LAMH | Martell Wants Full Custody of His Children Because Melody Forced Him to Get Arionne Pregnant

[@CacaoFlower]

But mel made martel, frm taking his test in school to encouraging him to finish school. It was Mel’s dream to have the happy marriage & successful businesses, that’s why she tried to make it work for so long even after shit hit the fan

[@mindoflilith]

I agree with you, their dreams were in alignment at one point, but Martell's selfishness made him believe that Melody's dreams belonged to him, just like her work belonged to him, just like their children belong to him. Martell had the vision and fantasy but Melody was the hammer on the nail to execute. Thanks for your comment, I'm going to expound on your post in the future!

[@tattqueen1494]

And getting out there put in sweat equity! Mowing lawns & onsite work. Baby not too many women willing to do the manual labor. Especially back then. But Mel knew what success required!

[@anitagray6422]

Woman gave more than enough time for a hoe to get Right.

[@marilynjohnson6298]

She also would cashapp him money so he would be able to do things with the kids in his week. He’s the lowest of the low.

[@marianbell9416]

Didn't know that one!

[@1984reed]

Yep, she sure did.

[@mindoflilith]

Wow, I didn't know this! SMMFH

[@divaslm1]

Continue to expose. The last IG live Hoetell stated he did not have money to buy kids food.

[@2GracefullyAnointed-Savvy1]

@@mindoflilith That is accurate! Melodyshould have let go completely, and let God enact full retribution earlier on! You have to leave your emotions and flesh totally out, & walk completely surrendered, and led by the Holy spirit of God! Narcissistic imps are never to be trusted, & are certainly never to be made deals with.

[@yahinas]

Have your lawyer ask if he is seeking child support in additional to full custody. Have him probe into financials and his inability to support the children without her financial help. The marital agreement was that, no child support for either party. Altering this agreement would indicate one party is financially imbalanced and needs the support of the other. Ms Holt is motioning to dismiss his request due to his inability to keep the previous arrangements or support the children wholly. This changes the divorce decree. So I’d make him agree to no support, and weekly visitation. Martel thinks full custody means he controls all aspects of the children. Although partially true. She should retain rights as far as schooling, upbringing, location. And turn around and keep the agreement the same. Visitation for 1 week on and one week off. I hope she has a shark of a lawyer.

[@mindoflilith]

Yaaasss, come through LEGAL BAE! lol

[@missann1985]

You better educate!

[@YoutubeTeasipper7856]

There is also a deeper process where you can go to court and gain your full right and custody even from the states and certain legal influences... It requires a lawyer and like at 2500 fee but probably worth it in the long run...

[@tangajTANG]

@@mindoflilith was my rant comment deleted? There was no profanity.

[@lindayoung6488]

@Yahinas.....Bravo!! Outstanding feedback 👏👏👏👏

[@klion3924]

I will encourage Mel in this case to get full custody of her kids and do everything she wants in life. I know her heart wanted to do the right thing by Martell, but sometimes people try to take advantage of your kindness.

[@klion3924]

I think Mel getting full custody will be the only way she could be fully free from Him and his abuse! She can be free and move completely on! I also see that Mel will definitely get another man to treat her and the kids right too! Martell is going to lose his mind when Mel gets serious with somebody

[@vashticollins8315]

It is time. Thank you. I totally agree.

[@milkhoney6419]

I divorced a man like Martell who proclaimed that he would not rest until he crushed and destroyed me. We have two children together. Mel beware! He’s coming for all of your sanity, your bag, your kids, and your peace of mind. Took me years and big big big money to cash him out. My prayers are with you and children! 🙏🏾❤️

[@mindoflilith]

Men are more emotional and pettier than women.

[@klion3924]

@@mindoflilith Yup in the end of it all it comes down to Martell is mad he can’t have Mel anymore!! Despite his looks etc… he is insecure and angry on the inside he destroyed his marriage! He wants to make Mel pay for not taking him back

[@vashticollins8315]

@@klion3924 You are right. He is going to lose it this time for real. He is about to be put in place.

[@here4drealt333]

🙏 for Mel and the M&M kids.

[@BeverlyAnn57]

Martell wants MONEY, that’s it and Mel has plenty of it and he doesn’t! I’m not saying he doesn’t care about the kids, but that’s his sole purpose for wanting full custody! I’m praying that mission fails in Jesus name!

[@T-T-gmom]

And that's all Money 💰🤑

[@6689wonderfullyblessed]

Right on point. He doesn't want those kids.He wants child support and he wants to live the life that Mel has.He is angry that he didn't break her.I pray that every lowdown evil plan he has backfires on him.When you are dealing with a Martel,you have to go for their Jugular.

[@MsFavia]

If money is his primary goal then he doesn’t care about his children. What kind of father rips his children away from a mother they love knowing it will break their hearts because he wants more money? He’s a monster! I continue to pray for Melody and her children 🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@dessya7474]

What do you mean he cares about his kids? He only cares about himself. This man and i use the term man loosely is a monster

[@sarettabrooks8146]

He doesn’t care about his kids he cares about himself and hurting Melody!

[@elaineb6322]

I feel for Melody. I know exactly what she is going through. Thank God she has the financial resources to fight. He won’t get custody but he can make her life difficult for the next 16 years. I was married to a narcissist for 23 years with 3 children. My kids were older than Melody’s when I divorced. My ex tried that custody crap also. He filed for divorce and is still mad that I allowed the divorce to happen. Martell would have to prove that the other parent is unfit which Martell cannot say she is. He is just trying to punish her. Narcissist try to get into your good graces, make you feel comfortable so they can slit your throat! Melody must give up the fantasy of who she thought she married. I think after this, she has learned. They don’t change. This is who they are. Empaths have to be strong, remove all flying monkeys, keep boundaries in place. Let God handle the rest. God is whipping those chicken legs of Martell right now. He went on that vacation, realized how good Melody is living and he is bitter!!!

[@OpulentAristocrat]

Yessss! He got close to ONLY get information & when her guard was down he attacked! Disgusting 🤢

[@ctnwsm]

Yes!!! Yes!! Yes!!! And yes!!! I think the biggest hurdle for empaths is really understanding what and who you are dealing with and setting real boundaries. You have to know in your soul, that these people really don't love and their whole purpose is to destroy you and possibly kill you....Yes!! God and his word is your only real protection in these situation.

[@vickiesanders5610]

You hit the nail on the head....he's so jealous of Mel, he thought she crumble to a shrinking Violet, but Mel rose like a Phoenix from the ashes !!

[@tywonex2]

This is not a new custody case. It's the same one from season 2 or 3. According to the court docket it's a 2020 case number.

[@2GracefullyAnointed-Savvy1]

@@tywonex2 The family law courts use the same case numbers when there's a modification of any kind, like this is a modification of custody, possibly support filed by the devil, Martell Narcissistic Hoetell.

[@inotherwords1177]

I pray for Melody’s strength and I pray that God gives the judge in their custody case the insight to see Martel for the narcissistic person he truly is. She is living a nightmare. My heart goes out to her.

[@sexylexie]

Oh God has Melody and she is centered and she’s a praying warrior. I do think with the amount of jealousy and hate from her WHOLE Cast-mates she should get a bodyguard. Im not joking at all I don’t trust Martell and I’m sooooo happy women are finally seeing him for the fake arse no good father he’s been to me since season 2.

[@lolapink3508]

Martell just wants those kids to have to torment & control Melody. She’s ignoring his ass & that pisses his narcissistic personality disorder off. He just wants to force Mel to have to deal w/ him & pay attn to him. He’s so damaged & you can look in his eyes & see he’s so immature & only cares abt himself.

[@2GracefullyAnointed-Savvy1]

Like all narcissists, Hoetell Martell Idiot is the catalyst in his own demise!

[@QueensJahJah]

I honestly hurt for Melody she has gone through hell with the man who vowed to love, protect and honor her. She and the MnM children don’t deserve this. The fact that she has her sanity and ability to nurture her children is a true blessing.

[@MrDomonique3]

Martell was a trash husband and is a trash father. His end goal is to get child support from Melody and have her be his financial support just as when they were married. It's unfortunate for her that she has to deal with him post divorce.

[@brendawestmoreland5378]

Exactly!

[@OpulentAristocrat]

Beyond Factssss!

[@caramelsmoothcat5477]

So true him and his side chicken have pulled everything they can think of out of their asses

[@ctnwsm]

So true!!! He wanted to be able to date other women and have Melody finance it all. He didn't think Melody would ever expose him and leave. He only regrets losing his lifestyle.

[@2GracefullyAnointed-Savvy1]

She needs to be bold in the Lord & in the power of His might & bring it full on with receipts mammy, a How you like me now pimp?

[@Cameron-ez5ws]

Mel was sleeping with the enemy for years to long

[@Seekpeace66]

He wanted Mel back but she said no way,so he’s punishing her with the children,what a jerk of a dad he is.🤦🏿‍♀️

[@socialbuddafly6317]

Call me a narcissist because I would use everything at my disposal to grind Martell into dust. Don’t play with my kids.

[@nelly4692]

I hope Melody lawyer is a beast because he is not going to stop

[@2GracefullyAnointed-Savvy1]

God will definitely stop Hoetell et al!

[@mimimincer525]

Melody is not a narcissists, she is learning to love herself, authentically accept herself, and taking her power back! Anyone that has made it out of narcissistic abuse has had their esteem, identify, and self-worth completely crushed!!! Dealing with a narcissists is dealing with the devil himself. They are calculated evil!

[@ctnwsm]

No, she is not a narcissist!! When you survive a narcissist, your whole aspect on life changes. You start wanting to love and protect yourself because of what you have been through; it almost took you out....I couldn't imagine having kids with a narcissist and having to coparent with them. God and no contact are your best weapons with these demons.

[@lets-talk-about-it-ok]

Martel and Mel is the same

[@ranikarob281]

Mar-bumb is so disgusting. I pray the courts rule in Mel's favor. I pray she gets full custody.

[@soblessed4844]

Martell knows the only way he can hurt Melody is to take her children. He’s BIG mad she is living her best life without him and doesn’t seem bothered 💅🏽with his escapades. He is determined to disrupt her peace.

[@prettyeyes8864]

I pray that Mel lawyer is a beast and that she files for and win full custody lawyer and court fees plus child support in Jesus name..

[@mariahardy1201]

I saw a program concerning narcissists, marriage and divorce. The mental health professional stated that narcissists view their partners & children as possessions. 😲 Therefore it doesn't matter how the narcissist treats their partner or children, they are objects to be obtained and positioned to make the narcissist look great. (not people w/feelings)

[@ladytee689]

I can’t with this 🤡 he is BIG MAD because Mel is not thinking about him, and she moved on doing big things. It’s no way that he’s going to get custody, Mel is a good mother to her kids. What he needs to do is get custody of his son that he has with ColeSlop. Hotell is going to reap want he sow, KARMA IS GOING TO EAT HIM ALIVE. Mel is going to continue to be blessed.

[@donnab.333]

There was a backstory as to why Melody responded the way she did on the show. I will continue to say it, having the scotts & destiny, was the wrong move for this show. Everything you stated is correct. As someone who worked for a child support agency for the county I reside, I will say, since martell wants to go down this route & he was a SORRY/LAZY factor in their marriage; if martell is awarded child support, so should Melody (in some 50/50 arrangements both parties can be awarded this); & have the modified dissolution also include martell providing/paying: health insurance, 1/2 childcare expenses, 1/2 medical expenses, a mandatory life insurance policy on martell, where Melody's children are the beneficiaries, 1/2 extracurricular activities expenses for their children, & a mandatory "JOB CONTACT LIST" because martell NEEDS A JOB. Martell is not an entrepreneur at all, so make him GET A JOB (the government is hiring). Melody could file a defamation and/or libel suit against martell too. I believe Melody has an excellent team around her, so she will do well with all of the tangible evidence available, i.e. videos, financial receipts, etc.

[@angelenarobinson6745]

Melody should produce receipts for all monies that shas spent on the children that Martel has not helped her will.

[@donnab.333]

@@angelenarobinson6745 👍🏾👍🏾

[@2GracefullyAnointed-Savvy1]

Lord God grant Melody full custody, Hoetell having to undergo psychological counseling & testing for narcissism, mandatory payment of child support, a job, and financial disclosure, as well as a Guardium Ad Litem, and his payment of the money he stole, and termination of parental rights due to safety receipts & concerns for he & the children, and permanent restraining orders for her & her family as well, and forbid him from further forcing any of his whores, and 15%'s & his offspring, and any slander & libel! You are completely accurate in the dealings with the narcissist! They have a God-complex, and are purposely dangerous and vindictive, with Satan's agenda to kill, steal, and destroy you, and any other targets! He has missed so many custodial weeks with the Holt children, passes them off on his mom, Marlene, and abandons them to go off whoring with Coleslaw, Sheree, Pinkalicious, and the other women whose pictures have recently resurfaced, and he's still using & abusing women for a bag & storyline while dragging Melody.

[@donnab.333]

@@2GracefullyAnointed-Savvy1 Amen.

[@ajadestone3376]

Meanwhile side chick is across town......leaving the baby in the car.....giving him ice pops at 6am in the morning...... Leaving him unattended at a swimming pool.....I HOPE HE ONLY GETS WEEKEND VISITS AFTER THIS.....

[@D1vaDvyn]

No! No visits at all UNTIL he can prove that "HE" is a Fit parent that is ABLE to provide the SAME amenities being provided by their mom!

[@fatusankoh8943]

Aman well said thanks

[@CandidlyKai]

Melody is going to have to break him down completely for him to understand she’s not that girl he used to take advantage of. No more being nice, put the gloves on Mel! It’s time

[@yogicdance240]

Male Narcissism 201: In a divorce, present as the more responsible parent, launch a smear campaign and sling mud on the mother to depict her as cold, negligent or abusive to the children. Martell is simply following the N-playbook to the absolute tee. It’s a very predictable archetype.

[@YoutubeTeasipper7856]

The funny part is Arrione has created so much content that can be used against him in this custody case.. Martel also has created content that show his true character so a good lawyer has a lot of evidence to work with fortunately... You are so right Martel doesn't spend half of the amiunt of time with Knoxs that he spends with the M&M kids.. I know that Melody is going to handle it the humble way if she is standing on God and while she has so much material to work with God can still spin it all in the best way..

[@QueensJahJah]

Amen

[@reese3572]

💙Martell why not get custody of Knox❓Arrionne don’t have 💰that kid is not worth anything ‼️

[@YoutubeTeasipper7856]

@@reese3572 And it would require him to have to put more quality time into him. Look at him and Sugar Momma totally different energy and time that was put in him vs her.

[@Capturedbeauty777]

And the situation with Knox would prove even further that he is unfit parent, he's a fool 🤣

[@stacyo.1080]

I think the only reason he wants full custody is for the child support. Based on what I see from TV, Martel doesn't give off domesticated traits. He wants to be out and about womanizing and partying which is okay if one is single. Having four children to run around, make sure homework is done, fed and everything else is exhausting ; I only had one child and I really had no time to myself being a mom, wife and full-time professional. I think ole Marty is suspect.

[@OpulentAristocrat]

Factssss!

[@angelenarobinson6745]

Exactly!

[@maryhooks3750]

Melody do all her engagement around when the children are with him

[@Mamasita2257]

My grandmother use to say “Sometimes you have to fight fire with fire”.

[@mindoflilith]

I agree!

[@covergirldst6754]

Mel should just go back to zero contact and no filming with him again. She has tried & tried and he is unappreciative & undeserving. Just continue the alternating weeks and move on. Martell is so conniving, so manipulative that co-parenting with him is just not possible because, as Mel would say, it's just the set up for the okie doke. He won't say or do anything to get Knox, the one child he needs to get full custody of, because he would be too much work (look at the difference between his behavior vs the M&M kids) and is a constant reminder of the reason he lost it all. I know Melody is sick of him because we all are. It's really just a sad situation.

[@celestelynn1938]

J

[@PublicFrenemi]

I’m of the opposite mindset. I think he wants her to fight his allegations and receive FULL custody of the kids FROM HIM. After all, when Melody’s attorney goes to court he or she will put on a defense. What Martell has done to those children is indefensible. He can easily be proven unable and unfit to provide for those children full time. He wants his freedom back to come and go. He wants to be unencumbered from child rearing duties so he explore opportunities outside of Huntsville. Also, women are comiNg for him left and right, but he is unavailable to the masses of women because he’s a father half of the month. That narcissist wants to give the kids BACK to Melody so he can be free.

[@God-is-my-help]

Hummmmmm never thought about it this way

[@caramelsmoothcat5477]

That's a great observation

[@QueensJahJah]

Good point

[@valeriarailey1391]

I never thought about that however, since you mention it I also agree with you because I believe he is tired of taking care of his kids every other week. He wants to be free not tied down half the month. He wants to gets back into the streets full-time.

[@nyulawjn]

I would agree - however he's not that smart. He makes clown moves, and this would be a chess move. I think he wants to hurt her and show her that he can still control her - even though they are divorced. She looks so glowed up and happy - and he looks scattered, and in search of happiness. I bet seeing her happy grinds his gears - and he wants her to be miserable like he is.

[@clarissanickersonfourman]

What is going to happen is Melody is going to get this dismissed and then she is going to completely cut off Martell and then he will really spiral out of control. I’m afraid that he might actually hurt her and it is really triggering.

[@diamondprincess9168]

No she can't cut him off or get rid of him unfortunately because he is still their father he's not signing away his rights unfortunately so that means they will still probably have the same Arrangement or a little bit different or something but he won't get full custody of the kids and he'll still have the right to see his kids so yeah and more than likely Melody don't want his money Melody whether you take that money on over there to coleslaw and that baby knocks knock knock congestion and take care of him take her take her out

[@clarissanickersonfourman]

@@diamondprincess9168 She absolutely can cut him off. She only needs to communicate with him about the kids. That’s not what he wants. He wants to total control. He wants to be able to talk to the children when he wants and see them when he wants, he got upset because she said he cannot pop up at her house. He feels entitled to her and the children, so he can control her life. If she stays steady for how she was the last year and not film with him and stay totally away from him that is the only way she can be truly safe.

[@vashticollins8315]

This is what I have been saying for a long while. When he ultimately can't get his way IMPLOSION IMMINENT. Martell just put the nail in his own coffin on all sides. His life is unraveling. Coleslaw needs a body guard as well.

[@tlbryant4077]

@@vashticollins8315 Both him AND Coleslaw are unraveling and dangerous.. Mel and her children need restraining orders from them both.

[@demibell5123]

She needs to stop worrying about Martell. She needs to go after full custody and let the chips fall where they may. He has proven over and over again that he cares nothing of these beautiful children he created with Melody. He is a little boy in a man’s body throwing a continued tantrum. Stop trying to cover him Melody

[@MsMimiWN]

I hope she does a biopic after all this is done to finish exposing him for who he is.

[@angelenarobinson6745]

Melody need a GOOD lawyer that does not play and earn every dime that she has to pay them. A good father would not have introduce his kids to outside children and outside women all the time. I hope the Judge order Martel to seek family counseling for two years and visitation of his kids in the presence of a chaperone. Martel is not the good father that he claimed to be. (ALLEGEDLY).

[@awandeshozi6783]

This makes me sick, as if Melody hasn't been through enough already because of this evil demon. Definitely keeping her in my prayers it's so sad and disgusting how this man can do so much evil to this woman and get away with it, not fair.

[@vashticollins8315]

Amen. However God is in and fighting this battle.

[@2GracefullyAnointed-Savvy1]

He & none of the rest of them are getting away with anything as God is on the throne judging rightly, and the battle indeed belongs to Almighty God!

[@here4drealt333]

@@vashticollins8315 Amen &Amen

[@divaslm1]

You have to treat Narcissist as if they are your enemy. #FACTS

[@mstkxulu551]

Since we're all guessing, my guess is that he's baiting her to counter sue and file for full custody so he can be in the streets freely. Some time ago Mel said he didn't pick up the kids for 2 months, while he was lying on social media that she's keeping them hostage. Maybe he wants her to take them away from him instead of abandoning them, to protect his image.

[@vashticollins8315]

Now that's a thought. Let him make his look enough worse.

[@ctnwsm]

Never thought about that but that sounds about right. He don't want them kids 24 hours a day, everyday, with or without child support.

[@2GracefullyAnointed-Savvy1]

Narcissists are never going to do what they don't want to do anyway, and he isn't astute! He wants to destroy Melody & is equally jealous & envious of the Holt kids. He really doesn't want the fatherly responsibility and will just continue his sex addiction, playing the victim, & purposely be absent when he wants to, and dare her to argue, or reciprocate as he is also very misogynistic & selfish.

[@2GracefullyAnointed-Savvy1]

Not guessing! Survivor by the grace of God Almighty.

[@mstkxulu551]

@D1ENLIGHTENED I'm glad you survived, some people lose their minds dealing with a man like Martell. My aunt became physically sick.

[@Marie-jd5de]

When it comes to the kids, Melody might have to destroy Martel!! That sorry bastard is giving her absolutely no choice!!!

[@goldenskandi]

Hoetell trying to Kevin Federline Melody. He trying to get child support so he can move out Ms Marlene house. Where’s the full custody suite against slowslob??? Yeah, he ain’t trying to protect the baby that actually needs protecting! His mama broke!

[@bluefish5145]

Martell wants full custody of Melody... He's not a old father at all. Martell is just a babysitter. And, yes he wants child support because he's broke. He won't wind and after last nights wine review he is heading to the poor house faster and faster.

[@terriclark408]

I read somewhere that the wine taste exactly like Sutter wine and that he may have some explaining to do🫣

[@pamelajones2382]

Do you all see how well she dresses those children? She dresses them as good as she is dressed!

[@africandiamond8006]

Melody its time to get full custody, child support, and move to Atlanta as you so desire.. #TeamMelody

[@yshonterrell6141]

It’s going to work in her favor, because he wants them for the wrong reason

[@ayingi3461]

He tells himself he made her, so how dare she pay him dust and move on. He will be bitter for life. She will have to parallel parent with him and continue to ignore him for her peace.

[@ToniaAlex13]

I felt in in my soul that when they were on vacation together that it would have backfired on her.

[@elainemalcolm8349]

Toni Alex @That is exactly what I have been saying, letting her guards done by inviting him in her space, talking to him, going on vacation with him and his mother 🙄🙄🙄that was the red flag.

[@mindoflilith]

I think this custody issue has been brewing for months now because Mel mentioned it's the reason why she can't change her last name.

[@myargumentis4423]

She will never be at peace while she allows him into her space. Every interaction they have reminds him what an asset she is. So he can be around the asset, try and bask in her shine but then the asset goes home. He can never have her again so he'll try to break her at every turn. He's even willing to mess up the kids just to hurt her. Stay up Mel x

[@nikitawashington9328]

Carlos King told Mell to invite Martell. She had no intentions on being bothered with Martell.

[@2GracefullyAnointed-Savvy1]

Exactly, ditto! She should have stayed out of the flesh, and stayed in the Spirit of God, and kill those carnal emotions, which will trap you like a defenseless fly in the mouth of a deranged frog, that being impish narcissist Martell Hoetell Holt! He has been planning this mess with the likes of the Slimy Scott brothers, especially Greasy Maurice in his dimwitted ears! Messylos is no better lusting after Hoetell, and despising the feminine, Melody!

[@gwendolyn301]

Your commentary is on point. Mel is a blessed woman, God has her back, she may end up with full custody if she brings out all the stuff he has done. It is said Mel has one of the best lawyers in Alabama.

[@daniellegreen6287]

Mel also has the respect of them white ppl. He's doomed.

[@clarity-re3mn]

I want her to get the best divorce lawyer in America and crush this once and for all. I didn't say crush him, Mel has too much class and feeling for her children to do that.

[@ToniaAlex13]

@@clarity-re3mn no she definitely need to play dirty with Martel

[@lindayoung6488]

You're correct! It's time to fight fire with fire! Melody must play all her cards because I'm sure she has a deck of aces. She has been taking the high road for too long. Since the beginning, I've always said that she has the tools to blow that man's character right out of the water, if she wants too. She is a good person and their beautiful children deserve so much better. SHAME ON HIM!!

[@clarity-re3mn]

@@ToniaAlex13 well, you know what Nene said, you don't win when you play dirty, 😆, but I get you Sis.

[@OpulentAristocrat]

Why would anyone intentionally put their children through trauma! The children are STILL healing from the broken home that he caused & now you want to remove their mother out their lives as well???? They are going to hate him when they get older! Disgusting!!!! 🤮

[@caramelsmoothcat5477]

Exactly he's really crossing the line now they would forgive him for the divorce they would forgive him for the side baby because at the end of the day they're going to love him and their little brother but that POS trying to take their mother away this they won't forgive him for

[@vashticollins8315]

Those are going to, when are older be the nail that goes into his heart and soul that will never come out.

[@mallorylampkin9864]

Steve Harvey did it, Duane Wade did it, Usher did it, Ludicris did it as well. Chris Brown did it but realized how wrong it was and stopped. The sad part about the names I mentioned is the fact that they work so much that nannies and new wives raise their children and not the biological mother or father. This generation is filled with coo coo bird men who just want to break women down to feed their egos. They want to make babies with women and then disgard them in the upmost disrespectful way by taking their children away and watching them suffer. Not even caring how only seeing you mother a little bit or not seeing her at all can affect a innocent child long term🥺😩🥺

[@goodlife8044]

And these pick mees talking about he’s a “good” father! WHERE???!!!!

[@thriftygirlcafe680]

That was Melody's biggest mistake...not asking for full custody. She should not have shown him any mercy.

[@tanyaniquelle9606]

After all of the betrayal, deceit, adultery and disrespect, he couldn’t break Melody and that’s why he using this last ditch effort of evil to try and do so…. using his children as pawns SMH. A sound minded judge would see straight through this and dismiss this case. #Noweapon!

[@CandieTalks]

I absolutely LOVE that you're bringing attention to the very damaging but subtle abusive nature of narcissistic individuals. In the back of my head I KNEW that Martel would attempt to gain full custody. He's been dropping subtle hints and undermining her as a parent even prior to the divorce. In my observation, Capricorn men tend to do this and get away with it, because to the public they are always seen as great fathers. Dwayne Wade {capricorn} has full custody of his children, which in itself isn't a bad thing, but he never seems to even acknowledge that those boys have a mother that loves them. It's said that even the likes of R Kelly gave his ex-wife a hard time. To the point that she left in the middle of the night with no money just so she would be able to leave with the children. Martel will say that Mel travels too much for work, doesn't have a steady nanny for them, and can't provide the required oversight to be a primary parent. People with an untrained eye will say Mel is evil or narcissistic, but this is exactly what makes her prime prey for a narcissist. She's someone that's easy to dislike. This is evident by how the cast treats her even after ALL that she has done to help better their lives. I'll never forget a Capricorn man telling me that he is able to project whatever image he wants of himself onto the world and people believe it. From that moment on I've seen it as a super power that they ALL possess. In a recent people magazine interview with some source it's claimed that Martels new boo said that he's "solid and steady". Imagine a 52-year-old woman thinking a man with 5 children by 2 women all under the age of 12 is " solid and steady". Meanwhile, Mel is villainized by nearly everyone for simply choosing to not endure the abuse of Martel anymore. I don't think he will get full custody, but I believe his abuse will only worsen once he doesn't get it. He might marry a woman and start a "family" with her as a means to trigger Mel, and even then he still won't be perceived as a bad guy by the masses To think that a month ago people wanted Mel to reconcile with him lol. Anyways, as always I love your commentary. You are the only commentator that I feel totally understands just how evil Martel has been to Mel.

[@mindoflilith]

Yaaaassss, I was going to mention Dwade as well. Same mess.

[@MrDomonique3]

It's so sad after all the evil things Martell has done to Melody ppl are STILL advocating for them to get back together. How much disrespect and abuse are women expected to endure for the sake of being married?!?

[@lindayoung6488]

Excellent post! Interesting perspective about Capricorn men. Ray J is a Capricorn, too. He has really put his almost ex-wife through it in terms of being faithful etc. D-Wade seems to be a good guy, but I find it interesting that he never mentions or claims his child/son he has created when he and Gabrielle Union were apart. Steve Harvey definitely put his ex wife through it when fighting for full custody for his son. (Capricorn too). Funny thing about Martell Holt is that he appears to be possessed in his current attempt to break his ex-wifes heart into pieces, literally! His wacky thought processing, words/actions are all over the place. Very impulsive & unstable. That being said, he is STILL and will always be a double-minded man, with a Dr. Jekyll & Mr. Hyde mentality. Any woman who deals with that man, had better have access to counseling, therapy, and much prayers because he is a piece of WORK and will have you thinking you're crazy. My goodness, I could elaborate more, but Martell is so EXHAUSTING! SMH🙄😏

[@CandieTalks]

@@lindayoung6488 Rkelly is a Capricorn and his ex-wife Andrea is an Aquarius. She said the mental and emotional abuse was so bad that she would sit in a room and knock on the door and ask permission to go and eat and use the bathroom. What's worse is that people WITNESSED this, and no one extended a helping hand. The rumors of Rkelly marrying underage Aaliyah has been out for decades... And artist still worked with him. They still worked with him even AFTER the peeing allegations and trial. Look at his music catalog. He has some of the most uplifting songs and then he has songs that underline his predatory mindset. Jeff Bezos divorced his wife and publicly dates the woman that was her friend who he had an affair with. Guess what? His public reputation has not suffered. What makes Dwayne Wade so audacious is that his ex-wife is the person who supported him before him joining the league. Steve Harvey is married to the woman that his second wife said he was having an affair with... LeBron James is more on par with the late great and beloved Mr. Martin Luther King Jr. {a Capricorn man who publicly advocated for the rights of black Americans and married a black woman but was rumored to have a deep infatuation with white women}. Lebron is always in white and none black women's DMs but is married to an unambiguous black woman. Oh, and the great tiger woods who was the perfect family man until he was caught having affairs with prostitutes. These men are not for the faint of heart.

[@CandieTalks]

@@mindoflilith Is it a coincidence that Steve Harvey and Dwayne Wade have the same back drop for full custody? Meaning both of the mothers are now rumored to have been institutionalized for mental illnesses? I think there needs to be a study of the psychological abuse inflicted on others by some Capricorn men lol.

[@Summerbreeze_RN]

I agree with everything you said ! There is no way this man loved or had any love for Mel . The things he has done and doing are despicable. I’ve always been a huge Mel fan and to have a front row seat to what she’s had to go through breaks my heart; yet she still tries to take the high road. I don’t think she truly realizes the impact that her story has had on all women . People say oh the show is boring etc etc but I feel it has open up discussions that need to be addressed and I’m not talking about just Mel’s story but the dynamics of marsau and Tisha’s relationship and Wanda and Tisha’s relationship as well. Sorry for the long post

[@vashticollins8315]

Don't be sorry. This the truth needed to be said. Yes.

[@vickiesanders5610]

He wouldn't even let Mel have the children's beds for them to sleep in, now Mel has a Beautiful home and more furniture in her house than him ! He's at his mamas House !

[@amassinghealth]

Amazing commentary. It’s also sad that destiny went to court on Martell’s behalf. Anywho- Mel is an amazing mom surrounded by family, friends, business partners, and references who can also attest to her amazing qualities as a loving mom. Martel will not be successful in trying to take the kids. He is only wasting money on attorneys filing motions.

[@vashticollins8315]

Amen

[@marilynjohnson6298]

Destiny is trash, Mel have her money for her atty. when she was fighting for custody of her son and still lost.

[@mindoflilith]

Did she?

[@amassinghealth]

@@mindoflilith yes- it’s so unfortunate. Empress Radio and Diana Rozay did videos on it: here’s one, kzbin.info/www/bejne/d6unq6mgqtFgjrs

[@pamelaparker5053]

@@mindoflilith Destiny and LaTisha, reportedly..

[@propertybycrystal1]

Because their lives have been such an open book : the show, social media, text messages, etc. I don’t see any court awarding him full custody. This is all about pay back and money. He wants her to hurt like he is hurting because he lost his well crafted image, his cash cow, his trophy.

[@janetjohnson9690]

Martell had the nerve to talk about his father. He's worse than his father.

[@roddaniels3499]

He said he never wanted to be like his father but he’s just like him even worse

[@ccstar6152]

GM Lilith!! This should b submitted to the court. You're on point as usual!! She has a good heart n underestimated his EVIL intentions! That man is out for revenge! She wasn't suppose to leave him n won't let GO! This is spiritual warfare at it's finest!! This man literally wants her SOUL!! The kids too!! 😒😒😒😒

[@eigna8914]

Go get the baby that needs you!!! I feel everything they do is about attention and money.

[@sarettabrooks8146]

And he’s mad that now he can’t take care of his bastard child because Mel was the brain and producer in the family business

[@bernicegreen4172]

DOE'S ANYBODY ELSE NOTICE WHENEVER THINGS ARE GOING BAD HE ATTACKS MELODY. WHAT'S WRONG HOTEL ALL YOUR BUSINESS VENTURES ARE GOING TO HELL AREN'T THEY. UNTIL YOU DO RIGHT BY MELODY SHARIF EVERYTHING YOU TOUCH WILL FAIL I PROMISE YOU. YOU MAY NOT PAY WHAT YOU OWE BUT YOU WILL MARTEL IN JESUS NAME REAP WHAT YOU SOW. 🙏

[@apinke87]

This is SO disgusting. Firstly, no judge would give Martell full custody while they have a loving mother that provides a stable home for her children. Secondly, Martell doesn’t even have money!! Where does he live? What’s his source of income besides the show? Why has he deemed Melody unfit? Those kids are old enough to speak on their mom. Melody was the brains. She made him look good. Now that’s she’s done, it’s exposed how incapable he really is and he’s so mad about it. I don’t think he ever thought she would leave him. Martell is an absolute loser and user.

[@suewalker8356]

Amen to God hasn't loss a case yet. To God be the glory.

[@angelenarobinson6745]

Lilith you are speaking the truth. Martel cannot stand that Melody is so happy without him. Martel is the bad parent He ruined this children's life. It has to be very hard for his first 4 kids to be introduced to a child as their brother that their mother did not give birth to but with another woman. I hope that Sharee see Martel for who he is as well and shake the dust from her feet and run like hell. Sharee should not want to have anything to do with Martel after the lies has told on her.

[@sarettabrooks8146]

I hope he gets what we all know he deserves. He wanted Mel to work hard and help produce income because he was too sorry to provide the very lifestyle that he is dying to have. He jealous and Mel really need protection from him. Don’t buy Harrell’ s wine and nothing else. Don’t support nothing that he is involved with!

[@bonniehood5728]

I will not support anything he does.

[@fatusankoh8943]

Aman yes dont v buy and support any thing this evil wicked man do god will continue bless protect Melody her kides mother brother for life any weapon plot against Melody her kides mother brother will never prosper or win

[@Sweetea74]

He is a total nightmare! It never ends with this bum!! Cheap man selling cheap wine...ugh!!!

[@D1vaDvyn]

Lilith, YOU SUMMED THIS UP and wrapped it in a "pretty bow" for Mel to present to the Judge. Great job with this commentary #URock

[@vashticollins8315]

Amen Yes.

[@MICAHBYRD_]

I agree with you #Lilith has lay it out for #Mel ‘how to WIN against a narcissist and have PEACE while doing it’

[@Askthe-Uw]

Yes, she sure did. Great job 👍🏾

[@patriciaellisrobin8817]

It's all about Mel MONEY 💰 But It's Not Going To Happened He Wants Child Support But She Hasn't Asked Him For A Dime She's A Better Women Than Me I Would've Taking His Butt To The Bank 💰💰

[@Ladyrolanda]

Watching this man destroy his family. Actually its kind of scary to me. He’s like a monster preying on his own family. How far will he go?

[@shantisajeffries4504]

Mel should have never took this bum on her and her childrens vacation. He only got a chance to try to get something to use against her. This dude should be paying child support. That hurt his soul seeing how they are living compared to him.

[@anissareynolds5699]

Where is he going to get the money from to pay a lawyer. The wine he has is Sutter’s Home with another label put over the bottle smh

[@caramelsmoothcat5477]

Say It Ain't So not a new label covering the old label that's ghitto

[@atorelli33]

Good morning Lilith. I have watched this dynamic play out (different version) in own love life and others. It is constant opposition and defense with narcs. Constant games. Their is no end to how far they will go. It’s exhausting to battle them. Their bitterness is like ammunition. They feed off the hate.

[@divaslm1]

She has to fight

[@joyce4815]

I said this on another blogger’s channel don’t give lames/ fuckboys any chances because this is what they will try to destroy you. I think during the family vacation Martel used the opportunity to see what Mel had going on so he can get a better understanding of what he needs to do to plot his revenge. Not only that I think he tried to get back into her bed and she rejected him and he’s bitter about that too. So now he wants to go all out and do this dumb full custody battle with her. I don’t think this wise on his part because Mel is going to make sure she cross her T’s and dot her I’s for sure. Martel will have to prove Mel is “unfit” to win custody of the children. The audacity of Destiny to be a witness for Martel…she was Martel’s friend first. All the things Mel has done for her and that’s what she does? Wooow!!! Mel will keep thriving and this too shall pass and she will come out victorious against Martel. Martel is indeed a wicked person. He needs to go after custody of Knox instead. Make it make sense. SMH Coleslaw has been mighty quiet lately. She’s probably fighting the air somewhere.

[@suewalker8356]

You need an Academy Award for this FULL commentary on this demon. I have to keep believing God is going to show him who is Supreme.

[@Marie-jd5de]

Martel doesn’t realize his oldest daughter and son are very intelligent and have witnessed a lot of Martel’s foolishness. It’s gonna affect their relationship with him as they grew into adulthood.

[@mugleruser]

Martell wants full custody because he wants them child support payments! He’s never been the bread winner and I’m sure Melody has a long paper trail proving that. The fact that the builder’s license exam is OPEN-BOOK says a lot about Martell if he can’t pass it. Melody creating all those other businesses and continuing to stack her bread shows the she is the true brains behind the operation. It makes sense to me why Marsau has a crush on her lol.

[@bonniehood5728]

Hmmmm!!!!

[@margaretphillips2727]

He’s mad because you are winning..he is nothing and has nothing and will never get full custody of your kids you need to go for full custody and put a stop to his nonsense

[@yshonterrell6141]

He can get Knox, oh but AC can’t pay child support

[@Cameron-ez5ws]

and that child is not as valuable as the other four from Mel

[@prettygyrlny7115]

The audacity is just sickening, however dirty nasty gutter Martell won't prevail with yet another one of his "good dad" acts . So to all the women who keep saying this POS is a good father remember this kind of mess affects the very children he claims to care about so please miss me with that crap and Mel it's time to 🛑 playing w this man have your attorney show every video live email call from this fool and his bird and don't have any mercy on this man anymore period‼️

[@s2ncurai]

Mel needs to “sweep the knee!” Mercy is for the weak.”

[@bluefish5145]

Martell should open up his own daycare center, I think that babysitting is one of his best qualities.

[@Theblackbumblebee]

Never tolerate disrespect! Small schit leads to bigger schit. Remember, tolerance is just showing people how to treat you.

[@TheLorraine1964]

God said help yourself and I will help you.

[@divaslm1]

Art of War applies. Melody show no mercy to ending supply to Hoetell the malignant narcissist.

[@ej6368]

MARTELL doesn't want any children, he wants and need money and she got money. She doesn't ask him for any child support for her kids, she doesn't stop him from seeing them.

[@SG-kp5hi]

Narcissist barely leaves their partner. When their Partner leave them they will do everything in their power to make their life miserable.

[@aniwhuu2790]

I am SICK to my stomach that this man is filing for full custody of Melody’s babies. It’s time for Melody to take the nice lady hat off and get a little grimy.

[@bonniehood5728]

I pray for PEACE for Melody. Let go and let GOD handle this🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@michellesimmons3393]

Martell wants full custody, because MARTELL wants CHILD SUPPORT! simple.. We all know Mel is footling the majority of the expenses for those kids. This is Martell's way of getting out of paying his fair share because we all know that Inest wine isn't making no coins yet.

[@arlak615]

For him to get full custody of the children, he is going to have to prove that Mel is an unfit mother and that she is not unfit. I hope she and her lawyer go hard for her children .

[@KimontheWeb]

The ONLY reason Martell is wanting full custody is child support from Melody periodt

[@SavageV1rgo]

HoTell thinks he can beguile a judge (smh). This is going to blow up in his face.

[@goodlife8044]

People asking her about her next relationship all the time is annoying. Who would want to be in a relationship after this train wreck? She needs a break and she is doing amazing being single for a while.

[@934brandi]

girl did you hear the latest tea ☕️ That $40 bottle of wine of Martell’s ,is Sutter home Red blend… you can get that for five dollars. 🤦🏽‍♀️🗑

[@mindoflilith]

Yikes, how did people find this out?

[@QueensJahJah]

@@mindoflilith the label

[@mindoflilith]

@@QueensJahJah 😬So instead of partnering with them he wanted to take all the credit for the wine. How did he manage to pull that off? Who is his supplier?

[@QueensJahJah]

@@mindoflilith they call it white labeling, I would have to research some more to be exact.

[@934brandi]

@@mindoflilith It’s on his website. Whoever was in charge messed up. it’s not supposed to show all that.. He out here trying to get over on folks.. girl martell is straight trash 🗑

[@inotherwords1177]

I have been dealing with my own struggles from my narcissistic ex husband for about 3 years now. I had to learn at lot about codependency my specific dynamic in relation to him. It has not been easy even 3 years after the divorce he still stalks me and tries to contact me. It’s so hard to get away from them totally especially when you have to stay on guard in your life and in your mind.

[@mindoflilith]

It truly is difficult, but you have to stay vigilant and never take him back.

[@inotherwords1177]

Thank you. I had to do it in phases I was in such bad shape mentally and I didn’t understand what was going on for a long time. I was totally ignorant to what I was dealing with. We were married over 12 years. So you can just imagine the state I was in and not knowing I was a codependent Empath. God has Mercy on me and knew when I didn’t know that could not survive having a child born to this man. Through therapy and a lot of work on myself I’m understanding what I’m up against and doing well to stay away from my ex. Still I get tested by many things. It’s like, once you know about narcissistic behavior you can never go back to when you didn’t know. I’m so grateful for that… so much I can say. I have so many stories. Thank Allah I’m better today ❤️

[@Lovejoy653]

He wants Mel's money. Martell wouldn't allow Mel to take anything out of the houses they shared and he ended up losing both houses. Now he living in that little red house where he had the bouncer at. He is still bitter about Mel doing better than him.

[@scorpionMiz]

As soon as he saw her post about how she has found peace at last…he was like “Not on my watch you won’t!” And ran that hook headed dome to disrupt her peace. Everything he does, from sleeping, eating and dropping his turds off at the pool is done while he is scheming on how to make Melody’s life as miserable as his is. Same as his wilted sour side salad.

[@lalitajenkins7146]

That's not LOVE for his children....that's love of control....when you love your children you dont practice manipulative behavior...

[@pamelaparker5053]

Wow!! thanks for taking time out to speak on Martell. I have always prayed for Melody and her children and will continue to do so. I pray Martell don't win the children but she is deep in the South where Men rule and women drool. I am over Martell and his 🤡 antics. I feel for his children and his next wife. There will be some woman dumb enough to try it thinking she will be better than the first wife. Rumor is he have a whole other woman pregnant right now. I heard it on a pod. We'll just have to wait and see. I pity the fool.. You did such a great job and I appreciate you. Have a wonderful day.

[@shirleyjefferson6868]

Melometers please if your true to Mel don’t buy or have anything to do with Martell’s WINE !!!! PLEASE!!! Don’t help him come up

[@bonniehood5728]

I will never support anything he does.

[@fatusankoh8943]

Well said I will never spend a dime on that wicked evil Martel any weapon plot against Melody her kides mother brother will never prosper or win I pray she win full custody I pray Martel live Melody and kides alone for good

[@lets-talk-about-it-ok]

Chile there's a whole world outside of yall melomites smh

[@ebonydbess04]

Because the 5th child is not as valuable as the MnM kids, if he did that to Arrion the try to get child support he’s not going to get anything from that but if he gets the MnM kids and get child support he will get paid. That’s Martell plan

[@2GracefullyAnointed-Savvy1]

Not so much that. Narcissistic males leave behind codependents like 15% who idol worship them at all costs and are available for any use necessary to further their evil agendas, especially to cloak for them and their perversions, and desire for the same sex! those perverse demons in Messylos know those in Hoetell, and that's why we see, & hear the unabashed salacious comments and bold flirtations exchanged between them. Remember Marcus, Melody's brother, and his threat to bring that particular flavor of tea if Hoetell comes at him again!