5 MISTAKES WE MADE AS VIRGINS ON OUR WEDDING NIGHT | The Stalwart Lovers

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[@TheStalwartLovers]

Thank you watching. Please Subscribe if you love our content and turn on the notification 🔔. #MuchLove ❤🥰

[@mike.fabiyi]

💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽

[@mopreciousajokanle9769]

I agree😂😂... But it's a good one though. Thanks for this video guys. We keep loving you!❤️

[@darijudith5883]

Good evening My Lovely Stalwart Lovers 😘 I'm watching you beloved from Ghana. I love you videos some must and you people are my Mentors towards marriage. Help me pray to maintain my virginity and purity until marriage. Much love and God bless you 😘😘😘😘

[@michaelfabiyi3685]

@@darijudith5883 love you too. As much as we pray for the Lord to sustain you, you must also make the decision and also be cautious so you don't fall into the temptation.

[@lovecirclewithmeljoyce7295]

I love the lady's laughter..she makes me laugh 9

[@elizabetheshun5875]

Aaaawh very educative 27 years still a Virgin, waiting patiently for my incoming Husband 🥰🥰🙏🙏🙏With God all things are possible

[@EllaFuns]

I’m not a virgin oh, but seeing people as virgins here makes me happy that virgins exist , keep it up guys ❤

[@carryme4393]

Sex doesn't have to happen on wedding night especially for people that have FULLY abstained. Lots of foreplay first,making sure the woman is very wet on her own also helps. I feel the challenge is on the man not going ahead until the woman is mentally( not scared) and physically(wet) ready.

[@dinangakizito903]

You hit the point. Men should use patience and understanding to allow the woman to be in the mood for sex.

[@nanaaddae8623]

I agree, I said something similar on their video about their wedding night and I feel that the pain she had to endure was quite unnecessary. You said it perfectly the woman has to be physically and mentally prepared and also it should not strictly happen the first night if the woman is in pain, that was quite unnecessary. No law says consumption must happen at all costs on the first night. As you rightly said, you do not want her to suffer PTSD from the first-time experience. But it is also a good educational experience for other firstcomers.

[@dinangakizito903]

Most of the virgin men are not educated on how to handle this first night. That's why many virgin couples experienced an awkward first night. Thank you for this contribution. You hit the point.

[@rakiyamusa8563]

Vvbvvbv 🎉mmm​@@nanaaddae8623

[@nanaamaahenkorah3822]

Love that Christians are rising up in this area. Thank you, Michael and Faith!❤

[@euniceamafosuaaaddae9425]

Yasss, me too. There is so much wrong information; it's time we flood the streets with the right light

[@leftiah3049]

Discovered this channel today and this is the 3rd video am watching.....am 22 almost 23 am still a virgin and I pray to remain so until marriage

[@yomide_naturals]

So help you God

[@blessingosikhena3932]

Same here dear ❤❤💕💕

[@drealbusayo]

Please try...May God strengthen you

[@tanakamlams4743]

Quite hard ..same fight with u!

[@introvert42199]

Me 23 almost 24

[@obinnawilliams9436]

Something powerful you guys mentioned, people of the world know this nuggets but we don’t. Guys you didn’t wash your stuff outside, you gave PURE wisdom and God bless you guys.

[@ronnycrown]

30 years and still intact. Waiting earnestly for a smooth first experience when the time comes, by God's grace.❤

[@christakalembe241]

I am in my early thirties and I am still a virgin.God has really been faithful.❤❤❤❤❤

[@prosperosarumwense2762]

Sexual purity is very difficult my dear sister, but trust me when I tell you it is POSSIBLE

[@GodwinLuckybest]

❤❤❤

[@tamzi7421]

That's amazing. So inspired by you😊

[@victorynorbert5545]

Just glad my teenage children are on to this amazing channel. God bless your union

[@AdwoaDarkowaa_Opoku]

Yeay stalwart lovers. I'm so happy you've had this positive impact on me. I've gotten a partner who has agreed that we should stay virgins till marriage. i didn't know there were men who were still virgins around I pray we go far. I broke up with someone few months ago. He didn't support that idea thinking I would struggle in my next relationship, but God surprised me with my new man, and I know it is because I stood to my grounds not to break it God bless you stalwart lovers.

[@nancyapea1535]

I tap into your blessing

[@jollygoodgordon5580]

Be watchful that he’s not lying and not manipulative. God bless you❤

[@AdwoaDarkowaa_Opoku]

@@jollygoodgordon5580 thanks ❤️

[@musicbyarnica]

THÉ CHURCH NEEDS MORE OF THIS!!!!!!!! Thank you ❤️

[@Nommie_eze]

Honestly

[@mercylekunzekedjunayangcha7383]

Hello, Stalwart lovers, I'm a new subscriber from Cameroon and I got to know about you through my kid sister, who simply stumbled on you while browsing and shared with me. It's amazing all what I'm learning here. In most of our christian milieus some of these content is not taught, and you can't imagine how some homes are sick because they lack the requisite knowledge to spice up their home. I'm grateful the Lord laid this in your heart and you might not know the number of souls it's blessing. May the Lord give you much more insight, so that you may keep sharing with us these profound truth and indeed our homes or future homes will be a place to be. Thank you very much 🙏

[@caraepetuire]

Am 25 and has never had sxc before God has been helping me

[@favourorji1884]

Proud of you babygirl

[@caraepetuire]

@@favourorji1884 thanks dear is has been God all along

[@sundaysunny195]

Being a virgin is only to your husband and not our business

[@shadron5524]

How

[@caraepetuire]

@@sundaysunny195 so why don't you tell them to stop telling people about how they where both virgins since is only to our husband and not to the world or is it because you lost yours already

[@hannahmutasia1550]

Watching u from Kenya,,, am 22yrs still a virgin and and i pray that God will help me to keep it for my Husband, cz it is not easy with this generation.

[@ayinelaloodonye8129]

This kind of content is very rare to come by, am glad I stumbled into your channel. Thanks for your sincerity. Am blessed

[@emmanuelsamuel2283]

This is blissful so good to know that this virtue is not ashamed but praise

[@blessingezekwem2905]

23yrs still a virgin, to God be the glory

[@amenrejoice]

I couldn't be more grateful. Thanks for sharing. As a virgin l have always been scared of having sex but this was really helpful.

[@babysadvocate3876]

You're taking me down memory lane for people who are yet to be married, fear is not your friend that night thanks for sharing

[@TheStalwartLovers]

😁🤗❤️

[@PhilipThrives]

Thank you for the intentionality, sincerity of heart and openness at which you share your content. Many lessons learnt. Much appreciated.

[@growinspirit]

Listening to this sends chills down my spine. Like, I'm scared already. I'm 28, still a Virgin and dating a Virgin. I'll stay tuned to this channel and learn more from you. Thank you tons for sharing your experience. Looking forward to borrowing your tips someday, 😁😁 If God wills 🙏 SHALOM!!!

[@rutholusegun9328]

I married at 33 as a virgin. There is no need to be scared.

[@somysjourney9034]

@@rutholusegun9328wow! 👏

[@AdwoaDarkowaa_Opoku]

A virgin dating a virgin as well

[@joytitilayooluwa5023]

You don't h have to be scared. When it's time for you to do the do, just take your time, I mean take your, don't rush and keep improving with time

[@euniceamafosuaaaddae9425]

Its the shalom for me🤣God will take care of us though

[@Dems413]

KZbin algorithm, thank you for bringing me here 🥹 I’m here for the warm energy, the sincerity and how great y’all look together! Let me start taking tips for my own wedding night 👀🙊

[@odunayooyebisi4484]

It's their sincerity for me, honestly. There is very little information about the wedding night out there. You'll hear things like reading books, or your marriage counselor will inform you. Although it's true, hearing different people's experiences is the best way to go about this because the body is different. I appreciate you both for the wisdom you've shared❤

[@MildredKwasi]

Am 21 and still virgin but not pure holy cus iv kisses b4. But the Lord has been soo good to me ,and am waiting for my man

[@gabriellasiaeli]

The fact that your virgin that's all that matters

[@adebolaafolabi-j7b]

Swrs, there's nothing like not pure holy, don't allow anyone brainwash I believing you're not pure as u r

[@Trexdin]

It's looks sweeter with two virgins having the experience together

[@shallybuilds3202]

If I spend 30min doing foreplay it will save me 30min of trying to please her first. This is a major point

[@Pipeople2019]

Yeahhhh! felt that line too❣️

[@greatlady7661]

I’ve always said I won’t have sex on my wedding night. My first time can’t be the day when I’m tired. It has to be when I’m relaxed during honeymoon.

[@jemimahameh1980]

Same here, dat night is 4 praying and resting.

[@ChollyVy]

Watching this with smiles because I and my husband had NOs 3-5 mistakes on our wedding night but just like you guys, we now know better after 3 years and 10months of marriage. God bless you guys for videos like this ❤ The beauty of it is that you get to learn and grow together becoming better with more experience.

[@oloyedetemmy9664]

Awwwn I so much love this and the excitement it brings... This just increased my urge and commitment of waiting until my wedding night...I want my husband to see me as a treasure that he can't wait to unravel

[@jbt-phones]

Me too. Just turned 21 last month and what really keeps me away from s*xing any guy(apart from the fact that I chose not to) is the fact that I want whomever I choose to treasure me genuinely inside out. Like let him see me as a wrapped gift never unraveled. God helping, I'll stay a virgin till He finds me.

[@elzyworld]

I can understand how weird it can be for Christian couples to engage in this sort of content. Thanks for helping the naivety of Christians with regards to this subject matter. I’m blessed by this content and would willingly share to those in dire need of this sort of content. God bless you both with lovely children (hopefully soon), amen !!!

[@veronicaojifiochoademu2714]

My first time watching this video. Am 26 and still a virgin waiting to meet my future husband 🙏

[@damilolaadeyinka6117]

Sister Bae and Uncle Boo you look so good. Thanks for all you do for the kingdom.

[@sarahocheruk4158]

I see myself in your story. 96% of your story applied to us. The only difference is that we spent two nights in a hotel...but all those "Mistakes" we also expérienced.

[@temitopemichael]

What a sincere truth..... All you said was true,exposure,knowledge is very important as a Christian lady and gentleman,it goes a long way in keeping our affections for one another in relating as couple. First time here... Thanks for uploading!

[@HoldYourPeace_]

Auntie Baeeeeee!!!!! I love your lipstick shade😍😍😍😍 It looks sooooo beautiful!!

[@mercyochieng294]

How can I lack this video more than once.Thanks a lot @thestalwaltlovers.Much love from🇰🇪

[@FaithKanyama]

Just discovered this channel today....this is exactly wat I needed 👏 I'm 18 n still a Virgin.....I'm also faith wat a coincidence name sake❤❤❤u guys are awesome ❤❤❤❤❤

[@ayokunlekajero9452]

This is amazing. I appreciate your vulnerability and it's really beautiful that you kept it so real. It's quite profound. This is my first time commenting here, I really just had to. KZbin suggested your videos to me sometimes back and I've been blessed going through them. I'm also a strong advocate of sexual purity and I'm glad at all that you do. Welldone greatly. Your union shall continually be heaven on earth in Jesus name. 💕

[@ogahpremzy9099]

Stumbled on you guys by chance, but I must say I have been blessed by your videos. And I must say Sister Bae is glowing

[@alaokehinde1407]

I love the Stalwart lovers... Always orienting in the right and godly way...

[@Justinajollyofficial67]

It's my first time to see a Christian couple educating people on this

[@funuiruth3924]

Your sincerity is mind blowing as trust me that’s what makes your influence and impact over many automatic ..Love you both dearly..looking forward to a live meeting someday In Canada 🇨🇦 🇨🇦

[@deborahogochukwu1116]

O my God , I love you guys like you first video about sex on the first night still scares me till now, like I am consciously trying to reorient myself that it mustn’t be so difficult and painful. I’m glad you are doing this video it’s a life saver.

[@exgxnxa1249]

Can I just say, y'all are looking good today!🤩 God bless you both ❤

[@zenith_fs8675]

Aren't they always looking good b4 this day..they are always look good bro.thanks for d coment

[@destinyuchechi-e9k]

M in my early twenties,nd still a virgin, God please give me the right man to give this to ❤

[@AdiellePraiseGod]

Growing with your partner is the best thing ever.. I noticed Mrs stalwart became outspoken and more expressive with her emotions and thoughts. You are doing well sir. Thank you Jesus for this family.

[@maishevaunmukundi5958]

Well done guys. Indeed our bodies are temples of God. It's amazing how people are still valuing their bodies and fearing their God. Please educate people also that not everyone bleeds on the first sexual intercourse. Most people are suffering out there.

[@JasmineO-sl8gv]

Hello Stalwart Lovers! Glad to see what you guys are trying to do with your channel within the Kingdom and body of Christ. With that being said, I think the video about your first time having sex needs to be taken down, or made private, or made for subscribers only, etc. A woman's first time having sex should never, ever, ever be painful to the degree that Faith experienced. In fact, this amount of pain and trauma was sadly echoed by many of the female commenters, and it should not be so. There was too much pressure, rushing, and a lack of preparation in terms of the PHYSICAL and PHYSIOLOGICAL aspects of what sex is like from the female perspective. The insistence to "do the deed" and "getting it done" is not a mindset (or way of thinking) that should be encouraged. Rape is a reality in marriage that many Christians struggle to acknowledge and speak about. While the description of your first time having sex was NOT rape because Faith consented, many women experience the same level of pain but end up being forced by their husbands. It is a man's responsibility to prepare his wife's vagina to accept his penis. This is in line with what many pastors say from the pulpit that husbands should start preparing their wives from 6AM if they want to have sex at 9PM. If the pathway is not open for entry and smooth travels, then husbands need to understand the importance of backtracking, waiting, applying lubricant, and repeating this process over and over again. Women also need to understand the importance of consent even within marriage. The average man is always going to be physically stronger than the average woman. So the mindset men must carry about taking a woman's virginity should be completely different from the one Michael had. Please make the video private so as not to continue spreading misinformation.

[@shotostonero]

And they say “there are no virgins in this world” I keep thinking how possible is that..

[@priscillabarnes6864]

I think because of guilt and the people they surround their selves with

[@WordsPictures997]

Thank you so much for doing this update video. In all honesty, I thought some of the points in the first video were a bit dangerous but I could tell that you were both coming from a genuine place. Could you possibly do more on how you wished you prepared better and perhaps share any resources ( books, videos, programs ) that you have come across as a married couple that you would advise people preparing for marriage to go through?

[@cstevens2981]

amazing! you are helping more people than you think. thank you

[@busiswajameson]

Look at Mrs Stalwart glowing and growing🥺😍😍

[@Calm_Centre]

I love your sincerity, stalwart lovers. I haven't seen any Christian couple talk about sex this openly. It is totally educating. Thank you guys. God bless you ❤️

[@aguombaalexenyinnaya5249]

Come to my parish of RCCG you'll hear more from the marriage counselors ma'am. But the stalwarts lovers are the Bomb💣

[@rosemarymwangala5512]

I love this l usually learn a lot from you guys,my pray is that God should bless me with a God fearing man who has never known any woman,just like l have never known any man until now.❤ you always guys may God bless your marriage😍

[@amaoparebea2990]

This is supposed to be a quick video. Babe focus 🤣🤣... I'm dying🤣🤣

[@morinemuthio2756]

❤❤❤❤❤❤ Discovered this channel today. I love it 💗💗 Good job

[@okwaraglory1165]

I love ur makeup sister bae. U look stunning 🥰

[@ogunsinajoyous3828]

Wow! Wow!! Wow!!! So so lovely thanks guys God continue to bless your home. Amen and Amen Have learnt alot

[@olasehindedeborah236]

I'm early today. got the notification immediately it dropped but I was busy. I dropped what I was doing to watch☺

[@daveabolagba2711]

You guys are awesome. I have been married for almost 15 years but trust me, I have learnt something new from your vids. God bless you and bless your union. Engr. Abolagba, Abuja.

[@olayinkaadebayo6590]

Your sincerity is mind blowing. Thank you so much for the tips.

[@amaohenewaa8476]

My people never disappoint. That was very insightful. Thank you so much for helping your Christian brethrens out there. Luv you guys😘

[@ntsakomavunda9018]

Very educational...big up Stalwarts lovers for pulling This one 👊

[@TradWomanInAModernworld]

Yey 🤗 Can't wait to learn from your mistakes. Because of you Stalwart Lovers, this year I've grown, I've learnt so much from You Stalwart Fam. Thank you so much ♥️. May God continue to inspire You as you share with us about Him and Godly Relationships.

[@toluolunowo148]

It’s your realness for me. Thanks for sharing guys. God bless your home.

[@Dee_65]

You people are not serious, which guy?😂😂 She has gotten more comfortable talking about this things, I love it. Her confidence is booming lately❤❤

[@williamsugochukwu8662]

I love what I'm seeing in the comments....ima follow this channel

[@ibrahimmajiyagbe2163]

We also had the same mistake the first time, but i personally can't just stop doing it because I was having a limited time to stay in Nigeria

[@thivyahthayaparan6313]

God bless you abundantly , thank you for this!

[@danielasayinka6854]

Thank you for these, I believe it's better one knows all these before marriage even in marriage it's good. The goal is perfection all round. Love you guys.

[@Faithee_the_Smiley]

Wow, God bless the stalwart lovers, so good ro see kingdom marrieages thriving , it gives me hope thag Yes godly marriages can be beautiful. We have models to upon, God helping me, i am doing it His way, amen, thanks for being so vulnerable you two❤

[@TheStalwartLovers]

Well said 👏🏽❤️

[@TheAdedolapo.]

Awwww…. This was lovely to watch. You both look really good. I love you guys❤

[@akpugideon1078]

I hv learn a lot that I will use to pls my future wife if God later bless me with one bcs virgin is a blessing & u guys are also doing a great job especially in area of informing ppl about purity , bcs majority of girls don’t want to keep theirs anymore, some do gv reasons like: I will text d man I want to marry so to no how strong he is Bfo marriage so that I will not marry a weak man ,says some ladies, but I don’t agree to that idea, but some ladies we leave a man & d relationship if u as a man don’t want to make love to them bfo marriage , I still wonder d kind of generation we are into , bcs bfo it’s men that do pressure single ladies for sex bfo marriage but now it’s women

[@ikeoluwaelizabeth8278]

Hmmmm. Just exactly with mine too, but we did not have it mind to have sx that night thou, thinking of the stress from the preparation and other's. Hmmm before I could able to penetrate into my wife promise Land it's took us two to three months because I also felt her pains and of which I don't want to see anything blood and for that I can't withstand at all. God bless your ministry @Michael and Faith.

[@maryenijunibola6979]

Uncle boo has corrupt sister babe. Sister babe use to be gentle and word conscious

[@TheStalwartLovers]

🌚🌚🌚

[@blessinggrace7204]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@fleakysusan9164]

@@blessinggrace7204 u self see am oo Now sis bae don dey talk am boldly😅

[@yemi5193]

😂😂

[@Dee_65]

Yes😂

[@rukayatuthman2758]

thanks for the knowledge...may almighty continue to bless your home

[@funkiesworld]

Guys you are doing this and you Know God loves you ❤️

[@salomeycoleman3249]

It's good watching you guys again 💃💃 Love you both 🥰🥰 sending lots of love from Ghana ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@edwardayim6802]

God bless you guys for the honesty and Sincerity. Very informative

[@faithemmanuel2650]

I stumbled on this channel today and I love you guys 😍😍😍 This is the third video I'm watching and I'm so watching the rest

[@emmanueladaobi9361]

Thanks for giving this info out. Thanks a great deal.

[@elishadwe]

Now its understandable why we here that some ladies after their first experience with their husbands refuse them any further engagements, I once saw a lady that returned to her parents house & it took about a week of begging to get her back to her husband's. Thank you for sharing this knowledge. #Enlightened

[@euniceolawoyin1041]

I admire your honesty, naturalness and positivity 🍒🍒.God be with you two🙏.

[@davidettah2686]

I’m a new subscriber, thanks for this insights you’ve brought to us unashamed.

[@indiramonteiro9050]

I really liked the video guys it was very educational. Thanks for the vulnerability God bless you 😊

[@josephineaitafo5993]

Thanks for sharing your experience in such an honest way. Very helpful.

[@olumuyiwaojo3532]

Oh my God! My sister is now born again oooo... Glory be to God.

[@Eberethelma]

This is an absolute blessing guys... Thank you

[@iwuchukwuemmanuella8499]

Thank you for this!! Well said ❤❤

[@mrIsraelemma]

U would have known by now that God brought them together ♥ ♥ ♥

[@preciousmaduforo982]

I am in my mid-twenty, still a virgin God has been faithful 🙏 ❤

[@eniolaesther1134]

You're doing pretty cool ma&sir.. God bless you..sis faith is shining 😍😍, well done sir

[@elishadwe]

Thank you for being real. Love you guys❤️❤️🙌

[@giftyquaicoe4790]

It's my first time here and I'm enlighten. Big ups guys. God bless you

[@Lerr777]

It would be great to find a fellow virgin .. this is encouraging

[@TheStalwartLovers]

As great as that would be... That should not be a criteria for selecting who to marry. God bless 😊

[@TheStalwartLovers]

Must I Marry A Virgin??? kzbin.info/www/bejne/o5bYmmNslNaCZ6M

[@blaqcoco9785]

Thank you for the enlightenment, God bless you.

[@fredborteykyeremeh2353]

Interesting video.. Very informative, funny and a blessing. You guys are real. No wonder God is blessing you.. I became a subscriber of yours after watching that video about your first experience on the wedding night.. I remember I laughed through out when you were making so much fun with the scriptures... I still watch that video.. My favourite so far... God bless you both

[@jayntaho5771]

Wow what a powerful video guys! God bless you

[@UCHECHI.]

thank you for being vulnerable with us.

[@taborahs_Spice]

Thank you Uncle boo and Aunty bae I learnt alot sir and ma Don't stop doing what you do. Alot of us are helped . We now know better Thank you