How I Bounced Back From A Bad Marriage | Part 3 | Kingsley Okonkwo & Dr. Olumide Emmanuel

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Kingsley Okonkwo

Kingsley Okonkwo

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@ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439
@ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439 11 ай бұрын
I hope his first daughter and son watch this! And we pray for reconciliation and healing
@victoriaijeomalekwa1615
@victoriaijeomalekwa1615 11 ай бұрын
Amen
@justarandomgirl129
@justarandomgirl129 11 ай бұрын
Amen and Amen
@florencedele
@florencedele 11 ай бұрын
Amen
@marthachy9418
@marthachy9418 11 ай бұрын
Amen
@MrsGiant
@MrsGiant 11 ай бұрын
I pray so too oo, they really need to find their father, I feel so emotional hearing his side.
@nafisakwande6544
@nafisakwande6544 7 ай бұрын
Pst Kingsley is Igbo,Pst Olumide is Yoruba but they all sat down together in unity and in love because of one purpose,vision and agenda to foster unity love,empathy to humanity and mankind.For the purpose of their coming together no one said your Igbo your Yoruba and 'im sure at that point in time none of them even remembered where they came from,what they had in mind was the sense of urgency to relate with themselves and with others..Bible says how wonderful it is for brethren to dwell amongst one another.Nigeria is great and has great people.Each and every tribe is beautiful and our unity in diversity is Power but until we can come to the point of understanding that we may not become a formidable force as we ought to.Everyone on this platform is Great,remember that.I'm from the North and i love both of them so much they have been a great blessing to me.Great video.Thank you very much.
@vickie_vagz
@vickie_vagz 11 ай бұрын
This pastor is so real... The pain of divorce is the reason God hates it. He doesn't us to have to go through it
@Habest-luv
@Habest-luv 11 ай бұрын
Presently going thru this... it hurts really and the fact that the kid we ask you my daddy have go to church... But what is more painful is when you hear later another story that was not it, how they will lie up against you... Well God dey
@ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood
@ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood 11 ай бұрын
​@@Habest-luv so true. All these stories will be resolved on judgement day and that is the only day we will know the full truth. This is how I have my peace.
@lucasmaryanne6974
@lucasmaryanne6974 10 ай бұрын
You can day that again. It takes a lot to make the person whole, that is, if the person is willing to cooperate with God. Otherwise ba, the wound will putrefy.
@kunezicomfortmandah88
@kunezicomfortmandah88 7 ай бұрын
How to move on: 1. Be healed and it takes a while 2. Find out what went wrong. What mistake did you do? What lessons did you learn? 3. When you meet someone, be open, transparent, full disclosure with them. Investigate each other, ask the right/relevant questions. Help each other heal from past hurts 4. Don't compare your past with your present. Know each other together because everyone you marry came with their own baggage. So enter by faith. 5. Commit to make it work 6. Pray to marry the right person Marrying a divorcee: 1. See things from their own lens 2. Recognize they have a baggage. Are you ready for all the stigma and all? 3. Have mature mentors 4. Use the wisdom of God to strengthen others How can we reduce level of divorce: 1. Premarital counseling. Churches should have in house facilities. Help your parishioners to prepare for marriage. You can't manufacture the weapons of war on the battle field. Have post marriage training for couples (Marriage Enrichment program) 2. Ensure genuine salvation, discipleship st church level because many in church are not transformed
@efa-eval
@efa-eval 11 ай бұрын
😢pko knows so much about marriage but throughout this series, he's been more on the listening side. That alone speaks to his wisdom❤
@Stageyuliamultimedia
@Stageyuliamultimedia 11 ай бұрын
@efa-eval you are very correct but don't let's forget that it is an interview session. PKO interviewing POE😊😊😊...
@kemistrykemidada9256
@kemistrykemidada9256 11 ай бұрын
Exactly my thoughts. His listening skills is top notch.
@enochnanakwesigregg5329
@enochnanakwesigregg5329 11 ай бұрын
And he hasn’t been divorced before. He’s learning like all of us.
@PrinceDennisWoruka
@PrinceDennisWoruka 11 ай бұрын
Pastor K is blessed with wisdom
@sandraokonkwo900
@sandraokonkwo900 11 ай бұрын
​@@kemistrykemidada9256exactly
@SplendorgiftVincent853
@SplendorgiftVincent853 8 ай бұрын
I'm in tears now, people go through a lot in the name of marriage,Lord please help me not to make mistakes in marriage 🙏😭
@veetellsit
@veetellsit 11 ай бұрын
No matter how bad a spouse was to you, never deprive them of seeing their kids!!
@firstchoice307
@firstchoice307 11 ай бұрын
Yes!Never.It makes the situation worse
@ladeneganolukayodeakinjide5539
@ladeneganolukayodeakinjide5539 11 ай бұрын
What if that Ex-spouse is known to be diabolic, and you have a sense of duty to protect your children from getting entangled in their dark arts, so you would permit such a person to destroy their lives?
@hnbala41
@hnbala41 11 ай бұрын
Thank you both, it is so deep and informative. God richly bless you
@iamwoleojo
@iamwoleojo 11 ай бұрын
Women are to usually too bitter to listen to that, even though they are at faults
@blessok77
@blessok77 11 ай бұрын
The girl needs you oooo
@Rumbu_P
@Rumbu_P 11 ай бұрын
One of the hardest thing to do for most people who are in the business of talking; is interviewing - the urge to ask & sit back is tough, Pastor Kingsley does a fine job of that 👏🏿
@jamesobahi1992
@jamesobahi1992 11 ай бұрын
I have been sobbing listening to this man of God. He went through all these and he is still standing. God will restore you. Your children will reconnect with you very soon I pray IJN
@philipjoshuak.4828
@philipjoshuak.4828 11 ай бұрын
Amen
@adebolajaiye-ojo9813
@adebolajaiye-ojo9813 11 ай бұрын
And may the wife be healed, in Jesus name
@ngoalvankay844
@ngoalvankay844 11 ай бұрын
It's heart breaking
@ehi2283
@ehi2283 11 ай бұрын
Have you heard the side of his wife? It takes two and never judge a book by its cover. No matter what, let the word of God prevail.
@josephloadedman545
@josephloadedman545 11 ай бұрын
​@ehi2283 you heard him say he gave his people her number, told them where she was at the time and asked them to go and do their investigations siting that what he said was his side of the story
@divinefavour4873
@divinefavour4873 8 ай бұрын
Man of God your children are coming back to you especially your son
@olayiwolaifeoluwa7011
@olayiwolaifeoluwa7011 11 ай бұрын
There's no problem we can not solve except the problem we can not discuss 👌
@GbemisolaOluwasina
@GbemisolaOluwasina 4 ай бұрын
Kai
@dankon-thebeloved1653
@dankon-thebeloved1653 9 ай бұрын
Pastor K displayed a vital skill in this recording, The Art of Listening. He knows so much yet he listens with such focus. It's not cosmetic, it's real. Gid bless you P.K,
@ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439
@ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439 11 ай бұрын
Pastor K is such a good listener and conversationalist, no wonder PM likes him
@msfubby9372
@msfubby9372 11 ай бұрын
Yeah.. I noticed that too. He didn't interject at all.. or tell his own story
@peterillah7944
@peterillah7944 11 ай бұрын
I love them both. Great men of God.
@eunicenjeru215
@eunicenjeru215 11 ай бұрын
Counselors have to learn to listen!
@teamsugarcopsTV
@teamsugarcopsTV 7 ай бұрын
Who is pm? His wife?
@darlingtonanele6403
@darlingtonanele6403 7 ай бұрын
​@@teamsugarcopsTVPM is Pastor Mildred
@chuksgeorge6448
@chuksgeorge6448 7 ай бұрын
The pain of Divorce is bigger than divorce.
@immaculateshalom7045
@immaculateshalom7045 11 ай бұрын
I pray Pastor Olumide’s children reconnect back to him, he really needs them , I’ve learnt a lot from this conversation
@ogunnsomoniyi4049
@ogunnsomoniyi4049 11 ай бұрын
Amen and amen 🙏
@stolives1159
@stolives1159 11 ай бұрын
Amen!!!
@oseamagbewan9648
@oseamagbewan9648 9 ай бұрын
Amen... God Will work things out in due time..
@oluwaseyiighereje5743
@oluwaseyiighereje5743 8 ай бұрын
Amen
@oyewaleolatunde326
@oyewaleolatunde326 11 ай бұрын
I'm on the verge of divorcing as at today, but this episode really made me understands more on the dangers aftermath. I really hope my spouse's heart is turned to flesh.
@elinaonomuophu1148
@elinaonomuophu1148 11 ай бұрын
Amen...I would be in prayers with you
@oyewaleolatunde326
@oyewaleolatunde326 11 ай бұрын
@@elinaonomuophu1148 Thanks for this, She's so hard hearted to listen to Counsel and guidance.
@osindeindeemmanuel9112
@osindeindeemmanuel9112 11 ай бұрын
Amen🙏
@OnyinyechiAchodor
@OnyinyechiAchodor 11 ай бұрын
Amen
@elinaonomuophu1148
@elinaonomuophu1148 11 ай бұрын
@@oyewaleolatunde326 there is nothing too hard for the Lord.
@hopepeace8060
@hopepeace8060 11 ай бұрын
Please share this video. Let it go viral. People who know the children hear this message
@kemmasinbo-amobi9541
@kemmasinbo-amobi9541 11 ай бұрын
Praying for reconciliation with the kids 🙏🏾🙏🏾 I often say even if your husband is a bad husband to you; he deserves every right to be a good father to your kids. Don’t punish your children by denying them access to their father. It is a seed that will come back to haunt you!
@rosekwasi3824
@rosekwasi3824 10 ай бұрын
Amen
@IkeStanley0087
@IkeStanley0087 11 ай бұрын
1. Full Disclosure. 2. Do your due diligence (do not allow emotions to overrule your sense of discussion), 3. Never compare your past with your present 4. Face the reality that your spouse comes with a baggage (every spouse has a past, present, and future) 5. Learn and be committed to make it work.
@BARTALKWITHOLA
@BARTALKWITHOLA 11 ай бұрын
A divorce is like an amputation, you survive but there's less of you - Margaret Atwood
@FunmiOdedoyin
@FunmiOdedoyin 11 ай бұрын
There is no problem we can’t solve, except the problem we cannot discuss 🔑🔑🔑
@omosowonloveth3948
@omosowonloveth3948 8 ай бұрын
I take inspiration from Pastor Jerry’s marital story. Well what do I know, only he who wears the shoes knows where it pinches
@KimG777
@KimG777 9 ай бұрын
These are healing messages. They have blessed me because I have been divorced and would not wish it on anyone. Thanks so much for the work you do. ❤
@uupeaceunique1284
@uupeaceunique1284 11 ай бұрын
Pastor K is amazing, he allowed the man to talk and listened all through
@misshandy7822
@misshandy7822 7 ай бұрын
I have learnt a lot from this pastor's Emmanuel story,may God bring back his children to him
@obeabayomi5901
@obeabayomi5901 11 ай бұрын
Healing is when you touch a wounded part and it no longer hurt. Healing from a failed marriage or relationship is when you remember them but laugh in response to the thoughts and memories
@jackieomugah
@jackieomugah 11 ай бұрын
It's true. I was in a relationship that failed and it took me about 5 years to heal from it. The journey wasn't easy but God, family and friends walked with me every step of the way. These days, I laugh at the memories...But the most important thing is for one to know where they went wrong because no one is perfect, and learn from it...even though the other person in the relationship was the one who may have caused the relationship to flop.
@obeabayomi5901
@obeabayomi5901 11 ай бұрын
That's a whole lot of time... Just that we need prayer and scriptural evidence of the right partner before we allow other games like dating, questions, and introduction to set it. If we can be serious in prayer and the word ministry choosing right at once won't be a problem. Emotion and trend is the challenges relationship and marriage have nowadays.
@israeliseoluwa6704
@israeliseoluwa6704 8 ай бұрын
this is good! I remember my ex now but I laugh and move on! 😊
@biembouchuaseh4713
@biembouchuaseh4713 11 ай бұрын
Please Pastors, also do something on widows and widowers. The difficulties they face in having partners for marriage, how they manage sexual ouches etc
@chinwelilian6634
@chinwelilian6634 11 ай бұрын
Most people in church are not born àgain! You're right sir.
@InnocentAbi-ls4ku
@InnocentAbi-ls4ku 11 ай бұрын
O my GOD 😢😢. Father let Pastor reunite with his children again
@ThehappyOlamide
@ThehappyOlamide 11 ай бұрын
Pastor Olumide is anointed!
@e.edwigep9352
@e.edwigep9352 11 ай бұрын
Pastor K’s facial expression is like “God have mercy….divorce shall not be my portion”
@auntietee
@auntietee 11 ай бұрын
Amen oh
@AderemiAdebowale-kl4ze
@AderemiAdebowale-kl4ze 11 ай бұрын
😂😂😂how you take know now from ordinary facial expressions.
@SomaPrecious
@SomaPrecious 8 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@teamsugarcopsTV
@teamsugarcopsTV 7 ай бұрын
Hehehehe
@chipsyeguae5562
@chipsyeguae5562 6 ай бұрын
😅😅😅😅 Amen
@choiceelbuba6632
@choiceelbuba6632 11 ай бұрын
Infact the world need to hear this Man of God😢
@abiolalabake8920
@abiolalabake8920 11 ай бұрын
Thank you so much sir for being vulnerable enough to show us your scars🙏🏾 May the good Lord restore you on EVERY SIDE🙏🏾
@praiseokechukwu4021
@praiseokechukwu4021 11 ай бұрын
I pray that elohim will arrest your children wherever they are with this series, to reach out for you Bishop olumide in Jesus mighty name AMEN 🙏. Thank you Pk and Bishop for this series.
@emmanuelsamuel2283
@emmanuelsamuel2283 11 ай бұрын
"People are not really transformed"...if we were, no body will tell us to do certain things..I couldn't agree more
@e.edwigep9352
@e.edwigep9352 11 ай бұрын
I wish Pastor K could bring this subject of adult having IVF for children without father. It is a trend now. A lot of woman waited waited and waited no husband. So there are creating their own family.
@knightgem
@knightgem 7 ай бұрын
In other for divorce to reduce, before anyone gets into marriage, 1st thing is to understand yourself, know what you like and don't like. Love yourself, 2nd thing is, marry yourself. Don't marry opposite of yourself.
@outofnaija
@outofnaija 11 ай бұрын
This is is really interesting. One big lesson here is that remarriage after divorce is no joke.
@user-vj3it9vy4x
@user-vj3it9vy4x 11 ай бұрын
When you have a message the devil tries to make a mess of your life. Go through it knowing It’s still part of the message. The story will inspire a lot of persons, stop others from making such mistakes and cause healing in the lives of others. God bless you Sir for still standing
@lizbethy8830
@lizbethy8830 11 ай бұрын
I like this, I will like to quote it
@nicolagolding3281
@nicolagolding3281 11 ай бұрын
AMEN
@drolugbengaadetitunTV
@drolugbengaadetitunTV 7 ай бұрын
Standing well and moving on.
@kerennongho
@kerennongho 11 ай бұрын
My waiting is over waiting😂😂😂😂 this pastor is shaking very strong tables. Topics that people avoid in the church..make we get sense oooo
@jareya
@jareya 11 ай бұрын
Honestly… these discussions are so important and we need more of it in the church
@ejirogheneokpako1632
@ejirogheneokpako1632 10 ай бұрын
God has seen that I will go through this and made you go through it so that I can be strengthen. This is the first time I am listening to marriage seminars since my separation. I didn’t even want to hear anything about marriage. I thank God for this program
@susanakaan810
@susanakaan810 11 ай бұрын
The pastor is a strong man, God will reward you for your faithfulness.
@Word_Rain_Music
@Word_Rain_Music 11 ай бұрын
O LORD of all power and might, we agree as the body of Christ that Your servant’s children will get in touch with him and rekindle their relationship in the name of Jesus.
@josephasoh2669
@josephasoh2669 11 ай бұрын
Divorce is one of the most painful experiences in this life. It should be avoided as much as possible!
@ifedanisi7683
@ifedanisi7683 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your marriage journey. After listening to this. I have few points to share. Churches need to have a marriage counselling unit for the married ones. Problems should be discussed in marriage not swept under the carpet. Prayers sessions are good but emotional damage needs to be dealt with continuous counselling sessions until healing takes place. Most Christians marriages are going through tough times and couples are enduring the marriage instead of enjoying it. They are only patching things because of what people will say. Divorce is a very tough decision in marriage and one will live with the scares for life. We need to feed our marriages with the correct ingredients in order to get the expected meal served to us. I pray God gives us the wisdom, knowledge and kindness to feed into our marriages.
@MF-ve2lg
@MF-ve2lg 11 ай бұрын
Great session. Dr Olumide don beat Pastor Kingsley tire as he dey gist. 😂😂😂😂
@SomaPrecious
@SomaPrecious 8 ай бұрын
Aswear 🤣🤣🤣
@abenaagyeiwaaacquah7671
@abenaagyeiwaaacquah7671 8 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@joyouscharity
@joyouscharity 5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 whala
@dminaj1416
@dminaj1416 3 ай бұрын
This is the comment I've been looking for😂
@RebeccaSwaceMauro
@RebeccaSwaceMauro 10 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@delphinechichi3697
@delphinechichi3697 8 ай бұрын
We cried ooo. I was a member of the choir then, I remember when he told us about the divorce. We thank God you’re doing well sir.
@uchechukwuonyejiaka9375
@uchechukwuonyejiaka9375 11 ай бұрын
I was in a meeting in Lagos where Olumide was to be invited , one stood against it because she said he pushed away the wife. I am glad he is sharing this .
@jesusbaby-lk9zs
@jesusbaby-lk9zs 11 ай бұрын
Really sir thank you for sharing 🙏
@akinsanyaibukun5234
@akinsanyaibukun5234 11 ай бұрын
Na wa ooo
@oge82
@oge82 11 ай бұрын
No matter what happened between the husband and wife no one should keep the children away from the other. Keep your issues aside and let the children see their other parent.
@Olayinka_Oke.
@Olayinka_Oke. 11 ай бұрын
This is so powerful.. thank you Pastor Olamide for being vulnerable to share your dark days with us. May the good lord perfect all that concerns you, and continues to strengthen you in Jesus name.
@blessinggeorge
@blessinggeorge 11 ай бұрын
"Wealth is not sexually transmitted " ...wow! Pst Olumide well done!
@apostlesegunadeyemi552
@apostlesegunadeyemi552 11 ай бұрын
Thank you so much Pastor Olumide for not hiding these information from the public, sir, you are a real mentor ❤
@theshector1
@theshector1 11 ай бұрын
I saw this happen to so many people around me when i was single and my only prayer for marriage became "GOD HAVE MERCY" .....thank You LORD for your MERCY and the PEACE i have in my marriage. If you jam Mad Man or Woman ehnnnnn‼️‼️‼️‼️ hmmmmm
@nnekaokonkoh4112
@nnekaokonkoh4112 11 ай бұрын
Pastor Olumide is really intelligent!!!! His training strategies are a genius idea!!!
@financiallyspeakingwithjenn
@financiallyspeakingwithjenn 11 ай бұрын
I would love to hear this woman’s version. I give it to Dr Olamide, at the point where he talked about pregnancy, he mentioned perspective…. That from her perspective, his insistence on her going to church while pregnant could have been seen as abuse. That’s a stretch, but could there be other issues he didn’t handle well.That moment made me trust him more. Ppl demonize past partners, many times not intentionally, we protect ourselves naturally. When ppl talk about past relationships, u can almost see horns on the heads of their partners. Marry a kind person. God forbid, if things go bad, a kind ex would be considerate, no matter what.
@histreasure3189
@histreasure3189 11 ай бұрын
💯...about marrying a kind person!
@Odinakachi.O
@Odinakachi.O 11 ай бұрын
Amen to the prayers I use my parents as a point of contact. They must reconcile and love themselves again like never before. I don't know how God will do it but I strongly believe it.
@isaiahadebayo
@isaiahadebayo 11 ай бұрын
This conversation is so inspiring. "There is no problem we cannot solve, only the problems we cannot discuss". This hit me really hard. Lord help me.
@kaybee_hills
@kaybee_hills 11 ай бұрын
I can't really remember when I started loving and listening to Dr Olumide, he's so real and pragmatic with good emotional stability. Always cool listening to you ❤
@ayoilemobayo7759
@ayoilemobayo7759 11 ай бұрын
A child sets you back 15 years. Your last born plus 25 years is your freedom. Wise sayings. Thank you pastors. More wisdom
@AderemiAdebowale-kl4ze
@AderemiAdebowale-kl4ze 11 ай бұрын
This man is an incurable fun abi comedian. Still cracking jokes despite all he's been thru. E pele man of God, it is well with you
@comfortdavut8616
@comfortdavut8616 3 ай бұрын
He is a new man in Christ through and through and down to earth.
@dreamyflowevents7029
@dreamyflowevents7029 11 ай бұрын
Pastor Olumide is my pastor-CBC and I never knew this part of his story! I indeed pray that the good Lord will connect him and his children even before he clocks 60 years. God is ever faithful and He will prove Himself!!!
@stolives1159
@stolives1159 11 ай бұрын
Amen!!!
@apoesobabatundeolayiwola2292
@apoesobabatundeolayiwola2292 11 ай бұрын
This is a blessing to the entire world especially the body of Christ.! Full of reality and transparency!
@ifyama
@ifyama 11 ай бұрын
It takes a lot to share this part of someone’s life🥹 Thank youuuu so much PK for such a platform🤲 Thank youuuuu so much Dr Olumide. God bless you immensely Sirs and I pray that by God’s supernatural intervention, you are reconciled to your children in the name of Jesus.
@ibehalfred3139
@ibehalfred3139 11 ай бұрын
Dr Olumide is such a courageous man. Pastor K is a good listener very mature
@preciouschidubemnwaogu2446
@preciouschidubemnwaogu2446 11 ай бұрын
His is a counselor, being a good listener is a major requirement.
@estherakpojovwo3956
@estherakpojovwo3956 11 ай бұрын
Papa please try and reunite with your kids... Try reaching out to your ex relatives
@samuraiwarrior8403
@samuraiwarrior8403 11 ай бұрын
Those ignorant people who say,they don't have anything to learn from people divorced, this video is for you...
@jareya
@jareya 11 ай бұрын
So true
@basseyokon3036
@basseyokon3036 11 ай бұрын
There is no problem we cannot solve except the problem we cannot discuss-Olumide
@feyiandrews3437
@feyiandrews3437 11 ай бұрын
Hmmmm I am speechless 😢😢 men too pass through abuse. We are so quick to Judge. More grace sir
@akinawojobi2789
@akinawojobi2789 11 ай бұрын
I can totally relate to pastor olumide pain. I have NOT seen mine for over 9 years. Its an unimaginable pain that never goes away. I too had a dose of mfm " judgement" ,sad. I don't wish it one anyone. The pain never goes away
@dreamagainprisonfoundation
@dreamagainprisonfoundation 11 ай бұрын
So sorry I pray for comfort and an opportunity or opportunities to reconnect.
@kingaghanenu2377
@kingaghanenu2377 11 ай бұрын
Mine was 6years until the court stepped in and told her to allow me access to my girls and they must come for holidays
@danielilori3388
@danielilori3388 11 ай бұрын
The spirit of God will touch the hearts of your children and they will return to you. It's not about church but people pretending to be a Christian. MFM has brought joy to many homes. No church is without them. God will lead us and we will follow Him.
@julietkwoba-abungu6063
@julietkwoba-abungu6063 11 ай бұрын
May God have mercy on you! I pray that you shall reunite with your children! Shalom🙏🏾🙏🏾
@akinawojobi2789
@akinawojobi2789 11 ай бұрын
@@danielilori3388 i agree all churches have them, but i can only talk about my experience with MFM, and mine is like pastor olumide's my children live with my ex abroad, so it makes it doubly difficult. They are 28,24 and 19. saw them last in 2014. I dont have any other children and not remarried as well. so i get totally what pastor olumide is saying.God help us all and i wish them all blessing and peace. Even if i meet them not sef, where do you start from ? what do you say? the damage has been done. Also, when people go through a divorce, we get very selfish and unfortunately, its the children that suffer. Most times ,the mother uses them as tools and weaponise them against their father. Break down of a marriage is NEVER one way, both parties have a part to play in the breakdown, in my opinion. Anyway, i wish us all well. alot of men are suffering this matter and perhaps the church should be more practically in its teachings.
@UK-living
@UK-living 11 ай бұрын
This is from God to me. Thank God I stumbled on this.
@dminaj1416
@dminaj1416 3 ай бұрын
People that speak while touching and beating the other person😢... I don't envy PK. That aside, this was very eye-opening and insightful.
@giftyanntengey-yx2ry
@giftyanntengey-yx2ry 11 ай бұрын
My mum turned my heart against my dad the day i realised she rather was my enemy was when she stood vehemently against me getting married. I quickly called my dad, he wept bitterly and welcomed me without judging me. Today, i am a single parent cos my mum refused to see me married. My daughter is my joy. I encourage her to have a relationship with her dad, although he abandoned us and has refused to support us. Thankfully, i am in the financial sector and doing very well. Take heart pastor. Ur kids will return to you.
@EM-qj1cc
@EM-qj1cc 11 ай бұрын
It is well!
@florencearong4216
@florencearong4216 8 ай бұрын
It is well, I think you might need to break the stronghold that your mother sewed. It might now be generally if not broken
@Feyishope
@Feyishope 8 ай бұрын
Do you think your mum refused you to get married because she knew he would abandone you? Maybe a trauma response
@BJuv
@BJuv 7 ай бұрын
Powerful wisdom sessions.
@drolugbengaadetitunTV
@drolugbengaadetitunTV 7 ай бұрын
Can you imagine! For crying out loud, why would any wife go away with ones children for so long ? This interview is to find them. They will be found.
@goodness_theodore
@goodness_theodore 5 ай бұрын
God bless Pst. Olumide for being so real in his narration. I believe story was meant to save a lot of singles from entering into death traps all in the name of wrong marriage. God help us to marry well. God bless PK for hosting this session. This is life saving.❤
@tosinolugbenga2904
@tosinolugbenga2904 11 ай бұрын
I feel Pastor Olumide’s pain. Wow… I never knew he has this story…
@sunesis101
@sunesis101 11 ай бұрын
So true, stories like this help us understand the drive and passion behind what they do.
@KuhComfortFien
@KuhComfortFien 7 ай бұрын
Divorce is not good if only you can manage the marriage but if not ,Divorce is better than dieing in the name of marriage. If you didn't Divorce though, you would have been worst than now Dr. You did right don't regret the children will come back
@omoniyitope7826
@omoniyitope7826 11 ай бұрын
I really love how Pastor K conducted himself. Never probing into the issue but just listening
@olabiccitaiwo2668
@olabiccitaiwo2668 7 ай бұрын
Pastor Olumide, your children will definitely come back healthy ijn. The hands of God will touch them.
@only_nene1
@only_nene1 11 ай бұрын
Thank you so much Pst Olumide for your vulnerability. I am putting to action every single point you gave to help me bounce back. May God continue to supply his wisdom and knowledge to you and PK.
@aderonkefalore1393
@aderonkefalore1393 11 ай бұрын
I can relate with this interview because of my scars. Don't worry pastor, the Lord will deliver them from manipulations and manipulators. if it is not working one should not be bittered to the extent of holding back the children.😢😢😢
@andrewmulwa2033
@andrewmulwa2033 7 ай бұрын
There is no problem we cannot solve except a problem we cannot discuss! A truly saved and transformed person can be easy to deal with,
@aboloreolajuwon3617
@aboloreolajuwon3617 11 ай бұрын
This thing called marriage...honestly it is becoming like a risky venture in this end time! Thank GOD for His grace upon Pst Olumide. There is no condemnation to anyone who is in Christ Jesus!
@neemafrica
@neemafrica 8 ай бұрын
True. Buy you just do t divorce anyhow just because there wont be condemnation. Build yourself, educate yourself about marriage, emotional maturity. If you think genuinely you wont handle it then you dont go into it at all
@miressiebeauty5127
@miressiebeauty5127 11 ай бұрын
You cannot manufacture the weapons of war in the battle field! I am enjoying these nuggets. Thanks.
@ericmadlanga
@ericmadlanga 11 ай бұрын
As part of reading books , I recommend men to also read about menopause, it can saves us from some misunderstanding in our relationships
@rccgegyptnationaloffice7130
@rccgegyptnationaloffice7130 11 ай бұрын
Thank you so much Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo for inviting my Egbon from another mother to help us on this prevailing winds troubling the body of Christ. Pastor Olumide, I am thankful. E seun gan sir.❤
@joygbadegoye9960
@joygbadegoye9960 11 ай бұрын
It’s so sad to see what he went through. I don’t know how far he has tried to find the children from his previous marriage but I’ll say he should look for them on social media. Those children growing up with a a single parent (and with the attitude of their mother) will most likely be dysfunctional. She probably will also have poisoned there minds against him which would have been more traumatic cause it happened in their formative years. Dr Olumide should also consider implications of dysfunctional parenting if I may say on those kids, especially growing up in the states. Some kids go into drug, some are in jail etc. so he should look for his kids everywhere! I hope he sees this sha. May the Lord compensate him for his losses
@henrymelchizedek
@henrymelchizedek 11 ай бұрын
Specifically in the area of having children Dr Olumide just spoke my mind. 🙌 🙌 🙌 🙌 🙌 Pastor Olumide really touched most challenges in today's churches. God bless pastor K and Dr Olumide for this session. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@esthereodi
@esthereodi 11 ай бұрын
As much as his story is painful, his also funny and real. I pray God's mercy speaks for him in finding his kids
@habeebtaiwo9607
@habeebtaiwo9607 7 күн бұрын
Wedding is for a day Marriage is for a lifetime
@ayomideadewunmi6586
@ayomideadewunmi6586 11 ай бұрын
It is true that most people in Church are not born again and converted in heart. Genuine Salvation, genuine discipiling, NOT just new birth, there must also be growth in knowledge that must lead to maturity.
@Kemzyhouseoffashion
@Kemzyhouseoffashion 11 ай бұрын
Am so happy he say the truth, you have to understand every stages in marriage: Pregnancy, raising kids, toddler, teenage, adult, menstrual circle, hormonal issues, ovulation,menopause,e.t.c all this is a process,if you don't understand it can break your marriage
@eunicenjeru215
@eunicenjeru215 11 ай бұрын
If this man's children are in America,they have really suffered identity crises.I live in America and in sschools kids who don't know their father suffer a lot and most of them are the trouble makers in schools.There is a kind of culture in America that even if a child has a step dad, they stiill don't fit in and they keep saying I don't see my da.Even university students sadly express that emptiness.I wish this video can get to them so that they reconnect with their dad!
@blessingprecious6523
@blessingprecious6523 10 ай бұрын
This really touched me so much 😭, please the children should see this and make peace with there Dad bcuz fatherly blessing is very important, I know what my mom faced in the hand of my Dad and his family until she died but we had to let go and we are in peace with my dad. So please if the children should see this, they should come back to there Dad. 🙏.
@bankanthony01david70
@bankanthony01david70 11 ай бұрын
WAO!!! PST. OLUMIDE EMMANUEL HAS GAINED A HUGE RESPECT FROM ME... IT IS BAD TO JUDGE SOMEONE BEFORE HEARING THEIR STORY... THIS IS THE MOST SINCERE ADMISSION BOTH SCRIPTURALLY AND PERSONAL... I FELT LIKE CRYING LISTENING TO HIM AND TALKING ABOUT HIS CHILDREN.... JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH...
@thobekamantshongo4458
@thobekamantshongo4458 10 ай бұрын
I have been crying praying for his son and daughter. For healing and restoration🙏
@Akins_3gz
@Akins_3gz 9 ай бұрын
Amen and Amen again, in Jesus Mighty name Amen 🙏🏿
@inno4035
@inno4035 11 ай бұрын
you really are a great man of God, i watch u almost every and sometimes repeat some of your videos due to the POWER your videos have, not knowing what u were going through, I CANT BELIEVE YOU ARE DOING GOD's WORK LIKE THIS AFTER ALL THESE. I salute you a million times sir, let the good Lord answer all your prayers Innocent, South Africa 🇿🇦
@atobateleadeola1283
@atobateleadeola1283 10 ай бұрын
I am once a member of CBC,so i witness some of this things and i was in dat meeting when he announced d divorce,and i can say that pastor olumide is real,may God continue to uphold and bring back his children
@FunmiOdedoyin
@FunmiOdedoyin 11 ай бұрын
God will bring your children to you, sir And you will release that memoir… we can’t wait for it!
@FunmiAdenowo
@FunmiAdenowo 9 ай бұрын
I was in that meeting when Pastor Olumide talked about this divorce issue. I thank God for the strength and God's wisdom that you have being using. The scar is still there but God mercy will keep speaking for you sir.
@marystephen5214
@marystephen5214 7 ай бұрын
Marriage was never meant for that lady in question.
@RoseMibwala
@RoseMibwala 7 ай бұрын
Hmmm, these are people I knew far back in Lagos at Pedro Gbagada when we were next-door neighbors, who could ever imagine that the devoice was coming their way. I really admired the pastor and his wife, hhen. Thank God your life, pastor.
@adebusolaseguntaiwo929
@adebusolaseguntaiwo929 11 ай бұрын
Your children will come look for you sir.GOD never lies.
@kflair_jewelry
@kflair_jewelry 11 ай бұрын
I pray the children come and look for their father in Jesus Name. 🙌
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