Are They "the One"? Find Out With These Tips!

Are They "the One"? Find Out With These Tips!
In this live stream, ‪@vladhungrygen‬ and I discuss in detail issues found in the dating world. We go through 13 red flags that you should look out for and avoid while cultivating a relationship. We share the difference between real love and obsessive love and answer questions at the end.
Chapters:
0:00 - Intro
Four Principles to Dating
0:50 - The Bible focuses more on purity than who one should date
2:58 - Be the right person rather than finding the right person
6:07 - The Bible limits our options to “ONLY IN THE LORD” when it comes to who is the right person we should be with
20:22 - Find the right person by following God's Word, common sense, and listening to godly counsel
13 Red Flags in Dating:
22:28 - 1. Having a relationship with God is not a priority
23:52 - 2. Their actions and words don't match
24:38 - 3. If they have close friends who are not committed to the Lord
25:16 - 4. Has a wandering eye
27:24 - 5. Recently got out of a relationship without healing properly
30:42 - 6. A person shows signs of controlling or abusive behavior
32:18 - Six characteristics of obsessive love
33:19 - 7. They have sinful habits, addictions, and struggles
35:59 - 8. They don't respect purity and have no desire to wait till marriage to have sex
38:03 - 9. You don't want kids to become like them
38:53 - 10. You don't have peace about marrying this person
29:29 - 11. Your mentors and family feel iffy about this person
40:11 - 12. This person has distracted you from God, the church, and close friends
42:19 - 13. You are already praying for God to change that person
42:48 - Final thoughts about red flags in dating
47:45 - How did you know I was the one for you?
53:22 - Overcome the fear of the past
59:36 - How did you know the person before was not the one?
Taking Questions:
1:05:36 - Should people marry a person with the same spiritual gifts
1:06:45 - Kissing before marriage?
1:08:09 - How to deal with your man if he is tempted to watch porn
1:11:30 - Do consequences follow you?
1:13:10 - Do you have to go to church to meet a man who loves God?
1:16:44 - How do you balance waiting on the Lord to bring a spouse vs dating apps?
1:19:52 - If my BF/GF is against deliverance?
1:21:12 - Is it okay to be married to my husband who is not a believer?
1:22:04 - Will God make me marry a girl I don't like?
1:24:53 - How do I start working on my marriage?
1:25:57 - Is there an age difference that should be avoided?
1:27:57 - Should I marry within my ethnicity?
1:36:00 - Shop our merch!
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[@lanahungrygen]

Ways to Support the Ministry: 🤝 Partner pastorvlad.org/partner 🤎 Venmo venmo.com/vladhungrygen 💰 CashApp cash.app/$VladSavchuk 💸 PayPal www.paypal.com/paypalme/vladhungrygen 💶 Zelle [e-mail] 📫 Check “Vladimir Savchuk Ministries” PO Box 5058, Pasco, WA 99301

[@medricadu8863]

Your spouse has to put god FIRST 🙏🙏🙏🙏✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️

[@melaniemartin730]

Same with us...period!🆙🆙🚫🚫

[@faithandlove33]

My past is gone, I am forgiven by the most high God, I am worthy, I am cleansed, I am worthy of a good man with a Jesus heart, in the name of Jesus🤍🕊 Edited to add: I am free indeed🕊

[@devin3607]

But the baby is still here🎉

[@angelfaulkner3993]

I can honestly say just bc he or she is a Christian DOES NOT mean she /he is the correct one. Not at all!! I married a man whom I’ve known since little and grew up in the same church together (and gave his heart to the Lord ). He ended up having anger issues and abusive behaviors. I never saw this prior to marrying. Please PLEASE make this known to your viewers, not all Christians r the right one for another. It’s vital to watch his/her parents. Their marriage will tell u what he/she will treat you like when married. I see it in my marriage 😢 Please also know it’s NOT Gods will to stay married to an abuser. Especially when he made a promise a covenant/vow to love and honor etc and broke that vow(same as breaking the vow/covenant when committing adultery). Also, when he/she remains N abused (be it emotional, physical, mentally…) I also believe ( from experience) God has a “ONE” for u. He has a best for us. I say this bc the Lord showed me this. We can freely chose BUT, He has a best for us. Blessings to you two ❤🙏🏻

[@lindalaslasala8546]

God is the restorer of wasted years❤🙏

[@devin3607]

Find you a christian simp, youll be fine

[@Treeguy1111]

Great video, my wife and I definitely started out unsaved and on path of destruction but by Gods grace we found him and he radically transformed our lives. Last year before Gods grace healed our heart the police we at our house over 30 times. Now we have a biblical marriage and are leaders in our churches. God is so amazing… Thank you two though we love your ministry it’s powerful. God Bless

[@DesireeeDesire]

I'm single still fresh from a break up and I'm watching this to take note of what to find in a man and at the same time what to fix on myself. Will rewatch this in the future once I have a potential husband. Thank you so much for this 🙏

[@vidawasaga9123]

I always thought I had to wait upon the Lord to deliver me my kingdom spouse 😳🤦‍♀️

[@nadinetchaho2618]

This is so powerful the way you too opening up so we can see the light of God into your marriage It gives me real hope 😇♥️

[@chinnyo1665]

This was so good!

[@sqvishykilla]

divine timing! oh my goodness this is so on time for me, thank you Jesus

[@Samantha_Renee]

Rewatching from St. Louis, MO! Thank you for your wise counsel ❤

[@georgenorthcutt6774]

I’m from Tennessee, close to Sevierville and Knoxville! Thank you for being obedient and sharing this message.

[@sibongilemoyo2341]

Thank you guys,God bless🙏🙏🙏

[@sharonkaua8366]

Wow these are great spiritual principles to hear and know. Thank you 🙏🏽

[@elenabernardo5024]

You are both amazing! Very blessed by both of you. May the Lord continue to use you.

[@tadesha]

Such a great video! I really learned a lot!🙏❤

[@CholoB14u]

Thank you so much for sharing this advice. Helps tremendously especially being a godly woman. 🙏🏽

[@reggiedavis4961]

Blessed. Thank you!

[@officiallylekiii]

I loved this so much thank you, Pst Vlad & Lana you are both such a blessing ❤

[@nicoleburbano6414]

This is extremely helpful!!!

[@vitaliymetlenko1317]

Thank you and God bless !

[@jessicanhlapo9339]

Thank you Pastor Vlad & Lana. A Happy Mother's Day to you Pastor Lana🌻

[@jsbaltes]

Good channel, thank you both. subbed... from Ohio.

[@reggiedavis4961]

I am so blessed and forgiven. Thank you God.

[@Salinasaved]

Preach !

[@TheCryptoMiner]

Rewatching. From Pasco.❤

[@EKuehn85]

Only in the Lord!

[@bleufabie8121]

Thanks 🙏🏽☺️

[@Salinasaved]

So true

[@cerealgirl123]

This was great to listen to :) I'm currently single and hoping that I will meet a man of God soon. And I appreciate your story of how you 2 met, Because there is a lot of caution towards online dating or meeting somebody online... Understandably.... But I'm glad you both had the courage to step out and and get to know each other with pure intentions That ultimately led to marriage 🤗❤

[@Gems-Conticelli]

From Neah Bay, WA

[@jesuslatha2997]

Only in the Lord

[@damarisfrugoni6919]

Need to Take Care more of myself and u too😊Präparation and Not Low expectations.

[@childofgod410]

I got deliverence from spirit of jealousy. Jealousy/suspicious disguised itself as being protective and right when really it is controlling and monitoring and possessiveness. When I recognize that truth and humbled myself and truly repentant and renounce those covernents/agreements. I got prayer and got delivered praise god. Demon came out screaming loud and left

[@sibongilemoyo2341]

Am in SA

[@averynmitchell]

24:35 I need to work on this! 😊

[@melaniemartin730]

Because if it weren't for this, then biblical dating can be tough for all...period!❎❎🌄🌄

[@EddieFanelle-jk2gv]

God grace is free amen God counsel is free amen ❤and his salvation is free he didn’t ask you for 100 dollers so there noting you can do to receive God love in the same way pass down his grace with anything expected amen I love this video!!! Examined my heart

[@Wang-rk1mh]

Amen

[@Gems-Conticelli]

At liberty

[@melissahunlock4589]

Stanwood, Washington

[@Salinasaved]

Love y’all ❤

[@melaniemartin730]

Amen!🤩🤩🤩

[@wonderwoman901]

Only in the Lord Jesus Christ hallelujah amen

[@Hyorikatsu]

“Purity is a pursuit” this was profound. I thought about this scripture which I read this morning. 1 John 3:1-3 CSB See what great love the Father has given us that we should be called God's children-and we are! The reason the world does not know us is that it didn't know him. [2] Dear friends, we are God's children now, and what we will be has not yet been revealed. We know that when he appears, we will be like him because we will see him as he is. [3] And everyone who has this hope in him purifies himself just as he is pure.

[@damarisfrugoni6919]

I agree.

[@Salinasaved]

I feel free 😂

[@Salinasaved]

❤❤❤

[@desiridewaal2694]

Thank you so much for this. This is setting me free from something that would've probably gotten me into deep deep trouble. I really need advice. I met a guy tomorrow it will be a week ago. He on the first day made it so clear that I'm his wife. Saying that God affirmed him and we had such great conversation he knows the word he spoke with so much confiction that I am his wife. The next day I soften up to it and I opened myself up to it. But I made it clear that I'm waiting for marriage and that he would have to meet my mentors long story short he meets almost all the red flags you mentioned. And Sunday already God confirmed it to me I tried breaking up to him. And he feels the need to fight for me and now do all these things like go to church with and not give up on us. Help what do I do?? He is meeting most of these red flags but now he wants to work on it and I didn't ask him. And he is basically pleading to me that I shouldn't leave him

[@wonderwoman901]

To whom she wishes in Jesus mighty glorious God hallelujah power of the HolySprit hallelujah amen

[@Krishnas-daughter]

Please reply Video on biblical skin care please and is circular motion a face yoga

[@wonderwoman901]

Kingdom spouse manifested speedily in Jesus mighty glorious God hallelujah power of the HolySprit amen

[@KamilePauliukeviciute]

Lithuania

[@TheAntrozz1972]

🙏👏👏👏

[@matthias6734]

I feel i didn’t find my spouse because i’m not attracted physically to the sisters around me. What is the good balance to have a healthy approach of physical attraction?

[@daughterofGod1994]

🎉❤

[@Gems-Conticelli]

Whom she wishes

[@MinuMithra]

No ..even aning spiritual people who God wants hs to be united is important

[@jhonnymascarenhas5063]

it's vise versa? even husband can marry when his wife dies?

[@chelsayy4784]

Rewatching from Rochester, MN !!!

[@loveyouberrymuchz]

takes me a lot to like somebody so at the right time God will put somebody he knows ill like in front of me 😹

[@cailewilkinson8362]

I married somebody who had a lot of these red flags and I also had and still working through a lot of them. The person I married is now in a relationship with an unbeliever. I’m spending all my time growing with God working hard and being there for my family and not sure if I should marry again in the future but at this point I’m content either way.

[@EddieFanelle-jk2gv]

What the devil Meant for evil God meant for good

[@gracejoylove]

1:18:18....pls, don't come like Mordechai😂😂😂

[@johndickerson6946]

I didn’t make it on time to ask a question…together 16 years , unmarried, so much trauma and heart ache. Raised two girls now have my biological children 7 an 18 months…our relationship makes our home torturous for everyone….how do we know if the devil is cursing our family attempting to tear us apart and keep us from marriage and a Christian home , or if God is telling us the is too much pain amd we are preventing His Will by staying together in sin? Heartbroken and desperate …I want to save my family but their mother literally hates me

[@Klyvar.x]

I don’t know what you need to do but i recommend serious prayer and fasting… is their mother in the Lord? If not that’s the first thing you must pray for. After that you need to propose and pray every step of the way. Pray before you speak to her parents, pray before you speak to your parents, pray before you get the ring, pray before you plan the proposal, pray before you propose and at each step after praying walk forward in faith knowing the Lord is with you and if any step fails then recalibrate because that’s the Lords answer it may be you need to do something differently or if every step you pray before (which should be all steps) ALL fails then that’s also your answer. The devil has extra strength and access to destroy your relationship and destroy you both because you are living in sin. In the way we sin that is a door way for evil to enter. You seal that door way by repenting then getting married. Would God tell you to not fight for the right thing (marriage) because it’s too much pain? Surely not because the Lord fought for His marriage to us even though it cause Him the ultimate pain and even had to take His Fathers wrath, just to marry us! If you cannot marry her the you must stay celibate and be a parent to your children and try to be kind to her and respect her regardless but staying in a lust filled relationship without the covenant of marriage is like a loud siren 🚨 calling demons to come and enter to cause pain, turmoil, struggles and eventually death. Close this door with repentance then either with marriage or abstinence in body and mind

[@melaniemartin730]

Why aren't you married? That sucks 👾👾👾

[@GretaRedecop-nu6jx]

Which country do you live in?

[@vidawasaga9123]

16:27 Vancouver, Washington is in the United States.

[@damarisfrugoni6919]

I think she IS more mature No people ist Not idiot.Thats a hard Word.

[@lindalaslasala8546]

PNG

[@johnrafaelferrer9284]

Philippines 😇🤍

[@brendagal1273]

I am my mentor. You people need to grow up !

[@Petteriks]

They... can I have multiple spouses - that would settle my 20-year beef with God I'm 44 still waiting how can one woman fulfill all the lost years.. 2 or 3 maybe let's goooo 🔥✌🏼

[@jennieson_d]

I hope you find a better wife @vladhungrygen

[@GloryToTheHighest]

He is already married to a beautiful Godly woman.

[@dorcusnaavanamulwa4304]

Amen