LAMH Commentary | DV Verdict: Is Martell Subconsciously Trying to Destroy His Life?

Martell seems to be doing everything in his power to end up like his father.
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[@propertybycrystal1]

In the court documents after Martel was denied full custody Mel has since filed for full custody with Martel having visitation but no over nights with him. I wonder how this will affect the custody case. I believe they go back to court in June. Although I don't care for Martel at all, it's still sad to see this man destroy his own life. The other thing that's strange to me is the number of women on social media blaming Mel for this.

[@ayingi3461]

They are male centered. The patriarchy does not teach society to hold men accountable.

[@mariahardy1201]

Birds of a feather.....

[@sharpowell6592]

He’s not even worth a teardrop of sympathy…sorry, not sorry!🤷🏽‍♀️

[@LBright4444]

I was also surprised (shocked) by how many black women were blaming Mel and I mean, blaming Mel for everything!

[@misty28882]

Exactly that's what I'm saying!!! 😡😡 That's some evil stuff

[@MSBLADE1970]

I truly believe that Martell is sabotaging his custody case. It's another way to blame Melody. He will then say that Melody had the kids taken from him. The dude is disturbed and refuse to get help.

[@realtalkwithproblj2004]

@msblade, Yes, exactly! He started the full custody situation, but didn't think Mel would fight back. He quickly realized he doesn't have any resources to fight, and no capacity to handle his full time. It's easy for him to blame Mel for everything! He is a walking contradiction.

[@sandraholifield6366]

Sleazy soul mates from the very pits of hell.. HoeTell and ColeSlop

[@roddaniels3499]

So what go mel

[@floramercury]

Anyone when faced with losing their family said we will get back together after three years if we get divorced, is from a different planet 🌎 - alien 👽

[@sdjames2580]

🤭

[@crystalpalms2183]

I remember that scene, even big hops told him he was delusional

[@cshopper1346]

Mel built a lot with him, he didn’t. Otherwise, he would have pickup and continued with new businesses, he didn’t because he can’t, he doesn’t know how to. All those years with Mel and he only played dress up and smiled beside her and got her accolades!

[@deehurford6891]

I’m sorry but I don’t think Maurice or Marsau give on fig about Martell. They just say what they need to say for the cameras and to appear that they are good guys

[@goodlife8044]

You are absolutely correct. How can they call Martell out on his behavior when they were out there cheating with him the whole time. Martell’s little bird started chirping that’s the only difference. That’s why Martell said “y’all have 20 women”. Allegedly

[@pamelanichols3122]

Ahaha...only they didnt get caught 😂 but truth told , I think Tisha is fakeing the funk ! Lmao cuz iam feeling shes doing a blind eye ! As quite as its kept !and gives him a pass .

[@goodlife8044]

@@pamelanichols3122 Tisha uses her marrish as a weapon against single women. She thinks she’s better because she is married. That’s her one thing she has on Mel (in her bird brain mind) . The gag is, no one in their right mind would want a marrish like hers. Marsau is so disrespectful to her.

[@LightBrownSugar]

I thing those two brothers were trying to do damage control for themselves. They sinew if Martell a was convicted, some things may come out about them.

[@tresboujay]

This right here nothing about those two is good or wise. They are just as bad if not worse than him. They just haven’t been exposed like Martell.

[@diannejordan681]

Martell doesn't know how to run any business.

[@jrock5911]

Arionne was to distribute it herself by creating a fake profile. On his instruction.

[@jaiyeolaolaribigbe6518]

She was probably trying to find a friend to help her do it so that it would not be traced to her IP address. Very wicked souls! 😮

[@selloanemahlatsi541]

Can you imagine admitting to a crime several times and then appealing the verdict when it comes back as guilty 🤯🤯🤯. It's just bizarre

[@sharpowell6592]

He’s such a dweeb that he doesn’t realize that appeals review court procedures; NOT failure to “have it your way “! He needs to visit Burger King 👑 if that’s your mentality. 🤪🤡🤡

[@angelenarobinson6745]

It's just foolish as hell.

[@candy9544]

Its is waste of time and money.

[@terrysingleton4129]

Martell said that the older men instructed him on how to cheat. He failed that test to. Stay blessed 🙌

[@blkwomenrinthebuilding]

The older men he was speaking to was Marsau and Maurice

[@sdjames2580]

🤭 can’t even cheat right!!

[@marilynjohnson6298]

She has already it in with the court that she want full custody of her children before he got convicted.

[@p9782]

He actually looks like his Father, just like him.

[@christinawatson6715]

The man he standing next to is his father?

[@angelafunkygemini]

Yes he does..

[@C.VEEJay]

​@@christinawatson6715Yep!

[@nappyscribe1987]

I think so too

[@OpulentAristocrat]

Beautiful commentary. Unfortunately, Martell is not ready to heal. Everyone is watching this train wreck unfold.

[@p9782]

Martell is still NOT broken enough, remains in utter denial, in desperate need of divine intervention. ANGRY he lost the high-life he became accustomed to with his power ex-wife. He'd rather blame his ex, tear her down no matter how badly he mame's his 4 children or Melody in the process. If he was truly repentant he'd focus within, starting with the man in the mirror, go back to Dr. Francis seek healing for HIMSELF. He probably approaching an early mid-life crises recognizing he's not getting any younger, time running out but that's simply not the truth. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 Those Scott dudes, IMO were jealous hoodlums and contributed greatly to him tearing his family apart. SMH

[@mariahardy1201]

Scott bros.....Divide & conquer! Except they haven't been able to conquer Mel.

[@639ONELOVE]

Mel tried to warn him about the Scotts. When Mel wanted to dissolve the 47-acre deal Martell was for it, but then the Scotts got in his ear, and he turned on Mel's decision. Or was it planned all along by the Scotts and Martell for their own agenda? I think it was the latter!

[@misty28882]

The Lord Jesus Christ is going to allow satan destroy him for the destruction of the flesh because he WILL NOT LEAVE HER ALONE AND STOP HIS ENABLERS TO STOP BULLYING HER!!!

[@jaiyeolaolaribigbe6518]

Especially Marsau, always ready to ​speak about Melody unkindly behind her back and undermine her wealthy mind and business acumen. A truly wicked soul. @@mariahardy1201

[@C.VEEJay]

​@@misty28882I am personally patiently awaiting that indeed!😊

[@frankjones861]

Martell has permanently destroyed himself he thought too much of himself It’s a fact Martell will continue destroying himself he has realized it’s to late to correct his wrong and it is unimaginable how Melody was treated now Martell is experiencing KARMA he must be payed back for what he’s done to Melody even now after being divorced Martell still is focused on hurting Melody. Martell he’s definitely lost he’s hopeless Martell will never in this lifetime or any other live the beautiful life he had married to Melody it’s over for Martell he getting exactly what he deserves I don’t fell sorry for him or have compassion he didn’t have any compassion when he abused Melody I pray GOD will continue blessing Melody protecting her & her kid from all harm providing for their need living a comfortable life becoming more successful.

[@NatashaC-wb6ok]

He had a spiritual contract with poverty, self sabotage plays a big part in those contracts

[@selloanemahlatsi541]

Powerful words

[@sdjames2580]

🤦🏽‍♀️ I felt every word!!

[@C.VEEJay]

ABSOLUTELY!

[@sscott504]

Martell could have turned everything around in his favor but he chose to stay aligned to a malignant character named Arionne...The women that men choose can either make or break them and she has broken him...just a parasite at this point

[@639ONELOVE]

He needs to be Angry at the bird! She is online mad because she knows when Martell sees her, it's on. She is the main reason Mel decided to press charges. She brought it up in the divorce hearing, so Martell was put on notice not to distribute, so I think she let it slide, but Arionne asking Karson to release the pic online left her no choice.

[@jaiyeolaolaribigbe6518]

His lack of disciple and accountability broke him, not Mel.

[@lisasprovidence4572]

Money he's making on LAMH is chump change and cannot maintain the lavish lifestyle he got used to while married to Melody. Looks are irrelevant (Martell isn't even the slightest bit attractive) when you don't have the ability to earn (still NO BUILDERS LICENSE TO DATE) and bring in consistent income outside of Reality TV.

[@C.VEEJay]

Amen!

[@marilynjohnson6298]

I don’t know if you know but Destiny has been in a relationship with Moses for 15yrs, 10 of those years he was married. He got divorced in 2019. Destiny was a side chick and she also got married and continued to sneak with him that her husband divorced her 3wks after his son was born and had a DNA test done on him. He didn’t start seeing Sunni until July of 2023 and was dating other woman. He had not seen Destiny for 5 mos and it was because she was traveling up and down the highway with Martel Holt. Sunni was her boss not her friend.

[@mindoflilith]

I hope Sunni knows what she's getting into, but I'm not surprised one bit about Moses.

[@marilynjohnson6298]

@@mindoflilith I hope so too. It’s a lot!!!!

[@reereep9334]

Your commentary is very good and good comparisons. You are right Mel had to protect herself physically and her peace. I pray Mel can keep the children in a good place mentally. I think he would have to serve his time, 12 months if he lose the appeal. Cast members will have to testify in a jury trial under oath. Whew Chile🤨🤨😶😶

[@sukashi7234]

I recall him saying that he was more aggressive than comfortable with the slaw

[@elainemalcolm8349]

Don't forget his brother is in jail for 🏧🏧🏧🏧 robbery 👁️👁️👀😳

[@msp9810]

Martel & HIS MOM was a part of the ATM theft when he was younger. Which is why he got fired from teaching.

[@bonniehummons-bogle8005]

Martell is Dangerousness

[@jaiyeolaolaribigbe6518]

MartHELL...A true joker with the pokerface while cheating for yearsssss... 😂😂😂😂😂

[@carolsheppard6741]

Abused by him and his side piece

[@angelafunkygemini]

Hoetell doesn't want to do the work.. its easier for him to be cruel and viscous..he is who he is🤔 and I don't think he wants to be in his children's lives, as much as he wants to keep tabs on Mel.. pathetic...

[@xtina__32]

I had to file a restraining order on my ex because he thought threatening me was going to intimidate me. Aww poor black man 😩🙃😭🤣🤣

[@fanniefanniemorton4788]

If the cast members have to testify he got one person on his side kimmie/Savannah he's a good guy and Nell a black man shouldn't be in jail but her black son is in and out he is a thief.🙋🤡

[@jaiyeolaolaribigbe6518]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@tangajTANG]

9:06 I agree! That is way he wants a jury trial since hearing he can not contact Melody. For him, that is pace the floor worthy.

[@tashacarolable]

IMO he’s unraveling because he has to return to the life from which he came with his tail between his legs because he is no longer what he had become with his X. He is constantly gloating over his X successes and therefore will do anything to drag her through the mud which he is caught up in. His EGO has become the host of his decision making. I don’t think he wants his Dad’s life I believe his ego propelled his fantasy of the millionaire with the many women. He loved being able to showboat to his family and friends. It was all a fantasy and now the mask is off and he is facing his reality and cannot handle it like a mature adult. He needs major therapy to tell you the truth I’m scared for his kids and their mother. He is a loose cannon.

[@Carmen-uy6km]

A cast member from that show has been arrested for fraud! 😮

[@mindoflilith]

I just saw, goodness gracious there's a lot going on in Huntsville.

[@marilynjohnson6298]

I am so glad Queen Lilth that I can listen to your commentary this time. I don’t know why it was so sped up on the other one. I have missed you and I love your video’s and perspective of Martel and Melody’s relationship cause you are always accurate, accurate, accurate.

[@mindoflilith]

Hey Marilyn, no worries, thank you for your support - and please don't call me Queen, I have not earned that title. 🤗

[@marilynjohnson6298]

@@mindoflilith only you would know but I see you as a very beautiful, informed, educated and kind Black Woman which imo a Queen possess.

[@sdjames2580]

He admitted to the RP crime on the CS interview at the 1:01:50 mark and yet he appeals the judgement to only possibly get time that won’t be suspended 😏

[@UPPITYUNICORN]

You put your whole foot in this!

[@nyberonawbc5187]

She lied to the whole world for that man,,, that’s how much she loved him…

[@zabrinamusic464]

MH also was living as if he’d get Mel and his family back within three years, now time past ALL bets are off in his head!

[@i_shirley_am]

He definitely a self saboteur. Thanks for the commentary.

[@geraldineglass180]

He sees his children as his property

[@angelafunkygemini]

I think at this time for their children's Mental and Physical Health, that Mel should have full Custody, and Hoetell should be able to see his children weekends once a month under supervision ONLY! Giving there choldren to become healthier, instead of this yoyo ab mental and physical turmoil.. its not fair to these children.. h3ll they don't even get a chance to absorb their sessions, if when they get back home Mel has to clean up the Mess! 😟🤨😔😪

[@tangajTANG]

7:17 Sorry to say, he didn't want it; he was doing what he saw as the way he needed, to fit into society. Melody had everything he didn't and he wanted to be seen equal to Melody and have society see her as lowly and vile as he is. There are so many twisted examples that are revealed; but some people refuse to see beyond the facade of his mastered charm. They measure him according to normal terms; while trying to understand how he could act the way he does. (See him to be according to the "pegs" his actions fit into reality) AS SOON as everyone see and deal with the real MarHell, everything will make sense. Melody groomed him to appear refined, that is what everyone accepts as MarHell. Does everyone see Miss Piggy as a pig? His grooming is similiar. The mind is powerful force, yet it can be deceived, if one is not grounded in truth. IMO

[@tangajTANG]

7:49 I agree there are some mental issues.

[@beverlygarraway]

He had a God fearing woman who blossomed whenever she set out to do something it turns to gold. Even his friend Destiny came for Melody and look at how her life is crumbling, coleslaw punishment is Martell, he will retaliate on her one day, when he loses everything, he still haven’t lost everything yet

[@LBright4444]

I just need to know that there are circles of men out here who are requiring the men in that circle to live at a higher calling. Male or female, we gotta require more of each other. Somebody got to have the balls to say you wrong.. STOP. If this is who you really are, we can’t be friends , because we don’t have the same values!!

[@C.VEEJay]

Many are called, only a few answer 😢.

[@elizebethwilliams9010]

I pray the court gives Me full custody and he get supervised visits. If the court doesn’t step in those kids could get hurt

[@happinesslane7402]

Finally someone summed Martell's illness up!!!

[@grodlip]

This commentary was so good. Martel is not the same person from season 1. When he was talking to the Scott brothers, the look that he was giving them; it was scary. He is definitely unfolding mentally, emotionally right before our eyes.

[@ladylucy8449]

Great commentary. The uncanningly accurate profile of father and son is powerful.

[@trisha1989]

I’m praying for Mel and the kids…Marty is in a dangerous place where he could do something to her and the kids…ppl don’t take dv seriously, not even the courts! I hope she’s able to move 🙏🏾

[@leaticethomas3266]

Martell did leave his marriage in better condition (financially) than most men. Mel knew that she was the brain in the marriage therefore she did not even ask him for child support. He is a very sick man who can’t get over being exposed as a failure and made to watch Mel continue to succeed.

[@joycemontgomery256]

Hotell wants sympathy and thinks he is being smart when he have no common sense , yes he can build homes that his craft, but Mel did the paperwork, read and explained the small print and read the blueprints, and document that's the reason she ran the office while he was out hoeing around with his tight a## suits on !! He was the "Man" yet out of all the successful women he could have cheated with, he got this bird brain ( IJS. ) Hotell can move on if he get help, get his life together his license,a job and leave Mel the "Hell alone ( IMO )

[@PrettyBrownEyezPBE]

Thanks! For another banger Lilith 💜👑 I love how you broke him and his entire generation down .. with love of course 💜

[@danielledavis9876]

I don't care about Martell, he is the lowest in the crab bucket. Martell will get his KARMA. I wish he would just go on with the paramour and leave her alone. He got what he wanted. Martell needs jail time, at least a year

[@danielledavis9876]

Sorry, but Martell is broke and lives from house to house. I know you don't follow him. He's in trouble about building without a licensed and didn't finish the work. Melody pays for those kids, not Martell. Martell is not going to learn until he's at the bottom bottom..JAIL

[@patriciapowell9371]

He's ALREADY been convicted of DV. The big dummy appealed and will lose again!

[@angelenarobinson6745]

Lilith, I wish Mel's attorneys could hear this commentary. You just broke Martells behavior down to the lowest terms. This man had everything but messed it all up because he needed to be in control and because of some tragedy that happened in his life and in his past that cause Martell to throw away a good life.

[@ProfessorMTeaches]

🔥💗💯👍Narcissists always hurt those closest to them

[@beverlybradshaw-reid6135]

Listening to your commentary after being bombarded with information from all over the place, is like a mind cleanse. There are so many ah ha moments that come from hearing your opinion. I actually have empathy for Martel now and I hope that he gets the help he needs not only for himself, but for Melody and the children’s sakes.

[@ChrisM-gi4eu]

Great commentary! You hit the nail on the head. He is DANGEROUS and needs help ASAP

[@elainemalcolm8349]

Somewhere in the Bible it says the sins of the parents revisit the children, and in plain view Martel apair omg.

[@Shaunieatl]

“Because he’s used to ratchet SHYT!” - A Word

[@Stacybaby949]

Wow, I didn’t know that. I watched episode 1,2 of season 8. And I listened to Martell really well. When Marsau and Maurice tried to talk to him , I noticed that his Mentality is of a kid, I’ll give him ( 18, 19) IMO. He’s lost and has a high level of insecurity and lives his life based on how he looks to the world. He wanted to cheat and have Melody in check because the Scott brothers did it and had their wives in denial ( in check). Pure example of egotistic behavior, trying to keep up with the “ guys” . Poor Baby . He’s loosing and doesn’t think so. He said the world knows Melody is No good , “ they no , they just want to hear themselves talk” Um um um. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Self sabotage and Just what you’re saying Generational Curse.

[@Ladyrolanda]

Mel is a high performer. Maybe that was too much for him to live up to. Oh well, Martel see ya ✌🏾

[@helena3631]

Most black women are with black men like this I know so many real life Melodys.. most don’t leave melody is 1 of 1

[@nyberonawbc5187]

💯%

[@nyberonawbc5187]

And she lied to the whole world for him.. that’s how much she loved that man…

[@geraldineglass180]

The sad part is even though he's losing the control over Mel he not going to let go of the reigns of his children and that' might be a problem. Love your commentary

[@cds2319]

WHEEW! Being a bum as Martell Holt in the 80’s, 90’s and early 2000’s is one thing…. But being a bum as Martell Holt from LAMH, former multi millionaire and former husband of Melody Rodgers is something else! 😂 I don’t know if it gets worse than being a FAMOUS BUM! Ooohhhhh, that’s tragic.

[@C.VEEJay]

Jail is Martell's destiny!

[@helena3631]

Just like his dad,brother and the rest of the men in his family he’s living out his generational curse

[@C.VEEJay]

@@helena3631 AND IS!

[@AngiebLee-to3zi]

Everything she saying is the truth Martell is horrible a narcissist a criminal a liar he's no good for no one's daughter not even his own daughters

[@2cdaphne]

❤ This was very well done and gave us a new perspective. Martell is a hot mess and needs much prayer. He really does not get it. ❤

[@qusan]

I don’t know if the judge will grant an appeal or a jury trial for a crime he has admitted to but the court date about custody is in June. I don’t see how he can win.

[@helena3631]

This the play Melody is doing she will win custody .. a conviction in DV is a red flag and he will lose custody

[@cherriecarruthers5962]

LAWD!! I agree with you 💯the thing about him that, I hate is he is allowing his sidekick and a hate group of people attack his family and see nothing wrong with their are doing he needs some serious professional help??

[@pacinorules752]

Thanks MOL

[@daniellepaylor2840]

You be breaking it down to a science sis!!!! Lilith Lamar

[@Csaint407]

Wow, excellent commentary. Listening to you is therapeutic. You broke it down so well. 👏🏽👏🏽

[@reneedcohen140]

Unfortunately, some people are born to be simply an example, a study of behavior that can enlighten others. I hope some positive changes unfold from this whole situation. Many, many, many (ALL) of your observations on your platform are empowering and therapeutic if persons are open to receiving (.) 💜

[@charlahenry]

You're absolutely Right , it's ALL making sense now, great breakdown, I do think jail will be his final Stop 🛑, he needs Help, he's angry, unhinged, delusional, crazy, I'm over him 😮

[@xdcrazy5142]

U broke that all the way down

[@MissThingChristine1510]

Excellent commentary. Say that‼️ Nobody cares if she cheated most people feel like you. If Mell cheated good for her. I however believe she like many women. Feels like revenge cheating is lowering her personal morals and standards.

[@Dee038]

We are ready to celebrate when God sends her a real man to love 💗

[@deborahadams3745]

Well said !!!

[@francoisdanielaccede2054]

Great commentary. Love your perspective.

[@rocg9503]

Another gem.

[@Theblackbumblebee]

Omg l missed YOU!!!!!!!!!

[@Eucalyptus212]

I love your perspective. Great commentary

[@angelafunkygemini]

Unbeknownst to Mel!🤨 Mel is such a Southern Bell.. unless I hear it from Mel's lips imo Mel would NEVER let any Man tape her in such a Intimate Moment, this is something CS would do!..

[@C.VEEJay]

Well, on a LIVE, she did acknowledge that she and her husband made a recording. It was after Karson Blue notified her of AC & MH's ill intent.😊

[@lilpaulettenthegang7869]

So on point!!

[@kendredaniels5513]

Random: Mel just released a cosmetics line lol #Boss

[@deucejohnson3287]

Hey Hey -missed you 🙌🙌🙌

[@mindoflilith]

Hey hey!

[@dhsobers9195]

Spot on

[@Eastside1100]

Tank looks a lot like his GrandFather....

[@angelafunkygemini]

Excellent Commentary... thank you, lillith😊👍🏾👍🏾

[@mindoflilith]

Thanks for listening

[@ameshamonique]

Great commentary! ❤

[@Dee038]

Your commentary is top tier!! 💕

[@angelenarobinson6745]

What a great commentary.

[@mindoflilith]

Thank you!

[@yogicdance240]

Excellently presented. Wonderful advice. Unfortunately the Narcissist is incorrigible. It’s a progressive disorder

[@sdjames2580]

🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹 As Always!!!

[@mindoflilith]

Thanks again!

[@pamscott7430]

Love your commentary😊😊

[@jesssmikle3002]

Great commentary -as always.

[@mindoflilith]

Glad you enjoyed it

[@thesocialteatalkmedia]

Wow! Great commentary 😮

[@mindoflilith]

Thanks! 😁

[@Myreddog]

Great delivery ❤

[@mindoflilith]

Thank you! 🤗

[@Stacybaby949]

Lilith I love you Logic and psychological facts and opinion . I have subscribed. You’re awesome as a CC. I now your new ( I think) anyway either way I will support in any way I can

[@mindoflilith]

Welcome aboard!

[@Stacybaby949]

@@mindoflilith 😊🙏🏾❤️TY

[@CandicePL82]

good people in his ear WHOOOOOOOOOOO

[@mindoflilith]

Chris, Fred, Dr. Francis, even Melody...

[@AngiebLee-to3zi]

And the baby mama said melody was boring cuz she wasn't a w**** that's why melody was she at today and that's why she at where she at at the bottom of the barrel wish you were always be she was jealous of Melody then and she jealous of Melody now and is 10 years later still trying to compete and compare the melody girl give it up it's been 10 years and you still failing she had that baby thinking that he was going to be a part of Melody for nuggets he would never be a part of melodies life never Melanie made that clear Martell was raised by wolves he come from a life of chaos confusion and criminalistic activities I am glad Melody left him right where he needs to be at the bottom of the barrel bottom feeder she had him looking good now he looked dried out hungry and broke he broke up a beautiful family beautiful wife beautiful kids for the bottom of a strong jaw download on 2% household list jealous broke envious Aaliyah I can't wait till she get locked up too I'm glad Melody left that situation now she bust all the way up

[@crich8420]

Very sad