best to wait and see how everything plays out. 9/10 times things change tramendously and by the time people see the full story(or the general plot of it) they have already ruined a person's life and mental state

[@sacarema]

Kim Seon Ho has lost so much but I hope he takes this time to get stronger mentally and physically. He’s an excellent actor and he has nothing to be ashamed of in my opinion. Glad dispatch posted so much about his ex. Hope to see Kim Seon Ho sooner than later 💚

[@trizzybizzy1665]

7:30 She played herself thinking everyone was going to feel sorry for her having the abortion. She was banking on that sympathy & didn’t think her own skeletons would see the light of day. Everybody lives in a glasshouse and she was foolish to forget that. And as for the abortion…no one will ever truly know if that was Kim Seon Ho’s baby or not. His reputation needs to be put back together for real.

[@rcgonda71]

Maybe she was the one who suggested ab*rtion because she was not sure if it was Kim Seon Ho's. She was caught lying about seeing other men just a week before she said she was pregnant. According to their friend, Seon Ho's reaction on the girl's crying while telling him the news was, "don't cry it's a blessing" but of course he was also afraid and worried because of his contracts. And deciding on lettingbtje baby go was a mutual decision, based on their mutual friend's statement.

[@annashin9629]

@@rcgonda71 yeah.. same thoughts

[@rey114_]

@@rcgonda71 This! Poor KSH, he is so naive and get foolish by those crazy woman, we need KSH comeback stronger soon, let's wish for that

[@weightloss.nutrition.lifes8512]

True, he would have known and still supported her

[@rcgonda71]

@@rey114_ yes, he is too nice and naive for his own good.😕

[@deej6795]

There's a study that says marriage benefits men more than women. Women do a lot more work to maintain the household and still have to hold down a great career. Men can get promoted simply because they're married.

[@ann-sharonv.mukanganyama3374]

Yeah I also researched on how women build and rebuild the social fabric of every society..

[@SwiftieBlink03]

Let's not start when pregnancy starts 🙂

[@XxxAllyBBvip]

i agree on part of "men gets promoted simply coz theyre married" thats probably coz they are pushed" to do MORE for their kids or family. lol But i think OVERALL it should go both ways. Being supportive for each other careers and helping each other on all the house chores. #15years happily married over here

[@NS-et5wh]

Also women's life expectancy shortens in a marriage while men live longer when they're married

[@aspannas]

@@XxxAllyBBvip There are literal studies on this, it's always been this way, men in general get promoted more easily, especially at jobs that are mostly women.

[@Drewski217]

I think the marriage complaint is so bogus and that David is on the money - a lot of these beautiful women are intelligent and know that they're being approached by the nerdy guys largely *because* of their beauty and I doubt most of them would approach these women with full/completely separate lives from them if they didn't find them attractive. If these guys wanted a hot wife and the women wanted a faithful partner and stability is everyone not getting what they signed up for? They didn't approach them younger because they didn't feel they could so why is it bad that these women dated before them? Plus, given what I've seen about what women trade socially and economically for marriage they should definitely see it in a business oriented way sometimes. An even trade across the board.

[@five_to_nine_online]

10/10 analysis

[@alinnetorressoares8483]

Man: Marries woman just because she's hot; Algo man: What do you mean she don't love me?

[@JiixBooks]

THIS

[@BluesRiffage]

The issue here isn't even the rich guys, it's incels putting themselves in the position of the rich guys and getting triggered on their behalf. It's utterly ridiculous. Let's not pretend like these ultra wealthy men with trophy wives don't have plenty of opportunities outside of their marriage. They almost all go to salons and have affairs anyway, contributing to the dry spells at home, while the wife raises the kids. That's how it works in many of these relationships.

[@alinnetorressoares8483]

@@BluesRiffage the incel game in korea is strong. They just see woman as a subject of sex and get man when rich but not interesting man get married to hot woman for stability.

[@sophiatan7264]

Coming from a married person, lack of sex in marriage usually stems from stuff outside of the bedroom, relationship problems, issues between couples that they haven't resolved, etc. To put it in simple terms, when you have a great friendship with your lover, it also increases the chances of a great relationship in the bedroom ;)

[@audreyp2425]

Been married 29 years. YES to your comment. 😊👍

[@shreythakur9079]

Just because you are married doesn't mean you can talk for everyone else ... Not everyone has "great friendship " .. sometimes life is not so perfect so just stop preaching

[@aspannas]

@@shreythakur9079 wow sounds like it hit a nerve

[@rhonda5056]

True

[@rhonda5056]

@@aspannas yes

[@2693742]

Many years ago, a friend and I were chatting about relationships and these were his exact words: "I don't need my woman to have brains, I already have brains, she needs to be beautiful, if you set a wallpaper on your phone, you want it to be beautiful, as long as she's pretty I don't mind if she's just a wallpaper." This is the mentality of most men in my country, then they'll complain and cry that women don't love and respect them, how'll you get respect when you just assume your partner is a beautiful wallpaper and marry them for that. This friend of mine is now getting a divorce and all bitter about marriage.

[@epifanny]

Lol

[@Marklee-lx7cd]

Lol well served, you should totally tell hi this as if you are in contact with him .

[@juliav601]

It’s very hypocritical to complain that their wife “only loves their money” when most of them only married their wife because they’re good looking 🙄🤨

[@Alexandra-yd1iz]

Say it loudeer please !!!

[@ray.ar.5757]

I totally agree 👍

[@shreythakur9079]

They married to have sex with their wives but they are forced into sexless marriage ..meanwhile they also don't get their own money Lol

[@lillyess385]

@@shreythakur9079 Bold of you to assume the lack of sex because of the wife. I have two friends who left their husbands because they couldn't deliver in the bedroom and found husbands who could.

[@nightingalex9754]

That is true and that is really sad.

[@rcgonda71]

Who's here for Kim Seon Ho?😊🙋‍♀️💚💚

[@marjjopio0824]

🙋‍♀️

[@Misti-thv]

Me

[@vangie_blackbeauty109]

me

[@nailareza2514]

Kim Seonho really cancelled cancel culture

[@carolgardens7294]

I am with you on this sentiment.

[@whereisjustice5112]

I am Glad Justice is on Seon Ho side. Hope Korean Netizen stop hate comments and love each others.

[@bushraakibriah5529]

Yes I’m happy he’s back.

[@CL-cn8wt]

Not just Korean Netizens, i saw tons of comments from international fans as well. There's lots to learn from this.

[@rosean374]

Only international fans stood by his side. Thank goodness for them

[@2x1qsdqw40]

korean female netizen and feminst dont stop

[@jakethedawg4870]

Dispatch have been redeeming themselves lately. First the AOA case and now this. Props to them for the thorough investigation.

[@rayser90]

I am become a fan of dispatch.... Is rarely to find media who seek the truth about information

[@anzalaaiman9971]

Nopes im sorry but u guys sound so dumb saying that Dispatch just wants the hottest news & biggest breaking/shocking topics, if anyone should be thanked its Kim Seonho's & Hong Cha-Yong's friends.....

[@sidiquerodney4982]

@@anzalaaiman9971 Would you rather they have said nothing then?

[@pretend_we_re_dead1554]

@@sidiquerodney4982 nah, just that they stop stalking idols

[@anzalaaiman9971]

@@sidiquerodney4982 lmao really im done with irrelevant ppl on internet twisting my words all the time i said, dispatch shouldnt be praised coz they didnt do anything "noble" as such as everyone is making it seem, they were just looking for their own selfish needs~ hottest topic~ more clicks, more views where did i say that i wished they hadnt done this? I am just saying dispatch just did what it ALWAYS does, nothing special, it should NOT be praised coz its just smthing they always do, its just for the first time i have seen them putting their work to sm good use which im surely happy about but not smthing which should be praised as i said, if anyone should be praised, its their frnds

[@xArtemis2010x]

David made very valid points on the marriage topic and I understand excatly where he is coming from with his arguments. And yes, if you don't want a loveless marriage, date a person you like for a while and see how your relationship/sex life works out. Once you know each other well enough, get married. Some people really make it more complicated than it is. Who gets married on the spot nowadays without knowing basic stuff about their partner? That's just asking for disaster! Besides, if you want to change something about yourself then don't just whine and talk about it, but make it happen. Most importantly: If you really want your marriage to work out, better focus on the character, humor and interests of a person. Beauty will fade and money alone can't buy love and happiness... - Coming from a 30+ year old person from Europe who has bee in a relationship since age 18, then got married to the partner at age 25 and now lives in a happy marriage with lots of love and even children. It's possible, guys! And just so we're clear, my relationship didn't start off with the picture perfect looks or money. We watched each other go through our braces and pimple phase during puperty before we became beautiful little butterflies in our twenties... And the money only really came in after finishing military service and university. You just need to see beyond the superficial stuff if you want to make it to and through marriage. Love was the biggest driving force. You just have to set goals as a couple and stick to them.

[@sandralison7584]

Perfect said. From Europe too. Germany. Exactly

[@xArtemis2010x]

@@sandralison7584 Ohhh same. =)

[@helennagawa1678]

Wow that's awesome.

[@hui2ng]

kim seon ho is a professional artiste, very talented and charming. really hope he is well and bounce back soon.

[@arianeavenido2123]

Regarding the marriage issue, I don't understand why these men felt victimized by women that they chose to marry because they like their appearance. Good relationships need to stem from somewhere. You need to get to know the other person's character and personality to see if you can live with them. I know a lot of nerdy men who married good women because they did not put looks over personality/values. Also talking about how the income should be spent can be negotiated between couples. Compromise is the key.

[@psychiclove1045]

Exactly, don't get married. Stay single and have as many sexual affairs you want. No one has bound and gagged you to get married 🤷🏼

[@shreythakur9079]

Society does

[@psychiclove1045]

@@shreythakur9079 then it's misplaced anger.

[@uncomfortabletruths7990]

Girls get their backs blown out by chad all their 20s and then they turn 30 and realize men aren’t going for them anymore they going to the new girls in their 20s and then they go look for a simp dude that worked for his 20s and got a good job and got no sex and then they put on an act to get him to marry her and then once u have a kid with her u they drop the good girl act and then don’t give u sex and then cheat on u and then divorce u and take half the shit u worked for in ur 20s and go and try to get railed by chads again it’s literally a cycle

[@psychiclove1045]

@@uncomfortabletruths7990 lmao, I think women are not your cup of tea. You should marry this Chad person and get your back blown out too. You're in love with him and I give you my blessings. Go for it dude.

[@uncomfortabletruths7990]

@@psychiclove1045 see I told u the problem but the girls don’t take it seriously that’s why men don’t get married anymore like what do think this whole video was about I literally told u the problem and u made a joke about it but hey it is what it is men r realizing it’s even in Korea dude crazy I thought this was only a western problem but it’s in Asia as well sad really

[@paulaangelicaabrigoabrigo1175]

I'm so inlove with David.. he's a smart person, and also reads the place and context, standing his opinion with arguments and respect 💕💕💕💕

[@lhamo5796]

yesss

[@ytkrsg]

모자 쓴놈이 david 맞지ㅋㅋ? 말하는게 ㅈㄴ웃기네ㅋㅋ 꼭 나중에 설거지남 되서 유튜브로 번 돈 모조리 다 가져다 바치고 월 10만원 용돈 받고 사는 atm인생 살 길 바란다ㅋㅋㅋㅋ

[@melissaweiss]

TEAM DAVID!!! 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

[@soul_asmr]

No seriously tho I said the same thing. Big fat crush on him and his big sexy brain LOL

[@anab.9115]

I love hearing David's opinion. Def. Would love to find someone with that kind of depth.

[@calliesantana9524]

He’s the perfect mix of modern and conservative thinking I wanna send him a 90 day fiancé visa and put a ring on it 😍

[@DKDKTV]

he's ready to receive $200 allowance

[@iamdisappointed1328]

@@DKDKTV hehehehehehe charge him everytime you guys have "sex" hehehehhe deduct it from the allowance.

[@carolgardens7294]

@@DKDKTV very funny! In the U.S. I know many married women who take charge of the family budget because they are good at it and diligent. Men like to 'joke' that they get 'an allowance,' but other couples know the truth is that partners divide up the tasks and responsibilities in a way that works for them.

[@csy897]

@@DKDKTV Danny, don’t be silly. He would probably marry a woman who would need to work after marriage. Ain’t nobody got time to fix his meals so that he can make that $200 budget work.

[@Sana1234-z5g]

Kim seon ho plz take care of your mental and physical health.. think of this situation like an nightmare..as long as u wake up every thing will gonna b alright..dont blame your self..u really work hard for everything ..so don't let your hard work goes to vain..be healthy..may God bless you and gives u all the happiness u wanted

[@samiraalhadi9648]

Kim seonho story: if I were him, I'd go into hiding for awhile. Regardless of the public sentiment supporting him now, it's still embarrassing as hell to get ur private life exposed this way. People won't fully concentrate on his acting, they will also comment abt what a poor thing he is or how stupid he was to be meeting a woman like that, and that wld definitely make him feel like shit. I hope he does have courage though to eventually come back to public eye. His talent is top notch and shdnt be put to waste.

[@rosean374]

No. It was the international fans that saved him and stood by him

[@TrixTasha]

Completely agree! I see a lot of people wanting him to jump back into dramas and variety shows but it’s like…. give him some time to heal?? Also let the general public calm down so he can start a new chapter. Hope he’s getting enough rest

[@wk573]

Supporting Kim Seon Ho all the way! Look forward to seeing his return! 💪

[@mayiabher530]

Agreed!! She dug her own grave, now she needs to lay in it. We love you Kim seonho and will continue to support you always! ♥️

[@modewear1202]

I hope KSH comes back he’s good at what he does so

[@Clara-nl3hg]

Wait, but i didnt get smt, so his exgirlfriend basically faked this whole abortion thing abt him?

[@modewear1202]

@@Clara-nl3hg yeah a lot came out about the gf smh she ruined this mans life and for what?

[@carmentorres2176]

Supporting Seon Ho all the way. 🥰

[@teresaribunal5281]

I admire KSH since Start up he is a talented actor and has a good charisma.I never believe the controversy about him at all bec he seems to be a good person..hoping he can bounce back soon🇬🇧🇬🇧

[@elaineforan4751]

I feel in the Korean media marriage and wives have a bad image in variety shows etc. As an Irish woman i find it a bit shocking how often men criticise their wives on tv. Accusing them of nagging etc. It surprises me that those kind of comments are still seen as acceptable. Married women seem to be treated as another species.

[@tipennya]

She counted on the public reacting just exactly like they did in the beginning, because of the social trigger word "Abortion" and the Woke Cancel Culture. She counted on that and she was right - on that note. She never imagined that their personal friends would come to his defense and expose her, she figured they would sit by and watch. And that's where she made her mistake. Her friends are better people than she ever imagined - and fair is first.

[@dragonwoodlibra1492]

So glad Kim Seon Ho got to free himself from the useless and harmful haters who tried to bring him down, when he has worked so hard to get to where he is today… I hope his mental health is as good as it always was, and he keeps keeping on with his well maintained persona… May he prosper with good acting 🎭 parts as well as all other options available to him at this time including advertising promotions etc… He deserves to be respected for the things people actually know about him, people who have worked studied and played leisurely with him… May 2022 be the best year yet to come for him and his future 🙏🥰☮️💡❤️

[@bipashakundu7714]

International fans and especially Korean fans, please for God sake ,do as many petitions as you can so that KSH can return ASAP!

[@1994jct]

at the end of the day, these men married these women for looks. point-blank. marriage is not a social institute based on trophies, looks, and sex-its based on two people coming together to build a family and support each other. Sex does play a part obviously but had these "beta" men married someone for them, they probably wouldn't feel like "pong-pong" men. This feels very juvenile tbh.

[@shreythakur9079]

It is based on money 💸💸

[@minliyah.3418]

That's the reason why i didn't wanted to take any positions at first, cause we needed to have both versions.. I hope he will overcome this and get all his projects back

[@lydiaboswell9789]

A self-respecting person with elegance of mind and manner would never resort to posting an anonymous public rant to defame and ruin another person. This says more about the integrity of the person posting than the accused. If there was any veracity in what was posted...there are private and legal ways to address them or they would openly stand by their claims. The malice was obvious from the first post. My interest in this situation stems more from gaining insight about the darker side of social media and its influence on public opinion.

[@appleofhiseyes]

She is a spiteful woman.

[@lulu_g8445]

@DavidKim, you are awesome! You’re so intelligent and perceptive! Thank you for pointing out the underlying sexism and misogyny in the “Dishwashing Theory.” ❤️❤️❤️

[@forevera5241]

I think we all deserve to get married to someone who actively practices being mature. Not everyone gets to marry for love and not all love marriages last. Marriage, like everything, requires all parties to nurture it, if these men are unhappy they should make an effort to improve their situations

[@jeanblaaa]

Omg how'd you get a picture at the end of your name?

[@forevera5241]

@@jeanblaaa it's the 12 month membership badge on their channel

[@riaw3745]

I feel so bad for Kim Seonho. Please rest well and comeback to us yeppo!!!

[@led_by_pied_pipers1530]

my only advice to these sour husbands is 1) satisfy her emotional needs (to make her receptive to you) 2) satisfy her sexual needs (to make her want to do it again) my guess is they dont know how or dont want to put the effort in. but can we stop pretending like women dont have sexual needs and desires too. of course we do. we just dont like terrible sex, it's boring and uncomfortable. also, i've never been more impressed by David. whoever scores him is gonna be so lucky ;)

[@SeldimSeen1]

3) Get a bigger allowance. LOL

[@led_by_pied_pipers1530]

@@SeldimSeen1 🤣🤣🤣

[@NS-et5wh]

Seriously! It's like they view sex as something women give or withhold from them, and not something they should both be able to enjoy together

[@theBallisticMystic]

Thank you! So true

[@Marklee-lx7cd]

As if these males ever cared about anyone but themselves.

[@eddiy335]

With the position he was in he had no choice but to apologize. He's an A list celebrity and with the "believe all women" culture that exists nowadays he didn't really stand a chance in the beginning. He also probably wanted to avoid his personal life being exposed by going at it with his ex.

[@wisemafalda]

I agree with most of what you write here. Just a little objection. Believe all women is a reaction to society's disbelief and denial when it comes to violence (physical, sexual, psychological) against women. It's not a pass for any wrong doing on behalf of females. Any human being with basic common sense noticed the red flag in the statement: "he forced me to take an abortion with the promise of marriage" No woman who wants to have a child, I mean really wants to, gives up the opportunity to have one just because she is promised to be Mrs to Mr. So, believe women when they say they experienced violence from men, means listen to them, support them. And fight so the legal system is changed in a way that offers them justice. This case, with KSH, is not a believe women case. And it was obvious from the start that it was fishy.

[@eddiy335]

@@wisemafalda Nope for level-headed people "believe all women"(the slogan needs to be changed) means giving women the benefit of a doubt and not dismissing the harm done to women as you said but that's not what 3rd wave feminism nowadays does. When majority of people say "believe all women" its basically means you're guilty until proven otherwise which isn't how it should be. You talk about level-headed people as if this man did not lose jobs and much more when there was hardly anything to prove that he was guilty. You're being level-headed but most were not.

[@wisemafalda]

@@eddiy335 Starting from KSH losing jobs... that's sth pretty unique in Korean society. Nobody in greece would have lost his/her job if there was an abortion. Feminism is not an homogeneous wave. There are quite a lot objections to the meaning that sb accused of violence by a woman is guilty until proven otherwise. But...given the extremely high price a woman has to pay just to say she was abused... And the extremely low percentage of convictions, plus the legal, economical and social consequences men DON'T bear, then when a woman says she was abused I tend to believe her. But let me repeat, this case is not "a man abused a woman". That's why according to DKDKTV knetizens didn't cancel him at once and in an absolute way. I am talking about the korean audience simply because its cancelation rate is over the roof.

[@MA.musicwoman]

You can't really say we're in a "believe all women" culture when as soon as the story broke, most people didn't believe her. Even back when we first heard of this, most people accused her of lying because they like this actor so much. I wish we DID live in a "believe all women" culture.

[@Bonitaymorena]

Yes... speak on it Edina.... im so tired. Yes womeb are sexually assaulted and sometimes not believed. Thats terrible and those abuser/rapists should be persecuted. But there are also alot of women who lie on men or are just trying to get revenge becaue they slept with a guy who was using them for sex and they thought they would get a seriously relationship becsue they guys lead them on. Or sometimes the women are being delusional becaue its obvious thr guy is using them for sex. Those women who then go and lie about being raped or beaten or groped etc. are wicked. So no you can't just believe any woman. Everyone is innocent until proven guilty in a court of law.

[@rajkamalsyal5009]

I am proud that I was always on Kim's side ❤ We support you Chief Hong #Cancelcancelculture

[@lifeandmorechannel2987]

We love and support Kim Seon Ho. #kimseonho# 💚💚💚 ❤️❤️❤️ 🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭 🇺🇸 🇺🇸 🇺🇸

[@phannah143]

Because Kim Seonho is in 2D1N and we've watched him for more than 50 episodes already. We knew him too well he wont do these things. Seonhohadas believed in him. He is consistent in showing good personality and manners that its impossible if all of it was just an act. That's why Kim Seonho can comeback not now, not later, but soon. So i hope this drama will stop now so he can take hiatus, reflect and rest. His fans are waiting.

[@CL-cn8wt]

Davids comments were spot on. I know there are lots of countries were there is still a big gap in gender inequality but I was hoping with the future generations this would start to change, but seeing how this is a trending topic it reinforces there is a lot of work to still be done. If the topic was the other way around, they would be calling the women feminist and all sorts of stuff.

[@deokchillin]

Kim Seon Ho’s time to come back!!!!

[@marksmostlovedwatermelon5355]

October was a whole rollercoaster for that poor guy (Kim Seonho).

[@nisham1604]

She dug her own grave 👏🏽👏🏽

[@nathalykim1263]

the lesson learned with kim sonho: *STOP CANCELLING PEOPLE*

[@somebodyoutthere962]

Yo, David is so mature and eloquent! I'm so proud of him, literally everything he said makes absolute perfect sense!

[@anaperezfernandez2413]

Let them be unmarried: the “cleaning up after the exes” is one of the most inhumane and degrading things I have read these days, these men are not ready to be anyone's partners. LET THOSE MEN UNMARRIED, no woman needs that kind of insecure jerk lol He doesn’t even think about the woman as a person wow. “For free”, smh… UNMARRIED, I SAY!!! And alone lol. And remember: housework is unpaid work. Just saying…

[@madeinbusanjkjm]

Well, at least this world has David. Thank god.

[@Marklee-lx7cd]

Bruh he just as misogynist ,you seem to have never watched his earlier videos .He just changed so his tone cause now he has a female audience.

[@user-p7k6s]

Only based on the pong pong nam described in the video, it’s totally misogynistic. It’s essentially putting blame on women’s right to choose. As if these men didn’t stand right along with their wives in making the choice to get married. Also it seems focused on “pretty women” and how they are using their face to manipulate men into dating or marrying them as if “ugly” women aren’t worth getting upset about. Instead of blaming their past choices or the society misguided value system, they are blaming women. So yea… seems gross.

[@kelseymcguire4165]

KSH story: we arbitrarily decided you were a villain, we now arbitrarily decided you are a victim. Like both sides of the story I don't care about because it literally nothing to do with me.

[@falistiq]

Yeah, it doesn't affect my life at all, i don't care.

[@cimsim597]

The "crime" was something that shouldn't have been our business in the first place. Everyone is trying to glaze over that by saying: "Its ok, we know he's innocent now". I'm like, we learn the accuser isn't your ideal girl next door and so suddenly its over? I won't get into the issues there...I know there are exceptions when its something serious, but we need to learn to separate the art from he artist and mind the business that pays us. A lot of these ppl don't even pay to watch these kdrama's but be "cancelling" ppl like they got influence lol.

[@weightloss.nutrition.lifes8512]

Seon Ho was still good despite the damage done. Now that is a gentleman

[@kinny4035]

This is the very reason the public needs to stick to not taking sides when it comes to the personal lives of celebs. You never really know both the sides as it's a private matter and it is of concern to the people involved and nobody else.

[@islandgirl5472]

Aloha - I came across your channel for the first time a few minutes ago & already I love the premise/content of your video!!! Finally, dissecting Korean happenings in English…..THANK YOU SO MUCH!!

[@roselle1221]

Kim seonho also has a lot of international fans who support him specially at his worst. Hope things get well on him after all the issues.

[@missnjahan]

Tbh I was a little scared to hear what y'all were gonna say, BUT David literally blew me away. Thank you so so much for looking at the situation in this way. I am so glad there are level headed men out there.

[@Oscario8]

I started watching DKDKTV for the Kpop news, but I'm staying for the dysfunctional friendship and sharp insights on social matters! ❤

[@SeldimSeen1]

Thanks for giving an update on Kim Seon Ho.

[@agocampo9708]

About the marriage issue, I agree with David’s points. He makes sense.

[@TheAlizwa]

Sorry but this whole mess made me want to just give this guy a hug, like why is it always the horrible girls who get to be with nice guys then they ruin them for the rest of us.

[@meld5542]

That's exactly what I said when Dispatched revealed KSH's ex gf lies, "She dug her own grave." hahahaha...

[@soul_asmr]

*I am so attracted to David’s big sexy brain.* Thank you for having one. LMAO. Thank you for being so self aware and socially aware and thorough and seeing so clearly through SOO much of this and these ridiculous incel stories all the time

[@marjorietaylor6128]

Kim Seon Ho story would never even be a thing in Western Culture.

[@Ello927]

The men in the second story are basically talking about incel culture. I could write a whole long comment about how this whole notion of alphas and betas is just the patriarchy as toxic masculinity, but the basic thing is, treat everyone as a human and not as some werewolf fanfic trope and as commodities which are distributed based on attractiveness...

[@olivia4482]

I believe Kim Seonho! I hope to see him soon in dramas again. this scandal was a private matter between 2 adults and it's none of my business. Seonho is an awesome actor who made me laugh and/or cry with his acting skills. Now I am his fan for sure!

[@yannickjohn6930]

Ironically, coming from a 26-year old single dude who's never dated. Korea and Japan are too into marriage and how roles are dictated. Both genders are not happy with each other, they don't have understanding. If you're married or dating or whatever, just communicate and be romantic with each other. It doesn't have to involve sex but it can be hugging, kissing, whispering sweet nothings. Just be understanding. And no I don't need pity about my relationship status. I'm doing well for myself too. Romantic love will come when whatever sets in...

[@ann-sharonv.mukanganyama3374]

Yeah, I totally agree........

[@mframemusicdtp]

Our society as a whole seems to think that marriage/romantic love is the end all/be all, but fails to remember 1) marriage is literally a legal agreement to control property. No care/love needed. Marriage in society didn’t become a thing till ppl quit being nomadic and started accumulating stuff they wanted to pass on to their offspring 2) the ‘foundation' of romantic love is chemicals/hormones and maybe bonding thru trauma (like in movies where one is saved by the other) so without investing (ourselves) in the relationship, it's destined to burn out eventually. Honestly, I think it's best to live with your (platonic) best friend, as that’s an enduring relationship, and play the field till you find someone you are not only attracted to, but could love as much as you love your best friend. That kind of 'ship would be worth waiting for.

[@ohgodamiuncreative414]

wow, last time I checked it was men who asked women to marry them. If marriage shackles you, don't propose?

[@King_Jonghyun]

This is all so messy and private, it should've stayed behind closed doors. I personally don't care about their private issues and this whole "picking sides" is so silly to me when it comes to celebrities. We literally will never know the truth and WE DON'T NEED TO. Sick and tired of people blending professional and personal life.

[@zahraaisyah2148]

Kim seon ho,please comeback stronger💚

[@tokyoscavenger2811]

Korean cancel culture is scarier than twitter

[@sinabctricks1313]

KSH fighting ❤️ He will come back stronger than everrrr

[@modewear1202]

I would totally watch a k-drama about the dish washing theory

[@Umla80]

so lets see if i got this right Men only marrying women for their looks gets upset because same women just married them for their wallet? :P

[@beab4541]

Hi guys, I was really waiting for you to comment on this subject again since your last. So glad you are supporting Kim Seon Ho, and I'm not even a "fan" nor am I Korean, just a woman about the same age as the alleged "victim". This case was fishy since her first post against K and when her ID was revealed. Give me a break, she sure is no blushing little rose, a 36 years old woman, previously married and working in the industry claiming to have been coerced to abort and yadada.....It reeked of cold-blooded vengeance and even blackmail since day one. Glad it all backfired and that maybe Kim Seon Ho gets a new chance with the Korean public. Love your channel btw :)

[@TrixTasha]

David was preaching during the marriage part 👏🏾 💯

[@JiixBooks]

David broke it down pretty well completely agree with him

[@johorajebinraiyan4228]

I am SO GLAD everything worked out for Kim Seonho

[@helenscott8202]

Well, I’ve been married 54 years. I married at 25. We are very good friends and in love. I worked as a math teacher, then as an engineer after retraining. No way would I have put up with an allowance! We had 1 child. We had a date at least once a week. It is idiocy to just allow a marriage that doesn’t have a real friendship, and as a female, I wanted sex, too. Anything else, without physical affection or buy in from both sides, isn’t worth it! A marriage is both people involved or neither. One sided is slavery to my mind. I live in the US.

[@nainarai1417]

That moment he said "Drone". I could not help 😂 . Love how David is so rational.

[@marvilynperez5520]

..i may not know KIM SEON HO personally but basing on facts that are being surfaces on media i think its safe to say that KIM SEON HO is a good person YES he did an impulsive decision in the past but guys he did regret it... I saw some episodes of 2nights and 1day wherein KIM SEON HO cried for no reason and it did happen not only ones but few times it only shows that he is under going some problems where he cant even tell anyone nor cant even vent it out...KIM SEON HO kept quite for the longest time..endure the pain alone we may see him smiling but behind those smile is a dark part of him...and the said abortion was a mutual agreement it was not as if KIM SEON HO drag her to the hospital and do the abortion it was a mutual thing so lets not just point finger to KIM SEON HO because the girl can just easily say NO she is old enough to stood up for her own decisions shes been married twice and even connected with few men so how cant she decide for that pregnancy by herself...she can have our sympathy if she pursued that pregnacy even if KIM SEON HO did not agree but the mere fact fact she agree means she also want to get rid of that baby inside her womb ( but why?) one more thing is that why bring the issue now when KIM SEON HO is a the peak of his career there is a proper flatform to resolve the issue but why put it in media then when things get worse she back off (again why?)... Some maybe would not agree with me but no matter what i still support KIM SEON HO he is one of koreas good actor...It's just sad that such brilliant talent would go to waste just because of this issue. Still, I choose to support him...BUT the again being imperfect in Korean entertainment industry is a crime that's why most of their artist are resorting to suicide coz the pain is too unbearable for them. The way their citizens judge and cursed them are just over the top. Nobody is perfect. We commit mistakes. But we learned from it. Praying for Seon Ho to get back up the soonest. Hope his wound will heal in time.. KIM SEON HO YOU DID NOT COME THIS FAR TO GVE UP NOW FIGHTING 💪💪💪

[@lor4363]

David you nailed it with the marriage situation in SK I am definitely with your opinion.

[@celiasoliman6167]

Correct! Salt entertainment did not do a good job handling kim seon ho's PR crisis. The agency came out too late to control the damage. The ball should have been in their hands and should have advised kim seon ho how to confront the issue publicity wise.

[@kyblake8953]

David is actually such a King, he seems so level headed and understanding 🙌🏼

[@abhipsapanigrahi2079]

About the entire kim seonho situation , I think it was pretty blown of proportion and some people were questioning dispatch but seriously they don't lie the way they provide evidence and proof in here with entire timeline 😰 they didn't come with pompom here like I have seen the entire reveal and the way they were literally questioning her directly like we can reveal a lot more don't play they don't joke it can be bad or good here it is good but I think the ex didn't really understand the gravity of his fandom honestly she was salty seeing him on top not caring about her so she was vengeful and she did that 😂😂 maybe she thought he is gone but didy anticipate her status , some of her things are very problematic specially tapping him without consent or cheating on him again and again it's scary , also I think 🤔 the ex husband statements are true because they align with seonho's like him saying she brought 3 men when they married and did it , him saying her repeated cheating or victimization of herself in front of court or public so it's logical she retreated because she knew a lot is not true and she is going to be trashed , I mean seonho obviously come back like I don't have any doubt the brands have started supporting him again just in 1 week that shows his popularity basically u cannot ignore him ur business will ruin also the media is so judgemental like really they are the reason shit happens also the way his staff supported I think it's very genuine like when the director said u have to get up again And the ex hasn't spoken yet so , and I am glad he didn't speak people would have shaded him even more it's actually a good call he is a celeb so yup his comeback is pretty much definite public love him he has a very strong international fandom who won't work with him I hope he takes time to heal because whatever it is , mental health is imp and this relationship for him might be traumatic at least stop victimizing wrong people without knowing the story

[@ladygodiva2466]

Who knows... KSH's ex-gf was really after the money she can get (like what she did to her ex-husband) so she posted that message without directly telling the name of the actor as a warning for KHS but the You Tuber reporter identified and named KHS as the subject. Her "threat" grew bigger and backfiring at her so she decided to take the post down. KSH apology could either be in written form or in monetary form. But still I'd like to thank all his friends. colleagues, and supporters for staying loyal to him and fought for him.

[@julietsantiago6744]

Thank you too to Dispatch

[@BluesRiffage]

The incel stuff has BEEN going on in the West and it feels like Koreans are playing catch-up with all the content we've seen for years on the Red Pill Reddit board, 4chan, the alt-right and Jordan Peterson's fandom. Stop giving it so much attention.

[@therealmethatyoudontknow]

A genuing question, what does incels have to do with jordan peterson?🤣🤣🤣

[@BluesRiffage]

@@therealmethatyoudontknow It's a large chunk of his fanbase because he often coddles them. He once advocated for enforced monogamy as a solution to incel killers like Alek Minassian, who ran a van into pedestrians in Toronto a few years back, because he kept getting rejected by women. He said violent attacks are what happens when men do not have partners. He also said feminists have an “unconscious wish for brutal male domination.” See the problem here?

[@starbursting]

loool why’s Jordan Peterson in it?

[@therealmethatyoudontknow]

@@BluesRiffage oh.....i see.....i will do some research, thanks for the answer

[@bananabread7707]

You don’t get to take your money when you die. But you do take the love, love who you want no matter the money situation. It should always be 50/50 in a relationship. While growing up when my mom was doing laundry or cooking my dad was right next to her helping. They’re in their sixties and still do everything together.

[@joellelandolsi8442]

Pour moi ces un artiste formidable et ils faut qui garde le sourire et aller de lavant ne pas se rendre malade je te souhaite plein de belles choses pour la nouvelle année gros bisous ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍🍀🇫🇷

[@lydiaboswell9789]

About marriage...I didn't hear anything about what matters most in a marriage: love (as corny as it sounds), mental and emotional connection, mutual respect, the list could go on. I did hear: hot, sexy, money, appearance, and other qualities that just fade with time and that have nothing to do with building a solid relationship. Note to the wise, if a woman is not interested in intimacy...it is most likely that the man is only interested in his own pleasure. Music depends more on the expertise of the musician as well as his knowledge of how the instrument works.