Dealing with a Narcissist? 3 Mistakes You Can't Afford to Make + Q&A

There are wonderful qualities that can work against you when dealing with a narcissist IF you're not careful. So join me in today's LIVEstream as you learn how to guard your heart by preparing for the 3 mistakes you can't afford to make when dealing with a narcissist.
** Scripture correction - 2 Timothy 3:1-5
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[@harrypotgieter2572]

I am married to a narcissist for 9 years, I left him many times and every time I fell for his lies and went back. Now I became more mature in my relationship with God and prayed that God will remove him if he don't want to change. I have been in bondage for a long time and God really knows our hearts desires..after 9 years of praying, my husband moved out by himself and started the divorce process. I have so much peace since he moved out. And my children and I can reconnect, because God is a God for families. Watching Kris helps me alot. Thank You Kris

[@harrypotgieter2572]

❤

[@tanyaohler9358]

This has been my prayer too. I am learning to trust God in the process. So happy for you. God does watch out for his children.

[@austin33785]

Always trust women to pick winners.

[@nicholecornes1915]

Theres just no other way

[@ron1982O]

I’m married to one for 47 yrs.

[@muchograndetube]

"Obedience regardless of outcome" reminds me of the men in the book of Daniel who, when faced with death in a furnace, said, "Our God will save us, but even if He does not, we will not bow down!"

[@Kris_Reece]

So true!

[@jadec2002]

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[@elsaoliver9073]

@Kris_Reece Kris about the case where the husband wanted to change door locks,you never asked him what causeherto walk away.I am similar situation being blamed for my husband's heroine enslaved daughter being sent for rehab but ever time leaves the place and has been on the streets for all most more than 2 years. In May 2023 my husband vowed to see that she gets help. We were in Durbam where his daughter lived in one shelter to the other. I HAVE AGREED SHE MIVES IN WITH US, BUT EXPECTED HIS COOPERATION FOR HER TO BE REHABILITATIED . That never happened she walked away from at least 5 institutions. I MADE AN AGREEMENT WITH HIM TO STAY BEHIND IN ADURBAN AND TAKE HIS DAUGHTER HOME WITH HIM IN ANOTHER PROVINCE WHERE WE ARE LIVING. AHE DID NOT KEEP HIS PROMISE I am back but considering de vorce ashe does not take any responsibility and I have never refrain from supporting him bu my sanity is now at risk. May be the husband's whosewife left May have had n good reason to leave.

[@gregnormanpatientsafetyfirst]

I have been in the rabbitt hole for a long time, Its just so damn frustrating that their is no logic in their actions. The only answer is demonic, this person is destroying themselves for no apparent reason. Gaslighting and never ever gives up on it. The devil is very involved here. This divorce has gone south due to her lies and the court took her side believed her lies. God is teaching me no doubt, he has been with me the whole time! Jesus is Lord Amen

You're 100% right. They are indeed evil beings. Courts and judges fall for their BS all the time.

[@jenniferbrownell-kg8dw]

I do not have to fight anymore. I do not have to justify. God IS fighting for me

[@samanthawilliams5520]

This is Christian counseling! Clinicians in this demographic are soooo lacking. To have had these insights (understandings I’ve had earlier) validated would have saved much grief, resources and time.

[@noritaramirez2930]

Married to a narcissist for a number of years. Just today I have been crying for 24 hours feeling confused how he can say so many things and twisted everything that I have done. This segment truly spoke to me. ❤ and thank you for the prayer. ❤

[@margretheeidsnes543]

❤😢

[@JP-ll8iy]

Because it has nothing to do with you or me. It’s the demons inside of them.

[@jadec2002]

??? Kris, can you do a series on Trusting the Lord after “trust” has been broken so often by a narcissist ??? Trusting myself and God is hard after years of trusting the Lord to deliver the narcissist in my life, and the years of prayers not being answered (no deliverance or change in the narc). I know it’s not God’s fault, I’m not blaming God. I blame myself for trusting the fake version of the narc.

[@Kris_Reece]

That sounds like a much needed topic. I'll definitely consider that. Thanks!

[@antoniettafragias5658]

I've been praying for my husband for 28 years and nothing. I just found out 5 months ago that he has been cheating on me our entire marriage. All lies and I never knew it. I got angry at God at first, but then I thanked Him for delivering me from the lies. Unfortunately, people have the right to do what they want and we get caught in the crossfire. God has come through every step of the way as I move forward with divorce. He is faithful and trustworthy.

[@jadec2002]

@@antoniettafragias5658 I understand you so much. I can really relate to getting angry at God. I got so angry. Wondering why it took so long for the “truth” to be revealed (that I was living with a narcissist, a fake. My whole marriage had been a sham. I went through all the “why God?” questions. Then I found Kris and the biblical wisdom God speaks using her 🙏🏼 As I started understanding what I had been dealing with for sooo many years, I could finally see God with me through it ALL!! His grace IS sufficient! He never left me nor forsake me. It was “me” getting in the way and Satan deceiving me with every seed I planted (towards my narc husband), believing God would change/deliver him. There were MANY signs I should have ended the marriage much sooner. I trusted the wrong voice. Mine and satan’s. Now I need to get my trust back!! I pray God’s blessings and strength to you, while you are on your healing journey. 🙏🏼

[@andycristiana1043]

God is in control of no matter what the devil meant for harm, God can use for your good, if you are in Him. My favorite verse; Romans 8:28. Everything comes from God and everything goes to God, ultimately always having control of it all. He is worthy of it all. In the good times, in the bad times, learning to trust God, basically comes down to a relationship with Him, being His disciple. Obedience to Him no matter what, praise, worship, prayer, brothers/sisters holding you up, learning to let the Holy Spirit lead in every step. Faith, hope, and love, complete trust in our Creator ❤

[@tinashipman]

​@@Kris_Reece Thank you sooo much for the courage to pray...outloud & genuine...for both parties .( the tortured narcissists also)! You are helping so many of God's people and I appreciate you..and thank you! You have encouraged and helped me escape the web of narcissistic abuse in my life. You have MUCH treasure stored up in heaven and many crowns to lay at HIS feet. Again, thank you

[@anniemoulinsteffen3465]

Nobody can separate us from the love of God

[@elizabethborowska9405]

Thank you for the prayer ! 🙏 I need to take care of myself better. I can't allow to be used and neglected by my narcissistic husband.

[@nicholecornes1915]

Take great care of yourself! Like really good care of yourself!!!

[@jadec2002]

🙏🏼 Amen 🙏🏼 Thank you for that powerful and beautiful prayer. Praise you Abba Father!!

[@norapease8087]

You are ABSOLUTELY right on!! ♥️☝️I Just had an experience that I confronted someone (in deep genuine love) and they deny anything & then find what's wrong with me - I walked away in TOTAL FREEDOM that I "OBEYED" the LORD, spoke the Truth in Love AND have no GUILT or condemnation!!! Praying God REVEALS to them the love of the TRUTH that sets them FREE.. I'm moving on👍😂♥️☝️🕊️🔥📖

[@sleepsound9000]

Never give them the benefit of doubt, otherwise you deceive yourself of the truth...which is the Holy Spirit. And you're just excusing their behavior. 👍

[@LuandaMead]

I LOVE the creativity!!! It's so much easier to absorb and helps to break it up by using laughter....please don't stop!❤

[@lorettaenglerth1361]

Remember: you'll know them by their fruits; the Narcissist Bowl of fruit is rotten

[@benjaminthome8488]

1. Believing the best of them 2. Believing their words over their actions 3. Believing in the outcome over obedience

[@jadec2002]

I enjoy both formats Kris! A mixture of both is wonderful. Let the Holy Spirit guide you 🙏🏼 Blessings to you and your ministry.

[@Kris_Reece]

Thank you :)

[@raddaen]

Actions speak louder than words.

[@GuyAnderson-vh7nm]

Already been proven an witness first hand…… Check yourself

[@amyteurlife9408]

Believe behavior

[@hj9ox7ku8t]

I agree!!!! Actions are unmistakable and clearly understood but the words just don't make sense 😢

[@maggielucy9824]

Experienced this with my husband.

[@maggielucy9824]

Not a good place to be when you're deeply distraught. 😢

[@MYKEYCARD]

💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜 💜YOU'RE ANALOGIES ARE 💜 💜PHENOMENAL 💜 💜 THANK YOU 💜 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

[@maxwell-cole]

Amen. What a powerful message! 🙏🏽 This was powerful and excellent. The fruit fly stayed for the fruit in this message. 🙂

[@nathaliecollado6165]

I’m currently going through this with my narcissistic husband. I feel like I don’t even know who I married. I’ll be filing for divorce soon. THANK YOU, KRIS! You’ve been like my best friend, mom, sister through this and my reminder that God is my everything! 🙏🏼

[@mariatyler2742]

I feel this. So much. My husband keeps calling me deceitful and narcissist, and accusing me of gaslighting him because I couldn't remember something that happened after my dad died. He talks badly about me to his friends and tries to convince everyone I'm some crazy horrible person. It's so strange because he is the one that doesn't have a healthy relatuonship with anyone in his life. Not his mother, his father, his child, sister, or me. No one. Yet he thinks I'm the problem. I soent years trying to feel validated in my feelings only to be ignored and misunderstood. I'll be filing soon too. I've given up. He is on this thread minimizing my feelings to childish behavior and outbursts. I'm done with it all.

[@tammycatron5581]

I’ve been married to a narcissist for 28 years and the last few years I had my eyes opened because of your KZbin videos.

[@a.pepper6687]

I get your point about the healthy one, the Christian praying and expecting or hoping for immediate change but you are taking it to the extreme. Do you want to call abused people childish? Don't they suffer enough without your added-on careless words? I know you are trying to help but consider your words more carefully. I am NOT at a place in my life where I expect change in my relationship. I will continue to be God honoring staying when I have Bibical reasons to leave. I now understand who I married and why there has been no peace. But I have pefect peace with God and I am moving forward making healthy friendships--involving myself in healthy activities.

[@julienatoli8561]

Wow!! Holy cow Kris it's like you're sitting right here with me, that prayer was amazing. It was 100% for me. Thank you so much for all you do. Truly ... God bless you. 🙏✝️🕊️

[@lilybuccigross6688]

So interesting as I left my narc husband at the airport after telling me he loved me while saying he couldn’t live with me. Your words, Kris, were my exact words, “ I choose to be obedient.” God will take care of me. He is faithful.

[@Proudchristian1975]

You are spot-on this is exactly how a narcissist behaves. I'm currently in the middle of divorcing my narcissist husband after I found out he has a girlfriend he met on a dating website in another town where he works. If I was confronting him about her somehow it got all turned around and now I'm defending my actions of the last 22 years and we're not even discussing the fact that he's currently having an affair.

[@lindarose8668]

They are tricky that way

[@JeweloftheMostHigh]

I've just confirmed I'm married to a Christian covert narcissist for 13 years. He doesn't provide for me & our sons, always full of excuses. I'm the breadwinner for many years. Thanks for sharing your revelations, Ms. Kris & Thank God I saw your channel. Making a Plan.

[@With.Love.Chris.]

Just came out of a 5.5 year narcissistic abusive relationship. Told him I was rededicating to Jesus and so many crazy things happened. Freedom is here. ❤

[@celestebreytenbach2596]

WELL DONE!! GOOD RIDDANCE. Now no more giving him even a sentence. No explaining a thing. Cut - best thing I ever did ❤❤❤

[@alerdman2002]

Bingo 18 years I spent energy time self avoidance self-abuse trying to convince the narc my son-in-law and trying to rescue my grandchildren and my daughter to see things are normal at all did not know the meaning or characteristic of narcissism till 18 years after he does all of the above you said and I would look at some of the positive aspects and characteristics of this guy and tried to keep a relationship with my daughter and tried to bring out the good and keep peace only for the next time blowout argument yelling screaming belittling me never hearing a word I said he never listens to anything anybody says he has ruined the whole family I cut ties 8 months ago and now I can't see my grandchildren cuz I'm the problem

[@celestebreytenbach2596]

How dreadful for you. All these selfish unkind beasts. Screaming like a banchy is a lunatic & not something to be proud of. Its not easy dealing with adult children & esp if the trouble-maker is the problem. Am so sad & sorry for you 😢😘

[@alerdman2002]

Oh lordy he uses everybody sentences and words and doesn't even know what he's saying and we digest it then my daughter justifies it and makes excuses for him

[@celestebreytenbach2596]

Shocking. He has entitled mentality to have no boundaries. A friend's daughter does that with her ex of 2 wks. I am trying to help her set boundaries with him. He wanted to divorce leaving her heartbroken but she enables his toxic behaviour. We all need to set boundaries

[@CoachHadassah]

Triggers. It’s like when Yahshua said, “The adversary comes and he has NOTHING in me.” My “triggers” were in my childhood relationship with my mother. To see very similar behaviors in my spouse, I realized that I was attempting to “save” him the same way that I wanted to “save” my mother. I am not the Savior. I stayed for 20+ years for the sake our children however they are over the age of 18 now and they are aware of the behaviors themselves and understand why I must undo this relationship.

[@lwgrantsmom1603]

So excited to see this live! I recently discovered your channel and have been binge-watching all your content from several years ago!

[@Kris_Reece]

So glad we've connected!

[@lwgrantsmom1603]

@@Kris_Reece I’m also on your mailing list now!

[@mjflores100]

Thank you, thank you! I have had to deal with so many Christians like this and other Christians accuse me of being unloving. I never mistreat another person spitefully, but I also will not allow demonically motivated people access to my heart. We must guard our hearts with all diligence. We need to be wise as serpents and harmless as doves.

[@michaelgeraghty1484]

I just received wisdom from my Lord to move on , I went no contact completely from all contact , I am believing God has open the door for me , thanks to Him for wisdom and what His plan for me , wow what truth

[@markjayw666]

#3 👍👍👍 Focus on the boundary you set, not the reaction / cry baby reaction to the boundary. Perfect

[@MYKEYCARD]

💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜 💜Thank You 💜 💜 For Your Global Prayer 💜 💜 IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF 💜 💜 JESUS AMEN & AWOMAN 💜 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

[@MarysSecretary33]

“You shall know them by their fruits”… fruit fly shows up 😏⭐️✨🤭🤣

[@brightertomorrow9514]

You are 100% right. The Holy spirit has given you the gift of teaching especially on this subject. Having survived narcissist abuse, I understand their tireless assault day and night they wage upon you year after year. It is a terrible thing. It is actual torture and torment. It helped when someone finally told me that my abuser was a narcissist and now I have been on the long road to trying to heal.

[@kayreenbellamy6081]

I like both versions of your videos. Creative or just head shot. I get good information from both. Thank you ❣️

[@Kris_Reece]

I'm so glad. Thank you.

[@maryjoeverette7280]

Yes Lord, vindicate me!

[@AliceMcKechnie]

I was married to a diagnosed 'borderline personality disordered'.for 28 years. Your words are healing for me. It is fantastic to hear you tell the truth I lived through and the lingering posion. I got away on a long story, but it wasn't over till he smoked himself to death. That was in 2013, I am still healing. You speak the truth about narcissist.

[@nanettesmith9234]

Boy did I need this! Thank you!

[@DavinaDavis-xo8wo]

I feel so close to you while you’re praying for me because you see me. Amen

[@AnaSilva-to1sy]

I can have empathy for Narcissists, because l gave my life to God, the only one who can change the heart of a Narcissist, (and l don't plan on remarrying, my children are grown, so l can't imagine how a mother could treatl their child so badly that they have no choice, but to become Narcissistic, l believe their empathy has been stomped on, because they never been shown any unconditional love as small children).

[@maydanavabarnett5177]

What if narc apologizes and starts therapy but still repeats toxic patterns and creates drama for pity?

[@victoriarosario3338]

[18:15] Thank you, Kris. You are so SPOT ON with this! 🎯Thank you for affirming that I'm not out of my mind..."Blood trail" (of my emotions) is right! God Help Me...Well, lol, I guess He already is, through you. 🥰❤‍🩹🙏🕊🌼

[@jonathanelischer2909]

Love the creativity ❤you go with the Holy Spirit don’t change a thing.

[@della4386]

Amen !! Thank you for the meaningful prayer. May God bless you.❤

[@wanguimaina8030]

@Kris Reece I've been a keen follower....and for sure very inspiring.... A powerful prayer indeed....i separated a month ago from my narcissist husband....and I can attest I has been a game changer in reinventing myself... The hardest part has been praying for him....

[@auntieb3621]

I was sold into human trafficking before the age of two. I was sold and worse for more than 3 decades. When I finally got out I landed with one controlling person after another. I had to take plan on Jesus and let my heart break again and again and again while he showed me the things inside me that needed to be healed. It's still going on, but I'm learning to do what he asks me and let the chips fall where they may knowing that the Father will care for me no matter what. That prayer was so beautiful. Thank you for that. I have been free for 8.5 years now. . And I keep finding more and more freedom through interactions like this and through the spirit of Jesus. Thank you again❤

[@tarabrickle8745]

Well spoken dear sister in Christ. It saddens my heart to hear your history knowing there are many more in the world. You are a victory! Keep leaning into Him and watch what He can do with the past. It's an amazing journey of healing and love beyond our comprehension. Prayers of your continued victory in Him.

[@brandonmitchell6655]

That Fly must be a flying narcissist.

[@loriguercio4374]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@nanettesmith9234]

Especially when it's your adult child.

[@AddictedTooYeshua]

So true experienced it. So glad Holy Spirit gave me a way out. And i was able to cut ties with the guy. I have been through so many smear campaigns but was able to stay quiet because i knew how God saw me . And He is really all that matters. What a beautiful prayer!

[@freweineadhanom3335]

I am married for 20 years for a narcissist husband.Thank you for opening my eyes to see the website I need totake care of myself.🙏Lord jesus please help me to deal with this. There’s nothing to be cut for you, Lord.😊

[@jenniferbrownell-kg8dw]

Wise as serpents & gentle as doves

[@bekind7288]

I used to think my words were very effective and he was enlightened. Surely I made it obvious his behavior was wrong. He acted and responded that way. God has shown me how my own ego was blinding me. I had to and continue to see that I need to give this to God, the ultimate judge. He will lovingly guide us and discipline us according to His will for us. We simply need to submit and repent. To God, not to the twisted narcissist. Continuing to try and "reach" him was me trying to step into God's place. This video was very helpful, thank you!! ❤❤

[@penny459]

A beautiful prayer Chris thankyou, from an older lady who at times suffers greatly from her full blown narcissistic daughter. God bless you.

[@ld1238]

Aliens are demonic, so that makes total sense lol

[@davidsisson2026]

I was married to a narcissist woman fir 12 years. She was a victim when i met her. And i was an abuser when before the divorce judge. Lied from the time i met her till the end. Strange how that works.Kris is spot on

[@darbydrummer5298]

There was healing taking place, thank you so much, I didn't expect your prayer 🙏 ❤️ I needed that , I lost my job yesterday 😢 AMEN THANK YOU 🙏 I FELT IT

[@karendouglas8519]

That was the most beautiful prayer.❤️

[@tinamedina8064]

I was drained three years pain first the relationship was good but at the end he changhed so much toxic disrespectful i told him God can help him nothing i achived he only took from me but he never invested in me i loved him God gave me all the signs too go thanks too jesus im libriated from this person he too blind fold of my face thank God for it it hurts but at the end is better.

[@DreTheChildofGod]

I've been people pleasing just about my whole life. Looking forward to your material on that!

[@clancyb747]

Always spot on.Amen❤

[@clafra]

Live in a 55plus (to 100 year olds) apartments. 300 souls in all seasons of life! Always trying to be kind and helpful but “narcissism going into dementia” is tough one with all personality traits intact. With 1 particular acquaintance I find myself exhausted with interactions and need to just avoid her! Praying to God for help and forgiveness !

[@ta6531]

yes, I get thrown a bone ( get to visit my grandkids after 2 years) than off they go, not responding to texts or reaching out at all.

[@LuandaMead]

Life is short.. my son almost died....now he's a different man

[@markjayw666]

Believing the best of them? Lol we don’t.

[@ashlynndavis5269]

I just want to thank you for all your knowledge

[@anawalkman8404]

I'm ready..

[@damarislopez420]

AMEN 🙏!!! Love your channel and you!! So blessed by all the info and the Biblical perspectives!! 🙏 ❤️ 🕊️🕊️👧🏻🕊️

[@myheartHislove]

Thank you!! I so needed this and the prayer was for me. I'm 50yrs old. 30yr marriage. My husband just filed on me after I asked him to get help and do counseling w me and make our marriage work. I've had 35 surgeries and am an amputee, I cant work full time. So many unknowns rn. I've been writing a bk and believe God will use my story to help thousands. You are a great encouragement to me. I'll continue to watch and listen to your wisdom. I've experienced the Holy Spirit this past yr like never before. He's been strengthening me for this path I must walk. Thanks God for HIS faithfulness!!!

[@Vermillion73]

I’m sorry you’re going through a difficult time right now, I like your videos and I pray your book does help thousands, God bless you!

[@newhope4me]

Where do I see your videos, dear brave one?

[@ElizabethCosta-j7g]

I am learning so much from these videos. I had a relationship with a narcissist. He was a Deacon of my church. Wow they know who to look for to control. I Thank God for opening up my eyes and your videos that I stumbled into. No coincidence. Thank you and God Bless.🙏❤️🇺🇸

[@KDRRR711]

Apple cider vinegar in a jar with holes in the top will catch them flies.

[@raddaen]

There’s not a best of a narcissist.

[@B007NDMI6]

This is exactly what have bee n happening, i cannot cope any longer

[@brandonmitchell6655]

Perhaps, because it's a Fruit Fly, it's really digging your Fruitful Discussion.

[@KarenAisoli]

Thank You and God Bless You Kris for the lovely and powerful prayer.

[@kellywalsh4596]

Disorientation and confusion is exactly it! Defend and deflect!

[@anawalkman8404]

Amen..Thank you for the wonderful prayer..I feel sorry for this person..God guide him to choose the good one..Not me..

[@dianemintz7225]

Amen! Thank you for that healing prayer and the wisdom you deliver ❤

[@ref7249]

2nd Timothy 3:1-5. 1st Timothy 3:1-5 speaks about the character of a bishop. I questioned because 2nd Timothy 3:5 is the scripture the Spirit brought me to before my ex became my ex.

[@tjenkins76]

Amen!! I want to see my 10 Grandkids and I’m married to the NARCISSIST and there not his grandkids but they are all he knows and he’s so selfish‼️‼️‼️😢

[@TonyaAbernathy68]

Same here, he tells me if I wanna see them then go to their house but don’t bring them here….

[@sonjabrady1032]

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR SUPPORT AND PROGRAM IM VERY THANKFULLY GREATFUL GRADITUDE FOR YOU KRIS YOU ARE SO HELPFUL TO SO MANY OF US I DEAL with this everyday.

[@AnnStricklandinterviews]

My husband is a pastor. My personality is mercy motivation. I think the best of everyone. In the church It's been difficult for me to see the narcissist until they are in control.

[@msomimelon]

I've just began watching and pausing to take notes. I looked up 1 Timothy 3:1-5. Just a note to viewers it's 2 Timothy instead of 1 Timothy as mentioned at the 1:58 mark. 2 Timothy 3:1-5. 💛 Bless

[@nicholecornes1915]

Heck no! They will hurt you over and over and over! Stay out of their way! Jezzabell had NO good qualitys nether do narcissist why? Same spirit different body

[@antheredhen]

How they repeat your phrases back to you... Amazingly he doesn't believe most things I do.. Until he's trying to manipulate me then he's all in on repeating the things I've said..

[@KingYeshuasHomeschool]

“Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced from her husband commits adultery." Luke 16:18 To the woman who asked if she was released from her husband who left her. It is not a sin to be divorced, but it is a sin to remarry with a living spouse because then who would be the ones that are called adulterers?

[@blessedgrandma]

I'm married to a narcissist. He thinks he's better than anyone and I'm the problem. Talks about himself constantly. It's exhausting

[@kayjohnson5524]

Yes, they always turn it on you. They are the victim. They try to shame you. They lie to others about you. They Will emotionally attack you out of nowhere. Then if you become upset, then turn it on you. Actually my daughter is a Sociopath. She has no remorse whatsoever. Very cold hearted. Yes, they want to confuse you. It’s never them. They don’t change.

[@marinavan5055]

Thank you, Kris. I know it isn't easy for you to do this everyday. Just know that you are highly appreciated and such a blessing. I 'm looking forward to meeting you in the clouds someday soon. God bless from New Zealand❣️

[@elsaoliver9073]

Kris I appreciate you program its helping to 7nderstand better and I will follow your teacing Elsa from Rsa

[@joannehart4228]

How does sex fall within this? How does a wife handle that aspect? When holding boundaries and consequences?

[@Daizey57]

NOOOOOO, ...NO... you didn't just say that... "Eat less, move more". That has long been debunked. My fam & I have always been into health & fitness. I was into growing & herbs, etc. As we aged we began to eat "better", eat less, moving more than we ever have... & our health & weight both deteriorated. Turns out we both had autoimmune conditions triggered by a very traumatic year (2016) & the only thing that has worked for us, & we tried EVERYTHING, was the Carnivore diet. I have Cholinergic Urticaria which, in short, means I cannot work out, & can't even break a sweat. We're homesteaders who grew & canned our own food... we've never ate this good in our lives, or so we thought, till we found Dr Ken Berry & later Dr Chaffee & Dr Baker. Not trying to kick the hornets nest, or anything, but just wanted others to know that the current science is not supporting that & that when it comes to health & fitness/weight it isn't a blanket answer.

[@percivalalexander]

Hi I appreciate your education and sharing important issues to take note of concerning narcissists. I have an older brother that shows strong signs for as long as I can remember. To be honest, it always use to erk me, many times, just thinking about the many times he show disrespect, sometimes rude behavior. Insentive as he's always been, he never takes accountability for his actions, whether you confront him or not. In 2021 an incident happened where we as family were socializing and he displayed the same off beat and rude behavior towards my wife. After the event she promised herself to never visit or have contact with him ever again. Around the same time I realized what we are really dealing with. I've watched several videos on this topic after praying about it. And, trust me, I've learned such Alot ever since. Finally I could put a name to it. Ever since that incident in 2021,we both decided to just go "no contact". It's now 2024 and the status is exactly the same. We are also aware of the gaslighting, blame shifting, denial and smear campaigns flying around. His wife even mentioned to some we know how they as a couple cannot stomach us. For us:it's like water off the backside of a duck Question:what's your take on our decision to go no contact and any further tips please. Just to note:we sleep like babies at nite, total peace. Thank you

[@susanhall9560]

Yes I feel like the problem in my relationship. It's because of the way I left the situation. I didn't respond to his attempts to reconcile. So he moved on. i.e. I am the problem because I wouldn't fight for us.

[@LoniTaylor]

And they flip the script and are never accept responsibility. I a 51 yr old son, a 34 yr old daughter and last but not lease a 21 yr old granddaughter, I'm 70 years old enough is enough. Kris its like you are in my head

[@WendyTaylor-cd1lb]

God bless you for sharing God's word. You help me see the side of myself I have lost with my covert narcissistic husband.

[@sophieinspires]

this video make me remember of more than one person you are amazing kris you really know how some people behave

[@Airamlopez729]

Amen ❤🙏 thank you since I seen your videos I have learned and been free 🙏 thank you blessings I’m so grateful

[@soniarose1983]

Very informative. This has given me confidence that your courses are not just another online course! I’ve done so many different ones but I feel like the biblical aspect and your deep understanding is going to make it worth my time and money, and really could be invaluable! Thankyou for your confidence and insight ❤

[@HelenLange-up1pz]

THANK YOU for PRAYING with us after giving us profound & practical insights based on Biblical understanding. It has been very validating & Life nourishing

[@Godgirl42]

In a narc marriage. I made peace with some habits he has. Now the narc behavior is so overpowering and causing issues when he don’t get his way. I do have some codependency issues I see now. With other family members also. I wish I could talk to someone like you that brings the biblical correct way to deal with toxic relationships. I’ve been in them off and on all my life. Had a great childhood so I need to recognize what’s happening. I’m now in my 40s. Thank you for your videos!!