Ladies Is Your Career or Degree Worth It? ©

[@lifeofsi9990]

He’s has changed my entire perspective on relationships and men, also femininity ❤️

[@ShadowbannedbyYoutube]

How old are you? What your dress size? Then we'll consider your statement....

[@lifeofsi9990]

@@ShadowbannedbyKZbin I’m 23 and a dress size 4 sir

[@mikeandmars2345]

@@lifeofsi9990 ok good make sure u stay that way

[@lifeofsi9990]

@@mikeandmars2345 I will make sure of it

[@lifeofsi9990]

@@zubi326 understood

[@BoudoirBoutiqueNC]

Even as executives you find many women regret that choice. Gen X was sold a bill of goods. Luckily I made it out of NYC and that mindset in time.

[@mariobalotelli2410]

Auntie but in NYC as an executive in lower Manhattan like financial district you can make from $800k to 1.5 million a year. The only problem is that you have to sacrifice your "future family "

[@BoudoirBoutiqueNC]

@@mariobalotelli2410 Yes, that is my point. For some women they rather have the money but for many they did not plan on being alone and childless. That is what makes me sad to see. We are the most educated women unfortunately it is too often accompanied by loneliness and bitterness.

[@mariobalotelli2410]

Auntie if single men can find happiness with millions, why can women do the same??? Look at Floyd Mayweather, Drake, etc... A lot of men that are millionaires don't complain about their loneliness. Do you think that us women came on earth to be wives and mothers?

[@BoudoirBoutiqueNC]

​@@mariobalotelli2410 I stated that some do want that. LOL Many women thrive with just money. Are you just wanting to disagree? LOL

[@mariobalotelli2410]

Auntie no, I agree ❤️👸🏾

[@niac.5278]

This was such a good topic. Not only do women sacrifice love for their careers, they raise their daughters to do the same! I can’t speak for everyone but as a young black woman i was told to focus on school and not a relationship

[@AllThingsTiffanyTV]

I can relate and i changed my entire mindset last year. Realistically it’s just not for me. I can take care of myself career wise but i understand the value of marriage and family foundation. Career is not main priority anymore. I desire to get married before 30, God willing. My parents told me to focus on money and not a man who may not even be faithful or treat me the right way at a young age.

[@emandawatts06]

You hit it right on the head. Same here.

[@ifeobikoya3559]

You know why your parents said that? Because before you meet a man your gonna have to support yourself as an adult and your gonna date various of men before you met the one you will marry. a high value man won't want a person working at new look or McDonald's. And if your dont have an education or bussiness you'll be working in one of those

[@micdynasty6438]

1st world culture is a self consuming beast. All lose some, some lose all.

[@lilshawtync4673]

@@ifeobikoya3559 men don’t care about a woman’s income

[@schaneldrake6458]

The lady at 36min is dropping knowledge. She said "A woman's highest calling is to be a wife and mother" yaassssss! Gem received! I'm happily married with a baby on the way.

[@oziomac.nwankwo3802]

No offense, but what is the man's highest calling?

[@oziomac.nwankwo3802]

@@hg1166 true! Someone is speaking my mind.

[@MsDragonbal776]

I'm a man and this is bullshit. Your worth isnt strictly defined by what you can do for other

[@RooseveltAliWashingtonX]

@ Schanel Drake--- Best wishes and congratulations!

[@ReconExpert52]

Congratulations Queen 👸🏽

[@clmk28]

"I am a PhD" that never gets old. That should be a cautionary tale.

[@CrystlRain27]

PhD (noun) Petty headstrong Dame

[@hoopjargon]

Never

[@nanciatnyte]

Not as much a cautionary tale for women as it serves to provide comfort to those men who most women aren’t interested in to begin with.

[@clmk28]

@@nanciatnyte SIGNs

[@nanciatnyte]

@@clmk28 I know what the acronym means-don’t misuse it to deflect anything that doesn’t flatter you.

[@TAHJ1987]

I like the question..I beleive America has fooled women with ideology that they can have it all at the same ..time...and in my opinion that's just not true ..I don't think it's possible to be happily married..be a career driven woman who spends 60 to 70 hours at work a week..and be a great mother and wife ..it's only 1 of you and 24 hours in a day...you have to make sacrifices..and choose...marriage isn't for everyone...either are long term relationship...if you want to be Oprah..then by all means good luck.. but you can't be Oprah..and married at home with kids...just doesn't work like that

[@madant22]

I think you can be all those at the same time if you know how to balance your situation. You can balance time. You can have it all. maybe not all at once at the same time. but you can have it all.

[@godlovescouture8605]

I agree . One area seems to suffer

[@TereseLeigh]

Jaron- Yes it is very difficult to “have it all”. As someone also commented, something always tends to suffer as a result of trying to obtain it all. But it is possible with proper balance. In your example, if the woman is working 60-70 hrs a week then having it all is impossible in my opinion. So I would add that it all depends on the amount of hours worked by the woman and the type of work. I will use myself as an example: Married for 8 years. 2 boys- 3 & 8. Both my husband and I work non-traditional work hours. I am a general manager of a restaurant, he is a coach. So we have opposite schedules by nature. I have designed my work life to fit around my family life. I work 40 hrs a week which is rare as a restaurant manager but I’ve designed it as such so I be home for my family. But my priority is my husband, kids, and then work. So I feel like it all about how everything meshes together...

[@TAHJ1987]

@@TereseLeigh yes beautyrock I agree..I think it all depends on several things...and the exactly the career choices and ambition of that woman.....and for the record..I'm happy for your success and pray for blessings for you and your family..

[@TereseLeigh]

Jaron Taylor Thank you!!! 🖤

[@53c3000]

I have a career in wealth management. Kevin is right - I spent 25-35 building this career, bar hopping, dating, thinking I was invincible. But when I hit 37 the clock started ticking louder and louder. I knew I would have a harder time finding a mate pass 40. I got serious about dating and met my fiancé when I turned 38. Thank god for that. Now I place my career second and put our lifestyle first. I can relax and enjoy life together with a solid man. There’s nothing glorious dating in 40s for a woman I don’t care how good looking you are. Your only choice are rich guys 10 to 20 years older and lucky If he’s decent looking. Women want to relax and chill after 40 not running around dating and working.

[@beautifultay669]

Well sis If you found your fiancé I’m sure other will find a husband as well.. it’s called priorities and a lot of us who want to be successful we always choose that foray

[@AS-of1cs]

Sounds like you did it right. You established yourself and had your fun first. I have three sisters who married very young as Kevin suggests. One stayed married 25 yrs, one married twice total of 15 years, other stayed married 15 years. When they divorced, they were dirt poor and had to start completely over. They were all housewives and married by age 23. Image having to start over at 45 having left the work environment for 27 yrs and now poor with alimony of only 900 a month. I think NOT!!!! The end results were the same. As you stated women want to chill in their 40s not run around working and dating. But that IS the end result for marrying too young without having established yourself first or walking away from what you have established to become a housewife and not keep your skills up. What he says sound good but reality is something totally different. 🤷🏿

[@53c3000]

This path only works if the lady doesn’t have strong desire for children. My goal has always been - take care of myself first then find a mate who loves me then maybe kids. This belief is shaped by my upbringing seeing my mother fighting about money with my dad and being physically abused by her. It’s too late for me to have a child now but plenty of men don’t care to have kids nowadays so it worked out for me.

[@NoLimitsHtx]

I was raised by a single mother that grind to her high position which took literally 20 years and I'm 23 now.

[@53c3000]

@@bbdass4598 I only focus on myself and my 5-10 years goal. Keep marching forward and leave work politics at work don’t bring it home. Everyday is a new day.

[@moonbentley7412]

Kevin always hustling...as a young man myself ive learned many lessons from him

[@CrystlRain27]

Time is everyone's most precious resource, when its lost you can't recoup it. Furthermore, if women are so happy being single then why do so many of them complain that they are unable to find a good man?

[@illenessOne]

They say they are happy as a mask to hide their sadness . Never believe a woman’s word . Believe her actions .

[@TheDCGuitar13]

The women that see that being available and supportive to a man can get them everything they ever wanted in life are always happy. The ones that say “I ain’t gonna be his momma” are the ones that are the most combative, angry and depressed women on earth. It is what it is.

[@shanikajones2171]

Actually no

[@fiae2897]

You will be surprised that not all supportive women get what they want. Some men are stingy and selfish

[@TheDCGuitar13]

Mel B if there’s one thing I’ve ever learned, it’s that a woman calling a man “selfish” or “abusive” means that he simply said no to you or disagreed with you once. Just once. Even use that as an excuse to cheat on a man. Tbh. Your argument kind of reminds me of the incels online that got hurt by one woman everyone warned him about and suddenly all women are gold diggers and that men should go their own way.... I’m sure you know one person that lived this or convinced you she did but for every one of her there are 9 other cooperative women living a wonderful life. I don’t speak in anecdotes.

[@fiae2897]

@@TheDCGuitar13 If you note I said SOME men, obviously not all are selfish and stingy but my own experience with 1 man was awful. While what you said might be true in a way, you cannot generalise as every relationship is unique.

[@TheDCGuitar13]

Mel B ok Mel

[@hithhiker]

Sister's have to stop thinking being a housewife is bad. You are second in command at homebase. Metaphorically, when your man goes out to go to war with the world, You are making sure everything is maintained and safe while he is gone. Then if he comes back wounded from the war with the world, its your skills, strength, motivation, and love that heals him and rebuilds his morale. If you have to work too, both of you should be building for neither of you to have to work or one of you, but no matter what it is about the two people working together.

[@biform13]

All this is fine until she says, "I'm not happy." Then she CLEANS YOU OUT. Marriage for western men is FOOL'S game. There is NO advantage for a MAN to get married today unless you're a muslim.

[@mcraft1181]

@@biform13 this is bullcrap. If you married that type of woman that was on you. Men who chose better did not nor do not have this problem.

[@MJWife07]

Thanks for the show tonight Kevin! You are busy but you still took the time. Greatly appreciated 🙏

[@MsJordanRain]

I’ve either heard men say they want a woman with a job or women look down on other women for not having a degree. I’ve always wanted to stay home with my babies and be a support to my husband.. that’s what I got and he’s a high value black man.. God is good!

[@rm1sha]

They choose the career cause it’s easier it doesn’t require much from u, but being a wife or in a relationship require much more and there isn’t no clear defined blueprint

[@foodforthought8869]

What do you mean doesn’t require much from you??? Have you tried to do it?

[@rm1sha]

Food For Thought yes, it doesn’t require much thought u want a degree choose a school, a major, get good grades & pay for it. Doesn’t require much thought those have done it before you & will continue afterwards.

[@missNCW]

But men don't respect mothers and wives anyway so stop acting like you care about women who dedicate their lives to their family.

[@rm1sha]

@@missNCW what men, the ones “U” know 🤔 ..... if you’ve never seen a healthy relationship (locally) then u wouldn’t kno what one looks like 🤷🏾‍♂️. This idea of no respect given is true in f#%ked up relationships. All in all, it requires work and not one female nor man is looking for the other expecting it “not” to work......do the work do on ur part get(or) be healthy(mental) before attempting to go out into the world looking to share the rest of ur life with someone.

[@msi8311]

I agree, it’s easier to follow a path of focusing on education and career than it is to embrace Femininity and strategically choose a partner you love and who can provide for a family if you want one. There is no road map or large institutions of advisors for your particular flavor of nurturing femininity.

[@mariobalotelli2410]

The more successful the man, the more likely he will find a spouse and become a father, but this is the opposite for most successful women.

[@JayC216]

True... But ironically, it has nothing to do with her success. It's the superiority complex mentality she develops along with it that will keep her single and childless.

[@newjustice1]

@@JayC216 ding ding this is it. I'll go further working is masculine energy. Women don't know this but the more they work the more masculine they become. To a point you become invisible to men in some cases.

[@14kurtismiller]

For some women it takes an attitude adjustment. Men and women have to stay humble. A formal education does not mean you're smarter than you're partner. Women have to be willing to compromise. I meet plenty of women who won't compromise.

[@ninagougis9073]

That just means successful women need to choose more supportive mates. I’m successful in my career and I am so grateful I have a husband (equally successful) who doesn’t mind being the supportive spouse when necessary. We both take the slack when the other spouse is busy with work obligations.

[@madant22]

@Roy_Thousand Bob Johnson and Bill Cosby is successful the same way if not more then Oprah, and they both have a Wife and Kids.

[@jaquedamasceno01]

If i had the money to invest in my looks and have hobbies to find a high value man before going to college , i wouldn't have studied that much to have a career.

[@mariobalotelli2410]

Jaqueline Damasceno my sister married down. Some (sub) men like dominant women.

[@mariobalotelli2410]

Jaqueline Damasceno most important thing is not to lead with your education... Never throw it in his face that you're financially successful than him.

[@riprpmike1433]

@@mariobalotelli2410 she'll cheat on him. That won't last at all. Women don't respect men that make less.

[@jb10flight]

Is your career or degree worth being alone? You don’t have to put money into looks and hobbies to find a high value man. You get what you putout. Become what men want and better your options in getting the man you want. Good luck to you.

[@riprpmike1433]

@lala ahmad it's a known fact. Biology. Deny it all you want. You don't know a single happy couple where the woman is the bread winner.

[@lusciousphilippa]

Respect your consistency and dedication to the public with your show! Thank you Side notes: Psychotropics (Psychiatric medication). Yes, 1 in 4 individuals have mental health problems in the US. 1 in 3 will experience a form of trauma in their life time in the UK. Interestingly, high IQ/high education, high social class, being male and psychopathic traits are some examples of protective factors which reduce the impact of trauma on an individual. (All from Psychiatric research).

[@demetriahorne1006]

So correct. Find happiness in food, clothes & alcohol. "Act out on social media , like children.

[@mariobalotelli2410]

Even today in this modern time men still prefer female partners who are less professionally ambitious than they are and because of this, many single women face a trade-off: Actions that lead to professional success might be viewed less favorably in the heterosexual marriage market.

[@vanessaroper3028]

Very true

[@nicolesmith7611]

Very well stated. Like a slap in the face just learning these things at 27 years old smh.

[@kingmelanin7468]

Nicole Smith Sis, my sister figured this at 32. My mom told her the only men that want her missing their teeth. My sister was pissed to tears. It’s true. Better late than never BUT the sooner the best.

[@bigk2198]

It is not the higher education/career success that lowers value to men. It is the 'typically associated' behaviors. Highly educated career women tend to feel overly empowered and exhibit aggressive feminist behaviors. Few men with options are going to tolerate them for long.

[@Cajunfamily]

It’s not about the success or monetary value. Men dislike the ego, arrogance, and attitude that comes with the success bc its masculine and a turn off. Hint: Kevin always play the sound clip of the girl saying “Im a PhD” or women taking about soft career paths such as HR, Psychology, Communications, Executive Assistant, Staff level positions are worker bee positions and is not management or director level work. I’m not telling women to go broke or ignore your career ambition. I’m simply stating that you should not lead with your career. You should lead with your beauty, softness, openness, agreeableness, become flexible, understanding and willing to be led and receptive to a high value man. Let you be being a RN, pharmacist, Dr.,therapist etc. be the icing on top as something you like to do.

[@bsolo7730]

There is an interesting Dynamic at play in the African American community. Speaking as a married man for the last 19 years, I would not recommend that any woman forgo gainful employment opportunities in lieu of seeking a mate. For African American women these two paths must be navigated simultaneously.

[@handlebusiness9322]

That’s real

[@joyl3926]

Well said!

[@mellodygee8459]

Yep.....we want educated women....

[@RaathloveTV-u5m]

True! Because facts show there is a small window of when it's the best time to marry for women. I think it's like 22- 35 years old. After that it gets harder and harder to find someone to marry or someone who would want to marry you.

[@bsolo7730]

@@RaathloveTV-u5m generally speaking age of marriage should range from 22-29. Especially if the man and woman want to have children.

[@lashonmathis5777]

If they are prioritizing degree and career straight out of high school. They should still have enough time to get married. I don't think one has to be sacrificed over the other.

[@lisacox3750]

It doesn't and that's where Kevin gets it wrong. What exactly does he expect someone at 18 to be doing? An 18-year-old needs to either be in school or working regardless of gender. It definitely does not mean a woman who has had her priorities straight, maintained her femininity, hasn't slept around, hasn't made babies, couldn't still be ready for marriage by the time they are 24 or 25. I know plenty of women who did it. They are still married to this day (15 or so years later). In some of those cases, the women did later become stay-at-home moms. They were in a place where the man was providing and there was enough financial security. And everything has worked out great. They didn't have to sacrifice one for the other. These are the same women that even though they are now stay-at-home moms, I believe they would have regretted not having that time for themselves after high school. They got to make friends, date a little, get an education, and learned themselves before they got married. And they were still young enough for a man to want them and to have children.

[@herelookinatu]

My degree was. Since the age of 11(according to my parents it was sooner) I knew I had no interest in marriage or having kids. I am a serious introvert and loner and don't like people in my space.

[@jed52]

In other words, a very rare exception to the rule.

[@cm5394]

Kevin has a lot of nerve not posting a three and a half hour video

[@clevagaines4313]

I agree with Tonya - a wife/mother is the highest calling for women

[@Sr.Dusty-Leon008-da-III]

This is my prospective about why mothers tell their daughters to go to college. I believe those mothers notice their lack of financial freedom. They have to depend on their husband's income and do not like that he really controls how much and when the money is available. Women want things and sometimes we know as men we do not really have to give them what they want and can use the kids as a excuse or what we need to do with the money lol. Women need education but to lead with your education is never the greatest idea

[@mariobalotelli2410]

Darryl Davis I agree 💯 btw, your wife is gorgeous 👸🏾

[@Sr.Dusty-Leon008-da-III]

@the queen of sheba umm i am not married but we have been together for a long time. No plans to go that route at the moment I am not retarded

[@mcraft1181]

I told my daughter to go to college so she'll be able to provide for herself until she finds a suitable husband. She's too young marriage out of high school. Also college is a good way her to find guys in good majors that may be successful in the future. I'm a stay at home mother btw. I married a very good man. He doesn't hold the finances hostage from me. I actually manage our money.

[@maninthehills7134]

Proverbs 31. It's uncommon to find women with profitable trade skills, as well as a body count of 1: her husband.

[@ChialukaGold]

But if a women were to say that she wants a man making 6 figures she would be called a gold digger, I’m confused, also not pursuing your career and being dependent on a man is pretty risky when I think about it,,

[@willellis502]

Last lady filled my whole heart. She was a seasoned gem.

[@Icecodes]

The biggest problem parents do to women: " My mom brought me up to be independent"

[@million2568]

Now ask yourself: WHY would parents bring up women, especially black women, to be independent?

[@LateefReid-mc5up]

It’s like: No, your mom had a limited understanding of life and passed that onto you as if she was dropping jewels.

[@LateefReid-mc5up]

sharbri because they allow the fantasy world on TV and movies, owned by white corporations to dictate their black reality.

[@million2568]

Lateef Reid the fantasy world, and not their own real life experiences. Oh ok. That makes sense 🙄 what were the stats again on how many black children grow/have grown up in single parent homes?

[@janahjill9803]

One minute y’all don’t want women dependent on your finances then the next minute y’all don’t want someone who’s independent .Hypocrisy is real.

[@kam.kam.]

Love your outfit. That jacket is so dope.

[@vanesajackson4913]

I can relate to that statement so much when I was in the village, soho etc. I felt like I finally found a place where I belonged.

[@jbaru648]

Most working adults will change career paths at least 4 times in their lives. You really won’t get it right until you live life in the real world for at least 7-10 years to truly discover yourself, how u respond to different challenges, where u actually want to live, etc. One of the reasons why it’s hard to be a HVM in your 20’s. I don’t think it’s worth women to take that same risk because they have a biological clock. Other cultures younger women just date up and get a man who been through all that and have the finances to provide for the family.

[@jbaru648]

Trav I agree. Also I don’t think men should settle down until he experienced life, a bunch of failures, successes, battle tested to the point he can lead a woman/family and financially provide. Most of us thats probably gonna start around mid-late 30’s. But a 22 year old woman marrying and following the lead of a 22 year old man is just a disaster waiting to happen in most cases

[@jbaru648]

Nadia Richardson Whether it’s Europe, Middle East, Africa etc. The culture of the top tier of men with the finances to provide for an entire family comfortably and changing a family’s legacy getting married to younger women to have children with, this is worldwide and is not an old practice, never will be and will only increase with the feminism movement. Powerful Self-made Wealthy men are not seeking out older women with baggage to have a family with. Ps The ages you gave were not old, that’s just “danger zone” range. Most HVM men mid to late 30’s or 40’s are cool with that. But After 33-35, good luck

[@jbaru648]

ma’am are you paying attention? we are talking about the top 10 percent of men, the minority. So only a minority of women would even qualify to get these men, that’s why they compete for them. I’m not talking about the average working class of Britain and all these other places u named. Also I said good luck getting proposed to by a wealthy man in his mid to late 30’s or 40’s when u hit over 33-35 range. So, I’m not going to sit here and name wealthy men who proposed to women under that age bracket, that’s ridiculous. It’s common biological sense. Nice example by the way. Go head and wait until your 40 and see if you can land someone in a royal family. Let me know how that works out for u.

[@jbaru648]

Nadia Richardson Good luck ma’am ✌🏼

[@TheDCGuitar13]

Black Ocean she only knows how to speak in anecdotal evidence and just keeps going til you’re sick of dealing with her. Like you said. “Good luck in your 40s”

[@THERESTHAT89]

I earned two degrees after I got married but you don't have to sacrifice your goals for a relationship. I do see the point of letting a good guy go because you wanted to focus on your career or you thought you would have options later. Don't pass over the good guys who may not earn 100,000 a year.

[@mariobalotelli2410]

Only NJ the problem is that most BW lead with their degrees..

[@THERESTHAT89]

@@mariobalotelli2410 Some of them do.

[@mentalshampoo]

coolest cat in the alley.

[@tinaotero5843]

It was not worth getting my master degree. Thank God I have a very understanding husband. I went back to school thinking I would be able to contribute to my household.

[@void________]

What happened? Why wasn't it worth it?

[@Mrs.T305]

This is the first culture of black ppl who thinks education means dying alone. I am not sure why we can't have both. Those of us who were raised to value education, this is a huge culture shock. I'm not sure what the solution is.

[@ikjon23]

THIS!!! Education should be at least getting a bachelors because I do not want a dumb wife honestly. Someone who can think logically, with some sense and can understand things while thinking outside the box as well. Whatever us as men have going on in life, if we bring it home our wife can either add or subtract from it ( WHATEVER IT MAY BE).....I would rather have a wife that can add to whatever I bring to the table so we can eat together. Even in a small capacity, just cant have someone who is somewhat incompetent or unable to learn how to build wealth.

[@robertalston793]

You can have both...it just that marriage rates are going down, especially for Black women since only 1 out of 4 will get married. Also some black women stress education to the point it affects there ability to attract a mate. This happened to my Mother after her divorce from my father and she was still relatively young and the same applied to other women in my family. The issue really is not going to school but telling young Ladies you don't need no man just get your education. I have a 22 year old daughter and I want her to be independent but not to the point that she only looks at a man just from a financial standpoint and that's how a lot of educated Black women think. There is nothing wrong with making money but we as Black people have to keep everything in perspective.

[@robertalston793]

@untibrow I never said that women need to depend on men. I don't know what you were reading. Please clarify what specifically in my statement that you are talking about. Have a nice day

[@robertalston793]

@untibrow only to a person with no Logic. Read the statement !

[@kelleigh-zg8nv]

@@ikjon23 Having a bachelor's degree doesn't guarantee being smart.

[@mariobalotelli2410]

At midlife, between a third and a half of all successful career women in the United States do not have children. 33% of such women (business executives, doctors, lawyers, academics, and the like) in the 41 to 55 age bracket are childless and that figure rises to 42% in corporate America. These women have not chosen to remain childless. The vast majority, in fact, yearn for children. some have gone to extraordinary lengths to bring a baby into their lives. They subject themselves to complex medical procedures, shell out tens of thousands of dollars, and derail their careers mostly to no avail, because these efforts come too late. the typical high achieving woman childless at midlife has not made a choice but a “creeping nonchoice.”

[@permanentmarkingkid4529]

Ok...how? Explain the presented argument.

[@LukaDonesnitch]

Not me I didn’t want know damn kids & all my friends don’t want any either. Stop trying to tell me what I should do... I’m a strong black queen. Like Beyoncé or Oprah or Serena. I don’t need no man, I don’t need no child either I just need my home girls and some cats. I’m a boss & a PHD These men are spoiled and bad.

[@vanessaroper3028]

I've seen documentaries on this, they spend even 100k on IVF trials. Some with their frozen eggs after many years are no longer usable. And if they do manage one child, the autistic rate is very high. They also have higher probably of miscarriages! Why subject yourself to that when at a younger age it's much easier to reproduce. You can build your career later

[@astoldbycurlyd]

Man, I Just Work Here stay happy if it’s working.

[@yasmeen7875]

@Roy_Thousand And in some cases, a husband 😊.

[@egeorge4097]

Need to stop drinking so much red bull man for real for real; its not good for the heart........

[@joyl3926]

He gonna drop dead from arrhythmia soon if he doesn't stop!

[@RaathloveTV-u5m]

I agree. Drink a lot of water and juice or tea..

[@BklynBabe]

He might want to get married before he dies alone...🤷🏾‍♀️

[@petepistol6403]

@@BklynBabe you funny...lol

[@blackonyxtv823]

@F A His teeth are already beige.

[@commonman80]

I'm The Generation BEFORE Her.. And, I'm Telling Her.. The Generation Of Women Before Her? Were Lied To... I Grew Up In The Late 1970's Early 80's.. And, Over 80% Of The Women On My Facebook Page? ARE SINGLE... These Are Sisters... I Wish I Could Show Some Of These Sisters My Facebook Page... What They Would Be Looking At On My Facebook Page? IS THEIR FUTURE... They Made The Money From Working.. But? They're Dying ALONE.. This Is 100% Fact... Sad? But True.. Jus Sayin.. Yep...

[@jazzyj5236]

That leather jacket got me itching to update my wardrobe with another jacket.

[@handlebusiness9322]

That’s not real leather

[@amandaslay6045]

Since Kevin has a college aged daughter, I would like to know what track she is on right now. Does she go against what you are teaching? Or on board?

[@Thewiseone124]

He will almost never talk about his personal life.He has said this before. He has boundaries

[@TheDCGuitar13]

Dean Harrington yea but Amanda’s “need to be right” doesn’t have boundaries.

[@amandaslay6045]

@@TheDCGuitar13 I can't recall when we met. Can you remind me?

[@yasmeen7875]

I'm sure she can see past his suits and loud "perfume" and know that a black woman need a career. Living her life without black men putting all kinds of demands and stipulations on her.

[@jayb1911]

@@yasmeen7875 why are you even here ma'am...lol, if you're so happy with your Mexican...or whatever he is, go be with him in peace, lol, you just came in this space to bash black men???😂

[@Timoteo4]

I think when women first started going to college a few generations ago, their parents sent them almost for the sole purpose of finding their husband there. Then women starting going in larger numbers, with the goal of entering the workforce, but STILL finding a husband. At some point, it became more about building a career at the expense of marriage and children. I graduated college in the mid-80's, and within my circle of close friends, two couples married shortly after college after meeting a dating throughout our time in school, and I two other women I knew married shortly after college to guys they didn't meet in school. It didn't prevent any of them from having children or pursuing the jobs in professions they wanted. But now women are also pursuing more advanced degrees, staying in school longer.

[@acgotit87]

Good show Kevin 💯

[@nkrumansantos1794]

One thing I saw in the second woman: she sounds happy even being divorced. She understood her purpose in life. She understands that taking care of her daughters and son in law and her future grandchildren she will never be out of purpose even if she never gets married again. This is a real Woman of Service - that speaks through her actions. And again... She sounds happy.

[@yasmeen7875]

Nah, the husband is happier. He has freedom. He's not saddled with living for others, he lives for himself. I'm a mother of 2 biological children, and 5 adopted children. I'd be damned if they are what gives me purpose. I give myself purpose. They give me enjoyment, but my purpose comes from within. I'm happy with them, but when I'm alone, I'm still happy 😊.

[@shawneelawrence3643]

You look good Kevin!

[@abab9622]

PhD’s (if that’s what’s singularly achieved) make the least amount of money. It’s nothing but a research degree its not clinical based. A Doctorate (clinical- professional degree) is far more valuable.

[@Century2008]

It is written, " So shall man thinketh, so shall he become" So since this women believes it is worth being alone, so shall she be alone, and cannot blame anyone for her thoughts as much as she may complain. She has manifest her own condition and no one can change it for her. Not too mentioned foolish pride in the face of defeat.

[@dredugan6893]

Great show Godfather!! Short sweet and to the point... Now it's time for candy red bull and condoms lol. Have a safe and blessed trip!!

[@earthreign]

I'm so proud of KS..solid man right there.

[@FeelJas]

Can someone please help me understand this concept. Married women still have to work to pay substantial bills unless you’re a 9 or 10. What jobs and education levels are acceptable for women if degrees are frowned upon?

[@dewaynesoulheart342]

Im 37m, every female i dated with higher education was broke, lived with their parents, had no career, couldn't keep a job, made less money, moved in with me, i dumped them all but they all thought they were better. It's nice to get a im sorry a kid or two, 2-3 years later. I'd love to meet the good men complainers but i never do...... You ladies avoid us almost on purpose.

[@dewaynesoulheart342]

And i just want to say i could call any of them today and most of them would be with me now.....

[@SolarLove7]

I honestly don't get it because there are men who will call you a bum, nothing, gold digger, or look at you as less than because you don't have a career or secured funds, women can't win for nothing. I've been in that position before with a man who was 6 yrs older than me which is why I went back to college after dropping out.

[@riprpmike1433]

Its the men you're choosing. Or you waited til after you had kids to submit. It depends on the woman. If she's a single mom, then yeah....she should have something with all the help women get.

[@SolarLove7]

@@riprpmike1433 who said anything about kids? I don’t fit into that category. & “it’s the men you’re choosing” is always the default answer that ppl choose to respond with but that isn’t the case.

[@riprpmike1433]

@@SolarLove7 most men don't call women bums. That's a very specific group of men. You said yourself you don't get it. So you don't know what the case is.

[@riprpmike1433]

@@SolarLove7 I said something about kids cuz it matters. Women just expect a man to take care of their mistakes. So not only will he be taking care of you...but taking care of children that aren't his. And children are expensive. So it does matter.

[@blackbutterfly233ify]

@@riprpmike1433 you OBVIOUSLY don't get out much if you really think men don't call women less than, bums or gold diggers

[@kundanlini1]

Straight Nupe right here yo yo

[@splizot]

What is the name of that song in the intro? That shit clean mayne. 👀👍🏿🔥

[@Warrior.king300]

Ima PHD WOOF WOOF 😂😂😂😂😂

[@jeffreywhitlock4882]

I do know 2 women who were able to get married in their early 40s. I know it is rare. Both are attorneys.

[@PragmaticProminence]

Probably your most level headed caller you should of gave her more credit

[@brandoncarroll9155]

“YEPPPP”😂😂😂😂😂

[@foodforthought8869]

When did doing something constructive and educating yourself to make a better life for yourself and possibly for children you are left to look after and support yourself become a bad thing, something to be criticized for and ridiculed for by a man (a leader) in your own race and community?

[@doboi8121]

you a single mom?

[@napthali1797]

Blessings , Peace, and Prosperity Welcome To The Naked Truth Zone.

[@commonman80]

I'll Put It This Way.. I'm Almost 60 Years Old.. That's Youth That I Can Never Get Back.. We're/I'm At The Age When We Start Dying/Dropping Off.. I Lost THREE HIGH SCHOOL FRIENDS In One Week This Past Year... ALL OF THEM Died Alone Without A Mate... Life Is No Game.. And? Because Of COVID-19? I Couldn't Even Go To Their Funerals.. This Is Real.. One Doesn't Realize It? Until It's Way To Late... Jus Sayin.. Yep...

[@keishafarrell8517]

Doesn't matter the person's age what God have in store for that person he or she will receive no man can stop that blessing.😉

[@PriyankaGupta-ew1li]

💓🤗

[@mama2flythesidehustlequeen164]

Amen!

[@thesaintsification]

My CDL and math degree says hi.

[@jayb1911]

Same, CDL and History/Political science degree

[@realitygamedesign]

That's a dope jacket.

[@OwolabbyAzeez]

A woman gets 70 cents for every dollar a man makes, but they make it up on the back end during divorce 😅🤧

[@AJweathersby]

Women with a comparable number of years, exp, and skills to their male counterparts actually outearn men. That 70 cent myth has been repeatedly debunked. Even diehard devote feminist are backing off repeating that talking point

[@V00d00-Child]

Wow! Mind-opening way to look at the situation.

[@mrunstoppable6711]

The wage gap is a myth that’s been debunked over and over. Any disparities in pay are due to the choices women make in the work force.

[@TheShowOff2I]

That’s because women have the option to sleep with her Male Boss and get a promotion immediately

[@AJweathersby]

Broner I used to always get irritated at how so many women would look at the top 10-20% of men and genuinely believe that all/most men around the world have the option to have 3-4 women in rotation and be flying out IG models to exotic dates like those top guys, when in reality most guys struggle to even get laid on a consistent basis by average and below-average looking woman. But now I see that men are just as bad about making the same kind of assumptions with women. Most of these women struggle to even get dates and couldn’t actively seduce a guy to save their lives. It’s only those top 10-20 that can sleep their way up the corporate ladder or get flown out by rich dudes.

[@Century2008]

Oprah! no one loves me, that is why I eat so much.

[@lisacox3750]

Oprah doesn't care. She makes plenty of money to not care about what others think. Oprah is at a point she doesn't have to seek validation from anyone. Most women will never get to where Oprah is (as far as not caring about marriage and children).

[@Century2008]

You know as far as Physic degrees goes, at one company I worked, training was challenging and even though I scored high to get the position, their was one women who aced it. But once in the field she quit because the pressure was too much to bare. Just because you have a degree does not grant the priviledge to succeed. Many women change or fail at the profession once having to put it test in real life. Some even fake it just to get the name on the door and the public suffer as a result. Egotistic ambition at best.

[@picassowilliams7146]

Kevin don’t cut corners..it’s str8 game..jewels..

[@paulholsey2754]

Love your show brother. I’m 51, and yourself and I are mature men. We create a lot gas 😃 ginger candy or tea will help with those burps. Just sharing a suggestion

[@mazd9853]

It’s the redbulls lol

[@g-tunez100]

you got to respect a man who can sip a Red Bull and place it back in the same exact spot

[@marcusgarvey630]

If that's how I earn respect you set the bar pretty low

[@yasmeen7875]

That's all it takes? SMH

[@christopherblake2588]

Y’all ain’t pay the super chat? Why was this video so short?

[@christopherblake2588]

Skarra Baines I was on my way 😂🤣🤣, I got him next time. I need some perspective on some things, might have to book a session. 🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️

[@1234erica56789]

Forgive me if there is something I may have misunderstood. If the recommendation is for women to find marriage potentials in college (if they go.) While the recommendation for men is to wait until they are developed within their careers i.e. 30-35. Where do these two ppl meet in the middle?

[@mariobalotelli2410]

XANTHIPE EB your future husband is in college.. He's the good smart guy in your class. Is your job to study his character, intellect and if he's going to be a good father for your future kids. Bill gates met his wife in college Mark zuckerberg met his wife in college The multiple million dollar future husband is in your college. Is your job to find him 👸🏿❤️

[@1234erica56789]

The Queen of Sheba Thank you for that. I guess my question was more so geared to the fact that their are no 30-35 year olds in college.... There are men my age but by Mr. samuels explanation they are not to be focused on marriage. How do I, a 20 year old college student, meet this 30 year old man at college?

[@mariobalotelli2410]

XANTHIPE EB oh, 20yo women in her prime can get any very financially successful 35 yo man. The thing is how many of these men are marriage minded because a lot of them are in relationships just for sxx.

[@missNCW]

@@mariobalotelli2410 you talk nonsense as if you know who's in every woman's college. Speak for yourself.

[@missNCW]

@@mariobalotelli2410 guessing you're married to a bill gates or a mark Zuckerberg. Wait you're not but yet you're using 2 of the richest men in the world as examples to prove you are guaranteeing EVERY woman can find a husband, a billionaire and a good man, as a husband at that

[@chazaqjudah8808]

Da Godfather 💯...

[@diamondnova7598]

Does anyone know what video/call in that PhD clip originated from? Was it from his show?

[@sicariiavantgarde1873]

From the show but don’t recall the episode. Hella funny tho. She really said that when he asked about her husband.

[@FalaqX]

It's from the "Men are the prize/ Ph-Inish Them" Episode. @ the 57:33 mark.

[@kellytetterton1205]

I married first, then degree. Job, not a career.

[@MelodeusForever]

I believe if you're going after something that isn't what you truly want, you will more than likely be unhappy. In terms of relationships vs financial happiness, it's not always the idea if it's said that money and education will make you happy per se, but the idea lots of times is that you'd probably fair better having your own instead of putting all of it on finding someone to make you happy. There is a little idea (BIG Idea in actuality) that you aren't guaranteed love in this life. Depending on your upbringing and the network surrounding you, you may fair better but more than likely, marriage and building a network may come with a sacrifice and that could be love. So what is really important to you? In these chats, I have not heard not once, God brought up as if it's all in our own hands. Yes! we can make better choices in life and if we have great examples, we probably would fair better but not everyone will be successful at obtaining what they want. That's the crap shoot in my opinion.

[@votexceo]

R.i.p kevin you are still missed dearly

[@trastradamus]

Kevin you have the best content in all of you tube.

[@kellyfontes7757]

Add a link to those frames.

[@jaquineali-el1797]

Lol paralegal is a job not a career beloved 🤦🏾‍♂️ always proving his point

[@lifeventures6651]

That is inaccurate. I’m an attorney and paralegals working for us have a career. You must go to school for it and be certified in our office. The average paralegal makes 45k in our city. It’s just not a high paying career obviously. Now if you’re an administrative assistant, receptionist, etc. in a law office, that is a job that requires minimal skills and no degree. Lawyers hold paralegals highly responsible for their job. It is no small feat. I had to say something because they are an integral part of our business. My husband is also a lawyer who has a paralegal. They could not do their job without above average skills.

[@yasmeen7875]

@@lifeventures6651 Thank you 👏!

[@jaquineali-el1797]

Life Ventures thats not a lucrative career in this space we speaking about how value situations at 45k a year there is no way your attracting a high value man nor was that a smart investment you actually would come out in the negative. If your passionate about law go to law school but she isn’t because if she was 3 or 4 years wouldn’t matter. That alone is a red flag I don’t want a woman who settles.

[@radamez85]

Where do you get these statistics from, Kevin?

[@radamez85]

Toni do you remember the website?

[@H1GHD3FF]

Either CDC or Blackdemographic

[@Will008]

This man just broke down how the wickness of feminism destroys a woman. Very well said.

[@shanikajones2171]

No it doesn't

[@Will008]

@@shanikajones2171 Yes, it does.

[@shanikajones2171]

@@Will008 sorry no

[@Will008]

@@shanikajones2171 Absolutely.. its does.

[@shanikajones2171]

@@Will008 so women having rigths destroys a female

[@emilton0548]

PhD wap

[@johnsondailysports1341]

I met a woman who majored in Engineering. I need to wife her lol

[@AmberRechee]

💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💯

[@ankhenaten2]

"Getting married tomorrow" and i am going to pluto tomorrow

[@stevendunn2501]

What's the name of the song playing in the beginning?

[@mohamedblasse999]

Get the Godfathers likes up mayne. 👍👍👍👍👍👍

[@luxuryedition78]

What’s the name of the song and the artist starting at 3:14?!

[@chellez29]

1. Doesn't feel like it sometime though🤣

[@perrystanislas948]

The amount of professional black women who are sad behind all that ra ra public personae and they are experts at filling that hole in their lives because it appears to me they are scared to stand still. They would have to think and reflect and that scares them. I been out with enough of them for me to see through that bullshit.

[@user-vy9tf4wn1o]

Some heroes wear capes, Kevin wears a leather café racer jacket

[@joyl3926]

He is definitely no hero. Mediocre speaker at best

[@Yunche17]

Idk about Kevin being a hero lol but I don’t think you meant that literally 😂

[@enochmontufar2485]

Now I get why Mr. Samuel's is a high value man because RedBull gives him wings to reach up there. lol

[@mgtowj4195]

What's the name of the song and artist at the beginning?

[@dec2567]

The women nowadays have the i can do bad all by myself attitude. Welp good luck. 👍

[@LateefReid-mc5up]

Most of the callers are the types of women who have jobs that they are not even passionate about and can’t even have an interesting conversation about, but ask YOU 20 questions about YOUR job. In college debt for a job they don’t even like.

[@LatiWins]

Yes

[@cancerjourneybiggboss6426]

So true

[@bensisko-theemissary4940]

It’s not the degree they’re really after. What they really want is that time to ride the CC. Everything else is just make believe.

[@daxterclark5092]

i am from NYC....do not make this your home,bro...too expensive ...eventually once i retire...i am out of here...

[@bobbybooshay5854]

There is an opportunity cost to every decision made in this life.

[@MsKLTC]

Hey Kevin! 👋🏾