Tus nus, koj hais yog kawg rau koj, tabsis tas nrho rau peb pojniam Hmoob ces tsis Ncajncees rau peb. Peb coob tus pojniam raug quab yuam yuav, thaum laus los peb twb yuav tsis tau txiv yau li nej thiab.
@chongvang1294 жыл бұрын
Nrog koj zoo siab qhov koj rov tau kuv tus hluas nkauj Los hlub rau yam laus no lawm. Ntxub peb Hmoob txoj cais no tshaj plaws, zoo siab heev peb nyob teb chaws Vam meej tej kev quab yuav no tsis muaj lawm.
@chouamoua42264 жыл бұрын
Yog lawm thov maum phauj tshawm kom g txhob muaj lawm
@shuavheu29924 жыл бұрын
Hais yog kawg lawm Tab sis li cas los peb cov poj niam Hmoob yeej yog cov raug txim thiab poob peev tas lub neej. Peb poj niam Hmoob uas taug quab yuam raug zij lub neej mob siab tu siab los yeej tsis muaj neeg paub neeg pom twb tsis hais niam tij txos kwv.
@bliathao58784 жыл бұрын
Hmoob nis hmoob aws ua ca nim yuav hais tau tu siab ua luaj naj lawv es
@yinglee40194 жыл бұрын
Thov qhuas Niam ntsuab teev piav zaj no tau zoo kawg thiab muaj ceem heev
@leevue96354 жыл бұрын
Zoo li kv twb hnov zaj no los lawm
@7stars2love4 жыл бұрын
Hmoob lub neej niam tij txi kwv thiab mus zij luag tej ntxhais mas ntxim ntxub tiag2
@khaigiang29284 жыл бұрын
Tau ib lub neej zoo li ko ces leej twg log yeej tu siab heev lawm og tij laug aw
@kookashi4 жыл бұрын
Tus kwv tij, vim yog koj muab quaj dhau lawm ces lawv thiaj txis rau koj tiag. Yeeb vim yog laus lawm ces thiaj tsis xav yuav. Tus txiv twb laus2 lawm nws yeej yuav tuag. Txoj kev zoo li no thiaj tsis muaj kev vam meej. Txoj kev tsis sib hlub ces thiaj tsis hlub sib haum. Cov laus txoj cai qias2. Txoj kev tsis vam meej rau txoj kev tsaus ntuj.
@ntsaislor96194 жыл бұрын
Yog lawm os ua ca cov lau lawv yuav pom lawv tu kheej x g pom txog tej me tub me yuam
@ntsuabyajchannel50674 жыл бұрын
Nrog neb zoo siab kawg Vim thaum kawg neb kuj sib tau lawm
@pajtawgtshiab18044 жыл бұрын
Wow....zaj no mas ua cas yuav haib2 tag2 li os yom...txhob tu siab os mog....viv koj twb tau koj tus lawm ne....
@zoolikuv4 жыл бұрын
Peb yeej muaj tej txoj kev cai phem2 li no. Kuv ntxub tej niag kev cai duam2 li no tshaj plaws li os. Tseg kiag txoj kev zij poj niam, yuav niam yaus thiab niam tij tsis kwv ces peb yuav zoo lawm ntau lau!
@naixiong22014 жыл бұрын
Tus me nus koj hais koj txoj kev tu siab yeej kawg lawm thiab tab si yog ua li cas thaum koj twb taus koj tus qub hluas nkauj los ua koj tus niam yaus lawm ua li cas koj ho tsi hlub ob leeg mag koj ua li koj ua ko mas koj tsua ua li koj lub nyiam xwb zoo koj tab si tsi tshua ncaj rau koj tu niam tij lawm koj yog ib tug txiv neej siab phem kawg nkaus li thiab txawm koj yuav tu los yog nej txoj koj tsuav xav txog koj tus kheej xwb ua li koj ne yog hais tias koj ho yog koj tus niam tij no koj ho puas tu siab thiab
@paolor29564 жыл бұрын
Cas koj tsis hais tias txiv cia koj yuav no, yog koj txiv xav tuav niam tij cia thiab hlub cov xeeb ntxwv.
@yinglee40194 жыл бұрын
Cov uas niam tij txis kwv es sib sib hlub ho yuav tsis kam muam phauj tsawm os... txawm tias cov no muaj tsawg tus
@jenniferthao98614 жыл бұрын
Agree. Let the past be the past. That’s few of tradition we, our communities need to change.
@sivithvang89124 жыл бұрын
Nuag nyob li xwb txawm siv hais tias nyuaj kj siab peb cov poj niam hmoob ua raug yuam yuav tus txiv yus g nyiam thiab yus tsis hlub tseem raug yuam yuav thiab yus yeej nyuaj siab thiab tu siab tshaj plaws li thiab koj nyuam qhuav rau me2 xwb os peb cov poj niam ma raug ib sim neeej yuam ib tiam dhau ib tiam g paub tag li na tu siab tshaj plaws li
@ntsuabyajchannel50674 жыл бұрын
Cov laus yav thaum ub txoj Kev cai niam tij txis kwv no thov muab tso pov tseg thiab os hmoob
@vahothi91844 жыл бұрын
Ntxub hmoob tej nias kev cai quav dev no kawg os.
@sweetsunshine264 жыл бұрын
Txoj cai tsis yog rau peb lawm, tab yuav tsis yuav los koj twb lees tau lub neej lawm yuav tsum hlub luag thiab, ua li Koj ua tsis yog lawm
@Lifemoments544 жыл бұрын
Koj luj2 siab koj twb yuav taus tus neeg koj hlub lawm ces cias koj Niam tij/niam loj yuav ib tug txiv yaus thiab mas. Tim koj niam koj txiv es koj chim rau lawv zoo duas chim rau koj niamtij.
@yajx4 жыл бұрын
chim siab tu siab lwj siab ua luaj li os😢
@janesoyaj4 жыл бұрын
You are 100% right brother!
@maiseemoua88974 жыл бұрын
Pab koj tus niam tij tu siab tshaj koj 10000000000000 Npaug lawm thiab os niag ntsej muag txiv neej siab Dub Chim koj niag qhov huam os cas siab dub siab phem dab tuag tshaj li Sib ua ua dab tsi naw cas tseem muaj cov me Nyuam tom qab no thiab Liam tshaj tsiaj lawm thiab os Cas tseem kab hais rau me nyuam thiab niam loj thiab os Mob koj niag qhov quav xwb os cas ntxim ntxub ua luaj
@thaoker2473 жыл бұрын
Koj tu siab los koj tseem tau tu koj hlub hlub lawm ho koj tu niam tij twb tsis tau tu nws hlub tag ib sim neej nws ntxim hlub tshaj koj os thaub aw
@_cloudy_25064 жыл бұрын
Koj xa tias koj tu saib tshaj. Muab hais los mas koj tus niam tij tseem tus tshaj koj. Koj tias yog tim nws es nws Tsi hais kom dim qhov yuav koj no. Koj twb yog niag haus tsev es Koj twb hais Tsi dim nes. Nws yog niag nej tias muab nyiaj Sawm lawm ces nej yuav hais li cas los tau. Nws ham yam Tsi muaj haus kev. Koj tias Koj nim tu tu saib tiam si Koj twb tau tu Koj hlub lawm nes Ua niam yau. Nws nes Nws hos tau dabtsi no. Koj tsuas xa txog koj tu kheej xwb. Koj YEEJ Tsis zoo kiag! I don’t feel sorry for u!
@hlubibleegxwb98424 жыл бұрын
Hmoob txoj kev cai qaub thaum ub na btxim ntxub tshaj yog muab ib tug niam tij los txis rau koj txiv ntshe koj txiv haj tuag nrog tij laug thiab aw
@yiahawj47894 жыл бұрын
Txhob coj tuaj qhia peb .peb tsis xav hnov .
@darleneyang5824 жыл бұрын
Koj zaj neej neeg tus siab kawg tabsis txhua yam no yog tim hmoob kev cai tabsis txiv neej twb ua tau txhua yam muaj cai xaiv yuav los tsis yuav, yog tsis hlub niamtij kuj muab nrauj kiag nyias mus nrhiav tus nyias hlub thiaj tsis lwj siab koj li hais. tsis nrauj tabsis ho yuav niam yau tsis hlub niam loj koj txhaum qhov no. tab txawm yog koj yuav niam yaus los koj txawj ua txiv hlub 2 leeg ib yam ces yeej zoo xwb.
@sandyyang12444 жыл бұрын
Brother!!!!!!! Don’t just think about you only!!!! Because she doesn’t have a choice either. Koj yog ib tug txiv neej yawg koj twb coj tsis ncaj li!!!!! Yog tias koj ua ib leej txiv es coj ncaj ces koj tsis tas yuav hais kom koj cov me nyuam hlub koj. Lawv yeej hlub koj lawm os!!!!!
@liathoj20614 жыл бұрын
Koj kuj xav qhov uas txiv neej muaj ob peb tus niam es tseem ho mus yuav cov me ntxhais mos2 los yuav es tseem tsis hlub thiab mas es tsis txhob ho cem2 koj tus niam loj thiab os vim koj niam koj txiv yuam xwb hos txiv neej laus xav tau ntxhais mosmas yog txiv neej tus kheej yuam yuav kiag lub txim no ntshe yuav tau ntiav muam phauj tsawg thiab os yom
@xerzohpongyang5524 жыл бұрын
I agree with you brother! Peb Hmong tsis txob muab niam tij txis kwv lawm.
@TracyLovee4 жыл бұрын
Cov laus tsawg ces muaj kiag rau koj txiv yuav kiag xwb! A bitter life.
Poor guy . Deeply sorry to hear your story and I truly feel your pain . Thanks for sharing .
@gaosayvu56114 жыл бұрын
Cas koj txiv ntshaw2 ces kom koj txiv yuav xwb mas
@paulthao14124 жыл бұрын
Cov phooj ywg ..luv mas ntxub cov niam txiv ua yus twb dhuav li dhuav li txawm khoo yus tas li xwb.
@huabcualee63464 жыл бұрын
Nus twb tsis sav youv koj thiab vim koj niam thiab koj txiv na koj youv tsum tawv kom dau ma.
@swanlake38954 жыл бұрын
Peb yeej tau taub koj tiamsis qhov koj txhaum yog qhov koj liam yog niam tim niam loj. Lub sijhawm ntawv pojniam tsis muaj cai li, koj tus Niam loj thiaj tau yuav koj. Koj yog ib tug txivneej. Tiamsis tsis yog txivneej yawg kho es koj thiaj tsis nti kom dim koj niam thiab txiv. Koj tus niam loj lwj siab tsaj vim nws tsis muaj cai mus yuav ib tug txiv yau. Ho koj tu tu siab tiamsis koj twb rov tau tus koj hlub hlub es koj tseem tsi koj tus niam loj siab ntsws ntxiv thiab. Nej cov txivneej siab phem tsuas Pov nej sab xwb.
@annalor97714 жыл бұрын
Kuv nrog koj tu siab kawg tu mi nus, sad story brother 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@huabcualee63464 жыл бұрын
Txiv neej yeej siab phem tshaj cas nus tsis sav youv ho tsis tawv kom dau nus txiv, yog tawv tsis dau ces nus kuj tuag mus thiab
@klkl44524 жыл бұрын
What a sad way to ruin a lot of different lives
@along767liang94 жыл бұрын
tus txiv tsev aw yog yus twb paub tia yus g hlub cov me nyuam nian lawm cev me nyuam g hlub yus los txhob ntsha siab o
@DEJNAG4 жыл бұрын
Thaub koj phem .... Tim koj xwb
@ellie75874 жыл бұрын
It’s a hard situation both ways
@mayloutxiachaheu99154 жыл бұрын
Koj yog tus yuav nyab rau tab sis nws niam yog tus them,yus tsis hlub luag niam ces luag ho tsis hlub yus pes tsawg los kuj txhob tu siab thiab
@pajvuamkwmriamvajngheanvie59144 жыл бұрын
Koj ce hmoov zoo kawg ma qhov kj tau kj niam tij los ua poj njam ntsua nros kj ntshaw2 kj niam tij lub nj a
@mcha331ify4 жыл бұрын
Im so thankful that this and the bridenapping are no longer practice at least here in the states. Its such a sad life however as a Hmong man you still have the right to marry another wife that you like. Unlike the kidnapped brides who have no choice...😢💔
@javismoua18734 жыл бұрын
Thaub koj yog tus phem xwb tsi yog koj poj niam yog tus phem os koj yog niag neeg phem peb tsom kwm saib mas koj yeej yog tus phem koj poj niam yeej zoo lawm teeb meem yog koj tsis xwb koj txhob hais lo lus hais tias tu siab tshaj koj os lis lys no ces txhob muab haus tawm txaj muag heev li os.
@Nkaujzajib4 жыл бұрын
I get he's hurt, in pain, and upset by what happened. I hope Hmong men understand how Hmong women have been treated and continued to be treated. Men still have options in our culture. Look dude, you have a second wife now. Our Hmong women have been brideknapped and forced marriages for centuries against their will and with NO options. Some women are married without their consent, against their will as young as age 13 and 14 to men two to three times their age into a polygamy lifestyle. Think of this!
@muajkojxwb94034 жыл бұрын
twb mus lees koj niam tij es koj ho tsi hlub tsi ncaj ncees rau koj tus niam tij li koj yeej yog neeg zoo li cas laj mloog ua luaj koj zaj no nas
@diannaxiong6934 жыл бұрын
I AGREE WITH YOU BROTHER! NWS TAU KOJ MOS MOS ES UA LI CAS NWS TSI HLUB KOJ NO...VIM YOG KOJ SIAB ZOO DHAU LAWM ES LAWV SAIB KOJ TSI MUAJ NUJ NQE XWB MOG...
@mzmimi6084 жыл бұрын
I think he fails to u understand that she is also miserable and doesnt wanna be with him but she has no choice. Yes, maybe she could have fought harder and said no to the marriage, but if she walks out of the family with her kids, her kids will suffer. At least if she stays then the grandparents and that younger brother they will still love her kids, even if he doesn't love her. I hear too many stories about back in the days where the step dad/mom and step-grandparents are so mean to the new mom's kids.
@pntravels75144 жыл бұрын
Ntuj aw niag thaub laus aw koj twb tau koj niag qub hluas nkauj maum dev co tu lawm es koj tseem muaj plus tuaj piav koj lub qe luj thiab os tsis txaj muag li los. Koj tus niam tij twb tsis nrhiav dua dua txiv dev li koj es tsis paub tsaj muag li los tsej muag thaub laus
@thomassimneej79214 жыл бұрын
Goodbye the old Hmong tradition! No more thing like this.
@kaonisvue38794 жыл бұрын
Hmoob txoj cais no mas tsim nyog hloov lawm, txhob muab lwm tus quav yuam rau txoj kev luag tsis txau siab.....
@tautusneegzoo97064 жыл бұрын
Sister May my name is Ntsuab Nplooj Vaj, my wife and I like to listen to you every day. Keep going good job!
@katlee22974 жыл бұрын
Hard to live a loveless life regardless of sex. Truely sad but at least he had a second chance with his girlfriend.
@kasivang92234 жыл бұрын
Things need to change for sure. We need to stop 🛑 some of the old traditions especially this one.
@madamtokyo14 жыл бұрын
I agree with this guy... the OG ways are so unfair and they like to force marriage. Thank god its 2020 and we dont have to go through that.
@tubhmoobhmoob29444 жыл бұрын
Tus txiv tsev ib qho zoo uas koj muab qhia rau sawv daws, es sawv daws yuav tau pauv, tsis txhob ua tej yam ruam2 li cov laus lawm
@mosvaj13854 жыл бұрын
Koj twb muaj2 hmoo rov tau koj tus Qub hluas Nkauj los ua koj niam tau lawm ces nrog koj zoo siab thiab mog
@zanclester93914 жыл бұрын
Wow lucky lady got two got two bro...lol
@choonvghant76744 жыл бұрын
She has no fault. If you love her then don’t accept your Dad’s demands. Your wife or Niam Tij has no choice. It is your responsibility to take care of her. Why don’t you let her go, if your isn’t with her. Everything is your fault. Now you already has the person you want, then start love both of them. Don’t play favoritism and stop complaining.
@stacyheu44754 жыл бұрын
Choonvg Hant she has fault just as much as him maybe even more. If she has no choice then he has no choice either. She was older so she should have refused but she didn’t refused. Not his fault she didn’t refused. He already warned them that if they force him to marry her he will do as they wish but will not going love her and she still agreed to choose him of the three brothers knowing that. Why blame him only? He was just 16 years old, she wasn’t.
Everyone is Mad at this man but it’s not all his fault . Before you say it’s all his fault, don’t forget he was forced and threatened by his father at 16 years old. He refused but they wouldn’t let him refuse. What do you expect a 16 year old to do in a situation like this at that time?! With no way out he unwilling do what they want but he did warn that if they make him he will marry her but won’t ever love her. She knew this and still agree. She was older and should know better so she should have refused but she didn’t and agreed to marry him knowing he said he won’t love her. You cannot force yourself to love someone when you don’t. Back in those days kids still respect their elders. He is just as much of a victim as she is. Have a heart and try to understand the bigger picture. People are So quick and easy to judge others. Walk a mile in his shoes before you judge him.
@mailor56124 жыл бұрын
Tus tij laus no koj zaj neej neeg no hai tau tsi txaus nyiam li xa tsi cia nw tuag es cia tus tij nyob na
@lcvwj29494 жыл бұрын
I feel you and understand your story very well tus me txiv ntxawm. I was once suppose to be in the same shoes before. I hate that kind of rule in the Hmong community.
@somman96394 жыл бұрын
Yog lawm hu maum phauj tsawm kiag yog leej twg tseemua kom nws tuag mus 9 tiam
@pajqhiav8854 жыл бұрын
koj hais tias koj raug yuam los nws twb raug yuam thiab. koj hais tias koj raug tsim los nws twb rau koj tsim thiab. koj tsis hlub nws koj muaj cai yuav dua ib tug. yog tus koj hlub. tab sis nws yuav tsis tau ib tug. koj tseem tsis hlub thiab nws lub neej tseem tu siab tshaj koj. koj tias koj tu siab. Koj pu xav tias nws tu siab thiab.
@bearbear21964 жыл бұрын
My pops has cheated on my mom throughout our whole lives. She’s his first wife and he is hers. It’s not just forced marriages with sister in laws, but any kind of forced marriages. Nobody will be happy. We understand where our father is coming from. We don’t hold it against him. But my mom plays that same game and give us guilt trips that we are her reason for her misery that she has to stay. If your children have a brain, they can think for themselves. We treat our father in response to the way he treats us individually, not how he treats our mom. It’s is, after all, her decision to stay with him.
@douaxiong21013 жыл бұрын
paj 89 z
@jervang67064 жыл бұрын
Tus txiv tsev aw....ntshe koj thov muam Phauj tsawm seb puas daws tau koj txoj kev npam xwb os tsis li ces twb tsis yog nws txhom koj yuav ne!!! twb yog koj txiv tsis kam nws mus yuav txiv rau sab nrauv es muab yuam yuav koj thiab xwb os!!! Yog hmoob txoj cai ncaj ncees rau poj Niam yuav txiv Yau ces nws yeej mus yuav ib tug txiv yau los Puag rau koj mob siab tib yam li Koj ua rau nws thiab os.
@touayang10514 жыл бұрын
Koj yeej yog neeg lim hiam, koj twb paub hais tias koj tuaj tsis tau tsis lhub luag hos yuav tuav luag los qha qhuav ua dab tsis ua cas tsis nti kom dim koj twb yog ib leej tub cag koj twb muaj cai. Mhoob txoj cai yeej phem tiam sis zam txim tsis tau rau koj.
@alicialee34534 жыл бұрын
Honestly, this tradition in the Hmong culture is just as taboo as marrying the same last name. I agree with the boy, that there are other ways around this then having to marry his sister in law. So glad this isn’t much practiced anymore.
@phengchang69904 жыл бұрын
Tus txiv neej ko ces yog tias nws yog tus neeg zoo CES nws yeej g muaj coj lo hais li os
@khuvang34854 жыл бұрын
Zaj no kuj haib kawg thiab
@suabyalei84214 жыл бұрын
Ib tug txiv coj li koj kuv tsis quav tsej. Yog kuv yog cov me nyuam kuv tsis pam koj. Koj yeej tsis hlub nws koj yog neeg phem. Koj xav kom zoo zoo, yog koj hlub nws txawm koj yuav niam yau los nws yeej tsis tu siab. Tabsis mloog ces koj yeej lim hiam txaus.
@shawnxiong18934 жыл бұрын
Tej laus thaud ruam tshaj plaws
@ntxawmyaj41174 жыл бұрын
tu txiv neg no siab dub ua luaj
@sonnyyang20224 жыл бұрын
Yeej yog tim koj thiab koj tsis kam yuav ce koj txiv yuam khoos los koj xum tuag ua kom lawv txhob khoo tau ,niam tij los ib yam thiab vim koj txiv lawv khoos kiag li thiab yog yuav mus ua neej tom ntej es me tub me nyuam nyiaj kub nyuj twm vaj tsev los lawv tsis pub ce kawg yuav xwb thiab mas ntis tsis dlim lis koj thiab xwb os
@laylayang7864 жыл бұрын
I feel bad for you. I don’t blame you for feeling the way you do. Hopefully Hmong people will get rid of that tradition.
@pamylavaaj15634 жыл бұрын
Tus txiv tsev no nws yeej tsi pom hais tias twb yog tim nws thiab, nwg tseem muaj plhus qhia txog nws qhov kev phem thiab. Koj twb yog koj txiv tug tub es koj twb tawv tsi dhau koj txiv es koj yuav kom koj tus niam tij tawv kom dhau. Mloog xwb yeej yog tim koj tsi hlub nws.
@maipha19804 жыл бұрын
There's definitely 2 sides to a story. Please don't force marriages going forward. People should have the right to choose who they want to be with. Life is too short so please let people live with their own happiness.
@fishing4life5734 жыл бұрын
what a sad life for both of you. you both still have choices. you did as well after marriage.
@hmongtalk11754 жыл бұрын
OMG dude this happened in the old land like anybody had a choice? If you didn't go to Thailand you wouldn't have got a second wife, that was your old girl. She should have Married you years before. She only Married you only after making her mistake (ha ha). When you were still in Laos. So your not being fair to anyone one of them period, especially to all those kids. I hope your happy after venting.
@gaosayvu56114 жыл бұрын
Txheej nim no ces twb tsis txis niam tij thiab kwv lawm. Cov hluas nim no ntse2 yeej txis tsis tau lawv
@pangthao90464 жыл бұрын
I hate how these traditions are passed down and enforced back in the past. So many lives are ruined and destroyed for a life time.
@kasivang92234 жыл бұрын
Pang Thao that’s so true, because in 2010 I almost hit that phase too, what I meant is that my SIL was mad because I didn’t allow my husband to take care of her after her husband died. Omg 😆 she fuckin hated me but I didn’t care. I’m like there’s plenty of widow men’s and divorced men out there, wtf would I allowed my husband to take care of you and besides she has grown kids that are in their fuckin thirty’s to take care of her and she has all of her husband million $$$$ money so go she get the other fishes in the sea. It’s been almost ten years since her husband passed and She still hates me til this day but I don’t give a fuck 😂😂 I have my own family so forget her seriously, my husband side of the family don’t like it but I don’t care, too bad I don’t share my husband with nobody ever.
@mondonnasander81924 жыл бұрын
Niag ntsej muag koj tu siab ces tu rau koj cov niam cov Txiv xwb lawv puas xav yuav koj thiab na vim luag yuav mus los nej cov niag kwv tij pheej yuav theeb luag tej me nyuam ne thiab yuav koj tiag kuv xav tias yog nej muab txhua mesic koj niam tij mas koj yeej g tau nws tiag
@harumin58644 жыл бұрын
Tus txiv ntawm qhov koj hai tias koj tus poj niam ua yog koj tus niam tij ntawv ma nw txhw2 nw cov me nyuam es nws cov me nyuav tsi hlub koj no. Kuv xav ma tsi yog li koj hais.peb ua tib neeg nyob muaj 10xyoo xwb peb yeej paub tias tus hlub thiab tus tsi hlub lawm. Twb yog li ntawv thiaj muaj neej neeg ntau2 hai nev
@mondonnasander81924 жыл бұрын
Ha
@likely89appleJuice4 жыл бұрын
This OG, making it seem like everything is his wife's fault. If you dont love her then dont married her no matter what your dad said. You cant blame her, you gotta blame your dad and yourself . Nobody can force you to "pes" if you dont do it yourself! If you dont love your first wife, divorce her! You brought it upon yourself because you cant divorce her too so why are you even complaining? Dont fucken use the kids as an excuse! Yet, you kept her hostage from marrying someone else too. Such hypocrites!
@stacyheu44754 жыл бұрын
likely89appleJuice you fail to see that he was forced and threatened at 16 years old. What would you do if your father threatened you and said if you don’t marry her/him I will die? What will you do? At that time and age shitty rules made by the OG are so strict. It’s not like he volunteered to marry her willingly then treat her mean. He did tell them from the beginning that he will do as they made him do but he won’t love her. She knowingly agree to marry when she could have refused since she the older one. He was just a kid.
@thomassimneej79214 жыл бұрын
No, it was not possible in the Hmong old way. All was the fault of his father, his father was to blame for all the misery. If I were the young man, I would let my father die on the night he was forced to marry his sister-in-law.
@colleenchan98724 жыл бұрын
Cia siab tias tag phauj laus no peb hmoob mekas los kuj yuav tseg txoj kev yuam neeg no lawm.. feem ntau nim no yeej tsis pom muaj tim mekas lawm tabsis tim nplog mas tseem muaj coob nawb!!
@minecraftboy26764 жыл бұрын
I am glad and hopefully that Hmoob tradition of giving the sister to the younger brother in law is lost and stop by these century because it is wrong way, no human rights and is very cruel to do that to another human.
@carmichealthoj51004 жыл бұрын
It's your own fault don't even blame your first wife. Why don't you just divorced her back then? I hate og's like this.
@mss227rose64 жыл бұрын
Yeah, this practice needs to be stopped. I can understand ur frustrations as well as ur sil's too. This practice does not benefit anyone, unless both parties agree to it. Otherwise, this practice sucks.