LAMH | Addressing Melody's Haters

Some people are using the cast to feed their appetite for dysfunction.
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[@amassinghealth]

Thanks so much for this commentary! I totally feel your sentiments. The audience is choosing to stick by those whom they relate to the most. A lot of bitter messy women who just want attention relate to Bettie and Wanda. Insecure girls who want the spotlight and easily become jealous relate most to Stormi and Tisha. Pick me(s) relate most to Kimmi, and women who just want to do the best they can, cut off toxicity, and focus on leveling up relate most to Melody. lol it’s so interesting seeing how people naturally choose cast members who mirror their lives as their favorite

[@mindoflilith]

FACTS!

[@marilynjohnson6298]

DITTO straight Facts💯💯💯

[@blessed9499]

@@mindoflilith okay, now I get it. I didn't listen to the entire content

[@edithperson104]

Oh my God do love your commentary every word you spoke is true. I love the way you broke it down. These people needs to stop the drama and you are right these people are not helping Melody but when you say that in a comment they come for you and to me that's not a Melody supporter I have never see Melody start drama. God bless you for your knowledge and the wonderful insight about the show❤

[@blessed9499]

They wanted to bully Mel in peace

[@SassyandSweet609]

Betty pretty much said this in the last episode. She said WhEN I GO ONLINE TO GO AGAINST MELODY…HER FOLLOWERS ATTACK ME. she then said I HAVE THE RIGHT TO ATTACK HER IF I DONT LIKE WHAT SHE IS DOING. As if others don’t have the right to speak against what BETTY IS DOING. SMH

[@OpulentAristocrat]

🎯🎯🎯

[@yahinas]

If you believe in physiognomy, Every single person looks like how they are! This cast would be a good study of this. I knew Tisha was slow and insecure, by how she looked. Then she stated it, regarding her speech. Marsau, cunning. Martel charming, Melody, sweet and spicy. Kimmie, a snake. The way she pokes her face out, when speaking, Mimics a snake to me. It’s subtle. Maurice, a goofy gaslighter. His entire face gives, I’m a liar, and I’ll try to make you go along with it.

[@UPPITYUNICORN]

You just made me a believer!

[@af8071]

Oh wow! Makes sense!! 😢

[@elainemalcolm8349]

Yahinas well said 👍👍🤝💯.

[@YesThereisHope]

Excellent observation!! This is beyond shameful!!!

[@mindoflilith]

Yes, I absolutely believe in physiognomy, lol. I used to study illustration, and a key component of character design is drawing the face/body/clothing to match the personality of the character. This is why some people are typecast to play certain roles because they look like archetypes.

[@nisaanajieb1174]

The point is that this show was supposed to be different. We have enough shows of fighting, adultery, fraud etc

[@sistahgurlspeaks7542]

And some ( not all ) content creators are too invested in these people that they don’t know in real life.

[@mslele2113]

The level of hatred from the cast is giving the producer is promoting it.

[@lynwill9946]

. I truly enjoy your commentaries. I became a subscriber because of your commentary specifically regarding Melody. Thank you.

[@lindastandberry8567]

Wanda and Betty has low self-esteem i seen women like them

[@dubyas4430]

I think alot of the audience may be disappointed in the cast for their imperfections. They were advertised and the facade they portray on the show was supposed to be inspirational; however, they have proven to be anything but that. I think if they were honest about their real true lives, the audience wouldn't be so critical, but here we are.

[@p9782]

💯

[@Thrivinlily]

“You are becoming what you attack” this is so true!

[@sistahgurlspeaks7542]

I have never in my life seen a show derail to this level and cause so much toxicity. This needs to be the last season. It has totally deviated from the original premise of the show. I like Mel’s business acumen and would like to see those types of story lines on the show. More goes on outside the show that has ran this show in the ground. I wish Mel continued business success, but this needs to end.

[@EMC1986Hobi]

They are tearing the Scott brothers down because they allowed their other brother to speak on Mel, her daughter and Miss Van. Why would anyone support or defens those people?

[@judahprincess305]

I Couldn’t have said it better.Im convinced it’s about personal gain from KZbin 🤑PERIOD ❗️❗️❗️❗️

[@nicolalargie3325]

I would really like to know what the Melometers did that was toxic?”

[@rocg9503]

I think you should rewatch:listen to the video. She said several times it’s not the melometers or the other fanbase. There are some on all sides who cause drama. A lot of it stems because our community relates to dramatic relationships, in enjoy rifts between one another.

[@pamscott7430]

Hi Lilith, Thank you for your commentary 😊😊

[@SMbutterfly333]

Betty actually reminds me of the Red Angry Bird!

[@floramercury]

At the end of the day the head of the snake is the people who has control over the show - they’re acting 🎭 and recording then showing it to the audience for the good or the bad

[@yahinas]

The observer is not separate from the observed.

[@Allday4you]

All I know is Martell don't like conflict with real men. He act all cool insure self.

[@QueenWeeza]

These are very complete humane dynamics, not easily resolved. You make it sound simple… how do we give anyone grace when constantly being attacked?

[@mindoflilith]

Prioritize what must be addressed over petty gossip. 99% of this fighting is over nothing. The remaining 1% of important issues should be brought to the cast.

[@mztazh08]

THANK YOU FOR YOUR COMMENTARY!! This is the most levelheaded person in this sector!

[@irenebey9741]

One thing, I'll address is, nobody is coming for Tisha's marriage, imo. But if Tisha can talk on others marriage, then she needs to be woman & deal with what she does to others. If the cast would've treated Melody like they wanted to be treated, this show would be #1 on all channels. Great commentary! ❤

[@pacinorules752]

Thanks MOL!!! ❤

[@trenapitts868]

THANK YOU!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@ranikarob281]

Even if I disagree with you, I usually understand your perspective. I don't understand what you're talking about today. Tisha & Marsau assisted Martell in financing his infidelity. They took action to assist in taking down a marriage, a family. It's not about being perfect. The cast has taken vicious action against her & the people wanted justice. What happens when people want justice? They gather. They protest. So the viewers who became Melometers "protested" online. Since when is protesting toxic? There are extremists everywhere. Some people go too far. Some even act like looters in the night who hijack a peaceful protest. The other side is not letting up. They continue to attack, from Bettie's own words, she attacks. What are we supposed to do? Lay down & watch? No, we defend. It's a cycle that they have to stop 1st.

[@rocg9503]

You answered your own question. She is talking about the extremists. Not your average fan who is simply supporting Melody.

[@mindoflilith]

What "justice?" Melody got her freedom, she's doing great financially, Martell seems to be under control now with the restraining order. "Justice" sounds like revenge to me, and this is why people think the fans are weaponized. What does "justice" look like, Tisha getting a divorce? Marsau losing his business? Who is going to be exacting this "justice?" Melody asked you all to get justice for her?

[@Sexychoclte215]

@@mindoflilith Marsau is losing his business due to his lawsuit with Zen Gardens and the fact that he put his business up as collateral and then fumbled the bag. That has nothing to do with the Melometers. Why u keep talking about Mel is not perfect. You must think she’s perfect so that’s y you keep repeating she’s not perfect. No 1 Evers said she was perfect but the haters👀👀👀👀😂😂😂😂♟️♟️♟️♟️

[@Scorpiyana]

I have to agree with this comment. Everything that has been happening to them, the melometers has NOTHING to do with ‼️ it’s a few people being messy airing their business but no one is going extreme except 1 or 2 CCs that’s actually going to establishments but people went to Kandi businesses & gave reviews & it was not a problem for RHOA fans. People go hard for Melody simply because no one else is in her corner and most of every one played a role in her heartbreak AND constantly attacking her. She’s not addressing these ppl for nothing, she’s tired too. No one is in her corner except her fan base whether they’re extreme or not. I never seen a black woman with this much support besides Beyoncé & I’m here for it 🤷🏽‍♀️❤️

[@irenebey9741]

I understand & agree with your commentary. Melody didn't ask anyone to get justice, or anything else. What they're accusing Melody's fanbase of doing, is exactly what they're doing & it's not right to get on a national platform & just focus on blaming Melody's fanbase! Great commentary! ❤😘

[@bougiequeen8261]

You are a very amazing young lady. Your insight is refreshing and greatly needed! Thank you for giving us “food for thought!”

[@mindoflilith]

You are so welcome!

[@marthagrant9897]

Queen Mel is CLASSIC ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Signe917]

Thank you MOL, per usual you’re spot on! I’ve also stepped back from LAMH for similar reasons. I have asked in the comment section in your earlier content: how can we as a people move forward with these types of black women in the community-as they each woman on this show represents a type of black woman that we see regularly…Unfortunately, I quickly came to the conclusion that we can’t move forward as long as we continue to enjoy destroying our community. I would still like to see your views on the impact of some of these themes that we see throughout the show. Thank you for your hard work. ❤

[@florabartee]

I agree!

[@crystaledwards7146]

You preached a word with this commentary, not everyone likes to see or hear the drama. I said it before and I will say it again some of the things the CC do under the guise of reporting info is too much and it seems to be ok until the shoe is put on the other foot.

[@Trish590]

I agree with everything you said. Mel is focused on her business and her children and everyone else should do the same. I see the viciousness the other cast members experience, but I also feel it’s a result of the audience witnessing the ongoing abuse of Mel. I think the entire cast can be a positive representation of black business owners, but their jealousy and hate for Mel is what I find jarring. I want to see Tisha, Destiny, Kimmie and Stormi win. The men ehhhhhh I don’t think any of them are any good tbh except Courtney.

[@p9782]

I definitely wish Stormie continued success. The others...the law of sowing and reaping prevails. No need to add to it.

[@charlahenry]

Great job 👍 I understand where you coming from, some focus on the facts that they are criminals etc, because they bring Up MELs Life and not their own, this is not what I signed up for, I stopped watching years ago, everyone isn't here for this mess, I don't do MESSY people, no new friends, I roll solo, I don't do toxicity period, but I agree with you 💯

[@wardley6010]

Great review and you’re 100% right about everything that you’re breaking down in this review

[@AlabasterLynn]

Well said and delivered MOL ❤ Grace and Space…

[@judahprincess305]

👏🏿 👏🏿 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿💖

[@RSVPwithLori]

I wholeheartedly agree

[@StartingFromExperience]

You never miss keep doing the lords work

[@blessed9499]

Can you do a video on the Scott's supporters and how vile they are

[@rocg9503]

You are literally asking her to do what she is asking for fans to not do. She isn’t coming for the melometers. She has stated clearly several times this isn’t about any fanbase more so some individuals who thrive off drama. That drama being from all sides.

[@blessed9499]

@rocg9503 oh yeah, bcuz we don't want to forget how the Scott fans bully innocent children, and u can't get any lower then that. It is crazy, I had a Scott fan come in my inbox and call me everything but a child of God for making a comment. I think Mel's fans came about bcuz they felt one woman was being bullied by the entire cast and their families

[@rocg9503]

@@blessed9499 do you think she is agreeing to this behavior? She is calling out any fan regardless of who they choose to be a fan of. This behavior is deplorable period.

[@blessed9499]

@rocg9503 all I heard was melometers then I clicked off so maybe my comment is not fully correct

[@rocg9503]

@@blessed9499 I don’t understand why people do that. They respond even though they haven’t listened to the message in its entirety.

[@reneedcohen140]

I wish we could build together once and for us yet, Our culture chaos continues…(.) Tha Devaluation is being televised 😢 y’all. Great commentary as Always 💜

[@Passion-po6dv]

Young lady, my dear that was refreshing 🤔it is my 1st visit here. Excellent points of consideration & lol a lot of this content truly resonates within me bcuz the ease in which black women can speak hate onto another black woman & double down on it based off 12 or so minutes of airtime & bcuz another cast mate ( hell even in day to day interactions) is their fav or more popular. Its disturbing & lets face it the original concept went out the window in 1st season when the 3d's hapoened "DISSOLVEMENT OF COME BACK GROUP" DIVORCE OF A MARRIAGE THAT WAS MISREPRESENTED AS THE BLUEPRINT FOR SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE" & THEN " DIVIDE, DESTROY & DENY ANY ACCOUNTABILITY.

[@marilynjohnson6298]

@Passion-po6dv. Absolutely, the only Black Excellence on there is Melody. Mel said she been a business woman ever since she left college @22 yrs old. A millionaire when she was 25, now she had to start all over again and God won’t let her fail cause she is favored by God.

[@marilynjohnson6298]

All Martel had to do was stop cheating and she gave him 5yrs. Now he is mad cause Mel is living the life she had with him and that’s what’s killing him. He underestimated Melody and knew her the best. He’s so glad she has children with him he don’t know what to do. I love you Lilth you are the first CC I ever listened to. 🌹❤️

[@jenniferrrogers2075]

Right, the only ppl that were arrested THIS year was Martell, Martell's brother Monte, Stormi, Destiny & Maurice .... Maurice just got arrested for a DUI earlier this month... Destiny was arrested in May & then again this month (June)... Stormi was arrested about 3 months ago ... & Martell and his brother was arrested in January this year ..... that's all... so, as far as the rest that were arrested years ago, there should be some Grace .... especially since they already served their time ... I agree

[@auntiel5301]

Melody has been divorced 4-5 years. Her friendship with Destiny the same. They keep throwing in her face, Martell, & Arionne. Destiny with the she wasn’t a good friend. This could be let go too!

[@ToniaAlex13]

Agree, start calling out the bad apples, if they present themselves as a Mel supporter. I have done this multiple times under comments where the action they talked abt didn't sit right with me...

[@ToniaAlex13]

I give myself breaks often from drama related content. My happy place is perfume vidoes...

[@OpulentAristocrat]

🩷🩷🩷.

[@CassandraChaPaul]

Powerful Commentary!

[@YesThereisHope]

🎯

[@marthagrant9897]

Dusty Destiny I am not feeling sorry for you ,Sunni must CLOSE DUSTY Destiny Mouth from Queen Mel. We want to know what really happened between DUSTY Destiny and her EX Husband we are still waiting because she always on our Queen Mel.

[@CC-ni6pl]

If any of the cast members feel Melody and her fans are toxic to the show, they can do one of two things. They can leave the show or they can all band together and go to Carlos King and tell him that Melody has got to go.

[@mslele2113]

Melody has no control of her fanbase. So should not have to leave anywhere.

[@ytaylor263]

Hello MOL, have you watched Family Empire Houston? If so what are your thoughts on selling the land and the family (sister-cousin) dynamic?

[@mindoflilith]

I saw the previews, it looks interesting. What season and episode are they on?

[@ytaylor263]

@@mindoflilith Season 1 Episode 1 so you haven't missed much. It is produced by Carlos King.

[@redrebel39]

Hi Lilith!❤ These people just like to fight it will never be Peace amongst them, because they thrive off of it. What’s really sad to me is people attacking people’s business. It’s just not that serious. What’s interesting is people don’t realize it comes back on them or their loved ones. I no longer watch anything regarding LAMH it’s too toxic. Your message Lilith is about healing and growth in which everyone can learn from it.

[@filmsuga92]

Melody has been cyberbullying many cast members, and she and her mother have been releasing information to the blogs. Since you haven't been keeping up, you've missed out on a lot of these events. I understand why Ms. Betty and Wanda reacted to Melody including her following (Melometers) bullying the cast. Just because she has 4 kids doesn’t mean anything when she’s doing horrible things behind the scenes. Allegedly. None of the cast members' followers have called up establishments to get products off the shelves, stalked them at their places of business/homes, talked badly about Melody’s children, released addresses to the blogs, etc., except for Melody and the Melometers, allegedly. What’s even more sad is that this behavior is coming from elders aged 50 to 64, which is the show's primary demographic audience.

[@mindoflilith]

I already mentioned this during my commentary, you need to listen this time. Both sides need to stop.

[@lizbethharrison1934]

Everything you just wrote is a lie. Mel has never come out and said anything about any cast. There is evidence that the cast and their families have always come for Mel.

[@lizbethharrison1934]

Show who the supporters are that are raging against the cast.

[@sweetastheycome]

@@lizbethharrison1934, they can’t show any proof. Marcella Speaks was just on her platform saying she was scared because Mel is threatening her and her husbsnd

[@filmsuga92]

@@lizbethharrison1934 nope evidence has been released and Melody and Melometers claims have been debunked. You can look it up. I don’t have to do it for you. Carry on!

[@cjoh-m6o]

I used to feel sorry for Meoldy because of the way she was treated in her marriage but I now see that she's a female version of Martell execpt she's smart and strategic and Martell is dumb. Both are sneaky, petty and vindictive. If Melody was a decent person, she would speak out against her fans trying to sabotage the businesses of her castmates but she condones their actions because she's just as toxic as her fans. She' is not innocent and she is complicit in the drama and toxicity.

[@mslele2113]

Melody has. And she's highlighted that people are people first so if they are negative people that will show up even if they label themselves Melometres. She said it live on YT. Stop with the false narratives.

[@rocg9503]

Melody is nothing like Martell. You state these insults with the only example is she won’t speak to fans. What fans of hers are sabotaging businesses? One so called KZbin reporter went to Stormi’s warehouse. She didn’t do that as a melometer. She has gone to several of the cast members whereabouts including to Melody’s court case. Instead of making blanket statements provide proof. We have proof of Martell’s deplorable ways.

[@ToniaAlex13]

Melody should speak to her fan base, but Tisha, the Scott's brothers and Stormie can't speak to their family? Make it make sense. Mark scott posted suga mama a 4 year old child on his page along side a man that he insinuate was her father. Stormie mother was bashing mel before they joined the show, we all know wanda has never stopped derailing her and all said their family is grown and they can't tell them what to do.. But u want mel to tell other grown STRANGERS that she doesn't know what to do... 😂😂😂

[@INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-ha]

You're part of the problem. Mel HAS spoken to her followers and encouraged POSITIVITY. She does NOT condone harassment (like what she's been receiving from the cast). Nor does she condone bullying. She literally just cancelled a free event that she planned for her fans because some content creators were being messy and arguing...so, get your facts straight. Just Because YOU didn't personally see/hear Mel reprimand her fans, doesn't mean she never has. Fix yourself. 🙄

[@irenebey9741]

You're part of the problem! Ppl say & falsely accuse ppl without any facts or receipts. Be what you know & not what you heard!

[@nathalieaustin9159]

((((( 🎤 ))))

[@sistahgurlspeaks7542]

I have never in my life seen a show derail to this level and cause so much toxicity. This needs to be the last season. It had totally deviated from the original premise of the show. I like Mel’s business acumen and would like to see those types of story lines on the show. More goes on outside the show that has ran this show in the ground. I wish Mel continued business success, but this needs to end.