Answering Uncomfortable Questions about Money and Relationships

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[@dannygrows]

I never understood the partner's getting paid for a divorce (as we both earn decently) until somebody explained it differently. For example, if a woman sacrifices her career to support you in yours, takes care of the kids and empowers you to be successful. Then you get a divorce, but she has lost those years NOT growing her own career and investing in you and the family. She could be left starting from an entry-level position at an older age, completely disadvantaged with nothing to show for supporting you.

[@zoejohnson2471]

I love the perspective shift Danny

[@Seamannon]

I never understood people who would care more about "their money" than about the wellbeing of their children and former spouse after divorce. How can someone be so petty to feel any satisfaction in leaving their own children and the person they loved for many years struggling to survive? Shouldn't the goal be to minimise any unnecessary burdens and struggles for the sake of preserving any contact and love for the children? Why would anyone intentionally leave their family worse off? Why would anyone strive for leaving the world worse off than before? I don't get people who want to see others hurt and broken instead of having a positive impact. How is not not obvious for everybody, that if someone wants their partner to just "give up" goals and dreams for the sake of a marriage where only one person gets to pursue their goals while being supported by the other for no credit, contract or compensation, then all the aqired benefits are NOT one person's gain, but a team effort??? You can only keep a loving relationship going, when you're able to share and reciprocate, so if your partner supports your endevors, you should support theirs, when you agree to place your bets on one career and neglect the other, then you have to do the opposite after securing some success, so focus on the other partner's career and play second fiddle next season. If one partner is fine with always being in the same role and doesn't expect that kind of reciprocation and validation, then the least they deserve is the financial compensation. What other outcome is there? You're not paying someone for the divorce, you're paying them for all the previous unpaid years they already endured by your side and you're paying for the current and future security of your offspring.

[@MigueTran]

So basically good communication is key to everything.

[@TSD_Finance]

couldnt of said it better myself

[@Theparadoxdrumma]

Alex you got some competition, Leila upping the quality of these YT vids like a mofo

[@Laura-je2uw]

She always had high quality content❤

[@momofro1819]

nah i watch her videos more than alex now, the quality def got better

[@coscorrodrift]

they're both getting the quality upgrade, both of them are probs making them with mozi media in the same studio

[@FeminineLogos]

Do you guys believe that two energies (basically the same energy) can coexist together for a decade or even more, genuinely asking?

[@user-nu9zp3wt5l]

Didn’t ‘t you get that she prepares his videos as well? 😉

[@Widlomaa]

I LOVE Leila's videos lately. First and foremost she persued her own style (the pink, the font) and then also the more "produced" styled look. It's SO good. Also, can we talk about how gorgeous she looks?

[@cyberintervention]

Loving the effort put into these videos! And loving the fact that Leila is able to make super interesting videos about more feminine topics.

[@aalvenda6443]

I love that the direction for most of these are not opinionated but rather than guidance about being able to be honest about what you want. Everyone wants different things what works for someone else may not work for you.

[@julianq618]

"There are consequences for remaining the same and for not learning new behaviors."

[@peterluisvenero]

Having a prenup, when you’ve already accumulated assets on your own, is smart business decision.

[@erickarostran1569]

Leilas is wise beyond her years...love the practical, honest, and transparent advice.

[@playsaxnow3391]

❤ Absolutely love this video and believe that this is not just relationship advice but life advice. I make it a point of never doing business with anyone who I cannot have a mature financial discussion with, about money. I have been burned many times by people exploding emotionally when questioned about money.

[@peterluisvenero]

I love her values and ethics.

[@ernesta2578]

I am traditional when it comes to finances and have expectations for men to pay for everything and yes I agree with Laila best to talk about it. I personally talk about it early in relationship as I don’t want to waist time. Money in itself is a dynamic and energy and nr 1 of divorces happen due to money 100% this should be known.

[@IanRamon]

much appreciate your energy!! Be authentic, communicate! i was so afraid to talk to my wife because she would feel hurt, attacked for anything i would say but she had no problem treating me like a her slave. It boils down to CHOICE live in love, or live in fear. and it is a daily choice, it is not one time choice. I love Lieila compassionate approach which comes from being authentic& not letting emotions build up.

[@DavidkirklandFinance]

This has to be the best advice I have ever heard! Financial issues has to be no. 1 in issues.

[@monsieurene3366]

Leila thanks for the amazing content as always. and big fan of your personality!

[@BismaSuleman]

I love your personality and honesty. Thank you, Leila!

[@smirzabajeva]

Loveee this! So valuable!! Keep posting and you look amazing!!💓

[@aijaxiite]

Absolutely love this video format (and editing) - keep those coming please :) And You look stunning (heart)

[@reneeeee180]

Love the video, great information and you had me cracking up a few times

[@soy.ingrid]

Great advice. Thank you Leila! You are so beautiful and my inspiration/role model.

[@lucialuziatalia]

Yessss thank you for this. Your relationship advice is so empowering and reassuring. ❤❤❤❤

[@dextersuarez9948]

Not sure why im not getting your content recommended to me as its uploaded. Been subbed and love the content.

[@Ammeeeiizing]

Love this new style!!

[@lisam6907]

So glad I stumbled across your page! So helpful 🙌

[@ruszrp]

Wow Leila you’re filming in a black studio! Thanks for such a tailored approach to video!

[@datsmydab-minecraft-and-mo5666]

That is awesome. Love the creativity

[@annastayziaa]

we love you Leila 🥰❤️

[@gertrudenkiruka5954]

I am from Africa, Nigeria precisely and as such, my husband pays for everything and i jus support in doing little things in the home

[@user-sm1du1rz1u]

Girl, you’re killing it! Love watching your videos

[@felixkindawoke]

Love Leila's energy!! You can she loves herself more. Let's go

[@lisar.2549]

Pretty good answers, and from someone qualified to give them.

[@ieshabush32]

This was a cool editing style, I like it

[@nysevicente2913]

This is amazing content! 😍💗

[@yesicabello_]

God bless, Leila! It is refreshing to see a bad ass woman in this world! Your energy is inspiring 😊

[@richflowfunflow]

thank you for teaching these for free.

[@safiahnd488]

OMG COULD WE TALK ABOUT THE INSANLY GORGEOUS LOOK! ❤❤ Leila I LOVE pink on you ! The video style is awesome, I'd say with all the beautiful colors a WHITE background would be a better vibe ... Ofc the value in this is unmatchable! Thank you ❤

[@christinalanecoaching]

A lot of men aren't capable of having these conversations with a partner but if they were they wouldn't be as likely to get trapped by someone that sees them as the ATM. So many men see these topics coming up during dating as a red flag instead of being treated as an equal.

[@angelomendoza6894]

Thanks for the video!

[@RebeccaEloisa]

So much good information! Watching this at 4am taking notes lol

[@glowwithgillian]

Great episode thank you

[@jaidenBenzz]

Thanks for sharing this is very helpful.

[@thecgr]

Leila is so Awesome!

[@staciyoung6469]

This is so amazing

[@pietermarcus5138]

Great video🎉

[@uliygolubev9296]

This is amazing, and Leila, you’re only getting more gorgeous!

[@miaranee]

Wow Leila, this is great

[@monsitime9370]

Great video 👏

[@Szepida]

This video is brilliant Leila

[@JDunamis]

I think there is a high pitch hum in this video. I am using a car speaker. I used to do sound at my church so this sound irritates me lol. I think your team will catch it. Right before 9:30 in the video it was loud then it got more quiet lol. Great video of course. I know yall will nip it in the bud. Never has happened before anyway.

[@MitchDore]

Great video ❤

[@timothywong4318]

This is a great video

[@tobias-hastings]

Great video Leila. Following on from the question about hiding how much money someone makes: what advice or alternatives would you recommend to people who are concerned that potential partners will be primarily attracted to their money and/or possessions at the dating stage of a relationship?

[@opinionbytriz]

I wonder if maybe evaluate the person/relationship based on values (& habits). Don't ignore "red" or "yellow" flags. Ask questions to help you understand their mentality & believes in more depth Don't make assumptions good or bad.

[@anticonfidencegirl]

I play dumb so people feel confident to show their true colours in my innocence.

[@mannyf5668]

This was a very good video :-)

[@MichaelAlberta]

Thanks Leila

[@sciartmia_hobbies]

Great information, as always, but I kept getting distracted by how pretty and freaking BEAUTIFUL Leila looks here in this video 😍😱💘 Pink looks absolutely gorgeous on her

[@SurveYoung]

Fan since day 1 !!!!!

[@glorias.2930]

More videos like this, please!

[@RPTINTING]

Great video women and men need good examples to aspire to be like.

[@food305]

Leila looking good while delivering value...😄😄

[@glorias.2930]

Love her!!! 😍

[@amdalasfoor]

Really nice one .. keep it up. (Lol but did you forget to put $100m in the vid title?)

[@glorias.2930]

Leila, please consider conferences!

[@doodforever]

those colors look phenomenal on you

[@glorias.2930]

She is so damn wise!!!

[@lindsaymorley9290]

Leila is a 👸🏻

[@stayinthepursuit8427]

WOW THATS A NEW LOOK

[@Ammeeeiizing]

Loving it

[@sciartmia_hobbies]

Me too!!

[@Sonyacita]

Pancake analogy may prove life changing

[@philmaturanodrums]

Actually...Good video!

[@Di59001]

You‘re gorgeous!

[@melissabarrett3088]

👍👍

[@TysonTheRand]

Leila is a baddie bruh , looks like a model

[@BeatrizBashevis]

Women should make men sign a ‘prebaby’ agreement before having children, since the cost of having a child for a woman is not paid, and women who work as mothers, cleaning, cooking, raising, and educating, work more than 17 hours a day, don’t get paid anything, and are made to feel like their work is worthless, when it’s harder than running a company. When you become a mother, you will see and understand. (17 hours a day, no vacations, every day, and available 24 hours. )

[@AllieRoseUp]

that makes me not wanna ever have children. ty for being honest about the bad experience so people like me can learn from it and not make the same life choice

[@slowonNurburgring]

My mom only be SAHM when she manages finance of my husband, or else people just think SAHM chilled at home

[@sunnc]

Idk there’s some weirdos out here. Once I can trust someone & be in a solid relationship then we can talk about money etc.

[@dnyaneshlakhmal7735]

Wow!! I thought Micheal Jackon had died.... 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@shnowman2364]

regarding the first point, do women not talk about finance when they can feel it is probably a double standard that they'd want to be taken care of and just expect that from men?

[@dxpdigital5343]

Michael Hormozi Jackson. I like subway too.

[@abram1994ga]

It's hard to find women that think and move this logically.

[@isaacl6402]

Really not trying to be mean but Leila you have been so gorgeous for so long you definitely do not need all the work done or make up but whatever makes you feel comfortable in your own skin of course

[@braxtonhatch4295]

Simple way for finances. 1) Dont move in together until you are married. Share literally everthing once you are married. Do not view as a divide but as one big pot for everyone. Look at it as a team effort for everything and holistically. Share the good and bad of your partners financial habits.

[@1MPATIENT1]

Leila looks great but there's just something unnatural of the look

[@djbj9632]

Why am I watching this? I have no money and no women.

[@eman7282]

LMFAO 🤣

[@ramehkhazen2223]

Errr she looking like a fox. I dig it.

[@vd.s6158]

Chera ghiyafato eyne Michael Jackson kardi Leila joon?? 😂😂

[@justiceessiel6123]

or she needs a break or check her health

[@Jaymaul009]

Damn. Michael Jackson is back giving relationship advice!!

[@PickleRickSanchez]

If you squint, she looks like Michael Jackson

[@justiceessiel6123]

the makeup artist needs to be fired

[@patagoniabear]

LEILA IS KILLING IT

[@patagoniabear]

LEILA IS DOPEEEEE

[@georgina4874]

🫶🏾 these are the best types of videos!!

[@bwoodworth100]

I'm now going to forever see @alexhormozi as a pretty pancake @leilahormozi 🥞😂

[@zorgon410]

Pre nup, post nup, keep her working and you’ll be fine fellas