How To Know They Are The ONE

[@vladhungrygen]

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[@jeremycompton3010]

Happy Birthday Vlad, many happy returns. Have a great time with Lana and your family. 😊👍

[@marylinelai8073]

Blessed Birthday Pastor, more in love with Jesus & enjoy with Lana & family 😊 very good teaching as usual !

[@bryan0710]

the widow was only Only said to Choose freely only After because her husband had died.... But Before Marriage, Somebody in christ Either your a Men or Women God already has your Partner who he has made just For You... So NO, you can not just go After your own will or go to whoever you want just because they are in the Lord too,No! because you will go through relationships and thats not from God those are just your own emotions and wrong decisions... A Real Son of God has to wait and pray for your Husband and Wife and wait on the Lord for your Wife or your Husband he has already made for you.... and i Can back that up With in the Bible.... All of this video most of 90% is wrongly guided for a Men or women of God....😞🤦🏻‍♂ The right way to pray to the Lord is, ""God guide me to the Wife or Husband you have destined for me since the beginning of the Creation of the World"" Because God already has your Men or women God created for you To Glory God within your Life and for boths of yalls Purpose God set for yall too.... Other else you will just go through your own mistakes and false emotions and thats the Same enemy trapping you......

[@Dynastyproductions94]

Thank you Vlad! This is the clarity I need. This video + Sacred Search by Gary Thomas has been super helpful. "Lord, will you please give me a woman who loves the Lord more than me" WOW.

[@jeaniedascotte4351]

Only in the Lord

[@abbz718]

Marriage is not your identity, your identity is in Christ! 🔥🔥🔥

[@josephtorres7869]

May the good Lord Jesus Christ Almighty bless your heart my sister in Christ Amen 🙏 ❤️

[@marycatherinelove2614]

I have heard by many believers that God has led people together. God does lead and guide in everything. God said to do everything through prayer and supplication.

[@chloeg.1137]

Literally made me cry when Lana said she had to remind her self " I am a new creation" when she felt rejected and all her fears came back about being not good enough after her past.. ladies, you are a new creation, let God do his work.. Like an onion.. let each layer fall off. This goes for guys as well, let God renew your mind daily. - I had to tell myself- I am an new creation! - I am a new creation!!

[@martinnyagah4313]

I am a new creation

[@hearinglove]

So good, I agree having this experience myself!💜✝️💜🕊️🙏🕊️🫂

[@ravneetkaur5367]

Yes Amen!!

[@garret8787]

I live Vlad’s messages, but it’s kind of hypocritical to say to wait months before getting into a new relationship but Lana literally started monkey branching over to Vlad while in was dating someone else.

[@imari9997]

@@garret8787😅 I have a question, what does donkey branching even mean?

[@tchissolafigueiredo5785]

I’m in Russia. Got saved last year and changed my life 360. And I love Pastor Vlad’s preaching ❤️❤️ bless you and your wife

[@msluna202]

"If you’re single and you’re dating someone who’s addicted and they don’t seek deliverance nor do they want to put any kind of disciple in their lives, drop them like a hot potato and run from them like a plague." PREACH! Thank you, God, for this!

[@dwilldoit]

I'm single for 3yrs. No active addictions, looking to date.?

[@josephtorres7869]

Lol 😂

[@borogirlinjapan2640]

​@@dwilldoit yeah😃😁😆

[@---wu3qj]

You both are so precious! This old lady is in tears listening to you. I love you in Christ, Grandma

[@hannahcharmaine8343]

"If you're addicted, you need deliverance and discipline, not dating." Come on somebody 🔥🔥🔥

[@Anthony-yy3kc]

I couldn't agree more with you. I was sexually abused and humiliated as a child and grew up incapable of dating or having a gf. Although I felt the physical desire for sex I was also scared to even try to do it. I never dated successfully so that it became a dating relationship. So I retreated inward and engaged in fantasy and self pleasuring. Now I am in recovery and the cure includes no dating and no sexual activity. I am single and celibate and abstinent. I'm finally at peace knowing this is the life I want for me now!

[@kyang435]

Come on somebody! 🔥

[@dinahduke1982]

​@@Anthony-yy3kcGod be with you and keep you❣️

[@davidwright1115]

Hard truth right here

[@alexisoleo]

"If you are addicted you have company "

[@nampiimasarah5535]

Lord please bless me with a husband who loves you more than anyone or anything. Amen

[@paniikhapi7543]

Amen

[@AngelaItsme]

This!

[@SalwaAmin-f3n]

Watching this at my job- work overnights as a Crisis Counselor on the 988 Suicide Hotline and watching you guys has truly blessed me and I’m sure it also blessed the people I counsel!!! Bc I get to extend everything I learn here to them. Thank you ❤️ Praise Jesus

[@daylilopez6350]

Thank you for ur job I had to talk to one couple years ago and I'm very happy of how sweet the lady was she saved me and so did my Lord ❤🙌🙏

[@melissawabacha]

I was waiting for God to show me my husband 😂😂😂😂😂 but thank you for this video. It has changed my perspective

[@mercynawila4440]

I know right 😂😂😂💕

[@bricklyphilomina5508]

True Sam here😅

[@molife7044]

Me too! And I prayed for God to show me something and this popped up and boy! Did this clear this up for me🌈

[@thatszheemakhanya]

It really did lol ❤️😂

[@marcy21ish]

Same here lol 😅

[@marytetreault8168]

Very good! "Men usually fall in love with their eyes, women with their ears." Great point!

[@jeanalanis]

Made me laugh when you talked about Red Flag number 13-Praying to change the person.- IT SPOKE TO ME INDEED! "It's better to wait for God to bring the right person to you than to wait for God to change the wrong person" God surely wants me to watch this. Also, thank you Lana for reminding me that God loves us and that we are precious to Him and that we are WORTHY! I love you guys! God is using you to be a blessing to us. To God Be The Glory! Everything you talked about, gives me enough confirmation from the Lord! Thank you heaps! - Jessie from Philippines.

[@PurposefulLife123]

I was changed my believe after I heard that very advice from him when preached series on his single ready to mingle book

[@maria_grasya777]

😂relate

[@edwinnora618]

not me praying he is more romantic

[@JennaProvenzale]

Lana's story made me cry because I can relate so much to what she said. 😢 We need to remind ourselves that we are a new creation. We are not our past.

[@cluesonliving101]

OK so it's five minutes in and pastor Vlad is already coming for me. "You want someone to take care of you but are you taking care of you?" ... oh Lord Jesus help me

[@elizabethcreated9263]

Haha that spoke to me too:)

[@pennyhughes3671]

My bedroom is a smelly dump. And I love it its the only room I don't have to clean 😁

[@kiavaxxaskew]

@@pennyhughes3671 activated carbon, wax melts & a wax warmer, air purifier, and vacuum cleaner.

[@ronniehull6746]

As a single man , open to a kingdom marriage , this gave me hope and helped me to self access and access who I entertain in hopes of developing a relationship with them

[@julietdumas2356]

I am rewatching and married. I am a believer but my husband is not. This video has been great counsel to me. Not to try to change him but to change myself. Thank you

[@Faithsavage1986]

Did you divorce your husband?

[@suzie2729]

watching this now a year after being with someone who I wasn’t really meant to be with but ignoring all the red flags it’s crazy how all of this is ringing truth into my ear after learning all of this the hard way. But it really stuck with me and this video just reminded me how vital it is to actually appreciate my identity and being single to heal from all of the things I’ve been through. I can only thank the Lord.

[@bpe9578]

Identifying abusive, narcissistic or obsessive suitors, reviewing his or her closest friends who are not decent or godly and the people he or she follows on Facebook,etc. also are EXTREMELY important and are at the top of my list.

[@imnoemit]

Whom one and they follow says a lot yes I have realize

[@Lovelybeliever11_11]

Amen. She is telling my story. I have a dirty past, always feared I will never been married with a good Godly man.

[@pradeepsilas8149]

In a time where preachers act supra Holy and as if sin never came their way, we have this couple time and again talk about their mess and use their sin to teach us to stay away from sin. This is the kind of teaching we need. Love you guys.

[@ArmyScoutMom]

"Principles not preferences." - Love that!

[@yellygirly01]

It's so ecouraging to hear that Lana had fears even though she knew he was the right and had that peace. It gives me hope. Thank you guys ❤

[@johanolca2772]

Thank God I found the ONE, you just confirmed my whole walk in this. Listening to you feels like home coming😄

[@chynabarnescb]

So beautiful congratulations

[@Varaidzo1]

Praise the Lord! God bless your relationship immensely

[@camilepapi]

Thank you Lana, I needed that reminder to know that I am an amazing woman of God and my past does not define me, it informs and gives me wisdom. I am good enough and I will continue to work on being the wife my husband dreams of. I continue to pray for your ministry. Thank you Pastor Vlad....I have been following your series on the Holy Spirit and He has literally become my best friend. Continue to shine for God.

[@peaches.4686]

This video was sent directly to me by God...as a teen christian who just started living for the Lord, this was the red light. God is amazing. All glory be to God for sending you.🙏

[@elijahbanks4369]

My fiancéé is Indian and i'm African american. Her family always wanted her to marry an Indian guy, but my family just desired me to marry a woman of God and the person God had for me. There is the culture barrier between us, but mainly for her family, but we're in love and we're seeing God move on our behalf, and in her family's hearts 🙏🏿

[@flightforlight157]

For two days I had feelings of anxiety, worry and loneliness, and I watched Isaiah's and Vlad's videos each time, the content not being relevant. After a few minutes in the video all those bad feelings even loneliness went away, disappeared. It's incredible because that has never happened before with other videos. God is blessing me through your videos I guess🙂

[@ysierra1724]

I am 41 years old never thought about marriage or settling down because I was always having to much fun lusting for women at the night clubs for half my life. I started attending my local church to brake free from sin and after one year of attending bible college and serving as usher, for the first time I want to get married to a woman of God and I no longer desire to go to the night clubs to seek woman. So far, there is one young woman who has been so nice to me at church since day one, and I am believing and asking God for her to be the one thank God and these pastors for helping me brake free.

[@loseweightwithmealplanning]

This is such rich teaching and THIS is the kind of dating, marriage and singleness advice we need more of in the Church! I’ve been single as a Pringle for a while 😂 and I’m not complaining because Christ has done soo much healing and work in this season Glory This is good teaching.

[@rebeccacochrane8552]

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[@wisdomnstrength]

Amen! I totally relate, and agree. 👍🏽

[@sarahmaebarroga1043]

I am related… that’s me

[@kathleenkearney1202]

Excellent. Sunday school should teach this. Parent's should also be taught this. Preach this EVERWHERE. Thank you. God bless you. I love that you look for one that loves God more then you....then they know how to love. Stating flags is so perfect. And recognizing to be aware of loss of peace. You can add to your teaching to recognize confusion. Should you or shouldn't you. God is not the author of confusion but of love power and a sound mind. Not a confused mind.

[@bryan0710]

most 90% of these steps are wrongly guided and said for a Men or Women of God..... the widow was only Only said to Choose freely only After because her husband had died.... But Before Marriage, Somebody in christ Either your a Men or Women God already has your Partner who he has made just For You... So NO, you can not just go After your own will or go to whoever you want just because they are in the Lord too,No! because you will go through relationships and thats not from God those are just your own emotions and wrong decisions... A Real Son of God has to wait and pray for your Husband and Wife and wait on the Lord for your Wife or your Husband he has already made for you.... and i Can back that up With in the Bible.... All of this video most of 90% is wrongly guided for a Men or women of God....😞🤦🏻‍♂ The right way to pray to the Lord is, ""God guide me to the Wife or Husband you have destined for me since the beginning of the Creation of the World"" Because God already has your Men or women God created for you To Glory God within your Life and for boths of yalls Purpose God set for yall too.... Other else you will just go through your own mistakes and false emotions and thats the Same enemy trapping you......

[@kimberleydidei9081]

Amen! What a great teaching. I’m watching from Papua New Guinea and I’m so glad I watched this in my single season. Jesus is the only way. I’m so blessed by this Word.

[@JacquelineNakkitaArgyrop-ty3bh]

I'm watching this a year later...but im going through a season of coming through a failed marriage, failed relationships and unwanted pregnancies and i recently had a baby and really wanted to be with the father of my new born but he didnt share the same sentiment. Ive been fasting & praying for God to show me some direction and reveal to me if i should continue standing in faith for breakthrough. Ive been battling unworthiness and all my partners have left me for someone else, I came across this video which has really blessed me and brought some comfort. PLEASE KEEP ME IN PRAYER. THANK YOU!

[@paradiselivinginpurpose]

When she said: "I AM WORTHY. Jesus Christ has cleansed my past and doesn't see me like that..." Thank you so much for sharing that - it spoke to me and I know it spoke to many other females as well

[@thefancygirlsguide]

Wow, I’m so glad I watch the whole video. Talking about overcoming her past and those fears of never being good enough for a good man really spoke to my heart. Thank you.

[@davidrodda5466]

I appreciate your honesty and openness Vlad and Lana in explaining how you came together and explaining the red flags that show that a relationship should not happen. Yes the Lord has to be number one in your marriage to have his blessing.

[@emmamaass4085]

Nobody has EVER made a video or book (and I watch and read a lot) like this! Thank you SO much for your twos wisdom and honesty. I keep praying for God to have my man of God appear when I need to not put so much focus on God delivering Him but me becoming a better Woman of God and the right one will come

[@raquelchuk9508]

Thank you so much for this. I’m getting married in a month and what Pastor Vlad said about struggling with Lana’s past is exactly what I’m going through and something that I fear. My future husband has given his life totally over to God and has changed completely but I’ve been struggling with forgetting his past. This was so encouraging. Thank you.

[@chynabarnescb]

Congratulations

[@laurens8623]

What part was Lana's past? I must have missed

[@onlyexception22]

“It’s better to wait for God to bring the right person to you than to change the wrong person that you bring to God (wrong person is the one you ignore all the red flags but you still do it because you are really infatuated, ignoring common sense, your own peace and wisdom of the wise counsel around you).” I really needed to hear this!!! What a timely Word and answered prayer. God is good. Thank you for your ministry and heart to serve singles through this. May God continue to bless and increase you both, your baby to come (praise God!) and your ministry. 🙏🙏🙏

[@kevingoodwin1951]

I'm watching from Albany, Georgia! I've followed Pastor Vlad for a bit on IG, and I really appreciate the fact that you always dig deep into the Word and do your best to present it without any bias!! Thanks a ton for the wisdom y'all have bestowed upon me, as I've basically been waiting on an angel or a sign from God to show me who to date and eventually marry! May the good Lord continue to bless both y'all immensely!!! 🙌

[@eturcios1984]

This was really revealing to me thank you so much.. my Ex dumped me and crazy enough she is the reason why I honestly came to the feet of God and have giving myself even more to him about 2 years ago we went to the same church and I started to get more into touch to the Lord and guess what a lot of negativity started to happen to myself and then we grew apart. She was and is very knowledgeable about the Bible but I found out she is dating someone who is part of the Yoruba religion or the man she is dating now practices Santeria just like her ex who she had a son with prior to me. This makes a lot of sense to me now so glad I came across this video things are just making a lot of sense to me now that I am single I want to establish a relationship with God not with a woman. Amen 🙏🏻

[@bisernavrtnica]

Happy birthday Vlad!😊 I wish you and your wife all the best with your ministry and I am happy to be accepted in. ☺ And also thank you for your present! 😀🥂🎁🎂 😀

[@melbacolaco7174]

my son is 22 yrs old holding a small job. Spend all his income on friends and girl friend. They takes loans Pastor please pray for him to get rid of all this and take up. Jobs with better prospects. And get rid of all bad habits.

[@ObeyJesusOurLord]

Father, please help Melba's son to become a responsible, godly young man. In every direction he goes, may he run into You -- hear Your voice, see Scriptures, hear Your Word, follow Your leading. May He not be able to resist Your Spirit and Your love. In Jesus's Mighty Name.....

[@StevenHernandez-us5kd]

Beautiful message. Thank you for sharing your testimony! God bless you both

[@vladhungrygen]

Praise the Lord. God bless you!

[@stephanienorris3959]

This is couple goals! Love you both! So powerful for a single Christian like me. I've had these questions! I've thought there was some big sign I was supposed to wait for. Thank you for clarification!

[@bryan0710]

Yes you do wait on the Lord!!!! Dont fall under the enemies trap With your own false emotions and own mistakes... Most of these youtube relationship guidense are 90% wrongly guided and not well spoken with the Real word of God🤧🤦🏻‍♂🤦🏻‍♂.... God already has your Wife or Husband God has made for you to Fulfill your purpose and Glory his Name!!!! So just pray and Wait upon the Lord for his perfect timing he has set for your Life🙏🙏

[@stephanienorris3959]

@@bryan0710 show me in the Word where it specifically says that. I don't know you but I know Pastor Vlad so I'll listen to him, thanks.

[@bryan0710]

@@stephanienorris3959 Yes it will be my pleasure😊🙏, Read Genesis Chapter 24: verse 14 Thats the Story where Abraham prays unto the Lord for Guidance so God can bring to them Who will be Isaac's Wife; Abrahams son, who his Wife will be, Rebeka👰🏼. Hear me out,, In that same Verse 14, The same Word of God saids that Abraham said, Let her be the one you have *Appointed* for my son Isaac🙏❤ Thats the KEYWORD *APPOINTED* In other words he said Let that Women be the one you have Chosen and made since the creation of the World that will be my Son's Wife ❤👰🏼 So you see, Everybody who is in Christ marked with a Purpose God already has the Person you will Marry, but not only to marry but To Also Glorify and fullfills both of yalls Purpose together from the Lord!!!!❤🙏 And I can give many more examples in the bible that can backup Gods *Appointed* Kingdom-Ordained spouse for you but i will go for Hours explaining this Revelation and Topic because this is one of the Topics i Love teaching, the right way and the Truth from the Lords Word❤🙏 So please Listen, most of these youtube videos about Marriages or How to Find the right one,,, 90% of them are wrong guided and not well spoken😞🤦🏻‍♂ and *Not* well spoken with the bible,, they Just explain their Experiences and Etc and that is a BIG ERROR!!! for Gods People who are waiting upon the Lord for their Kingdom-Ordained Spouse.. Because all they doing is Misleading them to a Trap set by the enemy... Write down this Quote ❤✍️ " You don't choose who will be your Spouse, God chooses that Person for you, the Person who he Created and Made and *Appointed* just for you to Fullfill Gods Purpose in this world " ❤🙏 Keep in mind!!! that whenever preachers or pastors say, "Go look for your Spouse or If that relationship didnt work go Look for the next one" Beaware of that, because Thats the same Enemy setting you a Trap because you will fall in Your own False emotions and Own mistakes.... So Yes, Wait upon Gods perfect timing for you, because God has your "Appointed* kingdom-Ordained spouse all in Control and in his hands 🙏❤ Amen! Blessings!

[@bachan48]

@@bryan0710 1. Then, theoretically speaking, there should be 50% men and 50% women population in the world, if God has "one" person for each individual. That's clearly not the case. 2. Why does God allow widows to marry other men and vice versa if just ONE person was supposed to be their partner, is God inconsistent in his world? 3. Even if there was this system of one predestined individual for another, the system broke with Adam's sin and will not be restored until the forms a new Jerusalem. The reason our bodies have physical death is that God's system is long broken and is awaiting reconstruction!

[@bryan0710]

@@bachan48 🤦🏻‍♂🤦🏻‍♂🤦🏻‍♂🤦🏻‍♂🤦🏻‍♂🤦🏻‍♂🤦🏻‍♂

[@lisasmith75775]

I really really appreciate this video because I haven't dated in years and I have not been born again all that long ago, and I do not want to repeat any of the past pain or trauma I have once went through, and because I haven't dated in years, I really really needed to hear this video. Bless you both.

[@forgoogletotrack7181]

When I was saved more than twenty years ago, I went through years of deliverance to heal trauma. God healed me to such an extent that the Holy Spirit has brought so much emotional and psychological freedom that I feel like I'm living in Heaven already. I went from fearing being alone for the rest of my life to the complete opposite - I can't imagine being anything other than single. It's a bit difficult to explain - it's like a neverending river of peace and joy flowing from my spiritual belly and I can't get enough of it.

[@rickyvasquez2133]

Thank you Lana and Vlad This was a blessing especially being reminder the importance of not rushing into things when you are single and dating . I’m turning 38 on Sunday and I’ve been through one marriage and other relationships that have failed multiple times . However , I’m grateful for content like this that reminds me it’s ok to be single and serving the Lord until that special time for the right person by first becoming the right person through the word of God . And praying to finish my bachelors degree in seminary and to share the gospel !

[@debsalle5189]

Thank you Lana for sharing your fears. Watching from Papua New Guinea. 🙏🏽

[@albertoramosescalona]

1. Purity of the heart. Purity of the soul. Purity of the Mind. Purity of the body.

[@mayurgaikwad6866]

Learn a lot from Your Book Single, ready to mingle.! Really this book played a huge role in my breakthrough from brokenness ❤❤

[@Monalisa0622]

I'm reading God therapy but will purchase Single ready to mingle next.

[@bryan0710]

🤦🏻‍♂🤦🏻‍♂🤦🏻‍♂🤦🏻‍♂😞😞

[@bryan0710]

Noo my Brothers Dont fall in the Enemies trap.... All you have to do is WAIT for Gods perfect timing, God will Bring to you your Women or Men of God he has already DESTINED just for you Since the creation of the World that will Glorify his name in both of yalls Purpose....

[@realty8551]

Ugh! This is liberating. Sharing testimony is rare and takes courage. God richly bless you

[@davienadams9446]

Pure thought pure action. Pursue God 🙏✝️ endure until the end. Having an intimate relationship with Jesus is better than any human being!

[@kelsiepalmer198]

God lead me to this couple to help me make better choices and I'm so grateful I feel delivered... I listen your videos alot and it's been so peaceful ❤️🔥😌

[@relaxingandcalmingmedia7251]

I say this with all respect. On the question of should you marry someone from different culture? If you are believers, you are citizens of the kingdom. Your marriage, decisions are Christ centred. If you are born again and the other person is born again , you solve your problems with your knees. Through prayers , fasting loving each other as Christ loved us. For me , I would marry anyone that Loves the Lord more than me. Being a citizen of the kingdom is important to me than where they come from. We will make it because our marriage will be Christ centred.

[@honestfriend767]

Ok, but make sure your values line up. The culture thing isn’t as important as your values. Having different values will make your marriage bumpy

[@relaxingandcalmingmedia7251]

@@honestfriend767 ❤️

[@jimboreaddabible777]

I've seen many of pastors burn out and wife leaves. But you 2 are in this ministry TOGETHER! SO AWESOME! PTL

[@kabelopitso]

Watching from South Africa 🇿🇦, been following you this early this year and you’re a powerful couple of God full of revelation of the word of God. Lol 😂 with the things of love I can say after Jesus, you’re my marriage counsellor 👍🏾😁. I’m not yet married but I’m soon gonna be and you’ve taught and enlightened me with this marriage subject and now I won’t settle for anything less. May God increase in your lives

[@arrows2054]

Really needed this. I somehow had this taught that God will want me to marry someone that I don't like

[@AmberHope917]

Amen same here . Was encouraging

[@redlfox6360]

I can't believe it I was just asking God about this topic and here is this video. Thank you for this message Vlad and Lana. Thank you for all of your works In Jesus name Amen 🙏 ❤️

[@Amani1.M]

Me too I feel that GOD might be leading me to a relationship I need this

[@msluna202]

@@Amani1.M me too! I've been dating someone for 4 years who has been leading me down a destructive path. Drinking smoking, you name it. Praise the Lord Almighty for taking the mask off my eyes (which comes from the enemy!) so that we can see clearly and walk with the Lord while he holds us and sustains us with His Right Arm! Praise God.

[@judyrocha1724]

I have been married 42 years to a non-believer, I always say once you accept the Lord you will be an outstanding Christian, for he is a good person, no vices, no drug problem, no drinking problem, no abuse problem. He has been a great provider to me and out 2 children, and still helps his children in their adult problems. What your wife said about appearances is 100% true, since I have been 19 yrs I never let my husband see me with unkept hair, sloppy clothes, I would look jn mirror before he came home. Whenever we went out for the day, I put on makeup, do my hair (he sometimes would say you don't have to do that we are just going to the mall. But I know appreciates it all. I know he had pride and though he is not a Christian, he is my husband and and I respect him (in Jesus name). We are 62 now and it is harder now to keep up the appearance but I never stop making the effort. God Bless❤

[@Alex_Valero]

Rewatching from DFW. Recently dove into the word, and thankful for the confirmation. Have been in a season of solitude, focusing on self improvement relationship with God, health and wellness.

[@ManniCee1]

Wow! Thank you! As a widow and dealing with being ready to start dating hearing the Truth, "she is free to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord." Having that green light as long as they are in the Lord is amazing. I have been waiting for supernatural confirmations, but now I feel even more freedom!

[@maryberry4295]

God bless Pastor Vlad n his family!!!! Praise the Lord!!!! Hallelujah, Hallelujah Hallelujah!!!!🙏🙏🙏🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💖💖💖💖💖

[@DawnD-v2l]

Well I find it very interesting ❤ I recently prayed for a Godly husband and it was about 5 months and guess what God answered and I am following God's way...

[@lindalinda9796]

Thank you for sharing, I remember TB Joshua sharing that it is not the right person but the right time that brings the right person. If something is wrong with these two, then there will be trouble in that marriage.

[@pennyhughes3671]

Explain

[@theantoniosilva]

Love always gives freedom, trust, a choice 👏🏼! So very true 32:58

[@aleasharowe2551]

Agreed! I think if it makes your mind go to a lustful or sinful place, cut it off! Ladies, if he won’t wait/wants to push the boundaries he doesn’t honor his or your bow to the Lord. I’ve learned this the hard and painful way. Praise the Lord for working despite us and using our brokenness!! 💯🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@Ninilove2bgzz]

“A person addicted needs rehab and not a relationship”❤❤❤❤ I believe the only relationship an addicted person needs to be pursuing is one with the Heavenly Father!!!! You have no idea how much I needed to here this for myself in areas as well and ones close to my heart! Let’s just say I have been fighting battles I now know only the lord can fight for me. Thanks you so much for giving your knowledge.

[@Monalisa0622]

Thank you. This has really helped me. 40 yrs of age separated 3 yrs. But I see there's several things that I need to work on.

[@Psa22-6]

Have you tried standing for your marriage? Not judging but the Lord reconciles all things, also because its a covenant unto Him.

[@Monalisa0622]

@@Psa22-6 thank you for asking. I have. Trust me this is not what I wanted. But I had to get out. He became physically abusive and was on drugs. It was do difficult for me to come to understanding that I had to get out. God has healed my heart in many ways. But there's still work. And my kid's need healing too. They saw and went through a lot. Put it this way. I didn't realize I was married to a narcissists. There was so much trauma. Only by God's grace the kid's and I made it out alive. But He is good. So now I need to stay focused on Him. And His will for my life and that of my kid's

[@Psa22-6]

@@Monalisa0622 i understand sister im sorry it ended up that way. Only God can fix hearts like those, well only He can fix any heart. Be blessed.

[@winnielamprecht9809]

This is such a great manual for anybody wanting to get married 1st 2nd of how many times this is the best i ever heard. Praise to the Lord

[@francesreneecrafttilson4587]

I just sent this to my daughter and the young man she is with and is now pregnant for I think you I don't know how it showed up on my phone but I think it's powerful information God bless you both her name is Kayla his name is Corey and it's been volatile and they're not married but they do have a baby on the way and she needs to take care of herself she is 33 and there needs to be Deliverance healing and I believe in God's perfect will and plan be done in both of their lives

[@calebdorval]

I really admire Pastor Vlad and his wife. This was such a blessing to watch. I really like that you have biblical references to explain your arguments. Well done. May God continue to bless you and your ministry.

[@maryberry4295]

This was a very blessing to me. 🙏🙏🙏🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@PhoebeManguin-tt7ql]

Beautiful testimony! Marriage is one of the greatest gift from God. It's important to marry the "one" God's will. Even there's a challenge but your love, obedience to God will stuck you together.

[@jeremycompton3010]

This was the best and most helpful videoclip on the topic. Thanks a tonne Vlad and Lana.

[@jeremycompton3010]

Vlad, your the best mate. l truely appreciated the prophetic word l received from the Lord through Pastor llya and Mariana, it was so good. Thankyou Lord.😊👍

[@fatmataturay5418]

Am Thankful for this teaching today, I pray God see me overcome what am going through

[@jen.h907]

RIGHT ON SPOT FOR ALL SINGLES ABOUT TO MAKE A WRONG CHOICE,may God guide those to this video and intervene them not to make a mistake🔥🔥cmmon pastor vlad 👏👏

[@jeremyvrecko2853]

This whole video answer a question I posed, to a fellowship group last night. God certainly works in wonderful ways! 😄 Praise the Lord 🙏

[@agnesr.4664]

Around 7 years ago my ex boyfriend (a good Christian guy) and I broke up because I was not ready to kiss him (because of a determination I made when I just came to the Lord years before). Let me say, I was wanting it very much but struggled with the cognitive dissonance I was experiencing. We broke up because he felt very rejected, before I even figured out my problem. I healed pretty slow though (two years) from that break up. Now, looking back, years later I don't regret not kissing him at all. It is just a beautiful thing to know that my husband will be enjoying no comparison whatsoever. Spared me a lot of internal and external struggles.

[@stevemacinnis5000]

Are you married now?

[@agnesr.4664]

@@stevemacinnis5000 Not yet, but dating a very amazing man of God. 😊

[@stevemacinnis5000]

@@agnesr.4664 That's awesome! God bless you. 🙏

[@fruitof.thespirit]

The timing of this video! Hallelujah!

[@sarahmoffett1296]

I just attended the Core Group retreat and when they separated into groups, the singles was the largest and there was only about 5 men out of nearly 1000 people. Later, a married male friend of mine, that is a Core man, said that the reason being is that most single men do not seek God like single women do. And this is what I find to be true. The numbers just aren't great, lol. I have noticed that all of the real Godly men that I know got that way out of years of marriage. I'm not saying that I will compromise, it's just not looking too good.

[@sibesonangalelwa5228]

This is beautiful and powerful. Am watching from Zambia in Africa

[@themhaikhiam158]

For the first time i found pastor Vlad seem very funny in some points... Mam Lana is so blessed

[@Eileen-nv6dd]

Thank you guys for being so candid. Bless you. I really needed to hear this as I feel ready to start dating after leaving domestic abusive marriage 14 years ago.

[@blobwiggle]

When I saw you recommend “single ready to mingle” I laughed so hard because I’m constantly telling God and others: “I’m single NOT READY to mingle”. But I feel God is soon leading me to be more social and meet others lol. (Whether to meet a potential significant other or simply a platonic friend who is a believer) 😂

[@JesusSavesEveryday]

Blessing!! Praise God!! Thank you Vald and Lana and God bless you in Jesus' name amen✝️🙏🏾🙌🏾🔥‼️

[@AlexMbaziira-yo2px]

Thank you Pastor Vlad. Everything you say, what used to be your struggles, fears, insecurities... That, all that was my struggles. I'm glad that I'm also recovering from the same and I know God is good and he has a plan

[@tracyloveofficial6701]

Exactly what I needed to listen to,,,, may the lord bless you

[@taylordactul]

“She’s a great example that God can deliver anybody.” Dang Vlad 😂 Love from Hawaii 🤍

[@mouton770]

This has been super helpful. It would be nice if you could do more videos like this. I'm a woman in my early 30's and am currently dating with a purpose of marriage but this made me think about a lot of things. Being raised in a Slavic church I felt like there was very little guidance in how to date in a way that is honoring to God. It was a topic that was very "taboo". I do wish I heard this earlier in my life to avoid some mistakes. But I'm supper greatful for your guys' biblical perspective.

[@mariepillai6157]

I have been telling young people that same thing, marry same culture.

[@VMorales923]

Crazy to say but I’m 39 yrs old and just learning all of this! I was not trained in the way I should go at a young age, nor did I have a good example of a healthy relationship between a man and woman for me,I was LOST😢 MY KIDS KNOW MORE ABOUT DATING IN A GODLY WAY THAN I DO! HALLELUJAH TO THE LAMB OF GOD 🙌 BUT THANK U JESUS THAT I ONCE WAS LOST BUT NOW IM FOUND! Like ABRAHAM & SARAH ITS NEVER TO LATE FOR ME! Before I die I WILL BE WHOLE IN JESUS NAME I AM WORTHY OF A HUSBAND

[@HerWordship]

Such a blessing…. Whoooosh!!! The biggest red flag for me is being with someone you’re already trying to change… and whose closest friends aren’t God chasers.

[@phero2750]

This was powerful, felt like I needed to hear a lot of this. Praise God for teaching you guys so much 🙏🔥🔥

[@V21IC]

Wow! You guys were so vulnerable! Though you needed not be so vulnerable, I'm glad as it knocked me of my piousness! The present and future gives power over the past. Acceptance is love.

[@ritapica8997]

Thank you Father for sending me a husband that loves you more than me or anything else in Jesus Name! Amen

[@paintingmadefunbyvictoriaj9043]

What an eye opening conversation and a great blessing. Thanks so much. May God continue to bless you both

[@conniegeronaberja2455]

watching from Bahrain. woow this is so powerful message.

[@WalkbyFaith_Tall]

I received Pastor! Cause I'm learning to walk more with Christ as a young believer, this encouraged me a lot!

[@treypurcell6997]

Only in the Lord

[@anitasarfowaakusi5507]

A person in addiction needs rehab not a relationship

[@KeelinBonillaRodriguez]

Thank you so much for your transparency! I don’t have mentors or spiritual leaders other than my parents but you both are like my mentors.

[@shivaannaidoo6911]

Once again he heard my cry and replied via you Pastor Vlad. All praise to Jehovah Jireh, my provider. As God as my witness our paths will cross one day, and we will meet either on earth or heaven. Amen.