10 Agreements Every Couple Must Have Before Marriage | Kingsley & Mildred Okonkwo

Embarking on the journey of marriage is a profound commitment, and laying a strong foundation is crucial for a successful partnership. This enlightening video delves into the 10 pivotal agreements every couple should establish before tying the knot. From finances and communication to personal boundaries and future goals, these agreements are the pillars that uphold a thriving relationship. Join us as we explore these fundamental principles that can foster understanding, trust, and harmony in your marital journey. Don't embark on this lifelong adventure unprepared - watch now and ensure your union is built on a solid framework of mutual respect and shared values.
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[@AgabaRichard7]

1. Freedom to Walk away 2. No Divorce 3. Joint Account 4. Communication 5. No passwords, shared devices 6. Exchanged parents 7. No quarreling 8. Intentional with Intimacy 9. Looking after each other 10. Running the marriage by the word.

[@elisabetholaniyan9044]

Thank you for the collaboration

[@12345653569]

Thank you

[@Minister--pat]

You do all ❤

[@dejibimbola]

I knew a blessed soul would have extracted the points

[@ChiafieEthel-fz1pg]

This is so heart touching. Thank you pastors

[@evelynkwarteng7638]

1. Agreeing to hault the relationship when you see that it's not going to work. 2. Agreeing that if the relationship end up in marriage, divorce is not an option. 3. Agreeing to have a joint account (make everything finance transparent). 4. Agreement on communication (communicating more). 5. Agreement on no keeping of secret, password (building trust). 6. Agreement on exchange of parents. 7. Agreement on quarrel free marriage. 8. Agreeing to be intentional with intimacy. 9. Agreeing that nobody looks down on the other(more selfless and less selfish). 10. Agreement on using the Bible to work the marriage.

[@owohchioma992]

Thank you for the summary It’s helpful

[@OgooluwaOjo]

Thank you

[@hannahumukoro7919]

Thanks 🙏

[@olusolaonanusi5643]

Thank you

[@OsifoMary]

Thank you for the summary

[@ishayaukwen]

I love the fact that when she talks he rarely obstruct her

[@ayodejifunmilola2559]

Lord give me my own, intentional, Godly, ready to listen to me every time 🙏, never get tired of me God i will not marry rubbish in Jesus name 😭🙏

[@tobiabraham8574]

1. When uncertainty of conviction comes, never leave each other hurt 2. Divorce is abolish (Same as threatening to leaving the relationship isn't healthy) 3. Having Joint Account.(building Trust, Money will never be an issue) 4. Communication is the key ( communicate your pains and hurts often and don't keep silence) 5. No secrets especially on social media handles 6. Exchanging parents 7. No quarreling (we mustn't be mad at the same thing) 8. Mutual intimacy intentionality (Kissing and hugging each other every day) 9. Looking out for each other (Not been selfish, always asking questions of what do you want me to do for you. Are you happy?) 10. Word Center

[@kuekiakuffo7167]

😊

[@tosinadeoye9931]

PST K knows how to lighten up the mood of the room. His sense of humor is great!!!

[@maloni_c]

Absolutely, he's really good at reading the room! As for his Sense of humor,he's a pure & proper Sanguine😂!

[@judychungu9131]

You can't pick a weak team and get surprised at the poor results

[@eno-obonglambert8433]

"It takes two intentional people to build a marriage but takes one to scatter " Thank you Sir

[@adebimbola8532]

😊😊

[@adedoyinolamide6266]

The family you build is of more priority than the family you're from.

[@StarrStuddedEnt]

Most men, especially mama boys don't understand that!!!

[@Aiii_me6682]

​@@StarrStuddedEntso true

[@pelumiraheen4936]

​@@StarrStuddedEntGod bless you 🙏🏾😊 my thoughts exactly

[@nyimbonizipendazo]

Listening to Pastor K and Pastor M has made me grateful for all the broken relationships I have had.

[@OyebanjiPrecious-lc4yn]

Anyone about to go into relationship should watch this very helpful ❤

[@bestmanprobel2971]

Couldn't drop my phone down till I finished listening. Guess what! My Wife sent this to me

[@chisommefor5035]

May your marriage continue to wax strong

[@ewanembohfiona6451]

When you are both inlove with each other, almost all of these rules/agreements comes naturally. Respect will make it come naturally. Love will make one be patient till the other partner can accommodate his/her presence. Etc

[@akpachukwuloveth3152]

Thank you Jesus, I don’t know how God does it… but everytime I need clarification on something especially relationship, I just open KZbin and God leads me to a message or preach I should listen to. I especially love the part you said ‘’WE would not think of divorce no matter what happens, we are in this for life. I also learnt about the sulking, that’s me .. but I have changed now… because it’s not a good character. God will help me Thank you so much.

[@JohnTemitayo-gk2hz]

Whoever is earning more is not superior to who is earning less

[@friederikemaragela6363]

Say that again

[@cryptoairdroplover7172]

One thing I conclude with this is that everything from a to z has to be intentional, it's risky to act on your feelings i.e doing what you feel like doing in the marriage.

[@generationalworshippers9472]

Right intentional

[@kukuaparker1341]

“Men don’t read minds, they read newspapers.” 😂😂😂👍🏾

[@nalubegalydia42]

This couple has blessed the kingdom proud of you more grace

[@darlingtonodom6913]

Wow...I just heard everything that was wrong in my previous relationship. My priest who is also a marriage counselor told me I dodged a bullet; I didn't understand it. My ex fiancee just hated the fact that I listened to Pastor K's teaching too much, I was like, what's wrong with trying to know how to love you better.

[@ekweozorpromise2976]

All Pastor K's messages I sent to my own he didn't even care to listen to them

[@diamondp8438]

Currently

[@po7495]

I've gone back n forth on this finance (especially the matter of prenup) issue a lot. I wish I cld send him a question directly. It's not that u don't trust the person but rather u cannot control how the person will change 10 yrs from now. Even God said he regretted creating man at some point. Of course the person u marry today is someone u trust but if that person gets up 10 yrs from now n walks out regardless of counseling etc., u can't force them to stay. Why are we ok with every kind of insurance (life, home, car) but not a prenup😢 which is pretty much a financial insurance? Like he mentioned person can be determined to fight for the marriage when the other one mentally left a long time ago n nothing can change their minds.

[@pstphilipnewmantv7628]

Marriage without tolerance will not work, no body is perfect

[@indibala3941]

Tolerance is not a virtue, Patience and Acceptance is a great virtue.

[@victoriaeffiong2777]

Wow! I love this teaching, i have never heard it in this version. Exchange parents, look out for each other, be intentional about intimacy etc. God bless you sir/ma, for letting people like us into some of the secrets to your marital success/bliss.

[@Arrows_4_Christ.]

I'm blessed. Though I'm single now but I trust God to be a great partner to my spouse when God settles me in Jesus Name,Amennnn.

[@chikadibia7064]

Amen

[@adedayoademokoya9109]

Amen

[@venunyesrabi]

Amen

[@euniceganadzi4644]

Amen amen 👏👏

[@Honeywhitebiz]

Amen dear

[@JohnTemitayo-gk2hz]

No secrets,no password and no hidden things

[@ojochideadams4975]

I agree for joint account only for contributions to run the family. Joint accounts and also to have individual accounts. I like to help people around me so I still need my own money.

[@vitalisanasudu8408]

😂😂😂

[@alinayili2199]

No matter how you explain it, you want to live an individual secret life. There's no way, your partner will say don't help except it's at the expense of the family which is a foolish idea to begin with

[@the_eduthusiast]

You are still giving excuses...

[@the_eduthusiast]

Pick the right partner, heal from your insecurity and you won't have to have "your own money"...

[@charleschidera6306]

I don’t think it’s about being insecure, I don’t see anything wrong with keeping personal accounts, like me for example i like to plan surprises and it’s easier to do that when you have a separate account

[@user-xu1uo1rt2b]

Communication is the life of every relationship Thanks so papa❤ and mama❤

[@oluwabukunmibamikole1737]

Communication is the life of every relationship. 🤔 It takes two intentional people to build a great marriage and marriage is between two givers

[@masilelacalsile9056]

"Prayer does not change your Selection" Pastor K.... this captured my attention the most..my fellow Christian ladies while we're praying and trusting God for Kingdom marriage..it is upto us to still be intentional in selecting..so help us Holy Spirit in Jesus name amen.

[@veronickollo7786]

Amen 🙏

[@affyaffy-yk1fq]

AMEN

[@abenadufie4312]

Amen n amen

[@jalianabiira9404]

Amen

[@graceogechi]

Amen

[@chibuzorhenryochu9967]

Better half brought me here 😊! Ready to learn! Pen 🖊️ and paper 📑 here

[@ogogalonduaba7521]

True

[@chariemakaripe4850]

Oh nice! Not all the better halves take things their partner shares seriously

[@jerryonosike2865]

God bless you

[@sheenakapachika8929]

Finally i have found people who think like me

[@saggeussilas6921]

It takes two intentional people to build a marriage and it takes only one to scatter the marriage.

[@modupekalejaiye5981]

Kingdom marriage is the way to go. No other way. Thanks for your exemplary marriage. God bless you both.

[@queenalfred8455]

Transparency even your health is perfect. If a man is impotent he should also disclose it

[@Godlove-John]

Many men who are impotent (inability to sustain erection during sex is an aspect of impotency) don't know as they haven't had sex before. So it is either your suggestion is for every man to explore their sexuality and to then disclose that in their next relationship. Mind you sex is an aspect of marriage in the realm of the spirit as abortion is an aspect of child sacrifice (or murder) recorded in the realm of the spirit.

[@speaktothewisepassionforwi9538]

~Nobody has successfully begged for love......not for long.... ~Marriage won't give you what you don't have..... Have a life. ~when you have self-esteem and self-value, you'll become very selective of the person you journey with in marriage... Nuggets from Pastor K.❤😊

[@kechamartha2337]

Never beg for love. Have self esteem & value yourself

[@abiodunabe9983]

How do you not love these guys 😭🥹🤞

[@GidsongsIsreal]

The family you build is better and more important than the family you're from

[@cherishsotonye940]

It's easy to do marriage if you do what Jesus says,... make your marriage word ruled👍

[@ofoegbuujunwa5673]

The part of exchanging parents is 👌👌👌👌👌👌👌 God bless you

[@firsttimeinamericanairamer7123]

My own marriage of 12 years crashed, because of too much jealousy from my man,I will send this to him,maybe it will help him

[@lilylily6422]

❤ you are not alone. It happened to someone close to me & they were believers! She was earning almost 3 times more than him & the jealousy was out of this world..they divorced. He didn't want her to have that money...

[@ayodelealedare6507]

You blame him alone. We're you perfect? Sending this to him might even upset him more. You've got to take responsibility too.

[@longlifeangel3850]

I love this man, that's marriage.... Now I'm ready

[@user-sk4qe5pv8u]

Am tremendously blessed...I pray the Lord give me a partner that we would both serve God together ❤🙏

[@dorcasbrownson]

I hear you Sir!!!!! The choice of partner is the foundation!!!!!

[@sandraagharese1666]

Wow! So you share accounts PK & PM, very good to hear. I thought my husband was stubborn by insisting on it. Thank you so much for sharing 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

[@Obaayikitv]

You have a good man, daughter of God

[@apoitv2084]

The family you build is most important than the one you are from

[@EricElectricalEngineeringLTD]

I feel like you people are talking to me directly

[@ogohediri3690]

Communication is the life of every relationship.

[@opemipoelizabeth3400]

The holy ghost has taken over the aspect of violence through reaching agreements

[@loischoji2031]

Doing what you don’t feel like helps build your discipline 🔥

[@jennetvimbaimapani2042]

Powerful presentation. Very impactful. Thank you for sharing. God bless you and your family

[@wayasruth7019]

"Only what the bible says goes on in our marriage " this is grt...

[@uwitonzeemile7678]

I really don't see any agreement very important than the other. They are actually completing one another. I can envisage a happy marriage built from following and respecting these agreements all. Thanks very much pastor Kingsley and your lovely wife.. I'm following you from Rwanda.

[@thelmasefakorebenezer9991]

Thank you so much for this powerful message but Lady Mildred,I would like to know how you controlled Ps Kingsley's over spending attitude?

[@sparkles703]

I enjoyed every bit of this…. We are definitely adding the kiss before leaving the house thingy 😀

[@olutosinokikiade8877]

Also include a welcome kiss😊

[@dejiekunseitan6196]

Blessed

[@ahanotujovy1688]

I bless the day, I cross path with pastor K and his wife.. May God continue to bless & protect your marriage Sir.

[@nanakonadu5459]

God bless you

[@sharonetem8588]

Thank u guys

[@erikanumanah3906]

very true sir

[@blessingekanem6474]

Awesome ❤❤❤❤

[@LIGHTBEARERVISION]

A good marriage start with selection 😮

[@nnajibenita7156]

So interesting

[@veronalipka3597]

I don’t blame the men for moving on after being told nothing is wrong. Saying that nothing is wrong is lying and one of the 10 commandments says we must not lie. PVEL.

[@samuelgbenga5003]

This is so good!!!!

[@Stella-cf9vq]

Watching this makes marriage interesting to me.

[@sinethembamajola3472]

Beautiful ❤️👌

[@agehethel9194]

Thanks pastor. I've learnt greatly here. Imagine I just shared this with my fiance

[@user-nw1pu7he8p]

I'm blessed 🙏

[@inspirationaltalkswithpats7755]

Word ruled ❤

[@Kingdom-rule]

This is so helpful

[@davidchishimba883]

This is very helpful ❤

[@jessicadavid5900]

Thank you so much❤

[@Operaj-1]

The family you build is more important than the family you are from, that got me 😮

[@patienceigbojianya7695]

Transparency will save you from temptation ". I love that

[@neemafrica]

Special detective Kingsley: where were you at 3pm Me: I was at #3pmwithPM 😂

[@grass2grace256]

😂😂😂hilarious 🎉🎉🎉

[@neemafrica]

​@@grass2grace256hopefully PM will be willing to corroborate my alibi 😂😂

[@afolabipopoolagoodness]

Lol

[@chiomambonu4282]

Who can verify that ma'am 😂😂

[@neemafrica]

@@chiomambonu4282 i am sure PM will be happy to corroborate my alibi

[@blessingmercy4948]

I regret resigning my job before marriage, not having sometimes to do as woman is bad. 2years without doing something tangible is really breaking me. Imagine not having your own money to buy things you need😢I feel so unhappy😢

[@semilorebolanle4154]

May God give you a need Job

[@nonyeokezie5957]

Start again Sis..you'll be just fine

[@lilylily6422]

❤ i agree, its good to be financially independent as a woman.

[@Zazezoo]

Your husband should provide. His money is your money, be content with what you have. Don’t allow the devil to fool you. Take cade of your home, kids and hubby. Read and get a hobby. Don’t be idle and thank God for what you have!

[@lilylily6422]

@@Zazezoo its not the same for all families i.e not all husbands provide for their families.

[@JohnTemitayo-gk2hz]

This is transforming mhen🎉❤❤

[@user-pu1no1mg6i]

Men don't read minds, they read newspapers 😂😂😂, that got me

[@hannahotaibill9475]

Beautiful couple

[@divinegiftchukwudi554]

This is beautiful

[@monicadiegboh9339]

Am so blessed watching 👀 you people doing what you know hw to do best .I thank God the day I meet you both. This channel is topnotch thank you sir 😘 and ma ❤

[@lizkahwa5321]

Wowwwww... Thank you. I am blessed

[@funmiolaiya2203]

This was very helpful. Thank you

[@TeesSpace23]

Thank you so much pastor K and Mrs K ❤

[@alumanidavid]

Thank you Pastor sir😇😇😇

[@blessingokonkwo7422]

Awemazing session. You both are such a huge blessing ❤❤

[@tulimwalwimba6544]

Powerful!

[@irenemeshi4089]

Wow! God bless you both

[@EberePreponey-uv2rq]

Thank you Pastor K & M ❤

[@naomi5940]

Powerful. Marriage is a ministry.

[@Joyjoseph898]

This is so insightful ...I love you both

[@luciamabunda8545]

Nice to be on this platform. 🙌🙌😊🇿🇦My Favorite Pastors. May God Bless you more ❤

[@Blessedking78]

Pastor K, you are the best ❤❤😂🎉

[@graceogechi]

I agreed thanks for this wonderful message

[@chinyereokenwa5404]

Exactly pst sir

[@kessybliss3673]

Very helpful!! Keep it ON❤❤

[@opynodesigns]

Beautiful ❤

[@mosenahbility9843]

Amen 🙏🏾

[@callachuks1164]

Congratulations ❤❤

[@VinCent-bg1qz]

Quite educating

[@wendyegbiku1708]

I love you both ❤