Laterrica and Omar: Grandmama Drama | Family or Fiance S3 E6 | Full Episode | OWN

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[@Daniellehiu]

Omg. I love Tracey. She's the MVP. She cuts through all people's excuses and really makes them get honest with their behavior.

[@musicengineer08]

She’s a great therapist

[@thehbic6495]

She’s snobby to me

[@shantakoa8596]

I had to leave a mama’s boy. I am not competing with nobody’s mother

[@NomfundoV8]

I did as well, one of the most traumatic experiences of my life😅

[@neenastylez576]

Me too and she was a narc on top of the fact he was a mama’s boy literally a terrible experience

[@NomfundoV8]

@@neenastylez576 Omg sounds like my ex and his mother as well! At least we now know to look for the signs and exit as soon as possible🤣

[@sunlight8366]

I had to divorce one. I will never put myself under that amount of stress ever again! 😞

[@NomfundoV8]

@@sunlight8366 THE worst stress ever😩😩

[@2000sbaby-vg6zq]

They tried to make it seem like Omar was him 😂 His mom popped his bubble saying "Omar don't support me financially. He CANT"

[@helena3631]

right a couple houndred here and there is minor support he definitely not him

[@curls4theworld]

Right! And he didn’t even clarify after she said that lol. He concerned me with that “my truth” stuff. They didn’t really resolve that.

[@besslee7905]

​@@curls4theworldI'm thinking he's spending money some place that he doesn't want his future wife to know then claiming it's going to his mom. I hope he doesn't have a secret habit😊

[@EvesGonnaEve]

Or they're saying he's giving more than he has to give. If he can't yet he's still giving something, then he's spending beyond his means, which is more of a reason for the wife to be to be concerned. Nobody said he was "him." She just wanted him to stop helping support his mom and focus on his family.

[@_SevenKay]

@@helena3631the amount is not the problem whether it’s $10 or $100 it’s support that is leaving the household!!

[@jclark377]

The fiancé was dismissive walking past them in the kitchen and not introducing everyone

[@ayesierramist]

I saw that too!

[@tammicunningham1048]

Yessss I agree with you she has a guard up & is setting the tone for separation and not resolution… even when she said “this is the lit crew” … & cutting his mom off as she was expressing her concerns in the beginning -everyone else got the floor

[@shawdelscott4832]

I was shocked. Nobody spoke on that that was disrespectful. I wouldn’t live with her after that.

[@bessence956]

Totally agree! Just rude..they came in wt disrespect leaving a negative vibe in air already

[@IveyleagueOfMyOwn]

Yeah that was disrespectful regardless of what has happened, they all made the decision to come there to work on it

[@LaCreshiaify]

Both the bride and the groom's mother did a great job of trying to mend and move forward, once everything was on the table. The mother was a little rough at first but that meeting with Tracy got her together.

[@santannawilliams2894]

😊

[@teehee83]

I love how Tracy doesn’t baby the boomer parents!

[@2087Jai]

Diane looked at her like who you talking to lol It was much needed

[@dayum_mi]

Them baby boomers don’t know what accountability is nor an apology

[@honeydew7349]

Laterrica marching her family through the kitchen like that was hella rude!!!!

[@Brlevert]

So darn rude

[@raya74]

Bride is beautiful! And their baby girl is so beautiful and precious😍

[@Nasir-2345]

I’m not Gona sto a man from taking care of his mother,.. because I wouldn’t allow no man to stop me for taking care of my mother period!

[@ashafreeman9690]

You must be single 😂

[@MilliyVee]

It’s levels to it though. And BOTH people should make a sacrifice for one another. She knew what she was getting into don’t try to change him

[@jesusknowsallaboutit409]

Cutting the umbilical cord from his mother is painful for him and his mom... But must be done

[@MistyEE21]

True but it must be done in a logical, reasonable and gentle manner. Remember she's now old too. All she has known is her son.

[@Itsjustacomment]

@@MistyEE21 old not dumb

[@thelonetravelr]

If she has another son, why is she so hung up on Omar? He says he has a brother who helped split the cost of his mother’s rent, I’m confused.

[@thabsmkhize2481]

Tracy was the MVP in how she handled Omar’s mom. She came in *strong* but Tracy didn’t back down! And there was actually a breakthrough 👌

[@jenniferrollins9525]

Tracy got that Motha ALL the way together 😅😅😅 (Taking away her Power)😮😅😂

[@sherriewilliams4167]

THE WAY SHE BROUGHT HER FAMILY IN WAS SO RUDE IM IN TEARS WOW 😢

[@chelee8804]

What a beautiful ending🤗 When Miss Diane said, “I’m too old of a cat to be licked in the butt by a kitten”🤣😂🤣Love the old school sayings.

[@prettyblack3556]

I hollered and I’m at work 😂

[@planetrock5864]

Mama standing on business!!!!!!

[@jenniferjordan5476]

Oh I gotta keep this one for the books

[@shawdelscott4832]

Boom🎉

[@jeririce6748]

I am adding it to the books!!!😂 my holler hollered!!!

[@nbbim2012]

He has a family and is a father now- the same grace that her family showed him should be reciprocated by his family to her. What a foolish woman to lose her granddaughter - she used him as emotional support once her husband/his father died

[@lduggans9550]

The future daughter in law is very rude. She kept cutting his mom off while she was talking and being very passive-aggressive. The way she walked her family through that kitchen set the tone.

[@paralegalkc]

The bride is such a sweetheart. I don’t agree with Mom, but I understand. I hope this just works out for them. This is one of the ones I really want to work out.

[@Ih8EVERYTHINGaboutYOU]

Diane doing too damn much 😂 Mam that’s your son, not your SIGNIFICANT OTHER 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@Powermoves1080]

Nakita and Katina are beautiful and their names are one in the same if you rearrange the letters.

[@GoddessPower777]

so his mom doesn’t come over cause she doesn’t feel comfortable yet threatening grandparents rights?! 😂 lady just miserable

[@LeshaFBaby]

😂😂😂 facts

[@thabsmkhize2481]

Manipulative!

[@charmaynefrazier4689]

I love Terri McMillan!! She does not bite her tongue!!

[@WittyOne37]

Tracey*

[@briasworld8]

Terry is a BLACK Woman. This is not her. 🙄

[@jas8471]

Just because you birth a baby that never asked to be here does not mean that the child owe you something. That man will not be successful if all of his extra money goes to his mother before he could build it up and turn it into something.

[@leahlinki5683]

He must stay single and take care of his mother! He's not going to keep his word!

[@ADW-i1h]

The bride annoyed me at the table. She was loud and kept over talking everyone.

[@beautydefined1601]

And she couldn’t understand that it, regardless of how his mother felt, he still made his independent choice of not feeling comfortable, allowing the mother to stay with them *shaking my head*

[@Ken-cd5vt]

Diane BEING MANIPULATIVE TALKING ABOUT I'LL JUST GO LOL

[@vickypaz3046]

This is the best family group that I see on this channel.The bride is very valuable and beautiful person .I'm glad that the mother was able to open and understand priorities.I wish all of them happiness.

[@sattasana7753]

Just because you come into someone's life doesn't absolve them from their moral responsibilities to their parents. I just know if my parents needed something and i have it, i'm giving it. Good that they worked it out.

[@Mizzlibrarian83]

Then you missed the point. If you get married and it negatively hurts your home then that’s a problem. And its not the kids responsibility to financially support their parents. Yall need to stop with this toxic foolishness

[@scorpiorules3709]

Totally agree. It's not about separating family members from their close relationships, it's about people finding way to be loving family and strengthening the family. everyone will have to make adjustments.

[@torry24]

that's correct but ur parents should never make u feel as though u have to choose

[@paigejohnson71]

Absolutely agree with the rebuttals. When the son gains a wife he leaves his parents and cleaves to his wife. No one is implying that you leave your family alone. But when mama leaves this earth…. Wife is by his side. You can not let parents dictate how you show up in your own household. Patents will not let their CHILDREN dictate what goes on in theirs. They are now parents. They have to raise their household the way they see fit.

[@keepitfrankwithfentse]

Can I ask if you are married? Because if I tell you how its DIFFERENT once you take the leap and commit to your person. My husband comes first and he puts me first above his mother and his mother is a single parent but cutting the cord is a healthy part of life. We still do holidays and weekends with both sides of the family HOWEVER our nuclear family comes first.

[@Iamiam888]

What is wrong with supporting your parents financially? Not giving away your entire check, but maybe a bill or 2

[@MistyEE21]

Exactly. I couldn't live with myself if I ignored that responsibility - it's morally right.

[@ljackson24]

I agree, I think it was more of a combination of him not being 100% honest about it & the fact that he has more responsibility now. He has a finance & a new baby so his finances have definitely shifted. Like the aunt said, balance.

[@sattasana7753]

Me too but I'm from west Africa so I don't even have a choice. I'm definitely preparing for my father's retirement. With everything he's sacrifice for me and my sister, there's no soul on earth that can stop me.

[@janickawil6403]

This is what I was trying to understand .

[@yemedemure414]

Nothing at all!! They took care of us. ❤❤❤❤

[@RaydineRiekert]

Nobody's ever gonna tell me not to support my parent financially They should've only focused on the other things

[@PositivitySpeaks101]

I agree!!! We would have to work harder but I couldn’t turn my back on my mother for no one!! There is no other .. I pray that he does the right things and whatever he choose he don’t regret it of something ever happens to his mother..

[@soleiljolie70]

Right tf

[@tdiva3045]

How does miss Diana feel like her son's fiance don't like her! She was the one who asked her to move in with them... ppl don't ask you to move in with them if they don't like because that can just cause a huge burden on everyone

[@kinshasaharris4758]

It can be used as a form of control. She can dictate what they can and can't do, how they can and can't interact with each other in front of her. Always look a gift horse in the mouth.

[@besslee7905]

That woman just wanted his mom to move in so she would have a FREE built in baby sitter. That fiancee just wanted to use his mom like a house maid, cooking, cleaning and baby sitting while they work or do their own thing. It was very smart of his mom NOT to move in with them since it had NOTHING to do with love on his fiancee side. It was only for their convenience for his mom to move in. If she had moved with them, it wouldn't have worked out well.

[@Sophie-fi6dm]

Whoo wee.. Own is really spoiling us!!!!!!!!!

[@nicoleprice354]

Just a few minutes in...regardless of the tention....as adults, it is unnecessary to walk in rooms and walk past people like that. It was also unnecessary for the bride to be to make that comment as they passed through

[@leahlinki5683]

True! The bride should also have put the glass down to at least be able to shake hands or even hug the family members! She was too offish! 😮😮😮

[@beautydefined1601]

I noticed that too. That was very rude. And my opinion, Tracy did not call out the bride certain issues.

[@LMurray-pd6fq]

I’m a mom… I believe if his mom needs any help and he has means to help… HELP!

[@sweetness_k]

Mommas boys r a nightmare to b in a relationship with and they will never see it

[@lolaispure4296]

Not all. Thank God.

[@apriljoy425]

Tracy is Amazing!

[@sweetness_k]

@@apriljoy425 yes she is!!

[@tiawalker6803]

In hell with one now. Hard lesson to learn

[@Hush-puppy]

“For my own sanity” “OH, you mean POWER”🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

[@lexxtalkaboutit]

Bride looks just like her mom, they’re beautiful

[@quichequiche4274]

The problem is that the wife doesn't understand that more than one thing can be true at the same time. He can decide for his mother not to move in. And his mother can decide she doesn't want to move in, too.

[@beautydefined1601]

Exactly! It annoyed me that nobody understood that at the table😑

[@Mzkc1]

This was a such a powerful episode and Tracy handled it beautifully!!!

[@JustShayShay]

😂😂😂 I love Auntie on the groom side. She's a peacemaker but with sarcasm.

[@jenniferb8145]

When you get married your immediate family now becomes your extended family. His wife and daughter should be his priority. His mom should understand that and she should want him to be the kind of man that puts his wife and children first.

[@DeloresSimpson-go7yf]

This sounds more like a miscommunication between the mother and fiancé. Glad they made a breakthrough.

[@apriljoy425]

Fiancé didn’t have to tell her Mother about him financially supporting his Mother. She also did not have to say in front of the group- That’s a lie to his Mom. I thought it was disrespectful.

[@scorpiorules3709]

It was disrespectful and I'm not sure the wife does like the mother. If someone close to my mate believes I dislike them, the tone of my voice would change and I'd want to know what gives them that belief.

[@emilyndu338]

I thought the same BUT, as the show was going I thought she has brought up that issue b4 and never got anywhere. Her man and his mama gaslit her. So she is there to have resolutions and they should know from the gate go she won't sugarcoat anything. So they better be honest

[@dwelanesepelle6842]

Omar needs to set boundaries with his mom when you joining as one your lady has to be first, it doesn’t mean you love your mom any less .

[@nkhen_c357]

The bride is not wise..you dont take on your mother in law like that and her mother has no right to question him supporting his mother....boundaries and not her place.

[@Capricorn-mt1ke]

This brought me to tears I really love Omars mother I think she's sweet. I understand her and Omar's love for one another wanting to be there for your mother doesn't make him less than a man.

[@KristianGuzman-s9h]

When the brother threw his hands up - LMBOOO! I felt that 😅

[@rak7293]

He’s a full of it . He’s gaslighting her. The issues she’s having with his momma is actually issues she’s got with him. He needs to put firm boundaries with his momma.

[@jerminajohnson536]

The groom best friend face and reaction when mama said she to old of a cat babbbbbby I screamed

[@jazzy5975]

Omar's mother came in with an attitude and Laterrica probably too that sets the whole process up for failure. In this case he's playing both sides laterrica and his mom 😂😂😂

[@bombassblog]

I’m sorry but the mom is hilarious!!! It’s so many catchy things she said that I just fell out laughing at!

[@diannpowers183]

The man taking care of his mom is a good thing.his mom is grown .let that man take care of his mom.

[@arieltaylor6070]

Mom was like this prior to a baby. Home girl fcked up when she didnt see that. She shouldve let him go way before the baby came

[@nicoleprice354]

Laterrica is a bit much. She needs to allow her man to talk as well...not over talk him

[@melissajohnson817]

Yes, she runs the house. U never speak to yr sig/other in front of others like that..He’s being pulled between 2 strong women

[@torry24]

he needs to be a man and talk up! that's the whole problem now. he needs to speak up to his moms

[@thelonetravelr]

He’s marrying a woman just like his mother; strong and opinionated. He needs to “man” up and speak up.

[@pheoliasmith4325]

The mama want her son for herself. She’s used to getting her way and the son folding every single time. It’s really sad

[@Doctor-stone.]

How I love this Episode❤ The Bride is so WISE✨🌙♥️

[@katlego5077]

He didn’t have to marry someone this controlling and disrespectful! Passing their family like that at the beginning spoke volumes! Sleeping whilst her daughter’s grandma is visiting! Good luck dude

[@mrs.latoyamelvin652]

SHE SAID TO SEPERATE US, SHE WANT HER MAN BACK, LOL CHILEEEE I WENT THROUGH THE EXACT SAME THING WITH MY EX AND HIS MOMMA AND I POLITELY HANDED HIM BACK TO HER, IM NOT FINA ARGUE OVER A BABY BOI, LIFES JUST TOO SHORT!

[@TrudyGraham-f3x]

I enjoyed supporting my parents

[@scorpiorules3709]

My mom gave me life and I will ALWAYS make sure she feels safe, secure and provided for. Grateful to have had mates who feel the same.

[@blackbox1911]

If you can afford to … but if he can’t do it and take care of his household too then it’s a problem

[@DeeDee-lr8nb]

I don't think it's anything wrong with a son helping his elderly mother. I found it incredibly selfish that she has a problem with that

[@mythiac696]

The fiance was willing to have the mother move in with them, the mother said no. If money is coming out of the household, which leads to us barely making it, the mother is selfish not to assist and in releasing that burden.

[@ebonybelle]

If it is hurting them financially I definitely understand

[@god563616]

I think personally his wife is tripping from the start.

[@bicboom80]

Right... She came in with the "This my Mannnnnnn" attitude

[@torry24]

you don't make any sense just like that old BAT and her nipple sucking son

[@RoziRoz25]

I have never seen Tracy greet with such an embrace

[@TheOnyxStarr]

Don't let the family you come from destroy the family you are creating.

[@JessTalkingBooks]

"I'm too old and kept." Your son isn't your husband. It's not your DIL's fault that you didn't plan ahead.

[@chelee8804]

She said “I’m too old of a cat to be licked in the butt by a kitten”. Please rewind

[@JessTalkingBooks]

​@@chelee8804 Which doesn't negate what I said. I simply summed up what she was saying for 75% of the show.

[@misslady5029]

​@JessTalkingBooks Thank you! You don't have to be verbatim to get the point! Bottom line, his mother is a manipulator. She's used to having her way! I'm glad that he finally found the courage to stand up and make the decision to be with the family he created!😊

[@JessTalkingBooks]

@@misslady5029 she's used to using that to make him feel guilty. He can't afford to pay but she demands his attention.. I'd bet money that she gets a lot of small payments to make up for the rent. The brothers transitioned payments recently. But that doesn't account for years before. And her not knowing her granddaughter is a her thing because she felt slighted a woman who'd just given birth didn't lay out the red carpet. I wish Tracy had really discussed how manipulative the mom really is. And recommended a local therapist straight away.

[@ebbyloves6055]

​@@JessTalkingBooksTell her one more time you know some ppl can't comprehend... It's not his responsibility to take care of her grown behind. It's ok to help out every now and then but not all the time.

[@LORILEESANTIAGO-t5m]

200% ABSOLUTELY AGREE!!!! IT IS LIFE_WE ARE BORN,GROW UP & MOVE ON TO THE NEXT PHASE OF LIFE:):) LIKE BEING MARRIED HAVING CHILDREN...MAKING LIFE'S OWN CHOICES....BLESSED BE🙏🙏🙏 LORI LEE SANTIAGO

[@ms.robinxoxo2710]

Momma need to pay her own way ! He has a family

[@jazzy5975]

Its funny how Laterrica said i want to have a relationship with you and the mom understood she doesn't care for me

[@MzGigi84]

Too much is going on here. I don’t want to say Miss Diana is jealous, but I do see she feels she doesn’t have a strong hold on her son Omar life.

[@empresslove4797]

Mum made huge progress and at her age, was lovely to watch.

[@JustSummerGirl]

Such amazing growth and reflection. Dr. Tracy is unmatched.

[@lisamagruder8672]

Let me say this and say this very clear the conversation between Latrina and Omar in front of everybody regarding the mother staying with them should’ve never happened. That’s a private conversation with them. You don’t argue with your husband in front of other people.

[@ingridarthur821]

I love Omar’s mom!

[@mirabella2154]

I like her too.

[@j.k.3]

All the feels!!!! This was a top episode for sure. Tracey is liquid gold. !!❤

[@MistyEE21]

Why is the Groom being quizzed about taking care of his Mom?? She raised him solely, it's morally right to take care of his Mom.

[@alwaysaccurate8725]

She NOT sick… he didnt ask to be born. His mom needs to move on and get a boo she beautiful.

[@MistyEE21]

​@@alwaysaccurate8725 and I totally agree with all of that but there are better ways to handle her to get to that point. She's set in her ways, the son could still provide for her well-being. It's just MORALLY right. He can chose to disengage completely and that's up to him.

[@d.m.3753]

I don't think the issue is taking care of his mom. I think the issue is that there is no agreement between husband and wife. They can together decide to support her. The starting point should be their family (leave and cleeve etc.).

[@samueljones9035]

Laterrica is SUCH a great person, omg!

[@jremus301]

This is the comment I was looking for! Her character really stands out! She's a really great woman ❤️

[@samueljones9035]

@@jremus301 I mean, honestly! She went to her fiancé’s mother TWICE to try to make things right! I truly hope her daughter takes on these beautiful qualities of hers

[@samueljones9035]

@@thebarbieinvestor5428 OKAY?! 😂 I would’ve been like, “Girl, how’d you know??”

[@mygodisawesome6121]

Laterreca is such a grown woman. That’s so big of her ❤

[@lyntonia1168]

I'M SCREAMING IT I LOVE TRACY I LOVE FAMILY OR FIANCE I'M ALWAYS TYPING IN TRYING TO SEE NEW SHOWS

[@zeezee990]

The textbook rules are great and all that.. but trust me, Laterrica already knows, if she pushes his Mom out the picture.. Omar is GONE!

[@Libra_Issues]

This therapist is good. I need her book💯

[@sherriewilliams4167]

I would NEVER get in the way of a mother and her son 😢 and I'm married myself

[@bena100]

I like the grooms aunt😂

[@belindalindsey607]

Leaving and cleaving is a real thing. Parents have to learn to let go of theiradult children.

[@D-Will2k]

So true

[@ebonybelle]

Omar if supporting your mom is important to you, don’t marry this chick. You should of picked a women who could accept this and disclosed this in advance to your lady. I see both sides. Momma is kinda needy and manipulative too.

[@ogriss412]

Too late for that once you’ve had a child though

[@TB-fk4qm]

I love this therapist! She is on point honey! 💕

[@titibairfield]

My husband is a momma boy and it's fine maybe I got a different momma boy because I don't feel second to his mom I love that lady and just like a mom she work my nerves

[@PrettiiKymmii]

They are basically already living like married couples

[@lotoyalatty1044]

Ms Tracy is glowing 😊

[@TB-fk4qm]

Laterica your hair and make-up is on point honey!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@jasminehouston-burns1691]

It really seemed like mom and fiance really loved each other, they only began a tense relationship after the moving-in debacle. Perhaps God put in on her heart to not move in specifically to allow all this to unfold.

[@GodIsLove-g9g]

Best episode ever!

[@tonyamscateyezmcmillan1417]

Omg the ending made me cry 😢

[@bilqis3]

What a beautiful and inspiring human story

[@tgber8126]

With everything that's going on the bride needs to chill out n stop shouting

[@shawdelscott4832]

She going to really be shouting after they get married and the mother moving the house I wouldn’t move in with that woman that mother better go ahead to Texas because

[@shaecarter1837]

Agree doing way too much for me.

[@ItsMike81]

It’s too late to be on this show they already have a child together.

[@gcchair7634]

Actually I think it was critical for them to be on the show because they had a child. They needed to have a cohesive family relationship in order to raise a child in a loving environment. All of the other couples could walk away with no attachments , but this couple would always have to maintain contact because of the child.

[@blackbox1911]

It’s not too late to get help

[@yemedemure414]

Her brother more sassier than me 😅😅😅

[@torry24]

what's ur point in saying that? he's gay so duh!

[@olubunmifadairo8061]

Mama, that's what you got from that? She's saying she wants a relationship with you.

[@lisasmith4958]

I don't see anything wrong with him paying rent for his mother

[@shawdelscott4832]

But the daughter-in-law from hell yelling at dinner dinner

[@tonyamscateyezmcmillan1417]

I hope they see these comments and they work on each other

[@khutsonkube7054]

It is an old episode but okay 🙁

[@zahirahjahmad2530]

I heard Omar say he has more brothers, so why is his mother so involved with his life or is she this way with all her sons

[@Prettireeltv]

His mama lying! He hasn’t helped you out of a few situations. He supports you lady! Paying your rent is keeping a roof over your head.

[@alishamoore4472]

They don’t have grandparent rights anymore they took that law away years ago.

[@LadyTee1464]

Really I did not know