The Foundation Every Single Should Build Before Marriage | Kingsley Okonkwo

[@jennifemac8870]

I love Pastor K. Absolutely love his messages, however as believers we are under a covenant of grace we are in this world but not of this world. God never looks at age to determine whether one of his daughters can have children. I have friends who waited for years not out of choice but wanted to serve God with purity and not compromise. Some waited longer than they ever imagined they would wait to be married but God came through and honoured their faithfulness to wait. Two of my friends married amazing men in their 40s and went on to have children naturally. One friend was pregnant for the first time at 51 and gave birth to triplets naturally. God is still God, as believers we should not live like the world or think like the world. It is this same God who gave women womb, eggs etc wouldn’t he give children if one of his daughters finds herself waiting longer than she expected. If a woman meets the right man at 25 yr good for her but not every one who married at an early age has “time” to start a family. While on the natural level women do not have time to wait long to marry I do believe that we serve a God that can do anything. I love Pastor”s K teaching and the great teaching to prepare people for marriage but I just feel the timing of when people meet their mates varies and God can still give a woman children at any age. I do not agree that a woman’s option reduces because of age, there is no scriptures basis for this. God would be unjust to create a woman to be less valuable than a man. It’s a shame that churches have allowed the world to influence how we view our lives. The bible says we are complete in Christ so I do not believe a woman’s option lessens because of age. Please correct this error because it’s not scriptural. Christ did not die for women to feel that their option lessens because they married after 40. On the order hand there are women and men who married at 25yrs old are are divorced. God doesn’t look at age and certainly did not create men to be superior to women because of age. Yes women have a timeline for child bearing but when has that ever stopped God? It never has and never will. Basically what you are saying is that God created the male gender to have value with age and the female gender to have less value with age. There is no scripture to support this. God views marriage within the context of eternity to fulfil his purpose on the earth and no one should make anyone of God’s precious children feel they are less valuable or have fewer options because they hit age 40. This is not correct.

[@abbasbeloved6301]

You've made a very valid point here. Thank you for it and for the testimonies of your friends. I'm certain many will be encouraged and blessed by it.

[@lizzyfresh07]

I didn't think of what he said regarding women's options reducing in this light. Thank you so much and true, it is not scriptural. Look at Sarah that was desired by other men outside of her husband because God renewed her. I believe my husband will manifest soon in Jesus' name Amen!

[@dikechisom9903]

Nice one!

[@joskyshams4758]

I agree with you 💯 I have nothing to add.

[@oluchukwuobioma1127]

Nice comment and interesting. Just to add that I don't think he was saying that aspect of women's option reducing in a negative light. Even his wife waited for 8 years to have children. He is talking about ladies not married because they are too choosy.

[@mapsmaps805]

I can't believe I'm learning this at 47, single with 2 adult kids💔. What hope is there than to go down the rabbit hole 😭

[@ericaekpang8818]

Don't go down to the rabbit hole, you can still be whole in Christ Jesus! You can introduce your kids to these teachings so as to help them avoid regrets, and you can find peace by doing so. ❤️

[@abirihafiz727]

There's hope my friend

[@elvisoffor2149]

I knew I've been trying to run with some of these, but not in this depth. The amount of wisdom here is, in fact gold. Wawu! Thank you for these deep revelations. Let me write it here to remind my future self: If I and my future wife can't see these qualities in our lives then we're not ready for marriage!

[@Princessfaith_]

This sermon on repeat 🙌🏾

[@edwinavarney3901]

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[@vaa2332]

I honestly wish I came across you in my single days. The Grace of God upon you is unquantifiable. Thank you for heeding God's call. I celebrate you Sir.

[@alexandraafiaafricatour8834]

Me too i made a wrong marriage....

[@eberepurpleroyal1801]

One thing I like about u is dat u are funny wen u are preaching.

[@AlphieKim23]

This sermon is really eye opener. I am 27 years old single and I have really learnt a lot Wow. It is never too late to start over again , I am embracing my truth and uniqueness to fulfill the purpose of God in my life. Top notch teaching , I am really blessed

[@majolagbejoseph6377]

Can I try to know you at least

[@ekhatorsylvester4032]

u very correct,I learn from a France friend I have,HE fulfil already, HE meet a Nigeria lady,HE told me,I know this lady don't love me,she hungry for documents. he gave, infact he sacrifice, HE know the woman never love him,at the end he die,the woman took over all the properties. since then I no longer get move,i will be fulfil, even if I marry my direction in life is were i will follow. thank God the woman is a preacher now,she using this case to preach

[@topeadelowokan4849]

I am a Marriage Minister as well. I am always blessed listening to Pastor K.

[@peaceokoye2844]

PK be dishing Wisdom since 1900😃😃

[@dorcasolasehinde6242]

Thank you so much Sir, I'm so happy and blessed, I have never regret watching your channel sir, I thank God for the day my sister introduced this channel to me, my life has completely changed, and I'm getting blessed day by day, thank you Jesus, I just wish my friend's and everyone closed to me can enjoy this like I have just did now and always, the joy of the Lord just keep flowing in me,can't even explain it 😊❤️Hallelujah🙌🙌🙌

[@henrymelchizedek]

Your single yrs are not to wait for marriage 💯🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@yvettelache6940]

Pastor K is so anointed ....

[@chikauche8900]

Pastor k ..u're the bomb..your teachings are top notch..God bless u for us all singles..

[@aderogbaayoola3427]

Can't get enough of this powerful and insightful message. This is a must watch for every Single 👏👏👏

[@corneliuskipkoech4996]

This is powerful,,More grace

[@kratosalexander1217]

You are a blessing Pastor K. I am always learning!!! 💕

[@sophieamanston5192]

Wow wow wow this is deeper than I would ever imagine. Thank you man of God for this wisdom and knowledge God have bless you with. Now I'll be happy as I'm single and prepare for marriage as i put my house in order. Yes this message has heal me and stop me from being sorry for myself in my single life. Now I've realized that my single life make me to accomplished a lot of things to satisfy myself. Thank God for this wisdom that he has given you my dear man of God.

[@ivieodigie]

What a sermon full of inspiration and the Word of truth. Thank you Pastor K

[@rosemaryumeh599]

Pastor K...God bless you for this timeless message..it was loaded.

[@GivenZelina]

Am single and in a relationship ,I bless God that am hearing this at the right time.

[@olleyannie371]

I love this man of God....he has made me know my worth...I love the new me

[@abbasbeloved6301]

Thank you for this Pastor K, my marriage Doctor

[@beckymbah]

What an Inspiration preaching. I am really happy wachting this.

[@Cyril-OC]

I was truly Blessed OMO 🔥

[@danbliss1950]

nice one pst K, always dropping it like his hot, well served,

[@joystitch]

God please continue to bless this man

[@bomaoriyebaka1249]

Wow wow... I am transformed by this message I'm have sent it to a single group I'm in, they need to hear this.. More grace Sir

[@beckybioh8695]

Too much wisdom in one sitting. Greater Grace to Ps.K and wife!

[@peaceojo-osagie4746]

Exactly,as the bible says love you neighbor as yourself... Honestly you give people what you have not what you don't have

[@igbokwechinecheremjacinta2263]

I don't miss out anytime ......More grace Pastor K

[@richardaddy4444]

Awesome Message!!

[@marymwansa8571]

Im blessed by this 🎉❤😅

[@graceomakada5082]

So much wisdom here am blessed to watch this.

[@blessingchisom6982]

Thank you so much for such a wonderful message ❤

[@mabelamahagan2793]

God bless you Reverend Kingsley,for sharing,I badly need this message🙏.....

[@manzalerlohrey]

This is soooo good! Thank you Pastor.

[@oyindamolaolatunji6076]

Thank you Sir for teaching me. My mind has been largely enlightened

[@irenenanjendo7859]

Be blessed Sir,, May God continue to uplift you,,i have learn much from you and i will continue to learn.

[@lizzyfresh07]

Great teaching but I was dizzy the whole time with the background lighting.🤨

[@ezekielayuba1166]

Nice message, I love your messages mostly on KZbin even when they are repetitive but true.

[@kemilolafadeyi5483]

Thank you for this master piece. Marriage will never make you happy so is okay to be happy while you single because marriage only makes you better . Your professor in college job is not to make you happy but will only make you better . Is got to be mutual .

[@AlhassanBlessing-kj9qo]

Am 24 am happy am learning what i need to know about marriage ❤ thank you so much pk

[@ifeanyicollins5086]

Pastor k, I really Like to meet you one day and learn from you sir, I celebrate you greatly, I wish you can make me your Timothy....

[@ruththompson2757]

Omg, God allowed me to come across this ANOINTED/ APPOINTED msg 🔥 🔥 🔥 🙏

[@magdalenemusa1383]

Thank you so much Sir. More unction from the Holy Spirit in Jesus name.

[@jessd9841]

Can’t love you less Pastor K!! God bless u

[@Letstalkaboutit07]

Can we appreciate how full and thick PK's hair is.

[@mpumintuli6960]

Lol

[@Princessfaith_]

Facts

[@priscygamson1592]

Powerful 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@jubilantchikukwa6446]

your wisdom is beyond this world

[@ChikaJennifer-bq7kj]

🔥🔥❤❤i love your messages, I have really learned a lot from them...... Looking forward to seeing you and your wife someday.

[@BudgetingStudent]

Yes ooo I was amazingly blessed 🙌🏼 Thank you Pastor Kingsley 🙏

[@marypauline4858]

Grace located him 🙏🙏

[@Franklinodaro]

My God, this message is so complete! I'm glad I found this

[@kemilolafadeyi5483]

More anointing and more wisdom . You were called for this . What a testimony ? No doubt you have been called for this . You are a blessing to the world . 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💕🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@nwagwetiruth]

Thank you sir for this profound teachings

[@ezehjennifer324]

🙌Thanks be to God for such a wonderful message God bless you sir 💯❤

[@elizabethmesioye]

I thank God for your life sir. You have blessed a lot of souls on this channel

[@oyekunleoyeyinka7470]

So Blessed sir. More Anointing.

[@paulfonfonocho5618]

How i wish it new you or your great messages bf getting married

[@nikkiventures4205]

This is amazingly amazing. Thanks kindly Sir

[@musah09068]

Pk wisdom man....

[@blanchkuitat5021]

Great job may God blesse you

[@olabodeatoloye7544]

Hmmmm, this message is another loaded and divine encounter to my life. God bless you abundantly sir

[@rosenanaodurahmensah3289]

I'm blessed listening to you Sir. God bless you

[@Nyemaspeaks]

Thank you very much sir and this message was much needed. I learned a ton and took notes and will implement on them. God bless you.

[@attahprosper3610]

You are a blessing to our generation 🙏

[@marhoziregbe7528]

Phenomenal PK!!! This has blessed me.

[@preciousglory6735]

Yes I am blessed. God bless you sir

[@monicadiegboh9339]

Am do much blessed today 🙏 mey God bless you richly sir 🙏 for this message 🙏

[@adescholastica2472]

Thank you so much sir, more Grace daddy, I learn a lot from you sir, may God continue to speak through you in Jesus name amen 🙏

[@Meloooody1357]

Thank you so much for this MESSAGE ♡

[@ruthbisong9907]

ALWAYS A BLESSING PK.God bless you Sire

[@margaretrameetse9592]

God bless you Pastor K. O. That was powerful. Words of wisdom . To God be the glory! 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@harriclaphton2838]

Life is not about bread and butter but purpose Don't join the bandwagon of relocating, hear from God first

[@edimepeace5583]

This sermon is everything

[@ivieogidiagba5405]

Thank you sir for all you do.. thank you for allowing God to use you. More grace sir.

[@veratwinztv6413]

Thank you so much, sir. Am always blessed watching your channel.

[@lydiasesay1908]

Thank God for this messages .

[@onyisglowempire1963]

Thank you Pastor K.

[@Esther_Chinazamekpere]

I have been in this begging for love.. But am out of it Love my self more now

[@estherchinaecherem9590]

Thanks Pastor Kingsley, is well with Me🙏 God Bless You and Mama Abundantly 🙏

[@enorjoseph8606]

Wow! 2 much wisdom

[@erechijohanna9550]

I have learnt alot from you Pastork 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@chinyere2090]

Thanks sooo much pastor Kingsley

[@kafunyakaswilo6634]

Always blessed by your message pastor.

[@traydolventures]

Awesome awesome... Great job sir

[@idim9248]

God bless you sir

[@brighterinmwingbovo7710]

Excellent morning sir, I have been listening to you for sometime now and you are doing very well on this all important topic of marriage. But is like you are not focusing much on people like me who has lost his wife and looking for a new wife

[@Barnabas_Akinrinola]

Thank you so much, Pastor K!!!🙌🏾♥️

[@akinleyeolaoluwa6426]

This is a great level of knowledge revealed more grace sir

[@julielindo8955]

Greatly blessed by your message 🙌🏾🙏🏾

[@melodyokechukwu3103]

Thank you Jesus 🙌🙏 God bless you sir 🙏🙏

[@bernisassambom7515]

Thank you so much for this message Pastor, I am learning a lot from you

[@pàrfaitfurnishing]

Thank you Sir. God bless you always

[@graceg1844]

I needed this thnks pastor may God reward u.

[@marknyami4451]

Thank you pastor for this grt piece

[@gracemunachiokike9516]

Amen thank you pastor k

[@balogunsamuel1843]

Jewel of wisdom

[@deborahehionoja7767]

Am blessed 🥺