How I Bounced Back From A Bad Marriage | Part 3 | Kingsley Okonkwo & Dr. Olumide Emmanuel

You will never know the effects of divorce if you never hear it from a survivor's mouth, join Kingsley Okonkwo & Dr. Olumide Emmanuel as they share deep truths on Divorce.
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[@ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439]

I hope his first daughter and son watch this! And we pray for reconciliation and healing

[@victoriaijeomalekwa1615]

Amen

[@justarandomgirl129]

Amen and Amen

[@florencedele]

Amen

[@marthachy9418]

Amen

[@MrsGiant]

I pray so too oo, they really need to find their father, I feel so emotional hearing his side.

[@vickie_vagz]

This pastor is so real... The pain of divorce is the reason God hates it. He doesn't us to have to go through it

[@Habest-luv]

Presently going thru this... it hurts really and the fact that the kid we ask you my daddy have go to church... But what is more painful is when you hear later another story that was not it, how they will lie up against you... Well God dey

[@ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood]

​@@Habest-luv so true. All these stories will be resolved on judgement day and that is the only day we will know the full truth. This is how I have my peace.

[@lucasmaryanne6974]

You can day that again. It takes a lot to make the person whole, that is, if the person is willing to cooperate with God. Otherwise ba, the wound will putrefy.

[@efa-eval]

😢pko knows so much about marriage but throughout this series, he's been more on the listening side. That alone speaks to his wisdom❤

[@Stageyuliamultimedia]

@efa-eval you are very correct but don't let's forget that it is an interview session. PKO interviewing POE😊😊😊...

[@kemistrykemidada9256]

Exactly my thoughts. His listening skills is top notch.

[@enochnanakwesigregg5329]

And he hasn’t been divorced before. He’s learning like all of us.

[@PrinceDennisWoruka]

Pastor K is blessed with wisdom

[@sandraokonkwo900]

​@@kemistrykemidada9256exactly

[@veetellsit]

No matter how bad a spouse was to you, never deprive them of seeing their kids!!

[@firstchoice307]

Yes!Never.It makes the situation worse

[@ladeneganolukayodeakinjide5539]

What if that Ex-spouse is known to be diabolic, and you have a sense of duty to protect your children from getting entangled in their dark arts, so you would permit such a person to destroy their lives?

[@hnbala41]

Thank you both, it is so deep and informative. God richly bless you

[@iamwoleojo]

Women are to usually too bitter to listen to that, even though they are at faults

[@blessok77]

The girl needs you oooo

[@SplendorgiftVincent853]

I'm in tears now, people go through a lot in the name of marriage,Lord please help me not to make mistakes in marriage 🙏😭

[@kunezicomfortmandah88]

How to move on: 1. Be healed and it takes a while 2. Find out what went wrong. What mistake did you do? What lessons did you learn? 3. When you meet someone, be open, transparent, full disclosure with them. Investigate each other, ask the right/relevant questions. Help each other heal from past hurts 4. Don't compare your past with your present. Know each other together because everyone you marry came with their own baggage. So enter by faith. 5. Commit to make it work 6. Pray to marry the right person Marrying a divorcee: 1. See things from their own lens 2. Recognize they have a baggage. Are you ready for all the stigma and all? 3. Have mature mentors 4. Use the wisdom of God to strengthen others How can we reduce level of divorce: 1. Premarital counseling. Churches should have in house facilities. Help your parishioners to prepare for marriage. You can't manufacture the weapons of war on the battle field. Have post marriage training for couples (Marriage Enrichment program) 2. Ensure genuine salvation, discipleship st church level because many in church are not transformed

[@nafisakwande6544]

Pst Kingsley is Igbo,Pst Olumide is Yoruba but they all sat down together in unity and in love because of one purpose,vision and agenda to foster unity love,empathy to humanity and mankind.For the purpose of their coming together no one said your Igbo your Yoruba and 'im sure at that point in time none of them even remembered where they came from,what they had in mind was the sense of urgency to relate with themselves and with others..Bible says how wonderful it is for brethren to dwell amongst one another.Nigeria is great and has great people.Each and every tribe is beautiful and our unity in diversity is Power but until we can come to the point of understanding that we may not become a formidable force as we ought to.Everyone on this platform is Great,remember that.I'm from the North and i love both of them so much they have been a great blessing to me.Great video.Thank you very much.

[@jamesobahi1992]

I have been sobbing listening to this man of God. He went through all these and he is still standing. God will restore you. Your children will reconnect with you very soon I pray IJN

[@philipjoshuak.4828]

Amen

[@adebolajaiye-ojo9813]

And may the wife be healed, in Jesus name

[@ngoalvankay844]

It's heart breaking

[@ehi2283]

Have you heard the side of his wife? It takes two and never judge a book by its cover. No matter what, let the word of God prevail.

[@josephloadedman545]

​@ehi2283 you heard him say he gave his people her number, told them where she was at the time and asked them to go and do their investigations siting that what he said was his side of the story

[@divinefavour4873]

Man of God your children are coming back to you especially your son

[@olayiwolaifeoluwa7011]

There's no problem we can not solve except the problem we can not discuss 👌

[@GbemisolaOluwasina]

Kai

[@patrickrumbu2902]

One of the hardest thing to do for most people who are in the business of talking; is interviewing - the urge to ask & sit back is tough, Pastor Kingsley does a fine job of that 👏🏿

[@atobateleadeola1283]

I am once a member of CBC,so i witness some of this things and i was in dat meeting when he announced d divorce,and i can say that pastor olumide is real,may God continue to uphold and bring back his children

[@ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439]

Pastor K is such a good listener and conversationalist, no wonder PM likes him

[@msfubby9372]

Yeah.. I noticed that too. He didn't interject at all.. or tell his own story

[@peterillah7944]

I love them both. Great men of God.

[@eunicenjeru215]

Counselors have to learn to listen!

[@teamsugarcopsTV]

Who is pm? His wife?

[@darlingtonanele6403]

​@@teamsugarcopsTVPM is Pastor Mildred

[@dankon-thebeloved1653]

Pastor K displayed a vital skill in this recording, The Art of Listening. He knows so much yet he listens with such focus. It's not cosmetic, it's real. Gid bless you P.K,

[@BARTALKWITHOLA]

A divorce is like an amputation, you survive but there's less of you - Margaret Atwood

[@hopepeace8060]

Please share this video. Let it go viral. People who know the children hear this message

[@kemmasinbo-amobi9541]

Praying for reconciliation with the kids 🙏🏾🙏🏾 I often say even if your husband is a bad husband to you; he deserves every right to be a good father to your kids. Don’t punish your children by denying them access to their father. It is a seed that will come back to haunt you!

[@rosekwasi3824]

Amen

[@AderemiAdebowale-kl4ze]

This man is an incurable fun abi comedian. Still cracking jokes despite all he's been thru. E pele man of God, it is well with you

[@immaculateshalom7045]

I pray Pastor Olumide’s children reconnect back to him, he really needs them , I’ve learnt a lot from this conversation

[@ogunnsomoniyi4049]

Amen and amen 🙏

[@stolives1159]

Amen!!!

[@oseamagbewan9648]

Amen... God Will work things out in due time..

[@oluwaseyiighereje5743]

Amen

[@FunmiOdedoyin]

There is no problem we can’t solve, except the problem we cannot discuss 🔑🔑🔑

[@omosowonloveth3948]

I take inspiration from Pastor Jerry’s marital story. Well what do I know, only he who wears the shoes knows where it pinches

[@praiseokechukwu4021]

I pray that elohim will arrest your children wherever they are with this series, to reach out for you Bishop olumide in Jesus mighty name AMEN 🙏. Thank you Pk and Bishop for this series.

[@oyewaleolatunde326]

I'm on the verge of divorcing as at today, but this episode really made me understands more on the dangers aftermath. I really hope my spouse's heart is turned to flesh.

[@elinaonomuophu1148]

Amen...I would be in prayers with you

[@oyewaleolatunde326]

@@elinaonomuophu1148 Thanks for this, She's so hard hearted to listen to Counsel and guidance.

[@osindeindeemmanuel9112]

Amen🙏

[@OnyinyechiAchodor]

Amen

[@elinaonomuophu1148]

@@oyewaleolatunde326 there is nothing too hard for the Lord.

[@ThehappyOlamide]

Pastor Olumide is anointed!

[@biembouchuaseh4713]

Please Pastors, also do something on widows and widowers. The difficulties they face in having partners for marriage, how they manage sexual ouches etc

[@susanakaan810]

The pastor is a strong man, God will reward you for your faithfulness.

[@uupeaceunique1284]

Pastor K is amazing, he allowed the man to talk and listened all through

[@emmanuelsamuel2283]

"People are not really transformed"...if we were, no body will tell us to do certain things..I couldn't agree more

[@obeabayomi5901]

Healing is when you touch a wounded part and it no longer hurt. Healing from a failed marriage or relationship is when you remember them but laugh in response to the thoughts and memories

[@jackieomugah4968]

It's true. I was in a relationship that failed and it took me about 5 years to heal from it. The journey wasn't easy but God, family and friends walked with me every step of the way. These days, I laugh at the memories...But the most important thing is for one to know where they went wrong because no one is perfect, and learn from it...even though the other person in the relationship was the one who may have caused the relationship to flop.

[@obeabayomi5901]

That's a whole lot of time... Just that we need prayer and scriptural evidence of the right partner before we allow other games like dating, questions, and introduction to set it. If we can be serious in prayer and the word ministry choosing right at once won't be a problem. Emotion and trend is the challenges relationship and marriage have nowadays.

[@israeliseoluwa6704]

this is good! I remember my ex now but I laugh and move on! 😊

[@e.edwigep9352]

I wish Pastor K could bring this subject of adult having IVF for children without father. It is a trend now. A lot of woman waited waited and waited no husband. So there are creating their own family.

[@KimG777]

These are healing messages. They have blessed me because I have been divorced and would not wish it on anyone. Thanks so much for the work you do. ❤

[@unathitwala613]

I’ve thoroughly enjoyed this 3-part series! Learnt soooo much!

[@choiceelbuba6632]

Infact the world need to hear this Man of God😢

[@aduola9048]

I wish this could go on. Have listened to each part three times already. Sharing with friends asap

[@NatashaShapolaMwamba-ny9vy]

This three part series was beyond helpful. Thank you PK and Doc❤❤❤

[@PROSPER_UNIVERSITY]

Full wisdom and experience that will help us outsiders. Thank you Dr olumide

[@israelbalogun3062]

I respect this man of God. He is a pacesetter on numerous fronts.

[@FunmiOdedoyin]

Pastor Olumide mannnn 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Post 1 year counselling - I’m sooo in support of this!

[@pascaletabi8994]

This videos are so so educative, eye opening.. thank you so much PK and Bishop

[@miressiebeauty5127]

God may take you round but he will always lead you right! Word!

[@jareya]

Truly a loaded conversation and filled with wisdom.

[@kamimaduka7339]

I really like these conversations and Pst Olumide is amazing!!! So much wisdom oozing out.

[@ElizabethOdunayoAdewuyi]

Doctor you're so full of wisdom Thank you pastor Kingsley for bringing him back

[@Ari-Tres-Chic]

I thoroughly appreciate his insights, admissions to his own faults and what he did to change. The first hand experience makes his words more pertinent.

[@adiimimi]

Thank you so much Dr Olumide. This was very insightful. I pray your children come home soon. Thank you Pastor K. God bless you

[@roselinejohnson4630]

Very honest and true narrative, owning up to his mistakes.

[@InnocentAbi-ls4ku]

O my GOD 😢😢. Father let Pastor reunite with his children again

[@yinkaoguntoyinbo6364]

Pastor Olumide,the Lord is with you sir, i will join you to pray for those Children to return and love you...

[@abiolalabake8920]

Thank you so much sir for being vulnerable enough to show us your scars🙏🏾 May the good Lord restore you on EVERY SIDE🙏🏾

[@oge82]

No matter what happened between the husband and wife no one should keep the children away from the other. Keep your issues aside and let the children see their other parent.

[@abimbolamosesadelaja1521]

I still evidently feel the grace of God on Dr Olumide.

[@louisarodriguez3294]

This is so good! I have been extremely blessed. Spoke with wisdom and understanding

[@onizerally6188]

Wow. Wow. Wow.. What an outpouring of wisdom, transparency and vulnerability. A rare mix and blend. God bless you PKO and Pst Olumide.

[@miressiebeauty5127]

You cannot manufacture the weapons of war in the battle field! I am enjoying these nuggets. Thanks.

[@chinwelilian6634]

Most people in church are not born àgain! You're right sir.

[@dominicebere9414]

Very insightful and a good learning opportunity. The children shall return and be part of the ministry which God has committed to their father in Jesus mighty name. Amen!

[@kingamar8780]

A lot more transparency is needed in todays ⛪️ this conversation is a Brilliant start.

[@FunmiOdedoyin]

God will bring your children to you, sir And you will release that memoir… we can’t wait for it!

[@e.edwigep9352]

Pastor K’s facial expression is like “God have mercy….divorce shall not be my portion”

[@auntietee]

Amen oh

[@AderemiAdebowale-kl4ze]

😂😂😂how you take know now from ordinary facial expressions.

[@SomaPrecious]

😂😂😂

[@teamsugarcopsTV]

Hehehehe

[@chipsyeguae5562]

😅😅😅😅 Amen

[@philip5014]

Thank you sir for sharing your story. Thank you so much for being vulnerable, which is very rare in our age from our fathers. Thanks a lot PK for this platform. More wisdom!

[@nellykh1900]

This is a very honest session. Thank you Pastor K. God will come through for Dr. Olumide E.

[@Gathonination]

Wow ❤. This was a very real conversation. All I can say is God is faithful, what a story.

[@adebusolaseguntaiwo929]

Your children will come look for you sir.GOD never lies.

[@dorcasmatseketse]

Thank you PK for hosting Pastor Olumide. Pastor Olumide thank you for opening up and being real. Bless you

[@danielowodunni9047]

This is the broadcast of a lifetime. God bless you Kingsley Okonkwo & Dr. Olumide Emmanuel

[@fredajayi1]

Pastor K, thanks for bringing Pastor Olumide to your platform to share his wonderful testimony. ❤❤❤

[@blessinggeorge]

"Wealth is not sexually transmitted " ...wow! Pst Olumide well done!

[@olaroti1211]

I am speechless...more Grace Man of God for sharing these deep life lessons.

[@user-os7tj6ik1m]

I have been blessed through Dr Emmanuel. Deep experience and wisdom to balance this subject. So loaded and blessed. I have listened to you sir on finance but this area is another ministry. You will finish strong. God bless you sir Pastor Okonkwo

[@Mr_Faithful22]

This is amazing and so insightful. I have been ao blessed. Thank you Pastor K and Dr. Olumide Emmanuel. Thank you so much for this.

[@theshector1]

I saw this happen to so many people around me when i was single and my only prayer for marriage became "GOD HAVE MERCY" .....thank You LORD for your MERCY and the PEACE i have in my marriage. If you jam Mad Man or Woman ehnnnnn‼️‼️‼️‼️ hmmmmm

[@olusegunalabi7532]

Wow - Pst Olumide is so real, I love this man wholeheartedly!!!

[@dv_chuxmer]

Thank you Esteemed PK and Dr. Olumide. So inspiring!

[@UK-living]

This is from God to me. Thank God I stumbled on this.

[@omoniyitope7826]

I really love how Pastor K conducted himself. Never probing into the issue but just listening

[@user-zl2kb8tb9x]

Thank pastor Olumide for being so open. Not common. God bless your heart and home

[@alfredefe1]

Thank you Pastor Kingsley and Dr. Olumide, it has been a very enlightening session. God bless.

[@kaybee_hills]

I can't really remember when I started loving and listening to Dr Olumide, he's so real and pragmatic with good emotional stability. Always cool listening to you ❤

[@phindileforbeskhumalo2571]

The wisdom of the man of God 🔥🔥🔥

[@seuntijani5060]

May God honour you sir @ pastor olumide, what you have shared with us has helped us and I pray from my heart that God will reconnect you with your children in Jesus Name . Thank you ooooo for being open to help us.

[@mawunyoahal]

Deep revelations spoken about. This man of God is so real. God bless Him and reconnect his children back to him. They’ll come to you Soon Sir ❤❤🙏🙏

[@anulikaononye]

This is real wisdom for all, I personally remember when an amazing man was asking for my hand in marriage , all was well until he opened up about his previous marriage, I told my mum about it since my dad was late and she was ok with it but said all these things, that if I went ahead to marry him that I have to be prepared for the baggage, I thought about it and finally ended the relationship peacefully 😊

[@emmanuelleshak1897]

Great/fruitful discussion there! How more i see why God hates divorce and how SERIOUS God takes marriage!!

[@ambberhill1090]

Pastor Kingsley and the gift of listening

[@apoesobabatundeolayiwola2292]

This is a blessing to the entire world especially the body of Christ.! Full of reality and transparency!

[@outofnaija]

This is is really interesting. One big lesson here is that remarriage after divorce is no joke.

[@apostlesegunadeyemi552]

Thank you so much Pastor Olumide for not hiding these information from the public, sir, you are a real mentor ❤

[@yolandaagada5852]

Thank you Pastor Olumide and Pastor Kingsley. God bless tou both

[@dookenger3433]

This message is for such a time as this! Thank Pastor Olumide and Okonkwo. God bless you. May the Lord wisper your children back home in Jesus name amen.

[@MF-ve2lg]

Great session. Dr Olumide don beat Pastor Kingsley tire as he dey gist. 😂😂😂😂

[@SomaPrecious]

Aswear 🤣🤣🤣

[@abenaagyeiwaaacquah7671]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@joyouscharity]

😂😂😂 whala

[@henrymelchizedek]

Specifically in the area of having children Dr Olumide just spoke my mind. 🙌 🙌 🙌 🙌 🙌 Pastor Olumide really touched most challenges in today's churches. God bless pastor K and Dr Olumide for this session. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@gbeminiyimogaji4103]

Wow!!! I came across this interview by chance. May God bring your children back to you and also minister to their mum to understand that being divorced doesn't mean denying the other party the company of the children. The Lord remains your strength IJMN sir, Amen.

[@adebolajaiye-ojo9813]

This is very revealing. I know both well and I thank God for this knowledge! Eye opening!

[@danjumayahaya6145]

Dr.Olumide sir You are great man sir I have followed you for years sir and i know you are man full of God's wisdom and truly a kingdom man. My life have reach a new turn when i met you sir

[@AderemiAdebowale-kl4ze]

Thanks PK for your patience through out this interview and making deliberate attempt to outline that the interview is not to support or encourage divorce but to enlighten people

[@olayiwolayetunde6253]

Thank you pastor Kingsley and Dr olumide.. it's really an eye opening messages

[@stormship1647]

These guys are beautiful and very enlightened ….!!…always learn loads

[@ifyama]

It takes a lot to share this part of someone’s life🥹 Thank youuuu so much PK for such a platform🤲 Thank youuuuu so much Dr Olumide. God bless you immensely Sirs and I pray that by God’s supernatural intervention, you are reconciled to your children in the name of Jesus.

[@rccgegyptnationaloffice7130]

Thank you so much Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo for inviting my Egbon from another mother to help us on this prevailing winds troubling the body of Christ. Pastor Olumide, I am thankful. E seun gan sir.❤

[@EruvwuObuaya]

Thank you for sharing your story with the totally honest Dr. Olumide. I pray that God will perfect that which concerns you. Thank you for this interview Pastor Kingsley.

[@joymukyala730]

Thank you so much men of God.....this has surely come in handy.may God richly bless you 🙏🏾