Kody Forgets his Date’s Name and Asks the Waiter for Help | First Dates New Zealand

Kody isn't asking for much in a woman, just a face like Angelina Jolie and a body like Kim Kardashian. Hoping to meet Kody's high standards is 24 year old Marketing Executive Alethea. Nervous and waiting, Kody attempts to settle his nerves with a Gin and Tonic, but Alethea who's just arrived, is quick to inform him that gin is a depressant.
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[@heartpursuer]

When asked the big question, they both gave the same answer. The thing is, I think only one of them meant it. He may have felt a bit overwhelmed, but I'm confident he would have said yes if she had.

[@MaverickLee11]

true, check out my take on it, in the comments

[@AnitaSingh-lp5wz]

He looking for a 10 but like a 5 or 6 because got a job but average looking and personality

[@kimmichaud7741]

They dont look.compatible at all

[@TomNook.]

"I can tell instantly if I'm attracted to him" 1:30 Yup seen that look before.... she's not

[@sigma8995]

I think with him being shorter than her, it as a lot to do with it.

[@TomNook.]

@@sigma8995 Honestly watching the banter between the two, it was the deciding factor on whether she wanted the second date or not. I've seen dates which have gone a lot worse, where she's OKed the next date, but the guy was taller

[@sigma8995]

@@TomNook. Yes, that's another good point. Though from the very beginning when she gave her initial look at him, I had a feeling things would be a losing battle. But when she joked about the piercing and poking fun of his lack of masculinity due to his drink of choice, that is a bad sign.

[@Ou8y2k2]

She needs to date older. Him, younger.

[@MaverickLee11]

true

[@Prince_ee]

“What happened?” “That is so weird?” “Whyyy?”🙄 I appreciate that one prompt question might be a slip of the tongue but wow, three unnecessary questions/ comments on someone's face sound pretty rude and inappropriate, especially if you are meeting them for the first time. Just saying!

[@silverdale3207]

Good thing she managed to get that free meal in, before she bolted.

[@Em-fz5uh]

She offered to pay for her food

[@Random_Blip]

​@@Em-fz5uh Her 'offer' was suspect, especially since it turned out she wasn't interested in the guy. You even have people (mostly women) openly admitting to the ploys they use to get free meals ('foodie calls').

[@LMLification]

It is not as though she is obligated to continue seeing someone just because they went out for a meal. He could have accepted her offer and put his foot down if she tried to renege. Better yet, asking for separate checks before the date even comes would have had it be a done deal.

[@sigma8995]

This video is a good case of "watch what they do and not listen to what they say." When she says, "I can quickly tell if I am attracted to someone, not just based physical looks but on how they are." Well, this guy, according to her, was funny and pleasant. But you know what his problem? He's shorter than her: his looks.

[@TomNook.]

Its very disheartening to men who are wonderful guys with a lot of love to share, but can't simply because they lost the genetic lottery.

[@sigma8995]

Indeed. That is the harsh reality of it. If a man does not have the looks, he can still have a chance by having status, money, and or power. Although it does not sexually excite a woman to the degree of a Chad, the security is attractive nonetheless. And if he has none of these things, he’s going up the creek without a paddle.

[@SL-lb6lz]

Isn't that also true of women? Would you date a girl who you don't find physically attractive? I think not. If anything women are judged by us men significantly more on looks than pretty much anything else they have to offer. Real talk.@@sigma8995

[@anatoliagolden-hall4553]

@@TomNook.And you think women don’t have it twice as hard? Apparently, men only care about looks after all. If a woman is physically unappealing, she’s SOL.

[@sigma8995]

@@anatoliagolden-hall4553 If your statement about "men apparently care about only looks," then women have it easy.--just cover the look department. On the other hand, women will want a man to have not only good looks, but the wealth, the status, intelligence, and everything else she can put on the list.

[@topgymrat]

I really thought a second date was in order, but oh well.

[@EYEZP951]

He played it smooth. Good job boi!😅

[@tsambikatsa926]

Why dress like that ? Inless you eant people to look at you. He was drinking alit. Maybe they purposely mismatch people

[@thundercat90]

He couldn't stop sipping that drink😂

[@suewilson3553]

Sweetie unless you're advertising things to give away or sell....cover them up. You're giving off the wrong message. I would have thought your mother would have told you that and if she didn't then listen to this old lady who's been there and done that.

[@NancyFoshee-cl1rl]

Say it Loud!

[@robertgelblum5154]

I was disappointed by the result: I expected a second date. I am sure he found her very attractive (I sure did!) and she seemed to be into him also (didn't many women think he was attractive and nice?). But unfortunately at the end she friend-zoned him, and I guess to save face he just said "yeah I only saw us as friends also" - even though he couldn't take his eyes off her bust all through the date!

[@MaverickLee11]

check out my take on this, in the comments above

[@sigma8995]

@@MaverickLee11 Can’t see your comment mate. For some reason, some of our comments are not showing up here sometimes. Not sure if it’s a bug or something else..

[@sigma8995]

Robert, this woman is exhibiting classic female nature. They always want to appear amicable, likeable, and reduce possible hostility for safety reasons. She's behaving this way and I am sure she's not fully conscious of her behavior, or at least the reasons why. It all stems from evolution.

[@monicacarolina6480]

No, I did not find him special and certainly not nice. Angelina Jolie and Kardhasian butt? Sorry, too shallow.

[@JayJay-sq6rv]

Past date he done he brought 50 bucks and asked his date to pay 20 for the movie date? Lol .. dude is not even tall and has this high expectation on the girls he wants?? Wants the gal to have Kardhasian butt? Hahahah fark off man

[@LMLification]

I agree. People in general tend to want a better man or woman than what is commensurate with what they offer as a partner.

[@craiglewis4357]

I think they would make great friends.👍👍👍👍👍

[@katechipata9934]

Woman not ‘female’ 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@silverdale3207]

At least everyone knows what a female is "what is a women" LOL

[@aceventurapetdetective2356]

I thought she was putting on a brave face and was a bit forced. Good that she went the distance though and did not walk out on him.

[@qp4367]

The not so subtle threat from her brother was a bit outrageous what is this 1947?

[@Evan-ze5qo]

Friends can also have affectionate feelings for each other and grow their love

[@celticbro1]

She was lovely but too mature for him. He was trying too hard on the date and came across as being a bit childish.

[@danieldavis2292]

16 seconds in "im looking for a female" bruh 💀

[@ieatpoza]

is because he too short

[@Oregonthistle]

If you don’t want a guy looking at your chest don’t wear clothes that show them off. There’s nothing wrong with looking anyhow.

[@bigteeist]

👍🏾🤔😂

[@focabox5594]

She wants it to be looked, but women don't admit it.

[@sigma8995]

A lot of women are like this. They dress and act in a sexually seeking manner, wanting men to give them attention, and when they get the attention, they shame men for it. It gives them a sense of superiority and boost of self confidence. It stems from insecurities

[@lexa6154]

Alethea looks like Blair Waldorf (from Gossip Girl)! 👸🏻 She could be her twin sister! Anyway, I think Alethea needs a man who’s a little bit more assertive and charismatic. A man who’s able to drive the conversation a little more. Also, I think she needs someone taller (no offence to Kody). I think they’re both great people though! 💝

[@focabox5594]

If Girls go for taller guys, men should go for fit women. Everytime I girl asks about how tall a guy is, men should simply reply "only after you say how much you weigh" You know... A guy can't change how tall he is, so asking how tall he is can be really offensive, but women get way more offended when they are asked about they weight, even though you can change it by going on a diet

[@TomNook.]

They've done loads of studies on this, most women (as in, 80%+) go for only 6ft men and above... which makes up 15% of the male population. It's a common mismatch in dating, but something women refuse to compromise on, leading to these "oh he's great but..."

[@sigma8995]

@@TomNook. I actually have seen and read some of these studies. Dating sites actually provide a really good clue to what people actually want when they are voting anonymously. There is a thing called the 666 factor. They want a man who is at least over 6 ft tall, makes 6 figures, and have a 6 inch+ manhood.

[@wristcandy5451]

Fun fact; Jolie was born male

[@AnnaSzabo]

She’s so immature

[@rogdawg123]

alethea is very attractive 🔥👌😍