self love | how to truly love yourself 💓

[@lavendaire]

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[@shristysingh7336]

Love yourself 1. Positive Self talk 2. Shadow work (uncover insecurity and fear) realease it 3. Forgiveness and compassion 4. Step into a new identity (make a vision) 5. Integrate self love habits and practices 6. Focus on progress not perfection

[@rihem-iz5pv]

U r amazing ♡

[@layladilajla]

5 life rules that we need to learn! 1- eat healthy 2 - have a good sleep 3- put yourself first 4- believe in yourself 5-Read the book Womens magic truths on borlest, it is the best book I have read and from which I learned how to be the best version of myself!

[@jessicaxsmith1]

A woman like you is rare, teaching and supporting us to be our best self and love all the richness in life. Thank you ❤

[@tussyshea6832]

How is this so accurate ? I started my self love journey about a month ago and I feel that currently, I am an 8.❤ self love, changes your whole universe. To all going through this, love yourself today a little more then yesterday and remember "like she said", baby steps, self forgiveness and remember to kick out the room for negative at all costs.

[@moyetri2235]

You know you're falling for yourself when .. you have a outer view of yourself, you can completely see yourself as you're .. you are falling for your skintone just as it is. I call myself moana 😘🥰 .. you like to sit alone, spend time alone with your thoughts ( for me i go to my terrace, watch my plants, clouds , moon and the wind💓) i write everything in my journal .. in this journey you get to know many things about yourself (hobbies, interests, values, fun) i know & exploring .. you're more likely smile when you watch yourself dressing, clicking photos 😍😍😍 & the list goes on .. We're all in this journey, there's no one who has completely figured out everything explore baby girl love you 🐥 God loves you

[@arunshajiabraham]

I feel like I am a 2 out of 10. I was a 1 for the past few months, but I am slowly learning to let go of the self hate, negative self-talk and I am slowly learning to love myself and accept myself for who I am.

[@MamaSwole]

Starting my day off watching this vid has given me such good energy for the day❤

[@lavendaire]

😻😻😻

[@ColorOfCozy]

There's a great truth behind forgiveness. It does not mean to forget, but to move past. It's hard when we are taught to forgive and "forget"because we don't forget the feelings. We can't forget the emotions. Forgiveness is being at peace with the person/situation and moving past it.

[@maicasira2104]

I'm currently at 4-5. Still slowly learning to love myself more. Thanks for this video!

[@eshaestheticc]

why depending on others to love you when you can love yourself the most?

[@suckmyhole]

RuPaul might have said something like this lol

[@goldendiamon]

Exactly.The moon never begs to be loved and will always shine no matter what others think of her or him

[@CTheWayCoaching]

Powerful comment❤❤❤❤

[@sheilapaul1553]

Had to go through the eye of the storm ...feeling uncomfortable....recognizing and changing negative self talk....discovering where those thoughts originated ....and finally feeling powerful enough to pour into Me! Being kind and compassionate to Me....can be a difficulty journey....but We are sooo Worth it. This feels so much better....finally the sun is shining in my soul.... 🌤👑♥️🥰

[@Soulofindianmythology]

"Failure is not the opposite of success. It's a part of it"❤

[@daisygrlisme]

What a perfect message for today. Love yourself and the journey will be that much sweeter. 💕

[@akeemprice9036]

i do struggle with my negative thoughts in my head and self talk but distract my self with journaling and taking walks through nature

[@jennilynannojeda3343]

I feel like I'm at 7 to 7.5. I journal every night for a week of consistency, which I am proud of; I write my daily gratitude, something that makes me happy, something of which I am proud. I take care of myself by simply taking a bath, eating properly, and sleeping for 7-8 hours a day. I do say good and positive things about myself in my mind. I buy things for myself without even feeling guilty, which really makes me happy. I say no to people; I've been vocal about what I feel towards someone's actions and words towards me; I really protect myself more. Your message really inspires me to continue this journey because it's really nice to love yourself and be with yourself no matter what. It's really not linear; there are days that you will feel sh*t, but there is always something in that day that will make you feel good about yourself.

[@lavendaire]

thank you so much for sharing love 💖 i'm so proud of you!

[@bernadettemclean5238]

Over the past year I have been really anxious and now im slowly coming out of it

[@mandomatsane8216]

7 I am truly learning that it's a journey not to be rushed but to embrace

[@halflazy1441]

after a long time investing in myself since last year, I could say I pretty much love myself so I'd rate it as 7.5 at this point, but this year I'm gonna progress more to be finally able to love myself fully, thank you aileen ♥︎

[@GauravGarg_20]

I am on 4 …slowly learning to love myself more and more❤

[@pujiantopuji769]

Your voice is so clear,what a great self motivation

[@sonicsymphony1212]

I feel like I'm in 4 to 5 out if 10..as I started my selflove journey a year ago..when I first found your channel! Thank you so much❤

[@annoar9776]

that's beautiful!

[@anni1113]

I think I'm at a 6 on my self-love journey, which is a huge improvement from where I've been before so I am grateful for that.

[@lavendaire]

keep trusting 🥰

[@moyetri2235]

I think I'm 7 out of 10 in my self love journey still loving, taking myself up & crawl ❤ For me u know u re falling in love with yourself when you can see yourself as a outer view for me I'm a beautiful brown skin with curly hair girl , who is always full of life , joyful yet assertive.😊❤

[@lavendaire]

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[@undyne7455]

I have already set my ratings, please look at it in your own time☺️ You are very pretty by the way🌸🌼🌸

[@rupachemudupathi9569]

I always think about what people think about me and what I wear ! I really really want to get over it

[@Jodie-c3p]

Thanks for this video, year 2023 was a terrible year for me personal ever since the pandemic and self love is one of my main goal in my life for 2024. For me it's a 4.5 out of 10, I have started all in your awesome list but the truth is the mind and body takes time to heal, my healing time is going to take over a year or two, alot of work. One, thing I have learned is that to make way for the new you that is healed and better you, you first need to clear out all of the bad you and its going to make you doubt, fail and cry (even in the inside), but their is great power in love, faith and hope when trying to make the new you. So, I am so glad that i am seeing more people taking your advice Lavendaire. Year 2024 will be a excellent one to remember.

[@DilCardyn]

Just finished watching this incredible video on self-love! The insights shared here are pure gold, and the tips on how to truly love yourself resonate so deeply. Time to prioritize self-care, embrace imperfections, and radiate that self-love glow. Thanks for the positive vibes and a reminder that we all deserve our love.

[@archanarout24]

Just yesterday only I created my future me vs curret me for this year, watched all your video on this topic, I cannot tell you how grateful I am for all that ypu do to teach us & inspire us.

[@lavendaire]

and i cannot tell you how grateful I am for you! 💟

[@tejaswanisingh4028]

i am at 3 in the journey because i do doubt myself what can i achieve in academics but i embark on this journey to completely love myself

[@annspirit24]

Thank you for this message, God love all of us❤

[@samieldeleon]

I think I am 4/10. Since yesterday, I've been watching videos about being a high value woman or be that girl. It's helping. I've been practicing kindness since yesterday.

[@SoberStPete]

You seem like such a cool person and your voice is beautiful and soothing. You're a whole dang pretty pretty lighthouse of love and I'm livin for it.

[@iristsh]

I used to be at 6, but ever since i started watching your videos early this year, I do think it has progressed to 7 or 8 now. Thank you for making this video, it's a good reminder to myself for some self-love habits and as always it's inspiring =) Thank you & all the best to everyone who's on this journey as well❤

[@harrisray1400]

I feel I'm in 1! After watching this video. I have to start loving myself. Thank you for this amazing self-love video.

[@lavendaire]

you got this 😻 i fully trust you!

[@siyasiya8517]

You have such a beautiful comforting energy keep shining ❤❤

[@asimahmeraj]

Even you seem to have angelic beauty & you do own the heart of an angel.🌼🌼

[@tannisha7855]

I am very insecure about my height...even my best friend has started to bully me because of my height....but I am truly greatful that I have found Lavendaire .....love you 😊

[@lavendaire]

It's important to remember that everyone is unique, and our value extends beyond physical attributes. Embracing self-love and confidence in who you are is a powerful journey 💟 Sending you love & light!

[@elizabethdehaye639]

Definitely 1. I've hated myself since I was 9 or 10 (and I'm 44 now). It actually seemed so bizarre to me that people loved themselves

[@bernadettemclean5238]

I’m going to rewatch this video and grab my journal out and journal

[@icuzman]

I would say I’m at a 7 since I feel there is still a lot to uncover about myself with this self love Journey but I am eager to expand my confidence and self love by discovering more about myself and not being so hard on myself

[@lavendaire]

keep going love 😻

[@klaireburrows7969]

Thank you for this… I’d say I’m about a 7 for self love, overall very good with a few negative thoughts but luckily I’m starting to see those for what they are. So onwards and upwards! Xx

[@MarieLifeInWords]

I think i am at a 6, definitely doing so much more to give myself love and put myself in situations which make me feel whole, perhaps even a 7. Forgiving myself for mistakes or hurt that I may have caused others, I find hard, but recognising is a good step. Thank you❤❤❤❤

[@conkodo]

Hi Lavendaire, thank you for being a light in this world! You’re a beautiful soul, love ya!

[@lavendaire]

i appreciate your words so much🥰

[@YourJoy14]

Thanks for this video, Aileen! Right now I was at 2 and I am hoping that it gets better as times goes by.

[@juliamalcolm-roberts4142]

I have found you at a time in my life, where I need as much help as possible. I'm loving all your vibes and vids, you are truly amazing and the way you engage thankyou 😊😊encourage

[@sugarrush101]

watching your videos always brings me peace of mind and calms me down... Thank you so much!!!

[@RitaMarieHartford]

I feel my number is a 5. I do positive affirmations on my morning playlist. I would love to journal more. I'm working on myself, my human design, and restarting my KZbin channel and lay the foundation for my future business. ❤

[@theartesana]

Love is the answer ❣️✨

[@Maïssa-s2t]

❤❤

[@kionaholmes6808]

Thank you for putting this message out here.

[@avaniyadav2999]

Was waiting for your these types of video from so long! Please keep uploading more contents like this. Also thank you so much for this video. Now I'm gonna sleep with a relaxed mind coz your voice just makes me calm. Lots of love!

[@johnnabright]

I definitely feel like I am 1 out of 10 far along my self love journey.

[@lavendaire]

Sending you love for this journey ❤️❤️

[@johnnabright]

@@lavendaire Thank you! And you too!

[@sydneyeberhardt]

Feeling about a 5/10… recently lost a job but Gods blessed me with a new career wayyy better than before and very unexpected!! 🥰❤️ I think with this new job I’ll start feeling better about myself.

[@trixjoyce]

I'm like a 6,5 to a 7 when it comes to loving myself. It feels like it gets better the older I get :)

[@JuhiNaz-jq6cr]

Lavandaire changed my life ❤

[@bananabread888]

OOf, when you said “no matter what you say, they can’t hear you or understand because they are operating from their beliefs about themselves” (something like that) I felt seen 😮 I’ve been working on not judging myself, coming out of fear based beliefs or feelings and receiving wholesome feedback about who I am. I’m not going to let my unhealthy mental habits deter me from loving myself fully ❤ Every single day ❤ I love you also dear reader Thank you:) On the scale I feel like a 7

[@Nada01111]

Thank you ❤for another video I have the best times when you post ! It keeps me in check and guides me more than u could Imagine . I don’t have much guidance in life so this been a life saver for 3 years now.I would Love it if you ever have a weekly podcast even if it’s 10 min ,you are motivating !

[@lavendaire]

I have a podcast, it’s called The Lavendaire Lifestyle ☺️

[@Nada01111]

I know I loved it ,that’s why I was asking if possible you could ever consider a weekly post like starting your week with lavendaire .it’s just a suggestion .nonetheless l love your work thanks for lavandaire .you are amazing 💜

[@adityagurung7069]

Thank you for your video..❤I was hurt.

[@SHRADDHAM22443]

Thank You So Much... ❤❤ Self Love Practice had really made my life so beautiful... 😊 Thanks a bunch!! ❤❤❤❤❤

[@najwahusna9194]

I love every tips. It's really doable and very detail. Thank you for your video!! :)

[@nicolekrie2716]

Thank you so much for this video I have learned a lot 🥰🥰

[@towarahman]

Thank you so much Dear. so informative!

[@nene-st8jg]

ive just found you by accidentaly.but i believe that i need your life tip to my life. and your English is pretty easier to listen to me japanese speaker.

[@AleenaBux]

I would give myself a 6.5 , hope the rating increases in this fresh year and i would be able to truly love myself.

[@akankshaawachar]

Thankyou so so much beautiful soul.. Lots of love.. ✨❤❤❤🙏🌸🌸🌸😇🧚‍♀️🧚‍♀️🧚‍♀️

[@angel_captures]

This is relatable!

[@iluvbears4861]

5.5 to 6 here. Definitely have some improving to do but this video gave me so much insight and new found motivation to continue before it slips lower ❤❤

[@MarieLifeInWords]

Thank you for such beautiful reminders❤❤❤❤

[@bernadettemclean5238]

Yes I’m on this journey

[@chrissy5291]

All your musical choices are so reminiscent of Steven Universe to me, and your voice is soothing. You are becoming my positive self talk. I started with your affirmation videos and finally subscribed last week. Thank you for your content. 💜

[@lavendaire]

thank you for your beautiful words 💟

[@shruthyg]

Thank you so for this video. Got it when I needed the most ❤❤

[@The_Golden_girl_22]

I love my self and going to love my self forever regardless what happen and going to take care of my self improve my self and healing from everything that hurts me GOD Willing

[@rachaelharper3778]

The problem is when I am happy for a long time my anxiety and anxious thoughts hit me all over again which I ask myself where did I go wrong like I was doing so good 🥺

[@shivaniaswal5468]

Please please please make a meditation on self concept or how to increase it ❤️

[@Its.justlife]

To be beautiful means to be yourself. You don’t need to be accepted by others. You need to accept yourself ❤

[@magdalena2115]

Honestly feel like I’m at a 2. Thank you so much for these tips.

[@lavendaire]

sernding you love & light ❣️

[@sacharymateo1710]

6.5 i THINK THIS is the closer to 10 I've ever been and it feels nice :)

[@raznikov]

A great concise description of self-love and healing!

[@ashveenkaur]

I think I'm at 4 ...and I'll grow on from here❤

[@dreamlife33103]

I am probably at 6 at this time. I have so kuch going on personally but I am finding ways to incorporate self love in my morning routines

[@swathivaggu8039]

Sending you so much love too ❤😘

[@HEYYISHIIII]

THANK YOU SO MUCH LAVENDAIRE FOR THIS VIDEO , I LEARNED NEW THINGS ABOUT SELF LOVE 💜🌸

[@JMK719]

Your voice is so beautiful and attractive!

[@arestaquilla]

I really enjoy and get a lot of insight from this content but I also mesmerized by how beautifull u are in this video, like your hair, your dress, it's sooo cutee

[@rachaelharper3778]

All that matters you know your goals ❤

[@justamusicfan-uh4ti]

I love your videos and I watch your channel everyday❤❤ thank you so much for being so awesome and making these awesome videos

[@kartarsinghdhankhar5051]

I felt good after so many days after watching your vid thanku ❤ I agree u on everything u mentioned.. Surely it will be a slow process For a person as me who have negative rigid beliefs about oneself will take time to u know to love myself But it will be qorth it !! ❤

[@peace9346]

I have been struggling with self love my whole life I never been able to really love myself truly I also struggle with weak mindset has well is hard for me to truly love myself I’m so tied of not loving myself and hating myself so much. I wish can also being mentally strong has well.

[@eiydALya1430]

thank you.

[@JenniferHuangDeng22]

I feel like I am an 8-9. I only sometimes get anxiety and my mind just overthinks. Listening to music, meditation videos and doing breathing exercises helps a lot to feel calm and at peace.

[@lavendaire]

so happy for you! 🥰

[@tina4961]

I feel like a good way to do this for someone who's single is to think: If I'm dating this person (yourself), how would you treat them to make them happy? What would you tell them to soothe them when they're having a hard time? How would you spend time with them? It's lowkey delusion with a purpose 😅

[@cynthiayawon1063]

For me, I’ll say I’m a 3. I learnt how to romanticize my life from short tik tok videos. I do a lot of activities to love myself, but I always don’t follow through. I’m off and on. I have now come to realize that it’s because I skipped the points of 1 to 3. Especially forgiveness

[@lavendaire]

keep going friend ♡ you got this!

[@johngomes4278]

Wishing you a happy thanksgiving 🦃🍽️

[@johngomes4278]

It's ok if you have already forgotten about big Leon ,have a blessed holiday !

[@vaibhaviasolkar]

Thank you 🤍🤍🤍🤍

[@amybrown4311]

I want to like your video again and again and again ❤

[@neutralzsdesigns488]

Lovely , i would really appreciate if you could do video about joy and play with your perspective thnk you ☺🌺

[@c.k.1958]

Thank you ❤

[@jeravwen]

I'm around 6/10.. It is great this video pop up ☺️

[@sunshineysideoflife]

So helpful ❤

[@Fieldsplanet]

Thank you so much ❤

[@AnilKumar-jn9hv]

I'm from India 🇮🇳 thank you so much💜