Leading As A Husband & Father ❃Voddie Baucham❃

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[@stevenseagull753]

24 year old soon to be father!!! Pray for me brothers and sister pray for everything to go well!

[@trngdwnthedvlskngdm1]

Let the LORD be your guide, you will NEVER go wrong.

[@punkrockscreamsheet]

It will be a beautiful chapter in your life brother, you got this❤🙌✝️

[@nert7951]

Became a father two years ago, 22 back then, good luck brother!!!! It’s totally worth it.

[@soonenteradi5784]

Submit to the Lord Jesus Christ, and follow his principles for a successful marriage and you will do just fine, it's not going to be easy, but you have no other choice than to do it God's way if you want success in marriage.

[@Joe-es8gx]

May God give you sound knowledge, Wisdom and patience to grow together with your family as a father in the power of the name of Jesus, amen.

[@wan3416]

‘A man’s failure to lead is him actually leading in failure. This is not optional’ Christ, forgive me for my past weakness in my home and help me to lead my family effectively. Convict my spirit to love my wife and lead this family towards You unashamedly.

[@thenarrowlife2018]

Yes Lord please have mercy upon me, to lead my home well lord. In Jesus Name Amen.

[@davied.w4780]

Amen

[@agent_k9508]

God bless you and raise you up to His standard of leadership - God bless you with your needs, my brother.

[@agent_k9508]

@@thenarrowlife2018 God bless you and raise you up, brother. Hallelujah, God is moving!!! Bless His name! God bless you, sir.

[@MrDouglas0307]

Amen brothers! God forgive me for my weakness and timidness for not leading my beautiful and amazing family that you have blessed me with. Bring me to repentance and enable me to lead and go to war for my family.

[@debbieconn100]

Lord I lift up my husband to you in all things concerning his role as my husband in our home and myself as a submissive wife, let us both come together in harmony for your glory 💕

[@lidiavaldivia1368]

AMEN 🙏

[@k-hambie256]

Amen 🙏🏾

[@5va]

Amen

[@christopherstudley9374]

May The Lord bless you both RICHLY ! *NO matter how many years later you're reading this :)

[@nette2144]

Amen!

[@demetriusfisher3087]

As a husband coming from a worldly background trying to walk more with Christ I realize how lost I am and how much of a poor job I have been doing with out him

[@selenagreen5969]

As a wife married for 17yrs, I had to realize this and understand Gods plan and purpose for marriage. My parents have been married 43 yrs, and I never seen submission or my father sitting in his seat as head of the home. My mom made decisions and made changes within the home and my father submitted to her. It was something questionable but I was a child, but I also got saved at 13, so God had already given me the Holy spiritual guidance then. Now within my own marriage I am learning to be more submissive. It’s not as hard as it was in the first 5 yrs of our marriage. And I have to help my husband heal from the lacks way back then. Pray for us please! While I’m learning this, I feel that I need him more than ever to understand the woman here today is fully submitted, but needs love and empathy in return. 😢

[@KeepHealingSis]

I’ve spent my entire life in the church and never learned or heard biblical male headship in the home taught. I desire to serve the Lord in this manner and model this within my home with my husband and children. Thank you for this truly excellent teaching. Hallelujah #FULLsurrender 🙌🏾

[@DeeLew714]

Amen Tami! I endorse your sentiments. God bless you on the way ahead.

[@KeepHealingSis]

@@DeeLew714 thank you. God’s continuous blessings to you. 🙏🏾

[@anaheim1183]

Wow your are an amazing wife

[@Dhwbwsoe]

Thank God for Voodie

[@KeepHealingSis]

@Wendy Range to each his own. Everyone is entitled to their beliefs. If that’s your, respect … God bless 🙏🏾

[@emoney56]

Father of a 1 yr old and a 2 week old. Husband to a woman that i don’t deserve, yet God blessed me with. I’ve only been walking with the Lord since 2019. The enemy hates it. Pray the Lord makes me a servant leader for my household. In Jesus name

[@5points7019]

Keep listening to voddie's preaching. R.C. Sproul is another one. He is considered the teacher of preachers. Ligonier Ministries has wonderful resources to bring you to deeper waters. The enemy isn't going to idly stand by either. Get ready, as you grow in faith he will try to cause trouble.. and if he can't get to you directly, he will go after you indirectly, using people close to you. Peace and blessings upon your household.

[@ChadShotgunApe]

Read your bible daily to renew youe mind. The enemy will attack your mind to make your home chaotic. Stay close to the lord and make him first in all things you do as a family and you will prosper.

[@elan311X]

Amen and for me too.

[@chrisby777]

May I leave you with a tip. My wife and I celebrate our 50th anniversary this coming November. Read the bible together ( it doesn’t have to be long chapters) pray together daily with your wife! Even if you haven’t had a good day together, by praying together issues resolve themselves. And finally,please don’t worry about the small stuff, the next day it sometimes doesn’t matter anymore. May God bless you and your marriage and positions in the family. You are equal with your wife but with different roles. God bless. Chris, Perth, Australia.

[@michaelstrohmaier402]

a man should never believe that he "doesn't deserve" his woman! i mean, men need to build value, women simply need to find a good man before they loose the value they are born with, youth and fertility!

[@jaronlarson1842]

Wow this was 10 years ago and it’s so relevant today

[@MrEburnas]

I wasn't raised in a church so this was never in my household my mother raised me with help from my dad here and there. To now be a Christian man I know that I fall short on many things and this is one of them. I need to learn how to lead my family I need to learn how to love my wife and I need to have empathy towards my wife who is my best friend. The fact that a lot of us have not been taught this at all so trying to grasp it at a later age Is difficult but also attainable.

[@blessingecoma9233]

Welldone, your bravery and honesty is commendable. God bless you.

[@gersonlopez313]

Pray for me and my wife ! That GOD do his will and restore my marriage, my wife has a lot of hurt and anger with me for my previous life style and the hurt I cause in her . I have asked for forgiveness to GOD and to Her . And the enemy is using her hurt and anger that’s he has in he favor . I Pray in the name of Jesus that he Free her from the devils lies and chains that he has on her ! Amen .

[@Sharon777jr]

When your character change... Her heart will also!!! Keeping God first in everything 🙏🏾.

[@chukaokoye4009]

I hope things must have been better now. However, resolving to change your from your past life is a good step forward. Then, ask Holy Spirit to rule over your affairs. Once changes are spotted, nothing will stop your wife from not loving you back. Also, communicate your weaknesses to her and let her be your accountability partner.

[@MrDouglas0307]

Hey bro Lopez, I know I’m seeing this a year later but I pray that God will fight for your marriage, and that He will encourage and strengthen you brother. Be at peace in Christ.

[@n9wff]

Basically in the same position. Wife keeps using what I did in the past years ago against me. She says I control her and she reacts against my desire to lead. My hands are tied. Only fasting and prayer are my only options now.

[@justWIN96]

Amen

[@olubunmiogunkunle5765]

Who is here in 2021! Such great prophetic clarity! Thanks Pastor!

[@elfranko97]

@Wendy Range gtfoh femi nazi

[@joehouston2833]

Be ye fruitful and multiply

[@thyder3553]

Here in 2024

[@brandonwilliams9085]

2024

[@Lions_Coalition]

I Thank God for the clear teaching on this topic. I pray for the grace to study it for myself, and, model it in my home.

[@rommeltaylor8707]

This broth is solid thanks for the share.The first sermon I heard of his was at a Ligonier conference(online) the title was Rescuer. He does an excellent job at laying out from scripture our need for rescue and Christ as our great rescuer.

[@Lions_Coalition]

Aman

[@stephengoff2189]

Amen I pray the same!!

[@MrFredjsnj]

Amen brother

[@Precision409]

Referring to the wife "She's not just mine, she's me". Men in the home "When a man fail to lead, he leads in failure". These are excellent truths that will stay with me. With all the lawless filth in our culture today thank you for putting some good in the minds of men.

[@emokiriemiabednegoabed2844]

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[@speaktruthinlove119]

I'm so grateful for this godly man.

[@joshuaborum4946]

“If ya can’t say amen, you oughta say ouch.” -Dr. Voddie

[@Idkjustyet]

😂😂😂

[@Unvinrenefaw]

I just cant get enough of his teaching and preaching. I have been listening to his sermons since 2010

[@AyoBaby]

Wow, this was excellent. Definitely a reminder for me to TRULY be the head of my home, love my wife as Christ loves the church, and raise my children to love and fear God.

[@israelrodriguez6986]

Wow! Nailed it! The 3 commands to the 3rd contrast (living the Spirit filled life vs. drunk with wine) and on the 3rd command you get (3 contexts) of submitting yourselves one to another. I mean just nailed it beautifully!

[@shanebeacham3348]

This is so good. I’m trying to step more into my role as the head of the household right now - a role I should have stepped into from the beginning - and this gives me a great perspective on what the true driving force behind it is. It’s not about being domineering - it’s about leading spouses and children to Christ in every circumstance.

[@mmethi76]

Wonderful teaching on this neglected subject. The problem with us men is that we have been programmed by society as family economic providers. Consequently, we have neglected our role as family spiritual leaders, but are quick and willing to minister to the outside world while our own families are starving for the Word. Why is that? Are we being enticed by celebrity status bestowed by society? Charity begins at home. A man of God's leadership skills are honed at a family level.

[@marcusburnettsr8911]

Think about our education: indoctrination into a secular worldview, less pursuit of a biblical worldview, thus we always lean to the secular. How many of us read thru the Bible? Better yet how many of us read thru the Bible with our families. How many have weekly family devotions? I believe if we did we would get exactly what he’s saying. I like you wish someone had urge me to do this!

[@Unknown_Disciple_Of_Christ]

This teaching was so well taught with simplicity. This is food for your spirit......

[@DG-111]

This is a great sermon. But cannot be popular in our generation

[@proudmarine1154]

Wow.... Thank you brother, that sermon both cut and confirmed my responsibility with clarity. There were times throughout the sermon where my chest was puffed out in pride and other times where I wept in my own ignorance and shortcomings. You and Paul Washer are my favorite preachers... Both sound in your doctorine!

[@CashTheRealest]

Finally, my brethren, be strong in the lord and in the power of His might.

[@bcoleart8247]

I have to say this sermon was amazing!!!!! The messaging behind this was definitely a God sent. The words behind this really show men how to be men of God and speak heavy on the responsibilities that we have been given to Stewart over! 💯

[@SaintNektarios]

I wish I had listened and understood this talk before I got married. The problem is that I probably would not have listened at the time. I had to make a mess of my own marriage through my own foolishness to understand the wisdom of God through the words of Voddie Baucham.

[@pinkzebra74]

May God bless you. Many men including my husband will not admit to their own mistakes in their marriage. I'm far from perfect and I've made mistakes too but I know where I went wrong and I admit it. My husband just makes up things about me to put all the blame on me because he wants to start over. He wants a different life than the one we planned. I hope things worked out for you.

[@asherken1120]

Never too late my brother🙏🏾

[@steveniedowicz8335]

32 years old. I have a 15 year old step daughter. 4 year old son. My wife and I have been together since 2016. We've have a rocky start filled with strife and yet passionate love. We only started thriving when we got married and became closer to God. It was like blessings were unlocked and an all knowing God could tell if my heart was truly in it or not.

[@shestudios]

"She's not just mine... she's me." Amen.... This is an awesome word.

[@thevintagediymaven2789]

Amen!!! "My desire for my children is they would walk with God. That they would know Christ!" This should be every christians greatest desire for their children!

[@meliamedaverman3558]

You can't force a wife to submit, cos submission is not by force it has to be done willingly. When a wife LOVE the Lord God with all her beings she will willingly submit to Him and to her husband as unto the Lord. Our submissions to our own husbands is come by our LOVE for God the Father and our Lord Jesus Christ. 😊 To LOVE the LIVING God is to OBEY His word, "wives submit to your own husband as unto the Lord" is what the word of the Living God have command. 😊

[@geraldthethird8082]

If we love the lord and put Him first the commandment God gives the Husband and wife will fallow . A server of love ❤️

[@A.J.ChambersCompany]

That you can't force a wife to submit bullcrap is just an obvious ur not good enough to be considered when lookin for a wife. If ur not feminine and submissive..I wldnt want u to begin with...bc..WHY

[@A.J.ChambersCompany]

I know this is hard to get...but if ur not w a man's program ur useless to him period..it's not a democracy..its a marriage..if u don't respect him enough to submit...HES NOT FOR U

[@mamas6425]

@@A.J.ChambersCompany you thinking that you can force anything is a clear sign of being an abuser.....that is not the way of a real man. You can't force anything, it is a choice everyone has to obey the Lord. And if you think it's okay to be harmful to a woman to get your way, then you are wrong and in sin for being abusive. If a woman isn't wanting to be the way she is called by the Lord to be, then she is not right to be anyone's wife. But that is not for any man to force upon her either. If you want to even be worthy of a righteous woman, then you must first be a righteous man that leads with LOVE. Or you will reap what you sow, and no woman will ever respect you because of your narcissistic abuse. Does that make sense?..

[@A.J.ChambersCompany]

@@mamas6425 u didn’t understand my comment ,

[@fulgencepius6637]

Those tears streaming from Voddie touched my soul

[@thegrpdiaries8498]

Fantastic, shared with my sons ❤️.

[@teresebellamy8266]

Thank you!!!! I needed to hear this today.

[@bigmoe562_4]

This pastor is a blessing 🙌

[@mariancaetano4181]

All honour to God and to our Lord Jesus Christ for His Word faithfully preached.

[@arianalvarez2283]

What an amazing sermon! God definitely spoke to me as the Head of My Household! May God continue to bless you my brother!

[@MateoLukeShare]

Man of God,with fresh bread from heaven🙏🙏🙏

[@christophercoleman6576]

This was probably one of the best teachings I've heard on this subject. God bless you, Dr. Baucham!

[@soundwave6218]

God Bless those that pray together and not Prey together..the ones that stay on fire for God so that the flames won't go out in their relationship God Bless them Lord remind them why they did it❤

[@htiiine2960]

I wish I saw this years ago!! I’m here just praying, just waiting for her. My lady if you’re reading this, I need you & I love you so much 05-18-19

[@5djk6]

A man of God

[@mariuskamfer6444]

Good for me to listen to this sermon over and over thank you!

[@inmate0054]

The best sermon on the man and his responsibilities ive ever heard.

[@noufoutraore7657]

One of the best sermons I’ve ever listened to🎉 God bless you brother

[@philiplewis509]

This is good. I've told/taught men that they are to be "shepherds" for their families.

[@Valelacerte]

Contrary to the woke ideology, to _submit_ is not to humiliate and render oneself a slave, but to respect, trust and cooperate. When we visit the doctor, we submit to their training and expertise.

[@bigwillofthejesusshow6272]

Thank you so much for this meaty word. Not just a word from himself, but this is a true teaching! Thank you!

[@christianlealyn3819]

I wish I would of heard this message when it first came out. But I got a lot out of it thank you. Glory Be To God .

[@1jkime1]

Wow! Halleluyah, there IS still sound teaching on this subject. Great job brother and thank you!!

[@xhevahirmazari5938]

I just finished watching this video and am blown away. Blessed beyond measure. Dr. Baucham, thank you so much!!!

[@jpharmon7343]

10 yrs ago and it is spot on with what's going on today

[@culluts2755]

The Lord spoke! AMEN!

[@nickym.2799]

When I met my husband it forced me to learn how to submit (it was easy but it wasn't). I grew up without a father (he's stuck in his addiction, has been since before I was born.) My mother was extremely overbearing and domineering. I thought the idea of submitting to ANY man was beyond degrading. Then I met my husband and for some reason submission felt natural. It felt like a natural role I had to take on and I was HAPPY to because he did the same. He took on his role as the Head of our household and he takes it very seriously. He strives everyday to grow in his relationship with the Lord so that he may become a better servant and a better leader to me and our future children. I thank God for bringing him into my life everyday. Not just because I love him to death but because he helps me grow everyday to be a better servant to the Lord and woman of God.

[@jillianshene2815]

Where is the church on this teachings? We have generations of people illiterate in the bible and we are wondering aimlessly when it comes to relationships.

[@AyoBaby]

Jillian Shene So true. Fluff messages have invaded the church. People just want to hear how God is going to pour "blessings" on them, and the preachers oblige. No one wants substance anymore. This was definitely a great Word.

[@nickcatron821]

4 years later and this is still relevant if not more so now in 2021. The church is still absent on this teaching absent on suffering as a Christian, persecution because you believe and a list so long I don't think we could list it all. Men have either given away their place or lost their place in the home and in society and so feminized they don't know how to stand in the gap or lead the family. Biblical teaching in the US has long been absent so we could have the best numbers on a board in the front of the church on a quarterly or annual report. We have allowed our teachings to be compromised for the sake of not offending anyone or "stepping on anyones toes" Godly Fear has been replaced by God's love and that's the only attribute we know. Sorry to rant on but we need more Preachers and Men of God like this who will take a stand and lead their families, in their church, and in their government. If we are absent the world will establish their rule over God's in a heart beat.

[@115dancingqueen]

They're only concerned with feel good preaching (a la Osteen and T D Jakes), and ripping off the dumb congregation contributing to their obscene wealth!!!

[@TxTonya]

I think the mutual submission, is both submitting to Christ. The man is to be led by Christ who teaches leadership, the woman is led by Christ in learning respect for her husband. I think many Christian woman are rebelling against headless husband's who aren't really being led by Christ. Some men are building their own kingdom and not God's. Preachers need to point this out. We are losing our children to the world because our men and not leading their children and teaching them.

[@stephz423]

I agree it is mutual submission and the two are to serve each other with kindness, appreciation and love, not with the expectation. I am a woman who believes men are the head of the household, but when a man says he has final say in ALL decisions I disagree. If I have to work and want to buy a rug for the kitchen floor where I stand much of the day, why does he get the final say?

[@inmate0054]

Some people only know how to lead with an iron fist. They dont understand how to be a leader that serves

[@elgabenedicta]

Wonderful teaching 🙏 thank you pastor Voddie 😇❤

[@richarddecker8224]

Dear man of the Holy true God, I thank you for the love that you preach

[@daysonthegrind8188]

Holy God bless this pastor for the message ive been given today, God bless you

[@germasilverback187]

Thank you Jesus for Showing me this video. 😭 It's so hard when secularism and Ephesians 7:12 attack marriage and family.

[@mimigutierrez4327]

Another Awesome Message from the man of God

[@AdamSilvaDeCristo]

I praise the Lord for such a clear and thorough message in the midst of the overwhelming ambiguity surrounding this topic. Thank you Voddie Baucham, and thank you Master's College/Seminary

[@myab7155]

Soaking up this teaching in 2021!!! This is NOT taught in the church... Can we LEARN the Bible & get out of our feelings!!! Help us Holy Spirit!! 🤎🤎🤎

[@1objective688]

Praise God for Voddie Baucham and his sound and effective teaching of God’s word!

[@pipelinemechanic731]

Wow this is good!!!!!!!!!! Praise Jesus at every opportunity!

[@smithrichard5141]

My house is a seminary for my family, and I am to lead in the education of Jesus Christ in it.

[@marymeens1184]

Thank you so much for addressing this topic! I administrate The Foundation for Biblical Marriage in America and we recognize that godly fathering holds the key to the success of our society.

[@joemachunda]

So many preachers are afraid to preach this. They are afraid of womans response.

[@rcg_-bob4030]

Truth cuts deep don’t it Wendy.

[@rcg_-bob4030]

Biblical truth either offends or convicts people.

[@5points7019]

@Wendy Range ever consider dropping the "n" in your last name? it would be fitting to your attitide.

[@marlyb176]

In my opinion, I don’t believe that is the case.When you look at most marriage teachings particularly those directed towards women there is a lot of emphasis on being submissive. However, a lot of preachers like to leave out the responsibility of the husband to love his wife as Christ love the church.

[@lindabrown6053]

May the Face of God shine upon you.

[@fergu588]

This blessed me, I needed this

[@teddycampbellband2648]

Thank you Voddie. 🙏🏾

[@melissavargas4330]

Beautifully said 👏🙏

[@earthgruves]

Brother Voddie, God bless you.

[@soupergiffy]

"Christ is the head of man"

[@ErikaRodriguez-db5kg]

I believe that some men take this head thing too extremely to the point of using it to verbally, physically and emotionally abuse their wives. Even though they preach to their wives and speak kindly to others but they are deceitful man. I am speaking this way because this is what my ex-abuser ex-husband used to do to me. He would tell me how to dress and how I should ask but he never wanted to change and continued to do these evil deeds to me. I would obey him but when I noticed that I was the only one who would do things and he did not want to stop abusing me, this is when I said...Enough is enough! I will Not accept your abusive behavior anymore. I am done!! Because he had abused me for 33 years.

[@peteholloway5473]

The man is the leader as long as he is godly if he's a fool a women won't follow

[@kingdomassettv]

No woman should marry a fool

[@makubuyahenry5209]

I thank God for the gospel

[@npgaming2573]

Thank for blessed massage.

[@jesuschristreignsoveretern775]

Excellent sermon! Love it. Great Job

[@englishman55]

God bless you

[@faithpatience.]

Thank you for lifting my spirit today ❤ I really needed to hear this ❤

[@joshuaallenwood5944]

Amen hallelujah Needed this for what’s ahead

[@pastormike2204]

wonderful message

[@mykingthoughts2224]

POWERFUL !!!!

[@Shofargirl1]

Thanks Pastor, this is a well needed sermon. May GOD bless You 🍃❤🍃

[@6579juan]

Thank you so much! I was struggling with my girlfriend and moved in with her now I know why ! God bless you!

[@Shofargirl1]

@Wendy Range 👏 That's right!

[@suzannegriffiths4795]

You need to marry. Fornication is sinful and direct disobedience to God. Fornicators do not inherit the kingdom of God.

[@samsamthecat492]

You are not her husband so this won't work anyway.

[@alexdelacruz3942]

Amazing...

[@rubywedderburn6528]

Powerful message. That being said am I the only one who was just about to rewind and count his children when he held up his fingers (7)🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@sharonendler1467]

As of 2020 I believe he and his wife now have 9 and counting. 7 adopted

[@rubywedderburn6528]

@@sharonendler1467 Yes that's correct

[@isaacdaniel4986]

Amen.

[@davidmartin114]

quiet ass church! id be fired up if I were there! Thats a good word Pastor!

[@dt23j66]

You should not curse.

[@davidmartin114]

@@dt23j66 ass is in the Bible, ass.

[@jontyvanrensburg6364]

Thank you...so much .. spiritual wisdom that I will fulfill as a father and husband. God Bless you 🙌🙏

[@tilly7455]

Great sermon.

[@brution2000]

I go to a semi-conservative mega church ⛪ in Dallas and I would never hear this message preached. The only thing I hear in my church about male headship is a very prominent Marriage Pastor come preach at the church and say, "I was stupid and thank God for my wife".

[@heritageresearchcenter8970]

Submitting to one another means "mutual support". God has set an order of relationships in marriage, yet he requires mutual respect and support.

[@motsumij1]

Thanks Voddie

[@peterrai1441]

Thank you for speaking to us such a wonderful God's Word. God bless you

[@ErikaRodriguez-db5kg]

My ex-abuser ex-husband would actually put his finger right on my face and out daughters' faces also. He would preach but was very abusive and never changed. I actually feel very sorry for him and of course for me as well because of who is coming to the world to judge all of us in the world.

[@sourPollo]

I wish I had a pastor of this caliber.

[@jonathanlorgis5166]

Just Wow!!!!! Thank you

[@suzannegriffiths4795]

I disagree with Voddy's vision of what the "clash" is between men and women, due to the fall. Submission to someone is different than "ruling over" someone. There is a different spirit about "ruling", which indicates superiority, and force. Submission is voluntary.

[@MsGratefulgal]

When a husband gets to know that the wife is a fellow sheep (sinner) both bought by the precious blood of Jesus, they will submit to one another, reasoning together