LEAVE CHEN ALONE!!! EXO Talks About The Importance Of Their Fans (EXO iHeartRadio REACTION)

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This is a LONG LONG RANT VIDEO before my iHeartRadio interview with EXO reaction.
I ranted about toxic KEXOLS and more of my feelings on the Jongdaeddy news. rolls eyes
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[@sillypak]

FYI: This is a 22 MINUTE LONG VIDEO RANT *BEFORE* the EXO iHeartRadio interview reaction. I ranted about toxic KEXOLS and more of my feelings on the Jongdaeddy news. *rolls eyes* *EDIT: OH MY GOD I REALIZED I SHOULD HAVE CUT THIS TO 21 MINS LONG FOR CHEN'S NUMBER I HATE MYSELF FOR NOT DOING THAT FMLFMLFML LOL)* you can skip this entire video if u want to watch the iHeartRadio reaction!!! here's the link- WATCH FULL REACTION (FREE VIMEO LINK): vimeo.com/385399143

[@nazz95]

sillypak I just wish everyone gets to be happy but there’s always ppl that’ll get in the way. The boys should continue being who they are and ignore the kids that are complaining all the time, because they have no right to say who they can and cannot be with

[@widiya1710]

Mom I can't open your reaction video link :"'

[@fachriatihilma2076]

i can't open the link too😭

[@ycitra]

I can't open the link

[@tanyaexo2638]

www.change.org/p/sm-entertainment-protection-for-exo-s-kim-jongdae?recruiter=684904850& #종대_안에_첸_있다 (Chen is within Jongdae). #엑소엘이_지킬_첸과_종대(EXOL will protect Chen and Jongdae). @weareoneEXO

[@sanya21215]

I can't believe Chen is getting hate just because he is going to start his family 😫

[@sry5289]

Money does not make you a better fan! Well said girl. Chen is Exo and Exo is 9 always and forever!

[@elifcakmak3331]

Chen Exo Forever Spending money for someone you like/love doesn’t make you the “owner”. They are ruining all the positive image about Koreans which all KPop idol worked hard to build. Now everyone think Koreans are delusional, unreasonable slave owners.

[@seulgibear1322]

yeah. I mean.. I don't think "money makes you a better" anything tbh. Lol. you just probably have more options to do things. donating 1 million to charity doesn't mean you are a better person than someone who donate $1 to the same cause.

[@yna1361]

Seriously.. I'm over joy when first I see tweet about Chen's get married. I'm screaming and jumping at office, really happy for him. I'm exoL for 8 years since in college until now I'm working, married and have a child, I really love EXO.. I really wanna see EXO's get married, make happy life. I wanna grow old with EXO. EXO and EXOL we are one!!!

[@nakeora7986]

Chen is a human don't forget that. This is way out of line like Exo-Ls should be supporting him especially since this an unforgettable experience in his life which hell never forget about also hes found his soulmate so why cant some Exo-Ls except that and be happy for him,when I found out I was shocked but then instead of hating him I put that aside and Supported them and am still supporting them.I wish them the best for their child and hope they be happy together as an family

[@sakinasandya5240]

Agree 👍👍👍👍

[@nakeora7986]

@@sakinasandya5240 I really don't understand kExo'L. They can't accept reality😑. EXo and international exo'L also has to accept the same fact. As they do, they cannot change fact.😒

[@Pitapat819]

Nakeo Ra true. We all heard the same news. Clearly, they can change their mindset but cannot change facts. I even talked to someone reasoning that they’re protesting because now isn’t the time to get married as it will affect HIS career and EXO. Like they care about his career. Basically I translated it to “CHEN DO NOT MARRY HER NOW. JUST LET YOUR INNOCENT CHILD BE A BASTARD SO WE CAN PRETEND THAT EVERYTHING HASN’T CHANGED.” At this point they do not matter. The child is the number one priority for everyone in this situation. Even if someone feels heartbroken (gosh) they can be that without negatively affecting the life of a child before he’s even born. Plus they think the members will just roll over and let them take Jongdae from the group? Clearly they aren’t looking at the members as humans who love Jongdae and who are mature enough to know what’s right. If they loved and trusted all the members then they’d follow their lead and let things pass while giving jongdae their support and congratulations.

[@nakeora7986]

@@Pitapat819 KEXO-L want to make a prostetion infront of sm building on Sunday to kick Chen out... What should we that's a big problem😞I really want protect Jongdae😳

[@cptyrtt4918]

We must stay strong, true EXO-Ls, hand in hand for EXO and CHEN.

[@whiippedcream_]

'WE ARE ONE is not just a phrase, it is a promise' ❤️️❤️️❤️️

[@oolodd2961]

it's a promise!!😭

[@mejikuhiminniu]

Thankyou so much. He deserve better. He's human too. To Kerries, pls give him a lot of love like what he did to us for this 8 years😭

[@joyb4715]

"you cheer for then when the're at the top, but most importantly you lift then up if they ever fall down" 💙 thanks mama! We are one!!

[@happiness7279]

I just can't understand. How can those Korean fans forget how warm how gentle how sweet and kind Chen is. They totally forget that and just think of the money they paid or the other stuff they gave out. They don’t remember the hard work Chen paid for exo and his effort through these years. It’s heartbreaking. Chen is still the man we know and familiar with.The only thing that have changed is that he now has a new identity,a father and he’s ready for his new family.BUT those Korean fans are not who we used to know already. Idols work hard at stages and bring good performances and fantastic music for their fans. Fans support their music ,enjoy their performances and doing fanchart for their idols.That’s what both of the idols and fans should do.We have no right to disturb their personal life and decisions.Some fans love their idols’ characteristics and personalities ,not because of their music .I mean,it’s ok for you to do that only love them as a person but not their music it’s your freedom to do so. But u are not suppose to judge them about their personal life. JUST FOCUS ON THEIR WORK .THEY WORK HARD AND DID GREAT AS IDOLS .FANS SHOULD JUST FOCUS ON THEIR IDOLS’ MUSIC STUFF AND GIVING THEM SUPPORT

[@sheilaclar5996]

I agree Chen still number one he deserves all the happiness and blessings and again congratulations to Chen and his family 🥰🥰🥰

[@karenyoung7133]

SHAME ON ALL OF YOU THAT FEEL HE SHOULD LEAVE EXO.SHAME ON ANY OF THEIR SPONSERS FOR CUTTING OFF TIES WITH EXO SOLELY FOR THE LATEST NEWS REGARDING CHEN,DOORS MIGHT CLOSE BC OF THIS,BUT I THINK MANY MORE NEW DOORS WITH COMPANIES WHO HAVE A SOUL WILL OPEN UP FOR THEM.AS FAR AS THE FANS STARTING THE PETITION,GOOD RIDDANCE.THEY DONT NEED YOU ANYWAY.PLEASE PEOPLE,CONSIDER GROWING UP

[@Pitapat819]

karen young no sponsor cut ties with them sigh. NR really wasn’t getting renewed likely because of the military. SM probably made a deal and a younger SM group’s going to take that contract

[@karenyoung7133]

@@@Pitapat819 i did not say that any sponsers cut ties with them.WHAT I SAID was shame on any of their sponsers that would cut ties with exo based solely on the recent news regarding chen-i am not saying that has-or will happen,but based on the statements made by some of the over the top delusional "fans",they seem to all think that this is a real and almost certain possibility in their eyes.From where i am standing,the level of selfishness on the part of these fair weathered "fans" is incomprehensible.U know,glass houses,stones....Like i said-please consider growing up.Its an option CRAZY enough to work

[@Pitapat819]

karen young oh okay. I agree with your sentiments.

[@yokhawanha]

Yup, no endorsment and sponsor cutting ties with them, with nature republic the news site who inform us said it incorrectly, their contract actually ended a year ago, but the extend it for 12 months, and its finally ended on February, after almost 8 year partnership, the thing is i feel like it a great opportunity to exo to get more endorsement/sponsor now from different brand, since NR has wide variety of product so they only can sponsor NR product, but now they almost free, i can wait for their next partnership, even fenty tried to contact kai for partnership but because exo was tied to NR cosmetic line they cant get the partnership done.

[@widiya1710]

Yess of course and you're a true fan 🙌🙌😍😍 WE ARE ONE AND ALWAYS SUPPORT EXO

[@rainbowpetals_89]

Thank you so much Silvia. You truly are a bright light in this fandom. I'm so proud of you for continuously using this platform you didn't seek but have to bring EXOLs together.

[@ekin2262]

Thank you for this @sillypak ❤️ We are entitled to feel disappointed, heartbroken, angry, WHATEVER.. Yes, we are permitted to feel whatever we want. But at the end of the day, their life belongs to them, not us. Hopefully there will be no more negativity towards Jongdae & EXO 💕

[@kimjongbros8158]

Honestly, this kexols vs iexols 'battle' is really exhausting. As a person who is also having trouble mentally and being expose to this toxicity is really tiring and painful. It really really hurts to see that this beautiful family is fighting right now because of different beliefs. It really really hurts because it's as if some of the fans forgot what EXO has taught to us, to always love and understand each other. Just because of their delusional beliefs, they are ruining this beautiful family. Toxic kexols think they're protecting EXO by getting Chen out but no, they are actually putting EXO in a painful and heartbreaking situation. None of us has the license to stop EXO from falling in love. None of us has the right to stop them from marrying the person they love. NONE OF US HAS THE RIGHT TO TAKE AWAY THAT HAPPINESS that only that lucky person can give. Our money can't and will never buy that genuine and pure happiness. THIS IS EXHAUSTING BUT WE CAN NEVER GIVE UP. We, NORMAL FANS are EXO's only hope. Those ABNORMAL humans (toxic-ls) really has to stop. Fighting, EXO-Ls! We can't afford to lose another member! Let's protect our happiness! Let's protect our youth! Let's protect EXO!

[@bklyngirl913]

OMG you said it perfectly. Some of these fans act like they got cheated on. Like they are ready to go key his car and burn his shit Up in the yard. *Soompi reported about 15 fan sites closed down in the past 48 hours after his letter. What kind of fan were you to begin with. I don't know if it's a cultural thing, a maturity thing, or an emotional unstable thing. Either way it's toxic and not love towards the idol you claim you love do much. *Do these fans not realize how hard this is on him. He is about to enlist and leave behind a wife and a newborn. Now you're threating his career! So damn sad! *On a good note, Brazil EXO-L's are getting together to have a baby shower for Chen and his fiance. That's how you show support! Ok, my rant is over! LOL

[@Pitapat819]

Bklyngirl 913 i respect the decision of those fan sites as long as they do not say bad things about chen from here on out. Leaving is their right, but they should remember that they also profited from Chen all these years. They make money through the fancams and the unofficial merch they sell and get a lot of donations that they also use for their operations. It wasn’t them being complete self sacrificing people. The least they can do is be quiet for the sake of all the time they walked with Chen.

[@bklyngirl913]

@@Pitapat819 Yes! So well said.

[@bklyngirl913]

@@kirbostaringatyou So true. These labels definitely use idols in anyway to gain and keep fans. Yet at the same time don't protect them when the fans make demands or threats towards the idols. It's a sick and toxic cycle.

[@belle5727]

U have a new subscriber girl!! Thank you for supporting my Precious jongdae!! Luvv from exo-l Indonesia ♡

[@_onlygrouptostan]

Giving you a big hug SILLYPAK.. we got each others back for Chennie Chen Chen.. Hope that chen hear our voices who supported him, never leave him and exo and congratulate him for his new stage of life. I know how much you loved Jongdae but the fact that you accept it is a big help to Jongdae stans. Thank you so much and we can overcome all of this, we are one after all😘

[@alaFIRNA]

The toxic ones are the very loud ones, but we can be louder!!! yes, girl! I'm a Shawol and my 17 year-old daughter is an EXO-L. When she got the news about Chen getting married, she cried so much out of happiness. She was so happy for him she couldn't stop crying. But lately she's been in tears everytime she reads news about EXOLs demanding Chen to leave EXO. It breaks her heart but I'm so proud of her. I was so angry with EXOL after the Taemin's Foodtruck incident, but my daughter proved that not all EXOLs are toxic. At least she is an EXOL i can be proud of.

[@youniverseung7754]

Shame on those people who can't accept that jongdae is finding his happiness and a responsible man at that

[@alexandrapanagiotakopoulou4727]

At the end of the interview when suho said Thank you for your support and I love you I was jumping and clapping my hands like a penguin!!!

[@suhotv6894]

What a hellish week Eris are having. What happened now was a repeat of 2014 and 2015 when lots of Kerries also petitioned Baekhyun and Kai for dating. Idk what they are thinking. We all have initial reaction. Shock, disappointed, hurt, betrayal etc. But aftervthat realization takes over. That they are normal people too. We are really doing our best to counter those delulus. We go to naver using image translator coz they tricked us by releasing statements written in Hangul with English translations but the one written in Hangul was actually meant for Chen to leave EXO and cursing him using slang. They really do the extremes like wishing the baby to ba aborted to hiring a hitman. And the most insulting thing, they dont want to give money to buy baby formula.What kind of mentality are they having. They said Chen isnt worth to be an idol anymore bec he is already a father idol. I already cried a river. I dont u.derstand them. I dont want Chen to leave EXO. EXO is not EXO without Chen. I just hope the situation isnt stressing her future wife I want to see a healthy little chen chen.

[@exomake_mehorololo]

I begin to hate them 😭😭😠😠 I see their evil disgusting people.... and they're not even Jongdae stans!!! Many are solo stans of other members hoping to punish Jongdae so their bias is too afraid to have a family or marry😑😡 they are happy to destroy EXO just for their idol to be alone

[@eunice2351]

실비아님 처음엑소 리액션하셨을때부터 봐왔던 구독자입니다. 종대에 대한 사랑이 크신걸알아요. 이렇게 비디오를 올려주셔서 감사해요. 계속 종대를 지지해주세요. 한국 엑소엘도 최선을다해 종대를 지키겠습니다.

[@Pitapat819]

The thing those jongdae antis do not understand is we all had the same appreciation of the situation. The first time I heard it, I knew backlash and haters and gossips would be flocking EXO to give criticism. That’s what they do. So of course we all had worries for chen and the group. The difference is the decision we made regarding how to react and support the group. They decided there was no other way but to kick a member out to save the rest. We decided we can all get past this together because he didn’t do anything wrong to anyone else. I am pretty sure the boys and SM all think the same, that’s why SM isn’t minding the antis, Chen said he’d continue to work hard in the same spot from now onwards, Suho gave that IG message, and all the members are just continuing with their schedules as normal. Because WE ARE ONE. This isn’t the first time EXO has gone through a difficult time due to non issues becoming issues. We’ve survived before, we’ll survive this one. Whatever is lost, whoever leaves, we’ll make up for it and rebuild once again. What I love about the EXO members is that all of them are quite mature, they place the happiness of each other above fame, popularity or money. People who believe they’d be okay letting Jongdae go aren’t thinking clearly. It would change them and how they see the fans who hurt Jongdae. We need to protect them from these people who will hurt them as human beings, not just their career or image. Jongdae already said the members are supporting him sincerely, what do the fans not get? They’re ready for this.

[@radhaafrita2]

whatever SM's decision will be on Jongdae, I will always support EXO because I'm here for EXO😭❤️

[@iviezabala8718]

This is the best EXO interview so far. It's a little deep and still humorous at the same time. Loved your reaction. 💜

[@clarissatiovanny4982]

chen is human. he is mature, responsible,strong. please don't hate him. *keep that*

[@googie_jeon_6708]

Fans Who don't want Chen live life happily We EXO L s r shame of u They r also human They also have THIER PRIVATE LIFE So don't interfere in THIER PRIVATE LIFE

[@dkjulyana6185]

Always love exo and I'm happy for jongdae! love you mama!

[@iamcarms]

TBH There is no real problem! There is no real issue. Some people (not even calling them fans now) just want to make a crazy fuss just because their delusional bubble has been popped by no other than Jongdae himself. Marriage and babies are beautiful things in life. I wish for EXO-LS to continue supporting him and the Bois as our family grows! I expect more of these kinds of news to happen in the future! You are right, Mama. We are one just hit differently 💕 Thanks for this!

[@eypreaall]

You always say the most right words and i love that. Everything u said was ON POINT and really REALLY WISH those delulus can realize this someday.

[@akemiqtr262]

A promise from EXO to EXOL is no matter what happen in the future they will stay together and forever and we Exo-Ls will always stay by their side till the last day if our lives

[@TheNauglafel]

Even your intro to your intro is 5 minutes long 😂 that is so cute 😊 Initially I wrote a different comment concerning the situation about Jongdae but then I realised it was like a novel, me ranting about how we should be supportive and if someone feels like they can't then I can also understand as long as they leave without being toxic... anyways long story short: it is possible to have a crush on a celebrity and feel a little heart broken and I won't judge that but EXO is EXO with all of its members.. if you really love EXO, think about how it would break other members' hearts and spirits to lose Jongdae as a member and how it may also make them lose their bond with their fans when fans force a member out of the group.. p.s. : this really is the short version of my original comment 😂

[@Pitapat819]

Merve Çadır exactly my view! Lol i’ve been spending too much time on twitter this past week that my first reaction to your comment was trying to retweet it.

[@TheNauglafel]

@@Pitapat819 😃 I also did the same thing with a youtube comment too 😂

[@mahnoorfaxil8295]

i was not that active as an exol past few months..but this incident has made me wake up from my sleep.. i m fighting on twitter n trying to support my EXO n chen on every platform.. but i m scared now..i m worried.. i want reassurance.. plz say CHEN will never leave exo or his career.. as his fan its my dream to see him as a soloist like those senior digimons.. i wanna see him at that spot after some years..plz dont take away that dream from me..recently past few days i was so busy n chen's voice n his songs were the ones calming me.so much.. if anything happens.. god knows how i will survive.. i know i m being dramatic but literally korean fans hv taken every artist i love from me.. jonghyun, sulli got so much traumatized by this cyberbullying.. my wonho n.hanbin their careers has been destroyed.. i cant let this happen to my chen..plz save him.. plz dont take away him from me.. 😭😭😭😭 i m being so dramatic but this whole thing is haunting me😭😭

[@lesliejoshueljoson4931]

Thank you mama pillbug for being with us on this fight against immature fans. I'm really thankful and will always be thankful because you became a fan of EXO and I stumble upon your videos. I salute you for speaking out what's on your mind. Loveyou. 😘

[@jongdaeseyebrows]

Thankk youu soo much Silvia for all these words you really spoke what's in my heart Just seeing the amount of shallow fake fans out there really hurt me like Imagine what Jongdae is going through rn He doesn't deserve all this. Please let's all shower him with our love I don't want to even think about what might happen in the future I don't want to regret anything pls pls pls protect our Jongdae exo is not exo without him EXO IS AND WILL ALWAYS BE 9 FOREVER I love you Eries my Family let's love ❤

[@hyacinthhyacinth5443]

EXO ARENT IDOLS THEY ARE SUPER TALENTED HIGH CALIBER ARTISTS. imagine Exo's songs without Chen's high belting notes which makes Exo songs more unique. I think I may be able to shoot some fires to Kexols

[@rissabluefm6877]

Mama, thank u for sharing your thought about this matter. I agree with everything you said. And yes, "We are one" means family, a promise that we will stay together...

[@asheerudramos5256]

im literally crying in the whole video! chen dont deserved to be treated like that because he choose to be responsible.. Some kExol will be having a protest(for chen to leave exo) in front of SM.. they dont deserved this.😭😭😭

[@licbx5933]

Thank you for making this video to talk about it. I totally agree. Those toxic fans don't represent other true EXOLs.The members are not yours, they are human they're just themselves, they're family . You don't have rights to interfere their family. Money doesn't make you a better fan and an better person. If you love them, just share your love with others, not sharing hates.

[@widsr1493]

Mama pilbug ... i have done watching 1 hour and 15 minutes reaction for this interview... really like your reaction.... they just wanted tobe happy as a human and an idol ... real fans must be touched with everyhing they said in this interview ... mama cant wait for more exo reaction ... and miss aunty pilgug too ... 😍😍😍 Thanks for loving our boy mama

[@rofiexol1424]

I'm really sad..... Why.. I love Chen so much and I support him... All the life 😭😭😭' you are right we are one..... This is my promise.... Yeah we are family... Exo' and Exol... We are one ❤️❤️😭

[@sumarnimahmud9519]

This time i think we exo-l fight with each other hurt my heart so so much, I though we are family we are one

[@yokhawanha]

evetho i cant watch the interview reaction (vimeo was blocked in my country), but i enjoy the intro, thank you mama pilbugs, maybe because like exo for their personality and music, when i find chen informed us he's gonna get married, i really really happy, and then i got worried because i knew some fans will be raised some issue over this happy news, I'm worried for chen, cos we knew how Kfans is. for the past 2 days, we really really busy on social media defending chen and exo, from toxic fans, toxic kfans, and haters/antis who take this situation to make exo go down. hopefully, the situation getting better, and let's keep fighting exol lets protect our 9 boys.

[@ChanSooBromance]

Yes, thank you @sillypak! We stay with our family through their ups and downs!

[@jonginchunicha1677]

Thank you...chen is human too...i support him and i will not he leave EXO..alwayswithchen..

[@bribrim]

MAMA! I love you!

[@catherine_huynh]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts about this! Chen doesn't deserve any of this hate at all. But I just wanted to say thank you to everyone who's show love and support to Chen! Idols are humans too. Let's keep showing Chen and EXO our love!

[@nornisah-casan9006]

Exo-l and soondingies are so blessed to have you mama. You really represent us. Wish you all the best mama. Let us pray that jongdae will stay strong and be happy on his new build family.

[@subilynnoweight2090]

IK RIGHT IVE BEEN FRUSTRATED ABOUT THIS TOO...But your videos and this interview made me smile and laugh during this situation which i hope will get better and positive...Thank u again Mama pillbug! we truly are one !!

[@Hana-kw1dp]

I completely agree with you🥺🙏🙏🙏

[@zooedii8567]

So true, jongdae is like literally an angel and he only deserves to be happy just like everyone else, just because he is an idol doesn't mean he shouldn't have a life, y should everyone else be free to be happy and doesn't get to be. Anyway..., just finished with d iHeartRadio and u should really react to exploration ending ment the video chanyeol made them and their reactions.

[@sachintomalex]

with true exo ls support, exo will change the stereotype in kpop industry of idols hiding or avoiding relationships just to satisfy their fans. u don't see this happening in any other industry. fans should not control the personal life of an artist

[@oolodd2961]

I am so happy because of this video and see people stood up supporting Chen. Chen is not only an Idol but also a normal human being, many people forget that, lots of kExols were like how dare you betray us and spend the money we "gave" you to your wife, we didn't support you for you to get married and having a baby blah blah blah, I felt also shocked and disgusted by them, I really hope Chen and other members are doing alright, seeing people who claimed to love them but suddenly hating them...must be so hard.

[@akemiqtr262]

This is a a good news a normal person fan or not should nod say congrats and move on as if nothing happened (because nothing really happened It's his private life and it had nothing to do with his career we all have private lives and we all work and study) Idk what's wrong with some of korean so called fans this is a psycho behavior they need a psychiatrist asap

[@wegotthatpower7425]

EXO IS ALWAYS 9 😭❤❤ #EXOPLANETofNine #EXO오래오래사랑하자 #EXOLStandWith9 #하나란_그_말처럼_엑소9 @SMTOWNGLOBAL @weareoneEXO

[@nunualh3393]

That’s truly heartbreaking 💔 jongdae deserves the world and as family and a fan we should give so much support and love

[@atinkerbelltochenswendy165]

You know what's funny mama P, I created this acct in 2018 I never thought it'll turn into reality soon. Now Chen has found his Wendy. Ive never had a bf and over the yrs of knowing EXO I saw Chen as my ideal boyfriend. Everything about him. But I never picture him as my bf my gosh. Im dreaming so high. He makes me happy everytime. Imagine the shock after the amnouncement. I was trembling. I cried the entire night I was thinking it was just a prank. I was in denial. I couldnt believe my Jongdae could do that. But after crying my heart out, I started absorbing info. This is the reality. Chen maybe loud but he is introverted. Unlike other members, he is the only one with the least idol friends. He said he prefers alone. But he has this strong circle of friends since childhood that he normally spend time with. And most of them already have kids. He is also a member with the least fans. He knew it. We Soondingies arent as loud as the others. He is used to getting the least attention. So I understand when he met someone he mightve felt overjoyed. Someone who love him as a person. He reminds me of my brother. What I admire about him is him being honest to us. Sure it was unexpected but shits happen you know. And based on his letter he already had plans of settling down when he talked to the members and comp but had to wait for the right time due to comeback. Then a blessing came so there's no time for delaying his news to us. And just 3 months ago his brother got married too. I just want him to still be with EXO. I dont want him to choose bet love and career bec that is really what happened to Sungmin of Super Junior. Kelfs wanted him to leave SuJu bec he is already married not fit for the idols or stay with the group and not get married. He chose to have a family so he left SuJu. Now he is starting to comeback but couldnt interact with his members. He is promoting alone which is really sad. I love Chen I dont want to see him struggling on his own bec he chose to have a family. I dont want to think of him sitting in front of tv watching his brothers doing concerts bec he is being treated like having infectious disease. If I have all the money I would go to Korea and slap all those Soondingies turned monsters for doing this to Chen. They loved him on Sunday they wished him to be happy but on Monday they hated him and cursing him and do all ugly stuff. Did they really love Chen all these years? Korean fans are a shame in this universe. Not all but those delulus have to be cancelled. Can they really see EXO on stage without Chen? Can they listen to EXO without Chen's voice? They really are the most selfish, self-centered creatures on earth. Im sorry Mama P coz you are Korean too but this rant only goes to Korean delulus who need to come oht of Korea and see the other side of the world. Them bragging about giving EXO more money ofc since EXO is their own people. But tbh we IEXO-Ls spend more. The figure that a girl posted in a tweet for us that is only for shipping fee. And their concert? EXO's concert outhere is the most expensive. What they pay for VIP in Korea out here we pay it more than twice the price. But again how much shouldnt be an issue here. It's about how we respect and love and value them as idols. And they arent learning. They still need to grow up. Chen is happy why cant they support his happiness. Idols getting depressed bec of them.

[@yolicervantes6077]

I want to say.. one, keep your standards. If Chen is your ideal bf type.. you will find someone as amazing as him. You really stepped out from your shock to remain happy for him, because he and all of EXO does deserve to be happy. Thank you hun 💖

[@rosem1703]

True , money doesn't make u a fan but your love and support

[@mumsgottime]

Can't get my head around why some exo fans think they have a say in the LIFE DECISION the artists make. The only acceptable "Obsession" is streaming the latest EXO album. Obsession by delulu fans is dangerous to society and artists' mental health. Mama PG, thank you for sharing your thoughts. I think you articulate thinks in a much more peaceful way. Love you!

[@Sara-G-C]

"Money doesn't make you a better fan" EXACTLY! I'm so sick of people trying to control idols life just because they spent money on them. Jongdae is a person, not a toy you own. This people need to grow up.

[@nassimatargui8870]

I_EXOLs we tried so hard to protect our Jongdae Now those toxic brats are going to protest in front of the SM artium and i'm kinda Breaking Down cause we can do nothing to stop those psychos , can't Imagine how EXO would feel 😭 , i'm feeling useless at this point .

[@yukwin7467]

exo l fandom is whole mess right now. i just wish this toxic fans to stop. we are tired of members leaving the group. we should support chen as much as he did to us. i cant really understand those antis. i love exo so much and i love the exo l who continued to support chen after his issue. if any member left us again i dont know anymore. INTERNATIONAL EXO LS LET'S PROTECK EXO AND JONGDAE

[@yulinakriswandari9422]

All you saying is totally my thoughts! Thank you for speak up 💙 we are one EXO is 9 forever

[@MOMO_ChasingTheSun]

Hope u can react to exo's showtime. I love your reaction sooooooooo much! Sorry for my poor English😢

[@jonaphrilpollosco6713]

chen deserves to be happy 😊😊😍😍 he's one of the reason why i fell in love with exo 😍😍 shame on those people who wants chen out of EXO.. .!! 😡 EXO is NOT EXO without CHEN!!! FYI.. dont call yourselves a fan of EXO when you dont know how to support your idol... toxic fans like you are the reason why most of your idols got into depression.. 😡😡what a shame 😡😡

[@lailanejusi657]

We're in this thing together. Please protect EXO and Chen. To those antis who want Chen to be out of the group why don't you guys leave the fandom? We don't need narrow-minded humans here, we need someone who can understand EXO and can stay with them til the end.

[@analaurabarraza3210]

Simplemente Thankyou 🤗😚

[@Xstarzones2]

sillypak, 💜 I totally agreed everything you said, now I'm not much a fan of EXO, but I do like some of their music, I only know Baekhyn & Kai mostly, but what these toxic fans, these so call EXO-L toxic fans doing to Chen is so stupid, and truely unfair to Chen, He done nothing wrong, these toxic fans are possessed thinking they own Chen or any members in EXO, well you don't own neither them, you are fan only that's support them, and buy their merchs nothing more, you can have crush fantasy about these members but nothing more, these toxic fans needs help, they are disgusting and I do hope the real true EXO fans doesn't support these disgusting people, hopefully my BTS Army's support EXO especially the member Chen..💜✌ But you will always has my support Sillypak, you the best, we Armys got your back, and real true EXO fans to..💜✌

[@butterflyeffect15]

I wanna cry😭😭, EXOLs always support our angel ❤️😭

[@babethsandiego8374]

Chen is just adding a happy chapter in his life. But his happy chapter with exols is still intact!!!!!! Yes, it made us jealous in a way bec it was so sudden but we can accept it, don't we? We love him bec he is a part of talented boys in exo

[@nahlaal-harthi3461]

I was crying with you until you said to send email to Kyungsoo hahhahahah

[@Pitapat819]

Wish those people would just leave. The door is wide open. A kfan even said “why should i leave? He should leave.” Imagine thinking a fan is more important than an actual member. We can all work hard with the fans that will stay and EXO will always work hard no matter the size of the fandom. They’ll find success even after this, whether as a group or in their individual work.

[@yehawexzen6723]

Yes my broke ass don’t spend a lot of money on Exo but guess what, my broke ass loves and cares about them enough that i respect their privacy and their choices, spending more money on them doesn’t make u a better fan, supporting and accepting them for who they are makes u a better fan

[@widsr1493]

And btw yes mama you should react to ladder season 2. Chan and chen getting closer (i mean they close but not as close as chanhun, chanbaek, or chanso so they bounded there) ... thats really recommended 😍😍😍 .. fighting mama keep healty

[@nati.g6178]

KEXO-L'S say that they spent more money on EXO. Here's a message from me to u: *I spent a fcking load of money on EXO too! AND GUESS WT? I hv to pay for fricking shipping fees of $50 which ya'll don't hv to pay and I'm pretty sure many int EXO-L'S can relate. I spent money on them but I'm not claiming them. WHY? Because I do this for my own happiness, no one forced me to spend money on them, and EXO didn't tell me to become their fan either! And most importantly, u can't buy a person's life. All idols hv their personal life and we hv no right to control them!*

[@ajengkusumastuti2309]

i live and grow up in conservative country, when pregnancy out of wed lock is a big NO NO. i am disappointed in Jongdae because i this pregnancy situation. but respect him because he is being brave and responsible to step up and married his fiance and raise their baby together. i also don't understand what those "fans" think? EXO member deserve live their live like a human being. cause they are just a human being with so much talents and share their talent with EXO-L. if they dislike them just shut up. it's is not like those fans are better than our EXO member. to EXO-L lets take parenting lesson cause we should prepare to support our nieces/nephews. we just start it with jongbaby. i see my self share so much parenting info if only jongdae have an instagram account cause i do that to my relatives and friends that have child

[@exomake_mehorololo]

I agree with you 🙏 and if you look at comments... same people say he should have abortion 😭🤬🤬🤬 so killing a baby is ok for them!!!! Not having a baby out of marriage is a religious value and moral but it is worth nothing if you are ok with killing an innocent baby!!!😭😡 these fans are horrible human beings!

[@myriamestefany]

I know how you feel girl, i stan exo no much longer too, but i love Jongdae, actually i start to know more of the group because of him, he is so talented and warm person, all the boys are like a family, i can't understand how some people who call "fans" are trying to break this, i only wish the best for Jongdae and his baby, he doesn't deserve this hate coments, i hope that some thing in Korea changes.

[@kimia_b.r]

18:29 i'm crying so hard now. Cuase it's the most true thing in the world... that "we are one" is a promise and we never turn back to our family

[@ChocolateTeapot93]

I saw some comments from the toxic fans saying that sex before marriage is wrong and it harms the reputation of the whole group. Is it really like that in Korea? Most people in the UK do that and its pretty common for people to have kids before they get married and some people have kids and never get married. No one cares. To me it just looks like they're crazy and living in a different century.

[@Pitapat819]

Jodie653 so many k-dramas show or allude to premarital sex being done. That’s why there’s the “do you want to have ramen?” Stereotype of when someone says that they want you to stay the night and something will happen. They just like to pretend it doesn’t happen so they can use it for their own agenda. It’s also taboo to talk about in my country because of our religion, but it’s still done lol just kept hush hush by many.

[@warganet262]

Mama pls don't cry. I'm crying so hard watch this video

[@angel_firelightsy1537]

ALL K-EXOLS WHO ARE SPREADING HATE ABOUT CHEN'S GETTING MARRIED AND HAVING HIS OWN FAMILY ARE A SHAME TO THE WHOLE FANDOM AND THEY ARE NOT A TRUE FANS. AND YOU ARE SO TRUE GIRL, MONEY IS NOT THE TRUE MEASUREMENT FOR BEING A FAN. THE REAL MEANING OF TRUE FAN IS STANDING SIDE BY SIDE WITH YOUR IDOL THROUGH THICK AND THIN. TO CHEN, DON'T BE DISCOURAGE OF THE HATE SPREADING IN THE SOCIAL MEDIA/INTERNET, THEY DON'T DESERVED YOU. WE LOVE YOU AND WILL ALWAYS BE HERE NO MATTER WHAT.

[@Byun04]

We are one forever.. We really respect his privacy and we support him also Chen will be part of EXO

[@mMsbeezer]

I guess “We are one” means something different to the toxic fans. I guess it means “We are one as long as you don’t disappoint us in any way, never say or do anything without notifying us first, don’t do anything without our approval and don’t ever, ever have any sort of a private life”.These people are truly beyond ridiculous. I hope and pray that SM does not let them have their way in this. If they do, these spoiled brats will only get the idea that they can dictate other people’s lives. I am an older adult and have seen this kind of thing before. I have loved Chen’s voice since Exo’s debut. What a loss it would be to the group. I support CHEN. Let’s hope SM does too.

[@atiezati4327]

Thank you for this video.. love youu

[@Melanieolv]

Another interview I love is them on radio star a month ago. You should watch it.

[@misshammielovesk-pop4274]

He didn’t have to share his personal business, but he wanted to be open and honest with the fans. What those “fans” don’t realize is their negativity is what advertisers are reacting to, not Jong Dae saying he’s getting married and having a child.

[@aeris4414]

I have not been able to sleep becoz we kept on defending chen. We have to go to naver, lysn, twitter korea becoz they keep on trending stuff, spamming lysn and even naver. We need to counter their trend and their spamming.. its exhausting and they really think Jongdae shud leave becoz they think he didnt took care of Chens image. That they wud rather chen to hide this. They think they wasted their youth becoz he betrayed them.

[@Sara-G-C]

"We are one is not just a phrase it is a promise" YES I'm crying with you 😭 EXO is family!

[@atiezati4327]

Hope you will continue your reaction video to exo concert.. pleasse..

[@faustlovesm]

here is a korean fan and i really agree with u

[@Pitapat819]

숨에리 i see many good comments from korean fans on youtube videos about chen. Thank you!

[@nickynisa]

Chen doesn't deserve all the hate. It's really unnecessary and uncalled for. Tbh, i'm shocked when i heard the news but you know, i'm more shocked of the hate that he receives. I hope those who are hurting and sad, can finally find peace. To those who are mad and hating Chen, please stop. It's okay to stop supporting him but please don't make things worse.

[@nourach3041]

I'm so proud of him... He's a pure soul

[@cnehle4498]

When she started complimenting her subscribers my heart went boomboom, looks like I don't get enough love😂😂😂💓

[@AnaLeahMillendez_EXOL_ELF]

aww..my heart..all I have for them is LOVE! so hapi 2 know them more thru ds..hope u'd do more of ds n d future w/ ot9..our kyungsoo, minseok & yixing r waiting for mama to hear them too..hihi..I really hope & s xctd for inhale, exohale 2 b back mama coz our 3 othr boys seem 2 b a bit forgotten nowadays a lot..I miss them so much! also..jst wanna ask if there'll b special reactions 4 kyungsoo & jongin's bdays lyk what u dd last yr for all of them? 😀 nvrtheless..thank u 4 sharing ur thoughts mama! alwys thankful for sharing ur journey as n exo-l! luv u so much!

[@seacyren161]

I really wish that actual fans of idols, would come together and make....idk a go fund me for idols to date. Or even collect and protest at agencies to let idols date. OR EVEN A FREAKING WORLDWIDE TWITTER #TO TO LET FANS FREAKING DATE!

[@cimol_kyungsoo]

4th viewer! Yieeeeeeeeeeee i missed EXO content! ♡♡♡♡ TYSM MOM!

[@nourach3041]

My happiness 🎵🎶"it's going up up baaaaby" 🎵🎶 because of Chen and EXO and EXO-L

[@sarmilasunuwar7313]

Are they real human??? who just hate someone just because he want marry n want start family...I think these people are not a human at all they are behaving like a creep... n also i don't think they are true fans at all...who just sprading bad rumors...just go to hell bad people ou trule deserve hell for your actions...don't borther our precious Jongdae... True IExo_ls n True KExo_ls support n protect Jongdae 4everrr...✊✊✊