My Love Hate Relationship With Medical Field | Dr. Anuj Pachhel

[@ParthGoyal]

Really a great video. It feels really old, I am going to complete final yr and still 1 yr of mbbs is left. Mann… after neet ug + mbbs, most people come at the age of 24-25, and due to heavy academics during mbbs, they don’t have much options in life left apart from pg!

[@sakshichaudhary8219]

Bhaiya u are lucky u cracked it in first attempt 🎉. 😂imagine situation of dropper.

[@NELSE-n3h]

why what is wrong with them? @@sakshichaudhary8219

[@suryanathyadav4545]

toh har video mein doctor life ki phooljhariyyaan kaahe dikhate ho ladki ke chakkr mein sbse achha field medical ko hi bana deta hai

[@rifleplayz660]

If dogla had a face

[@improvingin2025]

majority of the students like me just indirectly start loving PCB just because they hate maths. they think they have a passion inside for becoming doctor but NO thats just happens because their families and surroundings start encouraging them as future doctor.

[@venkateshr7560]

It's 100%correct

[@GoodMorning-si6lr]

Yes true ❤

[@me.legend2555]

So true' 😮😢

[@me.legend2555]

@Kiajust so what you are doing now

[@AyantikaS.]

100% true ....some parents just don't realise that not every human being is capable to be a doc and that doesn't make them inferior in any way, they just look at the perks of this profession from far away and make unreal assumptions about it and knowingly or unknowingly push their wards into the 'rat race' killing their inner passion to be in this overly glorified proffesion 💔

[@saltmine887]

We can change this. When we become residents. Let's vouch to be kind seniors and break this toxic curse..

[@amit_sahoo._]

Absolutely not a single mind rather all who are currently residents should change their mindset to build a healthy relationship with their juniors to be happy and spread happiness and create some sort of interest to work more even in this hectic schedules

[@saadshayanahmed]

Let's goo!

[@Aakash_Mahato]

You won't, because you also will do the same, because one day you would also say that, I also want to be free now after completion of this harsh journey and overuse your juniors in order to free yourself or to get helping hands... But overall 'I salute to every medical professionals.

[@Paperflowers01]

the problem is, if you don't rag your juniors regularly, you will be ragged by your seniors for not ragging them, and you then have to choose between getting both of you ragged or to rag the junior only, their is another option though, and that is to retaliate which takes a lot of courage.

[@p.m.parvatiranatur856]

This is best way to move as Residents & seniors. Change the medical environment. Senior residents pl take leak. This video is more discouraging to final year students.😊

[@tripti1339]

I think the problem is not only that we have toxic seniors, but also that the juniors who go through this toxic behavior, continue to behave like their seniors and carry on the toxicity like a legacy. It all can be stopped if every junior decides to become a non toxic senior.

[@yogeshlakshman8488]

That’s the change we want Change in an individual leads to the change in the system automatically

[@missionvision99]

Toxicity extends over a huge spectrum. Even till ap, professors and hods because all are overworked. The main problem is lack of workforce.

[@tripti1339]

@@missionvision99 if that was the case everyone would be pressurised to overwork, and overworking isn't the toxicity that he's talking about in the video, cos overworking then would be something that no one is responsible for n that's not toxicity. Toxicity is when a senior targets a specific junior to UNNECESSARILY do the task over n over again, out of his or her emotional instability, while the other intern sits and watch, on the order of that senior. This is not cos of lack of workforce, but rather cos of some sort of stupid vengeance. So toxicity is something that in full control of the individual who's being toxic, don't put it on the whole team. Toxicity is something that operates on an individual level. It's a choice. and can be easily stopped if the person simply choose to be other way round

[@vaishnavidigumarthi]

This is the actual reality of being a medical student/doctor but see him...even him being overwhelmed he still has his white coat and stethoscope on!...it is not the compulsion to study medicine that is pushing him but it is the passion..yes, sometimes even the passionate person may feel like quitting but he/she just don't quit but rest for a while..so choose your path if you are confident, not because you are asked to do so. Thanks a bunch Anuj sir for this gem!❤

[@Medicos5065]

Agree

[@devalinabose3173]

20 mins of packed truth... "You can sell your soul online and earn money"

[@ashwiniashwini1564]

Its not worth, the life you live is very different . Look up some cases of celebrities.

[@hudaifahriyaz]

😅💯

[@nikitajadvan1123]

He is so mature then also he is getting jealous of chapri influencers

[@AyatoKamisato007]

​@@nikitajadvan1123I don't think he is jealous... He is comparing two different aspects of earning money... He said it in a way... Where common people can relate...

[@Hmx_mrx]

Bruh

[@DevelopArmed]

"Toxicity will not be tolerated.... not by the viewers of this channel." this sentence hits hard ❤

[@namangaur1707]

As someone who has walked the challenging path of the medical field, Dr. Anuj Pachel's words resonate deeply with me. The reality of the medical profession is often glamorized, but it's crucial to acknowledge the immense sacrifices and struggles that come with it. Anuj Bhaiya, your honesty about the love-hate relationship with medicine sheds light on the harsh realities faced by interns and junior doctors. The pressure to perform, the toxicity within the system, and the toll it takes on personal well-being are all too real. It's disheartening to see how bureaucracy and external pressures can sometimes overshadow the noble pursuit of healing. This video serves as a wake-up call for aspiring doctors and a source of solidarity for those currently in the field. It's essential to have open conversations about the less glamorous aspects of medicine to foster a supportive community and drive positive change within the profession. Thank you bhaiya for bravely sharing your experiences and shedding light on this important issue. And Congratulations, bhaiya on nearing the remarkable milestone of 1 million subscribers on KZbin - your honest insights into the complexities of the medical field are truly resonating with audiences worldwide!

[@Gayadha_]

I’m a medical student preparing for my second year mbbs examination now. I had got into this course with lots of dreams. Once I got into my first year mbbs, I tried studying so hard from day one that everyone around me would make fun of me. The trauma and depression I had in my first year mbbs is something I’ll never forget about. I would study but by 1 or 2 marks I would end up failing. It was a tension for my parents also. So eventually I failed my profs and had to repeat with my junior batch. I really didn’t think I deserved it. Everyone around me saw me with sympathy and I hated it. Teachers saw me as a weak student which I was not used to because I was a very bright student at school. The shocking part was that even after one year I lost my profs by 1 mark and this was my last attempt to clear the exam or else I would have to drop out from the course. Also, I’m not a merit student and my parents paid one crore for the seat. Mostly it was their dream to make me a doctor and I didn’t really have any other specific plan so I just went with it. So incase I had to drop out and leave college we had to pay the whole one crore and leave without any degree. But then after failing again for 1 mark I felt like I’m the unluckiest person ever. Spend lots of nights crying. Then I gave that paper for revaluation and fortunately I got that one mark and I passed. But I was waiting for this results and sitting at home for about 5-6 months. Nobody would understand what you are going through. Every medical student has a different story. I feel all these struggles melded me as a person and made me stronger. But I feel that a lot of people wouldn’t be able to handle all this pressure and people need to be made aware of the difficulties of the course before you join.

[@wion.80]

Omg that's a lot to go through! You're very strong. Just thinking about being in your place gave me goosebumps. All the Best for the rest of your journey!❤

[@lionelmessithegoatLM10]

best wishes for your journey 🙏

[@evergreencreation357]

West wishes for your journey ,you can watch videos of acharya Prashant on sprituality his videos will help to understand life

[@usersYT]

Opt for re-evaluation everytime. Because it's pretty common in private colleges to fail students so that they can get more money as fee. That's what I have heard from people around me who know someone studying in private clg. So I might be wrong too. Still it's better to be sure though that it wasn't your fault for not getting passing marks.

[@prankerschannel2800]

I'm in your exact situation which u were in before joining mbbs.... My parents r ready for management quota and I don't have a specific aim.. So I'm about to choose mbbs.. Is this a good decision...? Please guide me bro

[@shreya1337]

i'll just talk about something. My zoology teacher at my coaching did MBBS from AIIMS DELHI and after he did MBBS he left it. He never tells us the reason says he is gonna tell it after we give our NEET but tbh he has always given us clues how overpressured he was and all that sort of stuff. He tells us how ppl made comments on him for leaving the doctor thing that too after doing it from AIIMS DELHI any neet aspirant would call him stupid in the beginning but when you'll be at a stage similar to wht he was at. everyone will understand the situation and according to me most NEET aspirants do NEET bc they hate maths or they just don't know what else to do so they take medical and its over now there is no backing off

[@Questforeternallove]

I have heard something like this is my Institute also.... Which Institute u were at?

[@Sarasara-zi6ti]

Oh my goodness! Watching this video brought back all the memories of my internship struggles. It's shocking how common these experiences are, almost as if they've become normalized. I can totally relate to the IV catheter story, it happened to me too. And, I don't think it's limited to just Maharashtra. My internship experience led me into a deep depression, causing me to abandon my plans for postgraduate studies. But after three years, I made the decision to pursue my passion in the US, and now I'm on that journey. I have decided to give it my all because if there's a chance to follow my dreams, I want to seize it. However, I've also learned that nothing is more valuable than one's own well-being. This journey has taught me that lesson firsthand.

[@mrbeanclone]

At the starting of 11th I was so focused on clearing NEET and become a doctor... But as the time passed i dont have the same passion that I had before because I am definitely not a person who enjoys studying and clearing exams for 5-12 years without any break with high pressure. Currently i am giving my 12th boards and i still have no idea what to pursue after 12th!! I am clueless. I have so my other hobbies to continue and i dont want to compromise them for a degree. I don't know what life has for me ahead. Right now I am so focused on my boards and I think its better for me to think about future after completing boards. I have been a regular viewer of this channel and you always inspire me in some or other way! Thanks brother Anuj for guiding me. ❤ Edit: found out there are so many buddies facing the same problem as mine! I wish the best for everyone. Hopefully we will figure out what works best for us at the end

[@Sha-xy3bc]

Yo same here buddy :') good luck with the exams

[@Prathamesh987]

I too have no passion left for neet now but I really don't see much clarity in other fields for pcb students

[@arkaprabha07]

Same here bro 😢

[@akshitbhardwaj3528]

Hmm I was in this situation back 7years ago just wanna say that look ways to make money bro cuz the world bow against money (telling from personal experience)

[@EramFatima-ok2bw]

I can, a 100% resonate with you. I initially took commerce in class 11 and dropped it right before the verification of the registration for class 12 boards for PCB to pursue medical and prepare for NEET. Presently I'm in my 1st drop yr, and I just couldn't study after a few months. I'm not prepared for NEET 2024, and neither do I wanna pursue it anymore, for the same reasons that Dr. Anuj highlighted in his video. I'm clueless. I don't know what else I'd pursue since I neither had maths nor Computer as a subject in my +2. But hopefully, with the wide range of opportunities in the present age, I'll figure it out. God Willing. I wish you all the best for your boards and your future!

[@harshitaarya8563]

SOMEONE PLEASE SHOW TIS VIDEO TO HIGHER AUTHORITIES. It's shocking how the toxicity, suicides, depression is so normalised in medical. They save one life to kill the other.

[@parthrajyaguru4195]

The harsh reality that each and every medical student , junior doctors and sometimes the seniors as well go through. The people in the society thinks as if this profession makes you capable of earning bunch load of money but only the medicos knows the other side of the coin which is exactly told here. This takes a lot of courage to present on a social media platform. Hats off to you , Sir. Lots and lots of love and respect. ❤

[@anna_._irwin]

I saw this from a mile away. As a dropper in the first attempt I knew the struggles of a doctor isn't worth it in the end. I have a cousin who finished mbbs and is now doing pg, She always tells me she's depressed af!! She was the one who advised me to not take the medicine field If I'm not passionate. But my question was what's actually the word "passionate"means. If you live only for your job, having no time to spend with family, having no time to do anything fun, constantly worrying about time management - this is what being passionate , according to society. The above stated facts are a lil too much in the case of medicine. Burning yourself for the sake of others, plus the work culture here is so damn pathetic. I'm not trying to sound superior but I'm glad I've chosen a different path. The video is well made ❤️

[@MalikSahil459]

Oh what are you doing?

[@rockerseditzz84]

and ur different path is...........

[@Hunter-ox9yp]

As I am going through the same thing like you , confused and depressed after taking 2 drops for neet . Can you tell me what you have chosen...I am just asking for an idea..

[@th11yaar67]

man can we talk ??? I want to discuss options

[@afaquesiddiqui4739]

20 minutes of speaking the truth ….😐

[@ganeshsharma6519]

Being yourself a medico you have unraveled the harsh truth about the system,this will help many aspiring students.🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@yashodhangurav27]

There are three main types of criticism: destructive, constructive, and instructive. Destructive criticism tears down; constructive criticism builds together, and it identifies a problem and offers solutions. Instructive criticism adds on to what someone knows

[@FaizahRaffath]

Love the originality Sir 🤍 The first time I entered my medical college hospital, i was astounded by how inhumane some professors were with the residents and how they’d mock the under-graduates! A doctor’s plight can be best understood by another doctor..but here one is determined to make life difficult for the other just because he is one step ahead. Very unfortunate!

[@butterflies_ad]

yes totally agree! you are at the brink of adding doctor to your name and i am at the brink of starting my 5 year journey to get doctor added to my name! thank you for telling us bold truth no one dares except a few.! yes i know it costs time, relationships, health and family and all but at the end i think we will surely be proud to achieve it. many dream of it and only few can get there. i know at the end as path narrows and we r at the end toxicity and all increases. but maybe lets just be optimistic as we started this journey for ourselves for our dreams and cant drop it for someone n their bad habits! they will face the karma at the end. so, lets just stay happy n positive, keep moving ahead, be truthful, and not lose oursleves in this race! i know killing, dropping out, going on a vacation might feel really tempting as feels to me as i know i have neet after boards right now, but just few months and it will all seem wort it. we might be able to enjoy even more when we know we gave our all in it! n leave the rest on divine thats what i believe in. you are true gem bhaiya and i know you are going to be the best doctors ever i have seen!!! you r reallyyy going to make it. and we all will make it!

[@vishalrajpurohith]

Good confident keep it up 💪 have a great future ahead 💯

[@plakshapant9006]

Such a raw video…Being a junior doctor..I felt each and every word you said .

[@monicamishra.4559]

I have had already decided that the day when any suicide thought would come to my mind ( because of workload pressure) ,I would stop going to clinics and leave the profession; but till then , I adore my white apron and feel blessed to be a part of this beautiful journey!

[@riana902]

I'm kinda glad i didn't get in now 😅😅 this profession will forever be a noble one in my eyes .......... it's so sad these easily solvable problems don't get any attention or care from the higher ups . It's not only the jerks who do it are the problem the bigger culprits are the ones who let them get away with it. It creates a system that breeds these kinds of ppl . Tnx vaiya for keeping it real even if it's very hard pill to swallow for a lot of ppl

[@albatross5907]

This video resonated with me so much. I am a biologist and I have been watching your videos since the last three years I guess or more. For as long as I can remember I wanted to be a scientist and so I am really a biologist by choice and not because I couldn't clear NEET as most people just generally assume. So I did my graduation did my masters from really really prestigious institutions and my masters dissertation from probably one of the best research lab in India. And trust me those 10 months of dissertation showed me the reality and it was heartbreaking. I have seen seniors and supervisors so toxic its crazy. supervisors won't let you submit your phd thesis for 7-8 years just because you are an "asset" to the lab who trains new students, manage the lab and everything on behalf of the supervisor. And seniors take out their frustration on the juniors and the cycle continues. There are no fixed work hours, once you enter the lab you don't when your next meal is going to be, no holidays, you're even expected to work even on weekends. And let's just not talk about the pay, you turn 30 and when you look back you have no job, no financial security and sometimes you're not even done with your phd by then. You have no social life, your parents are worried about your future and you have no answer. It's just so sad to have your dreams shattered like that just because of a broken system and sadly noone talks about it. Everybody revels in the glory when a space mission works out cheaper than everywhere globally and when we develop our independent vaccine on such large scale we export it everywhere but nobody questions how are we doing it all in such cheap budget. It's because we are exploiting people like crazy, snatching away their entire life and for what. I can go on forever but i guess I should stop now.

[@simarpreet4760]

this was so heartbreaking to for me to read

[@albatross5907]

@@simarpreet4760 Ikr. For now, I just hope more people start to at least talk about these issues. We can't keep going like this forever.

[@justjiya8594]

I am a biology student too and because of all this reality of phd i do not want to persue phd now. But most core science students do not have an option that's why they enroll in PhD and regret or drop out later😢

[@abhilashrajesh3058]

Been following you almost 5 years now and this is the most touching and relatable video, those are some really true facts and most of em don't dare to share it😢Being a fmge final year student,the point about pressure in this field of profession is soooo much accurate🙂

[@Medicolifeshorts]

I got selected this year,and i had made my mind that i will never ever tolerate any toxicity from my seniors ,i somehow got into an argument with a senior and she said,my seniors were toxic to me and we will be the same to you" and thats where i told her that you people consider yourselves to be god, they were many in numbrr and i was only one in such a huge crowd,fast forward to that incident ,everyone told me not to mess with the seniors and tolerate all that toxicity but i just feel suffocated and i know i wont be able to stay silent against any injustice its because i was never taught how to be submissive ,i have always fought against injustice and in sha Allah ,i will continue to do so

[@artonaz]

Same here when I was in 11th 2021 I was very clear about the thing that I don't wanna be a doctor specifically saying this cus in our society bio liya hai to NEET Clear kar ke khandan ko badlna hai hazar ummeede ho jati hai and this is the only option you have now you are in trap jiske bare me tmhe bad me realise hoga...but apart from this I have my own passion so I don't think much about it and during that time speaking about my passion my parents disagreed for persuing it and said ladkiyon ke liye ye field acha ni hai aur krna v hai to doctor bnne ke bad kar lena ... Okay so just after Lockdown 2021 I enrolled in one of the batches of PW jo obviously NEET ki prep krati thi uske bad joined offline that also focuses on NEET...kchh sawal easily ho gye socha ho jaega NEET.. it's like if you are PCB students everything around you is just about being a doctor.. parents says beta ye kar le ye dila dunga wo dila dunga...and us process me ham sb apne aap ko v convinced kar lete hai ki okay I also want to be a doctor and Yess...yaha se shuru hoti hai RAT RACE..to be honest hamare jaise log agr waha chle v jaenge to wo precious seat waste hee krenge kyunki I have seen that passion in some student's eyes jo actual me krna chahte hai..and I think wo log hm se kai jyada deserving aur aur contributing honge cus they enjoy what they are doing.. I'm a very avg. students..and nahi hota mujhse aur.... ye soch ke aur ni hota ki aage kaise krenge wo strong attractions apne passion ki trf aur ni krne deta... I'm in my drop year obviously for NEET...you know after 3 years when I again taken some action for my future nd confronted them they said parents sirf paise dene ke liye hote you are selfish you don't think about anyone tmne hee to kaha tha doctor bnna hai..bachi ho av tmhe kchh ni pta..and I'm just asking have you ever allowed your children to atleast think about what they want what's the process of becoming it.... because in the end us career ko persue unhe hee krna hai... after all this they agreed ki le lo adm. kr lo jo krna hai hm ni bolenge ab kchh and I have seen it in their eyes the respect..the way they talked before the way I'm deserving for something few weeks ago is now I'm not the way they made me feel guilty of the path I'm taking for myself..but it's okay what is happening with me right now is happening with most of the aspirants.. nothing new just a typical family... I have so much in my mind can't be able to write all of it but I just wanted to tell the truth that's killing you from inside and then they ask people are so coward to gave up on their life par "aapne jindgi jeene ka mauka hee kb diya". During this age we don't give a damn about what other think about us what matters ki aapke parents kya sochte hai aapke baare me and this hurts when the only person from whom you are expecting that little support is missing...and you have to choose to be a DOCTOR or live for your passion along with the feeling of the thought that your parents think of you as a "FAILURE"

[@medindian906]

Absolute truth 💯 … really well put in words… The reality of medical field at present.. you are doing an amazing job bringing these things to light.. way to go Anuj!! 💫

[@naveengautam9662]

You expressed everything very beautifully, Anuj. The toxicity culture in medical colleges for the residents is similar in Nepal as well. One thing I want to add on is that once you get out of your medical school into the real hospitals, you will then discover the truest nature of the practice of medicine and healthcare, which is far, far worse that what is practiced in medical colleges. The healthcare system is totally capitalistic with everyone focused on earning money as quickly as possible. There is corruption, commission, political and other influences all throughout the healthcare practice to such a degree that even if you wish to change the system, you have to become a part of it. Also, the syndicate prevailing in the healthcare system, is beyond breaking point. Our healthcare system is totally broken.

[@priyankapatil985]

💯💯 I am also Dr. I done my intership in nashik civil, and i loss my Hair's due to Bad schedule, a lot Stress, maximum workload, and many resident, doctor scold us for very minor reason, 180 days work without A single Holiday... So after completing my intership,i take three month totally break from everything and Decide not to do anything in this field, but after break, I start my PG preparation.. That's what my Life.. Self motivation for Life is Real very Hard thing...

[@Despacitomedica22]

Look for MBA sir atleast better than this profession

[@arsh_kun]

​@@Despacitomedica22A Doctor doing an MBA 😂 you high on something and besides she has said that she is preparing for PG so why bother her mind your own business

[@samarthangule9807]

Please think before getting into the residency 😢

[@bikrambehera7192]

You are doing great

[@GauravYadav-9166]

Kiddo MBA in hospital management​@@arsh_kun

[@buddiesforever-sl8yg]

I can't crack neet in my 1st drop then i start reserch about the field in detail And found toxic junior senior culture and residency 😢😢 is the most vulnerable then i didn't take 2nd drop I am going to be a teacher🎉 All DOCTOR HERE SALUTE ❤❤

[@neetaspirant07107]

Bro wt r u doing now ?? Which degree u r going to pursue now I couldn't crack NEET in my 1st drop too and taken second drop but now I'm very much sceptical about it .

[@ganeshsharma6519]

Thats why the society respects the doctor,they go through so many sacrifices and struggle.🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@Mansie-z9c]

Thank you so much for being so honest. This is my second drop ( neet aspirant ). I was questioning myself the whole time like when I see myself dressed in the white apron I see everyone around me happy but I don't find myself happy at that moment.. i thought with time I'll be surely clearing the exam.. but I was wrong. I have even spoke to my parents about how i feel and they have might lit but understood.. I feel so frustrated just by being a neet aspirant.. i don't think so I will be able to handle that much pressure of being a doctor. Hope i do something great with my life btw I love singing and doing art ❤. Tysm bhaiya for always guiding. I love your videos

[@KHUSHI-ne9ql]

What you decided to pursue..bcz I'm also in same situation...it might help me...

[@Mansie-z9c]

@@KHUSHI-ne9ql this year i got good marks but not a great rank. Let's see in the counselling. So I'm pursuing mbbs only. Ik it may be sound weird like why I'm choosing it but we live in India yr. Bs naam ka parents bolenge we are okay whatever you choose . Deep down they want to see me as a doctor . I have accepted it.

[@KHUSHI-ne9ql]

@@Mansie-z9c happy for you...just be happy & joyful whatever you do in life

[@nehalprajapati2402]

This was too real...something non medicos will never understand and just say stop being so sensitive or afraid to work, don't be so negative about it, and the fact that the only thing that motivates me to still continue is the thrill of being able to heal someone and otherwise it's full of toxic, arrogant, ruly people that I never wanna experience again coz there is too much to lose in terms of mental and physical aspects in this job than the gain of money or time to heal the self. How much it could change if we just treated each other with kindness or just with enough respect since we are all in this together. I always felt that k was not suitable to be a doctor coz I was suffering this much due to others but now that I see more people talk about it I feel like it's a reality and we need to address and deal with this together. Thank you for addressing it all so honestly.

[@aparnashruti6960]

This one year of internship has made you so mature.I can see it in your face,in the way you are talking and in the insights you are conveying 🙏🏻

[@abmajeed4626]

Hats off to you Sir! It indeed takes lot of guts and vision to deliver such a complicated topic in such a simple manner. I am also a medical student in one of the GMC, recently our clinical postings started and the things we observe there are overwhelmed, sometimes we blame ourselves, sometimes our seniors and even sometimes patients. Sometimes everything is sorted and sometimes things get too messy & Toxicity is one of the most deep rooted problems in medical colleges. This profession is indeed not for ones whose purpose is to earn money. It takes a lot of passion, courage, and patience to become a doctor that you have dreamt of when you were a kid.

[@MrityunjayShekharTripathi]

My God Boss you so accurately described the dilemma common to all the medical students. The realist side hit me in just one week of joining my college. The road is very long and the end is obscure. The rat race we joined during NEET UG has become our way of life ❤ From Uttar Pradesh

[@tooflowery]

4k!! the quality speaks for itself

[@parthagrawal4694]

It's so weird that we bear so much toxicity, pressure when we really don't need to. Even I faced the same dilemma in the final year MBBS. Most of the students (including me) just choose a particular stream based on liking or disliking of a particular subject. And then the rat race begins. We are not given a single moment of self introspection, self enquiry, self exploration, finding out what would really give us a meaning to live. We are never taught to see inwards and look at things without any biases and fear. We are never taught to value ourselves without putting on a societal lens. Soemone has truly said that direction is more than speed!

[@ShivamMaiti]

Great video man. U just showed the real side unlike other youtubers who just glorify things for views or to sell courses. Mad respect for you 🙏🙌

[@alfiya_sahla]

As a JEE ASPIRANT, who decides to switch into medical, i genuinely feel that every profession got their own problem and its just a matter of how u understand them. Irrespective of what you got, and what kind of entrance actually you can pass, take a deep search into your soul and find out what u like to do. I have heard that medicine is a hell, and moreover it tooks a lot to be a good one. So here i am again coming back to what i love the most. I always taught what was passion is that what you actually like to do when you were little. But that was wrong. Right now, i know that it takes time to be a good one but i am not giving up my hopes sooo here we go medicos❤

[@yashashripatil8024]

All this things ...but still there is a part of me that believes that this is truly what i want too do !

[@priya_sharma0507]

One of the best video of yours❤ literally no other person on KZbin has the courage to frame these facts just the way you did..hope u achieve great heights in ur life❤

[@meharmuskankhan7307]

It's your video that works as a tonic for me to study more harder and achieve my goals Forever thankful✨✨

[@DrAnujPachhel]

All the best!

[@sivasankarisubha4973]

​@@DrAnujPachhelThank you Sir for your courage of honest words in toxicity

[@Sahishi]

Whatever comes my way , a part of me still believes this path is for me not just to heal people but myself aswell! . Thank you so much Dr Anuj for this !

[@animatedbiologywitharpan]

The insight you have with medical field is quite similar to accademia and biomedical Research. Slowly started to belive that its not worth it.

[@shyjivarghese3800]

As a NEET PG aspirant, I can confirm that every word you spoke is true and real.This field steals all our time, happiness and peace of mind.But, can't think of anything else now, just continuing with the flow now.

[@snehabhaiya2057]

No penalty for dropping out The line that hitted me. Yeah, that's true. If there was no penalty for dropping out, I would have quitted the medical field even before completing my 1st yr in this profession. Crying, humiliating, stressing, working day n night is all medical profession teaches us. Rote raho aur padhte raho is the ultimate mantra for medicos ✨

[@sidjain0599]

Bro spitting facts! Man i applaud for speaking the truth that nobody does! Thank you so much!

[@nameeranayyar]

I will be able to do it❤ Realism( i will live in reality) Toxicity( i will be able to fight back) Pressure (i will be able to handle it) All i know now is there is nothing else i can do instead of this ✨ I want this love hate relationship its like addiction for me♡ Thnku for letting me know this ❤

[@FarhanHasan.]

Damnnnnnnnnnn girl 😂❤

[@chiraggoswami9869]

Mark my words This video is way ahead of its time, people will realise what Anuj is saying but then it will be too late and the last predictions are going to be true 😢

[@vijayanandsharma1695]

An eye opener video Lets hope for the best for this community of Doctors Really after so much sacrifices they need to be blessed by the best of their personal lives May God bring अच्छे दिन soon for all Doctors Best luck Sir for your future career May God also bless Didi, Jiju, their little champ always

[@bharathibalakrishnan7180]

Hi Anuj, I am CS student, being a professional course (though not medicine) your chapter 2,3 in this video are so relevant even in our field. We do have 21 months period of industrial training, though I have not yet cleared my second level, I joined a firm for gaining practical knowledge where my fellow trainees & I were treated badly. And as the third chapter says, it takes years to complete this course, enough financial burden is left on our shoulders, I see my friends from other fields making enough money, and owning a family by the age of 24. Yet, I know that I really want to complete this course. On a final note, though not a Medical student, I love this channel and the content you share here is just fab!

[@pikachue602]

What courses did your friends take?? Please do also guide I'm a 3rd time dropper I don't have the courage anymore

[@Sonalika-pc8ck]

everything good in life is hard. so of course it’s a love hate relationship. I have seen people talking about the dark side of mbbs and people talk about how they regret not working hard enough to be where someone else is. It’s becomes about how we look at things and our individual values. also I appreciate you talking about this. Hopefully the system changes to something less stressful in future. big respect sir.

[@atharvakshirsagar9075]

As a 2nd year MBBS student I can still say I would still choose Medical degree and build my own big hospital with that money. 😊🎉

[@Dr.SakshiBatra]

I can totally feel whatever you're saying, felt the same. I was also passionate about being doctor, but as time passed by I lost myself in the process. This journey is mentally challenging. It takes a lot of hardwork just to perform average. Efforts to outcome & satisfaction ratio is poor. We as doctors sacrifice our 20s & become financially settled in early 30s, that gives a lot of FOMO seeing your peers from other profession settled in mid 20s. I wish someone had told me this few years back, I think I would mentally prepare myself of what I am stepping into. But all that being said, the only satisfaction is the feeling of helping someone. That's the only motivation what keeps me going. Despite all the toxicity, the satisfaction after saving lives is unparalleled.

[@SARTHAKGMCNahanMBBS]

I was a mbbs student,I dropped out in my 2nd year from a well reputed GMC. I was not able to bear the pressure. Presently I am working as a reseracher in IISER

[@gayatrimote8423]

Ohh my god how did you do that

[@gayatrimote8423]

Like tell me your journey...How did you get into it

[@SARTHAKGMCNahanMBBS]

I know many persons like you are interested in my story but I have moved on and don't want to open that chapter of my life again. Hope you will understand my problem

[@gayatrimote8423]

@@SARTHAKGMCNahanMBBS Oh I just wanted to know how you got into iiser after dropping out...but fine if it unveil you wound that's fine

[@Remy4556]

What about the bond ..???????

[@dream78646]

Anuj pachhel:- A true gem....❤

[@sridhard1978]

This vdo has no point in demotivating us but truly and genuinely it motivates us to work hard and reach there and " be the change" !!!!!!! Thanks a lot bro : )

[@priyasngh7856]

U r spitting the bloody hard truth bcoz i had gone through the exact same feeling, in my internship days I had very tough time bcoz of this toxicity and wanted to quit this but it take time to understand that it too shall pass and something better awaiting for me... Bcoz nobody care what is your mental health is... Even the people who are in this time for so long.. Its the culture unfortunately😢

[@Letsbingetgt]

The timing of this video actually relieved my anxiety of so many months now. Thank you 🙏

[@madhurimavuddemarry6719]

I can't explain how perfectly and exactly this video has described my ongoing dilemma. 😔 What's even more interesting is that the number of people who sideline these dilemmas. Just because they feel helpless. It's truly a sad state of affairs. I just wish all of us could navigate and somehow break some toxic parts of the system that absolutely don't work. But ig that's a dream for another 50 years when people finally have the courage to introspect. This is why being an IMG in other countries becomes a sweeter option. ❤ A fellow final year student deep into this introspection. :))

[@aieshaazam8604]

Hi Anuj , amazing video! you spoke 20 minutes of truth. Thank you for speaking up. I had similar toxic pgs during anaesthesia rotations who traumatised me so much

[@DrAnujPachhel]

Thanks for sharing

[@anushkasaraswat7852]

Hello Sir, I am a final year student. I felt every word you uttered. This is so true. Apart from this I think that due to humongous stress right from the first year of medical school there are so many students who develop psychiatric illnesses and this might be the reason that the seniors who are suffering mentally tend to become psychpaths and toxic in nature.

[@Kashika-nb1py]

Sir , I have deep respect for each and every thought of you. You are such a genuine and nice person. I hope this toxic environment ends or rather minimises.

[@waffles-u8l]

A final year gmc student here. Goodluck on whatever you are looking fwd to finding in ur journey. Let's accept it that everyone has a different definition of success that is everyone is chasing different things!

[@solankimansi5862]

Thanks a lot bhaiya for showing both the sides, instead of just good things and butterflies 😀 .. its takes a lot of courage, time and effort from your side. Thanks a lot lot bhaiya!! We love you! Keep up the good work!!! 💪💪 ❤❤

[@DrAnujPachhel]

Thank you so much 😀

[@mansishukla17]

I do really believe sir it'll be a better place with seniors like you here for us !

[@EuuuuuuuuuuuUui]

Much needed video!!! Finally someone talked about toxicity so clearly,,,everyday I have thought about this ,how could I handle this toxic field...what other options do I have... should I take less toxic branch like non clinical one and stay happy in my life with little less money..or should I take toxic clinical branches because of pear pressure and sacrifice my whole happiness for money 🙂

[@aryam2885]

I also think the same often ..and it demotivate me a lot

[@Maharshi_Desai]

So what would you do?

[@mimansachoudhury2622]

Non clinical branch and lots of peace 🕊️

[@Userpj05]

Very true I often think that but with parents it really gets hard to be in non clinical/paramedical branches. That because of image of mbbs

[@PRITAM0789]

​@@aryam2885 as a 2nd year dropper it demotivate me a lots 😣😵

[@meharsrivastava0212]

Reality is that " if u willing to become a doctor , u have to deal with this all " and in the mid of your journey u want to quit but it's nots your opinion .... So before entering in this carrier think 100 times that u have that potential or not ❤

[@noork.631]

That machine part was so from bottom of ur heart, like literary u've painted it so well, everyone at some point in their lives can relate ...

[@AmulyaNadig]

Bhaiyyaaa i am really inspired by this 3:03 my boards are gng rn and im really thinking the same cause i am not the kind of person who leaves passion but i feel how much study no sleep , no family time , no proper relation with friends cousins etc but now i understand to accept that its just the beginning ❤❤ hats of bro no one would even dare to talk like this in youtube.. really awesome luv u bro ❤❤

[@rex77x]

go and study

[@anonymous-ho3gr]

absolutely relatable situation rn and well said that its just the beginning !! ❤‍🔥

[@anonymous-ho3gr]

ppl like u better mind your own buisness...the real toxic ones anuj bhaiya is talking abt @@rex77x

[@khushigojanur1989]

All the best for physics tmr

[@AmulyaNadig]

@@khushigojanur1989 thanks 😊

[@estherjacqueline8625]

I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvellous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well. substance was not hid from thee, when I was made in secret. This verse from the Bible made me take up nursing. To be a doctor was my aim, but didn't become one. I really enjoy that part where we are serving, but the rest of it is weary !! Wonderful video which i sahred with my niece who wants to be a doctor. Thank you. 20:02

[@ShikhaJaiswal-b7h]

Bhiya I subscribed you when you had around 50k now you have almost 1 M ..... so proud of you ❤...

[@srijitamajumderroll3559]

I am a B. Sc nursing Student from West Bengal, Kolkata. I have passed out in December 2023 . Your video give me energy and I have learned many many things from you. Thankyou so much Dr. Anuj.

[@ruchita6040]

Dii what minimum marks are required to get into bsc nursing through neet?

[@Seraphinaserotonin]

Hey is bsc nursing tough

[@studywithramprasathrp3093]

Thank you dr anuj As a post intern preparing for ini , i connected to it a lot … we are all pushed to do things , in life …. I doubt this 3-6 years of residency or ss really worth it , for me atleast , but what drives us all in this is service , patients quality of life and financial freedom …

[@rokhsafakirchandrika5323]

In my post graduation training, I am not losing weight... Rather I have become over weight due immense stress eating...

[@atharvaphatak5681]

So much of truth💯💯💯💯So relatable, every word every sentence resonates with my current emotions

[@uuu-xz3px]

I got goosebumps while watching this vedio Aur ab confusion bhi ho raha hai ki ye field lu yaa na luu iss field mein aane ke chakkkar mein meine apna schl bhi chodh diya 🙂dummy schl krva liya 🙂🙂

[@PriyaKumari-jf6me]

Don't choose this profession.

[@Questforeternallove]

bro sameeee here... Exactly. And now I don't feel that spark or passion or desire to go with this field genuinely... I want a career that offers planned life , work life balance,....but I hv taken dummy way before these realizations came in me..

[@uuu-xz3px]

@@Questforeternallove but ab shyd kuch nhi ho skta Jo bhi hai apna best dena hai agar dr ban Gaye to achii baat hai wrna pata nhi kiya hoga

[@Questforeternallove]

@@uuu-xz3px bro u r right ki apna best dena hn, but kuch nhi ho skta this aint true... we still can switch, explore, we havent yet entered n signed some bond w any gmc yet, dare to change flow of ur life only if u dare to turn n gobeyond what mass of crowd is chasing...i hv my own backups n priorities.. but for now, apna sincerely best dena hn till neet lets see, arpila tuve pade nand kishora iss mood me, surrendering to supreme almighty"s will...

[@notsimp-k8d]

Great video dude ...doing my internship and feeling that pressure u talked about which earlier was a frustration within and never being ableto put to words

[@DeshmukhRohanKiran]

Thanks for giving content for my Biochemistry Seminar ❤🎉#1st year MBBS thanks again

[@maunikachintala6132]

So true anuj. And especially when neet ug aspirants ask advice to us. I feel like killing myself for lying to these little beings! Full of passion and potential for great things. I mean I hope and pray to somehow someone changes this toxic environment in govt hospital. I hope govt decides work timings. I hope everyone someday lives with dignity and respect amongst colleagues in n the govt hospital. Oneday ✨

[@bhagyalekshmi3890]

I am a NEET aspirant and I can tell one thing that we people idealise and get acclimatized to the heavy work load , mental stress, etc...and no peace life from the very beginning of our entrance lives..I really crave for this profession but there is still some part of me thinking if I could ever take a break of atleast 10 minutes without being tensed about the to do list or an upcoming exam or any recent coaching center test results..But yesss..I still have it as a fire burning inside of me to hear Thank you doctor Bhagyalekshmi for saving him or her.. Anuj Bhayya can you kindly give a reply to this...that will obviously be a motivation for me to slay the upcoming all unit mock test at my institute 😅

[@Classymdu.]

Ha ha. No one will say such things

[@sanchitasaha2316]

All he said in 20 mins are bitter sweet truths of medical life.

[@showrovislam4309]

you spoke my heart brother

[@chagganvlogger2.073]

Never seen such an honest person like you❤....

[@Starlight.S_23]

I am currently preparing for NEET UG 2024. I am not preparing to get a MBBS seat, I am preparing for a Veterinary seat. Because that's my dream, my passion is to help animals. And many people, especially my relatives had so much to comment on that, they talked low about the veterinary field and they kept telling me to choose MBBS if I get good score and not veterinary. But why? Why should I choose something I am not interested in? I don't wanna be stuck in a job I don't enjoy. Especially for someone who loves change and dreads doing the same thing every single day, doing a job I will never enjoy would be my personal hell. Even though I want to become a veterinarian, I am not planning on staying a veterinarian forever. I wanna take a PHd after BVSc and MVSc, so that I will have more opportunities, I can try becoming a research scientist, I could go teach new concepts and findings to students, I can choose what I want. And most people will not support changing careers, but isn't that what life is all about? Change. I wanna explore, I don't wanna be stuck in one thing. Eventually, I might even leave the medical field because of a childhood dream still persisting and growing inside me, to become a singer-songwriter. Many of my relatives and other people I know laughed at me when I tell them this, well, now I don't tell anyone of these dreams, only my parents and best friends know, because the others said it's impossible and that I am being stupid if I ever leave the medical field after getting a nice job in it. But they are not gonna stop me, I will do what I want. I will become a veterinarian, I will get a PHd, I will become a veterinary research scientist, and then maybe I will put it to the side and pursue music career if I succeed in it in the next few years. And yes, maybe these plans will change, maybe I will stay a veterinarian and do music career in the side or maybe I will become a research scientist and have the music career on the side, whatever might be, I am not giving up on music, music makes me happy and writing songs is how I vent out all my feelings. I don't know if people are gonna like my music or not, I am gonna keep doing it. And no, I won't choose a single career and do it for the rest of my life, I will chase all my dreams because I only got one life, might as well try to achieve it all, what am I gonna lose? What matters is what I am gonna gain while chasing my dreams 💖 Please follow your dreams everyone.

[@SakshiKumari.]

@Nirbhay_Rawat well you should be . its her choice

[@aarohi6886]

This is amazing. All the best, I wish all your dreams come true one day.

[@Starlight.S_23]

@@aarohi6886 Thanks 🥰. I hope you can achieve all your dreams too 💖

[@lionelmessithegoatLM10]

best wishes to you

[@DrsimsyNEETprep]

Hey i literally have the same dream as you....I'm a neet aspirant but wanna pursue music...but due to financial issues, i can't risk my life for music since i need a stable job...feels saddening but we accepted it

[@another20sth]

Bro this is exactly what has been eating away at me for the last couple of years now. Thank you for such an honest take, it helps coming to terms with what I've been thinking about for a while and I don't feel alone.

[@hudaifahriyaz]

Same bhaiyya My mom told me that there is too much to study and its hectic too but I thought I can manage but only after entering the med college I understood the reality But I am in love with mbbs but only thing that haunts is the internals and university exams😢❤🎉 even the professors in college are critics and toxic also sometimes , this where we have to correct the root cause, from them the students learn and they show it on juniors😡😡😡 Also our anatomy sir told us during foundation course that entering mbbs is like marriage u can't change it or divorce it😂😂

[@Enraptured123]

Unfiltered, honest and raw. Straight from the heart. Highly appreciate this. Its like giving a voice to the conflicts of far too many doctors. God bless. ❤

[@ROZ-zw1uj]

ON POINT you have really matured to talk these facts good realisation and wonderful handout for young docs to save their life yeah better pick mba after mbbs for those who aren't passionate abt medicine great video .

[@Nxtdoorguy]

Was considering this... But it's a whole other field... Kind of a giant leap..intimidating, and pay is better as a doc.

[@carryinglover8546]

Excellent & thankyou bhaiya💪⚔️ Namaste🙏🙏

[@abdullasyed_classxlotus_b0861]

As a NEET UG aspirant, I don't know what to think right now?

[@at52]

As a 1st year student doing what he wanted to do all his life from age of 5, now i regret it. So just think before and save ur self from regretting later brother.

[@abdullasyed_classxlotus_b0861]

@@at52 How exactly should I take my decision?

[@Itzme0808]

so what should i do if not mbbs then what ?@@at52

[@lionelmessithegoatLM10]

same

[@at52]

@abdullasyed_classxlotus_b0861 see u can do one thing, I'm assuming that now u can only go for bio fields , so one thing u can do is explore other options there are plenty of them which are still unexplored and have great potential in future. But don't just take my opinion, talk to as much people in medical field as u can and then decide i u still want to continue with your preps

[@Wali0808]

I think this was a high time of making such an informative video as many students have almost completed their 10th and 12th boards and want to choose their career as well. So this video would help them to choose their career wisely. Appreciate your hardwork brother.❤

[@Sha-xy3bc]

Since I was a kid I wanted to be doctor, without knowing what it takes and during my 12th which is right now I had some realisations watching videos like these and I was like being a doc is not for me then, but my mom wants me to be nothing but a doc. So I'm thinking of doing mbbs and along with that build my business and after 5.5 yrs ill be a doc for my mom and also a millionaire for myself inshallah. Even if something goes wrong with the biz, I have a career to make up the loss

[@F1uffy_f3rN]

Samee but I'm not doing good in boards RN and idk what should I do because heard that doctors don't have enough time for personal life then how will I have time for my business and many people struggle a lot if they are not passionate about it

[@memesbytom]

One you're in medical field there's no room for business bro. Trust me. It's very hectic

[@EramFatima-ok2bw]

pray istikhaara in sha' Allah and ask Allah to guide you regarding this. I pray Allah grants you the best in this life and the next. Aameen

[@SS-ui7by]

You won't be able to get that degree while creating a millions worth business. Choose one path wisely

[@mdaslam6337]

You should focus on either of them otherwise you'll end up frustrated and lost. May the Most High guide you.

[@bryanadriel6036]

The Raw Truth is what I Love about this Video........ 😵😵😵😵

[@Aspirant65.]

Guys just follow your passion along with whatever you doing in life, its one life that you've got make it memorable and elegant ❤

[@cherry9475]

A reality check was a need in this world. Thank you for this video.

[@psychosweet6152]

This video was one of the most amazing videos I've ever seen I almost cried First year mbbs 😂

[@wanderingtowholesome]

We have a lot of doctors now ,too much competition..Take a slow paced ,sincere approach to life .But always remember your country and give back to it because India even with all its toxicity and issues ,is a beautiful place . Beautiful people ,corrupted by bad circumstances.

[@nssworld9993]

Good to see you every morning and get motivated ❤❤ thank you ❣️

[@DrAnujPachhel]

You are so welcome!