She isn’t being aggressive. He just doesn’t like her. He used aggression as a way to deflect and make her feel hesitant about showing affection. Essentially, he gaslighted her into thinking she was being aggressive when, in reality, she was just trying to be affectionate. He doesn’t want her affection because he doesn’t have feelings for her.
@kimmyb50428 күн бұрын
Emem cousin knows Ikechi is full of it. Everybody needs a friend or cousin like that. Ikechi does not like Emem. He was defensive cause they were right!
@rubywoo_5.228 күн бұрын
A lot of the time it seems that people use the wrong words for the wrong concepts. I believe the word he should have used in place of "aggressive" should have been "assertive". Folks just don't have the vocabulary to convey what it is they're really meaning to say.
@bens.66428 күн бұрын
this was actually a really intelligent comment rubywoo 🤔
@SaynJust27 күн бұрын
But he's a "writer" and "educator" - no excuses - he said exactly what he meant to say.
@rubywoo_5.227 күн бұрын
@@SaynJust Yes! I just realized this fact the other day! My statement though was not to excuse him, moreso a realization- that people use this word often bc they aren't aware of an appropriate one. But hell nah, no excuses for him! Ikeche definitely intended to gaslight Emem- and for what when she's been nothing but sweet, pleasant to be around and making an honest effort to learn the man?! Ugh.
@rubywoo_5.227 күн бұрын
@@bens.664 Thank you so kindly. I appreciate you. 🌹
@KimontheWeb28 күн бұрын
Not Mrs Parker and Professor Oglevee 🤣 plus anytime someone's dog doesn't like you, that's a red flag lol
@kimmyb50428 күн бұрын
🤣
@LaVidaRosa27 күн бұрын
The dog was NOT having it 🤣
@MsLaRue27 күн бұрын
Her dog be barking at ikechi all the time? Oh, that's all she needs to know. It's a no on decision day. Even the dog senses he ain't it...
@Reesellaneous28 күн бұрын
I just find it very weird that Camille thinks she has to teach Thomas to be Black as if he’s gone his entire life not being around Black people it just comes off very condescending.
@Purp1eHaze8127 күн бұрын
Right?! She acts like an early 2000’s movie
@Lia-gt9eq27 күн бұрын
Camille has just been sooo vague. Thank God her sister brought that insight she did at the end of the episode because it was necessary. It helped me understand a little more when Camille is coming from
@robinredondo942728 күн бұрын
I think Juan wanted someone who would be helpful with his business. I remember his dad at the wedding kinda grilled her on what she brings to the marriage.
@burnesray77727 күн бұрын
Trust me....when someone says they are not a "touchy feely" person, it means they are just NOT that into you. Actions speak louder than words. Much love to LaVidaRosa. Keep doing your thang.
@hellaSwankkyToo24 күн бұрын
orrr….they’re not a touchy-feely person. having said that…i don’t think ol’ boy is into her! LOL
@Becoming_Els28 күн бұрын
7:59 honestly, it’s like they are talking about why they haven’t gotten intimate yet in a roundabout way. Like bringing up who she’s dated before regarding physical attributes to explain why she hasn’t felt the desire to be intimate with him yet. That’s my takeaway from the family bringing up looks over and over
@HerzogenVonBallen28 күн бұрын
Did Madison plan Allen’s birthday party because she was feeling guilty? This is what I suspect.
@LaVidaRosa28 күн бұрын
👀👀👀inquiring minds would like to know
@shelleyrobinson900928 күн бұрын
I think it was suggested by production.
@rhondareid197226 күн бұрын
How many Sisters did Thomas date after college, that's my question.🤨🤔
@chocolatesooner28 күн бұрын
I’m so mad I missed your last live… this replay subscriber would’ve been ALL over ALLen! #HesCuteToMe
@itslikekahlua27 күн бұрын
23:56 First time hearing him compliment her looks this whole season. Which makes this extra shady.
@heatherstella252827 күн бұрын
Girl, these couples again are a mess. But I must say my favorite person on the show is Alan because he seems the most genuine
@SaynJust27 күн бұрын
Allen
@kufresh198827 күн бұрын
@@SaynJustyou just came here to be his spelling bee? 🧐thank goodness youre here
@Reesellaneous28 күн бұрын
I need to know more about the bar and the racial incidents because to me on face value it’s not that big of a deal because especially in a big city like Chicago there’s probably lots of places where there’s been racial incidents and lots of Black people still go and I bet if he was more dark skinned like the men she usually likes it wouldn’t be an issue for Camille.
@chocolatesooner28 күн бұрын
EEK! And his cankles could NEVER make me fish tacos… it’s not like ground meat where u “break it up and put it in a tortilla”! Many places are famous for theirs being tempura fried fish with a slaw and sauce on a white corn tortilla. A sardine in a wrap wouldn’t work… Mr I’m From The South! #IHadToLearn #ImFromTexas #WeDontClaimHim #TradeAllen
@tyrondacoleman269428 күн бұрын
Great review. I would love to know who the swap couple are. I think it is David and Madison, but wouldn't it be crazy if it was Emam and Allen, lol. I'm surprised that no spoliers came out.
@SaynJust27 күн бұрын
There had been a spoiler which says it's David and Madison. Given that it would leave Allen open and available ( screw Michelle) for Emem
@tyrondacoleman269427 күн бұрын
@SaynJust Oh. I don't have social media, so I didn't know. Thanks
@Reesellaneous28 күн бұрын
I need to know more about the bar and the racial incidents because to me on face value it’s not that big of a deal because especially in a big city like Chicago there’s probably lots of places where there’s been racial incidents and lots of Black people still go and I bet if he was more dark skinned like the men she usually likes it wouldn’t be an issue for Camille.