Kota - The City Of Shattered Dreams | Anuj Pachhel

How to cope with mental stress for NEET/JEE, and survive the rat race.
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00:00 His Story
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9:57 The Solution
14:39 The Future

[@AnujPachhel]

Hey, I hope this video helped you. Exams are not the end of your life, there is so much you have to achieve, never give up. 🔗bit.ly/3FJlsDB 👆Join @SB-NBTS 2.0 || Offline Test Series || Based on Latest NEET Pattern!📚 to boost your NEET Prep ✔ 📲 Use my code 'ANUJ' for 25% discount 🔥

[@Daisy12712]

I was waiting for your video❤

[@user-pu3wl7bx4j]

We all are so thankful for your videos and support...

[@Telling_me112]

Bhaiya any online test series, please reply me, I m 2024 aspirant,

[@studytouchup]

bhaiya ab tk kuch nhi kiya social media trap distracted tha bohot depressed hu please can you hellp kyaa 5 months mai ho payega

[@abdulrahaman0157]

Lifes more than an exam comrades. It gets tougher even in MBBS. Just hold on, do your best and if you dint make it, theres a whole other world waiting for you.

[@Mohamed_Rishan]

❤

[@sujyotsharma]

So true, I'd write NEET all day instead of studying pharmacology and embryology 💀. But then again, things do get hard for you and that's how you become stronger. Even if you don't make it, you become better than you were before.

[@adarshkumar34556]

it was i who was "jiddi" about going 2000 kms to kota....Parents trusted and then here i am wasting my time every day ..... i know this still i am wasting time ,money and the precious trust of my parents.... I am not depressed or something like that rather i am very disspointed with myself....

[@user-sk4wg7he3x]

​@@adarshkumar34556 koi ni you'll find your way. Just take it easy. Btw konsa drop hai?

[@abdulrahaman0157]

@@sujyotsharma Pharmacology can he made pretty easy. Embryology tho. Eww

[@vijayanandsharma1695]

Dr is more mature in thinking than his age Such genius should be included in framing education policies for future generations Hats off to this intern He is thinking for others happiness God bless you Sir

[@pranitapatil7548]

I am a neet-ug aspirant. I tried to k*ll myself three times last year (12th std). 2nd time my friends saw me with the knife. After talking to them i was fine for about a week but it all came back. 3rd time i literally cut the rope in our hostel that we use to dry clothes on. The only reason i am alive today is because i couldn't knot it tightly. I couldn't take it anymore but was also a coward and couldn't harm myself at all. So, i told my parents. They thought only telling them is what made me feel better and that i was alright now. But i wasnt. They took me home and i still had to study, but i wasnt able to give my best. I couldn't focus at all. From scoring above 600 in all mock tests in 11th std, i came down to 381 in neet, all because of depression. I took a drop this year because i eventually got better, and i wanted to give my best at least once so i dont regret anything in the future. In my house, i am always taunted about that phase. They definitely didnt understand my situation at all. I am better now. But those memories will haunt me forever.

[@Daisy12712]

The struggles faced by students in Kota are heart breaking. They need to realize that their well being is just as important as their academic success:(

[@balajibetkar]

Nice

[@darshanassx9183]

Nice anime

[@manju_bua_ka_chora]

not actually

[@sanjudevi7633]

*more* important

[@AnotherHumanBeingLol]

​@@darshanassx9183what's the sauce buddy 🗿🗿🗿

[@usernumber3000]

to all the juniors out here, i was a neet 2023 aspirant, i had a very similar story all of you can relate to, listen it gets very difficult to accept that you are not good enough to match that 0.1% of competition, some or the other time u will feel depressed no matter how much do you care about your marks, every single aspirant, the topper or the one who doesn't care has felt how much this exam asks for. You are bound to get sad, feel like dumb that is inevitable but people like dr. Anuj are out here to show the reality and help you out. He has helped me too , it is very easy for people to say chill maar yaar ho jayega but only you know what you feel. So sometimes it is okay to share what you feel because most people don't want to accept that they need help emotionally and that they are sad. So just be what u are and improve, even little steps make a huge diff. From your senior:)))

[@kalyanigautam2922]

thankyou 😊

[@anjalidhillon4978]

Thanks

[@_anime_kirei_]

thank you so much ...yesterday i literally cried for the same reason that i wont be able to fit into that thin selection line and how nobody will understand how i am feeling . bevause i am the only on in the family who is pursuing for medical field . i am jusr barely trying to cope with the stress burden and anxiety . so im happy seeing your comment that atleast people are there who went thru this feeling as me

[@usernumber3000]

@_anime_kirei_ it is very okay to feel the emotions that you think are not worth feeling for, i also am from a background where no one is a doctor, if i was able to do it, so can u. All the very best luck champ!!! And the future is always always better trust me:)))

[@_anime_kirei_]

@@usernumber3000 thank you soo much 🥺🥺

[@monicamishra.4559]

Kota either becomes a trauma or a good memory;depends on how you take the competition.I find my medical college more toxic than kota sometimes.

[@Suziii4747]

💯💯💯💯

[@Suziii4747]

Exactly it's like i can't survive within such toxic environment and my studies are seriously affected

[@monicamishra.4559]

@@Suziii4747 it's because, in kota , teachers keep us motivated, daily tests and classrooms discussions, friendships keep us oriented towards our goal; medical college is all about toxicity, competition, jealousy, betrayal and don't talk about teachers! They themselves don't know what they are coming to class for!!

[@Suziii4747]

@@monicamishra.4559 Exactly i was so good in studies man before I came to kota and now I don't even have time to think or regret.......i have to be here until I get my college degree ........Trust me at night i literally feel so scared and anxious ........I mean my college is in forest area so ......😔😑

[@Suziii4747]

And about betrayal o god I got betrayed by literally by those girls with whom i eat and all like back stabbing situation I was so hurt and cried a lot but yeah at the end I learned a lot since i came to kota........

[@Hehe-1334]

It’s not the mistake of the student or his parents or coaching It’s the atmosphere The atmosphere of A RAT RACE Were students compete with each other,some develop the strength but some don’t Few quit And others are just crushed down in this race,our society had made the situation in the students mind If he/she is capable of cracking such exam then only he can survive in this world or is the best But what about the students himself? Who cares? No one,at a certain point even parents just don’t care They want selection/good marks To showcase in front of fellow relatives/people But as a teenager there’s many more things than just this Competitive exam,A teenager’s mind is still growing and is capable of doing a wide variety of things but we just shrink our mind’s towards a single thing,and think it’s the only thing in world, The young energetic teenager sometimes is not able to persue his hobbies!

[@nayani8270]

Whenever I am going to tell about my depression I get sympathy.People say that I am sensitive person, even my parents too.That's why I am maintaining distance from each and everyone.I want a constant peace till the exam.But I am exhausting here😮‍💨

[@peacefulmayu]

As someone who has taken their first drop and is on antidepressants this vedio made me cry. I am thankful to creators like you anuj bhaiya. The stigma related to mental health still truely prevails here. I have not talked about my therapy with anyone except parents for the same reason.

[@iamthegreatest2189]

I am also on antidepressants, even after cracking this shit. Medicine sucks!!

[@Akashroy-hh6ei]

You are not alone I am on pills too.Neet took so much from my life.

[@icebar111]

You've got this, Nandita ❤ Try your level best but do not consider NEET/JEE to be the only gateway to a privileged life. Always have a backup and focus on your mental health. Much love, I hope you succeed 💗

[@ankitajena9143]

I hope you are doing good now.

[@achiver565]

​@@iamthegreatest2189why you are still depresse

[@ananyasingh509]

Only the pain of students they can understand who has already suffered with this problem

[@preksha731]

No dear it can be understood by your parents

[@kovid07]

This year was my first attempt in NEET I scored 665 in NEET & 175 in physics (AND 165 in rest three; Botany chemistry zoology) I just love to study physics and math and I'll always love it. Like i could have easily became a govt. Phy or math professor and loved teaching it to different kinds of student. ❤ But still I opted for NEET and not JEE or teaching because i always wanted myself to become a *DOCTOR* not an engineer. So just think if you actually want to become a doctor or not and then prepare Don't waste years on repeating the same old thing (cause really it's just an entrance to MBBS so offcourse now i can tell you syllabus of NEET is nothing when compared to what we have to study in MBBS). Also people who are just kind of scared from phy i can tell you that scoring good in phy can just assure you 25% marks so please focus more on chemistry and biology (cause I've seen people who initially are good in chem and bio scoring less in the the final exam because during preparation they were so much stressed to make their phy strong which was not even required because questions of physics in NEET are of moderate level) Study every subject, make your weak points strong but dont spend unnecessary time in anything which is not asked in NEET. And please do have some life outside NEET prep it will boost your mood and allow you to study well. ❤

[@metturakesh9452]

hi can u share your insta id i will tal to u im aneet aspirant tho

[@kovid07]

@saanvisharma18 || NCERT || The Queen of NEET You need just NCERT for every subject to understand the concepts (some times a good teacher too) and to clear NEET you need to practice mcqs based on NCERT you may find them in your coaching material and if you don't have a coaching you can find them online (some mcq book are also available to buy but I'd recommend to study NCERT well first and then to solve the mcqs cause I've seen people buying MTG fingertips and not even using it like I never purchased any MCQ book my coaching provided me the questions in their modules and I solved them and found them sufficient. The reason to solve MCQ is simple, see if you understand a topic well you will be able to solve questions from it but for the first time it would be time consuming to figure out how to solve a particular question and if have already solved that type of questions it would take less time to solve them in NEET So it is necessary to solve every "type" of question but not to solve the "hardest" question to clear NEET 🤝 @kovid_sahu is my Instagram you can contact me there

[@Telling_me112]

Bhaiya I m 2024 aspirant, nd I want your suggestions regarding studies

[@aarushidwivedi9716]

Nice advice 😊

[@ravisahu8577]

I liked yhr comment so much❤ Salute to yhr way of thinking😊

[@Hampi__Jyothi]

Hi Anuj sir... Hope we will soon become 1 million strong family... I'm glad that I had grown up with u since u were in 2nd year ...

[@Anita-hd8de]

Thanks a lot bhaiya for addressing Kota.. i myself born and bought up in Kota and recently preparing for neet and I m gonna appear for neet 2024 .. students are just ending their lives this is really heartbreaking... I can't express my gratitude to you for addressing this ❤❤

[@randomeditsbyraghava]

nobody on internet talking about this hits hard there are many students suci*des not only in kota which are due to family pressure and study pressure ends with a suicide note was very very sad to hear as a student u addressed this topic thank u

[@Xyzabcd392]

I Am currently in grade 11th studying at Narayana . I am not in the top batch where extra care is given for neet aspirants but starting days i used to really feel bad for not being in that batch ,for not scoring well in mock tests i was really depressed now after listening to my seniors and friends advices I have made my decision to not worry about my marks and to just work hard . and one more thing i would like to tell here is that people just don't waste your money on these coaching institutions like narayana and chaitanya you can prepare yourself a lot more better than these institutions prepare you.

[@user-xz6fs6pv8w]

YES WHICH BRANCH ?

[@wetoocandoit]

Same story dude even i am from Narayana and the management are just really greedy people. Even the teachers think that you are not worth it if u arent in tht top batch . Its best to not think about it and just do better by urself

[@amiiii.13]

Mee too same situation same coaching...i honestly dont care about their opinions anymore(they keep saying prep for boards u cant do neet anyways)...actually thanks to their words i started preparing double harder...just prepare in silence and let success make noise🎉 we can do it guyss!! Ps- i was in top batch till last month where only 5-6 toppers get attention and we rest(15ppl) were treated as statues.. now they separated us again where its a bigger batch but atleast we get more personal attention becos normally in previous class those toppers would always answer even before we could try ourselves...tbh there isnt any difference ..at the end its just ur preparation and dedication..u got thiss!

[@wetoocandoit]

@@amiiii.13 the toppers answering part is so true its cause they have all done foundation already before and everyone in our model A batch had done foundation . And even they were telling us too to focus on boards .one of the Main drawback of narayana is there 9 hours of class which is too much.

[@amiiii.13]

@@wetoocandoit exactly! They dont give imp to self study and when we take holidays for self study they scold us saying low attendence students wont be allowed to attempt boards.. i already have over 85% attendence where board needs 75%😶 Lets not waste our time arguing about ppl who never cared..rather give that time to read ncert or solve 4/5 sums🙃

[@dbsdeb]

Currently a 3rd Part 1 MBBS Student at GMC Purulia, WB... I have been to this place... For 3 years... I have tasted failure... Have given tests which were too bad , have been down , depressed and even questioned my abilities.... But life gives you chances , at the same time it's important to get good people around you , whom you can be friends with even knowing that you won't be able to meet you ever in life.... Have been an average student all my life , still I am... But I feel if you believe in yourself, you can make your life a little better and get hope to succeed in life in every aspect or the other....

[@zedal46]

6 months into the preparation, scoring 360-400marks right now. I was feeling really hopeless. Thank you, Dr Anuj. Really needed to hear this.

[@rishanSOS]

watching this was the most relatable thing ever, being a student in AL**N kota, the topics covered in this video are very very precise and accurate, the emotions we have to go through as aspirants are very difficult to cope up with. Falling marks, better performing peers, career stress and what not, I am an srg student with whom people have very high hopes and the stress this "hope factor" is giving me and many others are immeasurable. thank you for making this video, anuj you are the best

[@abhinavjha2117]

I'm also in srg, you're in nurture or enthuse? And landmark city?

[@rishanSOS]

​@@abhinavjha2117nurture, sammunnat building jawahar nagar

[@vaishnav1403]

I was also in SRG batch and somehow I was able to cope my pressure ,so I got a Government Medical college

[@paruldwivedi281]

The real video everyone needs to watch. Sahi kaha aapne mental health is most important, I was overthinking about something since last 2 months and its really tough no matter how much u ignore it, u will be stuck, and that's when u need someone to talk about it and just let it out, record kro likho but just let it out💙

[@adishakti7293]

The way he addressed each and every problem were so real like he really connect to my feelings....thanks for talking about this. A humble junior

[@Dhanyatha-vm5eo]

Even I am in depression but my parents, boyfriend didn't took very seriously. No one understand me... Indians people actually should change.. They should listen to their loved ones

[@shivanshtiwari9633]

date - 6/11/2023 yep from the very first day from class 11th has been very tough i didnt attened any offiline couching and i am a dummy student my health didnt support me to go to kota or offline couching in my city so i decided to start my prep from my home only as the year began i lost contact from my school friends as they were too busy in studying days went on but i never scored 00+ in my any test ... i was so isolated and felt deprerssed cuz at the same time i am fighting with a dieases which has not cure but surgery i cant go for surgery or my one year of prep will be wasted anyways i didnt left my prerp , somehow i managed to study i endukged myself to some habbits like excercise and playing flute , piano etc i spend most of my day in doing this stuff studying or with my parents .. :)

[@Achiver2815]

When i was at kota i was builled because i belong to reservation category they just went their frustration on me i just dont react but i am also affected i dont want to depend on reservation for my selection thats my i went to kota but still i have to go through all this at last inspite of having reservation i didn't get into any medical colleges 🙂that dayd still haunt me there were many instances where i decided ......to quit but i didn't give up i didn't get into any colleges but still my parents didn't lose me even my own family members and relatives laugh at me mock me make fun of my parents that they just wasted money on me still I handled everything very positively still I am not alone there my school frnds are always there because I am a topper of my school but i didn't get into college inspite of having reservation this facts are enough for me to do something but i didn't..

[@prateeksejwar9756]

From seeing your video in 11th class to seeing your video in first year MBBS, I followed you and now also going to follow you for next 5 years 🌠

[@MhdHarris]

Sir as a doctor you're addressing every things not only medically but academically. Proud to have a mentor like you sir ❤❤❤ thanks bhaiya ❤

[@ganesanpremkumar6410]

The only word that stops a student to speak about how they feel is "Hope",that people have around you.But in reality the fear of dissapointing ur parents hope is more than the fear of failures😢.I think students are not afraid to fail and face the world but just a hope from someone u love the most brings u down than anything.but guys stay storng 🙏u are creating ur own reality and im sure u are gonna win one or the other way,just give time some time to heal☺️

[@FakeidId-iu1jk]

Thank you Anuj sir for providing this comment section to open our heart . I am a neet failure my friends are taking drop and I am very very very confused in life regarding what to do in life their is extreme peer pressure, I stop meeting people coz I don't have courage to handle them to face them to answer their question , and also people create this thing like 'itne marks ho tohi repeat krna chahiye ' I am really really confused and frustrated too but can't say anything at home coz if I say something that I am not feeling well I am quite feeling like depressed then though my parents are extremely supportive but I know they gonna ab toh Aisa lagega hi pehele padha nhi ...aree but everyone around me use to compare me with my sibling , my sibling do academically very well and that build a peer pressure on me and still remember during my preparation days my mom after seeing my mock test result and that was around 400, 450 or 350 something and my mom asked me a question 'itne marks mai konsa clg milta hai??? I hung my down and say nothing and she started asking agr neet nhi nikla toh kya? I was quite at that time but she constantly asking what then and I said in my mind 'sucide' I know it's not the way to take it but I literally not getting any idea what to do if not clear but thankfully they support me. Whenever I told my plans to anyone they all make a fun of it , it's not our cup of tea see for a well settle career but how one can figure out their whole life at the 18-19 year of age . I know doctor have great respect but ye kya baat hai joh log neet clear nhi kr pate woh kuch Kam k nhi hai see their efforts yaar see their other talent kyu unko izzat nhi di jati joh log fail hote hai log unko aisi najar se kyu dekhte hai bhai . Age life hai woh bhi krlenge kuch na kuch . Why u judge them from the marks they scored. What I write till now I don't know but I pour all the clutter which I had hold in my mind ...I feel more relax yes I know I can do the same on my notebook also but here I feel like I am talking to Anuj sir . Thank u sir

[@KavyaMani-oq2hg]

Hey who evr u are u will be just fine trust me I am literally in the exact same situation as urs don't worry

[@letsstaretogether4791]

Hello, I hope you are feeling well now. I am neet partial dropper, I am doing bsc course while preparing for neet. My parents are also very supportive of me and they were the ones who suggested me the idea of doing bsc. Please don't undermine this degree as you can only become a teacher from this. This is all bull crap, you can go ahead in these studies and pursue a research career which is also respectable, booming and innovative! If you don't feel like doing neet, do talk to your parents about your fading passion for mbbs and discuss this bsc course (if you do take then go for programme one and not the hons as after programme degree you can easily go to foreign countries for further studies) And if you still want to give neet then prepare befikar as this is not your final destiny Please take care of yourself and discuss more with your parents, even if they make fun of you, you should. Say, "I am serious about this, please consider my opinion" discussing things makes you less depressed. Another my personal experience from this partial drop is I am getting in better rhythm of studies and meeting new people so it is kind of refreshing.

[@theartisticsoul309]

Thank You Anuj Sir For addressing this topic ! We should realize that this isn't the end but a lot more to come in liFe Its better the students realize this as earliest

[@AnujPachhel]

Exactly!

[@jellystars6575]

​@@AnujPachhelsir wanna know about if it happens to u sometimes u feel like too much and giving up ...like there is so much to do .....during ur neet or mbbs journey... How it was for u coz for me ur the only one I see as kinda ideal boy. . enjoying whatever comes in his way ...like always receiving the output as expected......please do reply ❤❤✨✨

[@navyamullapalem2828]

Happy that you spoke about this. It is very heart breaking to hear such news frequently. Even i have been in such situation and also had negative thoughts in my mind. I made through it and I am successfully into a med school because of my parents and friends with whom I was able to share all my problems and they have been my support systems❤. What anuj bro said is 100 percent true, I request u all to open your hearts and speak to someone who can listen to u instead of overthinking and taking bad decisions. Everything is gonna be alright. Be confident and believe in yourself. All the best juniors❤

[@Shriii_10]

Thankyou so much bhaiya, as a neet aspirant, you're me mentor & inspiration! Seeing you doing a lot of hardwork, motivates me to give my best & work hard , thanks a lot bhaiya for everything! ❤

[@Tanishkapatel30]

Great bhaiya..... Thanks for this video and motivation..... Its my 2nd drop for neet... Studying very hard this year really jitna ho sakta hai utna karne ka try kr rhi hu aur next year probably ho jaega... Ab pata chal rha hai ki agar phone ko side rakh ke kitna time milta hai padhne me... Really there is so much time to study... When I was in 12th class maine neet ka padha hi nahi tha and I scored very less. In my 1st drop I went to kota aur aapne jo bhi kuch kaha vo sab truth hai kota ka... I was doing so good in my inial days in kota but at the end i started to waste my time aur time kab chala gaya aur exam aa gaya kuch pata hi nahi chala... And I decided that this year I will prepare from home and I will crack exam. I just wanted to say that agar kota ja rahe ho to dost banao hi mat aur starting se padhte raho, consistent raho, aur apne aap ko kisise compare mat karo. Ye video bohot jaruri tha un students ke liye jo kota mai akela feel kr rahe hai. Same chiz I also felt when I was in kota. And suicide is not at all the solution. Life is very short, love yourself, give your 100% ❤❤❤❤

[@Shinx0000]

Thank you so much brother , this helped a lot to distract me from suicidal thoughts , when I score 580 or 570+ .........there is always many people competing and scoring lot better than me ,teasing on making silly mistakes etc ......

[@horny_daddy69]

Anuj bhaiya>>>>>>>>>>> arynraj, amntilk, or any other youtuber who just 😂 makes videos like can u crack neet in 2dayz/7dayz 😂😂

[@tanvix6552]

💫🎉 Do you think the age (maturity) and the exam teparament needed to crack neet is little mismatched? Because I'm a dropper and the way I think today , I never used to think in my 1st attempt , may be your coaching teachers help you to build that temperament , but still lots of people remain unknown about this😐

[@cherry9475]

don’t know about the mismatched pattern but this maturity thing is right

[@user-ec9pl6tn7p]

So true I too felt that !!

[@niravlogzz9622]

Trueeeeeee💯

[@pragatimyogenic]

Hye Dr.bhaiyq I was exactly in the situation of losing hope as well gaining hope.this vid was like beta come here here I am your big brother to help you out🥹bhaiya I really wanted to see you in real person once after I clear NEET.loads of love From your choti behan from a distant land❤

[@nikitha5001]

Yes dear juniors. Life is more than just an exam. Take care of your mental health. I studied in a competitive environment for my ug preparation. I overexerted myself actually in my first year that I just kind of went into such a state like not depression not laziness. Depression can also show up as laziness. I used to sleep to clear off my mind, never had a clear routine then. Dear friends, at the end of the day, it you who has to study. Please take a break whenever you feel it is needed. Please get your vitamin D levels checked. Try meditation. Hope it helps!!

[@Preeti-ff5yg]

Thank for this! I'm literally messing up these days...now realized that its actually not being lazy but depressed coz shyad i am trying too hard on myself

[@dhivyadharshini2004]

thank u

[@kirthikka2700]

Being a mbbs student I can assure you that there are lot more things better than mbbs.. This society has made you believe that doctors are talented .. Yes we Are but there are lot more people talented than us.. Doctors are not god.. It's just a profession just like other.. Dont ever think of sacrificing your precious life for this... You will succeed in any field, if you really have passion for it.. If Abdul kalam has commited suicide just becoz he cant clear neet xm, we would have missed a great scientist - ISRO wouldn't have been improved this much.. Éveryone has a purpose... Nature has a special plan for éveryone... Wait patiently

[@teeksha1081]

Your comment is very deep in itself...thanks for motivating ...😊

[@kirthikka2700]

@@teeksha1081 you're welcome.. 🥰.. It means a lot.

[@metturakesh9452]

so can u share your insta id i like your words ima neet aspirant im agirl im adropper

[@teeksha1081]

@@kirthikka2700 🤗glad you liked ir

[@priya_sharma0507]

You r truly an amazing soul bhaiya❤ God bless u loads of more strength and perseverance😊 All the very best for ur neet pg exam.. I'm sure u will rock it too❤

[@tanujanegi8300]

I'm struggling with ADHD and anxiety and it's my third drop year . No matter how much my parents support me no matter how positive I am but societal judgement shatter everything

[@ChackoMash007]

Are you medicated

[@tanujanegi8300]

@@ChackoMash007 yep I'm on medication from last 3 months Thanks for asking

[@ChackoMash007]

@@tanujanegi8300 it will take few tries to get the ideal dose, I have ADHD too, it's extremely difficult but with proper help and mindset every thing is possible. There are good discussion pages on reddit, very helpful. Good luck 🤞

[@30zaibaattarxe43]

Thank you bhaiya.. These months of November, December are going to be hard..i needed this video during this time of my preparation...Your videos surely helps...!

[@user-ec9pl6tn7p]

Yeah i failed my neet 2023, and started preparing again and joined the famous online coaching, from 6 months i barely able to complete 15 chapters cause idk because coaching maybe isn't my cup of tea , because seeing that much detailed lectures made me bored so i started self study another 6months will be in my hand ! So in these 6months i went through so much like self doubts, family pressure , depression, eventually i got out of it which is a good thing ! Last mai ye bolna chahtha hun ki tum KZbin se bhi padh sakte koi batch ki zarurat nhi hai ye sab bawaal bana ke rakha hai self study is more important. That is what im doing now. Last attempt hai neet ka iss bar hoya toh acchi baat hai Agar nhi hua toh bhi acchi baat hai kyunki mujhe iss drop year mai kaafi kuch sikne ko mil rha hai! ❤

[@AdityaRaj-bk3yw]

We had no test for 1 month in kota and suddenly announced 3 tests in another month , i took the test but it was not up to the mark ‼️

[@indukumari3527]

You are always a big brother to me listening to your words always feel happy. Thank you for all .

[@balamanigoud2455]

Thank you for your excellent motivational videos....😊

[@pragsisalilextra]

This video is so important. Thank you anuj bhaiya for this video. hoping it gets the reach it needs:))

[@shivanikhandelwal675]

Salute to anuj bhaiya for making this video...jo chiz har student apni tyari ke time face krta hai unko samjha or solution btaya... attitude matters than knowledge.... Thankyou bhaiya

[@jmly9194]

I really appreciate you bringing this up bhaiya. Outside of kota it's all about the internet memes & humour about kota but it's actually more that than in here. There's so many changes being employed here, still everyday's a new start for someone & for someone it's an end. I hope we all come out of this tough phase & just live well, I hope the lives lost rest in peace & I hope the parents who lost their child get peace someday in their lives.

[@k.charitachowdary1130]

Wah... What a video sir... Finally someone talked about the scam we've been through

[@venusstudy9]

THANK U FOR SHARING YOUR KNOWLEDGE AND THANKS FOR YOUR SUPPORT ALSO

[@hafiz9319]

a great message!👏

[@ShravaniSalunke-vw3sy]

I am getting marks in range of 340-350 every time i am trying my best to increase it but it cannot mean i am just thinking what will happen in neet and when exam finishes and i come to hostel i check paper all my mistakes are just 50/50

[@Mounika982]

Awesome content brother. THANK YOU FOR UR content 🎉 lots of love from Hyderabad❤

[@salroomawiya]

Currently in kota and its so relatable scoring low to descrimination from teachers to be sensitive to manage everything thankyou

[@Vishall1287]

Thank you so much Anuj sir ❤❤❤...so I'm going to explain my condition... I'm a neet dropper...it is common for all the students to think whether we will succeed or not...same is with me...but I overthink so much that sometimes I think it is better to end my life... I have tried it several times..but while tying the Hangman's knot I suddenly remember my loved ones...so I stop every time....my condition is miserable... I'm unable to tell my parents about my condition neither I have anyone whom I can talk to and explain... sometimes I overthink so much that I began thinking about my death... I'm not a dull student but this condition has made me so weak that I'm unable to focus on my studies... whenever I open my book to study I'm able to focus only for 5 minutes but after that I lost somewhere thinking about random things... I'm trying very hard to come out of it but everytime I fail...but thankyou so much Anuj sir after watching this video I'm feeling better now....

[@tanishkamoon9555]

Bro...!!! You are awesome as always. Loads of Love❤️🔥✨🤩🤩🤩🔥

[@ronoroazoro8713]

I am a 12th student, Like I am an above average student(atleast till now). I scored above 95 in my whole school life and tbh its nothing that special. I am preparing for neet but didn't have proper guidance. Recently gave AIATS and scored 344. Never felt like dying because muje apni kaamchoriya pata h (ofcourse I dont have any friends, I dont go to school, I dont even go out, my family is toxic - but i dont care because isolation is precious. there is no one to care about other than yourself). joining a library from tomorrow, going to work my a** off and get atleast above 580 marks. Even If I don't, I would blame it ofcourse on myself and keep trying. Because """" trying and failing is better than not even trying:""". I just don't over pressurize myself. If my mind says it needs sleep I say ok. Just don't be too strict on yourself. Treat yourself like you would do to your lil sibling. advice yourself like you need to advice your small sibling or junior. (ofc u wont say curse yourself get depressed and stop studying by taking more than normal pressure) I do get sad and feel low time to time more than usual but that excites me. It reminds me how great the goal is which i am running for. How great is the competition iam competing for. This life is such an adventure. These hard years are just an example of thrill we are going to experience. enjoy the thrill of this amazing ride call life heheh. peace. Keep working hard.

[@deepanshisubba4619]

Late bloomers still bloom's It's never to Late to start

[@user-cd3kx4gs5y]

Thank you so much for inspiring me, recently I have been too hard on myself for scoring low on mock tests and was constantly comparing myself with others. PS All the best to you.

[@priiiiyayadav]

👏🏻👏🏻 can feel u friend

[@hermionegranger7041]

Proud of you buddy

[@ParnikaBhardwaj]

This video is so comforting❤️❤️. It felt like the best therapy session ever ❤️ Thank u so much for this video I am very sure it will help a lot of students like me 😊

[@shakirsayar]

I may be late to comment but this is what shows the actual picture of the present scenario that is going on. Hats off to you man, this is the one channel I've never regretted following! Much love! ❤️

[@parshviagrawal8363]

Thanku bhaiya ....this is one of the most sensitive topic which no.one wants to pick for us for students who are currently studying in kota .. Thanku bhaiya .😊

[@prachisingh-pf9bm]

Thank you for making videos on such topics!

[@adityamohire2421]

Yet another wonderful video by anuj sir which had the words that any neet aspirant could relate with and understand. Great work!

[@tarunkumar.starunkumar.s1300]

I have seen your many videos but in this video your concern to students has touched me emotionally bro ❤

[@soumyapandey5566]

Bhaiya the things you said is so true ..in coaching classes the syllabus moves with its own pace and if an student first time experienceing everything is not able to analyse on time ki how they are teaching, how i have to cover the syllabus and everything, his/hers syllabus starts to get behind and then there's are backlogs and everthing. Next level pressure i mean.

[@_dalvivijaya01]

Good morning Anuj Sir 🌞 Always feeling thankful for giving the positive morning ❤️

[@dr.rajshreemandhare8289]

Hii Anuj, i have seen u writing ur final year mbbs exam at igmc nagpur as ur invigilator..couldn't talk at that time..but i like the topics u take for ur videos..Glad u talked on this topic..

[@sunandapaswan2149]

Thank you ❤️❤️ for such an explanation to every situation 💝 It's ok❤️❤️👍👍 It's ok ❤️

[@majormirror]

The video was like a warm hug, i felt the same things when i was preparing for JEE❤,thanks bhaiyan

[@deep.inmind]

Thank thank you so much..... I feel so good and relived after watching this video. A heartfelt thank you bhaiya!

[@maysha186]

Wonderful sunday..🎉

[@Preeti-ff5yg]

This is the video everystudent every aspirant must listen❤ Idk bhaiya me chota sa thank you kehkr iski keemat ko kam nhi krna chahti this...this is precious+epic sachme ....this can bring someone out of the black days which they went in just few weeks ago if it can enlighten me it will to other people too bs shyad dhyaan se shaant hokr sun na hi pde... mujhe shyad is ki kaafi jarurat thi specifically the last parts of video ...was trying too hard and being tough on myself for not being able to study Thank you for being there for us 💫

[@nihi-thelittleprincess3420]

Hi sir You inspire me so much Thank you 🙏🏻

[@_anime_kirei_]

thank you for making a content about such sensitive things . and raising awareness about it ❤

[@natashasultana5407]

Listening 'Beta' from Anuj bhaiya give me goosebumps, bhaiya you are the best ❤

[@AnshuKumari-nq9ex]

Thank you so much dr.anuj bhaiya ❤️❤️

[@okayy.tariii]

Tysm for this ❤ really needed to hear it 🥺

[@madhurisgarden3150]

The video came at the very required time...thankyou soo much bhaiya congrats you saved a smile from fading away

[@detonator7163]

Thankyou sir

[@fatimashaikh4318]

Thank you so much sir I m 1st year B.A.M.S student Sir you inspired me alot your videos keeps me motivating ✨️ and makes my day 😊 I feel so gratefull that i m part this family ❤

[@user-ey9jr2lr5m]

There must be a special feature on this channel so that we could like the video not only once but many times as we wished. Best motivating channel ever seen😊

[@tgpriksha]

Started to watch❤❤❤ Luv u anuj 😊

[@hana7404]

As someone who has bio science in 12 and now a 2nd year bsc zoo student..i often get to hear that ohh tumse nahi hua hoga na neet kitne attempts diye the ?? But noo i never opt for neet i fought with my parents that i dont want to give neet don't want to go kota i want to be a teacher even if i become a teacher of nursery classes i would be happy cause that would be my dream that i have achieved and what if i chose neet and couldn't able to pass after 5 attempts also at that point i know everyone around will blame me for my failure and they still blame me for not choosing a dream to become a doctor or they even say" kar he nhi pati isliye to nhi diya itni himmat kaha " so it's fine either way they gona call me a failure atleast I'll be able to become something that i want to be ..i still cry by there world am still afraid that in future would I'll become something and I'm still working hard but some where in my heart i pretty happy also

[@spencer-rb4jo11]

This is why i like anuj Bhai ❤he is truly a big brother for all😊 love from kerala🏞️

[@VaisnaviReddy]

You inspire me a lot sir 😊

[@anushkadas2572]

I am a first year neet dropper. I enrolled to Aakash offline classses in end of may to prepare for neet. The first 3 tests that i took there, i scored nearly 600 or 600+ scores. But in my 4th test my marks went down horribly. Then we had our first AIATS, for which i had worked hard a lot. But again I scored just 530. I lost almost 70 marks in simple addition, subtraction, multiplication and division. I am very depressed. The test was on 5th November and thus Wednesday, 15th November I have another ft for which i am hella unprepared. I don't even know if I will be able score 400 marks. I am feeling very depressed right now and watching this video bawling my eyes out. I have understanding parents but the fact they are working so hard for me and I am just disappointing them makes me feel guilty. I don't know what to do. I seriously feel lost.

[@thangasanthosh7711]

Bro don't worry Even at beginning of my journey I never didn't even do 1 physics question for first 4 months I feared and at beginning I started only by doing sums by seeing solutions but slowly and steadily I improved and got 637 marks in first attempt and 150 in physics Just don't worry and don't giveup

[@keshavnatani2118]

Simply talk to your parents about this... You will definitely find a good answer to this question than anyone can give.. I did the same.. And today it's one of the best thing I had done in my neet journey

[@Stacy_xox]

Regular visitor to his channel💖💗 love you Dr. Anuj pachhel🩺.... Love from arunachal pradesh 🙇🍓💞💞💞💞

[@faz3ff908]

Studying too much, you will be bullied Studying less, you will be bullied. It hits im in medicle college and in here its at peak

[@shinchan-telugu135]

Sunday is incomplete with your motivational voice sir…! Thank you for your videos…! ❤

[@EktaSahu07]

I just want to say thank you ❤ and literally want to hug you for understanding us so much 🤗 ur videos literally made my day keep going👍

[@userdied7220]

Thank you❤

[@harshadaraut4780]

Thank u Anuj bhaiya ....was very essential video for all the neet or any competitive exam aspirants .

[@UzmaKhan-qz7ul]

Your video makes my day❤ Thankyou so much bhaiyya❤😊

[@biswajitnayak5450]

Thank you so much sir❤

[@lavanyadeotale1614]

Thankyou Bhaiya for letting us express our feelings here.. being a 12th grader and living far away from home is just so difficult for me not for me but it's relatable for many .. Sometimes it's so confusing and it just make me so depressed thinking about how my life will be further belonging from a lower middle class family with high expectations of all its literally full of pressure that's just making me self doubts and making me weak it makes me really think that do I study in a proper way can I get a good college what would be my life without it ..? It really is so confusing for me I really wanna get out of this get rid of this but I don't know how to .

[@hermionegranger7041]

I can totally understand your emotions. Even I went through those. But trust the process. Your future self will be so proud of you that you didn't gave up even when the situation became so tough for you. Whenever you want to share something you always have us. Just don't go through the pain alone.

[@ShravaniWanjari]

Hello Dr anuj ❤

[@Shadow_of_Binita]

This is what I totally need today ❤thank you Anuj 🎉

[@user-dh1md7ju9x]

I have been watching your videos since 2 years and it has been such a motivational boost for me, even though i'm a jee aspirant (currently in 12th). Continue motivating us on studies and educating on various topics. All the best for your life.......

[@shreya8054]

The best part of the video which I liked.....is that kota is for someone who is mentally tough. Thank u for this video. It was amazing

[@pallerlasudheer5219]

Waiting for ur video🎉🎉

[@prachisharma224]

Thank you bhaiya. Your words are like magic its actually helps me to change my mind set i really give you a THANKS from the bottom of my heart even though i'm also preparing for Neet. I really appreciate your hard work and your motivation gives another level of hope ....