The Krew Season Podcast Episode 136 | "YA GOT ME!"

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[@KrewSeason]

(02:52) - Many men stay with women outta survival mode (17:10) - Woman says she “wasn’t the best wife” (32:38) - The 7s be the REAL 10s! (57:25) - I’m not finding mates who can improve me (01:19:07) - Breakups are harder on men than women (01:41:42) - I want something serious but my coworker wants to keep it just sex (01:49:11) - It’s been a year and we’re not official (update) (01:53:39) - My husband got a promotion and now he’s treating me different

[@MelissaLona]

We have to stop blaming women for every damn thing a man do. Men talk about women don’t take accountability. Men don’t take accountability for the damage they cause on these women either. But if you’re a man and you’re knowingly preying on a woman emotions, you’re a dog man. You’re allowing her to fall in love with you knowing you really don’t want to be with her like that and you’re only there to take advantage of her and then when these women are unhealed and damaged and can’t have healthy relationships, it’s her fault again. Like men damage women early. A lot of women become loyal and faithful to the wrong man when they’re young. We say women ain’t loyal but these women are just damaged women turned savage. And to add: A man in survival mode would love and romance on your ass early. That’s how these women get caught up. I’ve seen it with my own eyes. A man that doesn’t have anything to offer will cook, clean, pick up kids from school, call, text regularly because they need to keep her happy so he can get the things he need. When he’s done using her, he changes. Women hold on to what was and hope he changes because she want the version she got in the beginning but she fail to realize those days are over. This shit is old as time. Women fall for it every time cuz a bum guy will do more than a man with means most of the time especially early on and then he do the switch up. Women be talking about “ I just wanna go back to how it use to be”.

[@PinkytipsByAstride]

“Accountability is a beautiful thing” 😂 I felt that! It’s a blessing to be on this side of self talk & awareness. Praise the LORD! 🎉🙏🏽

[@PinkytipsByAstride]

The “Dichotomy & juxtaposition” moment 😂😂 “I’m tryna get us on Good morning America” 🤣

[@jazzyone1011]

"Look in ya history books." 🤣 I love y'all. Congratulations on all your growth and success Krew. I'm a supporter from way back 😊

[@katrinastallworth5996]

I really appreciate the topics u choose and the mannerism in which u have these conversations… genuine, balanced and respectful

[@ClassyNia]

The Coldest Winter Ever is a good book to illustrate how a person who only has looks to offer and has been told they are cute to many times in life can expected a certain life based off looks. The character Winter may be fictional, however sometimes art imitates real life.

[@saniyusuf]

Watching from the Uk since day one. I am very impressed by Dea Smuv. You can tell he grew up and was supposed to be a stat but did the right things. He sounds like a grounded father, and great husband. Still thinks he can sound a bit non forgiving but you men are dope for real. When you are in UK, ill be picking yall up at that airport. Respect

[@TheLadyj0071]

I'm hollering too. He want his dream girl since he can afford her now. Sad, but somebody got to tell you the truth. How is she all of a sudden too masculine after 14 years. Nawwwwwwww. He Ready💃🏾😩

[@mariehenderson5125]

That part!!! Because it was me, making promises and keeping none. No father, no brother and didn't know the game.

[@kimberlyhayes2077]

Love you guys!! This comment is for the advice column. Ok I'm so glad this topic came up because this is ME! I don't want a relationship or marriage I feel this woman and can relate. There are some women who just don't want a relationship and there doesn't have to be anything wrong with them. She's being honest and giving him an opportunity to choose instead of making a decision for him and not being honest and up front. I do the exact same. BUT I've also always felt that IF I found the right person my mind can change. That right person isn't defined by materialist things or status it will be how I feel in spirit about this man and how he can compliment my life and add to the peace I already have being single. Funny thing is I have met someone that I do feel this way about so she CAN change her mind and feelings it is possible guys. But for the moment that's how she feels. Women shouldn't be labeled for this choice it's simply how she feels in her life at this time.

[@briyonamatheny8637]

I love Smuv so much! Vocals was on point, had to see the video version like who is that singing lol 😂

[@taylorjones7988]

I love this pod! Yall be putting ya girl on game

[@YesThatTasha]

Consistently 👏🏾 🍁🍁 every single week sis 😂😂 i loveee them lol 😅

[@Hballa34]

Last show..OTIS WAS IN HIS BAG!! Lets see what yall doing this round. Imma just claim 1 champ per episode

[@MelissaLona]

Smuv is right on the last one. Men typically get the woman he can afford. If she’s too masculine, too independent, and all that other stuff, it sound like to me it he was ok with it because she was really helping with all the household expenses. Maybe they were going 50/50. When women contribute financially, they tend to have say in how things are handled. Now that he got more money he probably want to upgrade to the kind of woman he always wanted. Let’s be real as the old saying goes “a woman’s loyalty is tested when her man is down. A man’s loyalty is tested when he’s up”. Women leave when he have no money and men leave when they get more money. I think Smuv is right on about the last question in.

[@laylaaustin2446]

Kenny be so over yall 😭😭😭

[@Best-ThingYouNeverHad]

Yes Smuv I say this all the time. I learned a lot of what I want from getting what I don't want. It takes practice to figure it out and perfect that to a degree that you then know what you are looking for before going into it & can spot it out.

[@naturalzel]

The husband was place holding because apart of him didn’t think he would reach this point. He decided to settle. Now that he has a new job, he is ready to find his dream woman. This is also in the “history”books. As soon as a man is up or living his dream, he is ready to find something better in a higher bracket.

[@MelissaLona]

I agree 100%. He trying to find an excuse out

[@rondz1234]

I don't think Men who married leave tho.... they have more to lose. They will most likely cheat...

[@vanillaconover3484]

Men usually talk to their mother and or sister at least in my experience.May not tell them full details but they do touch on somethings.😊I love my hubby🇵🇦

[@themaccabee8469]

I’m grateful that the Lord removed that situation from my life and that my eyes opened to what was happening to me. Now I’m working on myself and why i chose someone of that caliber, getting back to myself and improving. I feel freedom now!

[@chrissyECee]

I love that..."Get me to be more comfortable with myself".

[@tyeishablackson5874]

I was definitely in this situation for 11yrs married. (Now divorced) I didn’t know any better. Didn’t really have any example to show different. I WAS suffering from low self esteem, mommy and daddy issues, people pleasing..etc. so when I started to focus on myself and seek understanding, getting into therapy, trusting God and trusting the healing process, I did better because i knew better.

[@ladychanel5502]

I love these podcasts. Men have standards too

[@andreadrake4890]

From my experience some of the 7, plain, natural women back in the day, if you see them now, 🔥 Because they took care of themselves.

[@nofilterfine2929]

Great show as always

[@sweetwettkitty]

This is why now that real women of value and real women who have evolved and matured it is now time for us to take over and take the power

[@YesThatTasha]

1:51:02 Whewww a year without being official is crazyyyy. The connection isn't hitting like it should 🗣 babygirl there's someone that it'll be damn near instant connection when you interact for the first time. Everything will align and it'll feel like your whole life prepared you for him. Commitment is natural for the man thats for you ❤

[@kimberlyhayes2077]

Hello sista I 100% agree with your comment. I am the exact same as she is don't want a relationship or marriage BUT what the universe has aligned for you will be for you and it will not be in your control to stop it. I have found that man that aligns it's still early but he is making me rethink.

[@andrajohnson8007]

Trill you are my inspiration!!!

[@jahmilpratt8553]

Men dont wanna be wrong about the women they pick so they stay longer than they need to, nah that real.

[@LesA_09]

That was really good Kenny I don’t think a lot of men know that they need that, I believe a lot of them feel like because they were told that little boys not to cry nor should express emotions they don’t know how to realize that they actually do need to show some emotions I like that, that was really incredible. I feel like we don’t hear enough from you.

[@meshap.8713]

Kenny has an interesting perspective in regards to wanting a woman who can help sort out his emotions gradually. Because on one hand I see what he’s saying and glad he expressed as such, but I think it works both ways. In meeting a guy who I genuinely liked who was also unemotional, as a woman who’s emotional, I felt like I either had to let my emotions subside or meet him at his capacity. I think there has to be a level of compromise from both parties to cater to each others languages even if it’s not necessarily equal. Because at some point I’m gonna wonder if you’re capable of being expressive or emotional if you’re not giving me something to go on. Just some food for thought on both sides and some may or may not agree. But thank you Kenny for bein honest and saying something I never heard most express. Love you guys! ❤️🙌🏽🙏🏽

[@ClassyNia]

The best movie that showcase the 10 and 7 theory is “ Just Wright” where it highlights the pretty privilege cousin skipping the line to an athlete, and all the benefits that comes with the lifestyle, however Queen Latifah the 7 having to humble herself to get the same opportunity from the same man, also under more scrutiny from the man and mother.

[@daniellemason8481]

Trill right “Love makes women stupid “

[@Rocanala]

Love the show but men need to learn how to manage their own emotions and not rely on their woman to do so.

[@cincy4life13]

Hard to do that when no one teaches you or you do t have men to look up to. Hence why fathers are so important. If not, you’ll gone have to find that guidance in other ways.

[@hannahi9355]

I swear at this point I'm tired of listening to mens problems. It's exhausting. Listening to all this whining is giving me burnout.

[@Rocanala]

@@cincy4life13 I agree 100% that having both parents in the house is ideal. However, at some point we can’t blame our parents’ failures, we are responsible for improving ourselves.

[@lVloney]

@@hannahi9355 now yk how men feel when we gotta listen to females problems about nothin😂

[@chrissyECee]

@@Rocanala facts

[@Rina_bean_ah]

I love this podcast !! Im such a fan of Smuv !! I want to meet him in real life !! That’s my guy !! 🔥

[@pamelamoody2584]

Most of us 7's have substance, and depth about themselves.

[@toughenupprincess1987]

OT cracks me up lol

[@singreasy5141]

Trill 2:01:00 you could be wrong she couldve changed up during their marriage and when he got the dream job he knew he could provide for his new household and the one hes leaving, a good man has to survive in a marriage he doesnt want to be in for the sake of his family and making sure their provided for.

[@andrajohnson8007]

That’s crazy smooth

[@riciariley5397]

I’ve always said I may not be a dime but I’m a nickel and five pennies 🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@evolvingishpod]

1:54:55 faaaaacts, let them know. He’s place-holding.

[@MyChosenChild]

Smuv…you are on point!

[@YesThatTasha]

I love yall mannnn 😂😂😂😂I might miss the live shows but every week I'm here 🍁🍁🍁🍁 I'm a divorcee and in a long term relationship with a divorcee ❤ so I feel you on the second marriage part 😅😂 don't wanna fail again honestly.

[@primetime412]

Dream job=dream chick 😂😂😂

[@lizjack7329]

It's a lot easier to keep it out than get it out after it comes in

[@jennifersherrill-ls3bq]

He did one time get me flowers and a beautiful meal ,when it was good with us.

[@kayhamilton4501]

41:46 Sad because they be hating the most like damn chill out. Teach me something you wish you knew at my age 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@sweetwettkitty]

Pay attention all of us valued and evolved and matured women.

[@evelisisdavis7242]

Agreed

[@tamikaglover807]

I love y’all 🙏🏾

[@lisabowman877]

I tried to voluntarily have a financed vehicle repossessed. It took them 8 months to come and get it! So, ijs. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@Best-ThingYouNeverHad]

I'm with Smuv & it's been proven time & time again. Most ment who "settle" for example because they don't make the money and aren't attractive enough to make up for it in looks they pick a woman that's below what they really want & then when they get that money they want the woman they always wanted. I'm not a fan of Kevin Samuel's, but that's a point he use to make that I have definitely seen proof of so I can agree with it. Like he said men don't mind "paying" for what they want. And we as woman see it as disloyalty because we're confused but if you look at that man's past you'll see the women he was dating when he was young, fresh & vibrant don't look like the woman he married. Because by the time he got ready to settle down those women did not want him because of money, but that woman accepted him where he was. Now he wants to go leave her for women that never truly wanted him before. Like Jim Jones & Jay-Z said back then you didn't want me now I'm hot you all on me 💯

[@andrecable4229]

that was that baby making music lol

[@og9575]

That's real as shit Trill. Every failed relationship robs a mans faith in relationships. Even when shit looks good, when its looked good before and still failed, it means less the next time around. Real shit.

[@SomeofThisSomeofThat]

A 7 looks better than average. These women have no problem getting men. The women they were talking about with personality are women who are 3s and 4s.

[@tamikaglover807]

Not the mix tape😂 😂

[@WizardLand97]

That’s INSANE .. IMPROVE WHAT? You want the 1%

[@destinyxo8653]

I need the red dad hat immediately!

[@daniellemcfadden2357]

Happy Wednesday and Thursday

[@Jaedanni23]

1:24:55 naw his first answer was honest 32%

[@jennifersherrill-ls3bq]

When me and my ex husband first got married I would make him breakfast in bed when he was off work ,when he was working and a massage,but never would get it in return.

[@earthangel0016]

Come on, man. The answer is to take responsibility for your actions. Don't blame the woman or play on her emotions. That's not right. So, in short, that man is taken her for granted and planned that from the start. That guy needs to grow up. Be truthful from the beginning and say, " I do not like you like that." Then, she can decide to leave him alone. If he needs a room, just ask. She then has the right to 1) Let him rent a room, or not. Plain and simple. The importance is to walk in truth and to set boundaries. Don't lie to and prey on people. It's not right, period!

[@dmented35]

Kenny description of a wonan is wild with the trauma women have so often

[@GetItOffYaChestTv]

24min ish..... Keep in mind that most of us women/men wasn't raised in healthy emotional/mentally stable environments. We were raised in functioning dysfunction, which helped lead us to where we are in our adult lives. Learning about emotional intelligence was introduced later once we took a trip on that self journey to better ourselves. Some of us was raised in single parent households with a few step dads that made seasonal appearances, so how are we expected to be a healthy wife, we wasn't exposed to that luxury. When you are insecure, lacked attention and seeked approval from others growing up,, the first person that gives you a false sense of fulfillment you'll latch on to and thats why she/he don't want to let go of that relationship. Its the fear of not being accepted again, thats false sense of being loved.

[@chanelle8021]

Krew season love your guys videos. Watch it every day,I just want to say on of the subject you guys are talking about. On a woman side is yes I have a lot of trauma. But I know I that I work on them every day. And no man can’t save me and only God and myself. Can do that and is being able to heal and let go and being happy being by yourself.

[@carolbrice5897]

But Be there just be there❤

[@Money132215]

🍁 missed the live but y’all already know what it is? 💪🏾

[@chrissyECee]

Love this Show!!

[@MelissaLona]

I think breakups is harder on whoever was fully invested. And that can be either men and women. If a man is more invested in his relationship than a woman, it’s going to hurt him more. Same goes for women.

[@xoKimberlyyG]

Ken is a Capricorn- I just know it! 😆

[@ladietee2824]

Trill is

[@KpopHabbits]

them guys sprinting to 200k💯

[@johnsonkassie720]

Got Milk😂

[@jackiepage3280]

Well I feel it should be Happy Spouse Happy House....

[@daniellemcfadden2357]

Be a good real good honor trust believe don't dealing no drama

[@daniellemcfadden2357]

All my children doing good and married ❤️❣️❤️ do right things to do I treat good people

[@maryrios5986]

If u a loli pop...I'm dying overhere 😂😂😂

[@daniellemcfadden2357]

How are you all doing or feeling

[@tasha200]

I think women and men can be hurt once an relationship or marriage ends depending how much you invested.

[@sophiaf.]

ADR

[@SOAKTV]

None y’all got the merch on?!? Slackin

[@dsmoove008]

Did u notice the hat on Trill

[@SOAKTV]

@@dsmoove008 jus wanted y’all to reply 😏

[@laylaaustin2446]

Krew Season x Rich and Employed

[@daniellemcfadden2357]

Amen good blessing almost afternoon 🌞❣️❤️🌞 you are looking good

[@kayhamilton4501]

1:44:03 soon as he quit fw her and he get a girl she will become a problem. 😂

[@daniellemcfadden2357]

Be you really are

[@daniellemcfadden2357]

Go to church sometimes some members not real or fake good understand

[@kitamariemartin2069]

LoL not historically

[@lindajones7103]

9 to 5

[@SuperDG333]

🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@daniellemcfadden2357]

That truly about some men not real man just be men about

[@marnaesmith2247]

A lot of women are moving like men out here…it’s just sex. That’s it. That’s all.

[@daniellemcfadden2357]

Whoever said something about anything I am a good person and mother

[@ijayk]

Who are the guys in the picture?

[@dsmoove008]

Chad Butler aka Pimp C

[@ijayk]

@@dsmoove008 thank you Smuv.

[@marnaesmith2247]

Yeah my guy, leave her alone. You’re not making love to her…it’s just sex. At this point she ain’t leading you on🫣

[@marnaesmith2247]

Nah, those nagging women are married or in relationships…a lot of men continue to stay there in the mess. Crazy.

[@thedon1023]

I’ll say about 65% of men will go in but only about 20%-30% percent of men are getting enough play to be able to go all in. That new study about how most men under 30 are single with no prospects.

[@lizjack7329]

Women lose looks, Men lose looks & testosterone... find a good mate for life

[@sweetwettkitty]

There are no good men out here. No good men at all. Continue to be single by choice

[@daniellemcfadden2357]

Northside story

[@jennifersherrill-ls3bq]

Then he started cheating so I didn't care no more.

[@tamikaglover807]

😂😂😂

[@vanillaconover3484]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🇵🇦