5 Tough Reasons He Is Not For You | Kingsley Okonkwo

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Kingsley Okonkwo

Kingsley Okonkwo

9 ай бұрын

Join Kingsley Okonkwo as he shares '5 Tough Reasons Why He Is Not For You
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@mirriammutinda7634
@mirriammutinda7634 9 ай бұрын
1.Emotional not practical Compatibility _Faith _Character _Companionships 2.Blinds you from other good options around you. 3.Neglect due process _Building rlships and friendship 4.Selfish...(one sided love never works) _Interests must be there.. _It must be mutual _Desperation doesn't help _Engage in conversation with other people ✓Infatuation is instant.true love takes time ✓Wen u see someone in the first time and like the person..its_Attraction ✓ Don't confuse attention and intention ✓Real time is important to know someone. ✓Wen it's infatuation u have an idea of the person not the real person.
@bernicebaafi5056
@bernicebaafi5056 9 ай бұрын
Hello there God bless you for the summary❤
@adaobifaustina4925
@adaobifaustina4925 9 ай бұрын
Thank God i came on KZbin today 🥺💔I feel this video was made for me.Thank you pastor.
@adaobifaustina4925
@adaobifaustina4925 9 ай бұрын
Please pastor,how do i get the book who should i marry???
@cognitoafricana944
@cognitoafricana944 9 ай бұрын
😮 25:56 26:12
@Jossy_18
@Jossy_18 9 ай бұрын
We're nothing but pencils in the hands of the creator. 😂 Thank you Sir.
@paulzerina
@paulzerina 9 ай бұрын
INFATUATION is usually instant but TRUE LOVE takes time. Don't confuse ATTENTION with INTENTION.
@Vheekeey
@Vheekeey 9 ай бұрын
I know this video was made for me coz 😂 I can relate to everything. This is my present situationship and I’ve even been praying to God to lemme know if I should go ahead. So thank you Jesus coz it’s a U turn from here onwards 😂
@Lifewithoutborders24
@Lifewithoutborders24 9 ай бұрын
Congratulations 🎉
@Bodisere
@Bodisere 8 ай бұрын
😂😂 same here. Did you also do that prayer of "God if he's not the one take him away" 😅
@Vheekeey
@Vheekeey 8 ай бұрын
Yes o. Wow looking back at this comment from just 2 weeks ago and I can say he was never the one 😊
@Bodisere
@Bodisere 8 ай бұрын
I'm happy for you😊
@zillahmusungu6074
@zillahmusungu6074 9 ай бұрын
it's selfishness to love someone who doesn't love you back the same way you love them.
@ngimagafina4955
@ngimagafina4955 9 ай бұрын
What are we? We are pencils😂. Always learning from you and I never get used to the fun sir.
@guidedarrows7078
@guidedarrows7078 9 ай бұрын
Came here for ds comment
@adwoajanky3222
@adwoajanky3222 9 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@C_a_r_a_m_e_l.
@C_a_r_a_m_e_l. 9 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@chetarejoice2812
@chetarejoice2812 9 ай бұрын
😂😂 and I was eating I wan choke
@favour_ada
@favour_ada 9 ай бұрын
😂😂
@favourabu2201
@favourabu2201 9 ай бұрын
'We are pencils in the hands of the creator'…😂😂😭😂 Wale Adenuga Productions that year😄
@sylvabiam1438
@sylvabiam1438 9 ай бұрын
Indeed, I've never been bored listening to PK! This man is a gift to the body of Christ! 👌
@dashelledisna6239
@dashelledisna6239 9 ай бұрын
Nevaa
@Dee.nmaaaa
@Dee.nmaaaa 9 ай бұрын
Sincerely ❤
@FavourChidinma1
@FavourChidinma1 9 ай бұрын
Can never
@RICHBECKS_naturals
@RICHBECKS_naturals 9 ай бұрын
I just love this man if all youth will have the opportunity to listen to this man before they enter a relationship owwww
@sylviammesoma1420
@sylviammesoma1420 9 ай бұрын
“Someone can be chasing you to snatch your purse” haha😄
@chiomaagwuncha801
@chiomaagwuncha801 9 ай бұрын
I really pray the hearts of as many single persons will be open to understand this teaching and be guided by it, so they make the right choice.
@evaarloo5452
@evaarloo5452 9 ай бұрын
Amen❤
@GoldenhairWorld
@GoldenhairWorld 8 ай бұрын
AMEN 🙏
@moyinoliousuwaprecakinwand4413
@moyinoliousuwaprecakinwand4413 7 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏
@Fortune_Chioma
@Fortune_Chioma 9 ай бұрын
Let’s be real, some people actually put their children in a school cuz they like the uniform 😂
@akandecynthia4275
@akandecynthia4275 9 ай бұрын
😂😂 Pastor Kingsley, "we are pencils in the hands of the creator"
@iamtheGodgirl.
@iamtheGodgirl. 8 ай бұрын
Single but emotionally occupied..this hit hard.Thank you Pastor❤
@kimberlyjereka6818
@kimberlyjereka6818 9 ай бұрын
I just want to thank my God, Jehovha for making it possible for me to see this video just on time . I was facing the same challenge and now I have got my answer glory be to God . Thank you pastor Kingsley
@sandraezejianyaele8288
@sandraezejianyaele8288 9 ай бұрын
Love at first sight does not exist but attraction at first sight is very true.Hiw can you love someone you just met and never knew from anywhere? Infatuation is sharp sharp as e dey hot while true love takes time. These are words on marble pst.k
@Fortune_Chioma
@Fortune_Chioma 9 ай бұрын
Infatuation is instant. Love is a gradual process!
@Peacebestill27
@Peacebestill27 9 ай бұрын
PK has scattered this table to pieces 😂
@jemimayaa6125
@jemimayaa6125 9 ай бұрын
Accepted the proposal of a guy whom i hv known for abt 6 mnths now, started as friends and i fell in love with him with my head, cuz am open to some of his flaws but then he accepts his flaws when confronted, n requests for help to mke it ryt... praying things work out.
@sinethembaspelman
@sinethembaspelman 9 ай бұрын
Praying over you guys that God is the foundation of you coming together. Take time, unrush yourselves
@mwambabenny5312
@mwambabenny5312 9 ай бұрын
Isn't God so amazing? This is exactly the massage my heart was longing for at this particular moment 🙏 thank you so much man of God for this valid information 🙏....especially about one sided love.
@midedayo
@midedayo 9 ай бұрын
The actual message I need right now as well and I'm enlightened already. Thank you PK 🙌🏽🙌🏽
@ojangpauline6304
@ojangpauline6304 8 ай бұрын
Yeah.
@abaswejennifer6968
@abaswejennifer6968 8 ай бұрын
Everything said in this video is just a photocopy of what 99% of ladies do. Thank you pastor. I'm learning and changing 🙏🙏🙏
@eleakoh
@eleakoh 9 ай бұрын
Lmao! PK 😂😂! Thank you for this. With these sound teachings, I pray my marriage will be blessed and preserved.
@AbelBlog
@AbelBlog 9 ай бұрын
As long a someone is interested in you and wants to be with you, you can only know what the person wants you to know about him/her. Because people act up when they are interested and usually hide their shortcomings and advertise their qualities. That's why as much as we can, we shouldn't start with visuals when knowing people. We should conceal the visuals and other external triggers as much as we can. Thus shielding ourselves from any emotional connections. There is a way to implement that. It's called inside out courtship. People start to know others anonymously inside with all the internal values. And it's after they have found enough people with whom they match inside that they consider seeing themselves outside just to assess external things when they are ready for marriage. This approach works very well and it will improve relationships tremendously if it can be implemented at a large scale.
@glorynoble6274
@glorynoble6274 9 ай бұрын
My flesh is saying I should send the link to a lady that was seriously crushing on my fiance but my spirit just gave me bombastic side eye 😒🤣🤣🤣
@solomonighodaro2920
@solomonighodaro2920 9 ай бұрын
😅😅
@toochisunny
@toochisunny 9 ай бұрын
I was a victim of the things mentioned here, but thank God for your teachings, I came out of them, especially infatuation. Thank you, Pastor K.
@osasumwenaiguobarueghian9244
@osasumwenaiguobarueghian9244 Ай бұрын
Now I see my errors, faults, mistakes, selfishness and manipulation. Thank you sir
@helenahelen8687
@helenahelen8687 9 ай бұрын
„WHO SHOULD I MARRY „ is actually the book am reading at the moment. I have read it before but it’s worth reading over and over again.
@cookwithobianuju102
@cookwithobianuju102 9 ай бұрын
Please where did you buy it from?
@helenahelen8687
@helenahelen8687 9 ай бұрын
@@cookwithobianuju102 i got all of the books from Amazon.
@cookwithobianuju102
@cookwithobianuju102 9 ай бұрын
Thank you
@aguigweamarachi8527
@aguigweamarachi8527 8 ай бұрын
The author please
@dorisrobo6999
@dorisrobo6999 8 ай бұрын
Is there a re link to read the book
@joanaessuman-mensah6753
@joanaessuman-mensah6753 9 ай бұрын
You inherit all assets and liabilities. I like this, no lie in the statement. Absolute truth
@tderahhh
@tderahhh 9 ай бұрын
Can a relationship founded on wrong reasons be salvaged after a fallout? 'specially when there are intentions to do it the right way. I'm referring to any kind of relationship.
@AnthoniaEnkchee
@AnthoniaEnkchee 9 ай бұрын
PK, i have never been tired of following you right from silverbird and having pastor M also, God bless you sir
@jajaambila9775
@jajaambila9775 9 ай бұрын
Yeah me too... then He was really slim but making irresistible sense even up till now. The Anointing is always fresh and real.💪💪💪
@folakeamofleshprincess472
@folakeamofleshprincess472 9 ай бұрын
Yes o. Right from silverbird channel
@lookingforjoan
@lookingforjoan 9 ай бұрын
The part you said “go and buy gun” made me laugh out loud😂😂❤️.
@byrnenoel6317
@byrnenoel6317 9 ай бұрын
1. Emotional vs. Practical-- beyond chemistry into compatibility, companionship (friendship), and character. a) Compatibility-- faith, purpose in life. 2. Falling in love blinds you to other good options. 3. You neglect due process. Building friendship. 4. Real relationships should be built on more than one person. Requires mutuality. 5.
@Debbysdiaries
@Debbysdiaries 9 ай бұрын
Omo, this is me ooo. i fell for someone and i was just thinking only about how i felt not necessarily about the other party. love this thanks PK and PM
@julianachinyere3176
@julianachinyere3176 9 ай бұрын
Don't confuse attention with intention! 😊
@nadiavalery10
@nadiavalery10 9 ай бұрын
This was so good, thank you PK!!!!
@Kem_kem24
@Kem_kem24 9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for being a blessing to our generation. I have learnt a lot from your videos.
@ochenivictoriaruth2238
@ochenivictoriaruth2238 9 ай бұрын
Single but emotionally occupied 😆😆 That got me pastor K🤓🤓🤓🤓
@Peescorner
@Peescorner 9 ай бұрын
Pk!!!🙌🏻❤️❤️
@maxwellkeicha9418
@maxwellkeicha9418 8 ай бұрын
Infatuation is usually instant, there's attraction at first sight. True love takes time. Hmmm
@NuelChima
@NuelChima 9 ай бұрын
We are PENCILS ✏ in the hand of the creator 14:07 😂🤲🏾
@sarahadimakarimu5047
@sarahadimakarimu5047 9 ай бұрын
💯 true sir 😊
@FavourUzoigwe-zk8py
@FavourUzoigwe-zk8py 9 ай бұрын
Love what he said at the last past ❤
@BeFitForHim
@BeFitForHim 9 ай бұрын
Wow! So much wisdom in this 🙌🏽
@odianjonkemdilim2700
@odianjonkemdilim2700 9 ай бұрын
Thank you sir for this ,learning a lot and it’s helping .
@AnastaciaTrizah
@AnastaciaTrizah 9 ай бұрын
Profound
@alasiayomide322
@alasiayomide322 9 ай бұрын
You're a wonderful teacher, thank you sir ❤
@taiwoadeyinka9505
@taiwoadeyinka9505 9 ай бұрын
Wow 🔥🔥🔥🔥Thank you SIr 🙏
@onyekauchechi9880
@onyekauchechi9880 9 ай бұрын
Thank you PK 🙌🏽
@onyekauchechi9880
@onyekauchechi9880 9 ай бұрын
Thank PK 🙌🏽
@judyneemagichuru949
@judyneemagichuru949 9 ай бұрын
God bless your ministry 🙏
@missrd395
@missrd395 9 ай бұрын
Thank you PK very insightful and love the humor and jokes too haha!
@Blessingebunoluwa1
@Blessingebunoluwa1 9 ай бұрын
God bless you sir 🙏
@rejoiceahaiwe1501
@rejoiceahaiwe1501 9 ай бұрын
God bless you sir
@Mimarla_arts
@Mimarla_arts 9 ай бұрын
PK 🙌🤭 Such enlightenment!! Thank you so much for this timely knowledge. 😊
@johntraverssali3848
@johntraverssali3848 9 ай бұрын
God bless you Sir... You two and your ministry are such a gift ❤❤❤❤
@user-wq5zm6bu7x
@user-wq5zm6bu7x 9 ай бұрын
God bless 🙏
@favourchizoba2516
@favourchizoba2516 9 ай бұрын
PK this so insightful, I learn a lot from you daily..actually I just got out of that kind of relationship two months ago...
@001joyo
@001joyo 9 ай бұрын
Wise man of God
@asamoahfrederickmanasseh2043
@asamoahfrederickmanasseh2043 9 ай бұрын
God bless you Pastor K. I have really learned a lot
@user-so1ol6yb2v
@user-so1ol6yb2v 9 ай бұрын
Thank you sir for the words
@lexxydike4334
@lexxydike4334 9 ай бұрын
Wonderful lessons
@dorcasiyanujesu6954
@dorcasiyanujesu6954 9 ай бұрын
Thank you PK
@Tmfoundationministry1212
@Tmfoundationministry1212 9 ай бұрын
Pk 🤗thank you so much sir. This is really engaging and informative 🤗🤗😁😂
@ikerichidinma2495
@ikerichidinma2495 9 ай бұрын
Your messages are enlightening sir. They've helped me a lot. God bless you sir
@ThyKingdomCome5
@ThyKingdomCome5 9 ай бұрын
Thank you sir. I am so blessed sir
@akuchieakunna1430
@akuchieakunna1430 9 ай бұрын
Thank you for shedding light on this pastor kingsley esp btw infatuation and real love
@damilolaolalere
@damilolaolalere 9 ай бұрын
Chaiiii God bless you Pastor K! 🙏🔥🔥♥️
@oseluluomon-irabor8167
@oseluluomon-irabor8167 9 ай бұрын
Thank you PK. This really helped
@mojisolafolorunso9922
@mojisolafolorunso9922 9 ай бұрын
We need a list of questions to ask a prospective Spouse to help us know if he is a right partner 😄
@Whoisthatgirl2121
@Whoisthatgirl2121 6 ай бұрын
I’m sure he has a book on that
@temiloluwaomotoso1257
@temiloluwaomotoso1257 9 ай бұрын
Thank you PK for spilling the truth. This is pure truth
@johnsonvictoria6522
@johnsonvictoria6522 9 ай бұрын
God bless u sir for this great lesson I really learn alot from it
@abelmalama6114
@abelmalama6114 9 ай бұрын
Learning
@oluwatoyinmakanjuola1873
@oluwatoyinmakanjuola1873 8 ай бұрын
This spoke to me
@urebhorehizogie2792
@urebhorehizogie2792 9 ай бұрын
PK GOD bless you richly. Your teachings have drastically changed my life.
@goodnessime6723
@goodnessime6723 9 ай бұрын
This was very helpful thank you pk
@tinaumahtv5449
@tinaumahtv5449 9 ай бұрын
I love the ending part😅
@YetundeThompson
@YetundeThompson 9 ай бұрын
Grace
@princessbarbie1944
@princessbarbie1944 9 ай бұрын
You have really opened up my eyes 👀 God bless you abundantly
@iwuohapatience2445
@iwuohapatience2445 9 ай бұрын
Yes sir
@adaobijessica6444
@adaobijessica6444 9 ай бұрын
Great teaching mixed with comedy, thank you PK 😂😂😂😂
@thankgodsunday8461
@thankgodsunday8461 9 ай бұрын
Omo! PK it went really south o 😂😂😂😂 Thank you so much for this eye opener🤍
@ministerchee_
@ministerchee_ 9 ай бұрын
Pastor K🔥🔥🔥🔥 God bless and keep you.
@adaobiokobi
@adaobiokobi 9 ай бұрын
Thank you Pastor
@KRUMP_STUDIOS
@KRUMP_STUDIOS 7 ай бұрын
Thank you sir.
@teshajonas4465
@teshajonas4465 9 ай бұрын
Blessed God for you pastor K thank you for this message 🙏
@Funbite247
@Funbite247 9 ай бұрын
Thank you Sir
@anitaokologo645
@anitaokologo645 9 ай бұрын
Pastor K has a great sense of humour 😂 always a blessing to listen
@chituruoji8939
@chituruoji8939 9 ай бұрын
Someone can be chasing you to snatch your purse. 😮😮😮Pst Kingsley, you are good at what you are doing.
@gift9331
@gift9331 8 ай бұрын
Thank you sir This is me at the moment
@emelsplendor4569
@emelsplendor4569 9 ай бұрын
This actually opened my eyes . Thank u PK. Now I understand why some of these relationships didn't last. Sometimes it's just all mixed up. I mean
@austinevick
@austinevick 9 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 pastor is awesome. Thank you sir
@Ukhti_Sady
@Ukhti_Sady 8 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this Pastor K. Its so me, walai. This is indeed timely
@mawufemoragbenorwosi3757
@mawufemoragbenorwosi3757 8 ай бұрын
Very real, God bless you Sir
@user-ov3es4vh4n
@user-ov3es4vh4n 9 ай бұрын
Wow😇 wat an enlightened message God bless u sir,ve really learned frm ur messages especially d infatuation
@afolagboyejoy
@afolagboyejoy 6 ай бұрын
Thank you sir for this
@deboraholaogun3744
@deboraholaogun3744 6 ай бұрын
This is liberating. Wow, just wow!...
@simply_bisola
@simply_bisola 8 ай бұрын
Thank you PK! This video has greatly helped me.
@godsloveblessedituen-gbi
@godsloveblessedituen-gbi 9 ай бұрын
So beautiful. This is so nice mama. Kudos to the team. I love you Jite😂
@brita9067
@brita9067 5 ай бұрын
Pastor K coming through with the insight and humor😂😂. Love it. God bless you🙏🏾!!
@Fortune_Chioma
@Fortune_Chioma 9 ай бұрын
Pastor K You’re soo funny 😂
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