How to Be a Magnetic Speaker

[@brendalturner]

Check out the bonus podcast episode with additional tips to help you speak with confidence! 👉 podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-brenda-turner-show/id1688285139

[@GymGirlAdvice]

"Are they going to like me" comes from a scarcity mindset... whereas flipping the script to "I am magnetic" brings in abundance! Thank you, Brenda!

[@PeterCianci]

This was so helpful. I have no problem speaking in front of 1,000 people. But, staring at a tiny red light kills me. I lose my train-of-thought and derail so quickly. I suppose it's practice. I'll imagine my cute little granddaughter in the drill you mentioned. Thank you for your trueness and passion. We feel it and I know I'm speaking for anyone who's seen your content. God bless you always...

[@brendalturner]

Thank you so much Peter! Also, I bet she is the cutest little thing in the world.

[@CocoGlows]

Best advice I’ve seen. Everyone just tells me “be confident”, but the energy exchange makes wayyy more sense because I’m not always in a state of confidence. I’m going to try this with my channel today. Thank you ❤

[@brendalturner]

Thanks Courtney! So happy you found it helpful.

[@astroquerial]

Love yer comment! And thx for mentioning that u have a channel! U def glow, and thus I subbed. Looking forward to checking out yer content. Keep shining Sis!❤

[@CocoGlows]

@ 🥹 thank you so much

“My own secret best friend and it’s me” I love that so much!

[@brendalturner]

Thanks!! It's a really nice feeling to be your own secret best friend 🥰

[@RustyStringz]

Ha! I'm also constantly talking to myself out loud.. Yep, sometimes people notice, but screw it, I'm no longer shy to have people look at me. Thank you for your insight Brenda!

[@christopherlamott9351]

Brenda, thank you so much for putting up all this content, for communicating the way you do (yes, I LOVE the conceptualization!), and how you express your ideas. I love that you integrate spirituality, mindset, and life into your message, and I appreciate your candor. I'm maybe five videos into your content, and I feel like I know you already, that you'd fit right into any of my circles. Your messaging provides wonderful food for thought, and helps me to intentionally approach more subjects. Thank you, thank you, thank you! 🥰🙏

[@BriaMedia]

Thank You! The universe sent me the perfect teacher at the perfect time. *Grateful* 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤❤❤❤🦋🧿

[@brendalturner]

So happy you're here. 💖

[@justinstewart7344]

Whao ! never seen it from this angle great advice find your inner voice “love your little laugh btw it s infectious ❤

[@TheGlowUpBlueprintByLeticia]

I'm so glad I found your channel. I'm getting a ring light tomorrow to commit to this new journey of connecting with my people and being of service. I am now more excited than nervous. Thank you for sharing your art.

[@stepintoflow]

Beautiful, thank you. Whether we meet them or not, its all soul to soul in my book.

[@Megshealthyhealing]

Thank you so much for this energetic exchange. ❤

[@jeanshelbybooks]

I just found your channel today and am loving your content. I was told that I’m a little too soft spoken in my videos and I need to add more POP. After watching this about communication and observing your softness, I disagree. I watched to the end as I’m sure so many others have. Thank you. This revelation confirms even more that I need to be me. 😊❤

[@Reiki-shine-yoga]

Brenda I literally found you this week when I have finally made the commitment to step forward, muster up the confidence and start making videos and building my online presence to share my teachings of yoga and reiki and meditations xx your guidance is on another level so glad I found you ❤I am ready to serve ❤thank you thank you thank you 🙏

[@mann8098]

My favorite part 16:06 - 16:08

[@brendalturner]

🙈🙈🙈

[@psikev]

I’m absolutely blown away by this artist. Tremendous education

[@Tiuut78]

It is very important to gave an breath to people and gave to realize😊❤

[@matterof_fact]

Simply Amazing! Can’t remember the last time I watched a video all the way through, KZbin needs more thumbs 👍 up buttons

[@Eduardo_Music8560]

Hello everyone, great speech and video! It was interesting, I liked it a lot. Good work, Brenda Turner. Have a wonderful weekend wherever you are! 🤗 🌹 🙏

[@LeviCrampton-g6o]

Love this tremendously. Thank you for your sharing and helpful material.

[@MaldivesRaajje]

Thank you so much for the video. The expression of death resonated with me as I had a ego death experience where I saw myself clip by clip reminded

[@maxthehumandog]

Love this I have always had a hard time with speaking in large groups so ty

[@Ever4ward-ranidaze44]

You are who I aspire to be! Thank you for all your amazing insight. I wish I was in a better position to purchase your course, but currently fighting an eviction, no car & family has totally turned their backs on me & my 14yr old daughter. But I won’t let that stop me. I know it is up to me to save us. So, I MUST succeed at this, so thank you again for your messages & advice!

[@brendalturner]

@@Ever4ward-ranidaze44 hi Ronnie! I have a free course on my website called the Master Method. It’s very in depth, and created to dissolve the struggle. That’s at brendaturner.com/gifts/

[@zarminapenner]

Very helpful, Brenda, thanks!

[@IamRawleFraser]

Thank you so much for this video. Your message totally resonated with me!

[@avowoman]

You totally get me! I love going to Home Goods and Chipotle is one of my favorites.

[@brendalturner]

@@avowoman it’s and unbeatable combo 🥰 🌯

[@JeremyBadder]

I am only 8 minutes into this and I have already found great value in this. I am new to your channel but I have subscribed. This message is really what I needed to hear in this point of my journey being only 2 months into KZbin. I can't wait to hear more from you!

[@brendalturner]

Thank you Jeremy! Your channel is awesome, and you're a natural at speaking in front of the camera. Seriously!!! You speak through the camera, and that is a rare talent.

[@JeremyBadder]

@@brendalturner Thank you! You actually took the time to look, that is amazing! Btw, I watched the rest of the video and it was very rewarding too!

[@timothywilson3253]

Brenda Turner , Hi 👋. You've got some really, really good ideas for the minsets needed for talking . Thank you .

[@ninamey4068]

Thank you❤

[@Aaron-Hatefi]

Thank you this was a new thought for me and very helpful as I’m new to the camera You tied in practical and spiritual very nicely together

[@BEARTHEWEIGHT920]

Thank you Brenda!!! I'm starting my new position on Monday as fitnes trainer! I'm very shy and soft spoken. This video came at the right time! I will be instructing classes with multiple people. I believe my classes will be small at first maybe one or two people. I also do KZbin and do not speak in my videos. I want to start this new year! Maybe start with 1 min short topic videos. Again thank you for this series!!! Have a great day!

[@brendalturner]

@@BEARTHEWEIGHT920 Hi Laura! That’s beautiful, congratulations on your new fitness trainer position 🎉🎉🎉 it’s going to be so much fun. I’m also SO PROUD of the fact that you have posted over 100 videos to the world as a person who is shy….that’s some warrior level mindset training right there. 👌

[@BEARTHEWEIGHT920]

​@@brendalturnerThank you!! I've been trying to follow my heart this past year and a half and its been awesome! Love your videos! Been subscribed to you for years! Now just to finally bring my voice into my videos will be challenge I'm willing to take on! Keep shining your light Brenda!!!

[@silveriostg]

I am so glad that you popped up on my feeds lol thank you so much! blessings friend

[@brendalturner]

I’m so glad too 🥰

[@frizbeeliz]

I know you don’t care if I like you or not - but I love you! You’re awesome - beautiful soul. Homegoods, Chipotle, Interstellar 👌 Fantastic advice - thank you so much.

[@wordrae]

Dear sister, you spilled the beans so good. Thank you so much.

[@Jibs-HappyDesigns-990]

well said! so easy to take in! thanks for the embellished ideas! proper encouragement really helps good luck!

[@bryanfaucett]

Thanks Brenda!

[@Radiancegrace]

Ah, initially you arose in the Now as a Voice for God via an ACIM talk I observed in another of your videos. Presently, you arise speaking on the true Voice within. And the teaching of Eckhart Tolle arises, spontaneously within as he also talks similarly of the true intelligence within. Raised in the Halls of 12 steps, the podium became a platform wherein I found if I took a moment to take a knee in the bathroom before each meeting if and when I was called on to speak I found something deeper and greater than self could and would take hold and speak thru me and the Holy Spirit used me for its purpose, as a result. Also growing up in Quaker faith at silent meetings the still small voice also evolved and deepened within. I feel as though I am looking in a mirror, then, whenever I observe you speak. Smiling occurs naturally and feeling well blessed to have discovered your presence here to keep the authentic resonating -has to be divine order continuing to unfold perfectly🙏🏻

[@brendalturner]

It's all divine order, and it's beautiful. Eckhart helped to bring me home, and saved my life. And now, the blessing of being able to understand the words of someone like you...who also understands. To be seen in this world by those who can see..it's the blessing of all blessings. Thank you Rebecca.

[@Radiancegrace]

@@brendalturner Ditto, Brenda- a miracle by way of your presence has fallen at my feet and the energy is undeniable when I see your form arise. Pre pandemic the Holy Spirit literally sent me around the globe to sit in Eckhart’s presence and in every way possible without doing anything aside from my openness and willingness the Holy Spirit brought Eckhart and Kim Eng directly in person to me. From my living room watching them on the big screen to directly into Kim Eng’s arms and inches away from Eckhart on more than one occasion. I cannot tell this to just anyone yet with you I feel sure you can capture the energy/magnitude of this. Perhaps conscious manifestation yet again, I didn’t even try or effort any of it. Now in 2024 you arise on the screen and believe me it’s an even larger one and that synergy - like a burning log igniting the fire of another has occurred. I look forward to whatever God’s will is here as I confess I know not what anyone or anything is for yet it assures me it does and what comes to mind - Expect A Miracle🙏🏻 So happy you were equally blessed by Eckhart’s teaching

[@wisechatswithash]

This is so helpful, thank you so much ❤

[@brendalturner]

So glad to hear you found it helpful. Thanks Ashleigh!!

[@TheDanleyGrind]

Found your page today! So good !

[@brendalturner]

So glad you're here!

[@Danniessa]

Hi there, I just wanted to say that I’m fairly new to your channel and your content speaks to me so much. Your energy is beautiful and so are you!!! I’m slowly building my confidence to be on KZbin

[@brendalturner]

@@Danniessa so happy you’re here. Welcome to the family 🤗. This is a place for gentle souls. Us gentle souls need to share our light in the world. Happy to hear you’re building up confidence to share your light.

[@Danniessa]

@ do you do one on one coaching by any chance??

[@LovingGod1]

Your face always glowing.

[@HERBeautyinWellness]

New follower here! 🙋🏻‍♀️ You & your channel are a breath of fresh air. Thank you!🙏🏼 💖

[@richardsmith6741]

Hi Brenda!

[@moniquerichards6099]

Thank you so much I needed to hear this !

[@brendalturner]

@moniquerichards6099 you’re very welcome. PLEASE keep going with your sewing content.🙏❤️

[@spiritbuffalo]

my goodness you’re good💜✨

[@Dennn1113]

this is very helpful, thanku brenda

[@JeremyRichey-p5s]

Well delivered

[@funnybunny81]

I love you so much Brenda ♥

[@brendalturner]

@@funnybunny81 love you back 🥰

[@DreamLife-bd7rz]

Thank you for sharing this 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@MichaelMillerVlogs]

Stop caring what people think of you. Approve of yourself. I don't care if people like me because I like myself, I approve of myself. Stop looking for external validation.

[@jonber9411]

I really liked the idea to completely shift away from worry of being liked. So uninteresting for both the viewers and you. Some actually thrive on the opposite. But i guess they sacrifice nothing either. With your videos i am soon off the ground. Thanks.

[@NordylitoDungo]

Thanks

[@alejandrito8151]

Ur contents amazing

[@NordylitoDungo]

I'm speechless😅

[@MichaelMillerVlogs]

To be natural in front of the camera, forget the camera is even there. Ignore the camera like it is not even in the room. Just talk to the person or people.

[@josephmorenoart]

What a great video. I just subscribed :)

[@dosriot2296]

I love the cheetah backing up like yeah idk... lol

[@brendalturner]

Your profile pic makes this comment hit perfectly 😅

[@dosriot2296]

@brendalturner I know I thought about that after I commented. Lol

[@spicyp8864]

Who can I help and how can I serve. Thank you so much!

[@jamee_maree]

When I used to do my YT stuff, I always did it live. That was years ago though, and even then I didn’t explore this - is there a way to hit record in YT backend, but it not be live? Basically, can I make my videos on the backend so that if it’s one I want to leave as is, without any editing, can just schedule it to post? As you know, there are times when we nail it on the first try bc it’s something that is so deep in our soul at that very moment.

[@brendalturner]

@@jamee_maree the two softwares that you can use for that is StreamYard and Zoom. Both allow you to record in real time, and you don’t have to actually “stream” anything. You could also record with OBS (which is free but has a bit of a learning curve)

[@samueldutoit8825]

Hi Ma'am. Could you let me know how you plan your videos in terms of not forgetting what to say, or planning your chat. I tend to start a topic and completely rant and lose structure

[@brendalturner]

Love this idea. I'll possibly make a video on it. But in the meantime, I take a day to write my video idea into an essay so that I have to think through the concepts I'm trying to teach. This isn't a "script"...I hate trying to follow a script. It's more about me taking the time to really think through what exactly is important to talk about. Then I practice speaking about the key concepts while I'm in the shower and while I'm driving etc. Again, I'm kind of spending time with the idea. Then when I film, I don't have to worry about what I say because it's all "in there" ya know? And of course, I do try to edit ruthlessly. Crush it, Samuel ❤

[@madvillainy6845]

Forget chipotle, I'm taking myself to Fleming's or whatever the equivalent is.

[@brendalturner]

@@madvillainy6845 that sounds really good too lolol 🥰🥰🥰

[@shabgerye]

Hi, can you please link which 📹 camera and video editor you use. Thank you ❤

[@brendalturner]

@@shabgerye I use finalcut pro and Sony A7siii camera with a 50mm lens. This camera is not something beginners need though. An iPhone is plenty. I use this big fancy camera because I need it for ALL of my work (filming courses, coaching clients, hosting live events and zoom calls etc etc etc). I recommend an iPhone, and that is what I’d use today if I didn’t have all the other work tasks that require a nice camera

[@toddparker5831]

I guess the part I struggle with is the difficulties I have determining who I can help and how can I serve Determining qualities or skill sets or what I am even qualified to do I am very passionate about helping others and acts of kindness people ask me my advice quite often or at least find it easy to confide in me But yet I don’t know how to help people with these traits I’m not a certified therapist The other part is I always seem to have good advice for others but not myself I don’t even really know where or who I can goto to talk about this I wish I had a mentor or a teacher. I struggle too because I do not have money and a good paying job to seek out a coach so I get frustrated and sad and angry cause my life’s going nowhere because I’m uncertain how to take the steps toward helping others and determining best how to serve

[@brendalturner]

Hey Todd. It's really simple. You sit down with a notebook and make a list every day starting with the question "what are 5 things I've learned that I can share, that will help other people?"...let go of everything else, and just focus on what you have to give NOW that will help. Let go of trying to figure anything else out besides "what do I have within me to share today that could help other people?". The rest pretty much takes care of itself.

[@toddparker5831]

@ thank you I appreciate the response I guess what I struggle with is the fact I want to move in a new direction in life example I’ve spent my whole career life as a plumber I’m 54 yrs old those are the skills I’ve developed but alas I can no longer perform those tasks nor does my heart still desire to do it I had a spiritual awakening about 4 yrs back and since then I feel this nudging in my intuition to do exactly what you are saying to do help people serve people thru kindness and love I feel I want to pursue this with every part of my soul but my mind won’t cooperate lol It just keeps telling me What do you have to offer how can I help how do I serve I see homeless I want to help I see hungry I wanna help I see depressed people I wanna help I see people struggling in life and really want to help resolve their problems I know I am very passionate about this but feel like I have not developed the skill sets I was a plumber my whole life lol are there any resources you can recommend that can help me figure out what my skill sets are what tools I can use

[@kats1186]

💛💛💛

[@Bobberlight]

Hi Brenda! I really like what you are doing combing, if you will (no pun here) " Our will with Divine Will" in a business manner/fashion. Please correct me if I am off the mark. I think back in my business days and it seemed so important to in a way, try and have answers to appease all listeners, peers, fellow engineers, production and or customers, etc... and that is what used to be a tough spot for me to try and cover all angles trying to out think and think out how all others may think ahead of time and most of the time I would do quite alright but there would always be some sort of devil's advocate who would always want to stir the pot "just because they could" even siting being the "devil's advocate" which is a tool in a way too but... it would cause some issues now and then. Never super horrible, but sometimes caused other unrelated questions to rise and the conversations would fall off the initial path and I would get back rolling but it was not always fun. I was not really awakened the way I am now thank goodness now for sure, but I really would put so much effort into it all and it wore me down every so often and had I known what I know now in the Divine part of us ...boy that would have been so super helpful! The bottom line is I really like how you are melding these things together into the "Divine Champion" and it is pretty amazing and you are very good at it. Going through the different categories helps beginners as well as people right here - right now in business. You do a great job and thank you! God loves and cares for you Brenda and all your subs & followers and so do we!

[@brendalturner]

What a beautiful share. It's lovely to hear the stories of fellow teachers and business owners. It's also great to know that what I'm posting is helpful! Thank you for spending time with me today 💫

[@hivestudio1]

♥

[@redblueiris]

You're the Ted Turner of self empowerment

[@TataBox-w4c]

Hi Brenda, Thanks for the video. The intellectual finds a hard way to explain something that is easy. The artist finds a simple way To explain something that is hard. Some people are easy about Everything all the time and these People are either jelly fish or Lily pads, in terms of their Ecological roll, and they are Necessary to balance and buffer the Ecosystem against instability. We need simple minded People to perform simple tasks, Which is a bulk of labor on this Planet. We need brilliant people to build Neuro-surgical particle accelorators on the moon. Anyways. Im speaking nonsense. I appreciate you taking Time to help me and encourage me and enrich me On my journey. Thank you. Your advice about How to hold your focus while Speaking to the camera is helpful. Okay. Talk later. Bye.

[@brendalturner]

Was this a drive-by poem you just laid on me? Because if so, I love it. Poems are my favorite form of sustenance, and if poems were food, I would eat only the metaphors and warm word-paintings of sunsets and the enthralling ideas of poets like you. Thank you for spending time with me today.

[@TataBox-w4c]

@brendalturner thank you dear for replying to me. Your attention is wonderful and I enjoy it very much. Yes, I wrote that poem for you. I do different types of creative writing in different places for different people and it's all the same music anyways. Im not sure that we as individuals are really singing with a multitude of personalities. I think that we sing with one personality about one thing and the songs are just different angles of view into our core Identity that is singular. The coherence of identity can exist in different states That are fractured and contiguous inside of trauma And mostly consistent and Continuous inside of Health. My parents are narcissists. Im a Heyoka empath, which is the Most powerfully intuitive and imaginative type of human. My KZbin Postings are influencing content On the CBC radio, where I live In Toronto. Anyways. Lovely To meet you. I much enjoy Your voice and your way of Speaking and you seem Wonderfully warm and friendly and I want to be your friend. Enjoy your day miss beautiful creature.

[@arieldye544]

Is death real?

[@brendalturner]

No not the way most people think 😊 but death of the body is.

[@NordylitoDungo]

Ikaw na lang Kaya sa podcast ako na lang camera man mo😅

[@wordrae]

The ever now.

[@HerefortheLove]

How old are you, ma’am?

[@parv2010]

So beautiful woman you are

[@hddiaz782]

... * "🌹" *NOW*.I.*KNOW*WHERE*"SCARLETT*JOHANSEN*GETS*HER*GOOD*LOOKS*FROM**

[@NordylitoDungo]

Hindi nman voice ang kinakahiya ko kundi mukha ko