3 Signs God is Trying to Remove Someone from Your Life

[@Kris_Reece]

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[@lorigranniss498]

Hey! I joined your sponsor and so far none of the counselors are Christian and the have some wise counsel but it’s not Biblically based. They promote Shaman and have some strange views.

[@Kris_Reece]

@@lorigranniss498 Oh no. I'm so sorry to hear that. I will definitely look into that. I've heard some great things from others. I do hope you find one that is biblically based. praying for you!

[@fullofhope2222]

@@Kris_Reece Im everyones toxic person

[@fullofhope2222]

@@tamsintarshish3905 oh good comment

[@fullofhope2222]

@@tamsintarshish3905 I had one episode of this channel - that was enough - Im only here to reply to you. Hope you hanging in there ML

[@Red_Pill_Matrix]

1.Just walk away and let the healing process begin. 2.Forgive yourself for trusting them. 3.Learn a lesson from this trauma. Life is way too precious to waste on toxic people. Make your life beautiful again 😊

[@barbaramelville6940]

Agree with you ❤😮

[@daddylightsministry106]

Well said!

[@Mimi-vh3yt]

Yup soooo big on forgive your self for trusting them !! I can’t believe I was blind to trust

[@libfuzzy4629]

Amen

[@TkDusty19]

Amen

[@joshuaanzalone2060]

God has removed them all from my life,including narc family. I cried and asked God if he wanted me to cut my family off, he responded to me with saying yes my child and forgive them and love them from a distance. It is absolutely one of the best decisions I've ever made in my entire life.

[@stevesyncox9893]

I’m feeling a similar need to be alone.

[@handebarlas6248]

@@jodinarrowpath9998 Oh dear!! That must be very hard...Hope you can keep your relationship going on healthily at least with some of them. Which is more likely: chances of one sibling (you) being right, or chances of all of your siblings being right??? I would not ask the same question about people outside your family, but hey, these are your siblings...Probably you are the youngest and you feel that they do not understand you. Please seek some kind of help, like taking councelling preferably together with your siblings. Wish you all the best.🙏

[@projectbirdfeederman5491]

was it an audible voice?

[@jodinarrowpath9998]

@@projectbirdfeederman5491 huh?

[@elizabethsmith4655]

My family need to be out my life cause they don't benefit me

[@mariaelenar9764]

My life has changed completely for the better after I humbly knelt and cried saying " I am sorry Almighty Father for being stubborn trying to fix a relationship that gives me grief and stress. Your will not mine" ❤

[@freddiestranger9783]

PLEASE QUOTE THE CHAPTER AND VERSE FOR ME ON THAT

[@FaithfulandTrue949]

​@Freddie Stranger 1 Kings 13:8 -end. The man of God disobeyed the command not to go that way, nor to trust or eat or drink with anyone... the Man of God trusted the old prophet who lied in order to bring forth the MoGs demise. God knew, God warned, yet naively he trusted the lying old prophet over God's first command. We try to bring Lot with us but all it causes is strife 🙏

[@ctowtf]

​@@freddiestranger9783 wanting everything from a Bible is a sickness. A lot of things in life, need only commonsense. If you don't have that, then don't ask why people dislike you.

[@TxHoneyBee]

@@ctowtf If you don't understand, please be humble in this space. You people who think your opinion is superior to everyone else's are sick.

[@ctowtf]

@@TxHoneyBee My NM made my life difficult, and my sister - a devoted christian was making my life more difficult by doing all the useless things she learnt from church. I am the victim here and i have the right to say what actually hurting me ! If you do not know what i have been throught, just shut the f up and Mind your own business.

[@janahoffman3895]

SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO MAKE DECISIONS THAT WILL HURT YOUR HEART BUT WILL HEAL YOUR SOUL.

[@catrinahartz944]

Yes!

[@ScorpionMaiden75]

Absolutely correct!

[@janerobles534]

😢I wasn't even looking anywhere for anyting in this popped up. This was from God very good psychology on the matter

[@thegoldthatglitters]

​@janerobles534 same for me 😢I've been praying about it and vacillating between breaking up and staying together. I love him so much, but I'm thinking that it's time I start obeying the Lord when it comes to my relationships. I'll pray for you if you pray for me about our situations 🙏🏽

[@janahoffman3895]

Obedience can be so hard, but when I remember who I’m being obedient TO, it makes it much easier. I remind myself that God loves me, He has better plans for me than I do for myself, and as long as I’m in His hands, I know I’ll be okay. For me, it makes it easier to release the things I cling to in my heart that I know I need to let go of. I so appreciate Kris. Lysa TerKeurst is another woman worth checking out.

[@fainak5830]

Sometimes you have to delete people from your life so you can be at peace with your life ❤❤❤

[@mpacino1224]

This is what happened to me. I set boundaries and suddenly I was the bad guy.

[@Bucephale0077]

I feel you Mia. I feel you so bad. Same thing to me. Im off now. Totally drained out. Im healing slowly with God. ❤

[@susannakotoff7095]

yep removed the gaslighting narcs no contact . Wolves in sheeps clothing...

[@TanyaBoyle-h6o]

I believe this will happen

[@angelreed6182]

They always try to make you the bad guy when you set boundaries. It happens in my family all the time. I have put them all out of my left. My daughter said by the end of the year none of my grandchildren will have anything to do with me and I will grow up a lonely woman. Just me and my dogs. I think that sounds kind of good. That means I don’t have to put up with all their crap and anger. I tell them I didn’t work 30 years to have to deal with all their dysfunctions. Sorry I need peace and they think I’m selfish.

[@elizabethf9096]

Same here

[@vanessamonroe1917]

I went No Contact w my Toxic Abusive Mother and Enabling Father and Sister! I feel like I escaped from Hell. I prayed and Jesus told me,”You aren’t expected to Respect anyone who’s abusing you!” 🙏

[@EnriqueLombana]

Yeah, the enablers are just as guilty. Good catch.

[@tonnieverse4038]

@@EnriqueLombana TRUTH...!!!

[@deborahcurtis1385]

Yes they had the potential to be true and virtuous and they took a wayward path. We all have choices in life and those who take the lesser path are not entitled to burden us with their decisions. I wondered why God has placed me with these people and then I realised: they chose this. They might have chosen differently and then things would be very different, but they did not. God can only work with what he has before him in our freedom we can walk away or not. In their freedom they have made bad choices. We don't have to live with guilt that doesn't belong to us.

[@Celticmist-qz6ve]

You still have to forgive them

[@deborahcurtis1385]

@@Celticmist-qz6ve Yes but that can be toxic, you forgive but only for yourself. Because it's toxic hanging onto the past and reliving it over and over. So it's about letting go WHEN YOU ARE READY. Not when someone tells you to, especially if they do it in a condescending pseudo-spiritual way. It's your journey so you don't let anyone take over and decide timing and decisions. Healing is the most important thing, you heal so you won't be a doormat and get walked on by the next person. Then you're ready to let go. I don't take my toxic family seriously anymore. They're a joke. The joke's on them.

[@sidjohnson1616]

It's hard to break away a friendship if they are the only friend you have.but you know you have to break away from the friendship. We need to relize that Jesus is our friend

[@sharynm79]

So true. But do you. Find your own joy. Walk. Talk to people when u order a coffee. Painting for me has become my therapy. But I’ve found being alone is so much more peaceful than the craziness of toxic people. Love to u

[@marisamartin3664]

There are billions of people out there and at least one billion Christians, so God can easily find you friends.

[@marystraniero1037]

New better friends may then enter Be your own best friend God is with you

[@juliewarwick303]

When you create a space for new friends to enter your life and open yourself up to new relationships, you will find new friends with the right people. Give it over to God.

[@DavidnBCNV]

Sounds like my situation,thanks for sharing. It's better to walk alone than with bad company.

[@laurierogge561]

47 years in marriage, separated for 9 of those years, reconciled & now regret of doing so. I’m almost ready to leave again & praying for strength & wisdom that I can only receive from my Lord & Savior Jesus Christ🙏💕

[@anthonybianco8690]

Stay strong God is most definitely with YOU and is bringing you through….. believe me

[@karenabbott5974]

❤️

[@andrewlilley3660]

@@foresthiker6707 I don't see much abundance around, Sir, plenty of foodbanks though, this God of yours hasn't got his eye on the ball, thanks.

[@JesusisLordgh8j]

IF YOU WANT PEACE LEAVE.

[@randy_cbc8811]

@@andrewlilley3660 "abundant life" for those who belong to Him. You are looking at life through the eyes of an unbeliever, so of course you are not going to 'see' God at work in the world, and especially not at work in the life of a believer, if you are an unbeliever.

[@ms.peaches195]

I am in the process of a divorce. I've been married 23 years. Long story short. I've paid a lawyer who himself has dragged this divorce. Out of nowhere, this voice said loud and clear, " Your lawyer is a narcissist as well! I am so stuck and beyond drained! I have never felt so lost!!! Please pray for me😭

[@ctgeorgia]

@@ms.peaches195God bless you. I can't imagine. I'm so sorry for what you were going through. I've only been with mine 4 years. She does not like my daughters from prior and threatens to leave every other week, but I try to hold the family together. It's making me physically ill and neither of my daughters want to be here any longer. Absolutely tearing me apart.

[@loudberg4835]

May The good God see you through dear

[@AK47BLACKice]

@@ctgeorgia , if she doesn’t love your daughters, why did you marry her? Just curious.

[@ctgeorgia]

@@AK47BLACKice She wasn't like this until about a year and a half ago. I don't know why, but she eventually showed how extremely jealous she is of the relationship I have with them... especially my 22-year-old. I'm very close to my first born. When my 22 yr old sees me she throws her arms around me, hugs on me, kisses me and tells me how much she loves and misses me, etc. My oldest also suffers from emotional challenges and has been in a facility for the last 9 months getting therapy. She has severe PTSD/depression from her mom who is a drug addict and did nothing when her ex-convict drug addict husband sexually assaulted our daughter at 17. My 22-year-old is near discharge and wants to come back home to me so that she can get back into college and finish school and move on with her life. My wife absolutely refuses to allow my 22-year-old to move back home and threatens to leave if she does. It's been very hard for me.

[@byronkerby6897]

It is easy to see flaws in others, while ignoring our own, so self-examination is critical. Sin is what makes people toxic.

[@marisamartin3664]

yes we can do it too.

[@2edg]

I'm so thankful God removed me from an awful situation Thank you JESUS AMEN ❤

[@Heseesyou]

Please pray for me and my 4 yr old safe exit.. ❤

[@jackiepowell7513]

" Jesus mysteriously disappeared untill He was ready to give Himself up" Don Hargrove pastor-teacher.

[@neiclemons8297]

People do not like it when you set boundaries.

[@missysmessage722]

Right! And they even try to make you feel guilty for respecting yourself enough not to tolerate Their disrespect

[@ericabertagnoli5469]

Yup the saying goes “when someone shows you who they are , believe them the first time.”

[@pawsometales6507]

YES!! I should have rembered the previous abuse instead of rescuing her out of the bad situation she was in. Well that forgive ness and kindness certainly backfired on me. So I pray for God to remove this person, she needs to move far far far away,

[@NaebyWaeby]

I recently went through a breakup and it was one of the best things that's ever happened to me. I didn't realize it at the time but quickly understood that when it's time to let go, God will definitely help and heal you. ❤.

[@Ashley-og9ti]

How did u know to let it go?

[@NaebyWaeby]

@@Ashley-og9ti when I thought about it, I realized the cons outweighed the pros of me going back to that person. It hurts being alone but it was hurting even more when I was with the wrong person. God forced me to leave after I asked Him for a sign and He gave it to me. And I trusted in Him and never looked back.

[@Ashley-og9ti]

@Chynae Barton omg I think u needed to tell me this your experience may be my sign. So familiar. I relate the being alone can be scary especially when there is so much history. It's a foreign feeling. Even if the person is great but may not be good for you. Wishing the best going forward 🙏🏾

[@NaebyWaeby]

@@Ashley-og9ti yes exactly. My person was awesome as an individual but just wasn't right for me and what I needed. And that's okay. There is a blessing in every lesson. If it's time to go, be grateful for the time you had and what they offered you at the time and then step forward. You can't see your future if you're constantly looking behind you. ❤️ Peace and blessings to you honey.

[@Ashley-og9ti]

@Chynae Barton facts 💯 I saw a quote said "never be a prisoner of your past. It was just a lesson, not a life sentence." . Some people are in your life just for a season. My issue is recognizing the signs I'm like God show me the signs but give me the wisdom and discernment to see it! 😭 I love this for you 😚

[@PScience]

Oh, that was my case. I left narcissist 3,5 years ago. God tried to cut him out of my life, but I let him in over and over again. But breaking up was a great blessing for me. I’ve never been so happy!

[@yomaddy]

Trauma bond is the real villain. I've lost counting how many narcissists I had to deal with them and after long turmoils finally I could able to let them go. Dealing with one right now! 80% I've moved on...

[@deew7014]

Yes I prayed to God please reveal it all to me re my narc husband and he showed me everything , affairs , financial etc and he spoke to my spirit that to end this and focus on Him Thank you Lord God

[@maryteresewallace695]

@@yomaddy u may want to wonder 'how' you've attracted that many narcissists into your life and you keep doing it??? may want some counsel regarding this?

[@marciabradley7660]

God isn’t ever trying to remove someone from our lives, he’s asking us to do it

[@saraholson8711]

Amen

[@lequitagarrett3584]

@marciabradley7660 yeah, but if you don't do it, he will force your hand by allowing them to hurt you until you cut ties. Facts!

[@lorrainemcneal3623]

I got injured recently and have been off work for the past few weeks. It has given me time to truly reflect on how much I deal with at work trying to "keep the peace" all the time with a specific coworker that I work closely with and has a narcistic personality. It has been an exhausting roller coaster for the past 7 years. So while I had time, I applied for a new job and I see the door being opened for new opportunities. I've prayed about it and I really feel that everything happens for a reason and this is meant to be.

[@sbee985]

Sounds like a good move. God opening a door …

[@lindawilhelm486]

Amen!

[@privatecaller1418]

Blame Shifts responsibilities Lies Deceives Betrays Roller coaster of emotions Uses secrets, vulnerable data to punish

[@peggan471]

Oh my goodness, this is so true, once I limited my time and interaction with this person My well being and joy returned. Love to all

[@AntjeMoench]

Nice Video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love him so much I can't stop thinking about him, l've tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I'm frustrated, I don't see my life as anyone else. I've done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can't, I don't know why I'm saying this here, I really miss him and just can't stop thinking about him.

[@barbaraandrews5]

I have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about two years ago, but I could not let him go, so I had to do all I could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring him back, now we are back together, and I must say I am enjoying every moment...

[@AntjeMoench]

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do I reach one.?

[@barbaraandrews5]

Her name is fatherabulu, and him is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex...

[@AntjeMoench]

Thank you for this valuable information, I just looked him up online. impressive.

[@patriciaflake815]

I have found out if you give people a little time they will show their true colors. A person can't pretend to be a truly loving kind person but for so long. What's buried deep in the heart and soul of a man or woman will eventually have to come spewing out. It's impossible to be good and bad. You are either one or the other.

[@debrabrickus8467]

You are soo right. I found this with my best friend. She showed her true colors.

[@Lisa-lo1on]

True

[@kossy140]

That's all

[@libfuzzy4629]

True

[@sistersusie8569]

We all still have even unacknowledged bad in the yet unhealed parts of our souls. We simply have to grow discernment as to how to overcome our own tendency towards selfishness and trust God's promise to never forsake us😊

[@25N77]

To make a professional video to get your important message to your audience is tough enough but to incorporate different versions of yourself edited into the original video is really hard work and is a genius move. It surely worked for me. The support you gave to yourself was just plain awesome. Thank you for your message and the video. Well done.

[@Nanasfsw]

I recently had to block my daughter from my life. After nearly 19 years of abuse and withholding the grandchildren from me for perceived “infractions” from me my heart is broken. I’m praying for her to remember her sweetness when she was younger.

[@milliganx2633]

I want to trust you, Lord. Everything sure hurts right now for so long. Please clear things up for me.

[@LorraineCareyAuthor]

Being a strong empath this is so true! I have two people now- both narcissists who I need to just let go. I needed to hear this today. Thank you. Blessings.

[@JEBBY123IFY]

Me too! Damage is bad!

[@angellollar1083]

2 here in this season.

[@aalexnavas]

You better leave or you will regret it…

[@joycepatton3692]

Me too

[@Alice-en6bf]

It's too late for me. The damage is done. I believe I'm an idiot , just a naive little girl who needs to grow up , wake up and smell the coffee. Simply because right and wrong is a priority to me. As I said , it's too late.

[@curiousone6435]

Kris, your humorous skits are appreciated in such serious subjects where we can often feel alone, guilty, and bad. Rock on, sister. I love what you bring to the table!

[@Kris_Reece]

Thank you.

[@richiedevans4559]

❤❤❤❤

[@victorial8764]

Jeez is it scary. I am facing perhaps letting go of a 5 year we thought we were getting married, at least that what he said all this time. But addiction got in the way. And his daughter who I love will be gone too. I have to break my own heart. I am really making sure Jesus wants this because it makes sense but I just will lose so much. I’m scared I’ll lose my job and won’t function well. Please pray for me sisters and brothers. Tomorrow is my birthday and I am not doing well. Thanks. I am currently trying to find friends and support again. I’ve been secluded for a long time. ❤

[@ThrivenLife]

Prayers going up for you and your situation.🙏🏼

[@susanguzek766]

You are doing the right thing, Sister. You are young and full of hope and trust. He is not a mature Christian man. He is not a responsible partner for you, and he is in addiction. God has a more perfect plan for you.

[@trishamondal5711]

@@victorial8764 how are u feeling now ,

[@ladawnwarren8570]

Absolutely fantastic message!! God just reveal to me to let certain family members go from my space and a Friend..It was definitely a difficult decision but it was necessary I prayed about it and continued being around these people. And they continue to show there true colors. No more my peace is a requirement Thank you God for revealing this 🙏🏽❤

[@erickriebel4366]

Happiness with another person means you are happy to see them and they are happy to see you you have a good time with them they have a good time with you you call them they call you you help them out they help you out. If any of that is not working for you and the relationship and find somebody or that works and it it fits your life in your schedule. Or you are much better off being by yourself.

[@carolnolan9439]

Well Stated. Good Advice. Thanks for reconfirming what I thought but not so deeply

[@erickriebel4366]

@@carolnolan9439 all I can tell you is this I am 70 years old I have been burned and I have been screwed over more times than I can count but you only have a couple of people that really will help you in my life it is one ex-wife add a sister and that is about it that's my advice to you

[@erickriebel4366]

@@carolnolan9439 I forgot to mention my dog I had a chocolate Labrador Retriever for 12 years that's the greatest friend I ever had and there's absolutely no doubt about that including children that weren't even close to that dog at that level of love and attention

[@teefrankenstein4340]

💯

[@mstanley97]

Yesterday I went no contact with my narc family. My only regret is not doing it sooner. Literally making me physically ill. God has been dealing with me to let them go. Jesus really is my 🪨. No human is my rock. I feel confident I'm doing the right thing cause I'm finally submitting to hiw will.

[@ThrivenLife]

Good for you! I had to cut all contact with my narc family three years ago and I have a bad day about it every now and then, but overall I'm so glad I did it and I continue to get better with each passing day. Life is good ❤ Good luck to you 🙏🏼

[@thomasmillercnb]

My name is Suzanne. I just discovered this video. I believe God led me to this. I have been praying on this very subject for weeks!! God answered through Kris. ❤

[@suebs139]

Amen! Make a way, Lord! Please, y'all, pray for God to remove anything blocking Jason and I so we can get back on track and back to loving each other!!! We need a miracle! Connect us and order our steps, Lord. No more fear! Protect us from the enemy trying to tear us apart, because it's working, and it needs to stop! Please God, do what only You can do!

[@astrozyle6515]

I have just enetered a clumsy marriage wherein there is no sense of boundaries, but obsessive clinginess, lies and deception disguised as 'care'.. I have already lost faith and trust and yet I am being made to feel guilty by both families for reporting a severe problem that has lead to physical and emotional harm to me - inclduing bruises and blood! There is no one on my side and I have been crying to speep every night. God please help me and all those who need such interventions, I have only love to give, where do I find someone who will graciously accept all that I have to offer without this non-sensical toxic and borderline pschotic behaviour that I have had to tolerate.. Please pray for me dear reader, I am just seeking normalcy and peace and healing.. whatever form it may take. Blessings to all reading this 😢❤❤❤

[@missysmessage722]

You are a very good writer I could really feel the hurt in this. I'm sorry for what you are going through

[@gobigirl1]

@@astrozyle6515 I'm sorry both families are normalizing and minimizing the abuse. Sadly, it's very common. But it can add to the feeling that you are imagining things, when you are not. I hope you can get good advice from people who are experienced in helping someone escape from domestic violence, it can be very tricky and dangerous. Lundy Bancroft's book "Why Does He Do that" was very helpful to me, pointed out all the strategies that my abuser had used to lure me in and keep me there. I got away, and it took time to heal, most likely it will take you some time to feel better. But it is so worth it. You deserve kind, honest, sweet people around you. Wishing you all good things.

[@lindawilhelm486]

You need to take tiny steps toward your goal of leaving. Do whatever you can to leave. Do a tiny step every day. Both families are flying monkeys, enablers. Ignore them and do what is best for you regardless. THEY are NOT looking out for you. It's a shocking realization that they family you thought cared for you, really doesn't. Been there. Done that. Look at the forest. Not the trees. You need to get out. Make that a priority. Once your mind is made up, you will feel better knowing you're working towards what YOU NEED: PEACE.

[@nikkibenz7187]

Your comment touched me, I had the same problem years ago,, No one who is physically abusive will stop only get worse I know it happened to me , never allow this, you are stronger than you think, cry out loudly to God for His help and wisdom He will bring you thru, it may sound corny to some but He will, He did it for me, and though I get lonely I control what happens to me and my decisions with God's help of course! You are in my prayers, take care of yourself focus on things you want to accomplish in your life. Get your sleep and rest your brain from. Caos, you are not alone God bless you!!

[@cmmack46]

Good information but the background music and reenactments take away from the message. They're distracting. You are anointed. You don't need any props!

[@Kris_Reece]

Thanks for watching and I appreciate the feedback. :)

[@VerdosoVersusElites]

Props are cool ❤great video and perfect music too

[@kimberlys347]

I agree. The back and forth was hard to follow but still loved the overall message

[@SJD36]

Props can help visual learners. We all learn in different ways. They were a cute add in and could help some remember these tips! God bless❤

[@maryrouse9821]

I liked the music and props❤

[@tawnyasterling5875]

The clarity revealed. I am guilty, of allowing narcissist back in and "vascillate", in my feelings, then a shift in my feelings. I choose today, to fully trust, in God and lean not, in my own understanding, fir a better future and a new non-toxic relationship, in God's Tim's. Thank you, Minister Kris. I appreciate you and your channel very much. I needed to hear this.

[@carolsummers8734]

I did not know my husband was a narcissist until years of therapy after he divorced me after 30 years of marriage. I loved him deeply but could not seem to please him. Faith got me through some very bad years.

[@OiVinn-eq1ml]

Starts 4:49

[@Tee-jay-365]

Thanks for this video Kris! 1. They are poisoning your garden. 2. A shift in feelings. 3. God removed them before and you let them back in again.

[@spitfire8539]

If you drop social media you don't have to drop someone out of your life. It comes digital/natural when you get out of there.

[@theirmom4723]

100% Fact

[@saimanda_]

True

[@corrisue1259]

Amennnn!!!!

[@Ashley-og9ti]

Wdym what does social media have to do with it?

[@raebutler1407]

Yes!

[@patrickrwhite8354]

Just Yesterday God helped me to realize that it's an uphill battle trying to stay intouch with family that doesn't give a damn. They blamed me enough for the truth that they called lies. So when I finally let them all go. I had such a relief of freedom like I had never felt before. Now I know why I was guided to see this video. Thank you!

[@carlafenwick709]

Needed to hear this today. 2 years on this emotional rollercoaster. Finally said that’s enough hope im strong enough to keep him out my life now

[@hollywood5703]

A problem arises when we ASSUMED that families should be there for each other. Once the parents are gone a sibling only feels obligated to their new family while ignoring their original family, even when they’re widowed and alone.

[@kimhaug1193]

I have struggled with toxic and abusive family members and ( so called ) friends for so long they all have put me in my grave but I thought I was suppose to tolerate them because they are my family but as time went on I have developed so many internal issues that was causing my health to deteriorate so I ( with the help of Kris ) I have decided to stay away from all them and take my life back AGAIN and free myself of any more pain ! I will miss them but I have to take care of myself and my heart before die ! Thank you Kris for helping me make that decision !

[@lorraineniblock1673]

I listen to your videos so true , my husband is a pastor, I have been married 57 years , 3 years he walked out no explanation, 10 years ago we were ministering in Bali and he patronised the homosexual brothel God is using me to witness to him the pain a d betrayal is so difficult how to move on . he is a narcissist, covert .

[@ubuntuber1619]

Jump into my arms and heal with cuddling and love.

[@tiffnym]

Fast and pray for him. No one is beyond hope. Read the Word of God and keep the scriptures as your focus.

[@gabbypage6929]

I recently let go of a very close friend and her circle of friends. Hurt me deeply. She kept denying things that happened and continually do the same thing so had to let her go.

[@Ashley-og9ti]

Do you mind if I ask what type of things?

[@lauracicero-miller3238]

Same here, she has no self reflection , refused to take responsibly for her actions ,gaslighting me,reflecting responsibility on others after 53 years of friendship I'm done. God kept showing me how she was and is! I loved her and kept forgiving her,........ No more! I will miss her

[@aamponsaaa]

Hmmmmm..... All 3 signs are so true! Especially the 3rd sign and I kept going back due to loneliness and guilt that I'm being too harsh and I'm not being nice but truth is, it was all because of how this person made me feel. God showed me in a dream and I still hanged on by a thread, and guess what? They came to me and blew up a little statement out of context and now it's no contact. My prayer is that God helps me to stay away for good this time. I deserve better and deserve the love I give out. Sometimes we break our own hearts or God has to allow us to really get hurt because we are not listening.

[@Kris_Reece]

So true my friend. thank you for sharing

[@jamiet182]

OMG, me too

[@aamponsaaa]

@Jamie T keep praying and trust in God to heal you from all the words that makes you feel you aren't or weren't being nice to them. 🙏

[@Ashley-og9ti]

​@aamponsaaa same I am a bit ashamed and embarrassed but I moved halfway across the country, alone, no family or friends, and still let them back in. In my life in a whole different state! I was going to change my phone service but the sim card got lost in the mail and we ended up back in touch. I took it as a sign maybe I made the wrong decision but now idk. I ask for guidance but I also need wisdom and discernment. He is not a bad guy I just don't think we are for each other. Please pray for me 🙏🏾

[@aamponsaaa]

@Ashley he's not a bad guy, yet you moved and left your friends and family to get away from him? He's not a bad guy, but he doesn't seem to be good or right for you. I'm not judging but prioritise your mental health first. And sure, I'll be praying for you. Stay blessed 🙏

[@Deborah-uw5ip]

"Nothing good comes from emotional distress."

[@kalelalee53]

I can't even try to explain the hurt, shaming, judgemental, put downs I've experienced by my father through my life. The hurtful things he's said and done and keeps doing. No matter how many times I've tried to show love, he will eventually cap it off with his negative words. It has affected my life hugely. In every way. I've never measured up, yet my brother can do no wrong. I'm 70 and my dad is now 94. He was a preacher as I grew up. All I remember is harsh discipline and shaming. I'm so damaged that often for months at a time I would have horrible dreams night after night of rejection and beatings. I pray to my dear Jesus for healing for this all the time. My father never forgets anything I may have done in the past. He holds onto these things like gold and weapons. After a recent trip to see him last month I walked up to him and held his hands and said " I hate this detachment but don't know how to fix it. I told him I lov😢😢ed him and his response was " when I was 15 I snuck out of the house causing him and mom ( who is now with Jesus) to worry. He said he can't forget things like this, they're in his head." I told him I'm done and walked away. All the positive things I have done in my life he can't remember. Only my mistakes. I've been judged all my life by him. Frankly I have no idea what I will say if anything at his funeral.😢

[@jeffreyw9703]

My girlfriend has very similar story due to pregnant at 16 and her father a preacher how he put her on front row and basically forced his idea of God and God's love on her. He shamed her and she has always been affected by him. She's beat cancer been through abusive relationship 10 years, her dad would say what did you do to make him hit you. Told her to go back and do right by her husband. She lost 1 of her sons a few years ago. Which she's told me almost lost herself and took over 1 year from life just to heal. She has since met me and I'm not sure if I am the best for her. I'm proud of her love her and respect her. I pray she can heal and we can both heal from our past and grow together in christ jesus. Bless you. I'm having problems with my father also. It's tuff but all we can do is keep faith In God and try our best. Bless

[@jeffreyw9703]

My girlfriend has very similar story due to pregnant at 16 and her father a preacher how he put her on front row and basically forced his idea of God and God's love on her. He shamed her and she has always been affected by him. She's beat cancer been through abusive relationship 10 years, her dad would say what did you do to make him hit you. Told her to go back and do right by her husband. She lost 1 of her sons a few years ago. Which she's told me almost lost herself and took over 1 year from life just to heal. She has since met me and I'm not sure if I am the best for her. I'm proud of her love her and respect her. I pray she can heal and we can both heal from our past and grow together in christ jesus. Bless you. I'm having problems with my father also. It's tuff but all we can do is keep faith In God and try our best. Bless

[@libfuzzy4629]

Pray for his deliverance if he doesn’t forgive God won’t forgive him and you can’t enter heaven if God doesn’t forgive you

[@mrscindymargaret2736]

Set boundaries for my mother ♥️

[@originfx1]

Love your ministry Kris Reece! Youre like a breath of fresh air!❤

[@Kris_Reece]

Thank you :)

[@hippyable]

​@@Kris_Reece you sound so right! You don't overtalk religion. That's good.

[@hippyable]

I had a beautiful weed kick me out during Christmas. That was her last chance. You're amazing

[@tc7605]

What a blessing to have found you!!! I was in a narcissistic relationship for 3 years ! My mother is a narcissistic mother my stepmother is a narcissistic person and my brother-in-law….. I have been surrounded by them my entire life!!! Your videos have brought a measure of healing to my heart🥰🥰 Both me and my father are empaths and I continually pray for my father.

[@JackAnthony-ud8ii]

Hello I am so sorry if this sounds weirds but you wrote such a nice and wonderful comment. I can tell your very positive person, if it's . Okay with you l'd love to be friends❤

[@privatecaller1418]

Poisoning your life aka garden Affects negatively spiritual growth,health, finances, emotional balances mental calm

[@juditharsenault2131]

I watched this video and had been procrastinating cutting my hair. It was dry with a lot of dead ends. I went upstairs after watching this and cut my hair! It looks soooo much better and feels better.

[@Zona-dw9rp]

My former spouse. Finally got away from her, but significant damage was done. Thank you, Jesus.

[@vive928]

@@Zona-dw9rp do u have kids ?

[@Zona-dw9rp]

@@vive928 Two girls.

[@janetpugliesi3203]

God certainly is in charge!! I really needed to hear this today for oh so many reasons he lead me to you... and what a blessing that was..reminds me of what I needed to know!! Thank you!!!!

[@creativechicahauls]

This came right at the time I needed it!!! Cutting someone out right now!! Manipulated me for the last time!! I have had to cut a out a few in my life. This was a so called friend!!

[@JackAnthony-ud8ii]

Hello friend how are you doing.?

[@Liz-bi9bv]

I believe this video was a confirmation from God regarding a recent decision I made. I have finally broken ties with an ex-husband of 30 years. He is and will always be a narcissist. He has poisoned my life and I have continued to take his abuse 5 years after divorcing him. I asked God to confirm that this was the right decision. Watching this video has opened my eyes and I say, "Thank God!!"

[@angelorivera3611]

Believe me wisdom is getting fed up with toxic relationships that have no value(no sincere friendship) and ungodly , this is most of all. Jesus is the foundation of our faith and that last thing we need is riffraff in dealing with such personalities and how you state it best of all is toxic relationships. Poisoning my garden or life is most of all important because of my relationship with my savour. Toxic people I definitely don't want nor accept, no more, no shaking hands, no open door here nor to my house. True that bad company corrupt s good morals. Thank you very much

[@bisforborji7993]

Well then, As a muslim woman looking for a little self help on youtube about my failing marriage... Some how I stumbled on your video and it was exactly what I was looking for. No misinterpretation, no trying to make the shoe fit. Every thing you spoke about pertains to my relationship 100% and I needed to hear this. Thanks for that, keep doing what you do.. You're making an impression and doing gods work!!

[@solstice1681]

God bless you, I'm in the same situation, marriage failing, I've tried everything but it takes two and he's not interested, doesn't care about marriage or me.

[@Americanpatriot-zo2tk]

Prayers

[@AlyssaLopez-n1c]

For years when I do my salah, I recite surah al-nas and make dua "if there are any with me who are poisoning me or taking me from you or who are deceiving me, please remove me from them and give me clear understanding" little by little things did become clear and I'm reaching a point where I can think without overwhelmed by emotions to see the next steps. God is with us and responds to those who sincerely call out to him.

[@denise0777]

I absolutely needed this message today, it is a confirmation. And I loved your "alternate self"...funny material!

[@carlafredericks]

I like the fun bits, because it helps to laugh while I'm trying to accurately discern something serious, rather than trying to build a case.

[@elianah2874]

I really liked listening to this! I would be farther ahead today if I would have listened to GOD in the first place. My husband and I moved away from the hometown where my TOXIC family members and his TOXIC mother lived. We didn't tell anybody that we were moving, we actually moved to a different State and put 500 or so miles between them and us. Then COVID 19 broke out and my husband wanted me to find out if his one brother was OK. I searched for him on Facebook and contacted him, which became the beginning of opening a CAN OF WORMS. I then started wondering if my family members were OK. I told GOD that I wouldn't contact them unless HE wanted me to. About 2-3 weeks went by and I woke up one morning and GOD asked me if I was a dog, being astonished I asked, " Am I a dog"? HE replied, "Are you a dog, that you would return to vomit"?! That was HIS answer about contacting them and REGRETFULLY I didn't OBEY! It opened the door that GOD had closed and we are now working to get it back CLOSED! My advice to anyone who reads this, it is so much easier just to OBEY GOD when HE tells you something and it will ALWAYS be for your own GOOD!

[@Ash-ol3ji]

I am just 2 minutes in, yet the whole bad hair analogy resonates with me. I got out of an ungodly relationship, went back and forth a few times even after the breakup, then resolved to not let my ex use me anymore by not just setting boundaries but abiding by them. In a moment of weakness today, I checked my blocked calls and messages and saw his calls and that he asked if we were really done. Mind you we have been broken up a month, but it wasn't until a week ago that I decided to not go back. I felt a tinge of guilt for essentially ghosting him even though I knew any contact resulted in my going back. I hate that after looking at his message, I am tempted to see him again, but thankfully, I have not reached out to him. I hardly even thought about him before this. I hope messages like this will remind me that I need to let go AND not look back.

[@JahRootsRadio]

That’s right sister. Don’t go back. Tell the devil to GET!!!! Get the steppin behind me Satan!!!

[@daviddansereau1793]

🐎🐎🐎

[@chamomiletea5424]

YES! Remember Lot's wife. Genesis 19:26; Luke 17:29-33

[@daviddansereau1793]

My Jesus 🎶

[@lilybuccigross6688]

Videos and messages have affected my perception toward my husband of five years. What a treasure to now feel confident based on God’s Word and principles. What the enemy meant for evil, I trust God will use for His glory. Thank you, Kris! 💜🙌☝️

[@JackAnthony-ud8ii]

Hello friend how are you doing.?

[@corasteidinger9594]

It almost seems that narcissistic people are drawn to control empathetic people. .. Like many people commenting, I came to know that God does not want us to live in misery...🙏🤗 He gave me the continuous signs over the years to let go of these people ..Thank you God🙏❤️🤗

[@desertcrab6331]

Whoa now, what is this Kris? You have taken things to the next level here. What an amazing video, creative, and informative with a dollop of humor. Nicely produced Kris, you made some very interesting points. A little too close, they rubbed up against my conscience and spirit knowing there is truth afoot. I have rid my life of ALL of my abusers, except one. I am down to the very last one and when considering biblical principles on 'removing' someone in your life you are joined to by covenant, the decision is not so cut and dry or black and white. Very complex after almost 5 decades. I have just recently found answers to my lifelong search and now understand what is going on after decades of confusion, frustration, fatalism, and despair. It matters not which way I go, it is going to cost me dearly either way. My tendency is to decide what I want and do the opposite, I figure I have better odds at hitting the mark than if I didn't do what I wanted. But what is wrong with what I want? I have denied myself that very perk my entire life trying to find happiness in the happiness of others. Flexing my life and wanting to not rock the boat and give others what THEY wanted. So after all these years of abuse, am I wrong if I want something else more aligned with my calling and destiny and have an actual help mate who compliments my calling and gifting with her own and together we walk out our collective destinies? One holds me back and beats me into the ground, the other encourages me to soar, there is a difference. I am called selfish for wanting to live my own life, the reality is I actually need to start being selfish honestly. That is my problem, I NEVER help myself! This is NO easy task! Come on dad, why did you have to be such an asshole to me? You called me an idiot, but it was YOU YOURSELF who made me that way dammit! All these years, I thought it was ME! Ya wanno know how I raised my kids dad? I did the OPPOSITE of what YOU DID. But you wouldn't know that would you? Yea, you had to be around actually to see it. My dad was an overt destructive narcissist. There, I said it! Now I know, one more to go . . . . .

[@JenniferTrika]

This is definitely enlightening. Thank you. I actually feel God through this message and gives me a sense of peace.

[@Sheryl777]

Sometimes it might not even be that the other person is bad company....it could just be that you and the other person have different outlooks on life, and therefore won't be able to agree with each other.

[@michaellogan7507]

Kris, you are so helpful. Thank you more than you know. As a bi-vocational pastor, and amateur thespian, the early organized church - mass in Latin - had theatrical presentations outside to explain the Scriptures and homily. I treasure perspective. The theater in your teaching are 'selah' moments.

[@debbieheidrick3682]

Wow, this is truth! I'm about to leave and I'm ready! God has shown me.

[@juancarrasco104]

Thank you so much for this information about God removing people from my life. Amen 🙏

[@mandispaumer3923]

Thank you, Kris. Love your teachings. May God bless your ministry.

[@robin2319]

I was always 🙏 praying during my toxic relationship with a narcissist. He finally put on my heart ! Enough is enough let him go , go no contact once and for all so I listen to God

[@EmilyEllis-c5k]

It's my mother. Over the last 8 months I was led to learn that she's a narcissist and I'm her only victim. I've felt it in my soul for 25 years. Even though she's elderly, I finally went no contact a few weeks ago. I had a shift in my feelings. I'm just not going to subject myself to her emotional abuse any more. Additionally, since my daughter moved away 12 years ago, I've wanted to move to where she is. My aging parents kept me here. But no more. I feel like God has given me the freedom to move. But I always feel so insecure. There are so many obstacles. But looking back, I can see how God brought me here step by step. I really think God is guiding me to move. I keep moving forward with my plans to move. I have faith that God will clear the way and make it possible. But I need reassurance I'm doing what God has planned for me. I still have a sliver of doubt. And I hate that. Does anyone have words of wisdom?

[@Rorybabii777]

I feel you! My mother is the same way :/ I'm in the same situation in a way like u. I pray for you and your situation 🙏🏼

[@marciasloan534]

@@EmilyEllis-c5k TELL US WHAT HAPPENED

[@queenceo7239]

I give God the Glory for having come across this channel,it's all I needed years ago🙏

[@ladennayoung2939]

AMEN. HALLELUJAH. I feel as though the LORD brought this to my attention for VARIOUS reasons. Thanks for sharing. MANY blessings to you and yours in Jesus' name. AMEN.

[@JackAnthony-ud8ii]

Hello friend how are you doing?

[@deborahw.215]

I am happy to have found your channel. You share wonderful info and insight, and I especially like that most, if not all, is based on scriptual principles. Blessings.

[@GodsMouthpieceJoeRob]

Thank you Minister Reese God bless you ❤️🙏🏾😇

[@bfthompson416]

Thank you Kris for your ministry! I went NC last week with a toxic friend and a huge weight was lifted off of me! God had been trying to get me to do this for years! I had to repent for not listening to Him! Finally thanks to your videos, I have done it!!! Hallelujah!!!

[@sandrafrancis6809]

Yet....God has changed my heart and feelings to make the right decision to cut away from this toxic person right now. I will use my head not my heart.

[@tracycampbell3060]

This is a life changing video. I'm rewatching and taking notes!! Thank you Kris

[@drchrisgrayson2042]

Hello 👋🏻 Beautiful Lady 🌹,How are you and the weather condition like?

[@masoodpervaiz6044]

Hello! Dear Kris this is Good Very Good and the scriptures you quote while teaching is powerful. God bless you.

[@brendataylor7524]

Love your podcastcast, Kriss. This is appsultly true about having toxic people totally drag you down. I have removed a number of people in my life.

[@barbaramelville6940]

I did it now he’s with a toxic person and I don’t want to deal with him anymore thank god❤❤❤❤

[@JackAnthony-ud8ii]

Hello friend how are you doing.?

[@artangel23]

God allowed me to get away from my narc mother but I fell for deception and came back. I've ben begging God for forgiveness and help getting out again. Please, pray for me 🙏

[@brandym.williams7314]

When it's time to go it's time to Go.

[@christineolexa5116]

#3 God has removed these people from your life and you keep letting them back in! STOP vacillating between one opinion and another. 1 Kings 18:21 The longer we "ignore" the weeds the larger their root grows and they become more difficult to remove from our garden.

[@Corinna_Schuett_GER]

I do agree from Matthew 10:34-36 and 2 Corinthians 6:14-16 which covers both family ties and workplace or other relationships. 👍

[@donnahendrickson4442]

Thank you for sharing this scripture 👍👍👍👍👍👍God bless you 🙏✝️🙏✝️🙏✝️🙏✝️🙏✝️🙏✝️🙏

[@maxwell-cole]

This deserves a Part 2 and 3. Very informative.

[@randyellison602]

I was with this women and her mom text me more than she did. I asked her politely to not message me and it was clear that she didn't respect the boundaries. I ended up moving on. My ex fiance was alot like her mom always negative and unhappy I tried everything I could to bring positivity into the relationship and family but after awhile it was really exhausting. My advice for everyone find a Godly women/man. Godbless you all.

[@Phil-For-Reel]

Wow! This was rather spot on for a working relationship I walked away from in 2023. Great Insight

[@byronkerby6897]

It is important to pray for our enemies, including family members we have had to let go of because it is impossible to harbor resentment towards someone we are praying for. It protects us from developing a root of bitterness.

[@not-even-german4892]

No. Keep UR positive positive energy for your loved ones

[@libfuzzy4629]

Amen

[@sherrilynn8043]

Love your words of wisdom, and the humor! God Bless!

[@kkso3318]

This was the best video you've done so far! I really love the way you did the content of this one.😊

[@oldmah6241]

I have a toxic sister. However I believe mental illness is involved though she’s never been officially diagnosed. It seems like paranoia. She accuses me of going into her home when she’s not there. I feel my love for her dying. If I have any regard for her it’s because she’s my parents’ child and I honour them. It’s a huge sorrow in my life.

[@jcgardeaa]

After seeing this, I feel like I was the weed in her life. But I never was ill intentioned, or aggressive toxic, and it broke me deeply when she plucked me without notice. I was praying every day to God guide me in being the right man for her.

[@jenp342]

This sunk in more, and so true, sometimes we need to stay away, to care for people at distance. I do trust myself, but sometimes the solid answer comes from making the mistake, and seeing the same pattern. I Thank the Creator for showing me what I need to do, even if I don’t see the whole road ahead. Then it’s time to walk away.

[@jennaletizia5430]

It’s hard when it’s family that is toxic and basically blackmailing you to keep giving them money or else

[@Thee_BreezyBeenie]

I believe this word can be applied to me. Very much applied to me.

[@opalwilliamson8462]

This information is so life changing for me love the word

[@opalwilliamson8462]

@@TomTom-bh2wf condolences Tom may the comforting spirit of God Be with you for a lifetime