Men, please marry someone within your social class - Benjamin Zulu is unapologetic

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[@balancedviewpoint7418]

It is important that a man subscribes to marrying their class because you will always speak from the same wavelength. Benjamin is right. What he is trying to imply is , date a man or woman that is not too high, or too low for you but in moderation. Someone that doesn't intimidate you by their background, education, beauty or public image. In simple terms we mean, marry someone you are compatible with from the word go.

[@balancedviewpoint7418]

@ imagine I can't see any commercials even one from my end. Where are you watching it from? I think they segment it differently from different locations view point. I am in kenya and can't see any . Sorry about that

[@rose_Winchester86]

@@balancedviewpoint7418 true

[@findinglela]

@@balancedviewpoint7418 got 2 and am in Kenya

[@balancedviewpoint7418]

@@findinglela pole sana and welcome to 🇰🇪

[@dorcuskencey6816]

*When Benjamin opens his mouth...he only spits naked truth as always!*

[@ayetadave7033]

Facts are bitter but true 👌 😍

[@balancedviewpoint7418]

It is important that a man subscribes to marrying their class because you will always speak from the same wavelength. Benjamin is right. What he is trying to imply is , date a man or woman that is not too high, or too low for you but in moderation. Someone that doesn't intimidate you by their background, education, beauty or public image. In simple terms we mean, marry someone you are compatible with from the word go.

[@belindavimbayi8949]

I am becoming addicted to this show,Benjamin and Joyce u are simply the best eye openers.thank u so much. All the way from South Africa

[@binsaribeautykenya]

Same ❤

[@notyourtype5329]

Same

[@kikikiki3216]

Gosh I can listen to Benjamin Zulu all day. His facial expressions are classic.

[@pumlajenn2162]

Ephesians 5:31:For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife and the two will become one flesh .

[@familyfirst9840]

Ben is very intelligent, that is my principles, he should open an institution for dating and marriage classes. One must pass a test before getting into marriage.It will really help. We suffer because of lack of knowledge. Thanx Benjamin.

[@justinamusyoka4986]

Unity is strength. The more we encourage separation the enemy gets us. Watch you tube Make Africa great and you will note the reasons Africa is disunited and fragmented is from the family background.Thats why we get educated but remain servants to other people because our family dynasty has been destroyed by egos.

[@lillymaxsaili2384]

@@justinamusyoka4986 This is so true. My family is a case in point. Jealousy is the order of the day.

[@justinamusyoka4986]

@@lillymaxsaili2384 Raise the rent! Don't entertain cheap talk for nothing.

[@trizahkwamboka5934]

Wow Benja, yaani unaongea tu ukweli even if I'll be asked to pay so that I can listen to your words of wisdom then I'll glady do that haha

[@dancankhisa]

I have already payed on my side😂😂💸💰

[@trishtrish2349]

Sasa hapa ndio Men should learn to look for wealth from a very young age so that by the time you get your one and only you have means of supporting her

[@KellyInspiration]

I had to watch from the first second to the last. This guy deserves multiple chances he is indeed a great speaker

[@winnielucy5152]

Thank God my brother, you said it as how it should be. Those men are called mammies nappy boys. In-laws are the ones who destroyed homes, especially when the wife is educated and they both work and build their homes together. In-laws should stay in their lane, and their own territory.

[@simplyMrs.]

My grandmother always said "marry within your own" as a young lady I didnt fully understand but now I do and am glad I did. Makes everything easier

[@doreenonekalit9888]

He is so real. And so full of humour that cracks my ribs

[@ironscape7465]

First&foremost in-laws wengine huwa wabaya sana,so you can imajine living with them..hell nooo...

[@allcontent196]

A broke friend married a wealthy daddy's girl, there was never peace in that home. The lady's father would insist on the highest standards for her daughter even regularly changing her V8 cars while the man was just an underpaid banker driving a second-hand Toyota NZE. My guy nearly died of depression because he simply had no say despite being humble and hardworking. While the lady understood him, the father couldn't have none of it. The marriage barely lasted only 2 years.

[@berylotieno276]

Some in laws are demons in human form.my sis in law once told me she and her mum are the one's making decisions over my marriage, meanwhi her own husband had long walked out on her, but she is busy " building her father's home" . Only the power and protection of God has kept me.Luos are the worst, they feel jealous when you are living together in peace.

[@todaybeasyy2955]

🤣🤣🤣

[@wecalm5258]

Im luo dont do me like that in our family its everyone for themselves no one intervines in anything unless death

[@paulineoketch9848]

Luos tho!!!I was bought for a dress by my siz inlaw,claiming she was teaching me how to be a mother inlaw. I was in my early 30's.

[@lilianasaba9846]

My dad built so close to our grandma (his mum). Life was so hard for my mum. Ehh it wasn't easy. I didn't like my paternal relatives as a result. Ehh

[@thatothobejane4674]

I really enjoy this show♥️♥️♥️ Is it possible to include subtitles translating the other languages that they use? Because I don't understand and would like to have a full picture on everything they say.

[@elijahotieno8757]

I thought they are speaking in English

[@xolanihlongwa2438]

My fellow South African,its a norm even in our country.talk show must have ingredients of indigenous seed.atleast we get 97% of this converse

[@thatothobejane4674]

@@elijahotieno8757 there are some phrases here and there in their home language that I don't understand

[@elijahotieno8757]

@@thatothobejane4674 Sure...they need to put subtitles

[@elijahotieno8757]

@@xolanihlongwa2438 am Kenyan 🇰🇪 not from satafrika

[@mctarrusMzangala]

EXCESS KNOWLEDGE IN ONE MAN.......big up

[@kikikiki3216]

Omg Benjamin... Deep guy.. "in this world, reputation is everything"...

[@eunicekoros3166]

Am so loving this Benjamin Zulu Guy for the super sober marriage advices he is giving us,,Kudos Beautiful Joyce for bringing this guy to the show..............

[@mama_christian]

full circle has become Benjamin's living area......I love listening to him

[@lillymaxsaili2384]

Benjamin and Joyce I love your programme, subtitles or not. I am able to follow, learn and enjoy. Keep up the good work.

[@marywachira9634]

I wish I knew b4, God knows what I have gone through. now I am a single mother of 3 😢

[@captinadams284]

Benjamin when I mention my mentors you are always on top in that list.

[@luciamhango1804]

Hello Benjamin and Joyce. you are opening my eyes..

[@marthawambui7593]

I couldn't agree more with Benjamin

[@naomiwangari4794]

My brother married upward,he-he struggles to maintain his power

[@shaznewa752]

So accurate even the Bible says leave u parents. U priority is u parents

[@haronwafula7593]

very powerful indeed. better to lose money than respect, i like it

[@caramel9244]

Wow powerful! 👌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Thank u Benjamin & Joyce

[@me_lyssa2020]

My in-laws are expecting me in Kenya..🤗😂

[@victoriajackson7061]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@nonoechibs2775]

Man with wisdom ,thank yu so much well said

[@dikeledijane8186]

Mr Benjamin may you please come to South Africa to make life sessions to our citizens please!!!!!!

[@magdalenenzili9782]

She show is always lit n educating more so with Benjamin but one free advise from us ur views Joyce kindly stop putting & cutting off Benjamin...let him speak freely the t truth of the topics been observant bout it in most of ur shows with him. Plz note that.✌️

[@sarahsmrdal7094]

Very true. I divorced cos of in-laws interference. Have never regretted this decision.

[@nakamijunic5844]

Sorry

[@zuhuraabdi8989]

Very true Zulu I agree 100%

[@mercyjepkoech3478]

Wow,God bless you Benjamin and Joyce

[@SylviahandRichard]

This is the best naked truth ave heard in a while. Thumbs up joyce and benja,its so educating really. Be blessed

[@jilliangeorge5426]

I agree with you, Benjamin Zulu

[@Ronald-gh6jl]

I like this guy other than the good teaching I like the way his keeping his tone to the last minute

[@nataliekangwa7221]

Benjamin I've seen a close family member move back to his in laws home for one year because of job loss. It depends on the relationship you've with your in laws. If you've no option you can go back to your in laws.

[@zoe1870]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Yoooo Yoooo, My ribs BENJAMIN BENJAMIN, you know things, ( you see interfering, looking for a needle WOOOLOOLOO As Joyce says.

[@marykam]

Joking,this guy tells us the truth.Thank you Mr Benjamin🥰

[@leratotabane5841]

But I love how practical Zulu is 👌

[@misskaykayRSA]

Benjamin’s truth is harsh but sooooo necessary

[@marthawambui7593]

I couldn't agree more Benjamin

[@veronicanyangweso936]

wise Benjamin be blessed

[@maggieshelli3586]

Benjamin my all time mentor....you inspire me alot... you're like a dad to me....wise message

[@innocentjulie8400]

Benjamin you so good❤️❤️❤️

[@muthoniwanjohi1842]

Why am i just now finding you guys out?

[@rachaelcherutich6454]

I love your talks Benja. So educative and applicable. You're also ever smart, your dress code is a tick

[@paulrotich7042]

I agree with Benjamin,stay away from your in-laws,kabisa

[@patsyaspinall-urrows3836]

You are so right Benjamin, avoid living its in laws not unless you have a palace and your own wings. I have experience interring mother in law when she was just visiting or she on the telephone 24/7/. In the end I gave my husband an ultimatum, his mother or his marriage!! So e had to put her straight. Love the show xx

[@faridahfaddy6994]

I did the same. Hahaha. It’s always good to speak up. Most women suffer in silence.

[@starshiko]

Shave facing north😂😂😂

[@Evyhomezz]

Benjamin is such a vibe! I enjoy watching this show....

[@joskyshams4758]

I hope my future husband is watching.

[@Muteti_Kiilu]

I'm around my dear.

[@dorcuskencey6816]

🤣🤣🤣

[@joskyshams4758]

@@Muteti_Kiilu doing what?

[@Muteti_Kiilu]

@@joskyshams4758 Taking 📝's

[@ikowapi1342]

I hope my future wife is watching

[@thandazalengs2603]

owh my gosh m so laughing ryt now😂😂 yhoo. oh Lord help us all

[@humphrey4058]

Leo Joice Omondi ameguswa mahali, one of the issues Benjamin raised indirectly or directly affects Joice Omondi 🤣

[@TheBabadogo]

"Una shout" 😅

[@Bahatiedit]

Very true saw it

[@bingimwenyewe5416]

Tabia ya wajaluo ni kuishi pamoja na hawapendi hiyo tradition yao.

[@josephinewanjiku384]

😂

[@eneali8308]

Please add subtitles when you speak your language 😢 I feel like am missing a big info 😀

[@noziphontini1821]

Do english caption on yr right hand side, touch it will pop caption then click auto English

[@gingergial7720]

@@noziphontini1821 Thank you very much I learn something new..

[@robertomonditv]

Still it's not translating the sheng and Kiswahili languages.They need to include subtitles. Am a Kenyan and I understand what they are saying.

[@nahweraangella4657]

Thanks Zulu my wiseman

[@bettykemei4692]

Kabisaa... Mr Zulu..very much truth ..akky waaaaaaa...that chicken ..will change everything...you shall have no peace..... seriously...weeeee....n the respect tends to dissapear....n for the man...freedom space to live your life n your wife as you wish but wapi🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦🤷

[@ezerbia]

Mr Zulu is correctly informing.

[@julietoluoch865]

Watching from Alabama U.S.A. kindly include subtitles

[@_zeemina9487]

😘😘😘😘Much love from🇳🇬

[@tabithambutha2510]

What happens when a man works at (brother to wife) ? And they control him like a puppet by telling him you are playing with your job.

[@beatricep8282]

He should find another job or business to do before it breaks his marriage apart. Like Benjamin said, in-laws should be kept at a safe distance if respect is to be maintained.

[@mosesnabea4308]

Preach to the choir

[@TheLilly]

Chiiiile the points that have been made here!!!😩😩😩💯💯💯

[@paulrotich7042]

Do people from mount kenya live with their mother in-laws is it acceptable?

[@nduatinjuru2617]

They do and they ever quarrel.....its terrible

[@beritamaingi696]

Learning alot...thanx.

[@ejohhenrientta6976]

I love me some Benjamin

[@rhodahj7121]

True point taken thanks.

[@eunicewavinya244]

My 120pgs book is almost full....this thing called marriage

[@troystewart8539]

Its indeed tricky 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

[@zoe1870]

Half angel half human😳😳😳

[@naomiwangari4794]

Well said.Done?????

[@ayandamah8525]

Benjamin you've spoken

[@theomabena7529]

Would appreciate English only please, very nb lessons and we missing on some

[@kaykay5605]

Your chance to learn some swahili

[@theomabena7529]

@@kaykay5605 didn't even know it was Swahili, I'll have to cause I like the show

[@gracemaina6593]

Until they begin putting subtitles, you can just listen to the message in English. The Swahili words are just fillers, not core to the message

[@me_lyssa2020]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@carolmso1441]

Benjamin is full of wisdom

[@ABY-GAYLE]

That's so true benjamin

[@annebihamba5952]

Don’t get married to a puppet but a husband

[@pickychrissytetich.7715]

Absolutely true.

[@justinamusyoka4986]

With such attitudes,how are African families going to come up with great ideas and implement them and come up with big companies or we shall reduce ourselves to arguing over salt and sugar. Awake Africa.

[@magimagi234]

Marry and take her to your moms compound and come tell us your experiences. Go through the comments, most women are agreeing with this. If you want to build a better family, take note of such things.

[@justinamusyoka4986]

@@magimagi234 I'm a grandmother and if my children and their children's children ALL move away because they don't want to be near relatives,thats fine,hope they never ask to move with things.It will take them forever to re establish themselves to the level they found.Its like going in circles. Asians built great family dynasties with close family units.

[@charlicelwetu6691]

@@justinamusyoka4986 Can we really compare ourselves with Asians whose living structures have been engrained in them since birth? They expect it, so it's not too difficult for them to adjust to that living set-up. As for business, you can still build a family empire but not live in the same house. That's what Benjamin is saying. Asians value family over everything, that is not really the case with us Africans especially. Try bringing in your relatives to do business with you and see what happens. Some have managed but most are riddled with jealousy, laziness and entitlement because that 'big picture thinking' has not been engrained in us.

[@justinamusyoka4986]

@@charlicelwetu6691 I agree with you because I've run a family business for almost 30 years,undone by relatives to the core but i still believe to eradicate the massive generational poverty we got in Africa,we need to change our attitudes. We may not live in same house but can be in one big compound because if each member is apart and away ,its difficult to know their commitment especially if they already believe in owning their individual space. If you watch yt Make Africa great,you'll notice the greatest obstacle to great achievements in Africa is our disunity,which begin at family level. We need to burry our pride and educate ourselves just as those Asian families educated themselves. If you want to go fast walk alone but if you want to go far,walk in a team and the family is the best team because upon death,succession is easy! Imagine COCA COLA is a family business and if they didn't have structures,it would be long gone.I hear at any generation they got only two people who know the formulas,they don't travel in one flight for fear incase.... Here, a brother once married,cant see eye to eye with the rest of the family due to gossip and sabotage.we quarrel over chickens in the compound etc.

[@patrickshemushemu7471]

I think this shud not be abt men it shud be abt women. Have money to day a man with money . U can be a broke lady and want me because o have money . Honestly tunapelekana wapi in future nawewe.

[@kennedyken]

😁😁I heard my name Ken😋nalala na sandals

[@shikukim5428]

😂😂😂

[@josephinewanjiku384]

Gd topic thanks alot 4the show, I need advice hw do u cope wit heartbreak av tried 2b vry busy in the day at work n does wat I like evenings can sleep only crying coz of memories I feel hopeless now

[@lucywambui8072]

Allow yourself to feel.cry if you have to and get a diary to journal your feelings.Some rlships no matter how long they last are meant for that season and not forever.learn the lessons and move forward.sometimes if you dont get what you want that is God's protection.google ways to give yourself selfcare because nobody can love you more than you.its starts with you.I recommend a book called Dear woman.thank me later.Also check pinterest for affirmation and moving on quotes.please note that nothing is wrong with you it all has to do with the other person.And love only is not enough to stay in a rlship.

[@josephinewanjiku384]

@@lucywambui8072 thankyou vry much

[@lucywambui8072]

You're welcome.

[@kigonywanduthi]

Allow yourself to experience the emotions. Do have a gratitude journal, it will change your perception. We think of what we "lost" than what we gain,it's the fear of unknown, what if you surrender and live a day at a time? Fish doesn't struggle to swim, it's inborn by instincts, the same with the right relationship it will just flow. Surrender

[@josephinewanjiku384]

@@kigonywanduthi thankyou

[@doreenonekalit9888]

I love Benjamin Zulu.

[@christinemathenge4929]

Waah! You should be having a glass of some drinks Benjamin is burning 😜

[@jackiemwangi8963]

Haha true. Ata tumaji ni sawa

[@noor_yatsuleiman3245]

Thanks brother 🙏🙏

[@peninahkamau895]

Very true Benjamin

[@nahyialetomia9284]

Thank you Benjamin, lanes matter

[@princesskinuthia8788]

👏👏👏

[@elijahatambo2717]

This guy is sharp.

[@wanjiruwawachira2239]

True

[@gracewanjohi4833]

Benjamin i want to be your neiba

[@millicentatieno3495]

Always on point 💯

[@bushleymasibisi9473]

Agreed!!!

[@morineakinyi1116]

Very true

[@alajmialajm8794]

Benjamin mbona unatufokea🤣🤣

[@jacklinemoses645]

hahha naona kwl anatufokea

[@zunaiandre2341]

A South African who can't understand"Masithi Siya Lala,Baya noka e mnyango'😂😂you are not to ready to learn Kiswahili,it sounds so much like some Zulu,Swati and Venda mixed up