Objectification With Jung Kook Jack Harlow + Overexposure Of Taylor Swift

[@endoraismygma]

As far as Jk goes, for me it's not about wanting to keep him a baby but just the opposite. He thinks singing about fkng and consensual mysogyny is cool, mature and sexy. He has been babied far too much not only by the members but by the fandom. They keep saying "he's a grown man" yet defend him as if he's still 15. He perpetuates it with the fake "im so innocent" interviews then overcompensates with singing about fkng. The one good thing about this terrible era in his music is the leopard finally showed its spots. He puts off so many red flags of being a Narcissist that I'm surprised more people haven't caught on yet. Him and JH are acting like spoiled middle school bullies and whoever finds that sexy and mature is a pick me immature clueless twit.

[@endoraismygma]

@@pauline3218 #narcissistic Dr. Ramani is a terrific source to start with.

[@Whyyougottabethisway]

I'm part of the 4th section of ARMY. I initially was not into this group at all because I thought they were just more sexy fluff with no substance. It wasn't until I saw their messaging and true personalities that changed my mind and I became a fan in 2019. Then I didn't care about the sexy stuff because it was just a small part of their whole. I definitely wasn't rewinding any sexy choreo like the more hormone-driven ARMY and I sure as shit wasn't tolerating any toxic fan fic. Anyway -- I have no problems with the guys being men -- having girlfriends, being sexy, being themselves, what have you. Like you said, it would be weird for them to still act like children. But I feel, tbh, that JK is trying too hard to prove he's not a child a la Miley Cyrus, and it's a bad look that honestly makes him look like... a child. One who thinks that being an adult means tossing out basic songs about girls and f*cking. I mean... yawn. Which is whatever, I just don't listen to it. BUT my actual issue -- and the reason I can't get behind his recent songs like Seven -- is that they are conflating respectful sex with "f*cking." That word is only ever used in a negative way to harm, humiliate, or downplay anything respectful. I can't tell if he even knows that is the true definition of the word because of the way it gets thrown around by western "artists" who I honestly think are trash. Sorry, not sorry. It seems an entire generation has been fooled into thinking sex and f*cking are one and the same. F*cking is reserved for side pieces, one-night-stands, or people you don't really even like, and is never ever used in a respectful way. So for a song to be all about caring for someone and then to toss that in is just...gross to me. For the same guy who wrote Magic Shop to put out a message like that to a generation of people depressed af about the objectification and misogyny destroying mental health these days was...way more disappointing than I can articulate in a YT post. I still appreciate JK. I still think he has more in him. I'm just waiting for this phase to be over.

[@endoraismygma]

I feel the same except for still respecting Jk. Is he talented still? Sure but unless he apologizes and owns up to this garbage, I want no part of him or BTS anymore. Imo all the other members have been feeding his Narcissism by being his flying monkeys. Perhaps unknowingly but it's a big no for me. I'm definitely not Army anymore either as it's too cultish. They keep saying "he's a grown man" (you and I both know he isn't) yet defend him and his behavior as if he's still 15. They want it both ways and that just doesn't work for me. I have a daughter and granddaughter to think about.

[@Whyyougottabethisway]

@@endoraismygma Yeah, it's definitely tainted the song Begin for me, and all the interviews about them raising JK to be who he is... As a parent, I'd be so disappointed if my kid went off the rails like this and just be waiting for them to come to their senses. Then again, I was an idiot in my 20s, too, lol. And i certainly bought into the toxic messages about exploitation equalling empowerment that girls were force-fed starting in the 90s. But then, after being treated like a piece of meat enough times, you wake up one day and have zero tolerance for it. I just feel bad for younger generations who think this is normal and healthy (despite every warning of every reputable psychologist ever). Sigh