When you have to FAKE loving him because he has lots of money! - Living with Afrikaans Ep9

Nomatriquency is in TROUBLE as she spots an enemy of progress! Things changes which leaves Dirkie confused on what’s going on!
Opening Music :
Kancane Kancane by LEXLEO
Download it here: / kancane-kancane-single
CAST
Nomatriquency : Thulasizwe Dambuza ( @Lasizwe Dambuza )
Dirkie: Divan Laing ( @divan_laing )
Gaugelo/Shlob: Lumka Menye (@lumka_lumkile)
Cousin : Augusta Zietsman ( @augustazietsman )
Credits
Executive Producer :Thulasizwe Dambuza & Megan-Kim de Vroeg
Associate Producer :Nomonde Kubeka
Director: Emmanuel Ndlovu
DOP: Sims & Oriel Masipa
Editor: Legae Sehlako
Camera Operator: Michael Adams
Sound: Richard Mohlari
Production Coordinator: Lindiwe Magubane
Production Assistant :Simthandile More
Make-up Artist: Philani Malindi
#LivingWithAfrikaans
#Lasizwe

[@LasizweDambuza]

Rate this episode out of 10

[@laurendeklerk626]

10!!

[@Bigbuttygyel]

100/10

[@Bigbuttygyel]

I love these episodes!

[@Bigbuttygyel]

I wanna see what happens next hle Lasizwe😭

[@bluevitalia5557]

10

[@fezilefankomo2101]

Kgaugelo is now "Bokkie" and she calls him "Babe" I fear for their lives👏🏽😹😹😹

[@berrymarbka4469]

😂😂😂

[@shanaazflotman1858]

Yey wena!😂😂😂😂😂

[@PastaNoodle25]

I am disappointed in Derkie. Two timer.

[@GrannyKelly07]

Their beautiful lifes

[@yolandeerasmus-snijders5269]

Jisss but Noma is going to have her revenge. I’m sure 😂

[@catisadisaster2269]

Afrikaans 101: When in doubt add a 'ge'

[@ashleymunaka]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@snowleopard3031]

🤣🤣🤣🤣that's funny

[@carolinefaulmann3241]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@mukhethwamunyai2948]

Whahaha

[@nombusoluthuli2871]

Works every time lol

[@laurendeklerk626]

I love how Noma is all of a sudden treating Derkie better because the land is coming soon 😂😂

[@marlvinekanduna2824]

Girl has got a strategy

[@sthokozilerejoice5970]

And Dirkie can see it

[@bettymatlebe6767]

Looooo....she even praat now.

[@Nkosazana-yt1]

Yess😂 but I don't blame her I would do the same thing of I knew the was a possibility I would get Mula

[@Nkosazana-yt1]

@captain darling 😂😂😂

[@tylerthecarti689]

This is how many people think Derkie won't survive 👇

[@azanabooi2713]

🤣

[@ogdo9571]

Not a lot of replies

[@bernardgwebu7204]

Hi Gumball Watterson I watch you on Amazing world of Gumball👀 I am so gehappy😱

[@edenwillemse3825]

Dirkie is going to be gedead. Noma's eyes is not gedeaf😂

[@lerato3364]

🤣 🤣 🤣

[@hinyikiwilemithi4855]

😂 😂 😂 😂

[@Ad-Lo]

And her temper is NOT gedead!

[@kediboneleotoane5377]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@catisadisaster2269]

"Ek is so gehappy" Me when a new episode comes out

[@snowleopard3031]

😂😂same

[@mukhethwamunyai2948]

I can't get this comment out of my head 😂😂

[@darniellefillis4592]

@@mukhethwamunyai2948 hi khethwa, i am danielle fillis from Gla cannt believe you like lasizwe too 🤣😂💓

[@hinyikiwilemithi4855]

😂 😂 😂 Ek geook😜

[@AfromyCaribbean]

SAMEEE

[@tamzlin2920]

Can't believe he is cheating on our girl , meanwhile our girl Noma comes home from work with dry lips hungry while he cheats all day.💀

[@sthokozilerejoice5970]

Dude!!!

[@lushenpillay8959]

He did not cheat... And noma was after land the entire time

[@dreamcatcher5644]

And visible lace front, that's how tired Nomitrickyweeeeeensie is.... 😂 I'm gedead.

[@Ad-Lo]

@Dark Angel but why did you have to bring up the lace, now?! 😂💦

[@queenrampoetsi5655]

😂 😂 😂 😂

[@laurendeklerk626]

Noma is what we call a “land digger” 😂

[@sindigwebu8270]

😂😂😂😂

[@ogdo9571]

Lol

[@ashleymunaka]

I have been shopping for an outfit to wear at Dirkie's funeral, i will be ready🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@kustakuties9847]

😂😂😂😂 I must order a hat

[@Ad-Lo]

Me too, Sis. I bought the stockings today. Just waterproof eyeliner left.

[@ashleymunaka]

@@Ad-Lo omg you are worse 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ashleymunaka]

@@kustakuties9847 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 thst one with a net

[@jorieboateng7895]

I'm practising my mourning cry and how I'm gonna jump into the grave😂😂

[@ThamiBanks]

Shoutout to everyone that loves Lasizwe❤

[@nontobekonkosi1627]

ShoutOut to you too for Staning Lasizwe❤️

[@catisadisaster2269]

Definition of Plaas: "It's Old Mcdonald FARM"

[@ellamhlongo83]

I died😂😂😂😂

[@adricloete8864]

I died 😊😊🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂😂🤣😂🤣

[@bettymatlebe6767]

Loooooooooo.....1+1...loooool

[@bettymatlebe6767]

Quick gequestion

[@jeanetseanego4802]

🤣🤣🤣🤣this is too much

[@Henry-cf4oo]

"Isn't that cousin, how, 1+1… What is she doing in Soweto? No my eyes are deaf, maybe I am not seeing things properly". 🤣🤣🤣

[@nomcebombhele842]

"my eyes are deaf "always kills me 😂😂😂

[@kelebogilemakhudu6262]

I hear him calling someone “Bokkie” and I don’t see Noma anywhere 😂😂😂😂 Goodbye Dirkie 💀 I always knew that out of the million graves dug, one was reserved for you 🤣🤣🤣

[@VuyisileMasilela]

Yey i see death

[@hinyikiwilemithi4855]

🤣🤣🤣

[@kustakuties9847]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@Ad-Lo]

🤣⚰️

[@kyliechaneditzzz]

Yes l know cause he is playing with fire

[@paulgraham3901]

28 degrees heat in London uk and I'm watching Lasizwe with an ice cold pint of Heineken, pure happiness🇬🇧

[@Pula_ne]

Derkie is smarter than we're giving him credit for, guys... But he's digging graves right now...his own as well.😂😂😂😂

[@catisadisaster2269]

I swear the facial expressions Noma makes would be great for memes

[@nokuthulachari3692]

You know right?

[@leoniesmith9406]

Sweet Noma, is dangerous Noma

[@aurilliaadams6013]

Yes I agree

[@ogdo9571]

Especially the thumbnail

[@bridgetkhumalo.]

I've never been so invested in a couple in my entire life😭💀❤

[@rebornmystic3274]

Dirkie might wife Gaugelo the way they're so cosy and calling each other Babe and Bokkie 👀

[@millythecreator]

Exactly

[@zamahsays7888]

Yhuuuuuuuuu

[@candicestruis6799]

Waiting for the "my eyes are not deaf" merchandise to drop...ill take a medium hoodie please 🤣

[@Ad-Lo]

candice struis I need a small one in black and a medium one in red, thanks. And @Lasizwe please ensure they are available outside of RSA.

[@TheCupidoClan]

Dirkie is calling Gaugelo Bokkie now? 😱🙈

[@ndudumajola5166]

Cheating Master this one..😂🙌

[@umabakongoaroundtheworld4390]

@@ndudumajola5166 lol

[@sthokozilerejoice5970]

Lol🤦🏾‍♀️💁🏾‍♀️

[@marcellahogutu1502]

Trouble in paradise

[@itsjustkate1381]

Lasizwe looking at Dirkie's cousin driving past like ' if 1+1 =2... Then wtf is this' 😂

[@sylvisvlogs6215]

Her lips😂 hungry lips

[@berthalilianmunthali7668]

This must be a Netflix tv show

[@elariamiranda4334]

Netflix be sleeping for real 😴

[@bioskopandchampagne]

With a feature film, merchandise and a wig line... This is a legacy waiting to happen

[@crazybeautifullens]

Dirkie should break up with Norma for Kgaugelo. Norma treats him horribly and is only with him for the land. Kgaugelo genuinely likes Dirkie and it showed that she wasn't bothered about him getting the farm. She likes him either way. YHU! I'm so invested in this South African Entanglement LOL.

[@irises3724]

😂😂😂😂Same

[@PastaNoodle25]

It sounded like Derkie was going to sign the farm over to Marietjie. She wanted him to sign so SHE could get the farm. Or are my ears blind?

[@dudunkosi2451]

Ohhh... now the whole thing makes sense. Thanks NoodleSpoon.

[@Ad-Lo]

That’s what I heard!!! I knew _you_ would be the first one to mention it! We have always said Tricky is not setting foot on any plaas any time soon.

[@kyliechaneditzzz]

Lol

[@sitakelemswati]

That's what my eyes heard too lol

[@tiyiselabaloyi3837]

Yes I am thinking the same hence she got scared when she thought Gaugelo was Noma 😂

[@naledimokoena6667]

Can we talk about how Tricky Baby can speak Afrikaans so eloquently all of a Sunday? 👏🙌🤣🤣💔

[@toffeecrisp9287]

It comes with the plaas promise

[@jeanetseanego4802]

@Naledi I was also blown away and all this time I thought she couldn't

[@LeloLife]

I can’t believe he’s cheating on Nomatriquency 😭💔

[@faree8532]

I thought he was an innocent soul!! Sneaky man!😁

[@Henry-cf4oo]

Noma will have the last laugh

[@CharlSibiya]

Triquency is too skinny.🤣

[@lindashamu5506]

Tricky is too mean

[@kaysworlde]

Charles Sibiya 🤣🤣🤣🤣😩💀

[@nikitaabrahams2105]

The way I am ge-nervous about Derkie getting caught out 😓

[@kustakuties9847]

We need to buy funeral clothes cause Noma is gonna kill him🙆🏿‍♀️

[@jeanetseanego4802]

@Nikita I'm ge-nervous with you , Dirkie is playing with Fire

[@tandiwefatyi3461]

yho...I'm literally biting my lips every time he speaks lies to her coz she already know...yhoo the man is a walking corpse shame..

[@dr.shalomtikeyahphiri8589]

Noma better poison His food in the next episode, coz.... 🚮🚮🚮🚮🚮. Also, I'm waaaay too involved honestly 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@kustakuties9847]

😂😂😂I am in this relationship too

[@Ad-Lo]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Ad-Lo]

Step away from the iPad Sis! Step away!

[@jcmacfarlane9867]

Nomafrequency has a plan. It'll end in tears.

[@azanabooi2713]

🤣

[@nqobilemthuli3172]

🤣🤣🤣 did you just call her "Nomafrequency"??

[@animeninja2113]

What is Dreikie trying to do, he got the farm papers to sign but doesn't want Noma to know, I smell diaster plus his with the other girl. Trouble is brewing 😏

[@lizettekayat9749]

I suspect Dirkie is selling the farm or it was never his maybe it belong to the family and they selling it. Because his cousin said they only needs his signature then they can hand the farm over..so n boereverneuker😁

[@animeninja2113]

@@lizettekayat9749 wtf, my question is does noma even love Dirkie, or she only wants the land, let's say hypethicly Drikie get the land with Noma be willing to marry him??😕

[@lizettekayat9749]

She (Marietjie) pesificly said Dirkie we need you to sign the papers in order to hand the farm over.. now only two things can happen here or rather 3. Hand the farm over to him..but why is he reluctant to sign🤔 He must sign the papers to hand over to somebody els..but who and why.. Or it is left to the family they sold now they need all the family members to sign over..so that means Dirkie has no land..he better that his boerewors and run..

[@lizettekayat9749]

@@animeninja2113 no no she has a plan worked out...I would love to see how this plays out exelant writing..I don't know if we should have felt sorry for Dirkie when they broke up..I can see know he has a plan..n man met n plan...and I don't think it is going to end well for one of them maybe for the both of them. I don't think he has land but he needs to keep her dream alive for some reason..

[@the_realmrleo]

Lizette Kayat this is so insightful to read and a very nice storyline to follow.

[@maffew_]

This Should Be A 10 - 15 Minute Show At least. It make me so gehappy

[@ArianneGrenade]

Noma: Starts to be nice Me: "Wait why is she doing this?" Noma: "So, about the documents for the land..." Me: "There it is"

[@BaoneTwala]

After seeing how happy Dirkie is with Kgaugelo and seeing Noma's response : noma and Dirkie relationship is toxic. Okay it's been. What must happen when the main character is the evil character??? 🙆🏽‍♀️🙆🏽‍♀️🙆🏽‍♀️ Who do we root for heish. Hope for Kgaugelo and Dirkie escape Noma and live happily ever after on the farm. Noma is full blown evil manje.

[@bioskopandchampagne]

I think its a nice twist for the main character to be "evil" because it really makes the viewer look at themselves and ask who they really relate to. It's a mind fvq and I don't know who to root for, yaz. 😩😭. It just goes to show how complicated the human condition is. We are neither entirely good or bad, we are human.

[@mskeeks]

Someone explain why Noma goes with a suitcase to work haauuuyy😂😂😂😂

[@luyandosibbs6004]

@pronounced as reth. It's what makes Noma amazeballs 😜

[@ntyatyilanga6850]

Was asking the same question yhazi🤔

[@lebo0995]

Something isn't right about that suitcase 😂😂

[@jeanetseanego4802]

Hope she is not stealing things at work

[@esmeraldaredmond1168]

🤣🤣🤣 Noma is unique

[@thomasbisschoff7136]

9 out of 10 - it is such a positive image of South Africa as though apartheid never existed. Where are the poverty and pandemic? You guys are doing well!!! More and more Afrikaans. Subtitles a necessity from now on otherwise we lose out!!!

[@azanabooi2713]

❤️

[@Bigbuttygyel]

THESE EPISODES ARE WAYYYY TOO SHORT! WHO AGREES? 👇🏿

[@lillybianca4185]

Yes, very. I want to need more💙💚💛

[@sthokozilerejoice5970]

If they make them long they'll run out of content.This Is what wakes it nice coz they get to properly work on it.

[@adricloete8864]

No

[@hinyikiwilemithi4855]

I prefer them this way.

[@kudziemuzondo4782]

No

[@estiaanmabunda1697]

Noma is that evil aunt that has a policy for every family member even ones she don't like

[@lifewithzandihalley6512]

Always the first one to request the death certificate😂

[@zamanindlovu1052]

Kkkkkk really

[@kustakuties9847]

True😂😂😂😂

[@valeriek3812]

Lol when he said "small small" and looked down! Dead

[@liveliness496]

Today that Afrikaans is coming out like gelde😂😂😂

[@ruklea]

Why is he calling her bokkie!! And holding her!!!😱

[@JesameSandalamo]

I know right!!!!

[@Mrs.Authority]

Yes I'm angry at him now! Bad boy dirkie!

[@rebornmystic3274]

I'm guessing Gaugelo will be the new boeremeisie 😂😂😂

[@NerinaRSA]

Bokkie is a baby deer

[@Mrs.Authority]

He's cheating noma!

[@NerinaRSA]

What is Tricky doing with her suit case every day? I don't truts her either.

[@moirandlovu5975]

Looool

[@marlvinekanduna2824]

I was thinking the exact same thing. 🤣

[@carolinencube2885]

I think shes datting another Afrikaans man that owns land

[@gcinilekumalo8653]

Dirkie: "Wat is 'n plaas in Engels?" Marikie: "Uhm... 'Old McDonald had a...' A farm!"😂😂😂🤣

[@dreap243]

Now when did Noma start with the Afrikaans ..the things land documents can do ....

[@LliciaMkhize]

I'm so weirdly addicted. I need nomatriquency to get the land😭😭

[@PastaNoodle25]

I want to see the episodes of Noma the city girl living on the farm! I think she is going to hate it! Careful what you wish for girl! 😆

[@andreag7214]

I am so gelief for this show. Better than generation/7de gelaan and all

[@bohlalenchabeleng1370]

I'm actually scared that Noma will kill him, she knows that he is lying. 🙆🏾‍♂️🙆🏾‍♂️🙆🏾‍♂️

[@Ad-Lo]

Bohlale Nchabeleng she doesn’t care. She is the only person here - and Mariekie - who are unwaveringly dedicated to their causes! It’s a shame that it’s the same cause: that farm!

[@renevanleeuwen1813]

Die pap will be gepoisoned :)

[@boitumeloletswalo2042]

😂 😂 Yhuu Derkie is in trouble... Noma's look at the end is all info u need to know

[@Namistradamus]

Did y'all hear the song Marikie was playing in her car?? 😂😂😂

[@lizettekayat9749]

Generaal generaal wie Gaan die boere Kom lei generaal generaal...Wel Dirkie en sy boerewors is in die moeilikheid geen generaal gaan hom Kan help..

[@wilmajansenvvuuren841]

Arme Dirkie😲I am so gehappy.Here Comes Norma Wow my eyes are deaf!Love you lasizwe❤💖❤💖❤💖

[@tashierandeulyatele6778]

I'm hearing bokkie but I'm not seeing noma anywhere.... My ears are blind!!

[@marlvinekanduna2824]

@Tashiera Ndeulyatele, this eyes are deaf, ears are blind has me in stitches...🤣. I can't deal

[@tashierandeulyatele6778]

@@marlvinekanduna2824 yhu are still in stitches... I'm buried 25 feet under😂😂😂😂😂 I'm unable to can

[@GeraldineJD]

" okay mariah carey" 😂😂

[@zamahsays7888]

WHY IS NO ONE TALKING ABOUT THIS??? 😂😂😂

[@GeraldineJD]

@@zamahsays7888 😂😂 that part took me out

[@zamahsays7888]

@@GeraldineJD I legit thought I was hearing things 🤣🤣💀💀💀

[@aurilliaadams6013]

I love her face when Derkie turns around at the end.

[@NikiBechusWTF]

So Tricky asks how's your Cuz? Dirkie response - The Kas it's so lekka. CLASSIC! 💯😂

[@gailboer3093]

I feel that we can all agree on the fact that Noma is the one gold digger we all know and love😂😂

[@slungubane1036]

That butt slap is TAKING ME OUT 😂😭😂😭😂😭

[@justinfleurs7758]

Did Dirkie just call both of them Bokkie? Someone will be gedead before even getting his gefarm🙈🙈🙈

[@ayandakhowa8577]

😂😂Am I the only one who noticed where Dirkie looked when he said : "Small, small" ??😂

[@nokwandagama9886]

🤣🤣🤣

[@Epiphania]

I actually feel like Dirkie is not dumb😂😂😂😂😂😂. He's smart, something's up

[@zakithitwala2203]

Honestly Dirkie & Kgauegelo can have each other. Walk into the sunset and everything, they Must just leave the land with our Tricky baby. Our Boeremeisie🚜 has put up with too much 😒. She deserves that land🤠

[@catherinebarfknecht9096]

Old McDonald had a... Farm 🤣

[@NerinaRSA]

Would love to see Cous Marietjie van Tonder more. She's a real spanner in the wheel works lol.

[@marilyn3603]

Dirkie wants to die...playing with fire

[@portiaxulu9588]

Lmao Noma will do anything for the land🤣.... I SMELL A GOLD DIGGER 🤣😂... I'm so hooked on living with Afrikaans😍

[@modisedaeswatiniprincess6944]

Somebody get LaSizwe on Mzansi magic or Netflix

[@Ad-Lo]

Mariekie (Marietje) is going to get that land! She just had Dirkie sign over that plaas in a quick minute! I see......🌪 in many peoples’ futures... starting with Dirkie!

[@thandiuwu]

"Smol smol like..." *looks down* 😂😂😂

[@sifisomnumzanemagaye9850]

Haha...I saw that and thought...aw'wa....4:26

[@zamahsays7888]

Omg! Nice catch. I didn't see that. Auwa Dirkie 😂😂😂

[@jo-annemoyo8923]

My girl GAUGELO deserves Derkie yazi they so cuuuuuute 🥰 I’m rooting for them

[@refiloemanana4957]

So are we gonna ignore the fact that Noma brings a whole suitcase to work 😹

[@kidomakate9453]

Can we just mention the content and the creativity of this😗❤️

[@dumisompofu1433]

Yay im first I love bokkie and Noma so much drama and love.and out of nowhere Noma starts speaking afrikaans

[@marlvinekanduna2824]

Because of the land 🤣

[@jolenejojo8583]

Ek is so gehooked. 🙆🏻‍♀️😁 I’m so hooked. Jy maak nie reg met Noma nie, Dirkie 🙅🏻‍♀️

[@thurstonsa]

Noma is a whole MOOD 😂😂😂

[@tebogomolapo660]

Upload Upload more. They should be Many and Long. I can't Wait for the Next coming Videos....who agrees with me.

[@curtzy01]

Noma’s laugh 6.27. I have officially deceased 😵🤣

[@mahdiyafareed6174]

Sh*t is about to go down ...I can't wait for Nomatrickevensie to find out about what her friend has been up to 👀

[@lizettekayat9749]

Dirkie jy moet hardloop boeta...it's in the eye's..nothing like a scorned..

[@sthokozilerejoice5970]

Dirkie,Noma,Marikie,Gaugelo THE WHOLE BUNCH INCLUDING THE SHOOTING CREW ARE CRAZY!!!🔥🔥🔥 and LOVE IT!😂😍😘🤩🤩🤩😘

[@MsSuiite]

Oh shii!! Dirkie is really lying to everyone but it was Nomas sudden change of attitude for me! Get the land girl 😂

[@MarkSmith-wg4is]

That Dirkie bra needs his own show. Keep up the good work. Nomadrikizikielena

[@Afeziwe]

All I have to say is "IT WILL END IN TEARS!"😂😂🤞🏾🤞🏾

[@kobusdowney5291]

Or blood lol

[@Amore820228]

Please make the episodes longer like 30 minutes!!! Because we live for the next episode!!!

[@phathizwenkambule5415]

Yoooh,dirkie and taking chances😂😂😂 It will end in tears😂😂😂😂

[@yolandeerasmus-snijders5269]

The five down votes are from gaugelo after she overheard Noma is cooking pap and vleis.

[@lovendhranaidu5606]

Nice that there was a new addition Mariki. This episode was longer which is good.. so far so good.. 8-10

[@moonblossom7903]

My heart broke for Noma,when he called the side chick *bokkie* as well 💔😓

[@winniekoboro201]

Gaugelo is called bokkie now yhoo I wonder. Derkie is also lying about seeing his cousin yooh🙆

[@Kisto226]

Dirkie is gonna be an ancestor on that farm 😂😂

[@tanyamellisa.2342]

little does noma know that whilst she’s busy making derkie’s gunsteling kos,she’s also becoming his side dish.😭

[@pujehovatjaimi9238]

este this boy!! What are you doing with Gaugelo!! oggg Dirkie man open you ears!!

[@onkokame_]

Someone better tell Derkie that you don’t lie to Noma and get away with it😂😂🙆🏽‍♂️🙆🏽‍♂️

[@akiva4044]

Dirkie is going to break too many hearts on this one but I still love him!!!!!!!

[@evacollin1404]

Dirkie lying! OMG he's playing with fire now.

[@tsholoMnice2019]

100 out of 10. This episode is on another level! Wait let me try saying this in Afrikaans. Ge episode ge level up.🤣🤣🤣

[@AllThingsAngel2]

No one: No one at all: Everyone else in the comment section: first to like and comment!

[@leoniesmith9406]

Ge-comment

[@AllThingsAngel2]

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[@handsomemahlambi]

It’s the sudden change of heart for me🤣🤣🤣

[@shehates._rae2523]

First. Love from Zimbabwe 🇿🇼

[@Itslukundo]

Im always at the edge of my seat with this mini series

[@filmsbynix]

How do they do this with a straight face 🤣

[@tandiwefatyi3461]

I know right...its so funny and cringy at times...hahhahaha

[@hazeltheecomedian3]

That Dirkie and the soon, soon story😂😂😂🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️