how to believe in yourself (even if no one else does)

Let's talk about how to believe in yourself & your vision, even if no one else does. Self belief is having self confidence, self love and knowing your self worth. It's trusting your intuition, because sometimes, only you can see what you see. Don't expect others to understand. Just do it, and show them. Stop doubting yourself and believe in your vision ☀️
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[@peckishpagan]

This title hit me hard in the feels because I’m literally sitting here, feeling like a joke and wondering what steps I have to take to surround myself with people who do believe in me. 6/10 self belief; I need to be more patient, make a plan I can stick to and set boundaries on how much I share. Thank you!!

[@PrincessMira64]

Hi there😊I believe in you and that you'll get through this. There are moments I need to hear this so if it's the same case here you have it ❤

[@mcpoulina5746]

Hi there, what helped me was getting new people around me who were in a new starting chapter. We had our own ideas or focus but helped each other to keep going. I only talk my ideas to a certain amount of people and that is what fuels my believe. I am still not at my full potential but working on it. So you keep going and keep believing in ur vision. U will get there just keep going. ❤

[@wendysylvain4273]

We believe in you 🌸🌸🌸

[@danieye]

I believe in you♥️ you are a beautiful soul🦋

[@readwithelahe]

Same 😢

[@yurikain9354]

For me when I need. 3:12 “People can’t see what’s in your mind. Only you can see what’s in your mind and in your heart.” 3:34 “Trust yourself, trust your vision, and truly believe in it in order to give it the energy.” 5:08 “If you feel like your vision is so out there and a lot of people are going to reject it, then just don’t tell them. Keep a boundary that protects you from anything that takes you away from that deep inner knowing.” 6:54 “Get super clear on your vision & idea.” 11:03 “Because only you can see it, you are like the medium to bring that vision to life.” 12:18 “Your dream don’t have to make sense to other people. You don’t even have to share it with other people if you want to keep it to yourself, if you want to protect it for yourself.” 13:14 “Have patience for the journey” 13:56 “Putting all of your energy into it and just do the thing and be patient.”

[@andirecruits]

You can’t really do anything difficult if you don’t believe in yourself 💯

[@lavendaire]

Yup!!

[@andirecruits]

@laurasouto6256 Yes! Remind yourself that when you put your mind to it you are able to accomplish hard things. You did it with English and can do it with other things. English is a hard language to learn so if you can learn that you can learn anything!

[@healingthesoul5647]

Where I’m at right now is realizing that I kinda believe in myself but when there’s so much negativity I start to doubt my dream. I need to learn or figure out how to have a barrier around me when ppls opinions are just negative.

[@gamerrodz]

I feel like why other people opinion matters so much to us is that if no one's watching or appreciating you begin to question what the worth of what you're doing is. I noticed that I'm more dedicated and passionate when someone is watching me on the other hand I feel like a waste of space when I'm doing nothing productive and I'm being watched. Very intriguing

[@Sanchurecording.in29]

"People don't see what's in your mind or heart" That's so beautiful... Everybody has talked about self love but no one actually pin pointed this thing... Thanks aileen🧡💚💜

[@lavendaire]

thank you!!

[@another20sth]

This is something I've been struggling with ever since I started being active in my journey to grow. It was easy to hype myself up when things were going like I wanted but then there are days where I wish someone else saw the effort I was putting in, or the goals I had achieved and was cheering me on. It made me feel lonely and sometimes even question why I was doing it. Thank you for this reminder. I want and am going to be intentional and patient with my self on this journey to become better little by little. This is a message to my future self when she does revisit this video, you are doing your best right now. Even if no one sees it or acknowledges it, even if some days when you feel like nothing is changing and you feel stagnant, know that change takes time and what little you're doing matters. Remember the butterfly effect and how you're always allowed to start from scratch 💕✨

[@courtneymagyar]

I have more confidence right after listening. I’m definitely going to stop giving everyone my energy

[@SaransEnglish]

Hey Aileen, I have been following for around 5 years and I have grown so much with you. I never forget to send your videos to the people who struggle with self doubt. If I write an autobiography, you will be there in at least 5 to 10 chapters. I am not at all exaggerating. 💓 I love you so much and I have never missed any of your videos. Whenever I look back, it's amazing. I still have struggles but life is just a bliss now. I am extremely grateful to you. ❤ You really have no idea how much I love you as a person. Thank you so much❤❤❤ If you ever visit India, please let me know. I am dreaming to meet you one day and I am sure I will one day♥️♥️♥️♥️This has been a dream for a long time. Either in India or in US. ❤❤❤❤❤❤😊

[@lavendaire]

Wow!! So amazing how long we’ve been on this journey together 💗

[@itsdaksha]

Indian follower here too! So amazing to attend a lavendaire workshop!

[@idrwsometimez]

Another indian, following you aileen, you are just amazing

[@eileenalvarado4303]

Beginning again! Love that you said that. I’m 52 years and gave a presentation to my community for the first time about my work. I’ve written several books but allowed fear to keep me from moving forward. My heart is now lighting up. I’m doing worships for the first time. New dreams are being becoming real for me. Thank you for sharing! Right on time😊

[@gamerrodz]

Never give up

[@opticmusprime808]

I'm a dude and I found this channel by accident one day looking for an anxiety relief. I love your channel and listen to it everyday and got one of your videos and go back to often. Your videos are calming asf I'm going to start checking out your meditation and getting unstuck videos😂Im glad you pushed through the beginning even when no one was watching😊💜

[@chickofmusic001]

I needed this as I am going to study again, hoping to make my family proud of me. And today is my birthday so this is perfect 🥳🤩

[@ems4596]

Happy Birthday!🎉❤🎊🎉🎊💕💞💐🎂

[@thegirlwhoalwaysdidit]

Happy birthday 🎉 You can do it!

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Happy birthday! Sending tons of positive manifestations your way 🥳✨

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Happy Birthday 🎂

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happy birthday!!!

[@paoxo23]

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[@Iamjohnnythethird]

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[@sabyslay]

This year I got into meditation and self growth and your videos are being a big part of it, so thank you.💞

[@aureliaperez3847]

"Cleanse your energy"... Gosh! I completely forgot that yes, we can absorb negativity and clean ourselves is so important. Thanks for the reminder!!

[@lisarkippen2182]

Thank you! So true. You are very inspirational! Love your motivation and authenticity! 💜

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[@dishaholani5996]

You've always been so helpful! ❤

[@carmenchavez9803]

I’m so glad you followed your intuition ❤your channel has helped me so much especially during my awakening thank you 🙏 keep going

[@rayoneforall]

Congratulations on the 2M subscribers! Thank you for being a part of my life

[@prerza]

i needed this, thank you and ilysm

[@giftsofspring]

thank you so much for this video, I needed it ❤ you do a great job, a very important one. Thank you for being there and helping. Take care! ❤

[@AmyTran47]

I’m so grateful for finding your channel. We are lightworkers so we are different from others 😇

[@idrwsometimez]

I'm really happy to be a follower here because ever since I joined, aileen I don't know how but you seem to post the exact video I may need like this one on believing myself, building my dreams! I feel that even through you universe is connecting to me and it makes me so happy, your words are so simple and understanding I feel I can achieve the entire world! Thank you so much aileen for your support 🥺💜

[@reenak6799]

Thank you, Aileen, for all you do! You are amazing! I love every video of yours that I’ve watched. ✨i appreciate all of your wisdom and advice, you really are such a light in this world! I am about a 6/10 and I feel like letting go of the belief that I need to be small, in order to be safe, will bring me to the next level ❤️

[@deborahmeyers551]

Needed this inspiration thank you Aileen 😊

[@xSweetHoneyBeex]

Thank you for posting this ❤

[@adamharries4776]

Thank you, Aileen, great words of wisdom and just at the right time. You are definitely inspiring all of us and giving us great tips how to achieve our goals -the one about being precise about the numbers relating to your goals (then focusing on them and being patient ) is great advice, I am going to do that. Thanks, Keep up the good work 🙏

[@Threeeyedkitten]

You are truly helping me! Thank you so much for continuing this channel. I recently found you and I’m so grateful.

[@bouchrahoumeur6742]

You such an inspiration Aileen, thanks for this boost of self confidence video, have a great day

[@Damaydream]

Wowwwww, I love so much this one "Our time will come" be patience + perseverance 🧡🧡

[@GarySwaby]

Congrats on 2million. I've been watching this channel for a long time. Love the content.

[@BixieASMR]

I have become obsessed with your channel over the last couple of weeks ❤️❤️❤️ I'm already seeing massive changes in my life because of your advice ✨

[@jadiotentik]

thank you Aileen for sharing this. I feel like I am in the beginning now. I believe in my visions because I've been thinking about this for almost a year. This is the right time to start but sometimes I hesitate to begin. This video makes me truly believe in my visions that no one sees. I am going to do this.

[@veetee4826]

thank you for this. this is what I needed, I feel so alone most of the time. makes it harder to prove yourself to others or reach your dreams w mental issues in the way..

[@chellebelle6458]

Thankyou for your videos. You're so inspiring and I'm so grateful to have found your channel. Sending you so much love and light 😊🙌❤️

[@che5music]

This was so so so good! Thanks for creating ❤❤❤

[@mohamyahi1]

I keep sending your videos to my friends if someone in trouble , you really changed my life when i was living in stressful life , thank you very much. Your fan from morocco ❤

[@jaimiesoriano611]

Thank you so much, i cant express how much i appreciate these videos and the work you do! Ive been very back and forth in finding confidence in my vision. And i was so sure about it until i started sharing some of it to my closest friend and bf. I hit an all time low and my breaking point. Your videos have helped me ground myself again and find the will to start again. I plan to create a new work schedule to help me get back in track, not be behind in life, and envision more details in my plans. Also adding lots of affirmations, which is something new to me but has been helping tremendously! lots of love (from a struggling recent undergrad lost with life)

[@HebrewsChapter11]

Great content ❤ I needed this today.

[@jccheang]

Thank you Aileen. I feel supported. Practical video as usual.

[@HEYYISHIIII]

This channel is my comfort place 🥺💝

[@calicolight88]

Thank u Aileen! I really needed this 😭😭😭 I feel like I’m at a 7/10 maybe… I’m really trying to relax and surrender to the journey. It’s hard bc the doubts are so strong!!!!!!!

[@OleaAurora-yf1jf]

You made my day by posting this 💖

[@manjooku]

Hey Aileen! This is by far my favorite video in your channel! It comes at the perfect time. I'm a high school senior who's starting out in posting youtube videos (only abt 200 subs) and lately I find myself contemplating whether I should post a video coz I'm scared that my family and friends would think that I'm bragging. Thank you for the boost of confidence and reminder that I should know my worth!

[@PrincessMira64]

Yes for believing in yourself ❤ I believe in myself the most

[@rhezamaebolivar7631]

I've been thinking a lot when it comes to my choices and now seeing this video is a good slap for me to realize that my vision should be important and to really show up no matter what❤

[@LifeOfBooksAndTravels]

Before even watching the full video, I know it is full of positivity and motivation. Love all your videos ❤

[@nerd26373]

Thank you for this video. We appreciate your transparency in this. May God bless you.

[@dilfuzaganiyeva8983]

Thank you so much for this video!!! 🥰 I lost my hope for the future because of some difficulties of the life. After watching this video, I realised that everything will be great if I believe in myself.

[@h..a..n..a]

It's incredible how whenever I got some problems, difficulties and questions in my life I found the solution or ways to approach this phase in my life from your videos! Thank you Lavendair 💜

[@hollymarie1697]

This feels like exactly what I needed to hear right now. ❤

[@kimt6411]

Thank YOu! This is what I really need. Loving your channel

[@sarahsaid5890]

At time l was looking for a video about this topic, thank you for your hard work ❤❤❤❤

[@anniebannannie2326]

Thank you so much! I really needed this❣️💖💕

[@anujaramuth2416]

Thank you for this encouragement and inspired words. Just on time. Stay blessed ❤

[@andrewthepancake]

I love when I get to queue your videos for my morning routine. Also, yellow looks so great on you!!

[@carlaslifeofficial7016]

The title really got into me since I don’t believe that much into myself, but now I’m new to your channel and I realize it’s inspiring. What you explain of visualizing yourself it’s kind of difficult to me but thanks to you I’ll try it out. Thanks :)

[@toaka5568]

i like that you said if you have a positive vision but people cant understand it you stay awway from them some people just cant unserstand and we should focus on ourselves and understand that we cant control everything i hope youre wella and happy

[@sharonangelica8409]

Thank you lavendaire!

[@johngomes4278]

This is so inspirational! Thank you 🎉

[@winniis]

thank you for your kind sharing and reminders!

[@nomillyn]

This is so timely. My self belief now is at 5/10. I have a list of things that I wanted to do and try but haven't started yet as I constantly overthink things if I can do it or not or if it is for me or not. But this video is so inspiring. I just have to believe that I can do it all!

[@Lylie77]

Why you need to believe in yourself Because only you can see it the blessing on it and its a special gift you have ✨

[@samiksha4524]

Thank you so much for making this video. ❤

[@sunkissedchaos]

I see so much of myself through you in this message. even though you're talking from experience, I truly feel like I understand this mindset. I really appreciate these beautiful reminders & congrats on 2 mil! that's insane!! great vid & so spot on! xx

[@NicoleSpreier-vu5bi]

Wow! Found myself tearing up during this💗I’m going to get really clear on what my vision is!

[@jessicabolduc8716]

This is exactly what I needed to hear this morning😂 I've been down and out, and this is a great reminder that things will be ok and just keep trying

[@RealSerenitySoul]

Your message guided me to a place of serenity and mindfulness. I appreciate the positive energy you share. 🌻🌠

[@eugenefontenot7898]

Congrats on reaching 2 Million Subscribers 👏

[@a_b_o_k_m_a_l]

حرفياا مررة حبيت قناتكك وحبيتكك فعلا ايلافيووو❤❤❤❤.

[@chitramondal1152]

Girl you are such a therapy !!

[@learningjourney602]

Thankyou for this video ❤

[@therainjournal]

Thank you always Aileen 🤍🫶🏻💫

[@angelinemarsland]

That’s so interesting that 9 years after starting your channel you feel called to reflect more on how you started, and you are now feeling the seeds of new vision- 9 being the number of endings and beginnings :) Thank you for this video. It can be so challenging to believe in myself or to even just get clear on what I really want to do. But these tools feel helpful 🙏🏼

[@ya8774]

I am a TEN in my self belief and you don’t know how much you made for me and for my journey in the last three years! Forever grateful Aileen💙

[@JeshnieNepo]

All of your videos make me calm and change my perspectives on other things! I hope you can do a video for people who struggle to cut ties with their toxic friends.💗

[@bigdreamwithliz]

I needed this right now, thanks! 🤩🙌

[@spacequeenn]

you are such a beautiful soul! i literally typed "how to believe in yourself" on YT and your video was uploaded hours ago, what a great timing! i appreciate all your words, they resonated with me so well, it seems quite hard for me to believe in myself at this moment, but i just have to trust myself and have patience with me. thanks for your wisdom

[@kyraangkasa5046]

Thank you Aileen 💝

[@anihdyldi]

This video just came in a right time, it’s been 3 weeks since I just landed on a new job which position i’ve been striving for and I can feel how difficult the daily tasks of the job itself until it got me questioning myself like “am i able to do this? why did they choose to recruit me?” I started to losing my confidence in my skills. As always, thank you so much for your encouraging messages through this video, i do believe that good things take time and i should be more patient with the progress that i have to go through in order to become better each day.

[@leandrabueno1406]

Thank you so much for this video, Lavendaire. You helped me so much. I feel like I was at 5 in believing myself but right after watching this video, I'm at 10! What I'm going to do is just to continue doing my dream, trust the process and be patient with my own timeline. Keep inspiring people, Lavendaire. We appreciate you!❤️

[@user-hm2jt3yg9w]

Oh it's my first time to see u and I really do love.. I enjoyed listening to u.. so many thanks 😊

[@quynhanhv]

Love you so much. I've felt positive whenever I watch your videos

[@ArielleDalia]

Thank you so much for this! I really needed it today

[@Nanai13]

Thank you so much i really need this

[@patgrl]

Thank you a lot. You you’re so important in my growing path! Thank you. And this video have many answers for many questions I’m having all this months… thank you again. Your job is amazing. Thank you again ❤❤❤❤❤ xoxos from Brazil 💚

[@Islamictips3]

Really love u for making this video. It's cheers me up so much. I can feel the positivity thorough ur motivation. Not only by words but the place u sit the light the background music ur voice is everything looks so perfectly peaceful. I just want to keep this positivity with me for all the time . Keep making this type of videos for us. 😍

[@saber_tooth_tiger]

Thank you so much for this video! I got some news yesterday that got me really down regarding my KZbin journey. But now i realize it just takes more time and i should just focus on myself and healing myself and being myself in the process. 5/10 self belief but im making more and more progress by the day :)

[@Shadowkitty360]

I really needed this today 💜 Thank you!

[@readwithelahe]

Me too😢

[@CrunchyDolle]

Beautiful video! Your videos help me when I'm at my lowest point and I thank you

[@mrs.sanchezbudgetz3787]

I honestly never thought about not telling anyone about my dreams or what I’m working on. I always thought I needed a second opinion or approval from someone but I’m just realizing I’m too sensitive with that, I just need to do it. I also need to work on patience. Congrats on 2M subs 🎉 love your videos so much, I am so grateful for your guidance in me being a better me in ever aspect of life and I hope you get everything you want in life because you deserve it! ❤

[@brendawolf2658]

Thank you for sharing this message. I am starting a new journey with my employment in home health care. I have been in this field before but this time it’s going to be different. Clear focus. I have confidence level 8 - 9. I have the resources to refresh me. My inner being says “You Got This”, my Heart says “You will make a difference “. I have saved this video and will replay it as I have with one of your affirmations video.❤

[@sonal7928]

Thank you so much..much needed video

[@brittanyadays]

Needed to see this video today! I'm at a 8 in my self-belief journey and what I believe will get my to a 9 is letting go of the fear of judgement and failure.

[@emiliereads4765]

Congratulations on 2M subscribers! Amazing work! :)

[@lavendaire]

thanks for your support 💖

[@Trikyoi]

i'm really so love your energy much. Thanks for making this video. hope watching see your next step in your channel

[@ruthcrodriguez24]

First and foremost I want to Congratulate you 🎉 on your 2 Million Subscribers, which I was part of, as I recently joined. Currently going through a difficult time in my opinion and knew I had to clear all the noise surrounding my head very fast, as panic, anxiety, depression was and still is taking over my life. I then searched on KZbin for guided meditation and found you Aileen/Lavendaire 🌸🌞🌌✨ And ever since, I've meditated everyday. Thank you for your words of wisdom, inspiration and trust in the world 🌎 to see what you see. 💞

[@parisamaboudi7596]

Loved that bubble idea