LET HIM LEAD YOU AND HE WILL LOVE YOU FOREVER

[@GretaBereisaite]

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[@florad629]

Dear Greta, I dont get you in this video where you talk about family initiation. I recently lost a man coz he wanted things to be very speedy, to the point he was calling me his wife, but I was reluctant coz I wanst sure about him plus I havent decided that either I ll want to marry him or mr. X y z who is also somehow seen here there revolving around me.. so I literally was leaning back and he was persuing so much and then 1 day he get little bit angry that I am waiting for you whole day, I miss you you dont seem to miss or care about me. I stayed sweet and calm but next day he suddenly left. He left all of a sudden but come back later, stopped his affection talking to me casually, n within 4-5 days he stopped replying or picking call. (Which I did as it was some urgent matter). He was a complete masculine man. So what do you suggest. My leaning back repelled him or he wanted to be equally excited and ready for the relationship or whatever. The more I think the more I get confused.

[@ultravioletspirit]

1. Let him initiate the dates no matter what. Not your job. 2. Let a man lead the speed of the relationship. Don't push things faster. Mirror his speed 3. Let him Initiate the family introductions. 4. Do not do things you don't like. 5. Emotional control. Remove yourself from the situation if you can't control yourself. Set up a logical boundary. 6. Let a man lead the affection. Hand holding, etc. Don't be too keen and remove the challenge. Only do it when the relationship is strong. 7. Let him lead the texting speed. Do not try to text more.

[@GretaBereisaite]

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[@shrinidhipatil335]

8th one?

[@cheekymonkeygirl3378]

With respect to emotional control, if he is throwing a temper tantrum at me, I will adhere to emotional control tactics and tell him, “I will leave you to the situation to calm down and we can discuss this further while you finish your Kool-Aid.” 🥱🥱🥱

[@melissaj.corbin7675]

I feel a man must earn my affections. Its good to wait, but sometimes patience is a challenge. I would love to hear your thoughts on online dating…do’s, don’ts and strategies. Love tour advice❤

[@ak-47intelligence75]

If you want to successfully employ these tips Greta is talking about, I suggest you don't sleep with him , at all, so you don't get insecure and become needy, clingy, possessive and try to move things quickly because you're trying to obtain commitment via pressure and manipulation for letting him have you without earning you the right way. Most women fall in love quickly after having intimacy, so don't put yourself in a vulnerable position. Observe his character over a long period of time and get to know who he really is.

[@wansangoh4951]

NO premarital sex! Period!

[@AudreyLuerding]

💯

[@pamhageerty2095]

Good luck, life isn’t like that

[@AudreyLuerding]

@@pamhageerty2095 in other words you have no standards or boundaries as a woman

[@BrooklynBaby100]

But how do you get to know someone when they all lie ?!?!

[@robettakruger2760]

As the saying goes "Watch out for people who are always bragging about who they are. A lion will never have to tell you it's a lion". A high value man or woman will be recognized by their actions, not their words.

[@EdSheeranmusic]

Hey Robetta👋 How do you do? I really like your comment or should I even say your mindset. Where are You from?

[@allisonbinns4536]

❤ so true

[@jaylynnfarr1276]

Thank you for the point about not saying “I’m high value” or “I’m a queen”. I recently went out with a guy who said “I’m the prize”. I laughed so hard in his face. I didn’t mean to, but it took me so off guard. Who says that type of stuff out loud? Show it!!! Don’t say it!!!

[@GretaBereisaite]

Exactly!!

[@kintuinka]

Lol. He is not the freaking prize lol

[@cheekymonkeygirl3378]

If men were the prize, they didn't have to pay for sex and satisfy their needs. Men have more testosterone than us so his statement is contradictory to reality. 😈

[@AudreyLuerding]

Yeah I would have laughed in his face lol

[@marimary6879]

I am on a high value journey, not every step i am taking is perfect, but i am improving, becoming more secure, confident, step by step. Thank you Greta.😊

[@GretaBereisaite]

💕💕💕

[@Tita-n1z]

Thank you Greta I will not speed marriage or commitment. He is a true masculine man I will let him lead and follow his lead. I get anxiety when things are moving slow. I have to go on his speed

[@costelloandlizzievolk2233]

I agree with many of these concepts but it all feels a bit too passive and old fashioned. I’m in control of me, and while I won’t chase a man, I don want to be lead or controlled by him either. I will choose if a man is right for me according to his actions and how he treats me, and in that I control the speed of the relationship. Not him. Too many guys rush things nowadays and except too much too fast. So it’s important to let women know they are in charge of what they do or don’t want to do and don’t have to just passively follow the mans lead, it can give the wrong message to women and be disempowering.

[@Moviegirl0030]

God bless you Greta for your advices ❤️

[@CrystalDatingCoach]

Dating my Darlings doesn't include SEX!!

[@lauramckiernan3213]

There is nothing wrong with sex whilst dating. Comes down to intent and expectations.

[@brigittebieber7132]

This video was great, Greta!

[@GretaBereisaite]

Thank you xx

[@EdSheeranmusic]

Hey Brigitte 👋 how do you do? It's a very interesting video. Are you very active on KZbin?

[@kenishalperkins]

This was very helpful and for the first time in my life I am going to allow this man to lead. Maybe it’s timing maybe it’s him but I’m going to do this the right and feminine way because it matters to me. Thanks this video was great !!

[@proph2008]

Excellent advice! new subscriber.

[@GretaBereisaite]

Thank you

[@rositareyes8583]

Greta I did all this with a man without knowing or planning. After 1 ur 1/2 he finally kissed me and said he wanted to introduce me to his family. He initiated everything and wanted marriage also. This does work people.

[@GretaBereisaite]

❤️❤️❤️

[@nadjada1358]

A very good video, Greta! Thank you,dear 🤍

[@Avoid_Low_Frequency]

I loved this video!!!

[@SylwiasMarketing]

Wow, YT is displaying ads every 2 mins, seriously.. lol Fantastic content apart from that!! :)

[@GretaBereisaite]

I find it that a lot of people just want me to live on air and produce content 24 /7

[@SylwiasMarketing]

@@GretaBereisaite that was not aimed at you, Greta... I was referring to YT overdoing the ads, but if YOU chose for the ads to be played every 2 mins that is fair enough, however we as content creators (i also have a YT channel and upload videos almost daily, actually) need to navigate between making money from YT ad revenue and viewers' experience and play more of a long term game.. Again, it was not aimed at YOU, i respect your work, i know what it takes to be producing content DAILY..;) I appreciate your advice a lot and purchased two hoodies from your online store so far plus I had a 1:1 session with you in the past so I guess I must like you..:)

[@mightyfineanderson]

@@SylwiasMarketingif you want no commercials you have to subscribe to KZbin premium

[@xXsMiLeYXxIFLY]

I am so happy I ran into one of your videos today Greta because I am currently talking with a guy that I like but I am struggling with letting him lead the conversation/text. I’ve always struggled with this and I don’t know how to best approach this. I’ve been told that it’s best not to ask him questions and stick to simple and light small talk for now, is that correct? What would be some examples of letting him lead the conversation? Is making comments (for example: sounds like fun, that’s interesting, bold move) to his response a way of letting him lead the conversation? Please guide me Greta.

[@sahnael8457]

Great words

[@nadinevella6958]

Thanks you 🎉

[@florad629]

I dont get you. I recently lost a man coz he wanted things to be very speedy, to the point he was calling me his wife, but I was reluctant coz I wanst sure about him plus I havent decided that either I ll want to marry him or mr. X y z who is also somehow seen here there revolving around me.. so I literally was leaning back and he was persuing so much and then 1 day he get little bit angry that I am waiting for you whole day, I miss you you dont seem to miss or care about me. I stayed sweet and calm but next day he suddenly left. He left all of a sudden but come back later, stopped his affection talking to me casually, n within 4-5 days he stopped replying or picking call. (Which I did as it was some urgent matter). He was a complete masculine man. So what do you suggest. My leaning back repelled him or he wanted to be equally excited and ready for the relationship or whatever. The more I think the more I get confused.

[@danilaroche1156]

He was a psycho. You dodged a bullet, hon.

[@aruqyz]

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