Biblical Proof of the Narcissists Bleak Future

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Kris Reece

Kris Reece

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Narcissists have a way of sucking all the joy out of a relationship and leaving you looking like the problem.
But just when you think this person is going to get away with and maybe even prosper in thier wickedness, hold on, because there’s a side you haven’t considered. Join me in today’s LIVEstream as we talk about biblical proof of the narcissists bleak future.
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@shaeholden1743
@shaeholden1743 Жыл бұрын
I was married for 24 years to a "Christian" textbook narcissist. (I think he WROTE the book, actually.) 😐My sanity and physical health were just about gone when I left him - contrary to counseling by church leaders to stay (that's a whole OTHER story). I am still healing mentally and physically from the damage done ... but ... I have come to the place of accepting that God has a plan for it - despite the fact that I don't yet understand. Joseph's story in the Old Testament is great comfort to me. I trust God's love for me and His sovereignty.
@maryesser7761
@maryesser7761 Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤
@marymorris6897
@marymorris6897 Жыл бұрын
Shae, I wish you well as your healing continues. Christianity + narcissism is a bad mix, very bad. I've been there, and now I'll do almost anything to protect myself.
@meghalaratnaiya9113
@meghalaratnaiya9113 Жыл бұрын
I don't even that he cld be a called as a christian because he is not even attempting to be like Jesus who was full of grace and truth
@izzyfury8126
@izzyfury8126 Жыл бұрын
Shea I share your story. May we fulfill the scriptures that say we must prove the devil a liar. J w. Org Psalms 119 Then I will reply to the one taunting me, For I put my trust in your word. 43 Do not utterly remove the word of truth from my mouth, For I have hoped in your judgment. 44 I will keep your law constantly, Forever and ever. 45 And I will walk about in a place of safety...
@brettdalessio4777
@brettdalessio4777 Жыл бұрын
Yes Genesis 37 and on, it led me to. The Cluster B (black and white thinking) (idealize, devalue, discard, replace). Joseph's discard by his unhealthy family was actually a great grace. As Kris says God rescues, God heals, God restores.
@loisfrazer1898
@loisfrazer1898 Жыл бұрын
So good. I survived a 25 year marriage to a Christian narcissist that just about ruined me. Ten years later he is still reaping what he sowed and I have healed and am closer to God than ever. Praise His name!
@ReRe_642
@ReRe_642 Жыл бұрын
Stay in Gods light.
@CreateYourTune
@CreateYourTune Жыл бұрын
How is he? Just curious. Thank you
@loisfrazer1898
@loisfrazer1898 Жыл бұрын
@@CreateYourTune I went no contact, so I really don't know much, except that it cost him a lot.
@ReRe_642
@ReRe_642 Жыл бұрын
@@CreateYourTune nothing yet.
@Kim-Berly200
@Kim-Berly200 Жыл бұрын
I so, long for this testimony 😢
@jossy6744
@jossy6744 Жыл бұрын
“When God’s hand is in it you are going to win it” that touched me to the core. Thank you Jesus.
@jennifersolga6172
@jennifersolga6172 Жыл бұрын
It doesn't seem God's hand is in my situation because I'm not winning. My ex narcissist is winning with every lie him and his wife tell.
@carlamccullum1738
@carlamccullum1738 Жыл бұрын
I hollered and repeated it too! That was a word!
@sherrysaleeby2709
@sherrysaleeby2709 Жыл бұрын
​@@jennifersolga6172I know how you feel & I have to remind myself that these type people have a demonic spirit ( & Gods timing is NOT our timing) but because of these demonic Entitled People, I truly believe that there isn't any way that God won't take care of these Evil Narcissist! I couldn't get a word in on an argument with the Narc & the word salad being thrown at me & I remember saying to this person who seemed to have a demonic spirit & was directing some nonsense my way 8 managed to get out That I didn't have to worry about doing anything to this person But That God above my Heavenly Father would surely deal with and punish this person.... And I truely do believe that HE will... Keep that in mind & even if it isn't in this abusers life it will be at their death! This is what I tell myself try & remember hope that can help you... No matter how it seems also I also believe that whoever your x is now married to she will if she hasn't already she will see your X's true colors b4 it is over an may need help to get away from him... I realise I don't know your situation just a thght..
@WolfRhymesEntertainment
@WolfRhymesEntertainment Жыл бұрын
I believe there are seasons for all to be in hell not forever otherwise God is evil . If he holds infinity ♾️ and you steal a candy bar should you be punished eternally? All have fallen short even Jesus said I am not good only God
@SherylFantroy-ec5cy
@SherylFantroy-ec5cy Жыл бұрын
God is always working
@GodisLove4Eternity
@GodisLove4Eternity Жыл бұрын
My mother was an extreme narcissist and still has some of the traits - but she did become a true Christian and the only reason I have a relationship with her is that I saw the changes in her life. She had godly fruit and now loves the Lord ❤️
@amberdawn5782
@amberdawn5782 Жыл бұрын
This is extremely encouraging. It almost seems impossible for them to change.
@GodisLove4Eternity
@GodisLove4Eternity Жыл бұрын
@@amberdawn5782 yes - Praise the Lord it is a miracle - pray for loved ones who are narcissists 🙏🏻❤️ God is able to save them and change them.
@deniseware1802
@deniseware1802 11 ай бұрын
We are praying for my mom to have her heart changed. It seems like it's never going to happen but it's in God's hands
@avanz2885
@avanz2885 11 ай бұрын
May I see the same breakthrough with my mother and younger sister who are basically "thick as thieves" (codependent). May they be convicted in their spirit in Jesus name, Amen
@GodisLove4Eternity
@GodisLove4Eternity 11 ай бұрын
@@avanz2885 Amen!!! Lord please save them and change their hearts and minds to be more like You! Amen 🙏🏻❤️
@IvanaSice
@IvanaSice 4 ай бұрын
Yes, I pray for the healing and repenting of narcissist that they stop hurting and stop hurting others.
@charlottemuller2233
@charlottemuller2233 2 ай бұрын
Have free will !
@QueenBNFHS88
@QueenBNFHS88 Жыл бұрын
May God release my bitter heart so I may find forgiveness for those who offended and oppressed me.
@happyami102619
@happyami102619 2 ай бұрын
Forgiveness is freedom for you, letting go is a blessing for you. 💯🙏❤️
@kriekertjiem6701
@kriekertjiem6701 Ай бұрын
Ask God, in the Name of Jesus, to heal your wounds and take over your whole heart, especially the dark spaces, and change you into his image. Then declare out loud, that you forgive him through the Power of Jesus, for every thing the Lord brings to your mind. Do them separately, and say what he did, how it hurt you and what the specific sin was, that He was guilty of. This can carry on for days and every time Lord reminds you about something, and you feel the hurt, immediately deal with it in the same way. It is much easier to deal with forgiveness, when the hurt has been healed.
@annadufrene1782
@annadufrene1782 Ай бұрын
Amen
@michellerobinson7470
@michellerobinson7470 Ай бұрын
​@kriekertjiem6701
@michellerobinson7470
@michellerobinson7470 Ай бұрын
I ask YOU LORD heal this world YOU made ❤
@wilblissful
@wilblissful 6 ай бұрын
Lord delivery me from this situation. I am certainly to blame for being here, all those red flags I wove into a beautiful ribbon and bound my own hands and feet with it. Its so bad that we have to get a degree in terrible things and it feels like we never graduate. I just want to be free from this extended family.
@faithgreen9228
@faithgreen9228 4 ай бұрын
Sounds like me
@daughteroftherisenking
@daughteroftherisenking Ай бұрын
Praying for you 🙏🏼🤍🦾
@jeanne89
@jeanne89 Ай бұрын
Beautifully worded. You can escape. Praying for you. 🙏💕
@euphratesjehan
@euphratesjehan 28 күн бұрын
Forgive yourself. God warned me not to marry my ex. I was downtown walking to go to probate court to inquire about marriage license requirements and I stopped at a hotdog stand. The vendor looked at me. His eyes pierced through me. It was like something I ever experienced before and haven't since then. He said what you are about to do don't do it. I said what do you mean. He said, do not get married. I never met this man or saw him in my life. I continued on to the probate court and planned to purchase food from the vendor on my way back. It took about 30 min or more. When I got back the man and his stand was gone. There were still people standing around and I asked several people if they saw the vendor and they said they all had been hanging out for a while and there was no vendor and some were workers taking a smoke break and said there is never any vendors on the corner selling hotdogs or drinks. I was just baffled. But I didn't heed what the man said I didn't even mention the incident to my fiance. I was just so convinced he was a true Christian loved me and my child and we were meant to be together. I deeply regret ignoring that man. I believe he was an angel sent directly from God to tell me what I could have no way of knowing. I was under strong delusion- convinced by my own logic. If I would have listened and obeyed God. This person was a wolf in sheep's clothing Every vice and evil you can think of he was into. He loved money so much he would put cash in a fanny pack put it around him buckle it and go to sleep with it. He was poisoning me trying to murder me for life insurance money So glad I got out alive 20 plus yrs no contact - never looked back I also recently learned 30 yrs later all the while prior to and during the marriage he was molesting my child. The narcissist evil 😈 shadow and residue just doesn't go away It pays to obey God It pays to wait Wait wait Be patient Don't go by your emotions or what the person says. Seek God in prayer Pray Pray Pray Don't ignore red flags If you find yourself with someone like this RUN FOR YOUR LIFE SAVE YOURSELF AND YOUR CHILDREN
@MarthaBenefield
@MarthaBenefield 24 күн бұрын
Honey you will be fine. Please work hard with your mind.God will rescue you if you take this one day at a time. 1 day at a time sweet Jesus.Deep breath it will change.Gid bless you.
@tamiboelter5491
@tamiboelter5491 Жыл бұрын
I adopt the no contact policy. I do pray that God forgive them to avert their destination to hell.
@Zona-dw9rp
@Zona-dw9rp Жыл бұрын
I do the same with my former spouse. Stay away (nothing says that I have to interact with her) and PRAY that God leads her to Jesus. Pray for or enemies.
@thandiwemathebula1137
@thandiwemathebula1137 Жыл бұрын
Amen
@nicoloclemente6564
@nicoloclemente6564 Жыл бұрын
@@Zona-dw9rp i pray for good people, not for demons! my prayers are precious!
@Zona-dw9rp
@Zona-dw9rp Жыл бұрын
@@nicoloclemente6564 I understand. But, Jesus came to heal the sick, not the healthy. Many blessings to you!
@nicoloclemente6564
@nicoloclemente6564 Жыл бұрын
@@Zona-dw9rp Thank you, huge blessings to you! There are people who don't deserve healing, some narcissists have done incredibly atrocious things like killing animals and enjoying that, they deserve their karma, they deserve hell. Oh..jesus hated the narcissists, he didnt want them around him!! And...i don't really care why jesus was here, i don't like him, he was not vegetarian so he was cruel to animals. I prefer osho, he was more compassionate with ALL the living beings.
@awesomeexpressionexp
@awesomeexpressionexp 7 ай бұрын
As a child of a successful narcissist, i have never thought of Esther as a story of God's victory over a narcissist. Thank you for the Biblical insight.
@Indy__isnt_it
@Indy__isnt_it 10 күн бұрын
Same, I never read as Kris explains! I have a journaling Bible, it's at another location I bought as a safe haven. A camper in a large community. It was livable, but upgrading what I could, going to paint the typical wood paneling to cream, accented with dark grey! Hurricane Ian gave me OTHER PLANS like all floors. Off topic thinking out loud, sorry! I want to watch this over again with the journaling Bible. I also have a stamp set of 4 women of the Bible, Esther is one of the stamps. I love this comparison with us and the encouragement to get my Bible out with more purpose than just reading. This helps SOOO MUCH.
@Indy__isnt_it
@Indy__isnt_it 10 күн бұрын
I love your wording, "of a successful narcissist" so fitting for THEIR MISSION
@Indy__isnt_it
@Indy__isnt_it 10 күн бұрын
Much love & appreciation. It seems my prayers alone needed a boost. I spent an additional. 3 years trying to STILL BE HIS FRIEND. 42 years, raised 4 kids, 2 mine, 2 together. 8 grandchildren, lost touch with all but one son DIL and my youngest angel baby grand, Evalina, 2 yrs old, multicultural beautiful baby. My only curly hair beauty!!! Cannot wait to meet her. Medical has held me back, multiple surgeries. Headed to NY from Florida for a continuing hip repair & additional full hip repair after taking apart the old rod and pin. Horrific process of removal.
@DianeHasHopeInChrist
@DianeHasHopeInChrist Жыл бұрын
The narcissists who hurt me; my deceased mother, my older alcoholic sister, my younger alcoholic sister, my youngest daughter....whom I haven't spoken with in over 9 years. I was forced to cut them out of my life. So......I moved thousands of miles away. Yet, I still hear how insecure, jeslous, and hateful they are of me. Why? Because I chose to prove my evil, narcissistic mother wrong by making something of myself, and I'm not in their 200lb plus club.....I went to College and graduated, becoming a n ER/ICU/Trauma Nurse.....and worked 2-3 jobs to get through without help from anyone. Ive never spoken of it. It was my mother, who found out I had graduated by my awesome grandmother who saved me as a child from the hatred of my mother's extreme abuse of me. She was a Nurse too. She'd tell me I was special....different.😊
@sunnyadams5842
@sunnyadams5842 Ай бұрын
You were very very lucky to have that one person in your life. One person can make all the difference in each of us, and each of us could be that one person for someone else.😂
@darlenerego4891
@darlenerego4891 Жыл бұрын
God will turn all of this around as only He can. amen
@Loveoneanotther
@Loveoneanotther Жыл бұрын
Amen
@rozalina531
@rozalina531 7 ай бұрын
Amen in Jesus Christ's name. 🙏🏻 ✨️😇🕊 💕 ♾️
@faithgreen9228
@faithgreen9228 4 ай бұрын
Amen
@Michelle-to6fg
@Michelle-to6fg 4 ай бұрын
In Jesus mighty name!
@risky1
@risky1 3 ай бұрын
Romans 8:28
@GodsChosenMekAmoR
@GodsChosenMekAmoR Жыл бұрын
I will never forget as a young wife trying to figure out how this "saved" man was into all these ungodly things. We went to counseling and all the Preacher was focused on was me being submissive. All the blame was put on me being a good wife and also that without a word he may be won. I was like but wait HE IS CLAIMING TO BE A BELIEVER. I was so mad and confused. I then brought up Abigail who was listed as PRUDENT in the Bible yet the preacher says to me. So you think the woman who caused her husband to die was a good example. I said wow. The bible says she is prudent but you are saying her disobedience led to her "FOOLISH" husbands demise when it lists him as the FOOL. Looking back it made me so mad all the spiritual abuse I suffered from people enabling the narc and only focusing on me as the wife and not on what was ACTUALLY being done and all the SIN the narc was participating in. All they had was HIS word, the liar's word saying I'm not meeting his needs and I don't listen to him. I have learned now how to let GOD validate me and I don't care who says what, if I know it is not right I am not going to go with it just because it is a preacher. The Bible shows narcissism traits well and God will deal with them. Yes, I have forgiven however those who will not repent will answer. A true narc will NOT repent because they hate God in their heart and they are too prideful to repent. I'm so glad you teach on this. It's too many people confused on forgiveness, Christianity, being submissive, and allowing people to crush your boundaries.
@SherryONeill
@SherryONeill Жыл бұрын
I Finally Left Recently So Filled With Joy Now!
@jacquelineyang1292
@jacquelineyang1292 Жыл бұрын
I got same experience too. So disgusting person have to say. This will take time for us and to learn which one is anti-Chris among the sheep
@victoriousjoy9338
@victoriousjoy9338 Жыл бұрын
Wow!! That preacher was way way off!! Nabal caused his own death because he was an evil churl. The Bible states it plainly!
@victoriousjoy9338
@victoriousjoy9338 Жыл бұрын
I had a similar experience to yours.
@shelleyd9910
@shelleyd9910 Жыл бұрын
This is very much what I experienced. Everything came back to “give him what he wants occasionally”, “don’t talk so much” or “give him space”. Nothing from them addressed “Hey why are you going so far in conflict that you frighten your wife?”
@juanvaldez5422
@juanvaldez5422 Жыл бұрын
No one gets away with anything ever . You can bet on it .
@Julie-e1m
@Julie-e1m 3 сағат бұрын
💯 say it to the narc and they blow you off because I think they think God is as stupid as they think their target is.
@anaisb.2547
@anaisb.2547 5 ай бұрын
"when God's hand is in it you're gonna win it!" yessssss so true 💪🏻👌🏻🙌🏻
@FearfulWonderful
@FearfulWonderful Жыл бұрын
Author Eric M. Hill accurately stated in his book, “Women must understand that any person who advises them to stay with a man who physically abuses them does not speak for God. He speaks out of his own ignorance and contempt for women.”
@danidesanti
@danidesanti Жыл бұрын
I've had 10 years with a narc. I've had to watch him get away with everything and I get away with nothing. I don't understand how years of trying to be a good person landed me in this position. I ask God every day to help me.
@Hadtoleave15
@Hadtoleave15 2 ай бұрын
@@danidesanti don’t give up. I felt the same way. I thought it was some sort of punishment that I ended up with my husband. I met him at church so I thought I was doing as I should. Sometimes God gives us the tools to save ourselves.,
@danidesanti
@danidesanti 2 ай бұрын
@@Hadtoleave15 thank you for your loving reply.
@G.S-h5j
@G.S-h5j 2 ай бұрын
Just know that the narcissist NEVER GETS AWAY WITH ANYTHING THEY DO! FOR ALL YOU WENT THROUGH GODS GOING TO BLESS YOU FOR THE HELL YOU ENDURED, JUST KNOW IT WAS 24 YEARS OF HIS PROJECTING HIS MISERY ONTO YOU! HES THE LOOSER, YOUR THE VICTOR! YOU GOT OUT & LEFT HIM, HES STILL STUCK WITHIN HIS TORNMENTED LOW SELF ESTEEM MIND! GIRLFRIEND YOUR IN THE CLEAR, NOW FORGIVE HIM & YOU BE SET FREE & DONE WITH THE PAIN, WHY HOLD ON IT, THATS EXACTLY WITH THE NARCISSIST DOES! GODSPEED TO YOU & I PRAY FOR FOR HEALING!❤❤❤❤❤
@brynne77
@brynne77 2 ай бұрын
@@Hadtoleave15 That's a really nice reply. Thanks for this.
@tracyannaleclair9320
@tracyannaleclair9320 2 ай бұрын
I'm in the position I'm in bc I made the decision to marry him despite my intuition/God's wisdom. This is not only the consequences of my decisions regarding this person but I also believe it is God's gentle discipline to draw me closer to him. I struggle too with see him go undisciplined. He is a "Christian" a leader in his church he looks like he is thriving, this creates a lot of m fatigue emotions. Lamentations 3:22 I started asking God for. I have to remind myself though that God still loves me if I'm His- I really hope I am otherwise this is all in vain and I'm hopeless. The psychological warfare has definitely had huge impacts on my life and my health. I don't wish any harm to him but I do want God to expose him for who he is and to deal with him. Him going without discipline, my perception, makes me feel confused if I really am wrong about everything and I'm the problem. It's draining but then I go back try and to remind myself of the above.. I'm just trying to relate to you. I struggle. I'm not diminishing yours at all. God bless you and God keep you​@@Hadtoleave15
@sanelabogdan8863
@sanelabogdan8863 Жыл бұрын
My mother is narcissistic. Please pray for my healing.
@GodisLove4Eternity
@GodisLove4Eternity 9 ай бұрын
Lord please heal sanelabogdan! And all who have been abused by narcs. Amen 🙏🏻❤️
@juanitagonzalez8333
@juanitagonzalez8333 5 ай бұрын
My mom is one too I respectfully blocked her for my own sanity.& in Jesus mighty name I pray that you can forgive her and that he can give you strength for you to move on.
@adele618
@adele618 Жыл бұрын
This lady has the sweetest spirit, I'm actually in awe of it. She is such a gentle and kind and wise teacher. God bless you sweet sister❤
@rozalina531
@rozalina531 7 ай бұрын
Amen in Jesus Christ's name. 💕 🙏🏻 💕
@elizabethbowie9753
@elizabethbowie9753 2 ай бұрын
👍👍👍 I've been learning so much about narcs for the last year or 2... I've learned about red flags, triggers & about what to do... But just yesterday, I asked The Lord, " ok, Lord!!! It's been a year now & I'm still recuperating from last year; but I know You have a Plan for me. Please tell me about it, so I can get off the hamster wheel and move on!!!" & Voila !!! I came across This !!! Thank You. 💗🕊️💗.
@sunnyadams5842
@sunnyadams5842 Ай бұрын
I don't know your whole situation, of course, so please forgive me if I'm off the back!! I just want to say that when I started my healing journey I thought it would be just a matter of weeks, months Maybe. Now it's 4 years down the road and they've been really good years learning about the narcissists who raised me and the one who I married and have left and all the rest in my extended family and all of the overachievers I grew up with who are either narcissists or collapsed empaths. I just want to let you know that one year is a drop in the bucket! When I stopped counting years and time and just decided to dig in and let the Lord do His work, in His own good time, everything went really well.
@DeniseHaire-j8w
@DeniseHaire-j8w 10 күн бұрын
Amen I'm struggling. You just described me. I am bitter, in medical dept because of his verbal and physical abuse. My home burned last February, cause undetermined! God used my dog to wake me up and we both got out alive. Now he has found where I moved too! ?Please pray for me?
@tosinsoares1836
@tosinsoares1836 5 күн бұрын
@DeniseHaire-j8w God got you. Stay safe! Move again and have people around you most times. Praying for you.
@desertlillie9659
@desertlillie9659 Жыл бұрын
Kris, my ex hurt my/our son so badly. He disappeared from our lives. He didn’t even acknowledge our son’s terminal cancer. After my son passed away three years ago, there was no contrition for his lack of compassion and empathy. I don’t care what he thinks of me, this was our son who had a beautiful sensitive and compassionate heart. I’m having a dreadful time forgiving him and the medical professionals who, after two years of urgent care, ER visits and trips to his primary care physician, not one of them caught it and there were many. I lost my one and only guileless son. My gift from God. I have so many that I have prayed for but the anger and bitterness is still there. Thank you for sharing your psychological and biblical knowledge. Before Kaleb died, I asked him if he was scared. He very calmly said, “No. I have Jesus and my mom.” I need help forgiving and ridding myself of thoughts of vindication. God bless you. In the name of Jesus. Amen!
@marycahill4455
@marycahill4455 Жыл бұрын
God bless you ♥️
@bobtaylor170
@bobtaylor170 Жыл бұрын
You know you'll see your dear son, Kaleb, again. He sounds as if he was a marvelous young man, and I'm looking forward to meeting him.
@desertlillie9659
@desertlillie9659 Жыл бұрын
@@bobtaylor170 It would be a pleasure to introduce you to him. May the Lord Bless you. Keep looking up.
@desertlillie9659
@desertlillie9659 Жыл бұрын
@@marycahill4455 Thank you. 🌸 🙏🏼
@bobtaylor170
@bobtaylor170 Жыл бұрын
@@desertlillie9659 ❤
@hope46sf
@hope46sf Жыл бұрын
I was married 44 years to a very toxic, controlling narcissist. The Lord worked out details and got me out of the marriage. I did learn to cling to the Lord and draw close to him. Lots of years of counseling have helped. God is faithful. He shows the way. My heart goes out to those still in n relationships.🙏
@SherylFantroy-ec5cy
@SherylFantroy-ec5cy Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your testimony ❤️
@RebeccaWalker-e2i
@RebeccaWalker-e2i Жыл бұрын
I stopped going to church because pastors from several different churches worked for the same company I did. When I spoke the truth I was persecuted and conspired against, the pastors job was to confirm the lies being told. Most people who claim to be Christian and pastors are in it for the credibility it gives them in the community. My daughter just married a man that kicks her out of chairs, throws things at her, and hits her in the throat, then tries to talk about how he is a Christian.
@barbararouse
@barbararouse Жыл бұрын
Same for me, it's so sad.
@Shontise_Shonie
@Shontise_Shonie Жыл бұрын
I see a woman I know in a toxic narcissistic relationship. Staying for 50 years or 30,40 whatever how does that happen?
@Lea-EttaCalzolano
@Lea-EttaCalzolano 10 ай бұрын
I have been locked in a 25 year marriage with a narcissist and I have now been exposed to truth by grace. I left my husband to avoid the hospital 3 times in the last 10 years and I am at the place of fight with him. I haven’t been able to leave him for good because of the financial situation I am in. Every month he expects me to cover him regarding his bills. I refuse. He receives nearly twice what I do in Social Security and he thinks NOTHING of stealing from me!! I have had to get a separate bank account and bank,because of his thieving. 😖🤬🙄🙏☝️
@honey-feeney9800
@honey-feeney9800 Жыл бұрын
When I think of narcissism, it opens my mind to the seven deadly sins and problems of the ego.
@audreyflannery5270
@audreyflannery5270 Ай бұрын
God has Got me. God keeps his promises. My faith in Almighty God is unshakable. I prayed for peace that exceeds all understanding and God helped me. Praise God Praise Lord Jesus Amen
@2510aggie
@2510aggie Жыл бұрын
Gods got my healing, God's got my justice, Amen!!
@jesus_is_life_love2932
@jesus_is_life_love2932 Жыл бұрын
God set me free from a Narcissist through these videos
@mami-e2q
@mami-e2q Жыл бұрын
Please note you have to take the action to be free. I had been a victim of narcisistic abuse close to death, I would like to tell you this is dangerous, things go worse , God can make a way but you have to take the action. Stay safe and be blessed.
@jesus_is_life_love2932
@jesus_is_life_love2932 Жыл бұрын
​@@mami-e2qIt was fierce battle....but i deleted feelings and took action through Faith
@DHW256
@DHW256 Жыл бұрын
We children had a narcissist mother. It was tough living with her envy, gaslighting, resentment, regret and revenge. She absolutely wrecked her own family, and nurtured narcissism among us.
@kellykilpatrick3000
@kellykilpatrick3000 Жыл бұрын
Hey DHW256 thanks for your post as most list a man the narcissist and my experience is wife narc that ruined our family and my childrens youth suffered too and I'm a single dad patching up the damages my two boys are 18 and 22 and just now seeing the truth and I'm sure it's hard cause everyone loves a mom and I've held my mouth to let them see in fact she ran off with my children isolating them from me but I think God planned it to give them a full time view in isolation with her to let them see and I hope it is not damaging as I've always wanted my boys to have relationship with their mom as I provided while mom never worked stayed at home had new Mercedes every two years country clubs and travel and in the top 1% financially but even a strong man such as I am can be brought low by a wife that is a narc infact staying with a narc destroys your soul spirit and self identify and the funny thing is when I met this woman a model who loved her self so much nothing else mattered and I found it attractive and thought that was an asset and had never known anyone like that but after 20 years I'd never associate with such a person and one last thing when I met her I had a company with partners and 350 employee's that loved me so with that kind of attention and service I'm sure I did not see what I was yoking up with....this was good therapy, thank you all and to anyone out there it is written "guard your heart with all dilegence for out of it flows the issues of life".
@mamapeshy1887
@mamapeshy1887 Жыл бұрын
I marked my day 14/11/2023; and I will always celebrate; I have been set free ; Thank you so much Kris for allowing God to use you. Iii
@jjlove13only1
@jjlove13only1 2 ай бұрын
Kris Thank you so much for this prayer. I needed this so bad. I had a beautiful daughter with a complete diabolical Narcissistic Sociopath. I left him 15 years ago. But he has still managed to do some of the most horrific things to me. And he uses our Daughter as a pawn to do it. And because he's so crafty when I've tried to tell people what I'm dealing with No One believes me. People don't understand narcissism. The courts don't understand it. pastors in your church don't understand it. I've been beat up right in the courthouse. I've been beat up in the church. I've been beat up by all his flying monkeys. And just when I thought I was finally in an okay place. Out of nowhere he just started his Diabolical Evil Narcissistic crap again. I mean it comes right out of left field. He Loves to stalk me and send is flying monkeys to spy on me. And I find that as he gets older he gets worse. And his vengeful vindictive hatred is on another level. You would never know that somebody this calculated an Evil existed until you've personally dealt with a Narcissistic Sociopath. I do not wish narcissistic abuse on anyone. Again thank you so much for this prayer. It gave some hope. And reminded me to Trust GOD. ❤️💔❤️
@melanieriederich9493
@melanieriederich9493 11 ай бұрын
Been struggling with feeling like he won. He’s getting remarried, he’s rich, he appears happy and all this has me distressed into thinking I’m being punished, that he is blessed. Thank you for this message. I’m encouraged snd plan to read Esher from a fresh perspective.
@IvanaSice
@IvanaSice 4 ай бұрын
A narcissist will never be happy with what they have riches and/or a beautiful wife. Nothing pleases them in the long run 😢
@Care92
@Care92 2 ай бұрын
Don't worry about material things.. Our rewards are in the afterlife. Satan can give riches and,"success" too
@mariajessielocklear8246
@mariajessielocklear8246 Жыл бұрын
God has used you and this message to answer a prayer request I prayed just a few hours ago💜 Thank you beautiful sister in Christ🙏
@denisesorenson4000
@denisesorenson4000 Жыл бұрын
I have to remember the Adversary is tricky... if he can get us to feel like a victim and hold onto anger and resentment and not count our blessings we live in that pain and never move on or find happiness....this is the adversarys goal. I love this " if Gods hand is in it your going to win it" I needed that❤❤❤❤.
@jacintamcpadden7258
@jacintamcpadden7258 Жыл бұрын
IF THERE A LIE YOU ARE BELIEVING THERES A TRUTH YOUR NOT RECIEVING ❤
@heatherl.3919
@heatherl.3919 4 күн бұрын
Amen 💖 I love you my Sister in Christ 🙏🩷 I Praise God for You! You have helped me Grow So Much! Thank You! 🙏🥰💞
@israeljovo2439
@israeljovo2439 Жыл бұрын
Praise the Lord for your amazing teachings. I am a Mozambican Watching from South Africa, Thank God for your teachings. I never knew about narcissism until sometime in the beginning of 2023 , after my wife chased me and my 9year old daughter out of her house in March 2023. We had a disagreement about parenting, because she allows her 15year old son, to do whatever he wants, to watch anything online and watches demonic movies, he started printing demonic pictures and place them around the wall in his room. I mean pictures where people are eating other people, and bloody queen pictures with blood dripping. When I expressed my concern about those pictures and the behavior of my stepson to my wife and my father in-law, I became the worse stepdad ever. I suggested that we talk to him the 3of us and ask him to remove the pictures from the wall, my father-in-law said to me, no, we cannot ask him to remove those demonic pictures from the wall, we must just pray. I said, but sir, the Lord have placed me here as the head of this family, to guide my children in the ways of God, before I could finish my sentence, He said No, you are not the head of this family, Jesus is. It's like having a snake in your house, and you become so religious and holy to just pray out a snake from your house. The sad part is that we not just Christians, we are Missionaries. We are living in end times; Jesus is coming back. Let's practice what we preach and hold on to biblical principles no matter what comes our way.
@mybonito1
@mybonito1 Жыл бұрын
I know what u mean...my wife lost her mind
@nazleyvanblerk1703
@nazleyvanblerk1703 Жыл бұрын
You are an amazing man and father to those kids. May God guide you and give you peace through the hurt and pain you experiencing
@yolandagrabowski6043
@yolandagrabowski6043 Жыл бұрын
Jesus angrily knocked tables over of those beings disrespecting his father's house. We are considered that house.
@littlegirllost2654
@littlegirllost2654 Жыл бұрын
Geesh, I wished I had met a Godly man who cares about his family like you do
@eden7440
@eden7440 Жыл бұрын
Hold on dear brother. Jesus is on your side. Don't give up.
@laura4dsunshine
@laura4dsunshine Жыл бұрын
God's true people can't be destroyed!
@Hooch737
@Hooch737 Жыл бұрын
Oh man. Sadly, sure I am not the only one you are speaking to Dr Kris. Often it does feel like that, and it brings me to my knees and often can barely breath. Anybody else?
@bevyboop.10
@bevyboop.10 Ай бұрын
Thank you for speaking on getting familiar with healthy and safe godly people and behaviors. I recently found out what a narcissist is and that not only is my husband a covert narcissist but i was raised by a narcissistic mother and older brother so I've been drowning myself in narcissist behavior patterns, how to handle them biblically, and regain/maintain my sanity. So talking time to know and look for healthy people and behaviors is encouraging and something to look forward to. Thank you!
@thetaverse1380
@thetaverse1380 4 күн бұрын
I left a narc after 11 months. I didn’t know the signs but God was protecting me. His funeral was today. 25 days after our divorce was final. Massive heart attack. My head can scarcely take it in. I prayed that in the 3 days between the heart attack and his death, he still had opportunity to turn to Jesus. One day I’ll know.
@collectivemindsunique7945
@collectivemindsunique7945 Жыл бұрын
Amen, thank you Lord for this perfectly timed message. God is so loving and truly amazing. I desperately needed this reminder that God loves me.
@laurachiar6086
@laurachiar6086 Жыл бұрын
❤🙏
@deebeck3259
@deebeck3259 Жыл бұрын
I survived him for almost 50 years. I knew it was bad but didn’t know what to call it. I do now. He left for a gay relationship and no one is surprised. Nonetheless I’m in the midst of healing still after nearly 2 years. Thank you for the support you provide.
@djwendy
@djwendy Жыл бұрын
According to Sam Vaknin - all narcissists are homosexuals because they are secretly in love with themselves. I think my ex is in the closet too.
@lorettabanks9956
@lorettabanks9956 Жыл бұрын
Don’t let have any room in your mind , he done enough damage . Enjoy life.
@SherylFantroy-ec5cy
@SherylFantroy-ec5cy Жыл бұрын
Glad you got free. What a blow to the heart! Best wishes for your recovery. God bless?
@peggydietz6148
@peggydietz6148 Жыл бұрын
Oh my dearest I so am with you and mine was 40 and in my 9 th yr of separation but it’s about to fall out and hopefully break this generation curse. My children are 4th generation and He is present and preparing me for a greater plan for His Glory . I pray the same for you also . Took me 10 lawyers to work with it in His time and ways. 🙏 I’m working on a project for women recovery from trauma.
@thokomazibuko9219
@thokomazibuko9219 Жыл бұрын
"Clean hands pure heart"❤❤❤ Very true, "Veangence is of God"... Lord help me to have a Pure Heart 🙏 Thank you! I'm with You
@cliffordbrock9242
@cliffordbrock9242 Жыл бұрын
To Kris, I hear what your saying. My mother was a Narcisst, her mother was a Narcisst, children's homes I endured Narcissists. My ex-wife was a Narcisst. And the list goes on..."I have had enough".. my patience has run out.
@Nathalie7774
@Nathalie7774 Жыл бұрын
You survived.
@StarCrystal9
@StarCrystal9 Жыл бұрын
You endured for sooo long!,
@janicemontecalvo110
@janicemontecalvo110 Жыл бұрын
My mother was my first narcissist. All the men I attract are narcissists because that is all I know. It's a familiar dance. I was groomed and trained from childhood to be a servant and a doormat. I'm 58 and now I am awake. Praise God
@Jackie-o2w
@Jackie-o2w 7 ай бұрын
God wants 🙏 you ❤️ to Put on HIS ARMOR of God!!!God Always Wins Warriors Praise him Always and Rejoice!!!I If God is for us who can be against us❤Right On Yeah BabyGiddy Up🎉
@gte251
@gte251 Жыл бұрын
God is always working 🙏
@eden7440
@eden7440 Жыл бұрын
It's such a struggle to overcome the deadly depression caused by living with a narc. He talks about himself all day long. Announces everything he thinks and is going to do. Flies into a rage if challenged, or thinks he is, in any way. He's so very miserable and wants me to be also...and he succeeds. I only want to die and be with Jesus .
@Julie-e1m
@Julie-e1m 3 сағат бұрын
When you choose life they hate you more...choose life Anyway❤
@RS-ww8jo
@RS-ww8jo Жыл бұрын
I’m new and new sub. Thank you so much. I was married to the ex over half my life. The discard was horrible. God gave me what I could handle little by little all that was hidden, the lies, cheating the debt, stealing from me. Doing all this the last 12 years I was taking care of my bedridden mom after my dad passed away. Out in the country and secluded he did all he could to destroy me. I have got the house back after he forged my name and said I gave it to him as a gift. Found out he was with at least two other women and living with the one while we were still married. I swear I seen the devil in him. I been healing 4 years and it’s getting better. I take care of my mom 24/7 take care of the home, 10 acres I mow, weed eat and use firewood in the winter I gather. I have donkeys and goats, cats and a little dog. I have a lot on my plate. I have to get and pay caregivers to stay with mom to go to the store. But one thing I can tell you is I’m 65 with 2 knee replacements and I do it, everyday. God has been right there, giving me the strength and healing to get me through it. I praise his holy name. He pulled me out, showed me what I didn’t see, helped me get back up and heal through the hardest years of my life. Thank you 🙏🏼
@Forestgump12able
@Forestgump12able Жыл бұрын
AMEN N AMEN. THE LORD LOVES YOU.
@MariaCSoler
@MariaCSoler Жыл бұрын
🙏💞🙏
@sharoneh8929
@sharoneh8929 Жыл бұрын
Wow. To God be the Glory 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@sandramoussa777
@sandramoussa777 8 ай бұрын
This channel is so good. Just discovered it. Thank you. ❤
@rzsteele87
@rzsteele87 7 ай бұрын
Married for 40years. Just now understanding that I am married to a Christian convert narcissist.
@sarapitt289
@sarapitt289 3 күн бұрын
Because of course she does! I'm so glad you shared this, Kris. Esther is my favourite book in the OT.
@sarapitt289
@sarapitt289 2 күн бұрын
And... God is always working!
@zoefreckles9708
@zoefreckles9708 4 ай бұрын
Opened my eyes where I was blind
@Janeintheok
@Janeintheok Жыл бұрын
The narc's 7th marriage ended after 4 months. He couldn't keep a job or manage money. He's now 70 and driving a tour bus while he has a broken ankle. He lost his teaching license. He had a history of sexually harassing coworkers. He lost one job because he harassed our son's third grade teacher. Seven decades and this is his legacy. Oh, he's also an ordained minister. That was for his ego and access to vulnerable women. Thank you Jesus for healing me 🙌🏼💞
@kameronfink1627
@kameronfink1627 Жыл бұрын
I’m so happy I found your video! I have suffered a lot being abused by the narcissist 😢I’m so angry and feel like they are not getting their Karma! With God involved I know justice will be served.🙏🏻❤️
@blueskiesforever114
@blueskiesforever114 Жыл бұрын
Praying for divine justice in family .. IJNIP amen
@darlenewilliams7590
@darlenewilliams7590 Жыл бұрын
God led me to you today!! Thank you for the prayer. I'm Healing over a year now. Only God ....only the father!!! Amen
@laurachiar6086
@laurachiar6086 Жыл бұрын
❤🙏
@sondrajett3821
@sondrajett3821 4 ай бұрын
I’m dealing with the narcissist mother, I am a pastor to Africa, and she has hurt me so deeply, and all my life. She was a narcissist, and I didn’t see it, and I played into her hands, but I’m done. God is my stronghold, my God, his righteous hand is lifting me up and holding me and I am getting through this, I’ve had to leave it all behind me and go forward and wipe her out of my life, prayerfully one day very soon she will get her heart right with God and I pray for her, and every single day that she starts doing the right thing and quits trying to hurt her daughter, all I can do is pray for her, and God is wiped all my tears away and I know he’s on my side and I’m grateful, and thank you so much for sharing these videos. They were so helpful more helpful to me and your prayers so sincere and the love I can hear your voice as you pray. Thank you so very much blessings in the name of Jesus amen.
@juditharsenault2131
@juditharsenault2131 Жыл бұрын
She's right- set up boundaries. This happened with my daughter. And my ex husband. I set up boundaries and if you think stinky of me, oh well! I stick to my word. My life is so much better. Boundaries are healthy.
@stinkypawsinc6351
@stinkypawsinc6351 Жыл бұрын
My husband left me for his coworker 6months ago. We have to live together during the divorce process...well his girlfriend thinks he's cheating and keeps kicking him out and then he tells me his problems well I let her know. I was served recently and there are nothing but lies in it..I was praying and praying for all of this and to keep my home and he doesn't get a penny God is so good. I am so blessed beyond measure....God knows he left me to be with his girlfriend off the mountain before the big blizzard hit I was alone saving myself our pets and our home...I always respond to my husband with God knows the truth that's how I end conversations.....hang in there they do get what they deserve ❤
@himsentful
@himsentful 17 күн бұрын
Lady, Ma'am, Miss, Sister. Thank you for the efforts here and on the rest of your channel. You have a lot of good things to say about Narcissism, a lot of things that might make the struggle that your Brothers and Sisters are enduring.a little easier. I am struggling with abuse from my NPD wife, specifically Covert Narcissism. It hurts. I am praying for her. For her repentance, for mercy from the judgement she deserves, for the softening of both of our hearts. Please, please, please, don't trade your profit for healing, where it is available. Healing is important, but not more important than the Kingdom of Heaven.
@sonyasanders5170
@sonyasanders5170 9 ай бұрын
It took me 11 years to forgive my Narc. I knew it only hurt me not him so i prayed and prayed finally with no contact it happened. Now i actually laugh again and smile. I was beginning to think i never would again but you will! I think the harder we love the more we can hate them for the pain and time they stole from our lives. I never remarried because i never wanted to. I did not know till about a month ago anything about Narc. I can see that the more you learn the better you will get. I saw the hatred and did not understand what i had done. Now i know, Nothing!!😊
@pamelalogan2186
@pamelalogan2186 Жыл бұрын
If God's hand is in it youre going to win it!🙌🏾🙌🏾
@angelalaurel5622
@angelalaurel5622 4 ай бұрын
I am leaving my husband because of Narcissism And domestic violence. What I realized is to Play Kate him is the best way for me too. Deal with him as I pack my thanks.And move out and move on with my life
@vernaswanson1440
@vernaswanson1440 Жыл бұрын
You're awesome I love how you put the scriptures and Gods word together when your counseling. Your messages have helped me so much
@kierstencastellano8685
@kierstencastellano8685 4 күн бұрын
God's Always working.
@justice8563
@justice8563 Жыл бұрын
It’s so true when you said the narcissist hates whoever likes you and is nice to you. That has happened to me with every one of my family members. They not only smeared me, they eventually will say nasty things about people associated with me, but those who are mean or physically hurt me, they always praise. I can’t tell you how much this explained some of what they have done. It’s also comforting to know justice will be served. Thank you Kris for that beautiful prayer, it was so needed. Amen
@jcfrederick4213
@jcfrederick4213 2 ай бұрын
Needed this so much. It's happening and I believe in the lord. He will answer prayers.. truth facts in this video ❤❤
@YvonneMarieElliott
@YvonneMarieElliott Жыл бұрын
What a godsend of a message so desperately needed right now. I lay here broken and confused and fighting through finding the strength to get up and fill up my cup! I'm so grateful your videos popped up in my feed again after losing so many saved videos and subscriptions after making changes to my phone settings. This is God working, I know it! Thank you for being faithful to His calling for you, sister!
@BR-cd2cl
@BR-cd2cl Жыл бұрын
Jewish and following you. This is incredibly profound connection made to narcissistic abuse. You are so amazing thank you!
@scottnewcomb4230
@scottnewcomb4230 Жыл бұрын
Kris, thank you for your Christ based therapy videos. You have helped me keep the correct Godly perspective and I realized yesterday that God pruned a violent narcissist out of my life, as I was too weak to do it after almost 40 years of abusive. Scott
@nampmaljr9294
@nampmaljr9294 Жыл бұрын
Wow Scott, I'm trying to protect my 7yr old from this craziness. God please help in Jesus name.
@pattyvaldovinos1403
@pattyvaldovinos1403 Жыл бұрын
What a powerful message !!!That brought me a lot of hope, I have been listening to your messages lately and have received a lot of healing I’m going through a divorce from a narcissist and it’s been difficult you understand me I thank the Lord for your life THANKS!!
@conniemilman7842
@conniemilman7842 Жыл бұрын
What will I gain from reading ESTER I WILL READ IT TONIGHT
@yolandagrabowski6043
@yolandagrabowski6043 Жыл бұрын
I remember, women are only made to please men. I was taken advantage of by bad men. Now, I'm cold to god.
@yolandagrabowski6043
@yolandagrabowski6043 Жыл бұрын
We are only made to please the last men's desire. I'm cold to God because of it.
@peterkincaid6406
@peterkincaid6406 Жыл бұрын
​@@yolandagrabowski6043SADLY YOU HAVE THAT HUGELY WRRROONG FOR THAT WITCH YOU ARE COMPLAINING ABOUT IS YOUR SPIRITUAL QUEEN MOTHER JEZEBELS HER WITCH STILL SAYS IN YOUR BIBLE IN 1KINGS THAT SHE IS YOUR I AM. WITCH IS NOT YOUR HEAVENLY FATHER :: I AM :: AND THERE FOR THIS WITCH STATES THAT"" SHE WILL NOT SUFFER THE LOSSSSS OF YOU !!! THAT ARE LEGALLY HER CHILDREN FOR ::: JUST AS ADAM AND EVES DISOBEYED GOD HAVE BEEN BORN IN YOUR SPIRITUAL QUEEN MOTHER JEZEBELS WOMB OF HER WICKEDNESS !!! THEM IS GODS WORD WITCH HE BEGAN TO EXPOSE ABOUT HER ::: NOW SOME 37 YEARS AGO !!!! GOD BLESS !! AMEN !!!
@peterkincaid6406
@peterkincaid6406 Жыл бұрын
​@@yolandagrabowski6043 BUT THE HUSBANDS BODY IS THE WIFES ::: WIFES FOR HUSBAND !!!!!!! BUT IF ONE IS NOT HONOURING THE THEN .... IF THEY DO NOT HONOUR YOU ::: RE FUSE TO SHAPE UP ::: MARRIAGE IS NULL AND VOID !!!
@elisamariagonzalez6756
@elisamariagonzalez6756 Жыл бұрын
God is always working, it’s not my job to teach the Narcissist to be a good person.
@jeannedouglas9912
@jeannedouglas9912 Ай бұрын
Nor is it your job to bow or cower to their graven image they made of themselves.
@heatherfarmer6688
@heatherfarmer6688 Жыл бұрын
Amen to that beautiful and accurate prayer for victims of Narcissistic Abuse and Thank You Sister in Christ.
@tammywhite697
@tammywhite697 Ай бұрын
God has got me. Hallelujah 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@annettetoenjes9606
@annettetoenjes9606 Жыл бұрын
Kris - I just recently found you and I’m so grateful. After 43 years of believing my narcissistic husband would seek help and help me keep our family together, I’ve had to let go. It’s a horrible time but I believe God has shown me a way out. Your words in another video have helped me in dealing with my adult children. “Jesus said nothing.” Thank you so very much.
@susansargeant1125
@susansargeant1125 Жыл бұрын
I know the book of Esther well, but I saw something new in it after your explanation of it in this video. When God releases us from the power of the narcissist, He releases us to FIGHT for our lives. This requires courage and faith in God. Thank you Kris for your insight. Praise be to God our Father through the Lord Jesus Christ who never forgets us and loves us with an everlasting love in His Son. 🙏❤
@antoinettefriloux6658
@antoinettefriloux6658 Жыл бұрын
😢this really got to me. 12 years ago left and (divorced) a narcissist, biggest mistake of my life, abusive, liar and now dealing with another one who married my daughter and keeping the children away from my daughter and I struggled about leaving my relationship with God when it first happened and have been fighting for salvation and hanging in there…wondered a lot of things mentioned like here and questioned God and this watching you speak Kris really lifted me up and made me cry. I am committed to God, pray alot…thank you and going to make a point to hear next your story being married like myself to a narcissist.
@magdalenadahlen9067
@magdalenadahlen9067 3 ай бұрын
I'm realizing I've never known so called SAFE people closely enough to know what to look for. When she said Abused people feel familiar with what tirn out to be abusers, i can so relate.. as a woman i tried to be submissive, it never caused him to love me, only more complaints. I have been single for like 32 years since then and have learned Jesus is SAFE, the only One i can safely feel okay with. He has always been nothing but GOOD to me, and so i am content now, my life is good. I can have peace as long as i stay close to Him😊
@WhyGod7.0
@WhyGod7.0 Жыл бұрын
God is always working ✝️
@stanleymorris5208
@stanleymorris5208 28 күн бұрын
Mrs.Reece you're teaching RIGHT!!!!!.
@cassandrachavez6501
@cassandrachavez6501 Жыл бұрын
You bringing the story of Esther in this light was encouraging to me. I have been doing a deep dive on narcissism and working on myself for over 2 years now and I am besides myself and and dealing with depression with the impact narcissism from my ex and my husband's ex. They have made it thier mission to put our kids against us. We have been good parents but in the eyes of our children they only see the bad. In which it was from the reaction to the chaos the toxic parents created. Parental Alienation is no joke! I wouldn't wish it on anyone. We are so heartbroken. 💔😭 It's been years but I'm still hoping and praying for reconciliation. 🙏
@LibbySlaughter101
@LibbySlaughter101 Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear this. Narcissists seem to get enjoyment out of alienating people. I had this experience with a niece who thought I should have adopted her! She's a classic narcissistic who has turned her entire family against me - all because SHE thought I should have adopted her! She is merciless. I have seen what has happened to you in my family as well. It's heartbreaking. But I believe there will be justice one day for EVERY ONE. God doesn't just sit back & observe. He will judge the whole earth. God bless you.
@myronrich6531
@myronrich6531 Жыл бұрын
I have been married now for seven years to my second wife who is a narcissist. At first I felt ashamed for my choice but have come to realize that she was not honest in her feelings twords me. After counseling, I am leaving the marriage
@jfletcher891
@jfletcher891 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Kris! And I think God for what you are doing for the Kingdom!
@lindamedhurst1453
@lindamedhurst1453 Жыл бұрын
God is ALWAYS WORKING!
@Bootchie2023
@Bootchie2023 11 күн бұрын
I prayed for the narcisstic other to get justice by whatever means necessary. Karma stepped up. The narcissistic other is completely blind in one eye and losing sight in the other eye as well. Can't see driving at night, in bad weather, or doing routine tasks. All of the above couldn't happen to a more deserving piece of trash.
@judymcintire8061
@judymcintire8061 Жыл бұрын
Amen! 🙌 I needed every word of that prayer! Thank you so much Kris! Thank you for sharing the story of Esther & your take aways from it! Fascinating!👍
@davina2074
@davina2074 Жыл бұрын
I am divorcing my narcissist husband after 31 years. I would love to find an online support group made up of people who have gone through this nonsense.
@annelyseclark3312
@annelyseclark3312 Жыл бұрын
Have been married to one 30 years, yes would love the same
@kathyspaulding5326
@kathyspaulding5326 Жыл бұрын
I was married 31 years. I just started up this private FB support group. “It’s not love. It’s manipulation.”
@BigRebel0802
@BigRebel0802 Жыл бұрын
A support group would be great. I’m 72 yrs old and have been alienated from 3 out of 4 children and now even my 3 young grandchildren……all in order to punish me and isolate me from telling the truth. It’s evil.
@BigRebel0802
@BigRebel0802 Жыл бұрын
See the great book, “Truth Heals: What you hide can hurt you. “ by Deborah King. She points out that living lies makes us crazy, and that peace is only possible if we live in truth! So, by seeking and valuing nothing more than truth, on my own, I will heal. And then I will be in a position to help others. “Work out your own salvation, in fear and trembling.” Seeking and accepting the truth, no matter what it is, will heal me. She also says: what we thought would kill us, heals us and saves us, sets us free. From lies. Lies kill. Truth heals. 🙏😁❤️
@BigRebel0802
@BigRebel0802 Жыл бұрын
“Wherever there are ignorance and confusion, there are always lies.” author unknown
@Firstoneshere13
@Firstoneshere13 Жыл бұрын
Gets away with sleeping around and im here heart broken and hurt😪
@smustipher
@smustipher 9 ай бұрын
All praises to The Most High for giving us healing and serving justice. I am in the early syages of healing from an abusive family and do my best to hive gratitude everyday for how the Father has given miraculous provision every step of the way. Trust me, I have "dark" days, but I am not trusting in my emotions, I am trusting in the TRUTH.
@lynntoddtruthteachings1944
@lynntoddtruthteachings1944 Ай бұрын
You are so on time! I'm am going thru this as we speak. My daughter married a guy , I thought he was a sociopath of some sort. He dosent like me, but he has her thinking i dont like him. Her personality started changing. He pretended to be a man of the Creator, yet her animosity became directed towards me. She normally was my mini me. I just realize that most of the individuals around were narcissist, my health started going down almost to a point of being bed ridden. I let go a lot of friends, and family with self centered dispositions, who tried using and manipulation to get resources, or break me down. I knew something wasn't right with some of their spirits, but I ignored. A voice even came to my head warning me about one, but I wouldn't listen. I had been under constant spiritual attack even while doing my best to connect with and keep God's Commands. At some point, I thought I was gonna give God up for a while, the trauma was too much. After seeing you, and others speak on narcissism enlightenment has come.🎉🎉🎉 I recently had a dream where chaos was going on all around me, and everyone was trying to destroy me, but a big Lion just kept popping up and taking them out.
@rosiemcking72
@rosiemcking72 Жыл бұрын
In tears here.. THANK YOU sister Kris for the reminder of Yah's power in our circumstances concerning narcissists. Thank you also for your touching prayer. Needed both at this time. If, our Father is glorified in my current situation in HIS time, I will gladly let you know!! Be blessed ALL. Remember Satan uses these people to trample on our faith in our MOST HIGH. WE are NOT to let this happen. Thank YOU Yeshua/Jesus for your mercy and humility which is shown during these times of waiting and wanting. Amen
@chartman194
@chartman194 7 ай бұрын
God will turn all this around
@Kristel280
@Kristel280 11 ай бұрын
I was listening to your prayer and I can honestly say that I don't feel that rage and confusion anymore since a couple of years ago. I did feel like that but I don't today. Anyone who could relate to the words in the prayer, this rage will pass in time while you keep praying and listening to smart people like this woman in the video. God bless and protect you! Merry Christmas. ❤
@brianmoser3947
@brianmoser3947 9 ай бұрын
Of course she does... And continues through us this very day IF we believe ❤❤❤
@claraaragonn
@claraaragonn 6 ай бұрын
Listening to this answered the question I had around revenge. I repent for the desire of revenge. God gots me.
@BigRebel0802
@BigRebel0802 Жыл бұрын
My main worry/anxiety has not been for myself, nearly as much as how many problems and issues my 4 children have had from the divorce where there were no rules, just enabling. I am now being alienated from my own grandchildren, too. It’s called Narcissistic Parental Alienation.
@marymorris6897
@marymorris6897 Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry about this. I often wish my children knew more about what happened, but I cannot say. With narcissism we dealt with some of the most evil motives and behavior around.
@carmenanderson2303
@carmenanderson2303 Жыл бұрын
This is them adding sin to sin indeed. God does not overlook any of it. A true test to your faith to trust him and get ahead with him yourself and not give the devil any place in you. ❤
@annleonard1915
@annleonard1915 Жыл бұрын
I pray they will understand one of these days I didn't see my boys for 6 years and I'm the mom most of all FAITH God bless
@izzyfury8126
@izzyfury8126 Жыл бұрын
Same here. I'm not allowed to see my grandchildren but we can ask for power beyond normal for God to take care of our children and grandchildren. J W. O rg
@BigRebel0802
@BigRebel0802 Жыл бұрын
The Devil Is A Narcissist is a book by Gavriela Powers. Though it’s very painful, I must remember 2Timothy 3, which says in the final days there will be very difficult times, especially children rebelling and hating their parents, hearts growing cold, lovers of themselves, selfishness, etc. No way around it. Only the Holy Spirit can give us the power to endure to the end.
@larrypeeples-yk1rg
@larrypeeples-yk1rg Жыл бұрын
God's will, thy will be done ✅
@Truthteller1s
@Truthteller1s Жыл бұрын
God is always working!
@kerrisaint3013
@kerrisaint3013 Ай бұрын
Thank you for bringing this subject in a Biblical context, it is greatly needed. I for one am tired of the church telling women to just accept it and be a good wife. I have heard to many times that “ if you just please your husband, he will treat you right”! Or “ what are you doing wrong, for him to act badly”? Or “ just pray” ! Sadly many churches are just breeding grounds for narcissists and other abusive behaviours. Education on such matters from a biblical perspective is much needed, especially within the churches.
@lupicon1
@lupicon1 9 ай бұрын
I love this !! God Bless you and keep you safe and teaching Gods people !!!!
@ruthstolz7127
@ruthstolz7127 Жыл бұрын
I pray Isaiah 55 for the toxic in my life. I am realizing I have to stay no contact for my safety.
@maxwell-cole
@maxwell-cole Жыл бұрын
This was sooooo good. God is always working. Amen.
@ermilaadame5588
@ermilaadame5588 Жыл бұрын
Thank You!!! For your timely message. I've been married for almost 20 yrs. I discovered narcissism 2 yrs ago. I've listened to many a videos on the subject. My Father is a narcissist, he made my mother, brothers and sister, and me our lives a living hell. In our adult lives, We have suffered from his violence and lack of affection. My situation, I was very weak and could not stand up to my now narcissist, but God is making me stronger little by little. I haven't left because, my youngest son is 8yrs old, has down syndrom, still in diaper and is non-verbal. My concern is that the one that is going to suffer in a separation is my son. The Narc is oblivious to our 8yrs olds needs. And so I'm waiting on God to show me the way. As what I have felt. Everything that comes with finding out that it all has been a lie. At the moment I have unger and can't stand to see his cowardly face. I prayed with you as you prayed for all that listen to your voice in this video. God keep granting you wisdom for your teachings are like a spring of water in the desert. Thank You!!!❤
@rb5717
@rb5717 Жыл бұрын
Leave. Your health will deteriorate. I left after 24 years. I'm still physically and mentally recovering four years later. I was so sick, thought I was dying. I wish I would've left sooner.
@yvette7056
@yvette7056 17 күн бұрын
You are so right on! Thank you for the great analogy of the hatred of the narcassist to the favor of the righteous. The Book of Esther is a true story of hope and redemption!
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