Leave Them Cervixes Alone! | UroChannel

[@UroChannel1A]

Women! If you want more content on female sexual and urological health, please watch and like this video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/eYPHn4ZupbmhjpY So far, the KZbin algorithm has showed it exclusively to men which means, it will be dead pretty soon. What a shame! It contains important information on vulvar pain. Thank you!

[@wolfenegermichel2403]

@@UroChannel1A I don't think most people got that problem. 🤣🤣

[@pomztoybox6877]

Warning me not to hit the cervix is like warning a dwarf not to hit his head on the ceiling fan.

[@craigpennington1251]

If it's outside the vagina about 5" you gonna hit it.

[@jonaskatema]

Don't forget bro, the canal or vagina length also varies, funny but it's true for most of us

[@2BullChain-hj8zj]

Too funny!!! Thanks man.

[@aresgil]

😂😂

[@Hadria7777]

@@pomztoybox6877 🤣 this is absolutely hilarious, thx for the laugh

[@AaronAlthaus]

I think it’s a little alarming how many sexED videos boil down to “you should really communicate with your partner about what feels good and doesn’t during sex, and don’t just assume you know”

[@UroChannel1A]

It’s alarming that nobody communicates.

[@8alakai8]

yep i have had girls that like it when you hit it i would stop asking if they are ok and they would say no its horny go on but yes mopst girls dont like it

Cheap advice that can't be sued for?

[@bankoetsu879]

@@UroChannel1A because of the culture we can blame a few things and one of them is feeling they don't wanna lose or fail their partner or embarrassment

[@techmonstaa]

I've had some partners that like it and some that don't. Communication is absolutely key to keep your partner happy. Always make sure you're both enjoying it

[@Me_Caveman]

Bold of you to assume I have this problem.

[@Rhandlezz]

My girlfriend loves me hitting it on her, so I don't know what this dude is talking about. I'm sure some women don't like it, but not all.

[@joakinsane]

@@Me_Caveman 🤣🤣🤣

[@windygrass9807]

You and me

[@BlackSh33p317]

😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@T_P_W_ThachoZenjuan]

@@Me_Caveman 😆

[@emilybrackett9571]

Married for 22 yrs and my husband has hit it 9 maybe 10x by accident (typically the position has a lot to do with it). And I’d say I can speak for most the CERVIX IS EXTREMELY PAINFUL WHEN HIT!!! I remember it sending me into a fetal position making my stomach hurt even after we stopped and 3x it actually made me throw up. So cervix is a no go for the majority. I can say that ur partner should get acquainted with the “button” at the top. And ladies come on, they aren’t mind readers tell them/show them what u like guarantee they don’t forget. Just speaking on personal experience as a 41 year old who has been the owner ☺️

[@RedRoseSeptember22]

I must be a rare breed then, it's never hurt me and I enjoy it lol.

[@cmtm4880]

@@emilybrackett9571 what positions was it more and less likely to get hit, respectively?

[@kurbukurbu]

the study found that only 6.8% considered it an aversive area. so not really the majority.

[@Brex10]

@emilybrackett9571 what you mean by "been the owner"? The owner of a cervix? Or your man?

[@denjeez]

Yikes that sounds brutal and scary

[@noodlewater3876]

For some reason, gynecologists have convinced themselves the cervix doesn’t feel pain. When getting into the uterus for any reason, (birth control, etc.) women are almost always told it won’t hurt. It hurts. A lot. And opening of the cervix can even induce a woman into false labor. The cervix hurts. If you HAVE to get to it, give a girl at least a few ibuprofen beforehand…

[@alexale5488]

who asked

[@recoveringsoul755]

So much pain. I think the pain from cramps and childbirth are because of the nerves in the cervix.

[@catpoke9557]

@noodlewater3876 People are like this with a lot of organs, although normally it's the regular average joe with that misconception and not a doctor. Like, more often than not people think intestines don't feel pain, despite the fact everyone has felt intestinal pain due to gas and such. There's a strange cognitive dissonance around certain organs. Some organs actually don't feel pain, like the brain (at least it does feel pain from cutting, maybe other things can cause it. I dunno) but then others people just wrongly assume don't feel pain and then they run with that idea.

[@namaste348]

@noodlewater3876 💯

[@RaeCarson]

This is EXACTLY what happened to me 20 years ago. I was scheduled for an in-office uterine biopsy. Told I didn't need to prepare and that it wouldn't hurt. I hadn't even been instructed to take mild pain meds. As soon as my cervix was breached, and wholly unexpectedly, I was instantly slammed with full-on labor pains (I'd never given birth) and my body forced me to scream at the top of my lungs. I literally COULD. NOT. STOP. In between hastily-gulped half-breaths I BEGGED the gyno to stop, to get out, to LEAVE ME ALONE NOW. And he REFUSED TO QUIT. I was pouring tears and going into shock. And THEN came the biopsy razor-tube. I wanted to die. It felt like I WAS dying. Then after it finally FINALLY ended, this assh*le has the unmitigated audacity to BERATE ME in front of a room full of nurses. He actually insulted me and effectively called me a weak baby. "My GOODNESS. I've done over 900 of these procedures during my entire career. And NO woman has EVER behaved like YOU have." As if I'd had a CHOICE. Then he threw down his gloves and stomped from the room. Nobody ever told me why this happened. I was told I'd bleed/spot for maybe 1-3 days. I bled for A WEEK. (Not normal. But again -- nobody told me at this time that it wasn't normal.) It took me another 12 years before I visited another gyno bc of the PTSD I'd been forced to handle. Years I desperately needed to be monitored because guess what? I HAD ENDOMETRIOSIS (inherited from my dad's side -- his mom had it) but the OG gyno never bothered telling me THAT in a follow-up appointment even though he'd KNOWN. Years after the fact, the biopsy results were checked by another gyno who said I had scarring and adhesions on and around my uterus.

[@kimasp7482]

I'm a 10 year Cervical Cancer Survivor. I no longer have a cervix, it doesn't matter because I don't need it! Gentlemen, believe me when I say..."bigger" is not always better! There is NO pleasure when you feel like you're been "beaten" from the inside.

[@smileydog5941]

What is ideal length? Ideal that you wish for, not what you are just fine with? Dont worry about sounding objectifying or mean, I can be objectifying too. Just looking for honesty.

[@Heidi_137]

Right! and Bigger means less rigidity too. I never seen a larger penis get fully hard like an average length. Bigger is useless, just hurts and doesn't hit the right spots! I try to let my lover know he is fine but he still wish he had bigger!

Interesting... certainly had some enjoy though it might be curve hitting better. That said the after yeah complaints... on both sides at one or two points.

[@JayR-x3l]

@@kimasp7482 lol but most women is all they go for

[@MsLhuntMartinez79]

Or torn apart

[@suet.r.4815]

Dudes! - The CERVIX is NOT the "G-spot". - Keep looking. 😅

[@Anonymous-uw4sr]

@@suet.r.4815 right

[@cristobaltorres6185]

😂

[@DishyLemon]

Respectfully, "keep looking" is also a dangerous thing to tell people. Google is right there with the answer, and, I say this as a guy, women's bodies are Not for experimentation.

[@Q5000]

It's the A spot

[@dr.hugog.hackenbush9443]

@@suet.r.4815 G-spot is right behind the pelvic bone. Not hard to locate.

[@lindamilosevic7244]

It hurts when they go to the cervix.. i feel like hes getting my insides its too painful. Where its not fun anymore. It feels like a punch in the stomach. Just listen and communicate with your partner. My husband listens and sees im in pain so we change it up where is still good for both of us.

[@jimnunya1253]

Like a dude getting his nuts bumped. 😢👍

[@oliverbird6914]

@@lindamilosevic7244 I agree with you about listening to what your woman's needs. In my experience, hitting the cervix really depends on the woman...my current girlfriend really likes it..can I easily make her come like that. Other girls have reacted as you describe. A couple live it..for some it's a lightning rod of pleasure. I think he's right .1 in 5 liking it seems correct

[@TheGreatest26]

They!?

[@nightflyer205]

@@lindamilosevic7244 they?

[@anonymous-dd3gr]

@@lindamilosevic7244 How big is your partner penis

[@Jacayrie]

It also depends on where a woman is in her cycle, since the cervix position changes during ovulation and periods.

[@simonspethmann8086]

@@Jacayrie 😲

[@King_Dan_Man]

A man shouldn't be inside if you're on your period

[@kdepp90]

@@Jacayrie that's true!!

[@kdepp90]

That's true!

[@AhmedAli-lz3ut]

I never even thought something like that is possible

[@carathorsven3326]

I think alot of women dont even realize that that is what is happening when they feel pain. They dont know where their cervix is or that, that is what is being hit.

[@mollymo6229]

@@carathorsven3326 I had to teach one of my female friends what is her vagina so loads of women do not know their body and it is scary

[@sirblackshield8000]

Bingo I definitely believe this is a global scale thing, lack of communication and self awareness

[@soclose2her]

@@carathorsven3326 this part

[@anthonyfelix2972]

Really wish we had more prevalent sexual education in high school with so many young people learn about sex through social media and pornography. Even being in my 30s I am always glad to learn something new.

[@tailgunner2]

Tell ttat to the pearl clutching parents! The real "no BS" sex ed I received was freshman year high school in the early 90's when "Magic" Johnson was diagnosed with AIDS. Being an inner city trade school, no one bothered to waste time preaching abstinence. The focus was on protection and consequences. Especially the slide shows of what STDs did to men's "tools".

[@jwhippet8313]

@@anthonyfelix2972 I really wish we could get most HS students literate above a 5th grade level.

[@fujitsu-no]

It's especially hurtful to see that some men actually believe that stuff in porn videos is 100% real.

[@darkzeroprojects4245]

@@anthonyfelix2972 well not like the public education and parents ever will properly teach them these days.

[@HazelVsTheWrld]

Real, learning sex from watching porn is like learning how to drive a car from watching Fast and Furious.

[@IslemTav]

Tapping on the cervix is a huge no-no. It’s extremely painful. It feels as if all the internal organs are hammered and pushed upward. Men, please be careful!

[@cats4603]

If this true, then women doesn't even remotely look like they are in pain in most extreme porn?

[@PuslimHunter]

Thanks for telling this darling, nobody told us, we thought every woman likes deep penetration

[@marknalberta]

@@IslemTav I've had two partners who enjoyed it though so

[@kinge8098]

So can i ask if it was only being hammered because i never had this problem with a woman, mainly because i have to be gentle at first or else things go drastically. Yet when i hit the cervix I’m met with surprise and joy, it’s odd.

[@RedRoseSeptember22]

Not for every woman!

[@Neinteen91]

Thank you for this. There was one time my partner at the time and I got carried away and he got too rough, after a short while I felt a excruciating pain in my lower abdomen like a really bad period cramp and had to curl up into a ball until it calmed down in a couple of hours. It was concerning but back then I had no money to go to emergency. No sex is worth your health.

[@UroChannel1A]

You are welcome!

[@1eV]

Are you in US?

[@recoveringsoul755]

Similar. ER said maybe I had a popped cyst in my ovary. Recommended 3 days of bed rest. I really couldn't even walk. No idea if I actually ever had any cysts.

[@rosasantanna]

As a virgin who received very little to no sexual education, still has poor notions about her own anatomy and was raised to believe sex was sinful, I find this video very interesting, doctor. Thanks for sharing valuable information! 🤗

[@BI-11y_TheStormTrooper]

Hopefully you find a man that cherishes that and is your one and only .

[@elioraimmanuel]

My heart breaks for you. Sex with your husband is holy.

[@gleanerman2195]

No such thing as sin, we, most of u were just lied to at a young age, just enjoy your life as you see fit, it's all we have.

[@panosvrionis8548]

@@rosasantanna Sinful 🤔 Why? I'm not religious but if God gave us these organs is to feel good ☺️🥳 Use them wisely ☺️

[@equarg]

@@rosasantanna My dad cheated on my mom regularly and she kind of took it out on me. Pounded into my head “till death does you part” and sex out of marriage will send you to Hell. Welp, I am a 40 year old virgin who plans to die single, alone, and virgin. I am definitely straight, but have a serious phobia of physical contact and sex. If I am intimate willingly or raped the man must die first and then I will end myself to prevent the conception of the anti Christ. (The TLDR version). Yea. I made peace with the fact I am messed up

[@somakun1806]

Bold of you to assume my lil guy can even reach Cervix

[@tammysheppard4210]

@@somakun1806 lol

[@saimonchowdhury5772]

@@somakun1806 lmao that's sad but also good in a way

[@DonatelloHamato.]

Lmao😭

[@kaeganthornhill3936]

Only take 5.5inches to reach it.

[@AltruisticWarrior]

Eh, I'm only 6.5" and it happens a lot especially with doggy position. Missionary with a nice adjustable pillow really gets the job done. 😎

[@humanityfighting4apulse378]

As a female, thank you for covering this subject!, great job explaining the details. God bless!🙏😃

[@sharonmiller7213]

We just need the male audience to listen. But not just listen. UNDERSTAND.

[@closrencountr]

This is a conversation I've had with all my partners, and for me its true. Only a handful of them didn't mind the full stroke to hit the cervix, they all found it uncomfortable. Kudos doc.

[@agentorange153]

In my case, all of my partners love it -- but that might be because I tend to use slow and gentle strokes!

[@levelintent]

How do you know how far to go?

[@barbaramorales7329]

Thank you for the information. I don't understand why anyone would give you hate for giving the medical facts about the subject matter. Knowing how it works should make it better to navigate.

[@jenifernadeau]

Because people attack anything they fear or that makes their body uncomfortable, or is unpredictable for them.😢

[@TheScorpionHerself]

Why is this popping up on my feed and I’m literally a virgin😭?

[@im_sincerely_sorry8812]

facts wtf

[@rahteljackson433]

preparation shawty

[@rahteljackson433]

knowledge is power

[@FBSNetwork_09]

maybe it's a sign lol

[@artisticg8856]

@@TheScorpionHerself worlds trynna prepare you , same as me it seems 😂

[@clooty818]

I've been hit in the cervix enough that when my period came I ended up bleeding scar tissue and it was extremely painful. Getting hit it the cervix really can be the "gift" that keeps giving

[@simoneglover7012]

Thank you for putting this information out there. I actually had a partner who did this quite often even after I told him I did not enjoy pain. He claimed it was accidental. During that relationship I received a pap 3b result. The OBGYN wanted to perform a conization. I put 2+2 together and decided to ditch the boyfriend. Within a year my pap smear result was back down to 1. That experience has convinced me that many women's (vaginal) health problems are a result of what they accept from men sexually.

[@UroChannel1A]

Thank you, you are welcome!

[@dukex12]

What they accept from men? Triple 6's. Six foot, six inch, six figure has been shouted from the rooftops for years now as the minimum acceptable male attributes. If they're going to demand it they had better be able to handle it. Maybe you came by it honest, maybe you aren't one of these delusional vapid creatures, but to speak for women as a whole and claim victimhood...are you serious?

[@Manhwa-recapped]

If they're born above average what should they do about it exactly

[@windygrass9807]

"Thank you, you're welcome"... Doc just wanna say them both

[@lemoncholyme]

@@simoneglover7012 Ding ding ding! You're one of the smartest women on this planet.

[@miovicdina7706]

FINALLY SOMEONE SAID IT!!!! Thank you 🙌

[@eg042680]

Hearing "Ow!" and "That hurts." as a teenager should've taught this lesson to men early on.

[@Crookedcross322]

@@miovicdina7706 difficult do do without communication, we have to know your depth, I'm 9.5 in

[@thesaddestdude3575]

"Average is key to success" Yeah right......

[@cup_o_TMarie]

@@miovicdina7706 👏👏👏

[@Cedrclovesutube]

@@miovicdina7706 hahahahah 👍🏾 okay

[@malcolmxavier2044]

Iykyk….as a guy, it’s an uncomfortable feeling when you hit it and you most DEFINITELY will know when you do! Thanks for the info and keep up the good work!

[@hotchkissrecords]

@@malcolmxavier2044 while I wouldn't describe it as uncomfortable for the guy, I do notice my wife jolts or jumps in pain any time I've hit it. Luckily, I can only just barely reach it (unless we're in a certain position where it makes it easier to do so)

[@barewithhippie]

@@malcolmxavier2044 men can feel it too? What does it feel like to you guys? It’s like a sharp pain for us. Not like getting stabbed, but similar to getting punched

[@losdogg313]

@malcolmxavier2044 your sister doesn't count, sorry 😐

[@unmeitobaku4741]

I kinda wanna push through, just for the experience 😂 maybe I watch to much smentai 😅😂

[@alexanderrahl7034]

Absolutely. Its like hitting a some-what hard, smooth, wet golf ball lodged in a tube, with a hole in the middle. Youll know when you hit it, and you'll probably think "the fu-?" Lol

[@jamesnicol8352]

Send this to the adult industry, especially Japanese "AV" companies...

[@1eV]

Why JAV specifically?

[@TheMagnificentGman]

@@jamesnicol8352 they won't have this problem

[@elbolainas4174]

Hentai manga artists don't help either

[@juanitoalcachofa3485]

I wonder why it got so popular.

[@gleab_ism]

Frl

[@GloOMrr]

You are doing a good job doctor Stefan! I am studying medicine, last year I studied urology but we didn't study sexology. It's quite interesting, I learn more about my partner, thank you for the information you put out for us! Your content is appreciated!!

[@UroChannel1A]

Thanks a lot! You are very welcome!

[@fromlasttofirst22]

STOP WATCHING PORN. ALL OF YOU.

[@dungbeater4264]

RAAAAUGH!!!!!! YOU’RE JUST MAD I CAN’T WATCH IT 🤪🤪🤪 Jk i need help.

[@PugLover9955]

@@fromlasttofirst22 EXACTLY 💯 👏

[@artyombychkov2134]

And reading it. All those porn writers don’t know shit about real intercourse.

[@SuperMakalena]

@@fromlasttofirst22 stop telling other people how to live their life. It's creepy.

[@FreedomOnALeash1776]

@@fromlasttofirst22 What's porn?

[@evansnyamesah1755]

Dr Lindsey Doe said it😂😂😂. Porn is not educational

[@grahambrown1980]

Porn is just made to shock people.

[@Spoketlabolina]

Very important video that I wished every man between ages of 14-90 would see. As people here write hitting the cervix is painful for the vast majority of women and even a larger amount of women don't enjoy pain during sex. There's been several studies on female pleasure and in all studies women conclude that the worst type of sex is with pain involved. It shouldn't take a scientist to understand that an act that has to do with pleasure isn't fulfilling if there's no pleasure involved. Sadly like stated in the video. Many men believe against what women say that women enjoy painful sex. Women don't painful is just painful and not enjoyable in any way. What a lot of men need to understand is that its maybe that they themselves enjoy yo hurt women, that they enjoy abusing women for their own gratification. To hurt someone who doesn't want it or doesnt enjoy it is actual abuse. So I wouldn't even call it sex. One person is having sex by abusing another person. The person being abused doesn't receive sexual pleasure or gratification from the act hence they are actually not having sex, they are being abused. One person is using another persons body sexually by abusing it and then telling the person that they enjoy it even though they dont.

[@reaperkiss1858]

Hm 14!? I used to believe you weren't supposed to have Smexy time till at least 19+😂😂

[@evmarekaj]

@@Spoketlabolina or maybe we can stop generalizing people to such extremes. The bigger issue is lack of communication. Also the video stated 6.8%, in order to be majority that number should be over 50

[@a.k.3110]

Thank you for talking about the myth with the pain. Pain is making me feel threatened and I want to feel safe with the people I allow myself getting close to. It really is crucial to talk about what feels right and what doesn't.

[@amohsen9848]

Truly admire your professional videos, also your sense of humor.

[@brendakoldyk1647]

knocking on the cervix door. Should be a Guns & Rose's song.

[@Blake_Mercari]

@@brendakoldyk1647 😂😂😂

[@vegakazuya5544]

More like Pandora's door haha 😂

[@sigma20xx]

@@brendakoldyk1647 Bruh.... yes!

[@whyguitarguy1]

😂

[@JustSomePerson8]

Heyyyyy Heyyy Heyyy Oh yeah!

[@cipherP9]

I’m 8 long but it curves upwards so I hit above the cervix and not on it. Hitting around the cervix are sweet spots, just directly on the cervix can cause pain.

[@Patrick-zr8tv]

Huh. This is actually good to know. As a virgin that's a little blessed with my endowment, I'll be trying to remember this if it ever becomes an issue.

[@jdemarco]

@@cipherP9 Thank for sharing your penis length.

[@utkukaraca5006]

Yes I'm 8 cm long too.

[@АнтонКраценюк]

If thats true you're a happy guy

[@rashaansmith1978]

@cipherP9 No one cares how long you are little buddy 😳😳😳😳

[@Kinomi144]

I'll probably be single forever, but just to be safe...

[@juanitoalcachofa3485]

Better have it and not need it

[@simple17226]

Good 👍

[@abdulazizhawsah9884]

Wish the best comrade

[@LadyJanae1]

Wow; I didn't realize that other women had a negative experience. When I had my hysterectomy, I specifically asked my surgeon to leave it intact because I love when my husband hits it.

[@quinnlance9487]

@@LadyJanae1 same for me! I was wondering reading these comments if I am just a weirdo 😂

[@FD-wl7xq]

Different people will have different preferences.In this case most don’t like it but of course there are going to be people that like it such as yourself.Same goes to foods.Alot of people don’t like durian but some do etc

[@ethanetn]

@@LadyJanae1 can you explain what you mean? Most of the women here say its painful. Does it feel pleasurable for you?

[@gleab_ism]

It depends of your preferences and how large/long is your vagina.

[@generalcornelius1880]

Finally someone says it. So many people positive that every woman is the same or making it up. Some women enjoy it so much, the pleasure overrides the pain. Same reason some girls like being stretched and feeling full and other like an average size

[@hemlocktea6643]

I move when I feel I'm getting to the back. Left right up or down,just don't hit direct center that's the cervix women hate it! Yeah I'm 7,and I just have to adjust slightly. The area around the cervix is still stretchy and women are sensitive in that circle around it! Think of it like a reverse bullseye 🎯 you wanna hit everywhere except the center

[@agentorange153]

I would put it differently -- you CAN hit it direct center, BUT the closer to center you get, the LESS force you should use (so if you hit direct center, you should lightly tap it, no more than that)!

[@goddessnoir290]

@@hemlocktea6643 good man

[@ErickWright]

@@hemlocktea6643 you’re able to move it like an endoscope just the end of it

[@SwampRatSmith]

@@hemlocktea6643 uhm... if you're 7 why are you having sex to begin with? kids these day we are doomed... although i do admit you are very well spoken for a 7 year old....

[@naturalkinks8683]

@@hemlocktea6643 Wtf? 7? 🤔

[@stinger4712]

That men try to hit the cervix as some proof of performance is not always true. In my case holding on tightly and pushing strongly heightens the sensation of pleasure and one might occasionally get carried away and touch the cervix.

[@King_Dan_Man]

Get off porn bud

[@sirblu4u665]

I love the fact it was short and straight to the point, made it so much easier for me to follow along and understand as a trans man 🫂

[@jeffgoode9865]

Thank you for putting an educational video out there about this. When I was younger, I thought this was good, but women always told me it hurt, so I stopped. It took A LOT of listening and asking about what my partners like to finally hone my sexual ability into something my partners can enjoy.

[@yonathantekleab8074]

Dankeschön Herr Doktor Stefan Buntrock. Ich weiß nicht warum dieses Video auf mein YT ist, aber es war interessant. Von dem Staaten.

[@UroChannel1A]

Danke für das Lob! Viele Grüße!

[@user-uh6xc1wg1e]

Same I don't know why it recommended to me on YT. thanks for this video doctor

[@johndynneson662]

I’ve always noticed that. Now I know why.

[@UroChannel1A]

Thank you 🙏!

[@ianbatra4911]

I would agree that for most men avoiding the cervix is probably best . There is such a thing as a cervical orgasm , but it’s a bit more advanced in technique and requires patience and proper warming up. When I coach men , I teach them to dial at back first and focus on giving there partner clitoral orgasms first . They can work towards vaginal orgasms and at that point they will have happy partners. Cervical Os are reserved for tantric partners and certain women with that preference .

[@davidarvingumazon5024]

@@ianbatra4911 That makes sense. No wonder I've seen some Manga characters talk serious stuff with advance technique, since they never explain it more scientifically, but I couldn't understand the reason until I read your comment.

[@Steven---]

@ianbatra4911 personally about 75% have enjoyed it. I also give an O from oral before I even get started, most tell me they have had a vaginal orgasm, it's usually the one's that ask you to go hard at that point that definitely get a cervical orgasm. Some do when you go deep and slow, and sort of rub the cervix. The ones who don't like it usually will let you know though.

[@TheeLynnChase]

I doubt this very much. Sounds like BS to sell something. That's not how it works. You can't have vaginal or cervical o's. I call BS.

[@KellieLumb-y7z]

My cervical Os are the most amazing ones of all. Can be full body, and sometimes even create a type of psychedelic experience. BUT you need to have a partner who understands how to stimulate without hurting.

[@magnarcreed3801]

@@ianbatra4911 Aka people that don’t mind a lil pain.

[@JJ-vs2gi]

Im 60, thought the thumbnail was about NOT getting a pap test. But im glad im here, comments totally cracking me up😂😂😂😂 Thanks doc, respect to you for educating our men, and women.

[@DarthBludgeon]

Good that you shared this. My 3rd wife clued me on this VERY early on. Communications are critical!

[@jolteon1019]

I think what you were trying to say is that most penises have a curve, that would result in hitting the areas around the cervix. I also have to say that the length of vaginal canal will be different in many women. Some women can have 7-8 inches , isn´t that right?

[@godleveleldritchblast5257]

No, it can expand to that point but it doesn't mean it is at that point. Most of the time a vagina is only a few inches in size but it expands to that during arousal.

[@CalebAble]

Yes I've also been with women who only have 4-5 inches which can be a problem. They probably need a shorter length guy to match.

[@doomguy9049]

Yes, some are necessarily shallower or deeper than the average

[@squirrel670]

Yeah, and some have more give maybe, idk but it goes further than 5.1 inches for sure. Like how guys get erect the size varies, the amount the woman lengthens to accommodate can differ. Her cycle can also affect the starting point as it sits higher or lower and idk if that affects the tenting capacity. Also the more aroused she is, the more wet and the more length achieved from the tenting.

[@ophilianecr]

@@jolteon1019 yes, some of us can accomodate a larger size, but that also takes time to get there and hitting cervix roughly still hurts. Even the small amount of women who enjoy a "cervix kiss" still don't like anything too rough. But on a more important note, large doesn't mean you're automatically good, its all about the moves and attention to details!! ♡

[@L6FT]

I don't get it, how does the cervix show up in porn? Discounting MRI porn of course.

[@arifulakash6239]

There's MRI porn !?

[@francineodonnell2598]

There are many internal cameras that video all the action from within

[@123SuperBeast]

I imagine it's more so about "deep penetration" than the cervix itself. It's an implied thing

[@k1ngk0k0knut4]

I had no idea that even exists

[@blueshoes5145]

Cervix is hit when the hump is quite aggressively deep. You can assume the cervix is hit in those cases. It’s not like the vagina is 8 meters long.

[@70rodal]

My girlfriend loves it, but....will remind me: NOT TOO DEEP.

[@Karter315]

🤣😂🤣

[@ScottHendrix-yz3du]

How deep does she and most women prefer??

[@skyblu3ers]

Same heree.. my girl said it too 😂

[@jessicab331]

So she does NOT love it🫠

[@lestat1uk]

@70rodal my girlfriend usually says is that it?

[@dustywolf9595]

Communication, love, and care are the most important things. The more I learn about others, the more I believe I have something very special between me and my boyfriend, and he's the only one I had since I was 17. Thank you for making this video. :)

[@ortolitore1522]

There are KZbin channels that try to convince men that all women like big “keys” and that average isn’t enough. Just buy their pills and devices, pay for special programs etc. If these things don't work then it's the man's own fault, no doubt he did something wrong and needs to buy more.

[@terataylor158]

Just one more way humans body shame each other. Women aren’t the only ones who have to face unreasonable societal expectations, a lot of folks just don’t want to recognize that men have to face those kinds of problems too.

[@JPoct21]

@@ortolitore1522”I bought the book on how to get a 10” penis now I need to buy another to Shrink it back to 5”😂😂

[@Mircat123]

That's right. Bigger isn't always better

[@FNLN-s3e]

Ya. It hurts. Which means I won't want to have sex with him again.

[@joshmonus]

@@FNLN-s3e On to the next one.

[@KewRtQ]

There are actual women out here singing the praises of that kind of penetration; So, hopefully you at least told him why he was being let go from his woman-pleasing role.

[@abigailbp9294]

Exactly. Guys here's a hint: If you hit it she's gonna quit it. Simple as that. Unless you want to take the chance that she is in 10% who as enjoy pain or you like being the jerk who talks her into it claiming that it "will feel really good".

[@jyo]

It's happened to me no call back

[@-gj3nu]

😔

[@Blio_]

dude this channel looks so cool im so glad to see a man being so well educated in sex and helping other men gain education as well.

[@ballpitstalenugget44]

Its painful af! Thank you for sharing!

[@Ratio429]

Even small taps are painful too? How painful is this?

[@Valter_David]

Wow this is very informative, this video needs a bit more of recognition since porn tends to exagerate how intercourse goes, thanks doc.

[@Faraz_khan0]

Just a contructive feedback... The segment asking for likes and subscribes was unnecessarily long and can end up annoying the audience. I almost ended up clicking away from the video because of that. Just focus on making great content. Likes and subs will come automatically. You don't need to ask for them really. Coming from someone who has 2 separate channels.

[@juhadexcelsior]

The most heartfelt argumebt for a like i've ever heard in my life lol

[@dannyrwagamba]

@@Faraz_khan0 facts

[@personmcdudeguy]

You had one job 😭 He asked you to leave a nice comment or shut up

[@AG-iu9lv]

Disagree. Knowing more about his creator experience and how the algorithm feedback works is interesting and helpful for me.

[@artcan3829]

@@Faraz_khan0 yeah I thought that part was super weird. seemed like he was trying to shame us into giving likes and subscriptions. Just make good videos!

[@PrettyyLisaa]

I loved this! Very informative! Thanks! I subscribed!

[@King_Dan_Man]

I realized I had to stop, knew it was hurting, and didn't knew it was bad, 80% ego, 20% porn

[@KB_B]

Learned a few things today. Thank you.

[@emmanuelking9988]

Thank you very much for this information. The porn industry has really messed up society on what is normal and healthy during sex; this is why it's so important to stay away from it and properly educate yourself on sexual health and listen to your body and not treat sex as a porn production.

[@alicialexists]

Thank you so much for putting this information out there! It's crucial for partners to treat each other like people, especially when pain and sex are involved.

[@a.r.bolton3995]

The way I say things about Don’t Do This - and it’s instantly ignored and they try to gaslight me. I no longer have a man in my life

[@sailorsg4444]

That's the right move. Your body, your decisions. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@59jm24]

Not being endowed like a horse, this is not a problem for me

[@carmenjimenez7929]

Some women don't like horses. Believe me.

[@cats4603]

😂

[@bobby1970]

Same here. I definitely come up short. I could never reach anywhere near a woman's cervix.

[@I_ammm_mojojojo]

Communication is always key. Speak with your partner(s). My limited experience.. the ones that like it.. love it. The ones that don't like it.. hate it because of how painful it could be.

[@agentorange153]

True -- it's one thing women either absolutely love or absolutely hate, so you HAVE to ask them (and it's best to have that conversation BEFOREHAND, preferably before or right after getting to second base -- and also take the opportunity to talk about any other intimate matters in the same conversation, including any plans she might have for having kids)!

[@jamesbryan287]

This is a very important resource! More couples, even fleeting dating of this world, more people should be aware of the importance of communicating before intercourse.

[@Smartsystem5958]

It's not a good feeling 😕 I bleed sometimes 😞 now I know why gotta have this convo with my boo

[@peaceglory5973]

Show him this video

[@KayP32]

I have a tilted cervix. I have to nag to be careful while intimate.

[@godleveleldritchblast5257]

If you have a tilted cervix, what is your physical health like. There is actually a solution to this. I learned how to fix it because one of my exes had this problem. Do kegels and lower ab workouts. The reason it's tilted is because the muscles aren't sitting correctly. Also what is your posture like, if your posture is not correct, it will pull the pelvic floor tight too causing the tilt

[@lilivanessi]

Same. THIS.

[@hrodebertcoad9848]

@@KayP32 Does position help for partners with a curve? I've found it useful in some cases depending on a guy's shape.

[@iamasia_perez]

Same

[@sammylove14]

Same here! Mine is tilted and often gets hurt.

[@KitsuneFyora]

Happened to me a few times. 100% its absolutely painful when the cervix is touched. Its like something crawled onto my guts and started eating them from the inside out

[@romanrohlfs]

All right as you explained. Also that there are women who likes to get stimulated on the cervix. Likely it’s because the A-Spot is close to it. Some like deep penetration because of the A-Spot stimulation combined with the clitorial through the pressure and rubbing of the pubic bone. BUT not like a 🔨😂. Just deep with shallow and small moves. Always communicate the woman and everything will be great. ☕️ Cheers and thanks for another great video.

[@goddessnoir290]

That's right!

[@King_Dan_Man]

I usually, due to ovulating, I accumulated, but there's no such thing as an A-Spot, get off porn

[@TashPointOh96]

I was too lazy to write this. I'm an adult woman and I support this message as correct for my experience and exactly to a T what my man does. 😻🥂🍾

[@Ratio429]

What's A spot? That's new.

[@aellalee4767]

Thank you for educating people! I know far too many who won't advocate for themselves.

[@ZZl3ZZ]

This is exactly the kind of good, God-blessed content that will make the world smarter.

[@tomflanders117]

Okay, what does it mean when your female partner's cervix "drops" due to prolonged orgasm? Don't get me wrong I'm not Mandingo over here or anything like that but I am knowledgeable on how to elicit such reactions for my partners Dearing foreplay and intercourse respectively. At that point they seem to enjoy the contact so to speak, however I'm wondering is there any health concerns to be worried about in regards to that particular scenario?

[@PtolemiosFrost]

Its definitely a weird sensation lol. If you can, definitely look up internal videos of it, its pretty cool to see. The cervix dips down and up in the vaginal canal, I like to think of it like making kissing motions with your lips. I'm not 100% percent sure why it happens but I think its to assist with impregnation, it basically dunks itself into the semen to help the sperm get where they need to go faster. Hopefully youtube doesn't incinerate this comment XD

[@agentorange153]

Not really -- just don't hit it TOO hard and everything will be fine! (Also, if she's pregnant, make sure to ask her doctor first if it's OK -- in MOST cases it is, but NOT always!)

[@futavadumnezo]

It drops so you can inseminate it easier; it's mostly to increase the chances of pregnancy.

[@CrazyToddler]

my understanding is that during orgasm the muscle spasms drop the cervix so it can be in better contact with sperm deposits.

[@Vindicated-Manipulation]

@@tomflanders117 Not sure if you are talking about the same dropped Cervix that I am but my children's mother (of our 3 kids) started having issues with her cervix dropping too low (of course childbirth affected this) and eventually she had to have her uterus removed. It ended up helping us bc we wanted to get fixed from having kids anyway and this solved the problem. Maybe related maybe not. Just figured I'd share.

[@iampretty7798]

Yea definitely don’t like it.

[@Ratio429]

Is this very painful? Even tapping hurts a lot?

[@satishkolla22]

Great informative video, as always!! Haters are always going to hate but thank you for sharing these valuable details, Doctor.

[@UroChannel1A]

You are welcome! I am glad you found the video informative!

[@Xana_K]

Thank you! Doing us women a huge service by educating other men! Please do not go bashing someones cervix, it actually feels horrible. Happened to me once and I was in utter pain for a week after. Seriously was one of the most horrific experiences. Look, you need to ask your partner what she enjoys. Never assume women enjoy pain. I dont know anybody that does. I think porn has warped peoples minds. Ive never watched porn, im 34 years old and i have an innocent mind. When i have sex with my husband it is out of love and adoration for him, not to experience pain!!!!

[@Moxp06]

I know there is a way to massage the cervix and make it less painful, but communication is very much key. Thank you for not being mediocre men and posting a common sense approach.

[@Moxp06]

Yoni massage

[@astrin64]

Thank you for the advice. I don't know what I'll do with this information, but I'll keep it in my mind if I ever need it.

[@Cyneel]

I knew when i opened the comments section it would be fun than the video 😂😂😂😂

[@coffeebean4356]

It’s a pain that can’t be described

[@9ipalvin858]

From what the commenters said my guess is it might be similar to getting hit in the balls

[@Ratio429]

What's the level of this pain? Is it a small sensation or very large? Even a small tap can hurt?

[@LedePat]

I start cramping turning hot and cold its not a good feeling afterwards

[@juanitoalcachofa3485]

Like a kick in the balls ?

[@blackwater7183]

It's probably similar to getting hit on the balls.

[@StoutShako]

This is so educational! Thank you. I'm not active in the bedroom currently, but it's good to know more about my own body! I had no idea tenting was even a thing!

[@siobhanhenry9094]

I called this "cervix punching" and i scold everyone about it lol

[@GLoveMOA]

What about times that you can’t avoid it? I never intentionally hit the cervix, as it doesn’t even feel comfortable for me. I’ve never thought that my partner would enjoy it either. However, I often tap it. Is there an angle play that you can suggest?

[@agentorange153]

If you want to avoid it, you can angle upward -- that seems to work well, and tends to hit her other sweet spots!

[@ErickWright]

You may have to get some spacers that will prevent you from going all the way in

[@Katastr0phic_Katicorn]

@GLoveMOA Change positions. Ask your partner to tilt the pelvis up or down, put a pillow under their stomach, or back to help with the tilt.

[@aellalee4767]

Don't go that deep. There are a variety of positions, but honestly, you'd have to ask your partner(s) because every body is different enough what works for one person doesn't for the next.

[@-cookieberries-300]

It’s so disturbing that you get several comments stating that women always like pain during sex, that’s just not true! Pain during intercourse HAS to be discussed beforehand, additionally I don’t get the appeal of wanting to hurt your partner when getting intimate 😖

[@leilaabdelmeguid3977]

Very painful!!😖😖

[@kirstenwyatt9675]

As a cervix owner, who used to have an IUD, and a former partner who acted like No was an aphrodisiac, he had scars from my IUD, and it had been driven almost perpendicular. My gyno at the time didn't believe a) he could hit the IUD, b) that the IUD hurt, or c) that sex with the IUD could hurt, so I had that IUD for the full 5 years, before I saw a different gyno to get it removed. He was always doing whatever he could to maximize size/depth. His following exes all have had similar stories.

[@mobilegameplaywalkthroughs990]

5:30 It's a good thing you put labels on that drawing, otherwise I'd have no idea what any of that is supposed to be. Even with the labels, I'm having a hard time understanding if there are suppose to be two humans in that picture, or what position they could possibly be in.

[@Cernunnas]

Thank you SO MUCH for this video!! It's been extremely painful every time a guy's hit my cervix, to the point that I'd avoid having sex with them. So yeah guys, hentai is not real, drill it in your heads, please!!

[@Boricua_User146]

Can't hit your partner's cervix if you don't have a partner.

[@Ratio429]

I came to say this but you beat me to it.

[@youtubecommentergal4346]

Lol the thumbnail with those words, “Leave them cervixes alone. ” I didn't really know it would end up being a s3x ed video. 😂

[@WasabiStickFigure]

There aren't a whole lot of sex ed/health sources that highlight the importance of transparency and communication with your partner, because of course everyone's preferences and health concerns are different, and I'm glad this video brought it up. THANK YOU.

[@jaylenmiller7914]

Complete honesty. Definitely done this but never heard some comments about pain but soreness after so its good to know to be careful. Some have enjoyed it but I'll worry when i get to that point

[@AmirCampbell]

Ok I'll stop.

[@Maicon-b1b]

😂

[@sxra1ya662]

Lmao 😆

[@ohthereyouarepeter1435]

Please don't... I LOVE it 😂

[@futavadumnezo]

SIKE!

[@powderedtoastfacekillah734]

Don’t lie…you’ll keep doing it

[@mlgbeastderik]

Wow KZbin gave me an actually good recommendation

[@DimitriTacoEater]

That explains a lot. I gotta apologize to my gf now...

[@dawnanderson3466]

Yeah.

[@rockytides]

the 'nature has a plan' with the audio got you the like, got a good laugh out of me

[@chibalemwape8973]

Thanx for the video. Very educative.

[@UroChannel1A]

Glad it was helpful!

[@mattkennedy837]

Good video sir. Let me simplify this for the boys. If you have a sports car, you can't put the pedal to the floor.😅

[@IaconDawnshire]

I'm barely 6in. I'm not hitting any cervex. I'm too small

[@tiergeist2639]

@@IaconDawnshire with 15cm you can definitely hit it. especially in the beginning. after shes stretched not so much. So go for the g spot🎉

[@wilderbeast9368]

This is the correct size.

[@warmpolar2941]

6 inches, bone pressed or non bone pressed? The global average is (arguably) around 5 and 5/8ths bone pressed. With a fat pad of approximately 1/2-1in, that makes the average guy approximately, just at 5 or in the 4s. You’re doing just fine bro, don’t be doing that barely nonsense.

[@peaceful3250]

Not too small.

[@adamblackman6660]

@@IaconDawnshire not all women are built the same either.

[@LinkNinjaMaster]

5:46 might I recommend to leave metric system numbers as well? I'm not American so I have to go look up the conversion. It's not hard, it doesn't take a lot of time, but it takes me out of the flow of the video. I'd really appreciate if you could add both in the future!

[@invaderzan8515]

I learned many interesting things today, thank you Stefan!

[@eddieagui1554]

Excellent.informative video..thx..but..if a penis is 7 or 8....it will hit cervix....correct??

[@UroChannel1A]

Thank you! Yes, most probably.

[@Leslie-es5ij]

​@UroChannel1A is that why she's screaming. Don't Stop the entire time ? I have 9.5 inches ?

[@patrickneil8045]

I say this respectively...I truly believe no man ,s first taught is to " try to hit the cervix" and if so that guy has a problem...most men just want to enjoy the experience...maybe a guy on the large size mite hit it because he can't help it but I still don't believe that's his main goal.

[@blackriflemensorganization6139]

@eddieagui1554 in that case you gotta go easy. Self control unless she asks for the full monty.

[@romanrohlfs]

Depends on the woman , cycle of the month and position. Women also have different sizes. Some can get cervix contact from a 6 inch and some not from a 7 inch. If a guy takes it SLOW, attentive and communicate, almost every 🍌🐚combination will work for both.

[@Shoppingisfun245]

I’m celibate - no man wants me so this doesn’t apply to me

[@sgtslippyfist6345]

Why do men not want you?

[@DiamondsRexpensive]

This is protection from all the players. The right man will come into your life.

[@ReinertZerker]

@@Shoppingisfun245 That's not even possible, what you mean is no man that you want, wants you.

[@COMMANDERHAWK22]

why is that ?

[@razakaze]

@@Shoppingisfun245 I really doubt that is the reason for your celebacy.. Most men are just need even seen by women as they are not successful

[@Generational_Wealth]

What about cervical orgasms???

[@heartvvitch]

those only happen with 3% of women, so if you’re that obsessed with causing one find a woman that’s in that 3%. otherwise stop cervix tapping, this isn’t a game of nut-ball.