5 TOXIC Habits That Are Ruining Your Style (Without You Realizing!)

[@KimBedene]

Do you have any toxic style habits that you overcome? Let me know 😉👇🏼 And if you want to go even deeper and understand why and how we should dress our best, watch this video next: kzbin.info/www/bejne/gJK4aHqYpc97sM0 ❤

[@icosmeticinaturalidibetty6101]

I absolutely agree with you, especially on the first point. Unfortunately, my mom has always told me, and still tells me, to wear the "ugly" clothes first to "finish" them. And she always does this. The result is that for years, she has been wearing ugly and slightly worn-out clothes, even though her wardrobe is full of beautiful items waiting for the right occasion to be worn. Sadly, that occasion never comes, or it happens only once or twice a year, like for a wedding, for instance. So, like you, I wear beautiful clothes every day, and lately I've even started wearing typically evening clothes during the day, like sequins, because I realized I don’t go out much in the evening anymore. Of course, I don’t dress head to toe in sequins during the day, but I wear a sequin top with jeans to go to work or grocery shopping, and I feel great!

[@KimBedene]

Yeah, I get it. My mum is kinda in the same boat, still "using" stuff up, but sometimes she does make a bit of an effort which is nice 😊 But I'm so glad you turned it around, and I loooove that you wear evening clothes during the day, who says we can't wear sequins in the day 😉 I also don't really differentiate between evening and day clothes anymore, I just wear whatever I feel like 🥰❤️

[@luluandmeow]

"Only a superficial person doesn't judge by appearances" Oscar Wilde. Getting dressed, being well-groomed and expressing your identity through your outfits is not superficial and vain, among other things it shows self-love and self-care, which results in other people valuing and respecting you more

[@KimBedene]

Absolutely!! ❤️

[@ines4242]

I used to buy only sports clothes that were on sale. I hated the idea of spending lots of money for „clothes I am gonna swat in“. I also only wanted to work out for loosing weight. But now I am investing in nice sport sets and now I enjoy working out more and I am looking forward for wearing my cute set. Going to the gym feels like going somewhere special and I love working out. It brings me joy.

[@KimBedene]

Wow, this is such a nice story, I agree, a cute workout set always makes me feel better too 😍 Also, I love how you said exercising is special because, you're so right, it's a form of self-care and it should be treated as such ❤️

[@CarolAReece-ii1ry]

Excellent advice!

[@KimBedene]

Glad you think so! 🥰

[@federicamichetti2154]

💖💖💖 thank you for the video 💖💖💖

[@KimBedene]

You are so welcome! ❤️

[@carolynm.8868]

My toxic habit is saving clothes for a special occasion. I have improved but I would like to eliminate this habit.

[@KimBedene]

You got this, I believe in you! ❤️

[@carolynm.8868]

Thank you, Kim !

[@wildcat0]

💖 Love your videos Kim! Can't wait to see what's in store in the new year! Merry Christmas! 🎄

[@KimBedene]

Aw, thank you so much! I'm excited for the new year too, I have a looot of ideas 🥰🙈 And Merry Christmas to you too! 🎄❤️

[@michelcristina797]

How did you get to be such a smart young lady?💖💖. I’m so impressed with your wisdom. I’m a senior and love watching you for inspiration.

[@KimBedene]

Aw, thank you! 😊 I guess it's just life experiences, but I'm glad I can share them and inspire ❤

[@MagneticModernStyle]

I believe I've overcome the same sort of toxic habits you discussed. Fortunately no longer a problem for me. Perhaps a lingering one remains around shoes that aren't quite comfortable. But I do sooo love pretty shoes! 👠👡🥿

[@KimBedene]

Haha, yes, I totally get it, uncomfortable shoes often are very stunning 😍😉 And I'm so glad you're on the other side too 😘

[@szfrj]

Thank you Kim, I particularly enjoyed this one! Thanks for the reassurance that it’s not a shallow hobby to be enjoying style fashion 😊 also, thanks for the reminder to keep only what makes the inner compass move towards joy. I thought I was getting better at that, but I found looking at my purchases the last year, some ‘meh’ pieces have crept in. I think it’s because I try hard to shop mostly second hand for sustainability and budget reasons. This means that I can settle for pieces that are almost what I want, they do the job for a while, but because they fall short of what I actually want, they become annoying and generate more shopping. So I think I have something to think about in the new year. Maybe allow myself to buy new but put a limit on the number 🤷🏻‍♀️. Take care ❤

[@KimBedene]

Aw, I'm so happy this was helpful ❤️ And I love that you're buying second hand, that is something I want to explore more for myself as well, but I can only imagine it's not always easy to find 10s this way 😊 I think when we're buying mindfully even buying something new is not a problem, because we'll wear it and cherish it for a long time 😉 Thanks for sharing! 😘

[@pamelarivers3924]

Thank you for this inspirational video!! ❤ I really enjoyed going deeper and learning about the psychology behind some of our toxic habits!! Best wishes for the holiday season!!

[@KimBedene]

I'm so glad you enjoyed it! ❤️ And I wish you happy holidays too 🎄😘

[@Orchidsz]

For your next video I think you should totally do a “2024 favourite products/items” video :))

[@janicerice8810]

❤️ wise advice! I do let my excess weight rob me of personal happiness. I have not been able to control my weight and I beat myself up about it because I cannot get my eating habits on track. I do feel better when I take the time to look my best but find it difficult to dress my best when I don’t have any activities planned. Days where I am just at home or am walking the dog. Hair and makeup , not just clothing, are huge in making you feel better.

[@KimBedene]

I understand, unwanted weight gain can definitely be challenging, but we're all human and weight fluctuations happen. So no need to beat yourself up, just keep focusing on healthy habits that make you feel and look your best, and slowly you'll get there ❤️

[@inal5633]

❤Excellent content, many thanks!

[@dfollmer1428]

Wow, this was THE BEST explanation I have ever heard!! Thank you!!

[@KimBedene]

Yay, I'm so happy to hear you feel this way! 🥰❤

[@lynneroute1202]

Again Kim, brilliant stuff. I dont know if my closet can ever be as minimal and as joy-filled as yours, but once again you showed me how to get one step closer. I look forward ro rewatching, dissecting and implementing the practices in this video. You should write a book girl!

[@lynneroute1202]

❤️ Forgot to add the red heart to the previous comment

[@KimBedene]

Aw, you're too sweet! ❤ It warms my heart that this was so helpful, thanks for letting me know! 😘

[@erikaserbinciksabova6371]

Perfect…🙏🙏🙏 Thank you Kim… 🍀💚 Merry Christmas.🎄🪄🎁💝

[@KimBedene]

Thank you! And Merry Christmas to you too 🥰🎄❤

[@mansoor3159]

Perfect Timing Kim!! And I Absolutely Absolutely Needed This Video and this was such a helpful video for me and you know that I am your biggest biggest supporter🥰♥️🥹 May God Bless You Always Always

[@KimBedene]

Aw, thank you, you're always so sweet! ❤

[@rozanar12]

Wow, what a video Now I understand some things when for example I open the closet and there in nothing to wear (but closet is full 😂🙈) and thrn I always wear everything the same again 🫠 Thank you for this video and thanks for sharing 🙏❤️💖💖💖

[@KimBedene]

Wow, I'm so glad this was eye-opening and helpful! Thanks for sharing 🥰❤

[@Her-minimalist]

Can’t wait for more of such informative videos

[@KimBedene]

Noted! 🥰

[@yn6591]

Great video and advices! ❤️

[@KimBedene]

Glad you think so! ❤️

[@shabb2980]

Thank you so much for this video. I really needed this, especially topic 2 goes for me. This will be something I definitely will be working on in 2025 to improve myself. 💖

[@KimBedene]

I'm so happy this was helpful, and I'm rooting for you in 2025! You got this 😘❤

[@shabb2980]

Thank you ☺️

[@kerribowser6495]

I do work where I get dirty, but I'm going to look nice doing it! Thanks.❤

[@KimBedene]

Love this! ❤️

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[@a91170]

Love your blouse. Where is it from? thanks

[@KimBedene]

Thank you! 🥰 It's from Intimissimi, but it's an older top so I don't think they have it anymore. However they constantly come up with new designs, so maybe they have something equally cute 😉❤️

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