7 Things Dating Couples Should Not Do | Kingsley Okonkwo

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Kingsley Okonkwo

Kingsley Okonkwo

Жыл бұрын

"I believe there are stages a relationship should follow, first friendship then dating but most times people jump into different phases of their relationship without due processes and it always ends up bad, sometimes disastrous."
Join Kingsley Okonkwo as he shares "7 Things Dating Couples Should Not Do".
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@emastephen2607
@emastephen2607 Жыл бұрын
7 Mistakes. 1. Not Cultivating or Building Friendship 2. Not having clarity or vision. 3. Not having mentors 4. Having sex before marriage . 5. Waiting to Have all the Money before you Marry. 6. Playing House 7. No premarital counselling
@faithhope4703
@faithhope4703 Жыл бұрын
Thanks 🔥
@created2inspire459
@created2inspire459 Жыл бұрын
GOD bless you. I wanted someone to summarise quickly
@Minister--pat
@Minister--pat Жыл бұрын
I never knew all this things...now I know,,,my God.. Thank you...
@lydiaopare5157
@lydiaopare5157 11 ай бұрын
A
@rejoiceahaiwe1501
@rejoiceahaiwe1501 9 ай бұрын
Please sir, How can this be corrected😢
@rossyprim2336
@rossyprim2336 Жыл бұрын
Number one- Not building friendship proverbs 17:17 A friend loves at all times Build your friendship Number two- Not having clarity Proverbs 29:18 Not having vision the people perish Number three- Not having mentors proverbs 31:1 Accountability is key Number four- Having sex before marriage Sex affects intimacy, respect, trust, good behaviour. Number five- waiting to have the money before marriage Number six- Playing house meaning moving in together, it reduces respect, motivation, anticipation, it brings challenges.Proverbs 25:17 Number seven- They don't do premarital counselling.proverbs 15:22 Doing premarital counselling greatly reduces the chance of failing.
@Irene_Ogada06
@Irene_Ogada06 4 ай бұрын
God bless you ❤
@obaalinda8360
@obaalinda8360 4 ай бұрын
God bless you more okay
@soulmatesempire
@soulmatesempire Жыл бұрын
True, some churches don’t talk about marriage and relationship. Which is very bad
@abigaildoraa
@abigaildoraa 5 ай бұрын
7 mistakes dating couples make. 1. Not building friendship (prov. 17:17) TPT .... If ure not touching each other, can you spend quality time together easily? 2. Not having clarity (prov. 29:18)... What are we doing? Where are we going? What's the plan? When are we planning to get married? How do we work towards it? 3. Not having mentors (prov. 31:1)MSG... have distant mentors and close mentors. Accountability is key. Let there be people that can counsel both of you. 4. Having sex ... kissing never satisfies, it brings the fire .. create boundaries... Sex before marriage affects intimacy. Sex affects the trust because the person that cheats with you will cheat on you. Sex brings disrespect. It dishonors God. 5. Waiting to have all the money before you marry. 6. Playing house. Moving in together before the time. It affects commitment. Prov. 25:17 7. Not doing pre-marital counseling. Love is never enough. Pre marital counseling ensures safety for both parties.
@haroldmartin3652
@haroldmartin3652 7 ай бұрын
I really truly would like to get all of your book on relationship & marriage because I really truly want my second marriage to be very successful for a very long time
@kwobsiemarius9613
@kwobsiemarius9613 Жыл бұрын
Pastor K ans his Kingso Kingso story is evergreen. Everything I listen to it i still enjoy jt
@peacegelwanmiwilfred7177
@peacegelwanmiwilfred7177 Жыл бұрын
Knowledge is truly powerful... Thank you pastor K for saying yes to Jesus, listening to you and your wife helped me allot .... you are truly a blessing.... thank you sir
@missnuti
@missnuti Жыл бұрын
Please do another video telling us how to correct these mistakes. When you are already in the relationship
@kevinonsale5662
@kevinonsale5662 10 ай бұрын
True
@priscilliamaiyeko3626
@priscilliamaiyeko3626 9 ай бұрын
We really need this…
@samthecreator10
@samthecreator10 8 ай бұрын
You stop it. And have meaningful conversations and put God first in the relationship. That's how.
@chelumwenifumbo9983
@chelumwenifumbo9983 8 ай бұрын
I believe its practicing the opposite of these 7 mistakes.
@chelumwenifumbo9983
@chelumwenifumbo9983 8 ай бұрын
For instance if you been having sex with your partner, bring a stop to that.
@breatheeleganceheart-talk
@breatheeleganceheart-talk Жыл бұрын
This is profound! Especially 3 and 7... young people don't seek knowledge anymore until they encounter problems in the marriage and most times its already too late.
@kesienaemefe4582
@kesienaemefe4582 Жыл бұрын
Every single person has to see this message 👏👏 I feel so blessed after watching this
@michelleadebiyi2341
@michelleadebiyi2341 Жыл бұрын
i love ur books❤️‍🔥🤲🏾,thank you for this video too and many more you’ve uploaded!
@naongakalumbi8670
@naongakalumbi8670 Жыл бұрын
I've been in a relationship and lonely before. Definitely being "married and lonely" must be worse
@agnesamitamasinde
@agnesamitamasinde 9 ай бұрын
His teachings blessed my life. It helped me know what marriage is. It enabled me choose the right man.❤🙏
@debbiemumba3040
@debbiemumba3040 Жыл бұрын
I'm so encouraged by the message this video just popped up at random. 😊
@obenamaduprince608
@obenamaduprince608 Жыл бұрын
I like the way he says "are you here somebody"😅
@AnnetIyara-iu3ed
@AnnetIyara-iu3ed Жыл бұрын
Supporters don't matter if you're not prepared 💓
@OACTSPodcast
@OACTSPodcast Жыл бұрын
Listening to Pastor K is bliss! Second time this video has popped up and it's so fresh like a reminder
@Minister--pat
@Minister--pat Жыл бұрын
I have made all this mistakes oooo...Thanks you pastor for teaching me this is basically for me.thank you so much....I am now single and will work it out ..
@cattyreals572
@cattyreals572 Жыл бұрын
This video just motivated me. Now I'm certain that I'm doing the right thing 😊😊😊
@BerthaOrkar-wg7xe
@BerthaOrkar-wg7xe Жыл бұрын
Thank you Sir..I'm so much blessed from this meeting. May God bless you.
@jareya
@jareya 9 ай бұрын
PK is so wise… his teachings are always a blessing
@christakalembe241
@christakalembe241 8 ай бұрын
Wow,I am so blessed to listen to this word of God!
@oluwakemiakinwunmi1303
@oluwakemiakinwunmi1303 Жыл бұрын
In the multitude of counselor there is safety...thank you so much sir.
@adebanjomayowa3844
@adebanjomayowa3844 8 ай бұрын
God Bless You For This Message Sire!!!
@paulzerina
@paulzerina 9 ай бұрын
Wonderful Teaching!❤
@jummyalfred2909
@jummyalfred2909 Жыл бұрын
This message is Very awesome and full of wisdom. Listening to this message for the third time. Love you PK.
@tifarahola
@tifarahola 10 ай бұрын
Thanks for this teaching Pastor K.
@pauloluwaniyi6741
@pauloluwaniyi6741 Жыл бұрын
Thank you very much Pastor, you are an answer to a generation. ♥️
@asunganyirose
@asunganyirose 11 ай бұрын
This has really blessed me
@gracekadiri2419
@gracekadiri2419 Жыл бұрын
Wow!!!!!! This blessed me pastor k
@chelumwenifumbo9983
@chelumwenifumbo9983 8 ай бұрын
My mentor. Thank you for the teaching.
@BlessingIhemekwelem
@BlessingIhemekwelem 6 ай бұрын
Thanks for these wise teaching...
@floraapi9431
@floraapi9431 Жыл бұрын
I'm blessed. Thank you pastor sir
@Whenshetravelsnow
@Whenshetravelsnow 18 күн бұрын
Thank you , I never asked for clarity in the past but now am firm and stand with the Lord .
@favournoah9598
@favournoah9598 11 ай бұрын
Am always blessed whenever I listen to Pastor K
@denikepriceless1450
@denikepriceless1450 9 ай бұрын
God bless you Pastor K for this message. He that hath an ear let him hear what the spirit is saying. Every word is so true 💯
@oresotutolulope6159
@oresotutolulope6159 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much sir. God bless you and ur household. This massage are all for me. Thanks a lot.
@AnnetIyara-iu3ed
@AnnetIyara-iu3ed Жыл бұрын
A failure is known by his goals!💓
@FolakeAdunni
@FolakeAdunni 4 ай бұрын
I love this message
@faithsamuel7553
@faithsamuel7553 Жыл бұрын
God bless you sir for this message 🔥🔥🔥🔥
@_QueenBell
@_QueenBell 6 ай бұрын
This was so good! Had me cracking up too 😂
@EverydayAfriTV
@EverydayAfriTV Жыл бұрын
This is lovely ❤
@irmamedom7256
@irmamedom7256 5 ай бұрын
May God deliver us from useless friends
@ApiyoKevin-oq7fb
@ApiyoKevin-oq7fb 9 ай бұрын
Am really so blessed by this message
@cleovernebaptiste2747
@cleovernebaptiste2747 Жыл бұрын
I love this I'm learning here
@iam-paulvocal
@iam-paulvocal Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much sir for the advice
@NZB89
@NZB89 Жыл бұрын
Well done MOG
@marycrown6529
@marycrown6529 Жыл бұрын
My ever able Counsellor sent by God God bless you Daddy I'm always inspired by your messages You'll live long and Mummy too with all your family members in Jesus Mighty Name. Amen.
@florenceadeoye17
@florenceadeoye17 11 ай бұрын
Thank you Jesus for creating this wonderful head over us.
@vindyprecious1531
@vindyprecious1531 Жыл бұрын
Am really blessed Thank you sir
@ifemizu82
@ifemizu82 5 ай бұрын
Beautiful piece
@funepoweiminna6355
@funepoweiminna6355 5 ай бұрын
God bless you for eye opening ❤❤❤. Thanks
@sarahkumi
@sarahkumi Жыл бұрын
Thank you sir.🎉
@franchescaasamoah3046
@franchescaasamoah3046 Жыл бұрын
Great teachings. Thank u Sir
@user-hj5vm7dm3x
@user-hj5vm7dm3x 4 ай бұрын
Thank you sir, thou am still single ,am believe God for marriage, my first marriage broke when I was 20 years old, now am 32 I haven't heard what I learned from your teaching thank you , God give you long life and good health. Now am ready now for marriage
@Achieveress
@Achieveress Жыл бұрын
Wonderful Message and humourous while at it😂
@rebeccamunyasia9498
@rebeccamunyasia9498 9 ай бұрын
Very insightful 😊
@user-tp8qz8yt4x
@user-tp8qz8yt4x 8 ай бұрын
Thank you so much sir for this message 🙇
@EAtoons
@EAtoons 5 ай бұрын
Cheating is a personal decision. Some people will never cheat no matter how hard things are; others will always cheat no matter how good they have it. This is where true beauty comes in! Beauty isn't about having a pretty face. It's about having a pretty mind, a pretty heart, and a pretty soul. ✨ if you played your part and loved someone with all your heart ✨ if you spoke on your feelings & tried to communicate ✨ if you waited for change & none came it’s not your loss, it’s theirs. let go, heal, & move on to someone that deserves you. You deserve someone who you were created for and who was created for you, to understand and love you properly
@amarachimonicachristian7142
@amarachimonicachristian7142 9 ай бұрын
Thank you sir... more anointing
@user-hu4xb1ii4c
@user-hu4xb1ii4c 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much sir. I am so blessed!
@nsonguruapeter4295
@nsonguruapeter4295 Жыл бұрын
God bless you sir I’m blessed from the word
@nextdigitalzone
@nextdigitalzone 11 ай бұрын
Thanks Pst. More grace
@user-ht7hs5cr3g
@user-ht7hs5cr3g Жыл бұрын
Thank you sir i really appreciate ur message
@Xeik38
@Xeik38 Жыл бұрын
He's so right ... Ladies we have the power !!!
@tiygabaya1838
@tiygabaya1838 10 ай бұрын
God Bless you sir for this message 🙏🙏🙏
@sarahblessed-sayah
@sarahblessed-sayah Жыл бұрын
Kinzo! Kim so!! 😂😂😂. Bless your hearts pastor K and M.
@kiizaaldrich327
@kiizaaldrich327 Жыл бұрын
I hear😂 its amazing 🎉 God bless you pastor kingsley
@Sibs_treats
@Sibs_treats 10 ай бұрын
This is really interesting.. I learnt alot .. thank you sir
@ademolababatola5428
@ademolababatola5428 Жыл бұрын
Nice one
@felistasmusunzuru6183
@felistasmusunzuru6183 5 ай бұрын
Powerful word
@JosephineDonkor-kk5rj
@JosephineDonkor-kk5rj Жыл бұрын
God bless you Man of God🙏🙏🙏🙏
@user-zq3ph5wt8k
@user-zq3ph5wt8k Жыл бұрын
Be blessed man of God 🙏🙏
@TsholofeloHopeM
@TsholofeloHopeM Жыл бұрын
I love your teachings. These are very important keys. As singles may we do the right the things so that we can have godly and successful marriages.
@ceciliachiazonwa6964
@ceciliachiazonwa6964 11 ай бұрын
I love this teaching, it will help us to bear Godly Seeds
@user-ql4dl9ox9d
@user-ql4dl9ox9d 9 ай бұрын
Thank you very much sir it will really go a long way God help me 🙏🙏
@emmanuelorji7274
@emmanuelorji7274 Жыл бұрын
God bless you Sir for the values shared. Pst, glad to know you're a fellow ex-commando.
@johnuren4545
@johnuren4545 9 ай бұрын
Am bless mum Thanks 🙏 More grace
@chrisax012
@chrisax012 6 ай бұрын
I am 23 now and I promise myself that no matter what happens... whether I am rich or not i must marry before the age of 28... God willing... Thank you sir for your teaching....
@CoiShan
@CoiShan Жыл бұрын
God bless you!!
@MiracleWalkinz
@MiracleWalkinz 11 ай бұрын
Thank you sir
@elyonolamide4561
@elyonolamide4561 Жыл бұрын
I am always happy listening to ur sermons nd viewing ur posts. Thank you so much sir for your impact.🙏🏽
@adeoyemoses2537
@adeoyemoses2537 Жыл бұрын
Thank you 💕😊
@matselaneelizabeth9780
@matselaneelizabeth9780 Жыл бұрын
Thank you🙏
@mumofelix
@mumofelix 6 ай бұрын
Great video.
@mfongeorge8185
@mfongeorge8185 Жыл бұрын
God bless you sir
@oseghaleebenezer8482
@oseghaleebenezer8482 Жыл бұрын
I must admit you're funny... 🤣 Nevertheless I love the simplicity of your messages. I glad to hear this. Thanks for making people have stable marriages. God bless you, sir!
@debrah_104
@debrah_104 Ай бұрын
God bless you sir 🙏
@user-ur8lm6pw1t
@user-ur8lm6pw1t 11 ай бұрын
Powerful daddy thank you for the word 😂😂😂😂😂
@miraclelucky3256
@miraclelucky3256 Жыл бұрын
I appreciate dis❤
@queenphilip711
@queenphilip711 5 ай бұрын
I love this
@Gift_Ikechukwu
@Gift_Ikechukwu 4 ай бұрын
God will bless you 🎉❤
@laurynana843
@laurynana843 11 ай бұрын
Shalom Pasteur, une fois de plus, je suis enrichie par ces enseignements. Merci, que Dieu vous benisse abondament
@gloryetim9685
@gloryetim9685 4 ай бұрын
Perfect message for me
@veronicachukwu31
@veronicachukwu31 Жыл бұрын
I always feel blessed listening to you Pastor K & Pastor M. Truthfully, I'm amazed at how the world has changed so badly. It's so difficult to see a man that wants a relationship without sexual intimacy... I've had to give up several relationships because of the so-called sexual intimacy... It's so sad that very few ( so scarce to see) still understand and follow the standard already set by God ( Not defiling the bed). Too many misplaced priorities in today's worlds... God help we singles IJN
@theadunbarin
@theadunbarin Жыл бұрын
There are sooooo many men that wants to be in a relationship without sexual intimacy. Don't have that mindset that they are scarce or else that would be my reality. BTW, change your circles, serve, have mentors, pray and go out I personally know so many men that are willing to wait o.
@veronicachukwu31
@veronicachukwu31 Жыл бұрын
@@theadunbarin Beautiful piece! God bless you
@Phaviey_gadgets
@Phaviey_gadgets Жыл бұрын
Am blessed
@gracetembo1120
@gracetembo1120 10 ай бұрын
so profound👌👌🙏
@Gift_Ikechukwu
@Gift_Ikechukwu 4 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏 I believe in the Lord our God
@Williamsmac2233
@Williamsmac2233 4 ай бұрын
Thank u sir
@okoedionbridget5539
@okoedionbridget5539 10 ай бұрын
0:15. People undervalue the principle of marriage.
@SpurgeonIloba-ip7wz
@SpurgeonIloba-ip7wz 11 ай бұрын
I want to view the fine girlfriend part Abeg😂 Thank you Sir I’m blessed by the message
@NatashaShapolaMwamba-ny9vy
@NatashaShapolaMwamba-ny9vy 3 ай бұрын
Daddy has never not delivered o
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