Let Me Explain... Why I Choose To Be Homeless in France

[@shirpaten]

Ryan, you are single, employed and a very social being with a wonderful support system of family and friends who are helping you toward your goal. No need for explanations to anyone. Those who make it their business to criticize your choices need to mind their OWN business. It's your life - live it your way!

[@janetpendlebury6808]

@@RosemaryN Maybe his girlfriend does not want to move to France?

[@annaibarra3447]

Agree.

[@peggypeyton7912]

Exactly. People are living in cars and vans. What he is doing is not unusual these days.

[@Flippin_Crazy]

@@janetpendlebury6808and here we are discussing what his girl does or doesn’t. Ryan don’t you feel the need to explain any of that nonsense 👆there.

[@irateoverlord.theresa1324]

HERE! Here!!

[@Sharon-Me]

I don't think you are lost, Ryan, quite the contrary, you have set goals for yourself and your are taking charge of your life, bravo to you!!!

[@kch917]

I don't think you've ever seemed lost or "homeless" and your plan for saving makes sense. It's obvious your friends and family love having you around, plus you help with the work wherever you go. Keep doing your thing your way. I think most of us that watch your videos wish we had a life like yours - I do anyway!

[@meri8746]

You are doing the right thing, Ryan. It’s not like you are 70 years old. If you aren’t ready to settle down, don’t. You have helped everyone you have stayed with. And they all need help. So thank you for helping everyone, especially your dear parents. ❤

[@jessicaboyajian3542]

It is increasingly difficult in the US to rent and ever make sufficient money for a down payment on a home. I read of a student who lived in his van for two years to pay off his college loans and save some money towards a down payment. Quite frankly, the “middle class” is diminishing rapidly in this country.

[@fringedwellermccatintyre730]

You're not kiddin'! My son shares a house, each paying $1,500.00 x 5 and it's nice but not fancy - CRAZY!

[@jessicaboyajian3542]

@@fringedwellermccatintyre730 When Wall Street Hedge Funds are allowed by state governments to buy up, in cash, the single family homes normally available on the market, then flip them for double their investment and more, what chance does a young person stand of getting an entry level home with financing. Meanwhile any homes not immediately flipped go back on the market at crazy rents, further lessening young buyers’ chances of saving for a down payment. We are totally becoming the haves and have nots. That’s the stuff revolutions are made of. Totally destabilizing!

[@AnnieWarbux]

A 1 bedroom apartment goes for $950, here where I live, in the U.S. Can't believe how much cheaper France is! I would definitely choose France over this Rust Belt!!

[@ldqa2737]

I'm hoping Americans realize what is causing high costs of living. If you don't know, you can't fix it.

[@LadyIarConnacht]

Which is by design. There are very powerful people in this world that dream of a planet devoid of a middle class - ruled over by themselves and populated by just a few million underlings.

[@GrumpyScotsman]

Live the life that makes you happy and never mind the doubters. You have many friends and family to be with till the right place comes along for you to settle down in.

[@sweetsweetcandy3889]

You aren't homeless actually you are quite the opposite. You have multiple homes with family and friends. There is a difference between a home and a house. A house is just walls of wood, cement etc. A home is where you are accepted, comfortable, loved, a safe place to go from the world. You are truly blessed and don't pay attention to the haters.

[@dianalewis8548]

Ryan nothing is for free. No matter who you are staying with you should chip in towards higher bills on their end. Like food and electric etc. Just the right thing to do. Hope you find the ideal place and wish Downy was in France to be with you. Keep posting and stay safe.

[@Rain-Peters]

Agreed

[@leeproulx7412]

Great video Ryan. I’ve hosted friends and family members in my home for years and we’ve all enriched each other’s lives. Those connections with people are priceless. I fully agree with you and Billy.

[@suemount6042]

I think it’s rather wonderful that you have friends and family that are helping you achieve your goals by opening their doors to you. And you help them so much like you do With Billy. Glad your doing ok and living your best life in the way best for you. There’s always the convent apartments when they are finished !

[@jelenanovakovic7828]

Horses for courses, Ryan - everyone is different. You're happy to live with people, and you're fortunate enough to have people happy to have you live with them. Why pay someone else's mortgage for them through renting, when you can pay your own when you have the opportunity to do so. Main thing is you're healthy and happy and have lots of family and friends. The rest you'll make happen when you do - not on anyone else's time scale.

[@beckysimeone4882]

It would be interesting to hear Gwen's perspective of you, and others like Alexander, staying with them for prolonged periods time.

[@ericknudson5577]

A man's got to make his own way in this world, so no one can really tell you what you are doing is wrong. As long as you are fulfilled as a person, you are doing it right.

[@ashlynntaylor6045]

I am a senior living in rural Nova Scotia. With failing health, my travelling days are over. Your videos and those of Billy and Phil are often the best part of my day. As for being “homeless “ , no you have lots of options and a wealth of friends. You are fortunate to be able to pursue your dreams of ownership.

[@melodywunschel3064]

Like the idea of seeing more of the local area and homes but I really like your interaction with Billy and Sean even more.

[@Billkwando]

This is exactly my feeling.

[@RosemaryN]

I agree

[@SandyD2022]

I lived at home until I was married. I tried to move out a few times. Was told by many why, your living with your Mom and you can help her by paying her money to stay there. I got along with my Mom, and Dad so it didn't make sense to leave. Why waste that money when you can stay at your parents. I think it's very easy to stay home when you have parent that treat you with respect, and let you live your own life even when your living in there house. As well as you giving them the respect also. Now the other side is you don't just take and not give back, either in money or in work. A good deed, does need to be returned.

[@joseeallyn9950]

I loved having my son at home until he married . Now I have no one to help me open jars, bind up my wounds when cooking (he always said don't let Mother near a knife or a mandolin !) and someone to mend electrical/computer stuff. Ryan's parents are nearing the time when they will need him to be on hand, so I think he should stay just as he is. I bet he helps with the vlogging stuff, so he earns his keep !

[@SandyD2022]

@@joseeallyn9950 Moving out, I never stopped helping my Mom. In fact she was my buddy, I helped with her house, garden. I took her to church, doctors, and the store. Other family members took her to dinner and the casino. LOL I'm sure Ryan's parents love having him.

[@jjano2320]

I would think Ryan would live with his parents and maybe take over the business eventually. Of course I have no idea of the situation.

[@joseeallyn9950]

@@jjano2320 I know first hand what it is like to be care giver for parents and it is not easy, but Ryan's parents (who seem to be doing well at the moment) will need him to either be nearby or to have his own apartment in their house. He needs to have independence but being near parents will make life easier as they age and need more help.

[@elizabethcoviello985]

My son lives south of San Francisco in a 600sq ft studio apartment it’s about €2750 Per month so €400 + bills seems amazingly cheap! Good luck

[@lucyyoung5307]

Oh my goodness, how funny. He did take the video down. 😂 That was some TELL ALL. You’re still young, things will work out in the right time for you.

[@lisablackmore2404]

Never would I think you were lost or homeless, you keep saving and get the home of your dreams. Good luck Ryan 🇬🇧

[@joskelton9061]

You're definitely lucky that people accommodate you while trying to better yourself, I just hope you repay their kindness

[@lindabryant4292]

Wow, I never thought of you as homeless. You have at least 3 homes that I know about, lol. One thing that has always struck me about you is how you are such a goofball, but you are also someone who plans far into the future and where I am, that is a rare thing for a young man. Also where I am those places you were looking at would have rented for the equivalent of over 1000 euros. That was quite an education. I wish I could move to France...

[@janbrown9924]

Think you are doing the best thing for saving for your own home . Plus you help out with whoever you are staying so you are paying your way ! Great plan and I am sure you are welcome wherever you rest your head . Another enjoyable blog xxxx

[@nexussever]

I would love to see the villages and properties. And, you are what we call "couch surfing"- not a thing wrong with that when you have a solid plan like yours. And, you help out the people that you stay with- quid pro quo.

[@sharonnicholson7593]

Always follow your heart Ryan, yours is very big so it will tell you I’m sure. You have a wonderful network of family and friends and we all know you give so much more than you take. 🙌🏻👏🏻👏🏻✨✨❤️

[@onthebay66]

I am sure living with family and friends is free for you but at a cost to them, you do give back by helping around the house & gardens. That is what I get from watching your vlogs, is that you are not a freeloader or burden but a help. :-)

[@michellecook2338]

Your very blessed to have generous family and friends 😊

[@kiwigirl8420]

you are still young and I admire your easy carefree living. I'm also happy that you have so many good friends and family who are able to accommodate you. I hope you find that *special someone *

[@suebecker2893]

I enjoy whatever content you choose. You are entertaining regardless of where you are!!

[@maryloua777]

Keep moving toward your goals. Crack on. And don’t let anyone trash you for that. You rock.

[@annettesharrock1236]

Nice Idea Ryan to have a good look around at properties that hopefully you will find one you love and can afford. As long as you and Billy are happy together all good .😘

[@medievaldigger]

I love what you do... And everytime you're back with Billy, we cheer, the video quality takes a huge upward surge helping us enjoy his story more. You have great talent!

[@lindamourning7478]

From what I've seen your help is needed all over the place whether videoing, which your talented at, or work hard when asked. So that is your job. Plus making Billy, and everyone else extremely happy just seeing your face.

[@louiselewis5061]

Nice video and thanks for clearing up questions about your situation. I admire your patience and perseverance. Stay to your plan and all will work out. You and your friends and family are blessed to have each other. Take care and hang in there. Good luck!

[@littleflowerpatriot8957]

You are thinking correctly Ryan. You are a very smart man and thinking up your future. Keep up the great videos

[@katherineleavitt7275]

I understand your financial problems & living at Billy's right now. Rent where I live is around $1200.00 or more a month for a 1 bedroom apt. My granddaughters family is living with our daughter right now because they are saving for a house. Times are difficult right now for many people, you do what you need to do and don't pay attention to what somebody else says they aren't in your shoes. Hugs, Kathy 🇺🇸

[@Randy8923]

Enjoyed your video Ryan. Rent is less expensive then I thought there. You and Billy are hysterical together, Blessings.

[@maryanncollins4945]

You crack me up every time !! Love it !! Breathe of fresh air !! Could see you as the care taker at the convent in the future in your own apartment!! What a friendship you both have !! You can see it big time 😁

[@PeggyMcCabe]

In my state of Massachusetts, you couldn't rent a room for $760 a month. I pay $1650 for a 2 bed, 2 bath, but left my last place when they were raising my rent to $2300. I live in a small town, 20 minutes from any highway. I wish you the best of luck. I have already lived a lifetime. It is hard just starting out.

[@kimrafferty7170]

I love Billy's comment, your friendship is so precious and your both so lucky to have each other. Your family and friends know how much you want to buy a place of your own and they are able to support your dream. I think it's sad that you have had to explain why you live where you do, just because you share part of your life on you tube it doesn't give people the right to question you about why you live like you do. You continue being you and enjoy your life. I hope your Dad is feeling much better xx

[@judyford9726]

Happy to watch whatever you film.Lucky people that you stay with to have your company.❤

[@lindamitman4538]

I think if you have the options you have you are doing the right thing. My adult children have all come back and lived with us for different times to save money toward buying a home. It’s a great thing to be able to do that.

[@megkraft1108]

In the southern part of New Jersey, USA a three bed room house to rent is around $1,800.00 a month plus expenses. I know everything is relative but 710 euros sounds pretty good. I enjoy you traveling from place to place and seeing you interact with you dad, uncle and family and Billy and gang! Mixing it up showing us properties as well as helping out the Pethricks and your family is what I enjoy.

[@megkraft1108]

@@phyllisburrell8661 my daughter on Arlington VA pays $1300 for a studio. It definitely depends on where you live and I'm sure that's how it is everywhere.

[@megkraft1108]

@@phyllisburrell8661 the best to you too!!!

[@Rain-Peters]

Wow lucky man. Even my dad had me pay him some rent after I finished school.

[@Rain-Peters]

@@phyllisburrell8661 my father was born in 1924. I think he was trying to teach responsibilities to me. I was thankful for the lesson.

[@Rain-Peters]

@@phyllisburrell8661 thank you ♥️

[@joellenmeek658]

You are happy and don’t need to rush into anything until you find what appeals to you. Take your time and we’ll enjoy going along for the ride.

[@jomcgee6094]

You do you baby...just you! In the long run, you are going to come out on top ❤

[@victoriasmith8814]

Ryan, you are very fortunate to have family and friends who are so generous to allow you to stay rent free! Billies likes having you around and we enjoy seeing you two friends hanging out.

[@lindabattles9094]

God has blessed you with wonderful friends and family. You help them, they help you. There is CERTAINLY nothing wrong with that! We look forward to the day when you find the “perfect for you” place, but in the interim, this works👍

[@bear6275]

All your vlogs are great Ryan...I'll watch whatever content you put up 😎😁☺️🇦🇺🙂

[@hopegrable]

I support what you're doing 100%, Ryan. Anyone who is paying attention knows you always make yourself useful wherever you're staying. I would love to see more around the local area. Could you also include some of the local businesses as well? Maybe talk about how well the local business sector is doing in your corner of France? Do you think anything is missing in terms of local services? You've never talked about any of the local events either. What sort of festivals or special events are held in the local area? Do you ever go to the outdoor farmer's market? I love your videos, Ryan. Please have fun showing us around. Love ya lots!!! See you tomorrow. 😘💕

[@debdunster5471]

When the time is right it will come together. Blessings to you and your friends and family.

[@kimpulsipher647]

It is good to have friends that allow you to be yourself. You are a lucky man.

[@petravandenoever]

I seen your video and notice that the apartments in France seem cheeper then we get here in the Netherlands. Over here we almost never get houses that you can rent with furniture. A small apartment with just one bedroom already costs over 5 or €600 . You're right living the way you do now.

[@aussie_granny]

As long as everyone is happy with the arrangement, keep doing it. Can't wait to see what properties you find for tomorrow.

[@annmcdaniel9448]

It is common these days to see 3 generations under one roof, or several friends living together. Baby sitting, rent money, companionship are just some of the reasons. You are living your life, no one else can tell you how.

[@irateoverlord.theresa1324]

You do you, darling!! I think you’re an awesome young man-very caring, helpful, real, down to earth and congenital-also you have a great sense of humor! Follow your bliss; not that you need my permission or anyone else’s! I thoroughly enjoy watching your YT videos and listening to your commentary as you spend time with your friends and family and let us have a glimpse of the beautiful country of France, which I doubt I’ll ever see in person. ❤ Carry on sweetie!

[@mistermister1140]

Really think you should take billy up on the offer to live at the convent! Get one of the largest (mother superior) bedrooms done to a nice enough furnished level and live at the convent. Billy will have the knowledge that it’s secure with you staying there putting off any trespassers. You get free place to live (albeit on your own) and you can help billy out with the editing as you’re already living there with the office and stuff there with you 🤷‍♂️

[@poodlegirl55]

Ryan mentioned about staying in his new office since it had a bathroom and the office kitchen is right there. Nothing came of it but maybe he's scared of the convent at night!

[@kimpulsipher647]

That would be so creepy. That place is scary at night.

[@JnWmMatt]

My three sons live at home. Two are 27 years old and the youngest is 18. Our home is much happier full.

[@ruthkendall5486]

I think it’s your business and I wish you the best in achieving your goal! Stay true to yourself!!!

[@aboutthetheory]

Hi Ryan, I apologise for asking about you settling down. It was not a criticism. I was in my 30s before I settled down (if you could call it that). I agree with saving as much as you can instead of renting. We have a housing shortage here in NZ. Rents are over the top at around 60%-75% of the average wage. Rent+furniture+travel+Utilities=not much savings. You got the maths right. Can you tell us about your beanie?

[@sandragoss48]

Ryan, you live the life that makes you happy, not what others think you should be doing. With all due respect, it is no one’s business how you choose to live. Take care, Ryan. We love you❣️❤️

[@jacquethomson4998]

Good on you…variety is the spice of life and you are such good company to have around

[@elizabethr7942]

I would enjoy seeing the houses! Thank you for opening up yourself to us. Not necessary but very interesting to know more about you. Thanks again! ☮️

[@kimhaughton3771]

I LOVE your plan!!!! You are thinking of your future and trying to make good choices. I applaud you Ryan! Best of luck and thanks for sharing your plans with us. ❤️❤️❤️ PS. I am missing you and Billy @ Bantermime !

[@barbarasmith2693]

Keep on doing what makes you happy and furthers your goals. It's nobody else's lookout in the end, but I think you are doing great!

[@sheilab1772]

Ryan. if this is working for you then keep doing it! I think it's good for you to be around and hanging out with all your family and friends! It's all good!

[@lorriehall7243]

You should keep looking. But I think its important to lend a hand helping with the filming and editing while at Billy’s or lending a hand where ever you are.

[@rupertmiller9690]

Flutterby family was always welcomed at our house growing up. My dad's friend from childhood, Sam, was my favorite. He was an engineer on cargo vessels. He drove a big white Cadillac and liked taking us for seafood at the wharf. Great guy, never really settled anywhere until his last couple of years.

[@rnggall9640]

You're the age of my kids. I love that they have been living with us. Living alone for no good reason should be strange!

[@iamdawt]

As long as everyone enjoys having you stay with them, and you're helping out in a way that makes a difference to them, like doing chores, buying groceries, things like that, then there's nothing wrong with staying with other people. Here in America it's quite common for relatives and friends to live together to make ends meet. Holding one another up is the gift that keeps on giving.

[@briancronin3790]

Keep saving Ryan. Looking forward to seeing you in your first home. Good luck Mate.

[@juliabickel7024]

Several thoughts: Thanks for this video. I've been thinking you seem "aimless" but all along you've had your plan. "It's not good for man to live alone" a famous book says, so there's nothing wrong with staying with others. You do seem to "pitch in" and help where you are needed. While I was growing up, oh, so long ago, my parents thought it was fun to go to open houses for sale, especially the "tour of homes" style, when a builder would open up his development to show and perhaps sell his as yet unbuilt houses. I can still see in my mind, and hear their voices, "Look at this, Fred, what a good idea." Standing in a room, Daddy would tell us which walls were bearing walls, and where the plumbing runs must be, and where the electric outlets should be. How many closets, and where they are spaced? How big is the kitchen? Is there a dining room or are you meant to eat in the main living room? And they talked about the style changes, what was "modern" and what was "classic" and whether anything was "standard." Then we would go home to our rental, and when they finally bought a house where they stayed decades, Daddy would build just about anything Mother wanted, if it was possible. SO, I'm looking forward to what you're talking about, going on the house tours. I do love your cheerful spirit.

[@conniewatson6711]

I would really like to see you do some filming of the local area and seeing properties for sale. Looking forward to this!

[@debilee1501]

It’s really none of our business. Glad you are living your best life. We are just along for the visual ride. Enjoy! Love the look on Phil’s face about no rent….his house next right???

[@cindywagner8024]

You have a goal. You are managing your life well. The arrangement also keeps you free to go where you are needed. You are a great help to your family and friends.

[@cynthiabodnar3496]

Ur doing just fine Ryan and when the time is right u will know when to make your move and u get to stay with Billy and those people love u so can't wait when the time is right to see the beautiful place undo chose. Love the channel keep up the wonderful work!

[@unframedarts5378]

Ryan totally understand, saving up for for deposit is hard work! In Auckland NZ renting is hugely expensive, around Nz$600per WEEK, which is around €350 per week! 😵 Its crazy!

[@deborahwhite9331]

Ryan Billy already asked you if you would like to stay at the convent and be a night guard. You could have the whole place to yourself if you wanted a place in a jam. You also have a cozy office you can stay at and the kitchen there works too. So you have options before it came to your car. You just do you Ryan.

[@poodlegirl55]

Your friends and family enjoy having you stay because you are a pleasant person and always help them out when you can. I can see you being a person who would not enjoy living alone all the time. If you ever did rent I could see that living in one of Billy's convent apartments would be the easiest situation as you wouldn't need a lease and you could still help him out around there. If you are ever in Illinois stop by and we will keep you a week 😀😀😀

[@familydutton6568]

Same here in North Carolina 😊👍! You're welcome anytime!

[@HensOnly]

I'm in IL and I would love to see him there as well!

[@judyharrison3038]

And I’m in Ohio just a hop, skip and jump away from the others above!!😂😂😂😎

[@poodlegirl55]

@@judyharrison3038 US couch surfing tour!

[@rikketsia4032]

I agree with Billy! Do what is best for you!

[@hattietrue8761]

600 euros is $635 american dollars. That would be snatched up so fast here in the states. You are lucky to find something here for $1200 dollars nothing included.

[@irenebrown3144]

Exactly right you both give and take. Same with your uncle Lee, and even your dad. Excellent Ryan😊😊❤

[@debbielyall2356]

Hi Ryan! You are doing well! Keep going ahead. You have great goals. You will get there.

[@janinachambers8257]

As long as you are happy. I’m sure everything will work out for you..❤️❤️❤️

[@damealeta3541]

Oh, sweet Ryan. My daughter and her husband are renting a tiny little 2 bedroom house and they pay over $2000 U.S. a month plus renters' insurance and utilities. I understand what you are saying about not being able to save up for a house. Even though my daughter and her husband both have really good paying jobs they can't save a much as they want for a down payment on a house in this area. Southern California is horribly overpriced for homes. I wish you luck on your search for affordable housing in France. Your family and friends are lovely to let you stay while you follow your dream 💚

[@monicateeling810]

Ryan why don’t you long term rent an apartment at the convent like Sadie. You’d have company and be there to help edit etc and have your friends all close at hand. Wow it’s expensive to rent in France. But do what makes sense to you and suits your lifestyle. 😀

[@janetpendlebury6808]

The apartments need to be renovated, which is what Sadie and Mo are doing at the moment, I don't think Ryan has the money, or wants to renovate an apartment there.

[@malagastehlaate230]

I won't say where I live but my rent is around $600 a month for a 4 bedroom house... with a yard... driveway... there is a garage only it's too small to park in... but it's a decent place. Yes in the US... This house is HUGE... and yeah... but it was built in the late 1800's... so it's basically a sieve... as in takes a lot to heat and cool. But at the price it's fine... advantage to renting vs buying/owning is that when stuff breaks... heating, cooling, water etc... I don't have to get it fixed. I just call up the Landlord and they fix it. No stress no worries... yeah.

[@globalunity4249]

There is definitely a "roaming" effect with how Ryan comes across but glad he explained. Rock on!

[@marcellejosephine9119]

I wish my son could find something to rent! In The Netherlands it’s crazy! We have such a shortage of houses. Thankfully your family and friends like that you’re around and you can save up for a own house! Very happy for you!! 🍀🍀

[@kathleenrobson1803]

Live your life the way you want to 😁 take no notice of people who want to put you down 😕 you’re a good friend and son/nephew 😁 you’re a good worker too 😁

[@debrawondergem1528]

Hello Ryan, love to see your videos and take on life. I can see you in a convent apt. Near Sadie and Moe living a life where you are close to Billy and family or……..exploring the building and grounds enjoying every bit of the property. You’d be there to help wherever needed and be able to save for your own home. I’m gonna love ya and leave ya here😅. Hugs from sunny Arizona 💖😎💖

[@nelliehedrick3147]

You do what is best for you. We love you...❤❤❤

[@thegirlatthebeach3221]

I'm in the same boat Ryan! I gave up trying to explain to people that I'm just following my own path in life like everyone should! Life is shorter then you think! Live it up and see all and experience all you can while you can!

[@Julia-zj2ch]

Yes! I would very much enjoy seeing houses for sale in France. I look on-line everyday at real estate in my local area, and it would be great to expand what I see into your lovely country.

[@tammycrowell5442]

I think you have an adventurous life! Having a place to call home is grounding to me 🤗 I'm glad you're happy though!!!

[@Margauxthekrazykatlady]

Ryan you certainly do not have to explain yourself how you choose to live is your business... My husband and I love it when you explore properties and to antique shops with Billy.... Oh and we LOVE you short intro.. btw.. it was funny :)~

[@lisabaker1796]

I give your your new Slang name. Groupy. "Always willing to share good times. Love your people. Rock On

[@lauraanderson8244]

Ryan, you don't owe us any explanations. We like you and enjoy seeing you helping others and just doing your thing. Hope you find your dream property to buy soon.

[@berritanner3250]

You have family and friends who are happy to support you in your plan to save for a home of your own. What’s wrong with that? I think they all enjoy your company and vivacity. I look forward to your house hunting videos - I love looking at homes, and it is especially interesting when they are homes in a different country from my own. You be you Ryan ❤

[@susanmcgregor3787]

Was just worrying for you. Sounds like a good plan. Love your village tours.

[@sandylee9564]

I love the idea of seeing the different properties.....Loving it.