Storytime: Words do Hurt

[@natural7644]

Your right!..i agree!..& this was a great, informative and very valuable mssg!

[@LadyNyca]

+Natural 76 Thank you 💙💙💙

[@tinkerbellsfairydust165]

I love story time you are a great story teller.

[@tamikadavison]

great video and excellent topic.

[@allycat3311]

good story

[@LadyNyca]

+Spam Burger Thanks

[@EASTERBUNNY17]

#Inspired #Inspiration #Encouraged 👏💜✨😘🌈💜

[@LadyNyca]

💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

[@sherryparkman7635]

LADY 😎 NYCA YOU ARE RIGHT YOU CAN'T SAY EVERYTHING TO EVERYONE. SOMETHING'S WE CAN SAY TO EACH OTHER WHERE OTHERS CANNOT. THAT JUST HOW IT IS. LOVE YOUR COMMENTARY YOU ARE A WARM AND LOVING PERSON. AND LADY NYCA ANY WHITE WOMAN THAT WANTS A BLACK MAN SHE IS WELCOME TO HIM.KEEP UP GOOD WORK!!!

[@LadyNyca]

Thank you 💜💜

[@EASTERBUNNY17]

I'm so proud that you got out of your comfort zone to show your transparency to speak everything on you mind. You are an inspiration Sis, we love you Nyca👏💜💃✨😘

[@LadyNyca]

Heyyy Mia 💜💜💜 Thank you sis.

[@breesbonnets6798]

Hey Auntie, you have been a woman of your word with these videos coming out so close together!... Just like old times. We are definitely enjoying the content and I wanted to compliment you on that lipstick you have worn in the last few videos. I love it!!!.... Slay it Auntie:)

[@LadyNyca]

+MrsJ 972 Thank you love.

[@JusSheila]

Yes, I was checking it out myself. I love the shade for fall.

[@LadyNyca]

+sheila ohsheilz Its Maybelline #50 Possessed Plum matte.

[@Mleekascreation]

tfs your story time you know it always one negative person in the bunch. Be Blessed

[@LadyNyca]

+Dani Jackson It sure is. Thanks love.

[@reneemoore7927]

Lady Nyca,girl keep the good work as you no this is you're calling.. God keep you and your family close to the cross stay strong and keep the faith

[@MzBreBeauty]

Being a young person. Only 20 years old I'm use to saying it. I feel comfortable saying it knowing the history, as well feeling confident when saying it. To me its a word of endearment for us . As a young generation, many of us say it in a good way, not all of us. I actually hate the idea of if you can say we should to.

[@LadyNyca]

+MzBre It's an ugly word it took me years and several experiences later to see it but I do and im reprogramming myself to never use it.

[@mzhogg]

Love your storytime

[@annacobbs4717]

This is another Ms. Anna I truly enjoy this Storytimea video. And yes I agree that the N word is to never to be used. I've seen many of other ethnic groups calling each other the N word thinking it cool. My question is when is it ever okay to put yourself or others down? It is a nasty word to demean or. try to degrade make less than. Just making satan happy. IJS.

[@LadyNyca]

+Anna Cobbs Fully agree and thanks for stopping by.

[@sonysgirl6301]

I think that word should not be spoken out of any persons mouth. I'm white as white can be. Some people of my race, I'm truly disgusted of what comes out of their mouth. I'm first generation American. My back ground is Sicilian/Italian. I love your channel and glad you are coming back to story time. If someone would take our skins off, we are all the same inside. The only problem is some are good and some are evil people inside. People just don't respect people anymore😔love ya Lady Nyca🌹

[@typope8340]

i agree with you I don't think anyone should use that word even if someone is your close friend of a different race they should not use that word

[@LadyNyca]

+ty Pope No we shouldn't and now I see that I work hard to not say it.

[@JUSTREADMYBOOK1]

I was sitting here thinking, " Nyca PLEASE don't say you showed out at the schoolhouse field day ".

[@LadyNyca]

+JUSTREADMYBOOK1 Lol no Rah not that time but I did at my daughter homecoming dance ROTFL. I gotta tell you abt that and if you handle it well I'll tell it on youtube. Chile I was so mad I tried to fight everybody smh.

[@LadyNyca]

+redfeathergotti reviews Lol

[@thematrix496]

It's story time!! Its peanut butter, jelly time!!

[@LadyNyca]

+Lynn Lynn Lol thanks love.

[@glamdolly30]

Cute!

[@JUSTREADMYBOOK1]

Girl you said, " Britches ". You gave me flashbacks to when I first came to N.C. I didn't know what in the heck britches were,lol ! I had heard the term, " Too big for your britches " but I just thought that meant you thought you were grown. Thanks for the memory. I had good thoughts come back to me.

[@kells881]

New fan here & I am late obviously on this one, but it still deserves a comment. While I understand your feelings( I have much respect for anyone who, like myself will not hesitate to put someone in check, one way or the other by way) as a black strong gay man who has a really bad temper, my dad use to say to me, that words only have power when you give it to them. It took me a while to understand that because I would beat the hell out of people if they said something wrong to me. Since he’s been gone ( he passed 11 years ago now) I learned to walk away from stuff, because what someone says means nothing to me. I can be anything under the sun, as long as you don’t put your hands on me. I also found out, that by me not letting people get under my skin, it kinda leaves them speechless & looking dumb.

[@LadyNyca]

+kells881 That it does💯💯💯💯 Your dad prepared you for this life of unhappy ppl wishing to invite you to join them.

[@KeldrickC]

Silver handcuffs!!! DONE!! LOL

[@LadyNyca]

+keldrick crowder Lol the most expensive jewelry you can get .

[@KeldrickC]

TOO EXPENSIVE!!!

[@LadyNyca]

+keldrick crowder Trust me I know all to well lmao!

[@africanqueen2812]

That word was used to describe a black person during slavery as non productive, lazy, and having ways that are not acceptable to mainstream society. If we continue to use that word, then we continue to feed into the old stereotype thinking that other groups of people think about us. Since every word today have to be politically correct, that word definitely should be one of the words that should not be used. It is very disrespectful to use that word, even among friends. Whenever a person uses that word, it only signifies to me that they lack a certain level of education. Yes, I am talking about the N word.

[@LadyNyca]

Well you right about the meaning and you might be even correct about everybody not using it. I'm just not there yet I do slip up at times but I also know I'm intelligent maybe ignorant to how it may make us look but definitely not low intelligence. I'm still a work in progress and thank you for watching.

[@tiffiebaebee]

Hey Auntie. Love n hugs. I hope all is well.

[@LadyNyca]

+MochaLove 80 Love n hugs back love I'm very well ❤❤

[@breesbonnets6798]

"These tires hot Bish"....Lol!!!!

[@qyxxone]

I use the n word but you best believe it is not a compliment when I use it, either to describe a person or situation. I don't feel that any non-black person should ever use that word, under any circumstances. I really like your story times as well. Go on and talk about whatever goes across your mind on FSF!

[@LadyNyca]

+ebony isis See me too I know I shouldn't either but it seems more disrespectful when non blacks say it. Thanks for watching and understanding I really feel strongly on this.

[@gabrieladerre2862]

I'm late to the conversation, but I've made up my mind that I'm going to be watching most, or all of your videos, so I will be commenting on a lot of them, I don't expect you to reply to all my comments, although I know, and appreciate, that you are good at replying to our comments! Which I think is awesome of you to do! :) Now, as for this video, I will throw my two cents in on this matter.... It is not okay for people who aren't of African descent to use the "n-word." I don't care what the circumstances are! I have dated outside of my race a number of times. I have friends who are people of color, and most of my non-white friends are black. AND I also come from a large, wonderful, close-knit family, and I am happy to say that my family, blood-relation, marriage relation, or even the relation that comes from deep, real bonds of love and loyalty, and my immediate family includes black and mixed people! Even with all of that, I still would never call anyone that awful word! Nor do I use other hateful, racist terms. I can say in full truth that I don't have a racist cell in my body! I hate it, and find it painful, upsetting, and beyond my understanding as to why that's not the case for every one..

[@essenceoftisha7221]

I love you and your story time videos you keep it real, your blunt and upfront, I do think that we should work on not using the N word, with each other or allowing other races to call us that, we lead by example

[@LadyNyca]

+Essence OF Tisha I agree that's why I'm doing my best to let the word go and thank you I appreciate the kind words.

[@JusSheila]

Yes, I totally agree. I really don't think we as black people should use the word towards each other in any form, as well as other races. Why keep utilizing a term against one another that we as black people were referred to before, during and after slavery? It makes no sense. Furthermore how can we expect other races, primarily whites, to abstain from calling us the n word when we are still referring to each other as such? To me, it sends the message we are still stuck on stupid and/or think of ourselves as just that, the n word. That's my take. Oh and I don't have any white friends just associates but even if we are cool, they know better to play with me like that.

[@LadyNyca]

+sheila ohsheilz Thank you that's how I see it now and im guilty of doing it but now im seeing it differently I'm trying to stay conscious of it to not say it. I definitely do feel its OK for whites to say it. Thanks for watching.

[@tinkerbellsfairydust165]

Under no circumstance should anyone be called the N word. I think it odd that persons of color address each other in that manner. I have never felt comfortable enough with anyone to call them that.

[@tinkerbellsfairydust165]

No white people should not use that word ever.

[@Only1RiaRia]

we all need to stop using it but I've noticed that a lot of black MEN (younger men) don't have a problem with white females using the word. Which they SHOULD!

[@glamdolly30]

I agree, I just hate the N word - I can't even bring myself to write it here. I'm white and I don't understand why I sometimes hear black people using it in casual conversation. Can anyone explain this to me? To me it is such an ugly and disrespectful term.

[@glamdolly30]

Oh, so its used like 'fool'? Thanks for explaining. I wish it would totally drop out of fashion, I wonder if the kids who say it are aware of its horrible history and origins, maybe then it would?

[@LadyNyca]

+glamdolly20 Exactly

[@LadyNyca]

+gui goity Yep

[@LadyNyca]

+glamdolly20 Sometimes black say nigga as a way of enforcing what they are talking about other times its an insult.

[@tinkerbellsfairydust165]

Oh,hell no he didn't.

[@markshelton3121]

Great video Ms. Nyca. I think all of us should stop using the word nigga including us black people cuz it's a very offensive term and I don't like it when people use the term so loosely, especially in my generation. That was totally uncalled for for what that white man said to y'all and I don't blame you for getting upset cuz I woulda been in my feelings too.

[@LadyNyca]

+Mark Shelton Now you right Mark no one should use that not even black people. I pledge to rid it out my vocabulary bc we must be the change we want to see. Thanks for watching.

[@markshelton3121]

Lady Nyca Exactly and you're welcome :)

[@amaruonline]

Fencing lessons...? Your kids are very lucky. I got judo lessons and basketball lessons instead and then later on in life I ditched them both and I convinced my mom that I wanted to learn how to play the piano. After just three lessons I quit and my mom was beyond pissed at me and she wanted to whoop dat azz, looolll :) Needless to say, I don't play the piano... Just the triangle, looolll :) Now about that word... I said this so many times and got attacked for it, but we as a people should not even refer to ourselves as such... And it kills me when people say it's a "term of endearment"... Endearment my ass...!

[@guigoity2836]

hey lady nyca i hope you are doing good, when are you going to do another video or story time

[@LadyNyca]

+gui goity Hey love I just did a storytime a few days ago not sure the next one will come. I'll upload tomorrow #Rhoa.

[@glamdolly30]

I hate the N word, I cannot even bring myself to type it here. I'm white and don't understand why some black people use the term in casual conversation. Its such an ugly, disrespectful term. I dislike any slang word that references a person's colour or ethnicity, we are all human beings so why are so many people hung up on race? I guess haters are always going to find a dumb excuse to hate. Great channel Lady Nyca, you speak a lot of sense!

[@LadyNyca]

+glamdolly20 Thank you love.

[@glamdolly30]

Oh and I just subscribed, loving your videos! X

[@LadyNyca]

+glamdolly20 Welcome to the family love and I always comment bk.

[@glamdolly30]

Wow, love it Lady Nyca - very classy! X

[@LadyNyca]

+glamdolly20 Thank you.

[@ElijaRodgers]

they sure do, how are you? we missed you at bradley's event

[@LadyNyca]

+Elija Rodgers I'm glad it was a success but I don't hang with no one anymore I'm solo dolo happily but if I'm in the area I got Fraink info I'll hit you up.

[@ElijaRodgers]

Lady Nyca definitely, we would love to hang out

[@ElijaRodgers]

Lady Nyca and i just made a youtube channel. can you subscribe? i would greatly appreciate it

[@LadyNyca]

+Elija Rodgers Yes I'll support for sure .

[@TheLifemission]

How did you get banned but he didn't ??

[@LadyNyca]

+TheLifemission bc I guess I got so upset I'm assuming bc I did get banned not sure abt him but I'm sure he didn't.

[@samwilson2102]

White Not Allowed!!!😠. Us 50:50!!😎

[@LadyNyca]

+sam Wilson Not sure what you are saying. Try again.

[@samwilson2102]

white folk, Not Allowed to say Nigg!! Black people 50-50 on saying the word. "NIGGA"

[@nylotisslaughter7385]

That word does hurt when I mother nationality use it not just white people Mexican people to I was at the service station one day and some young Mexican boys kept using the word it hurt me to my heart I was so embarrassed just to hear him say it because I say they not even black will give them the right to think that they can use the word and then they kept on use it they was singing some kind of song using it and just calling each other the word I said why are they calling each other that word and neither one of them are black I couldn't figure it out just saying

[@acajudi100]

your are 100 on this video. We have dealt with many men and women of allshades, acting like that father. i do not like any of the negatives names people are called based on their looks. stay blessed my play grandbaby. Thank you. google: Judi Grace Storycorps. google: Murders in Chicago. google: Heroin etc. deaths.

[@tightendsport]

"Nigga shit?"

[@LadyNyca]

+tightendsport Its a funny moment don't read to deep into it I'm not nor claim to be political correct. Have s great day.

[@ladybookworm1635]

I don't use it our parents didn't allow us to say it and they didn't use it they didn't cuss either. Other races SHOULD NOT use that N word!!!

[@syreetagamble]

lol