7 Mistakes People Make After a Breakup | Kingsley Okonkwo

Going through a breakup can be so tough, because of how emotionally volatile that season in your life is, you might make a whole lot of mistakes, so I am here to guide you through the season.
Join Kingsley Okonkwo as he shares " 7 Mistakes People Make After a Breakup. "
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[@RukkyDINMA]

Everybody just says don't beg. It isn't easy

[@ella_chysom]

At number 1: sometimes breakups also hurts the person who initiated it even more, no body ever wants a break up, most times before you start detaching, you actually try so hard to make it work desperately, but you just start to realise it's a lost Battle and staying is just you elongating and opening yourself to more pain, draining and sacrificing your own happiness.most of us have been taught that relationship is hard work,(so we start entertaining toxicity and disrespect and pain, cause in our head, that's how relationships are meant to be, "no body is perfect" so we stay and swallow it) I don't think so, I know it takes work but I know the work or rather sacrifice always yields awesome results, cause in the first place it's led by love

[@The.Anyamah]

I agree with you

[@mary-theresaogbuakanne7787]

Absolutely correct

[@blessingjosephine3600]

I disagree ma Sometimes what if the person initiation the break up has seen someone else?

[@chiangelakoani5339]

Your explanation is my story @ Chisom

[@ifeomaokonji]

Succinctly put! Sometimes that move needs to be initiated so that both parties take a break and see where they went wrong individually and try to make it work eventually by making amends. Most times when you’re in it,you really don’t think or know the grey areas until that person isn’t with you for a while. Then,value sets in.

[@RoyaltyCosmostv]

See life as a school.. treat every person you meet as a teacher and every experience as a lesson.. Spot on 👏🏾.

[@elishashappinesscampaign1597]

For sure sis

[@amiraishaq7794]

Fact 💯

[@ktmulumba4490]

Wow

[@princemike8724]

Nobody exit in your life suddenly, I agree with you sir😷😷😷

[@calvinremijus437]

Made a Note; a. Begging your ex to take you back b. Jumping into another rls c. Not Learning from it; Find out; i. What worked ii. What didn't iii. What did you do right iv. What you did wrong v. Why did it fail d. Going back to the same toxic rls because of loneliness e. Not healing properly - take time to heal. i. Vent to closest friends ii. Get a support system, return to God, study, pray - i. Resist trying to be brave and courageous ii. Forgiveness iii. Acceptance of the situation f. Avoid seeking closure from the person who hurt you - find closure by yourself, make peace with the experience - avoid looking for answers to unexplained scenarios. JUST CLOSE THE CASE! LET IT GO! IT DIDN'T WORK AND THATS OK! g. Not moving on - It's not the end - don't stay stuck - don't keep memories - limit / block contact for the immediate. Let It Go! Pick up some new interest - do what you enjoy - avoid idleness! Best Regards!

[@Oluwatobi_enitan]

Thank you 😊

[@nankomasarah4265]

Thank you

[@okeadedamolatayo6811]

Thank you for this

[@victorychetachi9418]

Exactly, the person that hurt you will never tell you the real reasons they broke up with you. Thank you Pastor

[@darleneadomahboateng1793]

They don’t have any reason 😭💔

[@deborahmicahmusic]

I need to Heal More than Ever🥺🥺🙌🙌... I'm that Person who wants to mask up all my emotions and Act like oh I'm not hurt But in real-life I'm losing my Mind... I think it's time to really start talking Abt how I feel and Stop being a Macho-Girl🥺🥺 This message is Just Everything right now God bless you Sir...

[@missthiana2807]

I’m currently going through this but I thank God I saw your post on instagram which lead me here God bless you sir Lesson learnt 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@silvanamounkondila2106]

I confirm everything you said Pastor because these are the exact same things that I did after I broke up with my ex , it took me years before I decided to give a chance to someone else . 🙏

[@julianajames442]

I'm here all the way from Tanzania, thank you Pastor Kingsley this is exactly what I needed to hear.

[@mylesemmanuel.t7168]

Man of God thanks alot. THIS explains alot to me. I have known today that I will never know the reason. I choose to fall in the arms of Jesus. He has never dumped me. Thnx once again

[@josephk.c9274]

This message just popped up when I ended a toxic relationship... She nearly crashed me, but God came forth... She didn't like the spirit filled life that God was grooming me into, I stopped sex in the relationship and she disconnected, but didn't want to end it, until I couldn't take it anymore when she indirectly rejected our plans to see my parents...

[@chinweebere5898]

Really! So there are ladies who can actually break up with a guy bcos he no longer want premarital sex hmmm this life, another man food is another man's poison.stay strong bro

[@blessingjosephine3600]

@@chinweebere5898 can you pls not judge one sided story. thanks

[@chinweebere5898]

@@blessingjosephine3600 I didn't judge anyone I only said another man's food is another man's poison

[@youthsofthelastdays]

You cant use a mistake to correct another mistake! Waow 🤗🤗

[@shadowlyn4404]

jst had a breakup and i needed to hear this message. It is well. God bless you Sir. thank you

[@youthsofthelastdays]

This message is RIT (Right In Time) I just ended a relationship now & I really needed to hear this! God bless you Sir 🤗🙏 More Grace. No experience is lost if you can learn from it!

[@StarC_38]

Same here with me

[@augustaisidore530]

Same

[@elishashappinesscampaign1597]

It rolling!

[@TheLateefat]

Same here and it really hurts.

[@ikpocharity2281]

Thank you sir for this I just had a breakup yesterday and I was about making a mistake of calling and begging and going through his pictures and never ready to let go thank you God bless you sir 🙏🙏

[@Rane_Confidence]

Not might be I actually begged but never again...life is a lesson on its on ..thank PK

[@elizabethgaye4832]

Jumping into another relationship after breakup is wrong, but in most cases, a lot ends up in a miserable past. Sometimes, we all have to let go what we hold on to in order for God to give us what we deserve. In it all, we should take life one day at a time and wait for God’s timing! His timing is THE very best! Shalom

[@manoumanou6779]

Amen Amen

[@adaameh3885]

Great Speakers. You and your wife. Weldone!

[@eefiekel3954]

For mine, I needed distance and it helped me not to make any of these seven mistakes. Thank you PK, I was blessed as usual

[@egunyenga4083]

There were indeed more bad times.. He didn't want long term.. Said he couldn't marry someone he hasn't slept with.. I loved him soooooo much but I decided to wait.. And let him go. I miss him so much.. So so much..

[@bimpe-aduke7565]

The right one from God will cherish your waiting. Continue to pray. God will definitely come through for you in a big way. You will be amazed. Stay blessed dear.

[@flourish5blessing424]

You did the right thing. Truth is if you sleep with him, he might end up hating you afterwards and you Will feel even worse and more heartbroken than you are now. P lease don’t give into him. If you give into him, you will surely regret it, especially if he ends up not marrying you . Feelings are very deceptive. God will help you through this. I pray that God will strengthen you in Jesus name. Amen

[@youthsofthelastdays]

OMG The song aspect is so real 🤣😂😂😂😂 All songs talk to you at that time of breakup lol...Who else can relate?

[@mariajosso8232]

i do ohhhhh hahhahha

[@fatimawakkias5659]

Asin ehn, so relative

[@solangenjoka2132]

Me hihihi

[@solangenjoka2132]

Like now ehhhh is my worst moment but i thank God for strength

[@sirizihindula]

Songs and quotes

[@GideonInnocent]

Going through a breakup now and it's stressful for me, it's very painful. 4 years gone.... And I'm listening to this praying everything goes away like now 😔😔

[@praisechalwe4650]

I totally understand you cause I’m going through the same thing.. it will get better with time..🥹

[@lyd_lydz]

God heals

[@gracephiloe5788]

Through these messages I'm healing, it doesn't hurt as much as first I pray God helps you too

[@GideonInnocent]

@@praisechalwe4650 when I almost gave up, I'm way better now. How are you doing?

[@GideonInnocent]

@@lyd_lydz yes, He did. It was a painful process, I'm way better now. Thank you

[@graceokpala4380]

Thank to so much pastor, the talk is very impacting

[@amkblessed9120]

This is just what I needed right now. Thank you sir.

[@abustephanie]

Thank you pastor K. God Bless You

[@HappyHealedRelationships]

We are here!Our ears are open to hear the teaching🙏🏼

[@jossyuwa1805]

Thank you so much for this teaching

[@jackson3734]

I really need dis now, thanks a lot pst K

[@confidenceeshiogu9946]

Oh this teaching is very education thank you Pastor k

[@nanaefyaisla6943]

Thank you thank you thank you. God bless you.

[@michaeldavid8564]

Pastor, God bless you. May God keep you for us

[@tobeleo3558]

Thank you so much sir. I'm grateful for this

[@MR_MICHAElL]

I've been waiting for this for a long time... thank you sir

[@Adaora_Goodlife]

Thank you very much Pastor!

[@adegbolaoluwawamiri3027]

Thank you pastor Kingsley

[@Dhammilicious]

Thank you sir!God bless you!

[@denricaaugustawilliams6285]

This is for me, ooh God indeed your help and directives 🙏🏿

[@elishashappinesscampaign1597]

THIS IS AWESOME PS K. I HAVE LEARNT AND IT AN EXPERIENCE FOR ME. THANKS PS K!

[@carolineamoah3400]

Pastor K Thank You for wisdom God bless you sir

[@mosesdesmond7833]

Thank you so much sir for this topic...

[@abiodunjoyadeyeye3652]

Thank you pastor, this message came exactly when I needed it most

[@queensheba4040]

Thank you pastor Kinglsy more grease to your elbow in jesus name.

[@amiabotsi3438]

Thank you Pst KIngsley

[@wemawaluza]

Thank you pastor

[@StanleyChibu]

Amazing teaching...

[@abrahamsani8783]

Thank you. This is really interesting.

[@gloriaewuruje1573]

I just had to end a relationship for good and this video has helped me a lot. I wrote down all my reasons why I left and I feel a lot much better. Thank you very much sir

[@PreciousOnyekaOkoye]

Thanks PK for this. This was very timely. I will come back here soon to share my testimony… soon😊

[@tendaimoyo2268]

Seeking closure from your ex is a trap... I agree that you should closure from yourself. Oh I agree with everything you have said.

[@mr-balie]

What I need right now

[@jasminelanett1]

I had watched this video sometime in 2020. I am entering into a new season in my life so i came to watch this video again and equip myself. Also watching some videos on P.M’s page. Thank you for these videos Pst K. They’re so real and relatable!

[@enwezormary3687]

Ahh.....after a long time ..... FINALLY

[@jamesrasak]

God bless you Sir.

[@real_ngboss]

God bless u sir

[@arnolda7494]

I started going to the gym. You're right Sir

[@Nisile_116]

🙆‍♀️Here to be again whooped 🙌. Thank you for this great blessing Sir. God Bless You 🙏

[@ebinumjerome2673]

Thank you Sir

[@mercyanyanso.810]

Close the case by yourself 💯✅

[@helenahelen8687]

God bless you papa 🌹👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾

[@sanyasway9666]

Thank you😢

[@chrismicheal3245]

Thanks so much sir This really worked On me sir

[@thelmairere4007]

I have once begged, but never will that happen again.

[@rebecca6984]

girll abeg do not please know ur worth

[@adesolaphardekey3306]

Raw truth

[@ikeibe452]

I just broke up with my girlfriend after I found out she cheated. This was months after. In retrospect I just couldn't fathom the pretence and all. She pleaded and I gave her a second chance. Few days later, she was the one that initiated the breakup. This shattered me like glass because I saw that I had been manipulated by a narcissistic woman

[@estherraymond174]

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[@estherraymond174]

I recommend you to (Dr Steve). He can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance, ever since he helped me, I have b e e n enjoying a perfect Relationship with my ex. I will advice you seek his help thanks.🙏

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[@jakii8013]

"The person that hurt you cannot heal you".

[@anna...4726]

I know of a man who could help you restore back your relationship either your ex or soulmate🥰🥰

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[@jakii8013]

@Merlin Nichole Go to hell😂

[@funny_naija_hometv1316]

Quite encouraging anyways 💪🏿

[@mrscetoute2259]

I felt this

[@onelove6180]

Nice one sir♥️

[@daviddoku469]

Listening to this helps. Going through a breakup, an investment of four years but I was apparently deceived by her and her family. Marriage had been fixed, clothes and accessories bought, house rented. Hmm mm. Its painful

[@Queen-Abio]

Woooow.

[@farosseybassey3308]

Sir you made this video for me. Thank you

[@jacksonali222ali5]

I Lean a lot thanks sir.

[@dorisaboagye6831]

Powerful teaching. Just a little observation please, the background sound was a bit louder and was distracting the teaching. My humble observation Sir. God bless you🙏🏾 I think this should be taken into consideration in subsequent submissions please.

[@simonfaith5533]

The person that hurt you cannot heal u👍🤔

[@ayuknjieagbortabot8235]

Thank you for this wonderful piece Sir I'm grateful

[@issa1543]

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[@konmmaogwuazor8951]

Life is a classroom. Counselors are teachers worth appreciation. Thank you so much PST Okonkwo for your treasured counsels.

[@issa1543]

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What sapp him

[@kennebertine1874]

Thankyou somuch Sr, May God Almigthy Abondently bless you.

[@katesmith3189]

My ex came back to me few days ago ❤️ I got help from a Relationship Restorer Who was able to mend back my broken relationship. He can bring your ex back

[@katesmith3189]

He helped me not quite long. and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's

[@katesmith3189]

W-asap him⏬

[@wisdomdarko2813]

Powerful teachings, God bless you richly sir 🙏❤

[@makojacko6686]

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[@thomasmagwenzi7802]

Wow 😮 so powerful

[@samuelakinde726]

Currently experiencing this!!.... Thanks Pastor K

[@samuelakinde726]

@Omolaye Boluwatife.... Thanks am not interested... I have move on!!!

[@issa1543]

Hello lovely i know a man who can help you to bring back your love to you without delays he was the one that helped me to get back my love within 48 hours

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What sapp him

[@dorabosco2306]

I needed to hear this...thank you so much pastor k❤️😩

[@makojacko6686]

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[@ademolacomfort5944]

Thank you Pastor! I really need to hear this.

[@abdulkadirsaleadamu3864]

I recommend you to a man who can help you manifest whatever and who ever you want to manifest within two-days ❤❤❤

[@abdulkadirsaleadamu3864]

He was the person who helped me manifest back my ex three days ago with out delay 💯 💯💯

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[@kemorcuisine6109]

Your wisdom sir has no limit🙇🏼‍♀️God has blessed us with you.... thank you for the insight

[@katesmith3189]

My ex came back to me few days ago ❤️ I got help from a Relationship Restorer Who was able to mend back my broken relationship. He can bring your ex back

[@katesmith3189]

He helped me not quite long. and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's

[@katesmith3189]

W-asap him⏬

[@udechukwuemmanuel3113]

Sir,speaking about relationship,when is it biblically right for one to go into a relationship? And is a teenager allowed to go into such,knowing what a relationship entails now

[@domnann8524]

Thank you sir...God bless you. Please,do your books have the e-format?

[@VictorUdofotMusic]

Thank you PST so much

[@issa1543]

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What sapp him

[@mmesomamodesther6996]

Such a relief, thank you sir for this message😍😍

[@katesmith3189]

My ex came back to me few days ago ❤️ I got help from a Relationship Restorer Who was able to mend back my broken relationship. He can bring your ex back

[@katesmith3189]

He helped me not quite long. and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's,

[@katesmith3189]

W-asap him⏬

[@TheATJPodcast]

Lol😂😂 I feel ashamed that I begged him several times to take me back. What?! Did I actually do that? Lol😂 Thank God for growth o. What was I thinking when I was begging him for acceptance? Ahan!😂😂😂

[@esthermeliaatson6550]

A whole spec like you....

[@TheATJPodcast]

@@esthermeliaatson6550 shebi?😂😂😂 You won't blame me, I was in love😂😂😂

[@amarachikamamba7696]

I can relate my sister 😂😂

[@resincrafts_]

🤣🤣🤣

[@simonfaith5533]

Number 1:::don't beg That got me Number 2::: jumping into another relationship (I made this mistake sir and it landed me experience the same thing that happened in the previous one!)

[@vickyjoness8884]

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[@carolinenakiwala9813]

Woooh, thank you sir for the wisdom.

[@lindaowen1357]

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Send him a message on Whatsapp

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[phone].

[@issa1543]

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[@issa1543]

What sapp him

[@myagrilifestyle]

In my case , i wronged him so bad and then he forgives and I did make positive changes but I guess it’s too hurtful for him but then I didn’t want to loose him but he wanted to let go It really hurt me, I was trying to make it work but those hard feelings he had, he started using it against me and hurt me with words But now he cut me off and it’s for the best..I hope he heals from it and I’m sorry for hurting him at first.. it hurts to hurt the one we love..it’s hard to forgive urself too

[@resincrafts_]

It's well....

[@Media_Priest]

This Really came at the right time🙂

[@issa1543]

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[@vickymwandingi972]

🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@anitaaoke6597]

What about in a situation you where the one who did wrong ,and your partner has tolerated your excess

[@Ethel-Wobo]

Don't vent on social media 💯

[@amasarpong8607]

I broke up with my man after a year of literally trying to build a life together.. it's been a painful past couple of days but I thank God I can distract myself with work.. His sister's treated me badly and he allowed it to happen.. he never stood by me.. I can't live forever with a person like this.. So the person who initiates it feels the pain too, it's never easy if you love the person

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[@gilgalokwu8969]

So sir is it a must to block the person . What you guys were friends before the dating and the break up.

[@korkoroshamotah5111]

Hello sir am in Ghana pls where can I get your books

[@nkbabefavour1919]

In the case of moving on , if you have children with them how do you move on.

[@carolmakhetha8281]

Thank you soo much, this is helping me, I ahve been in a toxic relationship for 2 years coming in n out of it one moment we are happy the next it's like hell on earth, I loved this man Gave him my head seeked better opportunitys for him to be a better man, n wow every time he will tell me I am stupid and I am slow and he deserves better, but even after that I will leave and he will come fetch me telling me he world is falling apart without me but a week won't even last we back to the same place, he baught me car and every time they are excuses to y I can not drive the car, I left 2 months back and some days I feel like I made a huge mistake but as I sit n count there was no peace at all I used to lie to make him happy and speak bad abt the people I love so he can be happy he never liked anybody in my life n I ended pretending like I dnt like them either so he can be happy, I never attended friends weddings and stopped going to church course he said it was not important unless if its his friends or family, I am trying to heal n some days I feel like not even working but staying in bed all day

[@victoriaadjei4938]

Sending lots of love and hugs your way🤗🤗🤗. May God heal you 🤗🤗

[@Oma_Sky]

I wish I have the right words for you sis Hope you're better

[@ifeyinwaogbonna6160]

Oohhh I can relate my sister. May God himself comfort you

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I am trying to buy an audio book but my card gets denied. I have also sent a mail, I am yet to get a response.