盧學叡《我是誰 Who Am I》增增刺刺主演Official Music Video 獻給每個勇敢的你 (Subtitles of Major Languages Available)

Subtitles:
English/Japanese/Korean/Thai/Vietnamese/Indonesian
French/Spanish/Portuguese/Greek/Italian
媲美彩虹的跨世代創作
盧學叡全新單曲《我是誰》
增增刺刺主演MV 獻給每個勇敢的你
「我是誰」完整MV連結 /
Music Video Link： • 盧學叡《我是誰 Who Am I》增增刺刺主...
「我是誰」數位收聽連結 /
Song Link：rock-mobile.ln...
作者版稅將全數捐贈給同志相關公益團體，希望能與喜歡這首歌的聽眾們，一起為同志平權盡一份心力。
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Singer: #afalean
Actors: #roger8charlie
#junhaohu
Special thanks for people who help translate the subtitles into various languages:
English / Who Am I｜Charles/Kennth/Beth/Ben/Eric
Japanese / 僕は何者 ｜Shintaro
Korean / 제가 어떤 사람인지 ｜Issac
Thai / ผมเป็นใคร｜Ong
Vietnamese / Tôi là ai｜Andy
Indonesian / Siapakah aku｜Budi
French / Qui suis-je｜XuéXué Zhan
Spanish / Quién soy yo｜Jack
Portuguese / Quen sou eu｜Gabriel
Greek / Ποιος είμαι｜Starvos
Italian / Chi sono｜Evan
「我是誰」歌詞
我是誰 你看不見 當你像從前搭我的肩
攜手走過童年 一起煩惱少年 好奇問那幸運的她是誰
我是誰 你聽不見 當你問候我好久不見
怕我們的世界 是非太難理解 不願意讓你為難妥協
每次難得聚會 莫名的膽怯 舊日的歡笑已遙遠
每次聊到深夜 想說已告別 跨不過這條線又回到原點
我是誰 你看不見 當你溫柔地哄我入睡
看我長大成年 盼我成家立業 有個她在身邊和我相陪
我是誰 你聽不見 當你電話那頭道再見
怕我的小圈圈 打破想像完美 不忍心讓你期待幻滅
每次牽掛想念 可近鄉情怯 不知不覺已離你好遠
每次話到嘴邊 開口卻無言 才發現你鬢髮白雪已蔓延
這一次我誠實以對 別了善意謊言 帶你往回遺落的那些年
這一次我勇敢無畏 就一秒鐘時間 想和你一起分享難過喜悅
Who am I I am who I am 其實你比誰都還了解
你說一切沒變 愛是答案一切 我還是我 管他是誰
你說愛沒差別 愛是答案一切 我還是我 管他是誰
「我是誰」歌曲介紹：
「我是誰?」這個世界最簡單也最困難的習題，讓我們用愛來解答。
「我是誰？」是每個人在人生中的某個階段可能會遇到的自我認同問題。在社會標準的框架之下，每個人多少都有與眾不同的獨特之處，而這些與社會期待下的差異，常常就變成了心中不能說的秘密。這些差異往往並沒有是非對錯，愛你的人，在乎你的人，終究會接受全然的你。但在這之前，你必須先勇敢地面對自己、認同自己。
「我是誰」這首歌是詞曲作者凱文在勇敢地與家人出櫃之後，用自己成長過程的故事創作而成，歌曲描寫同志朋友在受到傳統家庭價值觀的種種壓力之下，在人生的道路上不斷掙扎於自我認同與各種人際關係之間的挑戰，最後找回自己的故事。
希望透過「我是誰」這首歌的故事能引發一些共鳴，讓更多人能因為勇敢地與在乎的人分享「我是誰」，而與家人朋友的關係變得更緊密，也因為自我認同而變得更自在快樂、進而實現存在於這個世界上的自我價值。而當更多人了解同志就是自己的家人與好友，也才有可能改變社會上對同志仍存在的誤解，了解同志的愛與一般人並沒有差別，達到真正的同志平權。
歌曲第一段描寫的是兄弟姊妹以及人生各個階段相識相知的同學、朋友等，因為自己深藏在心裡說不出口的祕密，而讓彼此原本深厚的情誼漸行漸遠。
歌曲第二段描寫的是父母、長輩的關心，因為自己與眾不同的秘密，反而變成對子女、晚輩的無形壓力，導致與家人的關係也隔著一道距離。
同志朋友在自我認同的過程當中，常常會因為擔憂出櫃是否會影響到人際關係，而選擇了隱藏自己，但在看似保護自己也保護自己在乎的人的決定之下，也在心中埋下了許多遺憾的種子，而間接影響了自己的人生而不自覺。
歌曲第三段描述的是，其實只要想清楚 「Who am I? I am who I am」 (我是誰？我就是我)，鼓起勇氣只需要一個轉念，而在乎你的人終究會因為愛你，而接受真實的你。
出品人｜凱文
發行人｜凱文
詞曲｜凱文
演唱｜盧學叡
音樂製作人｜陳忠義
編曲｜小冷
吉他｜郭偉聰
小提琴、中提琴｜楊欣瑜
大提琴｜羅淑儀
錄音師/錄音室｜陳忠義@白金錄音室
混音師/錄音室｜小冷@爵享音樂
母帶後期處理/錄音室｜小冷@爵享音樂
音樂製作助理｜楊皮
專輯封面&視覺設計｜Kenzen Tung
專輯數位發行｜滾石移動股份有限公司 Rock Mobile Corporation
演員｜林宜增（增增） · 胡峻豪（刺刺）
製作公司｜純 Purist
導演｜唐健哲
腳本｜唐健哲
製片｜趙宏宸
攝影師｜邱晧 Alive
攝影大助｜上遠野舞 Mai Kadono
燈光｜彭嘉慶
燈光助理｜張寧恩
執行美術｜鄭文良
妝髮｜張芝維
造型｜張芝維
造型助理｜林柏村
剪接｜唐健哲
調光｜唐健哲
字幕｜Kenzen Tung
劇照｜Kenzen Tung
側拍｜何孟學

[@Laggie74]

I'm 46, been with my partner for 23 years. We are both from traditional Asian families. For those of you who are going through tough times, hang in there. I know, I've been there. Let your love guide you in times of darkness. Stay true to who you are and happiness will find you.

[@putuayudamayanti7383]

It must have been hard for you and your partner at that time/era when asian still very harsh on same sex relationship. Very proud to both of you🙏

[@AdrianWidjy]

Awww such a sweet comment, me and my partner has been together for over 13yrs we are in our early - mid 30s now we hope to be where u r when we r in our 40s too! Both of us are of asian families too 🙏🙏🙏

[@ミュート-k5e]

💙

[@diozhics26]

Awesome. My partner and I (Filipino) have been 16years and we're both at 36. Love comes with the most unexpected person and time.

[@KingOfThePirates101]

But what if darkness is my only friend? The only one that's ever truly been with me in times of despair and loneliness.

[@PeamKB]

Imagine the world where your happiness doesn't depend on other people's opinions.

[@yvan1133]

It's just that we humans are so dependent on rules !!!

[@baldodadzkie5375]

True.. We can be happy in our own ways and no one would care coz all of us are equal and we are all accepted already. How I wish..

[@zanthus7]

Eventually you have to make that decision for yourself in spite of other's opinions. You are the only one responsible for your happiness which means you can't live your life to please others. In some situations, living your truth will cost you a lot. You may loose some family members and some people who you thought were your friends but you have to decide if that is worth your happiness or should you continue to live a lie and be unhappy for everyone else.

[@Gfriend_Buddy99]

Sadly, that world doesn't seem going to happen any time soon...

[@daerontargaryen9499]

it's impossible we are depended on others

[@JayTee2985]

This music video needs to be turned into a movie or BL series. It’s beautiful. You can never hide your secrets from mother. She knows everything.

[@riordantran2319]

yeah she literally searched thru my phone for it

[@sanjayaartdrawing2964]

yahh thats true, i never say a word about my orientation, but i just feel my mom know everything through my eyes.

[@miniogra68]

@@sanjayaartdrawing2964 I´m sure she daoes... They always do...

[@阿修羅-x5y]

我想，應該是不可能的事！！！

[@brendabayao8936]

Yeah, they are beautiful couple to be paired in BL

[@joofyo_ph6571]

It took me 25 yrs to came out to my mom, unknowingly she knew who I really am since I was 12 😭. Whoever is reading this and going through the same situation just like in this music video, please know that your mom will always be your best friend no matter what ❤️

[@p.v.priyanka5640]

Hi . Congratulations 👍🎊 and all the best for future 👍 . You're so handsome ❤️. That's one lucky guy who gets u. 😁.

[@Azusinho]

Please don’t give up,never , you will meet that person for sure ,be strong and God bless you!!!!!!

[@minsunggrr]

I have an arab mom so that would never happen 👎🏼

[@singularityvk222]

Not my mom she abandoned us Now we have a stepmom the 3rd one So obviously it's hard for me to come out My

[@habibbchour1162]

​@@minsunggrr❤

[@savemeplease7955]

I'm a simple person I see two shirtless guys, I click

[@andies8360]

Me too

[@arnelsoriano451]

me too

[@ertsstre7303]

me too

[@anubhavsharma8121]

but i loved the song and the boys too

[@itallainaristudy9666]

SAME

[@linya3444]

看到媽媽字條給兒子：留一些給你室友吃，媽媽❤️你。 那裡真的哭死我了，好希望我在一起8年的室友，有一天能夠坦蕩蕩的跟我的父母說，他不是我室友是我這輩子最愛的人😭

[@蔡Tony-x2b]

我也承有一個9年的室友，但在今年5月分開了 加油

[@bn-jf9lt]

加油

[@sakeant]

加油

[@a0953952096]

我室友6年了...

[@linuszoo640]

為何是他跟你的父母說，而不是你跟你的父母說？

[@chicagoboyrn71]

This needs to be in a BL series. I love their chemistry. The idea is here, just needs to be extended to fit a BL series. Will definitely watch this. Thank you.

[@HungPhuocNguyen-k2r]

and they both r handsome :)

[@leafaldehyde6251]

Seriously, this should be a movie

[@taekookstand2300]

Agree

[@sailormar]

Yes it should I most watch 5 time

[@TakoyakiAdventures]

Omg I would pay to watch that for sure!!!

[@muhammadprastyo3403]

@@sailormar what the title of these movie?

[@milou66]

Wong Kar-wai's "Happy Together", but with a happy ending.

[@Lissi2233]

To be honest, I really wish the world could change and people could understand that Love is so easy and simple, it doesn't depend on a gender. Love happens and if someone have the luck to fall in love and find himself beloved, it's nothing to discriminate or something who we have to fight against. Love don't know a gender, Love know humans...

[@markmh835]

Beautifully said.

[@gladiesmontajes5128]

me I know the title pls Ang where I can watch this? thankyou

[@aldorichard9062]

Say it louder!!

[@brendabayao8936]

Well said

[@vibewithsha5459]

when the parents accepted them...my HEART...i can't possibly imagine how hard it is for people to come out to their parents. everyone deserves love mannn

[@АлександарЦветановић]

It is hard. Being rejected by your family is the worst feeling ever. The only thing worse than that, though, is living a double life - one for your family, the other for everyone else. I wish no one would experience that. It really eats you alive. Comments like your do help a lot. It's nice knowing someone cares, even without personal interest. Thank you.

[@yosepvlog5730]

我是印尼人，也是同志🏳️‍🌈，從小我覺得跟別人不一樣，大部分男人喜歡踢足球，我不喜歡。大部分男人已經跟女人談戀愛了，我沒有。我有時候覺得害怕，害怕社會恨我。其實如果我可以選擇，我要異性戀，但我不會😭。同志們加油！希望有一天全世界可以接受我們。愛不分性別，宗教，年齡，種族等等

[@koecingumuz]

semangat bang, abang ga sendiri kokkk 🥺👌

[@bluetrain499]

Tetap semangat.Tuhan memberkatimu.

[@ambernishat2406]

I can understand you. You don't need to be straight in fact it's not if you are straight or not you have all the rights to be yourself and love whomever you want. If you care for someone, if you trust and respect that person's opinion and if you want to live your life with that person it's love. Love is love, no one can change it. Also if you think that you are not like other boys it's ok it's you just like what me is me we don't need to change or follow footsteps of other people. Be happy and love yourself ☺️❤️😇

[@NanikSatu]

Semangat Mas

[@as2s3hf7gff]

加油。。我們值得 ..

[@daker27]

Umm, this vídeo makes me feel sad, because I'm 39 years old and still didn't have the courage to coming out to my parents, and I"m still looking for and awaiting to find my true love. Sometimes I feel alone and this type of vidéos give me hope. Thank you.

[@cherstermars1712]

You know you can talk to me if u want

[@potatocouch6645]

meee too

[@kameimercy3589]

You are blessed and precious.....♥️♥️💚💚 Don't ever forget it..... Life is short don't think too much about not having think more of what you have now and enjoy life. The ONE will come to you.....💚💚♥️♥️🙏🙏 God bless you 😇🙏 ♥️

[@灵魂孤独的]

Believe in love, don't give up, for sure you will get someone you love🥰

[@jlombos]

I think there will be no better time to open up to your parents. This is the best time to tell your parents who you really are and you could be in a better place if you do have to introduce your true love. Society has been harsh but times has changed. Be true to yourself and the rest of the people around you will just have to do their best to adjust. I wish you the best.

[@tycute21]

I’m 50 married to my partner he is 21 year old, I don’t tell anyone in my family member’s or hides from them. I just live and love for my life, I don’t care what they say or think, life is too short and be happy.

[@miriand2362]

I don’t know why KZbin recommended me this but I’m grateful, even tho I’m crying rn.

[@Harthyung]

Most parents actually know about our orientation. Most of the time, they just dont want to open up a conversation about it since they still need time to understand the whole situation. The hardest part is when you’re the oldest child or the only child especially your family is quite wealthy or well known

[@qwerty-vp1sb]

Its hardest if theyre religious

[@stankssmile5865]

Exactly, parents know their child it’s just not possible that they can’t see.

[@juniorabad8133]

I feel u..

[@taragurung933]

It can be worst when parents r not educated or aware about the different orientation a human can have, they will think it is a mental illness. N definitely take u to the hospital. That's how it's most likely to happen in my country .

[@arvillem203]

Hi

[@danhuang7147]

家人的支持對每一個同志來說是最棒的。

[@bastiancarvallo4212]

where they are? China, Hong Kong, Taiwan?

[@咪咪貓貓-k8i]

@@bastiancarvallo4212 Taiwan

[@verogomez9672]

Como se llama la serie por favor 🙏

[@陳冠中-p8q]

看到後面劇情尤其是馬路牽手那段很揪心，最後被祝福的兩人終於能大方地牽著彼此的手在一起覺得超感動的。 不一樣都一樣，我們不期望被認可，只希望能被祝福，同志們在自我性別認同的過程其實非常痛苦，多數人都是自己一個人走過，也有些人走不過，期望如果發現身邊有同志朋友給他們多點鼓勵吧，我們沒有不一樣，我們其實都一樣。 1026台北遊行無論性向歡迎共襄盛舉♥️

[@hcz321]

陳冠中 加油💪

[@loyo1782]

Give me your facebook ' please ' thanks ..^_^.. you're handsome !

[@羽早川]

想把那个拍照的人打死哈哈

[@darianprotho6622]

@@羽早川 确实很可恶。人家牵手关他屁事，还外加鄙视的眼神😒😒😒

[@羽早川]

Darian Protho 关键是，一般有空在这下面评论的，都是像我一样的单身狗

[@冬冬-r2g]

只要有愛不管對方是男是女就都是愛！ 愛沒有絕對、相對。 願世上的人都能幸福，且能大方分享幸福🌈

[@ЕкатеринаМиронова-б6я]

🇷🇺🇷🇺🙏

[@Haggiedc2]

so one year later... I watched this and started crying and realizing I have seen this before...this should be turned into a BL movie... simply beautiful

[@ひろ子-c7e]

日本人のコメントが全然なくて寂しいですが、このお二人の写真集を買いました‼️そこからこちらに来ました。動いている姿が観られて幸せ💕 日本人のモデルさんは細身でどんどん中性的になってきていますが、 このモデルさん達（台湾の）は素朴で隣のお兄ちゃんみたいなのですが、健康的でしなやかでとてもセクシーでした‼️😳曲は、中国語ってこうやって改めて聴くとすごく綺麗ですよね。昔、レスリー・チャンとかフェイ・ウォンの曲を聴いていた時があって、言葉はわからないけれど上手さと美しさは何だかわかる気がして、とても好きでした。 台湾ではこういうMV普通にあるんですね。日本はやっと、おっさんずラブくらいから普通にドラマとかでやるようになってきて、まだまだかなという感じですね。 美しくて清い感じのこの二人の映像はホントに癒されます～🤗 台湾、大好きです。いつか行ってみたいなぁ。

[@akira1tube]

私もこの動画が大好きで、関連に表示されるたびに見ています。 曲も素敵。 日本でも堂々と手を繋いで歩けるようになったら良いなと思いながら。

[@sky880319]

It's moving me when his parents was support their marriage. Actually, I'm not identity that the LGBT, but this song bring me a revelation that love is love, my love is same as each love.

[@philiptionko8940]

do you have a link pls

[@dundeejan2363]

is this a drama or song only?

[@nanami_miamor]

@@dundeejan2363 only song

[@johnpaulvillarin7905]

No one needs to be part of LGBTQIA+ to know what love is.

[@venusbby]

"Am still the one it doesn't matter who my other one is" I felt that

[@bulkboys5122]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/raXFlJSNo96VsNU

[@Lucky8Calvin]

看著看著……到了馬路上牽手，為了面子，怕一些眼光。直接崩潰到不行。😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭開心最後可以完美的一起。

[@AlonsoLioneth]

In case you heard my Latino arse sobbing in three different languages, don't worry, I'll be fine! #Heartwarming

[@恬淡的微小幸福]

歌聲動人，感情真摯，演員詮釋自然生動，看著聽著心都暖了，眼眶都快紅了...

[@macki5655]

Kevin is a profound story telling.

[@AbdulRehman-js5xp]

this made me cry. I know I am not the only one suffering from the stigma of homosexuality

[@amminddnakeem8294]

i feel the same way too.

[@Pocahontas-jh1cq]

I love you Abdul!

[@lyndasnart7823]

I am an old grandmother and I will stand up on the highest mountain and yell love is love it should not be defined by male female it should be difined as LOVE …regardless of gender

[@雪斗-x4h]

MV很現實也很感人, 很多同志都希望結局像結尾一樣, 可惜往往父母都是往最壞一面, 不是鬧自殺要不斷絕往來, 希望這個MV的父母能夠多一些😭

[@foxrunmall]

可是換一個角度想，父母也很不容易。你可能覺得他們的支持只是一個念頭一句話，可事實是他們支持了你，卻也要一輩子忍受他們周圍人的指指點點。所以能有開明的父母請務必珍惜，而不支持的父母請也不要怨恨！畢竟這對誰來說都不是一件易事！

[@RaymondTywaif]

*For English-speaking viewers who would like to understand more about this video:* *Disclaimer and some personal message first:* - English is not my first language, there may be some unintentional grammatical errors etc, please ignore them if they are sufficiently comprehensible and if it's not necessary to be corrected. - This comment is not official, I do not represent any team related to the production of this video. - At first, I wasn't sure if this comment was even necessary but then I thought it could be more encouraging/inspiring/relatable/heartfelt/meaningful/impactful for the viewers who can't understand Mandarin by understanding the context provided in the video description more, especially since I personally relate to it very much and wish more people could relate to it too on a deeper level, so maybe it's a pointless and insignificant act for some people but at least it's somehow meaningful for me. - This video is a Music Video, it is not a clip or song of a movie or series. *「Who Am I?」Song's Introduction:* Let's use Love to explain the easiest but also the most difficult question -「Who Am I?」. 「Who Am I?」is a self-acceptance question anyone could come across at any point of their life. Everyone, to varying degrees, has their own uniqueness and idiosyncrasies that more often than not have become an untold secret kept in their hearts due to them being different from the sociocultural norms and expectations. There is no right or wrong about these differences, and so the people who love you, and the people who care about you, would eventually come to accept of you completely. Before that, however, you must first courageously face yourself, and accept yourself. 「Who Am I?」is a song created by the songwriter 凱文 after he came out to his family courageously, based on his personal life story growing up. The song describes the story of many LGBTQ+ people who have been constantly struggling with the challenges of being caught between their own self-identification/self-acceptance and risking to lose all different kinds of interpersonal relationships they have, under the pressures stemmed from the traditional family values during their life journeys, but eventually found themselves. Hopefully, viewers can relate to and resonate with the story of this song, and that the story could inspire more people to gather the courage to share「Who Am I?」with the people they care and the people who care about them, so that they could build closer and tighter relationships with their families and friends, in addition to them becoming happier and free with self-acceptance and then realize their self-worth in this world. With that said, the more people understand that many LGBTQ+ are also families and friends in our lives, the more likely it is to resolve the existing misconceptions and discriminations against LGBTQ+ people in the society, and thus more people would come to realization that LGBTQ+ people's love is the same as the average people's, so that true LGBTQ+ equality can be achieved. The first part of the song _(note: should be __1:30__ - __3:00__, if I'm not mistaken)_ is for our siblings and the people who we get to know at different points in our lives like classmates and friends. It's about how we slowly become distant with them, even though we used to have a strong bond, all because of that deeply hidden secret in our hearts that we can't bring ourselves to tell. The second part of the song _(note: should be __3:15__ - __4:41__, if I'm not mistaken)_ is for our parents and elder family members/relatives. It describes how because of that special secret we have, their concerns and caring in many ways have unknowingly become unspoken expectations and pressures for us as children and younger family members/relatives, causing the relationships with our family to be separated by a gap. Many LGBTQ+ people, during the process of self-acceptance, are often anxious about if coming out would affect and risk losing their interpersonal relationships, and so they choose to hide themselves. However, what appears to be a decision made out of intentions to protect oneself and the people they care, has also planted many seeds of regret in their heart and indirectly affected their life without them aware of it. The third part of the song is for yourself _(note: should be __4:43__ - __6:02__, if I'm not mistaken)_ . As long as we figure out「Who am I? I am who I am」clearly with our own answer, gaining courage would actually only require a change of perspective, and the people who really care about you would eventually accept the real you because they love you.

[@btnh92]

Thank you. I don't really get Why they were together in the beginning, got seperated in the middle and then got together again in the end. What's inside the wedding invitation? Is that their names, and the tall one afraid to give it to his parents.

[@驕傲我是誰]

Thank you so much, Raymond!

[@RaymondTywaif]

@@驕傲我是誰 Oh my, you're most welcome! Thanks for your inspirational works and efforts! :D

[@denniscnaz2844]

Thank you, Raymond, for the explanation. It really helps put things in perspective.

[@dundeejan2363]

Thank you.. what a beautiful and inspiring clip.

[@teenagefirework1]

I’m genuinely crying tears right now. The guy I’m seeing just told me he wasn’t sure of his feelings anymore for me and that one day he’d might have to marry a woman to appease his mother and leave. I’ve never felt so temporary in my life. I wish I knew this before I caught feelings for him. I don’t know what to do.

[@nicolesimpson7888]

You deserve someone that will give you their heart and love 100%

[@teenagefirework1]

Nicole Simpson thank you ❤️

[@teenagefirework1]

Nicole Simpson It ended unfortunately but thank you for the kind words

[@nicolesimpson7888]

I'm so sorry. I'm sure you cared about him. Someone will come that will love you the way you love them and you will be so happy. We all deserve that. ♥

[@iaia874]

@@teenagefirework1 thats fine, people come and leave but memories still right. At least make each days count

[@-...................-]

imagine a world where we can love any person no matter the gender... im still single af

[@kadacasang5700]

我身邊也很多同志朋友，看著他們害怕恐懼別人的異樣眼光，我真的很心疼。 其實家人父母都知道只是沒有人願意坦白，我們都在等你介紹你的愛人，都期待著給你祝福！不管你是誰，我愛你❤️

[@mulee1011]

在烏幹達 同性戀是死刑啊 在大陸 基督徒也會被消滅

[@choochootrain9432]

Kadac Asang 很害怕家人拋棄我們

[@mulee1011]

@@choochootrain9432 會拋棄自己的孩子的家人 不要也罷

[@choochootrain9432]

可是就很想要家人的祝福

[@kadacasang5700]

Choochootrain94 我朋友當初也很擔心家人不同意，然後就把女朋友帶回家一開始都說是朋友，可是久了之後女朋友也像家人一樣會互相幫忙，而不是就像作客一樣。其實不說開家人都知道，我記得她媽媽現在還會跟其他同性戀的父母說：看到她們相處得很好，孩子幸福比較重要。 還稱讚她女朋友像稱讚媳婦一樣❤️

[@billccps]

看哭了😭😭 這真的要有很多的勇氣 媽媽其實也看破不說破 紙條真的很洋蔥 最後向親朋好友遞上喜帖坦承 真的超感人的啦QAQ

[@GetZ88]

大家的留言都在說故事那我就說說盧學叡吧！ 謝謝你還在繼續唱歌，謝謝你讓我們聽到一首好歌，很喜歡這個MV，唱得很好。祝你幸福哦！

[@ThuBui-hs4ys]

爱就是爱、希望每个人都会幸福

[@niwasazuke]

as a lesbian and a country and a society that judge you its a privilege to be with with someone and get married without any restriction.

[@pronews.tw2]

看似千篇一律的劇情 但就只是這樣簡單的訴求 卻是那麼難能可貴 喜歡盧學叡的聲音 還有詞曲的意境 當最親愛的家人都不願接受最真實的你 說真的 I am who I am 肯定是每個人心中最常問自己的一句話 “獻給每個勇敢的你”

[@mulee1011]

不煎蛋 在烏幹達 同性戀是死刑

[@gorgorzyao5137]

@@mulee1011 管他们什么事

[@mulee1011]

@@gorgorzyao5137 基督徒本來就想以聖經治國

[@gorgorzyao5137]

@@mulee1011 這邊是同志和平相處的地方 到這個地方講這些話是要幹嘛

[@MichaelChen1022]

我認識你耶~維維

[@wudavy7207]

導演拍很細膩，表達出同志愛的最高境界，演員也很棒，這才是真愛，這樣的同志愛，我認同，不是玩玩的不管男女都是真愛

[@ag10_25]

有催淚到我😢😥😢😥 一度以為要分手了 還好要結婚了😂😂 是嗎

[@davidsveneddy8400]

Absolutely beautiful. Every man who is hiding from his family should see this. My dear mom said she already knew and it didn’t matter. And it didn’t, in fact without the fear I felt for so long we became so much more open. Fear is a horrible force, but freedom is strong and wonderful!❤️

[@courageousteen1734]

Me growing up as asian I always confusing my self for who really Am I. When I was 20 I Remember the day when my Mom along with Dad want to watch a netflix movie and she choose “Call me By your Name” and it makes me awkward. In the middle of the Movie Mom asked dad id he was okay for having a Gay Son and he said “Straight or not ,i will be a dad who will accept my son not just because of his sexual oriention or gender identity but beacuse he was my son.” And guess what ,dad and my eyes meet and he said as follow up “We knew since you’re a kid, and its okay”and I was like cry like a baby non-stop lol.. My Mom and Dad hugs me. Btw my mom has a diary since I was a kids. And there’s a part of her Diary where she wrote that she was scared that her son might be gay and I was 9years old that time. Since then dad and mom talks about me and they always sensitive to asked me something like “do u have a gf” or “when u gonna have a gf” stuff like that. And they planned to watch a movie just to say to me that its okay for them that I’m Gay . Lol : i think most or all parents knew every aspect of thier child life, they just become denial and unacceptable in some other thing that they believed not a norm. Not because they are homophobic or something but because they scared for our safety , scared that the society will judge thier kids, scared that people might not accept just because they are true to themselves. I was glad that my Mom and Dad prepared themselves to something new for them. for understanding without confronting me, and for accepting me beyond my gender identity.

[@datle2863]

Damn someone is cutting onion *cry*

[@ocrodger]

WOW....that was beautiful and I don't read or understand Chinese. To bad we still think we must hide our love from others.........Love is Louder. I have been married to my Chinese husband for 17 years and he is still afraid of what others will say if we hold hands in public. I love him so much.

[@kwc19740718]

Rodger Peden there is English subtitle now

[@ocrodger]

@@kwc19740718 ...i watched...........still beautiful with English subtitles.....I am who I am...it does not matter who my other is......love is love. thank you.

[@Krob039]

Rodger Peden I think you should love whom you want despite gender! Love is love. I’m sorry your husband should even feel this way.❤️

[@stephaniefrancois5182]

Name ?

[@phatnguyen5641]

I'm trying to tell the truth to my parents. But it's too hard :(

[@驕傲我是誰]

You will be brave someday, as long as you believe in love.

[@JayTee2985]

Don’t rush. Take your time. Come out when you are ready. I haven’t yet either. Living in a Vietnamese family makes it quite difficult as well.

[@phatnguyen5641]

@@JayTee2985 We have a hard road and we have to go through. Thank you to made me know I'm not alone. I hope one day you will tell me about your bravery. Remember it 🤝

[@cedricdeconcordia7862]

I believe we are ultimately responsible for our own happiness, whether or not our parents accept and embrace who we are. They give birth to us. They choose whom to love and marry. so can we! Dare to love! Dare to be simply happy!

[@veerx5240]

Stay strong buddy! Breathe first. Do it when you feel it’s the right time, don’t rush it 🌸 May you forever be happy ✨

[@miguelamaya6246]

Some people take a long time to open their heart to a loved one... it's hard to tell your parents, your different from everyone... sometimes parents accept it, others are disowned and ran off... it's hard being alone and afraid, if you know anyone like that please help them... thank you... PRINCE MICHAEL GIOVANNI...

[@JustinAEgan]

Don't be afraid, you may be surprised - you parents may already know. They will keep your secret, as long as you are not sure of your true feelings. Your parents have known who you are - long before you started hiding. They keep quiet, because they are waiting for you to decide which road you are willing to walk.

[@ungax4591]

@@JustinAEgan well said

[@muctaisa]

This is so beautiful, I'm sobbing. It breaks my heart that so many people out there still hurt because of societal pressures and traditions they're afraid to break. It's not easy being brave, but life it short not to be yourself. Everyone deserves to be happy and loved. Love is love

[@子謙-g9y]

好感動..😭 如果能夠重來 我願意陪你走完下半輩子☹️

[@hairwind9339]

看到哪紙條，我真的感動了..我也很想告訴媽，其實那不是我的室友，是我這輩子想守護的密友..😊😊

[@keesmuch]

This could be a full length movie, great music, great actors.

[@Brycejoystick]

我们自己常常很在意他人的眼光，其实我们在别人眼中并没有我们想像的那么重要，因为每个人都有自己的问题来应接不暇。所以最大的障碍是自己而已。

[@darianprotho6622]

说得没错但是总有一些活得不开心的人也想让别人跟他们一起受罪，歧视别人，指指点点，散播谣言。但真的如果有勇气走出来才会有机会找到属于自己的幸福。

[@y.x.y2872]

可是家人就不一样了

[@swimspring6271]

我的眼淚還是止不住落下了 這首歌一直讓我想到我們的好 只剩下哭聲陪伴著 儘管我們沒有MV結局的好 至少我們曾經是室友 承諾要在一起一輩子 我最愛的人 分開以後，希望你能幸福

[@shyphirenflowerchild4631]

I love when KZbin finally suggests stunningly beautiful gems like this song and its message. Kudos to the creator/singer/songwriter and the producers of the video. As a 62 year old Bisexual Canadian woman I some times take for granted the freedom I have in the country I live in. I need reminders to not take this for granted, to love and protect others sexuality and their choices in their partners. Be it a heterosexual relationship, a polyamorous relationship, a gay couple, a lesbian couple, any combination of a thruple relationship (be it three of the same gender, two men and a woman or two woman and a man) or any other loving, intimate relationship.

[@小跟班-g5u]

沒想到是好的結局⋯⋯🥺 遇到彼此相愛又能在一起，家人也支持，這種機率很難～ 我永遠祝福同志有情人終成眷屬～🥺

[@JidtapadTK]

I’m crying watching this 😭 because I experience the same difficulties toward my mom. ❤️

[@nangle858]

Me too . Difficult with me. Im scare

[@mihaelastan]

I am a straight woman who is in love with love so this really brought tears to my eyes. Being straight does not guarantee happiness, not in the least!

[@yulicat_67]

Agreed!

[@arzooumeed166]

✅

[@MrRikkyo]

我的妈呀，。，，，，，看了这么多年，还是爱看，，，，，，，，，

[@RKBRIO]

It isn't a movie or a drama, it's just a kind of a short film, fully covered with a beautiful song named "WHO AM I?"

[@西恩-s5c]

最幸福的事 不過是起床時看著陽光灑在你慵懶的嘴角

[@archiewhood]

西恩 我看成 陽光灑在你懶覺⋯

[@oyr1900]

唐阿奇 archiewhood 😂污欸

[@waylonralphd.aclibon9826]

Cheers to All of us: "THE BRAVE ONES"

[@willwii3230]

記得在當年自己確認性向時 在那個年代 好像就註定 要跟家人開始保持距離 開始善意的謊言 或是把他說成她 而這一切 只是為了不傷害彼此 當年紀大了過了被逼婚年紀 當幾次的人生低潮歲月 當準備放棄自己生命的時候 老媽 總是說 回來吧 回家吧 在怎麼樣 都是自己的孩子 有時候 總覺得老媽 或許應該知道我的性向 只是彼此不去說破 繼續保護著關係 然而這些年 對我而言 出櫃不出櫃已不是重點 重要的是 我越來越相信 愛， 會幫我們把 這些年的距離再拉近.....

[@liew1097]

彼此相爱胜过一切，没人能阻止走向幸福的彩虹之路。

[@wei4408]

Will Wii 你好棒👍加油💪

[@kanintrakeoklieng5171]

เป็นคู่ที่ดูดีและลงตัว 🤟

[@pathenry243]

This is just brilliant,and happy ending needs to be a film

[@128latte]

一樣的被套 一樣的場景 一樣的性別 一樣的感覺 這是我的感受，你呢？

[@jeromelj1010]

Self acceptance is a revolutionary act

[@NguyenAnMy]

Không biết có ai là người Việt Nam xem được MV này không nhỉ? Thật sự xem xong mình đã khóc rất nhiều. Mình cũng chẳng hiểu vì sao lại có thể thấu được 1 phần nào đó nỗi đau của nhân vật nữa. Huầy, may thay đến cuối cùng họ ít nhất đã dũng cảm, dám đấu tranh với tình cảm của mình và có được thứ họ cần, cũng như được những người thân yêu ủng hộ. Hy vọng tất cả các bạn cũng vậy, dù là ai, có cuộc sống thế nào, rồi sẽ tìm được hạnh phúc của mình nhé!! ~

[@驕傲我是誰]

Cảm ơn bạn! Vâng, chúng tôi hy vọng nhiều người Việt Nam sẽ có thể xem video này. Hãy chia sẻ video này với bạn bè của bạn tại Việt Nam!

[@TiJerry1995]

And at last, we still got apart. Anyway, if you coincidentally see this, I wish you a very happy life wherever you are or whoever you will be with... :)

[@BiaPong_]

this is really2 happened to me. we love each other even he said he loves me. at the end, he just leaves me like that. cause he want to be straight and get married with a woman. and i just crying every single time when i’m alone, and back to smile when i have to. thanks for the best memories i ever had. kre. 😌

[@rajeshbiswas7817]

😟😟😢

[@guccimanx7214]

Sexuality cannot be change,he still gay,it just we live we in a judgemental society where being gay is a sin,I feel bad for him.bless your ex,maybe he just wanted family like other but at the same,the insecurity still remained in him,hope he doing good and so are you,hope you find a right person that can make you happy❤😁

[@nuwandelacruz9630]

Keep smiling

[@amforgiven]

Oowww dear I believe you'll get the best 😍😍😘😘

[@JoseRodriguez-ut4nn]

It doesn't matter if he dates a woman or man love is love and people cannot change their sexuality because it's in their souls and souls live forever until the end of times. What he did what's a big mistake, but if he really loved the woman then go on, but if he just didn't love the woman and just you then he's gonna have to deal with that until he accepts himself. Period. 🙏

[@Lagisaw]

無論怎麼武裝與堅強，見到媽媽的那張紙條，瞬間卸下。

[@simbatseng]

媽媽的字條真的是太催淚😭 願 每一個勇敢的我們 都能夠真正找回自己也真正知道自己是誰💪🏾🌈💖

[@terryl.6216]

謝謝台灣進步，謝謝台灣給的民主自由 謝謝台灣落實性別平等與婚姻平權

[@黄老五-w6f]

问下 现在台湾从小教育,同性恋? 看新闻上说的

[@terryl.6216]

黄老五 妳好，是教育小朋友世界上有各種人，我們要因此互相尊重，僅此而已唷！

[@renolei8173]

黄老五 据科学研究同性恋是先天的基因决定的，所以并不会因为你从小看教材就能变成同性恋的，反过来也一样，同性恋就算接受了异性的教材，也不会变成异性恋。

[@wei4408]

黄老五 如果人家教你智障的意思 你就會變智障嗎

[@martinjones1818]

我觉得你这个回复太棒了哈哈

[@peterfay5183]

I think the greatest comfort and appreciation is the acceptance of your parents! Specially your mother!

[@kwangsoo8570]

Came here because of shorts. And I'm very happy 😍

[@vinhtruong8230]

I'm really happy that my parents know and accept my real Gender and hope one day I will my true love

[@zipporahnyakio5360]

wow congratulations. wish you happiness.

[@vinhtruong8230]

@@zipporahnyakio5360 Thank you :) Wish you too

[@erginaputri5172]

Wish u all the best...👍👌

[@liew1097]

同志恋这条路徃往是崎岖不平，遇到对的人就要更珍惜，更❤爱彼此。加油喔!

[@regan0322]

現實中又有多少人可以這麼幸運呢 還有幸福了然後呢？

[@mariaauxiliadoramendes2543]

Só 7 minutos mas linda a história 👏👏😍💪🙏🌈🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷

[@leticiafuentes5284]

Así debería de ser, preferir el amor antes que los prejuicios... que hermoso me sacó una lágrima

[@ioattytheeraphat4303]

This song is so beautiful, it can represent LGBTQ+ feeling to their parents clearly. “I am who I am”❤️

[@林柏謙-y6y]

盧學叡的歌聲為這個ＭＶ增添了不少的情感，唱出了同志心中的那份不可言喻的情感，整部ＭＶ暖暖的，幽幽的，很舒服，也有很多的感嘅。

[@skatrboi808]

This is a good MV. You don't have to understand the words but can see the emotions the MV is conveying. I'm happy it has a happy ending.

[@kurmabalifit2714]

Is that a Movie..? If a Movie What is The Title

[@milankazibantawa7642]

Lu Ho u read my mind. This is beautiful

[@karandora]

It's not a movie. The musician wrote the song about coming out and created this music video.

[@markmh835]

@@karandora -- By any chance is this based on a true story? Of the composer's own life?

[@venusbby]

Lu Ho there's subs boo, incase you didn't notice

[@warrenabeshouse1230]

There are so many levels to this music video. It's about two healthy, fit, attractive young guys who are together in a relationship but feel the need to keep it mostly to themselves, yet the mother of one of them discerns its real nature and suddenly in an explosion of relief and happiness, they are accepted and embraced for who they are. Musically, it is in the tradition of modern Chinese romantic pop songs with a pretty tune that is simply scored for guitar and a few strings accompanied by matching visuals with lyrics that compliment the conception. It would have been nice to actually see one kiss but overall I can't fault it.

[@王介秤-b9j]

我哭了 因為這是一種感動 一種勇氣 一種承諾 讓我們祝福所有人

[@里特艾迪]

喜歡這樣的Happy Ending❤️

[@kevinkoh6304]

感同身受，谢谢父母后来的支持 我爱你们

[@SMAnthonyW]

I don’t cry easily but I had tears streaming down my face at the end of the MV when I saw his parents accept their love. I hope all parents can be like this. What’s most important is their son’s happiness.

[@aaalison1989]

Always remember, ang lalaki ay para lang sa lalaki. FRFR

[@alinaluwang9726]

I got this vdo aftr one year.. n it's so touching 😭😭..

[@pelangimalam7548]

tak peduli kalian laki laki...atau perempuan... karena cinta itu indah... love is beautifull....🥰🥰🥰 加油.......!

[@cintaslalumenang1206]

Betul banget mba, tmn saya lesbian, dia coming out ke keluarganya, keluarganya ga nerima, dia dibawa ke psikolog dan diruqiah oleh ustadzah, tapi tidak ada hasil, temen sy tetap suka sm perempuan. Menurut WHO (badan kesehatan dunia) LGBTQ itu alami, dan orientasi seks tidak bisa diubah-ubah. Kelompok LGBTQ adalah kelompok yg paling terdiskriminasi, padahal mereka juga tidak salah, tidak ada yang salah untuk mencintai, tapi selalu salah jika kita membenci seseorang. Sy juga dulu homophobia, tp setelah temen sy coming out ke saya, saya jadi tahu kehidupannya dan belajar memahami dan menghormati

[@pelangimalam7548]

@@cintaslalumenang1206 semua hanya butuh waktu dan pengalaman.... tp maaf memang indonesia belum..mumpuni untuk soal toleransi yg satu ini... kadang Q jg...ikut sakit... bagaimana kalau kita diposisi mereka...😭 semangat......untuk kalian semua. semoga bahagia selalu...

[@王亞森-z2r]

我真的等小美很久了，以前就一直認為他擁有一副天使的歌喉，如今重新再起的盧學叡真的沒讓人失望⋯⋯太療癒了！😭😭😭 加油💪小美，期待重新被看見！你一定可以的！

[@kwc19740718]

增增打開便當盒的那段哭戲，太讓人揪心，道盡同志的心酸與盼望，真的是整段MV的大亮點。

[@jroliva1355]

IS SO SAD THAT MANY PEOPLE CANT BE HAPPY THANKS TO ALL THOSE STIGMAS THAT EXIST IN LIFE.

[@skc1636]

我和我的另一半拍拖都要廿年了，从未想过要向彼此父母出櫃 。双方都知道我和我的另一半的关係，都默認了。😍

[@coabizz0109]

看肉進來的 結果噴了不少眼淚😭

[@one_ganz6644]

Just droppin by from a the one who longing for a rel ✌😎

[@愛麗去哪兒]

竟然看哭了，那麼溫暖深刻的嗓音有很大的感動。尤其是紙條那段

[@LERYUKIAT]

我是誰？我就是我 是顏色不一樣的煙火 我是誰？我就是我 對世界說什麼是光明磊 王子和王子從此過著幸福的生活

[@lichungtu]

好喜歡最後那段奔跑的畫面，人生充滿希望。

[@王介秤-b9j]

我哭了 那是一種感動 一種勇氣 一種承諾

[@waynebruce9687]

祝天下同志，終成眷屬

[@joycecheng9067]

其實現在看到路上有很多地方讓更多人自在地做自己 覺得還是有在緩慢的進步的 覺得還是有一點點開心 希望我們所在的地方 都能越來越好 接受每一個不一樣卻依然美好的風景

[@max-rm3kb]

没有什么比父母能理解更美好的事了。❤️

[@janeriordan6228]

I did too push seeing these two shirtless guys..but only to realize that this short video is really moving and a beautiful story!! I am not gay/ Lesbian but my brother is....47/ 49 years ago when it was revealed that he was homosexual it was a total shock to my parents..and very very hard to accept!! It took many many many years and years with a lot of painful experiences that he was at last accepted by my parents!! I hope and pray that be whatever your orientation...you can live freely..and love freely and be with whomever you want freely!!

[@dieswijaya8096]

Love wins.. ❤️😘 everyone has their own way to be happy. Be you

[@Ghost-gl2uh]

I felt their happiness as they ran in the end, free from society, opinions, bad eyes and everything..