Korean Teen Pregnancy: How We Told Our Parents

[@NameePark]

As there are many responses to our *age gap*, I do want to firstly say that we will be doing a *detailed video* on our age gap very soon. For now, please put up with this response that I wrote for a viewer writing in: _"So you started dating when you were 15 and he was 20? Hmmm"_ and another viewer writing in: _"She was 17 when pregnant, and they started dating 3 years before that...so she was actually 14 and he was 19...? [...] it was very wrong for him to pursue her at that age"_. Please continue reading to read my response, and thank you in advance for taking your time to read it through! _Rascal Hooligan_ is correct in that we started dating when I was 14 and Michael was 19, though incorrect in that Michael was pursuing me. In truth, I was the one doing the pursuing hahaha I think for every circumstance it is very different for everyone and if we do not know a person's entire life story and ancestral background, it's hard to justify choices as right or wrong; I think in many cases, only God can do so, not even the choice-maker, as Apostle Paul writes in his first letter to the Corinthians; "As for me, it matters very little how I might be judged by you or by any human authority/court. I don’t even trust my own judgement or judge myself. My conscience is clear, but that doesn’t prove I’m right. It is the Lord himself who will examine me and decide". I do, however, believe that it is quite an age gap and I wouldn't encourage dating at a such young age in general either. But for my circumstance, I honestly think that I wouldn't be here replying to this thread or even having made this video in the first place as I could've already committed suicide by this point if life had gone a different way and I didn't have someone like Michael in those pivotal years. Which is also something I do not encourage or condone. I have explained in previous videos about my emotional instability at the time; you may refer to the videos below: [kzbin.info/www/bejne/nJvYqmygYrSAeas] [kzbin.info/www/bejne/gXuyaXmjfc-NrqMm22s] and Michael does explain throughout our channel about the difference in our emotionally stable-ness. I did grow up with a lot of dysfunction in the home and meeting Michael just made me want to cling to him for stability and some form of firm foundation, which is why I had chased him around everywhere and followed him like a duckling haha Regarding Sara's comment about experiencing life and being unable to fulfill dreams, as I mentioned in previous videos, please refer to [kzbin.info/www/bejne/bpKyc4yod7-lm7cm42s], I really really hated high school. That was one of the main motivations for skipping a grade. Michael was also a pushing factor in my working hard and taking extra courses to fast track. Before meeting Michael, I was very apathetic and was a pretty miserable person, coasting through life without putting effort into anything; please refer to [kzbin.info/www/bejne/Y5qpkmVmdq-faZYm21s] and [kzbin.info/www/bejne/jJCvgZSpgcZprrM]. Michael's affirmation of my human worth through encouraging me with words and praising my work, which my mother who was my only family member ever since birth never did, and couldn't do given our circumstances, definitely was pivotal in my change of work ethic and efforts. Therefore I skipped a grade with his guidance and help and as I mentioned, if things turned out a different way, I'd probably be dead or doing something I don't love as having experienced all these things have sharpened me as a person and also in my career path! I honestly didn't know what I wanted to do back then and only realized my passions after giving birth to Galahad and being pushed by Michael to keep working hard to find something I love. Regarding statutory rape and crime, it is very unfortunate when those kinds of situations or circumstances happen to so many people around the world and my heart really breaks whenever I think about these things. In our situation, statutory rape or any sort of minor-dating allegations did not apply to us because, first of all, I wasn't being raped, and secondly, the law in our residing area (Canada) only applied to anyone above age 18 engaging in a sexual relationship with a minor under 16, whether consented or not, and once the minor is age 16, there are no allegations at all applying to the relation. Our relationship didn't categorize under this law so there were no legal implications for us. For other situations, it would definitely be different because obviously the young man isn't Michael just joking everyone is different and everything will effect everything in every situation. To add about pedophilia, a pedophile is defined as a person of adult age who is "sexually attracted to children". I was neither a child nor was Michael sexually attracted to me as that was not the purpose of our togetherness. And also as I mentioned early on in this response, I was the one who was pursuing his time and company than him pursuing me sexually at all. Also to add just as extra info, our dating wasn't really dating but a courtship of sorts. We had always talked about marital plans and had actually planned to get married in my first or second year of university just because I needed more Michael in my life and also because my childhood shaped me to become very insecure and emotionally unstable and I unconsciously felt the need of someone as internally and emotionally strong like Michael in my life. Of course, the choices I made were my own and even my growth had to have had my own efforts playing in along with Michael's guidance in my life. I do have arms and legs and a brain and able body, of course I will not make Michael do everything for me lol Of course, now many things are different and looking back, I honestly wouldn't have changed any choices at all because it has all shaped me and helped me grow every day. Super long reply but I hope it was helpful; we are planning to do a video on this very topic sometime soon with a lot more detail!!

[@hime_ichi]

mine is 10 yrs gap LOL

[@TarynBell]

I understand where you're coming from in your explanation. However, I think in many of these situations there's a special story. It doesn't change the fact that the age gap is so large and although there is no proof that you guys had sexual intercourse before the age of 16, it seems likely in that you got pregnant. It's not a matter of judging you and your husband because, like I said I understand where you're coming from. I personally have dated someone at the same age gap as you and Michael when I was 14. Looking back on that, I had the same kind of ideals about him and how stable he was. Looking back now Im so over joyed that it ended when it did. No matter how highly I thought of him. When I was about 25ish (3 years ago) the idea of me at such a young age being with a man as my boyfriend....to be honest the thought of it makes me feel sick because I understand how YOUNG 14 is now. I feel like if I have a daughter or son I will probably be a bit overboard around those tender ages. In the end you guys are together and happy now so it is what it is.

[@Tsukishiro16]

NamiiCho k

[@hauxani]

my parents are 12 years apart lol

[@themortaleros4364]

My parents are 17 years apart, my great grandparents were 15 years apart, and my great great grandparents were 20 years apart. It’s pretty common for my family to marry someone at least 10 years older.

[@msphasha6321]

OMG your husband is so delicate in his word choices, and very mature and academic in his speaking. lol I'm not even sure if I used the correct words

[@NameePark]

+Simply Mahlatse he really tries to make each word meaningful; opposite of me tho hahaha !!!

[@apearl420]

Simply Mahlatse ikr.. he's good at turning his thoughts into words..

[@shannenlee2011]

yes..i think the same way...

[@shannenlee2011]

Namii...please live happily!! I'm happy that Michael is a responsible man!

[@SH-qf3id]

Yes! He's so soft spoken(which is nice in my opinion)! I don't see many people who speak like him here in America.

[@bouszaye]

Your husband speaks with such intelligence, gracefulness and wisdom. "Rotten cherry on top of something that's already putrid" Such an eloquent way of speaking! I really respect the way you both speak of your trials that you have overcome. Much love to you both and your beautiful family and I thoroughly enjoyed watching this

[@ewwstinky7552]

Michael has a very soft and kind voice he should be a motivational speaker haha. and also I was wondering if you and/or Michael would do a video on your testimonies.

[@NameePark]

hahaha he does !!! we could do one if that's something you are interested in !!!

[@guilhermetanaka585]

Jen n。vー

[@kirby-stomp]

I was just about to say that TBH omgg.. he should do ASMR videos or something like his voice is so calming IM LAUGHINNNGGOMF

[@NameePark]

noelle g hahahaha he actually really likes asmr and says he feels all tingly but i don't feel anything at all XD

[@msphasha6321]

RIGHT. I said; "OMG your husband is so delicate in his word choices, and very mature and academic in his speaking. lol I'm not even sure if I used the correct words".

[@IphiaCarlene]

You both are so mature and grounded for your age! I hope you continue to grow stronger, closer and experience more blessings.

[@bethanyjoy00]

The Lord has really worked through your lives, and I'm so glad that you trusted in Him and remained faithful through all the hardships. This story really uplifted me, thank you.

[@NameePark]

+Bethany Gragert Thank YOU Bethany !!! I always tear up when I revisit this video because of the things Michael says XD even today I was working on subs really late and I was tearing up just skimming through it. God has been really good and gracious.

[@bethanyjoy00]

***** I'm sure this was a really tough situation to be in the middle of, and it will always serve as a reminder of God's grace in the midst of everything you've gone through. He's made you so strong!

[@NameePark]

+Bethany Gragert yes He is definitely continually teaching and guiding and molding, even if it's hard for us u_u like gold in fire !!!

[@minehseoki8890]

OMG this video made me cry. Your husband's words are so deep and it touched my heart. Your family is really beautiful. #familygoals ❤️

[@SparkzMxzXZ]

very mature perspectives. your husband...is a natural asmrtist.

[@kalbijjim]

Hello Sparkz, thank you for your comment. A natural asmrtist, wow that's really cool! I should seriously consider capitalizing on this natural ability :D I wonder how though..

[@cjgallagher5289]

@@kalbijjim lmao 🤣💀

[@Kkumkumakat]

My boyfriend is korean and lives with his mother and theyve only been out of korea for 5 years yet his mother constantly tells him i love you before sleep and when they call each other and even tells me she loves me in her super broken English which is the cutest thing ever so i guess its like anything in life , it must depend how they were raised cause for you parents dont show love but for my bf they do

[@Kkumkumakat]

But it was really great to hear this story and i truly wish you guys family the best! I view abortion like you , so if i did accidentally get pregnant i'd have to keep the child and probably get married

[@Kkumkumakat]

"The goal of dating relationship should always be have its destination to marriage " THANK YOU! Yes!

[@biancapeter3810]

+kaththebear then I hope you take the necessary precautions. May I ask why you think you have to?

[@Kkumkumakat]

Bianca Peter have to what ? And i fo take the precautions:)

[@crescentiamc]

So cool how you are open with this subject matter! A lot of people look down on teen moms but I think it's so brave. They judge without even trying to see it from a positive side, especially in Korean culture. You guys are so mature and seem like awesome parents :)

[@NameePark]

aw thanks so much for your comment T0T it's true that a lot of people see more of the negative aspects, especially in Korean culture u_u thank you for your support !! it really means a lot to us !

[@asianabbey]

First Namii, you are beautiful and I am loving your cut "crease" makeup! Second, thank you and Michael so much for sharing your story! As a Korean adoptee, your video really resonated with me. I always knew that my biological mother couldn't keep me because she was single and in Korea, being a single parent is socially frowned upon. But also hearing your experiences with your families really reinforced that cultural difference in my mind. I really appreciate you two sharing this video with us. Also, Michael's advice about having a destination in every relationship was such great advice!! I'm married, so it doesn't really apply to me, but I will remember his advice when I have friends who come to me asking for advice! Thanks again 💕💕

[@NameePark]

aw abigail you are so sweet. I'm so glad you enjoyed it !!! thank you so much for your sweet comment and for watching ! we hope that we can keep talking about things that are encouraging and enjoyable ^ ^

[@way2girly]

Glad you guys are taking responsibility. Good thing you got married afterwards too. Most people don't and it affects the children and family . I wish you guys the best ^^

[@NameePark]

+way2girly thank you for your comment! We definitely want to make wise choices for the overall good of the future of everyone involved!

[@way2girly]

NamiiCho Great ^^. You guys will be in my prayers. I love how you guys are willing to stick together and work things out even though things didn't go as planned. There are many people going through this. You guys set a good example. God bless.

[@NameePark]

way2girly thank you sooooo much. much blessings to you too especially during this holiday season!

[@potentiallycasey]

His voice is so soothing! Lol. My husband and I are 5 years apart as well. We started dating when I was 16. ☺️ we have been together now for 8 years and married for 3. I'm glad you guys stayed strong!

[@sofiefie6691]

I'm sure I'm not the first person to say this, but dear Nami, you married the right man of your life, I'm so happy for you

[@n4kof]

Yours husband is a good man 😉

[@NameePark]

yes he is T_____T thank you so much

[@jamiezingsworld5887]

I love how open and transparent you guys are. I'm not in this predicament currently but I'm sure many teens found this found this helpful. Thanks for sharing ❤️✨

[@KaiBingham]

I could listen to Namii and Michael talk allllll day.

[@thelifeofjonnelleohtv3168]

your husband has everything I'm looking for in a husband that I thought didn't exist. so that gives me some kind of hope lol

[@vanillatrinity2519]

Now you wont be 😂 knowing what he really did and what kind of person he is 😂 🚩🚩🚩🚩

[@adriana_daria]

​@@vanillatrinity2519I would feel silly if I wrote a comment like this considering what's happened recently 😅😅

[@vanillatrinity2519]

@@adriana_daria I would too 😅

[@Crystalbomb321]

I would have been disowned. There wouldn't be any question about that.

[@Melmaegwen]

Lily G me too

[@SH-qf3id]

mastamind487 - yeah I think it is also a cultural and societal thing. Especially in the type of living environment and your own situation it can affect your decision of keeping or terminating your baby. Economical choices too, like money issues.

[@serapia1976]

Kry Kry ye I guess they're Koreans living in Canada

[@prometheuspredator7971]

Oh my. So very said that a parent or parents would disown their own child, due to a pregnancy. I find this to be so horrible. What about rejoicing and feeling very blessed about the upcoming birth of a precious little one. This was a blessing and miracle from God. I hope they have accepted your children and realize it was God's will for you to conceive. I mean it could have been something so much worse.

[@cmys001]

Galahad is a very interesting and unique name... never heard it before

[@AmberLF]

Reminds me of my parents. My parents met when my mom was 15 and my dad was 20 and then at 17 my mom got pregnant and had my sister and then my mom was 21 when she had me. Funnily enough, my sister was born in 1990 and I was born in 1994~ My parents are still together(my mom is 45 and dad is 50 now) so I have faith that these two will stay together too~~

[@kalbijjim]

Hi YLL, Wow that's very similar! I was born in 1990 too! and Nami 1995. Wow, they have been together for many years. :) Cheers, Mike

[@AmberLF]

Cheers to you too! Hope you two have many happy years together~ -Amber

[@melody22134]

I cried so hard watching this video, especially when michael started talking about the "mothers touch" with his mom holding his hand. I admire the two of you so much for the decisions you have made, I am so happy with all of my heart that the two of you turned what seemed to be so scary into such a blessing and I hope that God continues to bless your family everyday ^_^

[@destinydcp]

Have y'all done a video about Michael and his journey through university? It sounds like he has an amazing story to tell that would encourage others.

[@jessjms1181]

My parents are 5 years apart but they suit each other just like I think you two suit each other.

[@born-of-fire]

My parents are also 5 years apart! I’ve never thought anything was strange about it

[@unknown-sh1rq]

Jess jms while my parents are 9 years apart. My friend's parents are 14 years apart tho xD

[@jessjms1181]

He reminds me of my dad. :') he's seems like a good guy

[@hebbspark724]

Hello Jess, Thank you for taking the time to watch and for the compliment! Hebbs

[@cocoacoolness]

My mum became pregnant with me when she was 21, and she wasnt yet married. She did get married to my dad though. Now that mum is 40 she loves the fact that she had her kids early, seeing her older sister struggling with a toddler and a 5 year old.

[@yourelaxicook1958]

hahahaha

[@totorosan428]

your husband has such a kind soul. i hope you are both happy together for years to come. your family is so sweet. by the way nami, your look when you're staring off into space is so beautiful and model-esque. you're such a pretty girl !

[@malin943]

You guys seem perfect for each other. I love how much consideration you show each other, it's beautiful!

[@CindysJourneyy]

He's so calm. I love him for you. Congratulations on finding love and someone loving you for you and showed you a lot of love and support

[@quantumdelta123]

I could listen to your husband speaking the whole day. What a well spoken man. He'd make a great counselor or a therapist.

[@kalbijjim]

Hi Ksha, Thank you for your words of affirmation, it means a lot to me. Bless you, Mike

[@J_U_N]

You both have such nice speaking voices

[@catherineduong9241]

I really appreciate the honesty & vulnerability in this video. As a fellow believer, I believe it's super important for us to be able to talk about real incidents and issues we face in life, and how the Lord can still bring good from situations where we stray from Him, but at the very same time, we have to own our actions. Thank you for sharing!!

[@hebbspark724]

Hello Catherine! I agree with you! Thank you for sharing your thoughts! Hebbs

[@DelbertaW]

You two are so beautiful! My son and his girlfriend got pregnant when she was 18 and my son 21. He refused to get married but they stayed together for a while but my son wanted his freedom to play in his band and go after his dream. They are not together anymore but we have a good relationship with the mom and she had moved on which is good and we see my beautiful almost 10 yr old grandson often. No regrets...it is what it is and we all just live in love. Bless you all! 💗🙏🏼

[@graceloubassa3768]

Michael have a soothy voice and is very full of wisdom but just not him you too Nami. God really gifted you and your husband in life. I'm amazed by all the things that you have to go through and the things that your husband went through and God really helped your family and make you grow in more beautiful people's that you were ❤️❤️

[@feliciameow5419]

I like both of you. Michael, you spoke really well and were super honest. Namii, you are lovely. You both seem very mature and loving. I really like how open you are and I get nothing but good vibes from you both as people and as caring parents. :)

[@NameePark]

Thank you so much for your encouraging words and for watching and supporting us !!!!! It really means so much to us and are so happy that you are enjoying. We hope that we'll keep making content you enjoy Hillary !!!

[@jiminisabadassbitch4068]

I love how after doing the wrong thing, you chose to do the right things. I respect ya'll I hope you are both happy and healthy!

[@hebbspark724]

Hey there! Thanks for taking the time to watch our video. Your comment has been featured in our latest video here! kzbin.info/www/bejne/sIu6anyXirGNoqcm51s Take care, Hebbs

[@kathleenm9903]

My partner and I just watched this and are going through something similar at the moment. As we are a young couple about to have our child and have had so many hurdles to jump over in regards to age, culture , family and our future. I think you were really brave to endure it all and turn out so successful. Your husband's honesty about his experience helped my partner to feel better about the emotions hes feeling at the moment! Definitely such a great find this video. Keep up the great work!! x

[@starrynightmp3]

I truly love how Michael talks, he’s so mature and he definitely chooses just the right words.

[@pedromayorga]

Nami, you and your family are awesome... Would you make a video talking about your christian life and the influence that God has made in your lives? Regards!

[@NameePark]

aw thank you pedro ! we recently got a request for something similar ! we are considering it ^ ^

[@pedromayorga]

I hope to see it in the future... I'll stay tuned :)

[@NameePark]

aha thank you pedro !

[@Mothi9209]

Michael should definitely do some type of motivational speaking series or something on your channel! (ps. you look a lot like Bora from Sistar!)

[@NameePark]

;) ;)

[@kalbijjim]

Hello Aisha, Nami and I have been talking about this possibility, but we think it will be best if I can prepare myself to upload at least one video per week starting this month! Cheers, Mike

[@pader583]

Your guy's wording about this topic is just perfect.

[@NameePark]

+Pader Cha aw thank you so much !!! We're very encouraged and happy to hear that !!

[@angelnguyen6412]

Your husbands way of speaking makes me want to listen to each word LOL normally i zone out or get bored but damn! Hes good

[@kalbijjim]

Hello Angelina, wow that's a real encouragement. Thank you!!!!

[@afrenchieinaustralia]

Love how your hubby does explain things it feels as if he does his best for the viewers to understand things easily and clearly...I really do love that ^-^ When he said that in the Korean culture this is taboo to say I love you to your parents or children I recognized myself here since i'm half Asian and my mom was raised in a way where saying I love you or showing her feelings was the same as being weak and emotional...I never told my mom I love her too since I feel embarrassed to do so and I can understand this feeling when you did say that it's a culture shock for the westerners or the Europeans since I live in Europe (France). People tend to make fun of you or think you're a freak or strange cause you never say ily to each other when you should... I really do appreciate your videos ! I first discovered your channel tonight and even subscribed to it ^-^ You guys are like my relationship goal now as I'm dating a Japanese guy who's 2 years older than me living in Australia so we're in a long distance relationship and planning to meet and live together I hope this year hehe But for my part of the story I'm 27 years old and he's 29 and dun believe in marriage nor having children when I'm the opposite i want to get married and have 2 children and that's the only part where we disagree sadly I think this is because he was born in Japan and his dad was abusive and he abandoned him and his lil brother along with his mom when he was around 5 years old and moved to Australia after that without even speaking one word in English so I guess this is why he's against it like maybe he's scared to become the same as his dad or something ?...It really does hurts me because I wish I could persuade him that getting married and having children is important in a relationship and that it's a commitment too...But he did some improvements like he went from a huge NO-NO ! to a "we will see..." so I think maybe I still have a chance here...but still am scared that our couple doesn't work out since we dun share the same opinion...I'm really in love with him tho...i loved him since I met him online 10 years ago while i was 17 years old...he used to have a gf so I lost contact but then last year on March 2016 I found him on Facebook and were besties again and he broke up with his gf since a while ago and thts when he realized that he was in love with me too so we started dating...Now it's gonna be 1 year next month since we're together and we're like perfect never fight or anything even when like you , Nami I have trust issues with men like i question him and i'm scared to be cheated on even when he's not the cheater type...We're really close and we have a strong bond and I really do hope that one day our couple will end up being like yours cause you guys are like a model for me now ^-^ Sorry for the paragraph tho... :/

[@NameePark]

Aw thank you for taking your time to watch and leave such a vulnerable and open hearted comment!! I really appreciate you sharing your story and struggles as well. Let's keep working hard and do our best with everything. In a relationship, communication is everything !!!

[@afrenchieinaustralia]

***** I really do love your videos it makes me feel as if I wasn't alone and that someone out there is just the same as me and still succeeded in her life even when most people sees us as complicated or scary or strange :/ I'll keep on watching your videos for sure they're rly helpful. Thank you so much for taking your time to answer my comment ^-^ We really should help each other in our struggle seems like your community is really strong and supporting and I really like it ! Thank you for taking your precious time to read each comments your suscribers leave on your videos and answering em personally i'm really touched right now by the attention you gave me

[@kalbijjim]

Hello Audrey, Thank you for sharing your story. Nami and I have learned that as you progress through the relationship, you have to change together. Also, you will learn as you choose to love. Loving someone is quite the full-time job, and a huge learning and growing process. It is important to communicate and sharing not only feelings, but also your values and aspirations. Overtime, these things between the two of you should merge and you begin to share them. Friendship is the foundation to a strong relationship. Something very important is knowing each other enough to know each others downfalls, but having the willingness to still work through the relationship with the other. Blessings, Mike

[@thejollydiaries444]

I believe you and your husband are handling it well, Namii! You go girl!

[@celestialmorpho]

5 years apart isn't even much. I think people are mostly sensitive that the courting started young.

[@lucaminotheone]

Love your hubby voice, his calm. Touching story. Beautiful.

[@KellW2012]

i cant express how much i appreciate you guys. something so graceful about the two of you that is hopeful

[@kalbijjim]

Thank you for your insightful compliment. Hope is something we strive to exemplify. Blessings, Mike

[@maridunlop4593]

Great journey you've gone through. There's alot of prejudice towards teen pregnancy and you both did the right thing by accepting and taking responsibility. You get judged because of culture differences and some get judged due to religious beliefs. We had our first baby at 23, my parents and my inlaws were so happy. It was a much wanted pregnancy and we got engaged 4 months later. I was 26 when we had our second baby, still we didn't get married then at the age of 28 and 32 we got married. That same year we had our third and last baby. 11 years together and 5 years married. We are both lucky to have very supportive families and I'm the type who don't really care what people say, so we just did what we felt was right and its the best decision we've made. Having a baby is a blessing, 49% of the time kids are a headache, 51% are hugs and kisses 😂 I'm a working mom of 3 all under 10 years and right now I cannot wait for them to go back to school 😅

[@CannabisXCouture]

I got pregnant with my daughter when I was 20 which is still considered way too young by American standards. My parents took it even harder becuase I had only known the guy for 4 months. I'm happy to say she is a healthy 4 year old and I am happily married to her father. My dad actually told me at christmas this year that even though he didn't envision my life to be like this, he is really proud of me and all I've done for my family and myself. I know that fear of having to tell your parents...

[@Mohamedahmed331]

I just stumbled upon your channel and omg your husband talks so mature! It sounds like he really picked his words carefully when speaking it's like the more he speaks the more meaning there is to what he's saying. Amazing btw!

[@NameePark]

Hello Mohammed !! Michael has responded to your comment in this video !!! kzbin.info/www/bejne/oHrLkmqglpKDgbcm48s

[@k.a.7659]

I'm new to your channel, and i just love you guys❤️. The way you guy support each other, I will pray nothing but happiness for you guys ❤️❤️

[@NameePark]

Kiran Aslam thank you so much Kiran we are so encouraged !

[@k.a.7659]

NamiiCho 😀😀😀💖💖

[@MsTerriMae]

You guys are so refreshing! I was in a really droopy mood today but your energy has uplifted me! New sub!

[@hitomichan7]

Im chinese and i was raised in a conservative family so imagine if i got pregnant before marriage i would get disowned

[@NameePark]

+gasai_yuno999 I'm sure your family would also be humbled and still have love for you if they saw you as their child as more important than their conservativeness. Some people do get disowned though and my heart really breaks for those experiencing that kind of familial situation u_u

[@wafaabts2660]

as an Arab- Palestinian ( Muslim)girl, if this happen I think I will be dead for sure, I can't even imagine.

[@wafaabts2660]

as an Arab- Palestinian ( Muslim)girl, if this happen I think I will be dead for sure, I can't even imagine.

[@wafaabts2660]

+NamiiCho I'm happy for you and I hope that you will live a happy life and become stronger , God bless you ❤

[@unicornbertha797]

I just have to say, you are both so beautiful and sweet! Thank you for sharing your story and all the best to you and your lovely family :)

[@btsexoishipsohard2308]

dude this vid came up in my reccomendation and so i understand that shes more than 17 and they look so freaking young though, pretty and handsome

[@prometheuspredator7971]

You guy's are so cute together. What a precious couple you are and most definitely soul mates. God's plan was to bring you two together. God Bless you both, children, and family.

[@cinnamonpop890]

Omg your husband is such a faithful person and his words are super mature god has worked hard and gave y’all all the blessings that y’all deserve 😊

[@hebbspark724]

Thank you, Penelope!

[@dr.celiwereloaded6670]

wow you guys are so inspiring. I saw one video of you and i ended up watching 4 more at the same time.like i even forgot im actually studying for 3 exams this week :)... i love how God is the centre of your lives. May He continue giving you grace to be happy and supportive of each other

[@kh5073]

I love how honest and mature they both are. I am so glad I found your channel ❤

[@kalbijjim]

Hello K H, thank you for your kind encouragement. Blessings to you!

[@maolor1603]

I really wish Michael didn't see himself as a failure and that his mother didn't felt like it was her fault for his fault because it's not a fault. Michael may not have live up to this worldly standard BUT he has definitely grown to be such a kind, wonderful, good hearted person and that's the one thing most parents fail on

[@enilehcodramramlised8716]

I'm new to your channel and I'm glad you could share your story, your story gives me a little insight of what it might be like for a conservative Asian family if they were to have a teen pregnancy in their own family. my mom is a conservative Haitian Christian and she would totally put me six feet under if he were to find out that I was pregnant at your age or out of wedlock 😑but I have to say you're tough and I'm happy that you can get past that stage of telling your family.😊 I hope you and your family the best of luck.

[@NameePark]

+Enilehcodram Ramlised thank you for your comment and taking time to watch our video !! I'm really blessed in how gracious our families have been in this difficult time and we are so blessed we aren't in the same boat as those in far worse circumstances of being kicked out, abused, ostracized, and even more. Thank you for your encouragements and blessings, let us keep working hard together !!! 💞💞💞

[@KammyKlosst7a74y]

i came for to your channel for your gorgeous haircut, stayed for your sweet genuine unique story😭 and here to stay to support you💕🛡

[@kalbijjim]

Hi Phia, Thank you for your support! Cheers, Mike

[@rion4590]

When you're you're young, age gaps matter more. Once you're older, they don't matter as much :) You two seem perfectly happy now and I wish you the best of luck~

[@sehunswifevsmine7080]

I really don't think people should judge u guys u do what u want to do even if your young I'm half Korean and when I got pregnant at 16 before marriage I got lots of hater from people and in school so I am so happy to see my fellow Korean to do what they want to do ❤️

[@evagreen299]

You are such an inspiration to me!! Before I met my boyfriend I was miserable and wanting to die (long story short, I had a life similar to yours) and marriage has been on the table since day 1. You are both so eloquent and intelligent and you are one of the most beautiful women I have ever seen. Best of luck for your future

[@kalbijjim]

Hi Minimus, Thank you so much for your words of encouragement. Even our marriage right now we go through many times of difficulty in misunderstanding each other, offending each other, breaking trust, and failing. Our pursuit to continue to work together, forgive, and believe is a tough daily journey that we are learning by grace. Blessings to you as well, Mike

[@monsterkukie7678]

17:17 "If you thought you were anything before having a child, you realize you really weren't anything." It's okay, Michael. I already know I'm nothing. 😂

[@MissFanyhelpanimals]

I respect you two so much. I cried and got really emotional after hearing your husband's words.

[@kalbijjim]

Hi Tiffany, Thank you for your comment. Kind blessings, Mike

[@thereggieverse5886]

Hi Namii, I found your channel through Letitia's channel. Anyways, I know this is an old video but I think you guys are very brave to be so vulnerable talking about this, it's authentic power and I think that's awesome.

[@NameePark]

It's not too old !!! I'm so glad you found us ^ ^ Thank you so much for your kind words !! They mean a lot to us T____T

[@jeanettejoyce9263]

So much respect for the two of you. I'm happy with how happy you are with your decisions in life. God bless you and your family 💕

[@spike91919100]

First time watching one of your videos and now I'm hooked 😄. Your husband would make a great teacher or guidance counsellor he's so well spoken

[@kalbijjim]

Hello spike! Thanks for sharing! That's encouraging :)

[@rosesnewbeginning3547]

The way you speak is such an example of the wisdom faith and responsibility that you both have. I am so happy you speak open about the hardship hurdles you overcame. I hope it inspires and helps a lot of people.

[@NameePark]

than you so much for your encouraging and kind words T T we def need to keep working on continually being vulnerable for us to keep growing !!

[@rosesnewbeginning3547]

@@NameePark for me you and your husband teach me, to look at things differently and truly listen to how you percieve and translate obstacles into lessons. I sometimes(* ahum...often) forget to do that. And get stuck in my emotions. We are both Aries I think very fiery and rash but also very giving and honest.. and to see you who's 10 years younger engage life in such a mature way is truly inspiring.. Thank you for the way you think deeply about your content how you approach subjects and convey a message. Thank you honestly ty. 😊

[@pjscafe]

congrats, guys. Happy you guys took responsibility of your pregnancy and did the right thing and got married. good luck!!

[@zsanae2010]

My mom had me at 17 too n my dad was also 5 years older ...my dads side was more happy for them than my mothers side but eventually everyone was accepting n happy in a way

[@mearat.btsthepiedpiper.3250]

Life really has its ways of completing puzzles. You're one lucky woman. I wish you and your little family the best ❤

[@danielletirpkoff8191]

I am so glad that things worked out so well, for Nami, Michael, Galahad and Zeke! May God be with this Christian family!⛪🏠

[@aliceinwonderland42020]

That's true in germany we say ''I love you'' a lot sometimes not even because we love the person on a relationship base we also say it in a kind of friendship way like if you are really good friends with someone you say I love you often Sometimes even when someone brings you food you just say ''OMG thank you love you so much'' I guess sometimes we say it too often hahaha but we have two different ''I love you'''s because we have ''ich liebe dich'' it is similar to ''I love you'' and then we have ''ich habe dich lieb'' this kind is in between ''I like you'' and ''I love you''

[@kalbijjim]

Hello Alice, That's very interesting. Thank you for sharing! I wonder if is still true to the younger generation in Germany. Blessings, Michael

[@flechxdimple2229]

My mom was 16 when she gave birth my eldest brother. (My dad was 18 or 19 at the time) In my family, it wasn’t “frowned” upon, but actually everyone was excited. Well of course because either way she wasn’t going to get an abortion so my family was Finally accepting and took good care of her during that time. My father worked a lot and bought a house for them and everything. Though, my father isn’t a good man, he did support this and support my mother. my mom did finish high school (my family only had one wishing and it was for her to finish HS.) so she did, I sometime have a huge respect for teen parents (that are good parents) , a lot of ppl frown upon it (I mean it’s not the best thing but idk if ppl shouldn’t be so rude to someone’s own choice) it’s their life not yours. Anyways, I applaud both of you, you both seem like great parents ! You have my respect.

[@kalbijjim]

Wow that's great to hear! I hope all is well with you! Thank you for sharing. Kind blessings, Mike

[@Faithtasticness]

Haha when he said "take time to realize" I started to sing that song too hahahaha

[@mimichan1308]

Your husband is wise, things must've went easy for you during your pregnancies for you have such wise man by your side. Be greatfull.

[@kalbijjim]

Hello mrinmayee, thank you for your kind words. Nami has really whipped me up into maturity :)

[@mimichan1308]

mike park I'm really sorry if it sounds rude since it sounded like Nami would be nothing without you. I was just surprised because I always came across examples where only the mother would take the responsibility and there was no sign of the father. This is the first time I'm seeing a father taking such a big role rather than just running away. Ps- your boys are beautiful

[@NameePark]

Nooo I'm the one who is blessed and sharped by Michael !!!! Michael what are you saying !!!! 😂😂😂

[@mimichan1308]

NamiiCho oh no! Please don't blame Michael, I just wanted to say that I'm glad that you have a husband with a beautiful personality. Not only that, you have two beautiful children and a supporting audience (I'm glad to be one of them). Besides, I love watching your videos and the way you involve your whole family. ❤️ Ps- I use less exclamatory punctuation and emojis and therefore it sounds plain and dull but I really mean it.

[@bec3993]

Thank you for this raw and open testimony. :) Thank you Jesus for you both. Been such an incredible blessing.

[@sashytianna]

you guys are two beautiful people!! new subscriber !!

[@MissKIRARA]

Hi Miss Nami! I am glad you two have a successful family, and i understand how he feels when my parents dont show affection through words but action and help ( help as in preparation for your future) XD, i am happy you both ate happy, its those who are not fully sure when it does happen. And you both are actually out of highschool atleast 👌🏻 I support you Nami!!! Saranghaeyo unni!!

[@NameePark]

thank you akiraa for your encouraging and sweet words !! thank you thank you !!! we love you too !!!

[@rayatsu5826]

when you said that how asian raised that we didn't say i love you to each other, i cried. i finally felt that my family is not the only one. i just realized that i never hug , kiss or even said i love you to my parents but that doesn't mean that we don't love each other, it's just how asian raised. it's embarassing. i just ralized it now. thank you.

[@sxhawty]

this is such an inspiring video, may God bless you both. 😢💖

[@whaled-buffalo9640]

Wow, tough stuff. Glad you guys got through it and have gorgeous and cared-for sons! I am with traditional Khmer parents, and I know I would have been disowned. I am so scared of disappointing them that I physically would not be able to let this happen. I could not imagine what you guys had gone through; but glad you did.

[@sunvavachi]

I do not know how this got in my feed. I had to listen though as they are so mature, lovely voices and I can admire the strength these two had. Korean have similar family values to Indians so I can understand. I really admire you two and your both so well spoken!

[@o2jampoguiasdas]

Wow he is so calm. He can be a shrink

[@kalbijjim]

Lol!

[@Manisonlychannel]

I’m hooked to ur channel😫it’s the best I’ve always wanted to subscribe to a korean youtuber💖💖💖💖i love your videos

[@hebbspark724]

Hello Amaniela! Thanks for stopping by to watch & subscribe! Welcome to the nachofam~ I'm Nami's channel comment manager and moderator. Take care, Hebbs

[@katie4623]

I've never heard of the name Galahad before.

[@Kikovandeko]

He should be a counsellor or therapist so kind and soft... But in a good way. Refreshing in a man

[@kalbijjim]

Hello Kiki, thank you for your encouragement. I'm glad I could serve as a blessing in any way.

[@roseiyera]

Wow I really enjoyed watching this video, and its really great to see the two of you together right now, and you know you guyses story just goes to show that God will always make a way and that he never leaves us nor forsakes us because you guys were able to stand strong and go through all this at a young age but through Gods grace you were able to build the happy family you have today. I really enjoyed this video!!!

[@NameePark]

+Rose Iyera amen ! I agree 100% and everyday is even more blessings ! It's really amazing ☺

[@loriyang2528]

My husband is Korean, and we were 20 when we found out that we were pregnant in 2007. Telling his parent was tough, and I understand the pain you guys went through, especially in the Korean culture. I am not Korean but when I am around other Korean parents, who have kids that are my daughter's age. I get so many questions. I can feel they are already judging me.

[@Aileen0826s]

Growing up in a conservative Asian family myself, I can totally understand how difficult it must be for both of you to bring this up to your families. At the very least, he is a mature and trustworthy person and I can see him being a good father to the kids too. Wish you guys everlasting happiness =)

[@meluvsteddybear]

This is honestly such an inspiring story. Not that children should be getting pregnant at 17, but that maybe they can learn from your experience. I'm glad everything worked out for you and your husband. Things could have been so much worse and gone out of control. because you were a minor at the time. Im glad things turned out according to God's plan for you. You were blessed with a really good looking family!

[@prometheuspredator7971]

My momma's mother, my Maw Maw was married at 17 and my Papa was 22 years old. This was back in the 1940's.

[@itsyoursalvationyolo]

Namii you are so blessed. To hear how your husband has grown is so sweet and i wish you all the best in Jesus' name

[@s4turn86]

I'm not even going judge the age or anything, YOU GUYS ARE GOALS GOALS GOOOOAAALLLLSS!!!!!!

[@anothersignupyayyay]

Thank you for sharing this with us. You guys are brave and inspirational

[@thu-hang8415]

I am Vietnamese, born and living in Germany. I know how the asian culture is. And I think my first time of telling my mom that I love her, was when I moved out and missed her so much. We all developed and now we still don't talk about feelings. But at least we can give each other hugs.. after 20 years . German people don't get divorced just bcs they don't tell that they love each other haha. Funny. But sure. They tell quite often. Show intimacy in Publix, kissing, holding hands, crying in Public.. Thanks for your absolutely great, inspiring and honest video!!!

[@briannaseraphina]

very insightful at such young age.. ! great job...!

[@NameePark]

+brianna han thank you so much 😭💕💕💕