Want more from someone? Do Not Chase! Do this instead...

Want more from someone? Do Not Chase! Do this instead...
Do you feel like he is not pursuing you anymore? Perhaps is taking you for granted and you can't understand why? Well check yourself are you perhaps unintentionally chasing him and turning him off? There are so many ways that women chase men and don't even realise it. Therefore I created a video for you ladies not to only spot your mistakes but also how to fix them and make it work with him again. Do not chase him! Dating coach and relationship coach for women will give you 15tips on why you don't need to chase a man and what to do instead.
00:00 Intro
01:45 he get's turned off
04:07 Why do something that makes you feel devaluated
06:15 men start to behave arrogant and ego centric
08:13 you start to wear the pants
09:50 asking him out first on dating apps
11:01 Whats the point to charm you
11:46 stay in your feminine
12:18 Stay patient
14:15 Sharing your feelings first is chasing
15:13 He is not your girlfriend
16:20 Let things hang in the air
17:02 splitting the bill is a pursuit
18:43 be vary of your friends making you look low value
19:40 Attention seeking
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[@GretaBereisaite]

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[@nariman322]

Hi Greta, I had a terrible breakup with my ex, we end up on bad terms, he disrespected me and went on dating app after 1 day from the breakup, what a high value women would do, Should i block him everywhere o just ignore him ? Pls I need your help ❤️

[@mickblack5374]

Same reason men dont chase. Simple as

[@costelloandlizzievolk2233]

It’s so hard to be patient with these slow moving passive men, especially cause many of them act this way because they’re dating other women as well that they aren’t up front about. So I can be patient, but after a while it becomes a red flag. 🚩

[@GretaBereisaite]

I’m not a fan of passive either. Such a turn off

[@cheekymonkeygirl3378]

I believe in rotational dating and I always tell men that I am dating other men so that if this dating won't work, I won't lose the opportunity to secure a guy since women have a small window to find their mate! Dating and getting to know someone is different than hooking up and they should not mind rotational dating! If they are against it, I set them free. 😁

[@Powerskaty]

They are definitely seeing other women and often sleeping with them. If you're over 40, it's especially bad.

[@cheekymonkeygirl3378]

@@Powerskaty Older men are T R A S H.

[@costelloandlizzievolk2233]

@@GretaBereisaite 💯 If they can’t take some initiative to follow through in a reasonable amount of time and make plans, problem solve, make things happen, communicate etc..then it’s for sure such a turn off. I’m not here to be someone’s mother or therapist. I also feel like sometimes they are ‘passive’ as a way to make you feel anxious/insecure so you feel drawn to chase them, and it creates an unhealthy dynamic. It makes me uncomfortable. This just happened with a guy I was seeing so once I realized it I let him go.

[@joudisall6474]

Thank you Greta for being on KZbin, you saved my dating life, now I'm the most patient woman I've ever known, I only lean back and more focused on my family friends and career

[@GretaBereisaite]

That’s great xx

[@cheekymonkeygirl3378]

Same here. She changed my life for the better. ❤

[@GretaBereisaite]

@@cheekymonkeygirl3378 aww 🥰 ❤️

[@claricesmith9528]

I thought I was supposed to show him how much I cared for him. I just turned him off.

[@kenishalperkins]

Tonight I am so tempted to text him. Glad you can help 😂😂😂

[@Shyragirl80]

I agree to you i feel yucky if i have text or call a guy like pursuing him i feel so low kind

[@SylwiasMarketing]

Awesome content as per usual 🎉

[@GretaBereisaite]

Thank you ❤

[@ANU-pz5bx]

You're my best mentor,I always tried to be high value by following your all of video.Can you make a video about how to make LDR interesting😊

[@GretaBereisaite]

Thank you ❤❤

[@kkkkit]

I’m so fed up of all these rules 😖better to be single

[@JosannaMonik]

I remember a guy from out of town asking to date me. Even though I didn't even have a car at the time, he insited that I met him half way. I said I couldn't and didn't hear back from him.

[@GretaBereisaite]

Yup 😅❤

[@christinegasana7743]

We appreciate your work dear Greta. How about when you are married?

[@danilaroche1156]

That's a great question. Having been married you don't have to be this strategic. I will say this much..even when I was married, I found my ex husband liked to pursue me. He always paid more attention when I was busy doing other things & not laser focused on him 24/7. Sooo.. even when married keep it exciting by being out of reach sometimes. Hugs & xx s from NY!

[@jovanajovanovic_]

❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@BigSoul29]

I'm sorry but if that's how that man is reacting to a casual message, I'm not going to change who I am to look " normal " by saying nothing, in the eyes of an actual nut/fool. My ex and I are friendly and we don't call eachother desperate for picking up the phone or checking in on eachother. It's called being a decent / intelligent human being.

[@AD-hh6dd]

Hey Greta! Your quiz link is broken to the high value woman quiz

[@GretaBereisaite]

I just checked it, it’s works just make sure to type in your email with all lowercase letters

[@AD-hh6dd]

@@GretaBereisaite I did. And I tried it on 3 different browsers. After I put the email in with my name in the right fields, it just goes to a blank page

[@GretaBereisaite]

I tried it on my phone, it worked for me 😅

[@light3940]

A man recently asked me to pay the whole bill at the restaurant, since “he paid the last 2 times.” Is that acceptable? Because having watched your videos, I felt really uncomfortable afterwards and told him that I need a break from the relationship! But I was unable to tell him why. Did I do the right thing?

[@hdshjs]

What a terrible situation. I would say "Why would you pretended to invite me last time, then?" with a sweet and innocent voice. Show you are being genuinely surprised and see what he says. Because this was a wierd and embarassing thing that he did. Do not explain yourself. Say you are busy. He is not stupid, he knows what he did.

[@summastar2902]

Hmmm, I don’t think this one time alone qualifies to make a final decision on the guy. We as women are not aiming to be parasitic leaches on men and their resources. He can do 70-80% of providing $ but it’s ok to contribute. Also when a guy is doing the 70-80% providing, are you 70-80% providing the nurturing, home care taking etc?

[@danilaroche1156]

They were dating..not married. I think she did the right thing. He's a dough dough.

[@edwardmolineaux2844]

And to you also men don't chase, chase your goals 😄 😜

[@GretaBereisaite]

I don’t chase … ever 😊

[@pratimakumari0777]

What is your age ma'am?

[@starf6469]

Get rid of the wig Greta. Your natural hair looks better

[@kimbayobo8934]

Im the first one who put mg all eggs in his basket 🧺 😭😭😭

[@shayflowers8471]

Honestly this video was hard to watch for me because I realised where I was going wrong. I appreciate it cause it's better to know bitter truths than just to go with sweet lies. I will take note to be careful ahead 🥲

[@GretaBereisaite]

❤❤❤