Ladies, Don't disclose your former life to your new partner | Benjamin Zulu

[@vaatihomesolutions1615]

This man totally changed my life at my high school,,,tell him never to forget to go to Thitani girls,,,, God bless you musyoka zulu

[@omobege4870]

Well said. I needed to hear that closure part. Let him go and don’t chase him, let him running away be your closure , accept that you’re alone and come out of it quickly 👍🏼. Please we need a part 2.

[@carondinda1682]

When a lady ghosts you it means she is done..... Very true 💃

[@ismahannoor5850]

Benjamin you are so full of wisdom and humour💖💖💖

[@felixamollo5926]

This super wisdom...Thank you Benjamin & Joyce together with the management 🔥🤙🔥

[@maerivers4746]

This man is too wise he is quick I love his advice it has helped me in so many ways !!! Yes ladies do try to tie men to them then they complicate everyone life even the child’s!!!

[@asantesana5689]

Another thing don't over divulge messy family history protect your family not matter how many grandmothers were witches don't disrespect your family even if your father or mother abandoned you don't go into messy details. Some people use this against you to humiliate you when the relationship is over

[@chunguzamambo2234]

Thanks dear, you are right

[@YasminMahnaz]

Wow . That is true in many cultures.. I thought we should tell truth a little so that other can prepare what they have deal with in future maybe. Isn't it like lying ? I wonder what dr Zulu would say?!

[@asantesana5689]

@@YasminMahnaz I did not phrase that well by all means be honest but carry yourself with dignity and Respect in a relationship, sometimes people come from broken homes and they go on to be in abusive relationships because they carry their past.Healing will help regain one's self esteem leading to better relationships.

[@kikikiki3216]

Home truth, thanks for the reminder, an ex did this to me.

[@evelynhephi1889]

When one partner is growing nd the other is not might lead to separation. 🙏🏾

[@kmags8065]

This is so true

[@ruthkibu2137]

Wow, super awesome. Thanks Benjamin. I have learnt a lot.

[@lilianikerubo7909]

Very true accept. It happened to me l accepted and moved on now am happy with my daughter she is now 7yrs

[@justmo6896]

May I have wisdom,he is remarkable!👏👍

[@cathy3842]

My x left me without telling me y n I kept begging him but it was too late,I got so heartbroken n thank God for healing me

[@salina9033]

Joyce your hair❤️👌

[@user-wc3xi5ci3i]

And her legs 💕

[@hellenanyango1241]

It's two weeks now since he left without notice.. Thinking about it makes me wanna cry

[@wellness254]

Hugs...try move on and be happy. You deserve to be happy..self love

[@trizahkabui1552]

It's really heartbreaking 😔hugs, you shall overcome

[@dosiakumbe8105]

Hang in there! Stare at yourself in the mirror and remind yourself that you deserve a better kind of love! Love does not ghost on you! You should not entertain ghosts in your life, you need something real ❤️

[@jacqueypatrick4090]

I wish I listened to this earlier 😭😭😭 I think I lost him Long time ago now

[@jemfridahanangwe1152]

Thank you, thank you, thank you again ,I would have messed if I didn't watch this,🙏

[@tinachristine4573]

People who run around confessing their past running around with mungiki to their new loves are so naive it's ridiculous.

[@melissagitts]

Bitter truths. I'm unlearning this

[@hshshsushssheheuueww1683]

By the way a certain guy ask me,what do I want in my life in terms of r/ship and I had no answer, because for me I want this guy who is ready to convince me (kunikatia hadi niingie box) and not someone to interview me

[@hshshsushssheheuueww1683]

@@usajimary yeah me too very boring questions,,, hope mine is still there who is not a interviewer

[@melissagitts]

How did that go for you? Not explaining what you wanted ..did it work?

[@jeccym8715]

I hate interviews as well uuff

[@kikikiki3216]

Never tell a guy about the type of relationship you want.. He will play the role to fit what you want... Say something like, a thoughtful and person and see what the guy is about... So it's like saying when you see your guy you will know it.

[@cathy3842]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@Africanhistory863]

Thanks alot Benjamin nd joyce 🙏

[@damarismwangi1038]

Watching from Kuala Lumpur

[@lucieblessing1]

What if you kept silent for the past and mayb comes to realize something you did and you didnt tell before... Si apo ndo utaachwa mchana ketemee😒😒heri umwabie relationship ikiwa young akitaka akuache iko nini... Coz kufichana past lifes thats thy begining of untrust to the rlship my view though🙄🙄

[@sophiakarimi3589]

Very true..... Secrets of past do destroy you alot and you can't keep them forever....its healthy to share past

[@neemamnape4656]

Some people will take it okay...then after watause it against you....its tricky

[@Krizadh]

You can share just enough that is relevant moving forward and you cannot do that day 1

[@sengabas6117]

Do not tell them until you are sure they are the right one. If they're going to leave, they can leave without you having to divulge as soon as meet.

[@kikikiki3216]

I will say answer all his questions in a descrete way without going into too much details.

[@mapalokaunda7900]

Powerful 🙌🙌

[@fiae2897]

Especially if you had multiple partners, he will not take you seriously. 🙄

[@nebby760]

There is this lady I love but her past scared me, I had to run for my life 🤣🤣🤣

[@alukwejoy808]

What I needed to hear

[@marymugo7387]

My best friend disclosed my past to my boyfriend and it caused me a lifetime relationship 😭😭😭😭

[@agathanabakooza2743]

Don’t worry honey same issue with me 😢😢😢😢😢

[@Mindful_Mm]

No ring on Benjamin's finger... 🤔 Who else noticed it??

[@adeolaadekanye2438]

Correct guy!

[@tesss_tequila]

Wowww...came at the right time

[@motherandson4402]

Some pretty interesting comments. I believe a Godly will be different the past is not important to the relationship because with christ we are new creation all things are make new through Christ.

[@johanneskapeuasha9498]

Will you still be in a relationship with me when I am sick (STI and HIV + being damaged) due to my past? A women past will always tell the type of future she will have

[@omobege4870]

What if one party is not Godly?

[@temitopeoyeyipo2794]

What if d Woman ghosts d man bcos she discovers he is a Narc; At least, U can't tell a snake Pls I want to go

[@jeccym8715]

You run for your life, my former bf was a narcissist, nobody told me to run🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️,

[@Sheribelle]

Run, hide, disappear, change location, don't look for closure and never look back. Narcissists steal, kill, destroy in totality. The worst experience dating them. Run.

[@rachelmuthoni2171]

This is the mistake I did

[@DH-pd4xp]

Me too being "transparent" subjected me to a relationship riddled with accusations, mistrust constant criticism and condemnation, thank God I learned my lesson.

[@katlegoletsholo306]

I wish I saw this video much earlier...

[@ebbykerubo95]

Let's call bygones be bygones

[@liliankerubo9319]

I'm a good liar about my past ,I don't know why😂😂

[@honeybee8927]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@edinakimeu3181]

Nice show❤️

[@neemamnape4656]

This is nice but honestly I had to slow down the speed to understand... My advice to viewers play it on 0.75× speed

[@YasminMahnaz]

Haha I love it. I usually speeded up at least 1.25×or even 1.5x but all speeds too fast. I had put on normal..I was even thinking slow Duan video but I understood!!!

[@adeolaadekanye2438]

Lol best tip!

[@michaelguya5347]

A lady once told me about her past and that was the end..Zulu is right.

[@makenaodero]

What if she told you their past so that no one else can come to tell you. You know those friends who like destroying people's relationships.

[@jeccym8715]

And what was that that made you run away? Because if you run away from her for sharing with you her past, instead of embracing her you avoided her, makes you a COWARD with a capital letter!

[@sophiakarimi3589]

You never expected her to keep the past if you truly cherished her......nobody who is perfect we all have past

[@jeccym8715]

@@sophiakarimi3589 👌👌👌👌

[@leratorato6751]

I think is transparency, and trust to tell a person your past

[@jeccym8715]

I don't really understand like what re the things that I would share with my partner concerning my past and he will run away???? I don't get it, Nice one but short😍😍, we need part 2 pls😄❤

[@reubenbokea5459]

You can't relate if you don't have a dark past.

[@jeccym8715]

@@reubenbokea5459 I asked for examples, to be able to understand, I didn't relate with myself, I'm just trying to understand

[@blessedemily3652]

@@jeccym8715 e.g sleeping around,stealing if you ever did e.t.c

[@bettynyakiba8922]

A man who is scared of your different opinion or positive defiance is not your guy.... i always say its ok to disagree...its not a big deal

[@syliviakemunto2392]

Naked truth 😜

[@sbundwandwe6563]

Steve Harvey lo lol

[@christinekamunyi3826]

Truth

[@sbundwandwe6563]

Why Zulu always blame men on all issues

[@badmanno.1650]

He doesn't... Men are just crazy sometimes

[@sbundwandwe6563]

@@badmanno.1650 women are never crazy lol

[@patriciaowntales3932]

ati juu ni manyoks:)

[@Randyyyke]

😂😂😂