Why Are Older Men Staying Single?

[@ericwettstein6215]

Many men are already alone even in a relationship.

[@mikem9536]

Being alone is better than being used.

[@eriktarver2087]

It's better to be alone than to be in bad company...

[@theelder4797]

And untold amounts of them think they have a 🦄, but it's a cheating mare.

[@shabadime10]

Great point 👉

[@brianmeen2158]

They are alone or just pure work horses for their wife. My brother and brother in law are constantly working or doing things to keep their wife happy. The effort/reward ratio is so out of whack from my vantage point.. I just could not do what they do and be ok . At the same time that even though I love solitude - I’m not sure if living out the rest of my life without a mate is the best option for me either. The mgtow types need to be more honest about this

[@BlahBlah-l4c]

Sick of being used and berated for simply existing.

[@kevint2524]

and/or something you might do!

[@yetanotherrandomname8311]

Men are literally used. I don’t wanna play this rigged game. I don’t care about whamen and I don’t care about kids. Couldn’t care less.

[@PessimistPirate]

And you’re expected to be satisfied with this arrangement.

[@sebastienseb919]

I'm fortunate I didn't go through much of that. When I discovered I did, I made a choice to still go through it. My simpness took over. NEVER AGAIN. 😁

[@brianmeen2158]

Get offline then and stop watching This content.. seriously man, i have never heard women in real life berate men For existing.. all of this dumb gender war stuff is online

[@robertpleydell6527]

No wife happy life.

[@Autodidacticpolymathicomniglot]

😂😂😂😂😂😂...good one 👍

[@feminazislayer]

Ahhhhhhhmennnnnnn

[@Sybea2]

👰‍♀ 🤺 Get back, BACK I SAY!

[@sebastienseb919]

Most often, in this day and age, VERY TRUE.

[@ma3stro681]

Smart men never marry or cohabitate. Bachelor life is be$t. End of story … 🎉

[@TheMensHighway]

An old timer once told me, "Son, in this life, you will get exactly what you are willing to tolerate."

[@killerbites3963]

Very true

[@jtstar10]

Gold!!😎👍

[@believeafricasports506]

Won't forget this saying bro!!

[@obiwankenobi661]

this is why you listen to people with experience. they drop wisdom nuggets

[@Fohnacide777]

Well-said..........JUST SAY ''NO"!!!!

[@robertsmith-lv4fm]

I did 38 years of marriage to a hyena, and then she wanted a divorce, I said let’s do it. The best thing that ever happened too me was getting away from the hyena

[@quasimode9038]

Good move, otherwise she would have gorged you

[@highdesertarizona]

You can’t just leave us hanging. What’s the hyena up to? Has she replaced you with her “soulmate”?

[@robertsmith-lv4fm]

No real man will go near a 70 year old hyena,she has a lonely life on her own

[@Fohnacide777]

38 years????? Damn.......good for you for ditching that evil miserable creature! Cheers brother.

[@Randall-o3d]

😈

[@sardonically-inclined7645]

"I'm getting too old for this sht" -Wise man

[@kevint2524]

not worth the squize.

[@kenudice9841]

I believe Danny Glover was the “Wise Man”.

[@sardonically-inclined7645]

@@kenudice9841 Correct

[@lukehanley5392]

My masculine toxic prostate cancer of colour has convinced me I’m not a Feminist.

[@rickypv2978]

Lol😂

[@davek.3483]

I got married at age 43 to a woman with 2 kids. Divorced at 47. Learn from my mistake. NEVER marry a woman with kids. You are expected to fulfill all dad duties, with ZERO dad discipline.

[@Raptor-y9f]

I know exactly what you mean. My father divorced my mother to marry a woman with 3 kids. He could not say a WORD about her spoil brats.

[@retrogamer82]

Single mothers are a no go zone

[@Dan0rioN]

Oldest male of 6 boys with single mom.. I learned how it goes real early & those kids end up becoming complete twirps all their lives..

[@perfection9669]

Literally no point in getting married for men except to have your OWN biological kids

[@hacunamatata6802]

A man with a woman with kids by another man gets stuck paying bills the biological father should be paying.

[@IvanDalmatinac]

I'm 57, fit, healthy, living in a good home, good suburb and retired. Never married, no kids. I have a variety of friends who are wealthy but they don't realise they have just become money pigs for their wives, they are over weight, medicate themselves on alcohol and work endless hours.....no thanks.

[@feminazislayer]

They get fat with the wives.

[@zrunner240Z]

YUP

[@brandongosselin]

wow how the fuck are you able to afford a house

[@ericprieto4348]

facta

[@Ali-l7q7x]

how can you retire at 57. in germany you must be 67 haha.

[@thormidthagahast8914]

A single man and his dog are two of the easiest creatures to keep comfortable and content.

[@scienceofthemagi9750]

Just shows how delusional women actually are. Obviously not 100% but u kn

[@brianmeen2158]

Yea but let’s be honest, most men and women are not going to live out the rest of their life without a mate and be ok with it .. we need to be more honest about this

[@transhusbando4233]

​​@@brianmeen2158 ive been doing it in ten since ex wife left. Honestly i want a partner to migrate with to share the load. But after crunching the numbers, it's not worth the effort trying to woo and game a post wall whore. I have to be strong and lone wolf this journey alone

[@thormidthagahast8914]

@brianmeen2158 get your house, kids and pension taken away, you'll be just fine without a partner. It's easy compared to loosing everything to some parasite.

[@Koi_to_Dragon]

@@brianmeen2158maybe they won’t be. However, it’s better than playing Russian roulette with a revolver that has 3/6 chambers loaded. That’s for sure

[@CtrlAltDelite]

The woman you "choose" will always find ways to test you and the boundaries of the relationship. You will always be having to reassert your position and keep the goal posts in place. That is not productive nor is it peaceful.

[@ryandgarland]

💯

[@kylemarshall1100]

💯 nailed it, the games are up.

[@allseeingotto2912]

A constant 💩test

[@degoek]

Wow well said . I need to screen shot this comment cause I will need to use this someday.

[@OnderHassan]

Exactly. It’s exhausting.

[@ejam1117]

I set a standard when i was 18 years old. I just wanted a woman that loved me just half as much as my dog, just half. Turning 55 next week, still single.

[@MegaMaveri]

You’re expecting too much 😂 😂😂😂

[@TheSecularHumanist]

High standards 😂

[@GameJournal0101]

You can shred the nastiest fart in front if your dog and he will just look at you unflinchingly, despite his sense of smell being like 100x stronger at least. You just can’t find that anywhere else.

[@Speakfacts270]

lol 😂🎉 suck to be u

[@Fohnacide777]

likewise sit. man.........''she'' ain't ''worth it''

[@jimslancio]

It's better to be alone than to wish you were.

[@citadel9611]

@jimslancio: Great point.

[@danlc95]

Never marry or co-habitate.

[@Ihavehadmanynames7779]

They all act like mike tyson in complete rage mode. Angry that i breathe their same air. I think men are forcing themselves into liking them and putting up with the games, because where I’m from I don’t see anything there. It’s juts not gona work anytime soon

[@jazzpianoman01]

Good point

[@LucaBrasi-gq5rf]

From an early age, many men learn an immutable truth: You are alone; you will always be alone.

[@nashambenyisrael7689]

Unless you have some solid life long friend

[@MGTOWTheRationalMensClub]

50, never married, no kids, no wife, no alimony, no domestic violence, my money- 100% mine, no stress, happy life. Dated tons of women in my life (approx 500 women from age 18 to 53... from blondes, brunettes, red heads of different nationalities, professions, backgrounds, religious beliefs, etc) , guys believe me... they ALL are same...looking to UPGRADE their own financial status and standard of living at man's expense. Not worth it. Stay single! Once you cross age 40 you realize that women and sex are so SUPER HYPED and you wasted so much time, energy and money chasing some wet hole

[@zrunner240Z]

YOU NAILED IT JUST LIKE CHAD NAILED HER

[@thefootballer3664]

Bloodline OVER!

[@zrunner240Z]

@@thefootballer3664 not worth it to have sons fall into same bs traps

[@MrDjhealth]

awesome wisdom. with all those women did you have any major problems like black mail or false rape accusations?

[@vincei4252]

@@thefootballer3664 Who cares. Way more men since the beginning of civilization met that fate. Not so much women.

[@pamelab7235]

I’m a boomer age woman. I see what women my age act like. They’re into that “It’s all for ME now” crap. With a couple of exceptions I really can’t stand being around them myself. I don’t blame men for wanting to avoid it all.

[@eric3434]

Thats exactly it. And the reality is, guys just hit it because they need to. But when that girl finally looks around at who they can find happiness and connectivity with, they find no ones there. Im sure there are a few unicorns out there, but i haven't found one myself. I gave up looking 2 decades ago. And refuse to date American girls all together. I only find emotional wrecks with empty lives.

[@thecultarchives3440]

"Down on one knee" 😂😂😂 The biggest simp-jitsu move EVER of worshipping females, ultimate beta male garbage, nothing masculine about dropping on knee to worship any biatch...💯

[@darkice7669]

Imagine trying to date em

[@grantbishop1961]

​@@eric3434I completely agree but I do travel overseas to Asian countries or amesterdam for the women.

[@Fohnacide777]

WAY DIFFERENT than b/f 2012. Almost a different creature................seriously

[@asr20nl]

Not only older men. I'm 32. Single and celibate for almost 5 years. I'm done.

[@brandongosselin]

im 29 they dont even look at me one second.

[@WingItWithEthan]

33 and gave up about 5 years ago myself, they’re all the same.

[@signorpops8520]

Bro that thing is going to go to sleep and not wake up again.

[@luminadoDoBronx]

Incel be honest

[@malthus101]

Yeah last time I allowed myself to fall in love and let it hurt me was 2006 - I said then, this is the last time. So far, kept my word more or less. Can't see myself suddenly becoming a family man!

[@longredroad4249]

Once a man learns to be happy and free alone, it takes an amazing woman to convince him to give up his freedom be in any kind of relationship

[@malthus101]

and amazing women are as rare as hen's teeth these days..

[@JCmeister9]

The problem with an amazing woman is they're like a needle in a haystack! They're almost impossible to find.

[@Redbird4912]

"amazing woman" = unicorn🦄

[@thecultarchives3440]

"Down on one knee" 😂😂😂 The biggest simp-jitsu move EVER of worshipping females, ultimate beta male garbage, nothing masculine about dropping on knee to worship any biatch...💯

[@hzr9mrg999]

There are lots of amazing vvomen, but unfortunately they're overseas.

[@hjc3366]

I was married for 11 years and then got divorced - I also don’t touch hot stoves or put my fingers in electrical sockets anymore.

[@iampicasso1811]

😂

[@TumbleweedRocks]

… or lick a frozen bridge at winter time.

[@Damn-h4e]

Hey guys. 62 year old man here. The worst thing about chasing a beautiful woman is sometimes you catch one. They will never be happy fading from the glory of being chased. Even if you provide a good life, they get bored. A recipe for disaster. I raised my 3 kids by myself, but still thank her for making me a father. They are my life !

[@WTHenry2023]

She only asked 2 things of you: (1) More and (2) Something Else 😆

[@Damn-h4e]

@WTHenry2023 actually, she wanted go re-find her wild days. My and the kids were a drag. But, ok, because me and the kids had a great time ! They still tell me they love me every time we talk ! I consider my life a success.

[@WTHenry2023]

@Damn-h4e Brother, please don't misunderstand me, I'm making fun of her, not you. Congrats on the good relationship with your daughters. You are truly a rich man! Blessings.

[@youtube5161]

me 41, finally left the beautiful ukrainian wife leave me for the 2nd time 10 years ago. Chased 4 years 😂

[@JohnHobbs-o3z]

I am 64,i married a very beautiful woman 37 years ago,back in the day she constantly got hit on,we both thought it was funny as hell.I never worried about it because i actually acted like a f*cking man who set the rules,oh ya i also rocked her world in bed,even to this day we shut the windows to quiet her downLOL.

[@williamcarter1665]

I’m 46, 5’11, 180 pounds of muscle and dating scene is still a toxic waste. Gave up on that a while back and focused on the gym, $$$ and friends. Never been better.

[@soundsgood12]

Dude open up there's so much more to life then the gym, image!

[@muhdiversity7409]

Confirmed bachelor here. I don't even bother with them anymore. I have my pets and have no shortage of projects to do and hobbies including travelling to visit friends all over the world.

[@MGTOWTheRationalMensClub]

💯

[@jesshorn257]

I'm in my later 40's and feel the same way(except for the travel as I find mountains/forest better just so I can avoid crowds)

[@asparrow9876]

Nowadays when I see coupled or married men I pity them, then when I see single bachelors living life, I instantly respect them.

[@muhdiversity7409]

@@jesshorn257 I live in the countryside far from any cities. I decided to retire also because I was tired of listening to the whinny lefties at work. It has been a year and the biggest adjustment is to pace myself and make the best use of my time and the new freedom. The pets love it - they are never more than a few feet from me.

[@muhdiversity7409]

@@asparrow9876 My next door neighbor keeps reminding me that she lives next door. Pretty sure she's wondering why I NEVER take her up on things. I stupidly borrowed a post hole driver from her and after a couple of days she was on my case to return it texting me over and over again. I returned it and bought my own, Jeez. Even when you're not in a relationship they give you grief.

[@SureJungle23247]

Boomers might get lonely, Gen X doesn't, most of us got conditioned to be lonely as children.

[@booradley8232]

Millennials are lonely until they really experience a heart break after legit trying and failing. 35, married for 13 and I have NOOO plans to ever remarry

[@solinvictus39]

Ding, ding, ding!!! Yep, we were just accessories for our boomer parents. Most of us were just an "experience" to be checked off on a boomer's wishlist.

[@brianmaguire6814]

😂😅🔥

[@dw-fe2ww]

Women tend to chew all the flavor out of life. Nothing is ever enough. Where no drama exists, they create it. Women know the nature of women and they can't stand one another. Single all my life and now at 70 I enjoy peace and serenity. Women offer no substitute for this.❤

[@nashambenyisrael7689]

Their serotonin levels are destroyed, this is why women need bad men, rich men etc to make them feel something because women don’t know what it means to do things in moderation. They want it now, fast and not patient like men are.

[@publiushoratiusclocles7952]

I am a 33 year old male, lived with relatives up until 29 years old. I got an apartment a couple years ago, and let me tell you the peace and solitude that i have is the greatest thing that has ever happened to me. I have healed mentally/spiritually and physically. I do have my days where I feel lonely but its rare, luckily I have always done well with women but I am burnt out. They all want to be chased, even the below average ones lol

[@sverre371]

What's in it for me?... crickets, women today have nothing to offer but headaches.

[@sdsloveslife]

100%

[@STEVEJobs-l3o]

They offer having to waste extra money

[@kahvac]

Not true ! There's the endless drama and bitchin !

[@brianmeen2158]

Nah there are still cool women out there that will benefit your life in different ways. Problem is, finding them is difficult

[@Koi_to_Dragon]

@@brianmeen2158at least you admit it’s difficult instead of throwing insults at the guys who frankly don’t deserve it. Unfortunately, difficult is an understatement

[@davidw.5185]

Married over 20 years. Divorced in 2016. Never going back. 👍

[@dans1741]

I'm semi retired and travel extensively in my r.v around n.america. It's astronomical how many men I speak with that were taken for everything and are now forced into a transiat lifestyle because of a woman. Their 40 plus years in the workforce was just stripped from them. And now decades later after doing all the right things. A woman and a court took all of it away.

[@riggitydoo5116]

What kind of work do you do?

[@feminazislayer]

I'll be 48 in 4 months. I've been single for a few years now. Dated a few for a short time, it's terrible out here in the daring circle jerk. My age range was 30-40... it's all trash gentlemen.

[@ericprieto4348]

pure trash and leftovers

[@sorryociffer]

Same age and boat. Can confirm.

[@adamsnelson4689]

I'm 48 & I approve this message

[@awolgeordie9926]

I'm 51 but retired at 48 due to going monk at 43.

[@retrogamer82]

I’m 42 and divorced and have zero desire to entertain any female I’m done

[@sundippatel1796]

I am in the best health since my divorce 4 yrs out. No more anxiety and stress for trying to make someone happy, no more egg shells to walk on.

[@modernwomenprofessionm.w.p9246]

Marriage is a losing end for men That's why older men stay single

[@thepassman]

"Men fall in love. Women are in business" Coach Greg Adams. One piece of advice that my prosperous clients have shared with me is regarding personal or professional investments is "If the cost exceeds the benefit; Don't invest". "If the benefit exceeds the cost; Invest".

[@HouseMusicNinja]

I have a few flirt with me at work, but not only do I make sure I have witnesses nearby, I also keep things completely professional because it only takes ones time for them to pull a metoo and then I'm in a room of board members who already made up their minds to fire me before I even explain myself. Self preservation and survival mode is in effect for us men now. He who has the most self control wins.

[@theelder4797]

Next time they flirt, You should really imply or flat out say something like, "If only I played for your team!" There have been MANY testimonials of them getting mad that you aren't asking them out and will make something up to get you fired. Edit to add: so if they think you are light in the loafers, then they give up.

[@retrogamer82]

The workplace is a no go zone

[@GrzegorzDurda]

@@theelder4797 Report them to HR.

[@rahkielsingh6028]

They'll still make up allegations because they get even more pissed after rejection.

[@AsteroidJesus]

This past year I saw a famous athlete get divorced, and the wife was shocked to find out he had NO MONEY…everything was in his Mama’s name 😅 that seems like a way to go!

[@AsteroidJesus]

7:43 I wasn’t that attracted to my husband when we first met. We were 18 😅 we became friends, and the more I got to know him, the more attracted I was. I think that’s rare cause women are stupid these days from social media and movies, but he’s a total 10 for me still after almost 20 years. It just clicked within a few months, and I haven’t looked back.

[@ThomasDavis-e4g]

It's sad. But your worst enemy is the person with whom you exchanged vows of loyalty before God and men. And the State will back them over you nearly every time! Just facts.

[@frozentundra7446]

You better believe it!

[@AsteroidJesus]

@@ThomasDavis-e4g They absolutely need to update the laws. Women are incentivized to divorce. You should have to prove your vows/contracts were broken to have it dissolved. No Fault Divorce is ludicrous. I don’t think men should give up, and I don’t think it’s safe for them to marry anymore. Pushing to get the laws changed seems like the only way forward if you don’t want to be alone.

[@stonefacedninja]

It all comes down to diminishing returns. Older men generally date older women that provide less value as they age. If a man can't find a younger woman, its better to stay by themselves. The value just isn't there for a 40, 50 year old woman

[@zrunner240Z]

100

[@LATEXXJUGGERNUT]

Hoeflation - Working 5x as hard for woman 20x worse than before.

[@levistrauss5378]

Wrinkled for your pleasure

[@BWater-yq3jx]

It's like buying a 20 year old car; it may still run well and look decent NOW, but it's right on the edge of becoming a liability.

[@radiation0111]

@@BWater-yq3jx Newer cars are like young women. Expensive, complicated, and unreliable.

[@TrionityIr]

I'm 30. Making good money; paid off my car; slowing paying off my debt. But watching and listening to this space. Man I don't know if I ever want to get married. The stories are scaring me away. Cause I will go mental if I lost everything I busted my ass working for to a woman who suddenly felt like ending the contract.

[@danlc95]

The good news is that you know this now. Be careful.

[@danlc95]

The good news is that you know this now. Be careful.

[@creativeflow5212]

It’s almost guaranteed if you get married. Just date casually or have a gf. Marriage is a female’s hustle.

[@codemiesterbeats]

I wished it wasn't the case but I can't recommend dealing with women period. Proceed extremely cautiously. Money is secondary to me but keeping all you worked for could at least ease the suffering.

[@stevenfinklea4596]

I can’t fathom why people feel that life is complete ONLY if they get married. What the heck is that all about? You can tell when you’re dating that your ‘woman’ is really a little girl wanting to be taken care of by ‘daddy.’ If you ‘wake up’ and realize that you’re there for the romp in the hay and to pay……and pay……and pay for most things, you HAVE to be smart enough to say that marriage is not a step you need to take. Marriage is not a Requirement; it’s a choice. Living by yourself and dating without moving in together is a good life. You come and go as you please. You’re not responsible for another person or accountable to another person. When that person wants to tell you how to fold your laundry or clean the toilet, or buy your groceries or what to wear, you will NEVER be happy. Enjoy the opportunity to work hard, make your money, save what you can, spend time with friends, occasionally date. There is no REQUIREMENT to lock yourself into marriage. People talk about ‘being lonely,’ but that isn’t necessarily a reality. I live alone and I couldn’t be happier. I move like a leaf on the wind, manage my successful career, spend time with friends and family…..and embrace happiness.

[@paulanderson771]

When you're not at the mercy of your hormones, there's a massive amount of clarity when dealing with women. Women never lose that emotional overreaction to every little thing and older women don't have the looks or body to make it worth putting up with even casually.

[@jdillmeister]

Word..

[@quasimode9038]

Would woman be more human in a war against each other?

[@ca9777]

As men get older looks and body are gone. They depend on viagra, have prostate issues, bad teeth, and among other things they grow tits. It’s just bad all around. Women easily make 6 figures today because they go to college. Not worth the time and aggravation dating old men. They are obsolete.

[@Ihavehadmanynames7779]

This all happening because the big guys wanted to get richer btw. The cognitive infiltration and thought experimenting. These modern problems have only been exacerbated in what was supposed to be the best time to be alive

[@sdlausen1]

It's called... Post nut clarity

[@searchersearcher8286]

Divorce is expensive....because its worth it

[@frozentundra7446]

Wow, that right there!

[@greggbrady5728]

im 65, married twice, the first had 3 kids, house , job and a small business. 12 years and got shredded in court. it took years to get over second wife just passed this last year, a truckers dream if there ever was one, beautiful inside and out, collage educated smart and kind in ways you can hardly imagine , dedicated and devoted to me for 24 years , now i cant see me ever having another. some days im so lonely i could cry, even on my dark days i dont think i want another woman

[@petemorton8403]

I know exactly

[@stevo728822]

This is why in the past, marrying a woman included the man receiving a dowry for marrying her.

[@JeromeAverett-wy9xl]

A wise man learns from his own mistakes but a wiser man learns from the mistakes of others.

[@JJReal-m7x]

Dated a great province girl. Poor but lovely, but then she moved to Manila, got a little bit of money and then was corrupted and turned into a modern woman. Was really sad.

[@arthurdirindinjr1792]

Yep absolutely true there NEVER were traditional women only traditional times that forced women to behave in a traditional manner Get a woman in the wrong environment and watch her true colors come to light

[@rowdybroomstick6394]

Why wouldn't she come back to the states with you on a six month Visa

[@retrogamer82]

@@rowdybroomstick6394you never bring them back to the west

[@JJReal-m7x]

@@rowdybroomstick6394 I’m glad I didn’t

[@nashambenyisrael7689]

Yeah the poor women are pretty cool, down to earth don’t really care much about money. That’s what I’d aim for, why and what’s the point of getting with a women if you’re not in the position of power, you’ll set your life for disaster if you marry a women well off because her money is hers and your money and hers as well lol… also I could care less how people view me, it’s a win win for us.

[@Quakeinc14]

Every man needs to have a period of solitude. This is where you dig in and go into your shell and do the work to become a butterfly. Also it’s a good time to figure out who you are without the need to follow trends to fit in.

[@zrunner240Z]

I'M 57, WAS MARRIED FOR 26 YEARS...LIVED WITH 3 WOMEN AFTER MY DIVORCE. ONE FOR 3 YEARS, ONE FOR 6 MONTHS AND ONE FOR 2 MONTHS....I'VE BEEN TOTALLY SINGLE FOR 4 YEARS NOW AND I'VE NEVER BEEN HAPPIER...TOM CRUISE WAS AN IDIOT AND I REALIZE NOW THAT I AM COMPLETE IN MYSELF AND NEVER NEEDED A WOMAN TO COMPLETE ME!!

[@buentaste]

Agreed and its just like saying if Benjamín Brad wasn't good enough for Demonina then what would b me?

[@quasimode9038]

and Mr. Depp?

[@curtislegall8324]

100%

[@Vejitasei]

Together 17 years, married 12 years, no kids. Was NY first love and I was a virgin when we meant. We were never healthy, and unworkable. I ultimately filed. It cost me a ton of money (I work and am a high earner, she didn't work during the marriage). I can always make more money (and am). I have a steady g/f, but will never remarry and I no longer make decisions against my own self interests. I'm in the top 3-5% for the USA and there is no point in getting married or even cohabitation. I'm great on my own, I enjoy and love the g/f, but if things go sidewise I know I can replace her. I think that's the new normal. I'm committed, loving, and caring. But if we aren't workable, bounce and move on it. She's not one in a million, she's one of a million. Respect and love have to be earned, if she's workable I do the same.

[@williammentink]

Out of curiosity. Why did you stay with her more than 5 years?

[@Lonewolf-14k]

Love this bro, great mindset to have

[@danlc95]

Not at that financial spotnat this time, but have adplopted a similar approach.

[@markhellman-pn3hn]

i go WHERE i want - i go WHY i want - i stay AS LONG as i want .... and i don't have anyone yapping at me !!

[@John-c4r1o]

If you foresake everything to grind and become the best version of yourself.. you'll then look around and realize that there's not many women of a similar caliber given the older you get, the more mileage most women have accumulated.

[@davidpitchford6510]

Many women today have run up unbelievable Frequent Fluids Programs.

[@kauffrau6764]

I've been watching this channel and other men's channels for months. I'm a woman, just here to learn what's going on between men and women these days. It seems to me that women have devolved to the place where they all feel they are a 10, and they want the best men. Even average or below women talk like this in their videos. If an average woman ends up with an average man, she resents him for being average and thinks she "deserves" a better man. Thing is, she probably just hates herself for not being good enough for the man she wants.

[@silviuionescu6945]

Man the last phrase... Blew my mind

[@AnnatarCarvour]

Spot on

[@vaelicusthepaladin]

On top of this, do you wanna learn something even more screwed up that these 'channels' and society at large are barely finding out? Studies are showing that women on hormonal birth control have smaller brains, it severely messes up their oxytocin production, the 'love' hormone, add anti depressant to thsi which many women consume. What modernity is doing to women is almost criminal, men are just another victim.

[@danlc95]

I see a lot of big heavies calling themselves "tens". No way I'd be able to "rise" to that occasion, I'm not Ron Jeremy. Not for those morbidly obese hogs.

[@Speakfacts270]

Juss bunch of old white guys who have bad luck with women lol these guys on this channel 80%of guys on this channel are juss white old heads who complain everyday bout women like dude every day 😂

[@davelight2220]

Yep No marriage No cohabitation No kids.

[@survidmt]

Being bitter after divorce. Yeah,, Loosing half your shit and feeling a chuck of your life was ruined, will do that.

[@williammentink]

The chunk of your life that passed away, it is too sad and always will feel like an unnecessary trial. With out the burden of another it can all be earned back plus more.

[@GrzegorzDurda]

You will lose more than half. About 80% is more accurate. You will lose relationships, friends, bank accounts, reputation, businesses and savings.

[@rod2508]

Had an actual sociopath with BPD destroy my life and abduct my kids with the explicit help of the Australian govt. Lost my house and my finances in under 3 years. Family courts are poisonous casinos rigged against you as a man. I do not recommend signing a contract that encourages the other party and rewards them heavily for breaching it. Prenups or binding financial agreements do not hold up in court. Allegations (without evidence) of family or domestic violence are taken as fact, you are guilty and unable to ever prove yourself innocent. The wests laws either need to change drastically or soon noone will bother with women other than to pay them like prostitutes or surrogates.

[@ski-y4d]

I had it happen to me too brother. Hope you've bounced back and made most of your $ back . Be strong 💪 the best years of your life are still ahead of you. CHEERS 🥂

[@Bobo_Plantain]

I'm 53. I have dated a bit, but my experience has been that I have much more peace and stability in this western world by staying single. I did marry once, to a totally incompatible woman back when I was 20, got divorced 5 years later, and was lucky to divorce amicably with no kids or alimony. I learned my lesson, and have remained single ever since. The Western female mindset is so self-serving, so toxic, so legally perilous, that I just don't see the use in getting married again. Even dating a woman long term, or allowing a woman to cohabitate can be twisted by a halfway capable lawyer into a way to seriously damage you financially and mentally. NOT WORTH IT. I'm moving to eastern Europe in January '25 for a year initially, so we'll see how that goes.

[@SkYsLiDeR9000]

Been alone for over 25 years now. I'm fine with that. I've had offers, but I'm not going through that sh*t again. Ever!

[@michaeldalton8374]

Loneliness is just an emotion. It, too, will pass. Just wait it out. Simple. Easy. No stress. No problem.

[@mattewing1]

I’ve been with my GF for 10 years, we have a 5 year old son. Every time I think we are getting closer to marriage she says some dumb shit. Na man, not for me.

[@levistrauss5378]

Be careful she doesn't get you with cohabitation or common laws.

[@BWater-yq3jx]

To all intents and purposes, you are married. With a kid. Subject to ALL the downsides if it goes south.

[@semperoccultus1969]

Co-habitation is mostly a myth, depending on where you are. NOT the same as marriage. It’s a lot harder for a woman to screw you when there’s no marriage certificate.

[@jasonbooberry8363]

Never marry her. Do right for the kid tho. The kid will actually like you later in life and may help you.

[@Ihavehadmanynames7779]

They always do by default. They did that all my life, when i was little they blamed mtv

[@jpmnky]

Solitude is great but highly addictive.

[@madlynx1818]

If you are married you will eventually be living with a woman you are not at all attracted to. Bottom line. And most of your social interactions will be forced on you from her. Effing why?! Stay single. Be confident. Do things you like for yourself. Enjoy life. Marriage sucks!!!

[@davidpitchford6510]

It sucks the penis of a brontosaurus

[@averagelibertyenjoyer3217]

My dear wife, who loved me when I had nothing and who always stood by me through anything and everything life could throw at us passed away unexpectedly in August. I'm 39 and I will not be marrying again for multiple reasons. Just renewed my passport and will be traveling around for a while until I find a place I want to be and people I enjoy being around. Maybe I'll find some ladies to spend time with, maybe not, I don't really care about that right now. Just going to enjoy myself while I can and see what happens. Life is short bros and it can get a whole lot shorter just like that.

[@rick-ry3kj]

I am 47, never married, no children, I am good with that.

[@kenkoza873]

Same boat here. Loving life

[@wolfe8035]

Dude I firmly believe in the past, this was one of the biggest reasons why fathers chose the husbands to their daughters, and it was socially unacceptable to fling or be a single mom (unless widowed). Sex before marriage was taboo... Back then men who had high status, physique or wealth, they were socially restricted on one woman (for the most part) and the average guy who had competence and was financilly stable? Might not be the best looking guy, but the father would figure hes a great pick for his daughter.

[@findinglela]

Yes

[@howardboyd7764]

ALL of my married friends look, move and sound like literal inmates on work release from a harsh and brutal prison warden, having to get "permission" to golf, hunt, fish or even be absent for more than 5 hours with permission and said permission is often (denied) .. NO thank you. Peace. Quiet and freedom for me the rest of my days henceforth....

[@zwqasdfzaani814]

🤣🤣

[@sauter1]

Absolutely. " Lives of quiet desperation", as Thoreau described it.

[@scottniall258]

Married twice, raised my son as a single dad, put my head down made my money after the second one and will be retiring on my own savings at age 58... Never again!

[@Zalen88]

I am fortunate. I do not get lonely. I don't need a woman in my life to feel content. I don't work anymore, so I don't have work friends, but I can get gamer friends from playing an MMO if I want to by joining a guild. Even when I got out to bars or whereever with a friend or two, I some how end up walking around or watching dance floor by myself. I have done that all my life. At parties back in HS and college, I would work the room, mingle, and try to talk to everyone. In college, I knew all the hot girls, and the guys used to come to me to play matchmaker for them.

[@joec5544g]

Growing up I had many friends but one day while playing in my room, probably 7 years old, my Mom said "you kind of like playing alone sometimes"? I said "ya".. She said "that's a good quality"... At the time, I mostly understood what she was saying but as an adult, I know she was correct... Smart lady.

[@ToniDuke-s7k]

I grew up being raised by my grandparents. Very similar experience as yourself as far as being a loner. I always felt “comfortable in my own skin” as my grandfather used to say.

[@GrzegorzDurda]

Single mother was happy you didn't sap her for time.

[@darylroughley2807]

Never made more money in my life than when I was single; still had a life, travelling, bike riding, skydiving, abseiling, scuba…..basically emptying my bucket and refilling; soon to retire, little plot, growing fresh food, fishing, gold fossicking, life is great.

[@monkemonkerson5620]

If my wife passes before me when I'm old and grey, I'm not getting remarried. I'd rather invest in personal hobbies/interests than another romantic relationship during my "retirement" years.

[@Reidar911]

59 and threw out my wife. But then I met a 27 year old girl in Kenya. It's like going from hell and entering heaven!

[@Ghekko-kw3zz]

How long has it been? Certainly from what I've seen Africa is the last continent with ladylike women as default. But there's quite a bit of scamming of wannabe expats.

[@michielderuyter5714]

good for you. you could have easily ended up with Nigerian princess who needs 100k to access her millions.

[@Reidar911]

@@michielderuyter5714 , no, I could not because Im not a fuckxxx moron.

[@Reidar911]

@@michielderuyter5714 , that's a jealous reply of a loser. Do better or stay in your bedroom!

[@Senorzilchnzero]

You dont think that 27 year old will make it hell for you one day?

[@mostunclean6619]

I’m 52 years old never married, never procreated. I value my freedom, independence, privacy, peace and quiet. At this late stage in the game I’m not risking losing what I have for what basically boils down to tepid s3x with a 40 something woman.

[@GrzegorzDurda]

right on.

[@GPmann45]

Just because your tools work good, don't mean you need to work extra. In other words; don't get married

[@TyZo6]

I am 33 years old and just got out of a relationship. All women care about is money pretty much. I am about done with it all. True love doesn’t really exist. On the bright side I am currently saving up for a c8 zo6 now.

[@MetalWolf-xn4kg]

I never had a high paying job. Never had a stellar career. Wasnt born from a rich family. Never won the lottery or got lucky with money of any kind. But I never got married, and that is why I feel like the richest man in the world. Freedom is the greatest thing to have in life. Not a wife.

[@tbobtbob330]

The problem with looking hard to find "the right one" is that it's impossible to know whether she'll turn into a nightmare AFTER the wedding. Red flags aren't always present or can be subtle.

[@BamaPatriot61]

I’m going on 64 and married my high school sweetheart after one year of college. Celebrated 44 year anniversary on Aug 2nd. Been plenty of good and bad times along the way, but our relationship has never been better. The sex is out of this world good. We enjoy each other and it doesn’t matter if we are sitting on the sofa watching tv or Traveling or enjoying the water on our boat. Having said all of that, I can completely understand the sentiments expressed by many in the comments. I’m not so sure I’d ever remarry. I can’t count the number of guys i know that have been cheated on and ended up living with their parents after divorces because they cannot afford child support and alimony plus they were all mentally wrecked and decimated emotionally from the betrayal. So I get it. I’m fortunate and thankful to have the wife I’ve had and thankful we didn’t divorce even though we came close multiple times.

[@riggitydoo5116]

🎉 congrats!

[@MicDude108]

Prenups are Not Enough. Gotta have assets in trusts. Buy the house in your Momma’s name. Setup a company so she rents it out. Rent it from her, she’s making $. Your saving the house from Divorce gRape. Plan ahead. Gotta be Wise nowadays.

[@GrzegorzDurda]

I have been saying this for over 25 years. Pre nups get thrown out of court 99.9% of the time.

[@davidhamer2300]

Remember guys. She’s not yours, it’s just your turn.

[@davidpitchford6510]

.... she's just a turnstile.

[@lordblackeagle4111]

I've been divorced since 2009 I will never have a harpie in my life again. My peace is priceless.

[@goranmiljus2664]

Nothing worse than being alone / neglected IN a relationship.

[@cyber5619]

She and I were together for 7 years, married for 3. We are both going to college (me-cybersecurity, her-child psychologist). While working on her BA, she became radicalized and told me that she didn't want to have kids anymore. A goal we had shared since the first year together. I divorced her. As college students we don't have much money or assest, so the divide was easy, and she didn't try to take alimony. I got the dog, lost 50lbs, and going strong in school. 1 year left to graduate. Over all, easy divorce, could've been way worse.

[@ousamaabdu794]

This guy has quite a bit of wisdom.. Excellent channel

[@Snarge22]

My divorce cost me $1,500,000 and took two and a half years to get it finished, plus $90,000 in lawyer fees. Our kid was out of the house so no child complications. Are you guys sure you want to sign up for that risk?

[@GUITARTIME2024]

Dude, that guy is married and has a new baby at 70 yrs old.

[@stevenphillips3466]

she was 20 and a virgin ....Why the hell not

[@sting114]

Monty crew and mark Thornton are afraid their young wife leave them, so to secure them, they make babies with them . Plain and simple

[@Ghekko-kw3zz]

​@@stevenphillips34661/ dying while your child is still a child. 2/ gambling your offspring don't end up in walking street.

[@allseeingotto2912]

WTF !

[@Ghekko-kw3zz]

@@allseeingotto2912 it's extremely common in Philippines, more than anywhere. A friend who did the same died 77 with a 10 year old son. He at least got them to Australia before having a massive stroke & spending a year gaga in nursing home. 5 years later the mother is still single (not for lack of trying but for lack of willing step dads). The boy "has behavioural issues" (is a ticking bomb).

[@lifeisgoodskt]

I accidentally had a son and not sure if he is mine. Be careful out there. I am in court fighting to see him and it costs a lot of $. Lawyers only win while i try to be a good guy. Never again.

[@FelipeEscobar86]

Lawyers are simply the tip of the iceberg.

[@mattcordes9276]

Get DNA test.

[@AsteroidJesus]

7:19 I watch these videos to be a better wife. My husband and I weren’t happy for a while, work was brutal, and I worked hard to figure out how to fix it. Turned out I needed the fixing. The effeminate way kids are being raised the last few generations is so backwards. I started following this advice and our relationship is better than when we got married. It’s amazing.

[@AsteroidJesus]

13:58 Yes! This relationship. Honestly, if you don’t build on commitment and vows to God (that you’re genuinely worried you’ll be punished for breaking), what’s the point? We’re a military family, and we could have divorced soooo many times. We haven’t because we believe in our vows and work hard to believe in each other.

[@poopingwhilestanding5801]

You sound like Karyn Streitz from The Happy Wife School....she recognized she almost destroyed her marriage to a good man...and unlike a lot of women, was able to learn about herself and understand SHE was the reason for the unhappiness. If you haven't watched her yet, highly recommend her channel. I just wish more women watched her, unlike her subs that are 87% of men trying to understand and work things out.

[@semperoccultus1969]

23 years married and I raised two children to adulthood. She betrayed me brutally (non-sexual) and threw me away like trash. I replaced her with a woman 11 years younger and way hotter. She was great for 2 years but then that one started drama and problems. I’m still kind of seeing her but she moved out on me and has issues. Honestly… it’s best to stay completely single and just date. Release attachments or love or whatever from women and just have fun. The way society is in this era, they’re never gonna act right or be able to pair bond long term. They’re betrayers for the most part because they get away with it. Society is still very indoctrinated by disney and Hollywood about women being sugar & spice etc. They’re not. Women are very calculating and are out for themselves at your expense. Understand it and use that, without getting attached.

[@AdamKidd1972]

A lot of men go overseas with unrealistic expectations, often expecting the world to be a perfect escape from their problems, but they end up repeating the same patterns they had back home. It's easy to blame others or external circumstances, but real growth starts with taking responsibility for one's own choices and actions.

[@davidpitchford6510]

Instead of going overseas, stop going crazy over C's

[@Laughinghawg]

Never been married. Lived with three, engaged to the last one. My fiancé' laughed when I asked how she felt about a pre-nump. Got "divorced" from the engagement, dated some and then the 2008 financial crisis happened(lost tons in the market) pushed me into MGTOW by the act of God or happenstance. Didn't realize it till I found MGTOW on line. Recovered and I'm back way higher than I was before. I duck hunt and spend a lot of time outdoors. I just put a deposit down on a lab puppy. My life is good, no one telling me what to do or trying to steal half my shit. I can pay for my needs if need be.

[@Cosmo4357-mj1tw]

Last time I met a woman for a date, it seemed like a job interview.

[@stayingfitandfocused]

Paying 1300 a month in child support and being taken advantage of by a one sided court and a vindictive woman is enough to flashbang you into staying to yourself and focusing on yourself.

[@aaronpetterson2207]

Been an ICU, ER etc. RN since 2013. Working with women... after a few years, frankly I want nothing to do with them here in the US. I don't even care to sleep with them. Had plenty of that and even that is too much. Plotting the great escape. MAYBE where I'm going but I'm not going FOR that. Its not cope either. I got ALL the 6s including a sixth sense. They are nightmares. Petty, caddy, prideful, selfish, lazy, attention seeking, dumb (not a big deal) but yeah. No more room in my life. I spend 80 hrs a week around them and that leave zero tolerance even for sleeping with them.

[@semperoccultus1969]

I was married to an ICU one for 23 years. I concur. But they’re the subclass of stupid. There are smarter ones who work the desks. But smarter can be way worse

[@manlymischief7581]

Yep. Worked in a hospital where most of the nurses spoke Spanish. They didn’t know I could speak it as well. For six months I heard all the unspoken things women said aloud when men weren’t around or they thought men couldn’t hear. That was an education, believe me. I do not trust women at all after seeing what they’re really like in their own company.

[@Fangroth]

This is why it's in a woman best interests to marry young with guys of her age. Not only will her fertility and youth allow her to have better kids and have the stamina to take care of them, but also: younger guys are not as experienced regarding female nature as older guys.

[@neondystopian]

The problem is I already have a good life with plenty of friends. Accommodating a woman would require me to compromise and sacrifice when I already don't need to.

[@natec.7149]

I lost $400K, including my pension, a condo, the dog, three jobs (after depression) after a divorce at 38 years young. I'm now 52 (in November) and not looking to get married ever again. 96% of my wealth is in crypto (utility tokens like XRP, XLM, XDC, ALGO, QNT, HBAR, FLR, ect... ), 2% in precious metals, 1% pre IPO companies (Ai and fintec), and 1% in cash to pay bills. I'll retire next year between the Caribbean and South America. I'll be able to travel once a fiscal quarter, and I'll leave my wealth to my nieces and nephews when I'm dead. I feel like I'll just date women, and I'm content with that. Rebuilding from scratch was the most grueling thing I've done in my life besides bodybuilding through my 20's and 40's. I would encourage guys to look outside the U.S. if you want companionship, and don't bring her back state side. You may end up losing everything like myself.

[@tonycooke8545]

64 year old widower here. After a two year battle with cancer, my wife sadly passed away in February 2023. I've recently come to the conclusion, I'm no longer interested in a steady/long term relationship. When it comes to dating single women in my generation, the well has been well and truly poisoned with the same rotten modern mentality. I'll take a hard pass.

[@MoltenMetalGod7]

Because it's true.. If i could give my younger self advice or advice to another young man it would be 1) invest early in things like real estate and stock 2) focus on networking early and most importantly 3) don't waste your time with women period.

[@robertsmith-lv4fm]

Men must go Monk , this is the only way the Hyenas will learn ! Men stand together, ice the hyenas out

[@claymiller8171]

He said cohabitation is the same as marriage without the legal documentation, to back it up is right. Unfortunately, a lot of courts treat such relationships the same as a marriage when it comes to division of finances, property, and spousal maintenance (palimony). Cohabitation can put a man through the same hell as a marriage and divorce via the court system. After 25 years, my ex took everything and left me destitute and homeless when I became disabled at 53. After fighting the Social Security Administration for two and a half years, I finally got approved for disability and in order to achieve that, I had to get an attorney and go before a judge. Now I am the guy just barely getting by on social security disability benefits.

[@Chad.Tyrone4UNow]

Do you miss your LOVING EX, she loved you so much afterall, especially when she left to go off to her Fling Man.

[@magnusdeckert1211]

The biggest sin for a man is to project the perfect woman on a damaged woman, and insist that she can conform.

[@spcg9796]

Idk.. but I have an aversion to drama now after my divorce. I’m an easy going guy. I have a good job, I take care of myself. Have my own place. I work often, so from what I’ve seen, women need a lot of attention, and can’t take being by themselves a few days a week. I make effort to see them when I can, go out to dinner, stay at each others homes and go to work from their place, but they have a problem when I go home to rest. I refuse to cohabitate. Once you move in, they can just up and say “you have to leave”. You have to start over, get a place to live again. You’re better off just dating , saving money, and enjoying your life. Women always come and go. Having a peaceful place to come home to is priceless.

[@jesshorn257]

I can answer this easily(older, divorced once) after years of learning to cook, clean, and I have enough pets/hobbies to stay busy. What would a woman offer me that I already have? All I can think is kids and family but the chances of finding a fertile woman not crazy is too slim of a chance for me...also I believe in God so the out of wedlock I just feel is wrong(doesn't need to be state approved but does need to be done in God's view)

[@BWater-yq3jx]

I find stripping things back to basics is great for clarity. What is the fundamental purpose of a woman? To have kids. What is the fundamental purpose of marriage? To provide an environment for raising the kids. So yeah, outside of that... marriage is just kinda dumb, lol.

[@jesshorn257]

@@BWater-yq3jx you said it with better clarity then I did.

[@redpilllense7125]

This weekend i will sleep in. Finally had a weekend off from work. No annoying "lets go out shopping" or "where are you taking me this weekend". Those words annoy the shit out of me, especially after a long week of grinding it at work. I honestly embrace my single life. No domestic parasite waiting on you to finance her lifestyle but refusing to cook for you. Yeah, no thank you, im really good 👍

[@AbcDef-s7r]

if i was an older man, had my house, savings etc. i wouldnt want to get married either i mean why would i risk all that i have, i wouldnt want to start my life over in my 50/60s